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Upgrade. (2018) https://www.imdb.com/title/tt6499752/?ref_=nv_sr_srsg_0
/r/askTRP08/03/21 01:45 PM
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The most successful guy I ever met was an Australian ski bum. He would work and save until he had enough for a long skiing trip. Then quit and go skiing. A plain speaking no nonsense guy that could get things done, he got sucked into the corporate world. Within a few years became a trouble shooter for a Japanese multi national. While flying to a new assignment, he looked down on snow covered mountains and thought to himself: 'What the fuck am I doing, I'm a ski bum.' He worked out his notice and…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/21 04:40 PM
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My experience and thoughts: It's not all plain sailing, so I'll get the bad news out of the way first. A single dad is no longer 'Father' in the Victorian sense of the word. No say in things like schooling etc. Her house, her rules. They called me dad but my real role was favourite uncle. Dads and uncles are for fun and moms are for clean clothes and full bellies. Children often take mom for granted. Moms nose can be put well out of joint when the kids excitedly shout 'Dads here!' As she sees it…
/r/askTRP08/01/21 04:45 PM
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My kids had a blast on access visits/weekends. They took turns at deciding where we were going for the day. Being BP enough to become a dad and then ending up single has a lot going for it.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 12:13 AM
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How does one measure confidence One measure is to note how a person responds to the suggestion that they are not confident. Another is to take note of their verbosity. Concision requires not only self confidence but confidence that the listener/reader is capable of understanding them.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 10:34 AM
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I've had severe writers block for the last 3 years Read 'The War of Art' by Steven Pressfield. tl;dr If you didn't create anything today, you're not an artist, you are a bum.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 05:32 PM
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Go to a poker tournament that has prize money good enough to attract sharks. You don't have to sign up, just eavesdrop on convos before the tourney starts. There will be lesser players telling war stories about previous poker sessions. Some of the sharks will be listening intently.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 04:28 PM
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fwir here, if it starts with 'You'... it's a shit test. If it starts with 'I'... it's a comfort test.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 05:28 PM
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What else is there to say except: Good Luck Chuck.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 04:49 PM
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I grew up in the mythical 'Stepford Age' of male dominance. Guess what? The strongest person in the relationship always won. Not 100%, there was an equality to the inequality. Anything that a strong woman really wanted, she got. Anything that a strong man really wanted, he got. The only difference between then and now is the tilt of the playing field. Put a strong man and a strong woman together and after the fur has stopped flying, they come to an arrangement. Look at all the notable women of h…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/20 03:36 PM
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Choosing the path of least resistance is one of the main principles of the blue pill. Is it possible that you are rejecting education because having a degree makes it more likely that you end up in an office? (I understand having an aversion to office work. It can cause cancer of the soul.) There are careers that require both field work and a degree.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 04:19 PM
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You are the reincarnation of Groucho Marx: 'I don't want to belong to any club that will accept me as a member.'
/r/askTRP01/12/20 03:16 PM
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I've been carnivore for over 2 years. I'm an old fart who doesn't lift or do anything much in the way of exercise. idk about my T numbers etc. Nearest I can explain the changes is that I have a higher libido but I'm more in control of it. It is now unlikely that the little head will have me act in a stupid way compared to a few years ago when I was eating plant food. I even managed to get laid during lockdown. :) I'd consumed a lot of vodka and it still worked. Not brilliantly but any performanc…
/r/askTRP01/12/20 02:53 PM
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'When I Say No I Feel Guilty' is somewhat dated but the techniques are easy to learn and work well. It's called assertiveness training but the word 'assertive' has connotations of being pushy. It's not about being pushy, it's about standing your ground in a neutral way.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 06:56 PM
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With street hustlers, I give a quick head shake to show I'm not interested. Saves both of us time. If they ignore that, they often start with 'Sorry to disturb you...' which gets a 'Then don't.' from me and I continue walking without breaking stride. They've been fucked off so often that they're used to it.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 07:34 PM
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If she is professional, then she knows professionals. Knowing her could help you build a useful network.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 06:59 PM
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Yours are at the scary age. Allowing them some freedom to explore without them coming a cropper is hard work. All 3 of mine liked to climb. It's like they only bothered learning to stand and walk so that they could find a 20 foot ladder to climb up. I got adept at looking disinterested while positioning myself in the best place to catch them. Spotting for gymnasts would be less stressful. This might help: The Biology of Dads Expect your balls to shrink. Can't be helped, becoming a dad alters you…
/r/askTRP15/10/20 05:32 PM
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I'm pushing 70 and am doing fine living alone. I even get laid once in a while. What makes the difference imo is having a decent relationship with your sprogs. It's even better when grandchildren arrive. The childless men I know have got lonelier as they age. The early years of marriage can be euphoric. Daddy bear, Mummy bear and Baby bear. God is in His Heaven and all is right with the world. It amuses me when guys worry about 'losing half their shit'. A man can go get more shit. A woman is nev…
/r/askTRP02/10/20 04:21 PM
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'The Last American Virgin'. Billy beta meets brutal ending.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 06:25 PM
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1 'winner' can't compete against a mob of 99 'losers'. 20 'winners' can handle 80 'losers' though. It is in the interests of the 1% guys to encourage a network of the next 19% of guys.
/r/askTRP28/09/20 10:55 AM
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If trump would have done every single thing he has except just be fake for the cameras whenever he is on then no one would really care much. Like Tony Blair.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 10:32 AM
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Evaluate on the basis of 'pleasant' and many dimes will be ugly and many butterfaces will be gorgeous.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 01:12 AM
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As the song says: You can't please everybody... so in the immortal words of the Divine Miss M... fuck 'em if they can't take a joke.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 12:22 AM
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The smarter the person, the easier it is to convince them that bullshit = facts. That's why cults like to recruit uni students. There are always some smart young people feeling lost, easy meat. Having higher intelligence can result in a type of arrogance that believes having smarts is the be all and end all. Smarts is only one part of what makes us who we are. There are lots of emotional retards that have a high IQ. Smart people can make the dumbest decisions. One example is Clive Sinclair with …
