Where it comes from
When you watch a movie there will be 2 types of men. You will se the non reactive calm, and seemingly RP man. But more than most often you’ll see the BP beta, chump who stutters and is everything you should aspire NOT to be. The main character in most movies will be this man, but somehow he will end up with some girl resembling a unicorn... lol
What it can do
All these BP examples will subconsciously reinforce that you should be clammy, unsure, and nervous about your reactions with women. That “being yourself” having a high pitch voice and a seeking rapport tonality result in getting the girl of your dreams. If you are the nervous reck that is portrayed in most films, TV, and music you subscribe to you will never make it.
What it should do
When I watch most TV shows and films I notice these things, and it makes me so angry I USED TO verbally talk about how the pathetic blue beta bitch boy would never get the girl in real life.
What SHOULD happen is that you laugh internally at the misfortunate reality of most men thinking what they see to be the correct way to go about interacting with women, or men. Realize you are a cut above because you know the BP character is wrong, and actively act in the opposite way of the character.
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