Hi all, I’d like to get something off my chest. A rant:

Some months ago, I discovered TRP, I started reading, I started learning, I started internalising new thought processes, I started applying what I had learned, and then it saved my marriage.

The way I view TRP is: self-improvement, confidence building, becoming a better person. Having one’s feet more firmly on the ground. Having one’s head screwed on better. Becoming more aware of the dynamics between people and philosophies in society, in my environment, between my friends, how they interact with other people, etc.

My rant is about this:

I notice quite a lot of hate here lately. Hate in posts, hate in comments. Hate against women, hate against white knights, against SJWs, even against homosexual people, and I may even have seen or sensed some hate against non-white people (i.e., racism). Quite a lot of hate, quite a lot of bigotry, quite a lot of nastiness.

I don’t think that’s why we are here. I am under the distinct impression that we are here to improve ourselves.

  • I do not, have never, and will never, hate women. My mother is an awesome woman, who, at the age of 82, plays tennis and does all her shopping on her bicycle, rain or snow or sunshine. My wife is an awesome woman, loyal to the core, loving, caring, RPW without knowing it. My daughter is an awesome girl, and we (mostly my wife, as she is currently spending more time with her) are raising her up to enable her to become the best woman she can be. Been listening to quite a bit of Stefan Molyneux recently (last few weeks), and it seems the way he and his wife parent their daughter is very similar to the way we have been / are parenting ours. http://www.peacefulparenting.info/tag/stefan-molyneux/ seems to be the way we have been doing it, long before ever having heard of Stefan, or of Peaceful Parenting. And our daughter (8 years old now) is absolutely flourishing (constantly being best of her class, being class representative, being sent to London in that capacity with the representatives of other classes, etc).

  • I do not, have never, and will never, hate homosexual people. In fact, one of my closest friends is openly and unashamedly gay (at the age of 23), without ever flaunting it. Most people are surprised when they learn he’s gay; he’s just not the “gay type” (whatever that is). He’s confident, loyal, strong. A go-getter. Currently working to further improve his own businesses (yes, more than one). Extremely bright. Doesn’t give a flying fuck what anybody thinks about him. Possibly the only thing we never talk about is our sex lives, because, well, we’re simply not that interested in what the other person does in the privacy of his own home while naked. Ever other topic is cool.

I’ve got two more close friends (in fact, we form a group of four close friends), and one of them is RP as fuck without really knowing what TRP is (I did point out TRP to him, but he’s busy with other, manly stuff, like building his own company, developing further his awesome software applications, websites, etc). The remaining friend is quite Blue Pill still, but I have good hopes for him. I have been very gently pointing out some RP stuff. Fingers crossed.

  • So, I do not, have never, and will never, hate Blue Pill people. When they’re close enough for me to care about them (like my friend), I will, very gently, try and point out some RP truths, once in a while, when certain topics arise. Because I care for him and I want him to become a better man.

  • I do not, have never, and will never, hate feminists. I hate FEMINISM. But not the misguided people calling themselves feminists. I don’t do people-hating. Yes, I think they’re extremely silly, misguided, wrong, sometimes downright evil in what they’re trying to achieve, and I do hate their silliness, their misguidedness, etc, but I do not hate the people.

Because I don’t have time to hate people. I don’t have the time to hate people, because my time is precious, and instead of hating people, I spend it on becoming a better man.

/rant

EDIT: silly little mistakes