/r/askTRP20/09/20 12:10 PM
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I already knew of the Venus Fly Trap which is protected in its native habitat. There probably others. most BP guys wouldn't tolerated that kind of BS I agree but I'd never seen the sort of oneitis that he had. A BP guy would let her lead him by the nose until she got bored with him. He always stood his ground and part of that was not leaving her.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/20 12:00 PM
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I meant if he was married to someone else, not her. Side piece says 'I want palimoney'. Legal wife says 'Too late, I was first.'
/r/TheRedPill12/09/20 04:10 PM
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How would it have played out if he was already married and she was his side piece? If I were wealthy enough to attract fortune hunters, I'd be looking for a marriage of convenience to a woman equally wealthy. Equal wealth means no advantage to divorce and being married would protect each of us from gold diggers.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/20 01:32 PM
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She calmed down after that. Last I heard, they were coming up to 40 years married.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/20 01:20 PM
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To me, his point was making a show of affection while also letting her know that he was really pissed off with her. afaik, there are protected plants in the USA.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/20 05:28 PM
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Something I witnessed over 40 years ago. My gf and I were staying with her mate and her mates bf. Her mate was a firebrand and the bf was a tenacious bugger. He'd be called BP because of his oneitis for her but he wouldn't cower down to her. Which could get her angry enough to get physical with him. He'd fight back enough to let her know that he wasn't easy meat. The fur would fly 2 or 3 times a month. One time, she managed to sink her teeth into his nose and kept biting. Fucking brutal. When sh…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/20 03:31 PM
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It's not your past mistakes that define you. It's how you dealt with those mistakes that defines you.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 02:18 PM
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There's 'Being in hell' and 'Going through hell'. Technically, you're in the same place either way but there's a big difference. With the latter, you are travelling. With the former, you are stuck. Keep travelling.
/r/askTRP08/09/20 01:24 AM
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Nobody escapes their adolescence with their dignity intact.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 03:37 PM
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If a guy gives up the smokes and then keeps trying to get all of his smoker mates to quit, how does he come across to them? We all have the right to be wrong. Allow him to be wrong. If TRP is so great, you leading by example will teach him that. No need for lecturing.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 01:44 PM
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Just don't associate yourself with them. Was a good line on a Netflix show: 'I am not depressed. I am in a depressing situation.'
/r/askTRP20/08/20 03:09 PM
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When I Say No I Feel Guilty. It's from the 70s and a bit dated but people don't change much. It gives you techniques that let you stand your ground in a polite and neutral manner. Rather than the instinctive fight or flight response. That will help with social anxiety. It also has a small but useful section on maintaining conversations.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 06:07 PM
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They were couples who had just met. I doubt that they'd be wanting a bull on their first night together. If thoughts like that comfort you, so be it. There are guys with worse genetics and upbringing than you that are doing better with their lives than you are. The difference between them and you is that they aren't making excuses.
/r/askTRP17/08/20 05:03 PM
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40% of Asian females don’t date Asian men. So 60% of them do? How many Asian women can one Asian man fit in his bed at the same time?
/r/askTRP16/08/20 06:36 PM
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Girls are more mental, guys are visual. I did many years on the taxis. (UK) I took a lot of newly met couples home from clubs. The guys who pulled on the regular were mostly nothing special wrt looks but she would be enjoying his company. There were fat blokes who did ok. Maybe not as well as Chad but they sure weren't incels.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 06:27 PM
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Don't be another part of the herd In the 60s men would sometimes call out other men for not acting 'manly'. Many of those doing the calling out had their wife wear the trousers at home lol. In the 70s, I lost count of how many men shouted at me: 'Get your bloody hair cut!' It was probably similar to that in all the decades previous. Most men are just as much a herd animal as women.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 05:54 PM
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A long time since I read it, the 'Mystery Method' deals with this. iirc, the technique is called 'sarging'. Go out and about and talk to everyone for a minute or two. Rinse and repeat. I knew a guy 30 years ago who was a natural at that. A 5 minute walk to the shops could take him almost an hour. There weren't many people in the neighbourhood that he wasn't on first name terms with.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 03:12 PM
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If they have enough redeeming traits. One of those redeeming traits being that they don't give a fuck about being bald.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 02:30 PM
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Bartenders flirt with everyone. Better tips. When a bartender, I once got a written warning for: 'Kissing the female customers.'
/r/askTRP15/08/20 12:48 PM
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being bald is a turn off for most of the woman, why? It's how the man feels about being bald that can be a turn off. If the man doesn't care, neither does she. Worst of all is a comb over. Who is going to trust a man who won't admit that he is bald?
/r/askTRP15/08/20 12:21 PM
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Many years ago, I saw one of those cringy tv shows where people confessed their bad habits. A woman was talking about how she'd go out clubbing with the best of intentions. Then she'd have one too many and became a slut. Often bedding 2 or more guys that night. In the morning, she'd hate herself. The audience reaction was as you may guess. Many calls for her to start respecting herself etc. I'd have gone the other way and would suggest that she gave herself permission to have a slutty night once…
/r/askTRP15/08/20 12:14 PM
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Girls talk, especially roommates What better for roommates to talk about than the foot massages that OP has been giving his plate? If, when the plate has left, the roommate mentions foot massages, then game on.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 11:57 AM
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It could be, as others have suggested, her version of hypergamy. Or it could be that if her parents know that she has a bf, life gets worse for her. Whatever the reason, if her actions, or inactions, are doing you no harm, why worry?
/r/askTRP12/08/20 02:02 PM
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The Biology of Dads is worth a watch imo. Among other things, the expectant fathers hormones change.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 08:19 PM
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When a teen, I saw an old Dick Van Dyke romcom. He played a recently divorced executive coming to terms with the divorce. He had his kids in the car on an access visit and he says: 'How come I see you so much these days?' A kid answered: 'We were never on your schedule before dad.' That was me post divorce. When married, I was their father. On access visits and weekends, I was their uncle, it's a different vibe. When they were with me, they were all mine. Now that they're grown up and settled, I…
/r/askTRP09/08/20 08:06 PM
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be with who they desire, mostly women, because it can lead to children Marrying someone you desire is a relatively modern concept. The priorities used to be practical necessity and social standing. Children were assumed to turn up whoever they married. Desiring each other, if that happened, was a bonus. With the upper classes, he marries a woman his family approves of and takes a mistress that he desires. Some blue blood Chads managed to have both wife and mistress living under the same roof.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 01:36 PM
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Do men really want to have kids? Yes and no. At first, most girls don't want sex. Once he persuades her to try it, she likes it. At first, men don't want kids. Once she has persuaded him to start a family (or fait accompli) he loves being a father.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 01:16 PM
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How do you meet girls that much younger than you? Become old lol. I'm only interested in women young enough to be my daughter. ie. under 50.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 06:38 PM
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Your smv is 2 to 3 points higher than the women a self appointed matchmaker tries to set you up with.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 06:35 PM
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I've no experience with IT or net business but I was self employed from my 30s onward. Decide what hours you are prepared to work and always work those hours. No matter how quiet business is. There's always something you could be be doing. Especially looking for new business. Look for 'hospital work'. Nothing to do with hospitals btw. It's 'better than nothing' work. eg. a guy I knew was a model maker. Like when potential investors get shown a model of a proposed shopping mall. Paid great when t…
/r/askTRP06/08/20 06:22 PM
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Plenty of posts on here about post wall women looking for a beta provider. Women sometimes get back with their ex 'for the sake of the kids'. How does that make the man feel? She doesn't want him specifically. Any (almost socially acceptable) beta provider will do. In the 2nd case, she doesn't want him, what she wants is a dad for her kids. You're the same. You don't want her specifically. Any (almost socially acceptable) wet hole will do. She must be thrilled knowing that. And she does know tha…
/r/askTRP04/08/20 01:11 PM
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found myself not telling anyone If it wasn't for our vote being private, we'd be well fucked.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 11:53 PM
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We officially cant win guys, just cant. If you want to win while keeping the approval of one and all, that's not going to happen. Why must you or I feel protective towards people who are not only equal to us, but strong and independent? The law of unintended consequences can bite hard.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/08/20 09:20 AM
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"thanks for the help" "Thanks for asking for help."
/r/PussyPassDenied02/08/20 08:56 AM
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A Scottish couple were holidaying in Brazil. They got on a bus and all the seats were taken. An older guy gave up his seat for the woman. Her husband says to her: 'Stand up woman and give Pele his seat back.'
/r/PussyPassDenied02/08/20 08:55 AM
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It is a biological impossibility for a woman to want sex as much as, or as often as men. Written by somebody who has never had a nymphomaniac gf. She wore me out. She worked a 15 min drive away. I'd set the alarm to get her to work on time in the morning. She'd reset the alarm to give us time for a matinee and then fuck my brains out until the wee hours. I once showed her a mag that had some cool motorcycles. 'This bike took 400 hours to customise.' She was like: 'He could have spent that time i…
/r/askTRP01/08/20 09:33 PM
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♪ Everyone's fault but mine...♪ ♪ Everyone's fault but mine...♪ ♪ When I fail 'cause I just didn't try...♪ ♪ Everyone's fault but mine...♪
/r/askTRP01/08/20 04:23 PM
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Marilyn Monroe's best wasn't enough to stop her getting dumped for being a cunt.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/08/20 02:46 PM
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I've fucked a few of Chads girls. Not superstar Chads, I never moved in those circles. The guys that are Chad in a smaller pool. The advantage that I had over Chad at that point in time was that I was there and Chad was not.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 02:31 PM
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Me to gf: I'm going to the shop. Want anything? gf: Can you get me some plasters? (Band Aids in the US.) Me: Do you want flesh coloured? gf gives me a nasty look. Possibly because she was black. Me: Dorothy, have you ever noticed that I can be incredibly stupid? gf smiles.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 03:44 PM
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Guy I knew had a 20 year marriage blow up on him. He was crying in his beer about how it was all over for him. Over 40, overweight, poor health, no job etc. (He never mentioned being bald, so obviously he didn't give a fuck about that.) I convinced him to go the asexual route and go meet people. A few months later he took a part time job as a maintenance man in an old folks home. Nearly all women staff, most of whom only stayed for 3 months. (Benefits scam.) Less than year later, he was drowning…
/r/askTRP31/07/20 01:16 PM
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You have 'Desperate' stenciled on your forehead. It's a special dye that only women can see. Like some critters can see ultra violet and we can't. For at least 6 months, give up sex. Give up thinking about sex. Be asexual. For at least 6 months. Talk to anyone and everyone. Get into the habit of enjoying the company of others just because.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 05:55 PM
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There was a spate of young guys who thought that being RP meant being the amog every time, no matter who the other guys were.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 03:46 PM
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I start counting on my hands One, two, three, you, five...
/r/askTRP27/07/20 09:36 PM
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The Last American Virgin Every teenage boy should be made to watch that movie. Brutal ending.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 08:16 PM
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you have to prepare to win in the NOW. There's a line in a James Clavell novel that has stayed with me. A Chinese businessman was asked about a potential problem in the future. He replied: 'Tomorrow will take care of tomorrows problems.' Of course that only applies if todays problems are taken care of today.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/20 08:06 PM
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Easier said than done but be who you want to be. The girls that like who you really are stick around and the girls that don't move on to other lovers.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 09:58 PM
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I'm being able to attract more damaged girls. We all attract damaged girls. I'm a crazy magnet. Not because I give off some kind of aura that draws them to me, it's because I don't fuck them off when they approach or give an IOI. Don't ever think that crazy girl hasn't hit on Chad before giving me an IOI. Chad blanked her so I'll do. Her turning tricks is not a red flag to me as what she did before meeting me is none of my business. (Different story if I were looking for a wife and mother of my …
/r/askTRP25/07/20 06:32 PM
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'How I Raised Myself From Failure to Success in Selling' by Frank Bettger. A great story of how an ordinary average guy achieved extra ordinary results. 'Man's Supreme Inheritance' by F M Alexander, the creator of The Alexander Technique. He earned a living as an orator until his voice fucked up. (In those days people would buy theater tickets to hear somebody read from a book.) No doctors could help him so he decided to work it out for himself. What followed was 7 years of self examination incl…
/r/askTRP25/07/20 05:01 PM
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It's true wrt bragging about lays. If she hears you talk about fucking other women, you are off her list of possibles. It's a different tale if she hears about your conquests from others. That can get her interested. As long as you don't confirm it. Admitting to being blackout drunk and not remembering anything is a good ploy.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 11:08 AM
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believe me, they wouldn’t put up with this. French men put up with worse. Big fine and jail time if a Frenchie gets a paternity test without the courts permission.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 02:39 PM
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You are facing a lifetime of working with luvvies. If you keep doing well, at some point you will have the honour of an A list asshole treat you like the hired help. Deep joy. The arts isn't the only industry where being able to manage entitled pricks is as important as being competent at the task you are paid for. (Anyone who believes that it is ok to end a persons career because their views are different is an entitled prick imo.) You'll need to manipulate persuade people after you graduate. M…
/r/askTRP07/07/20 10:22 AM
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a lot of people think it is necessary for them to be a millionaire I had an epiphany in my 20s that I didn't need £1m to be happy. All I needed was to be as happy as a millionaire whatever my bank balance. So far so good.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/20 11:42 AM
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There's a guy who at one time wasn't rich or famous. He wasn't tall. He didn't work out and it showed. He wasn't handsome. He always did well with the ladies. Even before becoming well known. What did he have that you don't?
/r/askTRP03/07/20 03:06 PM
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No big deal, that's just the way it is. Only women...and some men... complain about the way the world works.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/20 12:20 PM
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Hire a part timer to do the cold calling. That way, you only talk to prospects when an appointment has been made.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 03:00 PM
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I feel aware that I am not really that attractive and the person I am talking to might feel the same. When the subject of looks comes up, most women I've talked to feel the same way. I have a stock reply. 'Your opinion on your looks is irrelevant. All that matters is their opinion on your looks. If they think you look good, then they are right and you are wrong.'
/r/askTRP01/07/20 02:40 PM
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older women : a 27 yo girl lol
/r/askTRP01/07/20 02:12 PM
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Milfs are forward, blunt and thirsty.. IF you are hot. I must have been hot in my youth then. Biggest age difference was a 56 yo when I was 21. Nice body and a well weathered face. A twinkle in her eyes that was sexy as fuck. She wore me out. Now that I'm one of the oldies, what everyone says is true. You get immunity from being embarrassed. Fuck 'em if they can't take a joke.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 02:10 PM
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It's called 'The Mating Game'. Has it never occurred to you that she knows it's a game? She meets Chad and 'it just happened'. Of course she was hoping that it would 'just happen'. She wouldn't have allowed herself to get even close to that possibility with Quasimodo.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 02:00 PM
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Don't take it too seriously. Western woman visiting foreign lands can get many marriage proposals. In the interests of equality, it's your turn lol.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 01:24 PM
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Not every tradesman does that. Some spend it as soon as they get it. They're the guys that have to keep working until their late 60s. It's the last 10 to 15 years that does the most physical damage.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 12:34 PM
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I sacrifice the next 6 years and dedicate them to being broke so that I can make a decent living from 27 years old and onwards That's a big assumption and a huge lifelong loss if you are wrong. I've talked to retail staff in their 30s that are still paying off their student loans. Going the other way also has its dangers. You can earn very good money in the trades. However, if you don't retire/become a manager by your early 50s, you're looking at a retirement with a bad back and aching knees.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 11:31 AM
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welders can mop the floor with me How do welders compare to plumbers? There's the tale of 4 brothers. 1 became a doctor, the other 3 became plumbers. The 3 plumbers refer to the doctor as the poor relation.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 10:42 AM
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Any advice? Act as if she was the sister of your best buddy. Pleasant chat, no (apparent) game and give an upbeat bye before the conversation gets dull. Take note of any conversation starters for the next time you meet. 'How did your exams go?' etc.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 03:09 PM
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Picking up the phone and just start dialling has zero opportunity loss. I read of a sales manager that would give his new sales guys 3 strong leads a day. After a month of them working those strong leads, he'd hand them a phone book. 'This is where I've been getting your leads from'.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 02:34 PM
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You're only in trouble if you get caught. The 11th Commandment: Thou shall not get caught.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/06/20 10:38 AM
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monogamy hurts both women and men Monogamy sure helps empire building. Give every man a woman of his own and he'll go to war for her. In a war between a monogamous nation and a polygamous nation, the polygamous nation is going to get snotted. What beats monogamy wrt warfare is fraternal polyamory, as practiced in Nepal. Those guys are truly not scared of dying. If he falls in battle, his children will still have a father and his wife won't be a widow.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 05:55 PM
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And humanity was struggling to survive That was France at the end of WW1. So many young men had died that the surviving men were encouraged to take a mistress and do their best to increase the birth rate.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 05:45 PM
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Having to calculate the words you say to not get ppl butt hurt, not being able to be authentic, etc Was always thus. George Orwell talked of his time serving in the British army in India during the 1920s. He had a long conversation with an another officer during a train ride. It took the two of them many hours of tippy toe conversation to learn that they were both on the same page wrt the role of the British Raj in India. What I do is to ask questions. Many these days are simply parrots and can'…
/r/askTRP23/06/20 04:52 PM
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I'd do her but I'm older than she is lol.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 04:17 PM
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I just gonna step outside and hot girls are just gonna be there? Beaten before you even start.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 04:14 PM
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Anger phase.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 02:43 PM
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Is there any literature which i can read to understand this way of life better? Read classics written by female authors. They were written for women to read. Why would the most desirable male characters have a dgaf attitude if that wasn't the sort of man that the female readers were attracted to?.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 01:57 PM
1

You could look for an asexual girl. Some are sex repulsed but if she can tolerate sex enough to get knocked up a few times, you could have a strong and healthy platonic relationship while raising your children together. You'll know that she will never have an interest in Chad. She'll know that you will go get laid elsewhere rather than expect her to put out.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 09:33 PM
2

I'm not about give up half my assets Get more assets.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 08:49 PM
2

We also have cultural condemnation of 'manly men'. Today on the bus, some guy behind me had a radio on. idk the station. It was a guy talking to a woman. I heard the guy say: 'Men I'd refer to as testosterone fueled...' I managed to tune out after that. Men are being attacked and are not fighting back.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 07:29 PM
3

Studies have shown that soldiers during times of war produce far higher levels of sperm and quality of sperm and higher levels of testosterone. There was a T study with Italian soccer fans. Their T was measured before and after the game. Fans of the losing team had the highest T.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 11:17 AM
2

Way back when, I had a gf who was as sharp as a scalpel. Education had passed her by and as often happens with uneducated but very intelligent people, her smarts went into being perceptive. Couldn't get a thing past her. After we broke up, she would still come visit me. Because, in her words, she was desperate for someone intelligent to talk to. Not that I'm a Mensa candidate, just less dumb than the other guys she knew. Including whoever her current bf was at the time.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 10:10 AM
1

It's an act of submission. To win the approval of a grown dog, a puppy will lie on its back and urinate. See? I'm harmless. Please like me. how do we break out of it? Stop feeling lonely. If you can handle doing solitary for as long as it takes, then you can mix with people for no other reason than wanting to mix with them. No expectations except the pleasure of their company. No obligations except you being pleasant company in return.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 09:24 AM
1

I couldn't do it. Dancing is much more difficult for a man than a woman. All she has to do is follow. The man has to do everything and is responsible for everything. Even then, being a good dancer isn't enough. A guy I know is a great dancer but women would rather dance with clumsy me than him. He's way too competitive and wants to show everyone in the room just how great he is. Because he always outshines his dance partners, they're not interested. Doesn't matter how badly the guy dances imo as…
/r/askTRP18/06/20 08:28 AM
0

I saw a YT of an African tribe where the women wrestled each other. With that tribes lifestyle, her being hot means fuck all. What's wanted in a wife is strength and toughness and the women proved their value by wrestling each other. There's a theory that the reason EE women are so hot is that there was a severe shortage of men after WW2. Those male survivors had their pick of breeding partners and fuglies didn't get to breed.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 01:22 PM
1

I wasn't ready for a relationship I think that happened with me a lot when young. The less likely we were to meet again, the lower the chance of me messing up the lay.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 12:26 PM
1

I still get sad thinking of what space I was in and the opportunities I couldn't have at the time. Better to be a beta chump that wised up than a natural Chad who has lost his mojo.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 12:15 PM
1

I've got some weed. Have her scrubbed and sent to my room.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/06/20 02:52 AM
2

Can someone tell me what is "2gs" and "8th"? g means grams, so 2 grams. An eighth is 1/8" of an ounce, so 3.5 grams.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/06/20 02:51 AM
0

Do you supplement fiber? No need for fiber with carnivore. Takes a few weeks for the gut to adapt though. I eat cheese as an evening snack. Eggs sometimes. The only plant food I eat is whatever filler is in the burgers and sausages I buy. Some people get brain fog from eating pork. With others, it's dairy. For me, no difference when I eliminated them so that's good for my food budget.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/20 10:17 PM
1

Did the marriage thing. Got kids out of it which is nice Me too. I feel lucky. BP enough when young to do the marriage and kids thing. Time passes, I'm single and the kids are grown up. The 10 years post divorce was grim at times but the access visits/weekends made up for that.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 09:52 PM
1

Pros and cons to both. Believing that one is better than the other is the mistake.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 07:09 PM
2

I get incredibly angry and envious at the fucking smart nerds to whom logic and matematics comes easily,they dont fucking understand how easy it is to get social skills and women Smart nerds are crap at social skills and women. They keep overthinking. If you were dumb enough to stop giving a fuck, you'd be a lot happier.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 06:17 PM
2

A useful alternative to a straight no is: 'I'm not comfortable with that.' It positions your comfort as a priority and that you are not going to do anything that you're not comfortable with.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 02:00 PM
-1

Unless you are as wealthy as Rolando, divorce rape is cheaper than surrogacy. 100k for the baby is just the start of your expenses. You'll need a nanny/housekeeper for the kid. A good one will be what, 30+k a year live in? Plus stand ins to cover her time off etc. Gonna add up to plenty over the years. Knock her up and marry her and she will do the childminding for a lot less money. You are free to work long hours building your career. (Lucky you.) If I were young and starting over, I'd be looki…
/r/askTRP11/06/20 11:56 AM
1

What should I do man? What you already did. De-escalate. It's like driving and some idiot nearly wipes you out. Scary as fuck even though you responded correctly. If we were living in a war zone and dodging bullets just to go shopping, then we'd be more aware but less scared. Some guys carry a 'muggers wallet' with a few banknotes in it. The guy comes to no harm and the junkie gets fixed for a few hours.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 10:46 AM
1

My take is that there are different types of depression. Mainly 'normal' and 'abnormal' depression. Some might think of themselves as depressed because they are in a depressing situation. If they can improve that situation and choose not to, then imo they have chosen to be depressed. Not always a bad thing. I've had periods in my life where I had little choice but to endure for some years. The last thing I needed was to feel full of beans when fuck all was likely to be happening in my immediate …
/r/TheRedPill11/06/20 09:18 AM
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imo, it's the amount effort needed to deal with young children day in, day out. It's exhausting enough for couples that can afford to have the mother stay at home. Post divorce, I took my kids on a 2 week camping holiday. Aged 8, 10 and 13. First time I'd had to look after them solo for longer than a weekend. After the first week, I was ready to quit. I spent most of day 10 hiding from them. Complete and utter I no longer give a fuck about them exhaustion. Once mine got past the angsty teenager …
/r/askTRP11/06/20 08:25 AM
1

In the UK, people from the Middle East are often, and sometimes incorrectly, referred to as Arabs.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/06/20 08:00 AM
1

They refer to Indians/Middle Easterners as "Asians" in the UK now? In the UK, Indians and Pakistanis have been referred to as Asians for as long as I can remember.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/06/20 03:25 PM
3

There were a few single mothers in my social circle. Every one of them has told me, in private, that they were miserable. 'I'd top myself if it wasn't for my kid.' That's when the kids were young. The mothers seemed to cheer up a lot once their youngest got to late teens.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 03:13 PM
1

To clarify, you want all the advantages of being a winner, with no comeback from any of the losers you currently associate with?
/r/askTRP10/06/20 07:24 AM
1

STD’s ain’t fun Getting them is more fun than being incel. Whatever we do, there is a risk of harm. Inaction can sometimes be much more harmful than playing a stupid game and winning a stupid prize. The trick isn't to totally avoid the risk of harm. The trick is to welcome calculated risks that benefit us more than the potential harm will hurt us.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 11:21 AM
2

It's up to you. Be aware that accountancy is one of the careers being decimated by ever advancing technology. Any career where your brain power can be replaced by an algorithm is at risk. If you do take your parents advice and get a full time job, go for something where you can learn future proof skills. eg. the trades. No robot is going to turn up to a clients house and fix their plumbing.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 08:51 AM
1

Everytime i talk about this stuff they attack me, i don't understand whats wrong with man wanting to improve they're sex lives. Nothing wrong with a man wanting to improve. It's blabbing about it to women that is a mistake. Learn to stfu. Woman fuck more than us They're not all lezzers. Those 'fuck a lot' women are mostly fucking men. Learn to compete. I'm pushing 70 and got laid last month. So much for lockdown ha ha. ok, she might be a 4 or 5 to most of you but not so heavy I couldn't lift her…
/r/askTRP08/06/20 08:02 PM
2

how does being a man relate to this ? This is not a new situation. Men living in the fsu had an even worse situation. Under Stalin, an entire family could disappear because dad said the wrong thing. Little Vlad stops showing up at school and his best friends know better than to ask about him. In the 1920s, George Orwell was in the army serving in India. He reported that it took many hours of indirect conversation with fellow officers to learn how they truly felt about the British presence there.…
/r/askTRP06/06/20 08:34 AM
3

Any guy who ticks all of your exes boxes doesn't want her. Not only does he want early 20s women, he knows how to get them. The question she should be asking herself is: What age group of men would prefer to hang out with a 30 yo woman rather than an early 20s woman?
/r/askTRP05/06/20 08:02 AM
1

The stoners that do well on tests enjoy studying and being tested. Students who have to push themselves into studying usually fall to bits once they get into weed.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 04:34 PM
0

You’re a good guy, not a nice guy. There’s a difference. A line from the movie 'Blast From the Past': 'Adam, you're a good boy but what Eve needs is a good man.'
/r/askTRP03/06/20 01:53 PM
1

so you can train a hoe or not? or is it not worth it? As you've already made your mind up despite the advice given here, I'll add some red flags to look for. How does she treat servers and other retail staff? Does she show respect for other peoples time? Is there a family history of nasty ailments? (You don't want your daughter to get tit rot so don't impregnate a woman with a family history of it.) The biggest question of all, will she be a good mother? As well as common decency, that includes …
/r/askTRP02/06/20 10:06 AM
1

in my experience the plate will push for commitment and you can only make up excuses for so long In her frame much?
/r/askTRP02/06/20 09:30 AM
3

Stereotypical 'Nice Guys' are covert whoremongers. They are under the delusion that if they keep putting 'Nice Guy' tokens into the vending machine of life, they will be rewarded with love, admiration and sex from a fair maiden. Almost every women can tell a tale about a 'Nice Guy' who turned bandit on her once he realised that she wouldn't ever be putting out for him.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 10:01 AM
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It's always the mans fault.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 09:20 AM
1

It makes my blood boil man I don’t know how to escape it. Would you really swap lives with her? Being with somebody you have already rejected as not being good enough because nobody else will provide for you? We all get ripped off at some point in time. Who is the loser, the person who gets ripped off and can afford it, or the ripper whose life is going nowhere?
/r/askTRP28/05/20 12:59 PM
7

Mid week, I like casinos. In the UK, you get your photo taken on the way in. Stops any serial killer vibe she might be getting. ime, the food and drinks are reasonably priced considering the opulent decor. The larger casinos give plenty of opportunity to keep changing 'venues' within the venue. Not a great date on the weekend. Too many people in a hurry to empty their wallets.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 12:07 PM
2

The Rolling Stones. Plenty of albums to choose from. Lyrically, there are a few BPish tracks but in the main it's 'I'm in charge, get yer kit off girl'.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 12:51 PM
2

I’ll be able to sense it my intuition way too strong That's funny. How much intuition does it take to know how that message will come across? Whatever the amount, she doesn't have it. Let me know if that’s too much to ask for Tell her the truth, 'Yes it is too much for ask for. I won't be telling you things.'
/r/askTRP22/05/20 12:42 PM
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Not just the pedestal shit. I'm an old fart that likes music from the 60s and 70s. One of my regular listens was Townes Van Zandt. Nowadays, there's only a few songs of his that I can tolerate. The rest are of the woe is me variety. 'Gotta stop the pain' blah blah. You're a man ffs, pain is part of the deal. Grow the fuck up. Except that he died before growing up.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 11:07 AM
1

Lots of red pill in the old blues songs. 'You're young and beautiful... 'But you're gonna die someday... iow, fuck while you can.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 01:22 PM
2

There is a chance that you will, at some point in time, have a boss as bad as your parents. Might as well learn to deal with future assholes now eh? Get a copy of 'When I Say No I Feel Guilty'. Learn the techniques and practice them on your parents. Without being a dick.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 01:10 PM
2

80% of one, 20% of the other. Swap them round once in a while.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 01:20 PM
3

Her saying anything about 'your relationship' is an assumptive close that the two of you are in a relationship. You didn't rebut that so she has established, and in front of her friend, that the two of you are in a relationship. Clever girl.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 01:02 PM
1

pursue black smithing Start now. Get a blowlamp, heat up a large nail and hammer the fuck out of it. Waiting until you have fu money means that you will never get started.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/05/20 04:03 PM
1

I see people building good relationships and strong bonds with other people Those people fail far more often than you do. Your problem is that you are not failing enough.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 01:28 PM
1

We're hard wired to breed. You not having children could be causing the unease. Becoming a family man is about the only thing you haven't achieved yet. Not suggesting that you try to fix it by getting a girl knocked up. Whatever we achieve in this world has cost us something else. If you have any niblings, make a (post lockdown) fuss of them. You get to play parent for a while and best of all, you get to give them back.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 12:46 PM
1

I’m treated as the villain That's because you are the villain. Crabs are not supposed to escape the bucket. What's worse than a crab escaping the bucket? That same crab visiting the other crabs who are still stuck in that bucket. You belong in a different peer group now.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 10:43 AM
0

Gold Diggers isn't a term that applies to men. The term used for men is 'fortune hunter'.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/04/20 01:51 PM
1

that all important 10min mark Why is the 10 minute mark important?
/r/PussyPassDenied28/04/20 01:39 PM
4

I've read similar from people who have lost enough weight to start getting attention from the opposite sex. 'Fuckers didn't want to know me before I slimmed down... rant rant...' Some career minded women firmly believe that they can leave marriage/babies to the last minute. If she is one of those, then it's not so much your income that she is after imo, it's bragging rights. If your career sounds more impressive than the careers of her friends partners, that's a big win for her.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 08:08 AM
1

To add, solicitors can represent in magistrates courts where lesser charges, with a guilty plea, are heard. If the accused pleads not guilty, or it is considered to be a serious crime, it goes to Crown Court and the accused is represented by a barrister.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/04/20 06:59 AM
4

Turn your revenge fantasies into a movie script.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 12:56 PM
2

Get a physical job. With the current crisis, it'll probably be front line. Shelf stacking or cashier at a supermarket etc.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 06:39 PM
4

some people will never be your friend because of circumstances and jealousy Best to identify and dump those types asap. The Range Rover will help you do that. I first had long hair because fashion. I kept my hair long because it gave me instant feedback as to who was a twat.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 05:51 PM
1

Hugh Heffner without the wealth lol.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 03:26 PM
1

COVID-19 does like a weak immune system And a weakened heart.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/20 10:19 PM
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Even the easiest plates needs a good amount of effort A good amount of effort from you. Not from Chad. It's not work to Chad because he enjoys it. It's work to you because you don't enjoy it. Neither did I when younger. I was a crazy magnet so I let them find me. Once in a while a non crazy was interesting to me. That's when I was glad I could banter. (Wasn't called game back then.)
/r/askTRP03/04/20 09:12 PM
1

Seduce her lower smv mate.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 06:50 PM
8

Does calling out micro aggressions: A) Help you in achieving your mission? B) hurt you in achieving your mission?
/r/askTRP24/03/20 06:46 PM
1

never will understand this idiotic obsession for having kids In your case, you have a point.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 05:46 PM
1

I agree men let themselves be used. For most, it is to their genetic advantage. Assuming that 'Only 1 man in 16 passed on his genes' theory is true, the average guy wasn't born to breed. Come monogamy and nearly all of those 15 out of 16 males get the chance to become ancestors. Immortality in exchange for 3 or 4 decades of hard work. Before the pill, a guy was expected to the right thing if he got a girl in trouble. Most did, some scarpered. When a pregnant girl was abandoned, it sometimes happ…
/r/askTRP15/03/20 02:23 PM
1

I just feel I won't be that into casual sex That's your nerves and your BP upbringing talking. Young virgin women feel the same way. Once they become sexually active, they find that they enjoy sex. As will you. a feeling of betraying myself It's right now that you are betraying yourself.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 08:22 PM
6

You could show them this: https://www.theguardian.com/observer/osm/story/0,,543962,00.html
/r/TheRedPill14/03/20 06:45 PM
2

I used to do Judo when 13/14 yo. There was a 20 something woman at the club, average height and chubby. When it came to ground work, I was giving away a lot of weight and still beat her on the regular.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/20 06:33 PM
1

her: I am looking for a man not a boy From the movie 'Arthur': (grabs arm) 'I'll help you look for him.'
/r/askTRP11/03/20 05:56 PM
2

I told them I don’t support feminism and that I’m a equalist they got upset about it and so is my mom Exactly how were you expecting to profit by telling them that? Best case scenario is heads you lose, tails you don't win. You can talk about TRP concepts if, and only if, you do it sparingly and use socially acceptable language. Saying that the man should be the head of the household won't go down well. Saying that a married man should do his share of emotion labour is acceptable. Both statement…
/r/RedPillParenting11/03/20 09:23 AM
1

You're being greedy. When greedy people fail, they fail hard. It took years for you to put on the fat and now you want it gone all at once. Aim to lose no more than 500g a week. Assuming no muscle gain, your target is 60.5 kg for 10% body fat. ~22 kg to lose so 44 weeks. Call it a year.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 05:00 PM
1

see if other people struggle with Family holding them back Everything holds us back. With our permission.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 09:00 PM
1

it's the best years of their life. Be careful what you wish for. If college really was the best years of their life, everything that came later was worse.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 08:25 PM
1

it's always the man's fault I always knew this back in the 70s but never really understood until TRP. No matter how badly it ended, it was always my fucking fault. Not because she said so but because I knew so. I didn't need persuading to know that I'd fucked up. Can there be a worse feeling than failing and not knowing why you failed?
/r/askTRP06/03/20 07:21 PM
1

I'm constantly challenging against my best friends That can be toxic. There was someone who would partner me in 4 handed whist/bridge type card games that involved bidding before the cards got played. Every fucking time he would try to outbid me unless his hand was piss weak. Even then, he'd over bid his piss weak hand. It gets old real quick.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 06:32 PM
1

Short term it's beneficial, you get to feel ever so superior. Long term, the guys like it better when you are not there. They don't have to be a Wooky for you to let them win once in a while.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 06:22 PM
1

I hate all that genes and human nature and survival shit. Hate it all you want, your hatred doesn't stop it being true. It's difficult to make correct choices if you refuse to look at things as they really are. Even if you are right and I am wrong, common sense dictates that the possibility of you being wrong should be checked out. If I'm wrong, you've lost a bit of time thinking things through enough to prove me wrong. If you're wrong and you refuse to even consider that you might be wrong, you…
/r/askTRP06/03/20 04:47 PM
1

They seem to be as bad as each other. He fucks a woman because he can and his ltr isn't there. She lines up a branch in case her green card doesn't come through. Green card comes, branch no longer needed. They're both weak so who knows, it might work out for them.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 03:16 PM
1

Depends on how busy I am with college. Don't be building in an excuse. You will find the time because it is important that you find the time.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 12:26 PM
0

If there wasn't an evolutionary advantage to that behaviour, it would have been bred out. Us not understanding why something happens does not mean that it is fucked up. Its irresponsible, selfish, and childish to do that to a guy. Classic 'nice guy' response. I put 'nice guy' tokens into the vending machine of life and my unicorn rewards me with love, affection and loyalty. Let's try again: Its irresponsible, selfish, and childish to absolutely vital to the survival of the human race that they d…
/r/askTRP06/03/20 08:20 AM
2

I agree with you. People calling themselves mgtow because they're actually an incel is what I find laughable. The system has never been static. Once upon a time, guys were told that looking like Charles Atlas was the way to go. Along comes the ever so scrawny Mick Jagger and brawn is no longer in fashion. Todays movies have some right fucking dweebs taking the top spots. Any combination of short, ugly or scrawny. Imagine one of todays movie star dweebs being in a 1950s flick. No way that they'd …
/r/askTRP04/03/20 01:09 PM
2

Going carnivore can eliminate depression. It's not a way of eating that suits everyone but when it works, it works brilliantly. Will take you about 5 weeks to learn if it works for you.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 02:04 PM
0

Involuntary celibate? Something that they don't have a choice in is referred to as them going their own way? Laughable.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 08:02 PM
1

To me, them pressing for a number before they've confirmed that they want you is a red flag. They're not looking for the best that they can get, they're looking for the cheapest that they can get. Why work for bottom feeders?
/r/RedPillWorkplace01/03/20 10:02 AM
1

You could spend now on things that will be worth much more than 10x to you in the future. Dance lessons, music lessons, voice coaching etc.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 08:30 PM
2

You're standing at the bus stop. Unknown woman standing next to you. You glance upwards and see a large object hurtling towards the two of you. In one heartbeat, your instinct is to push her out of harms way. Shame that you get splattered but that's the price of toxic masculinity. If there is time for 5 or more heartbeats, you'll be thinking of your friends and family and will get the fuck out of the way, she's on her own. So yep, we're pre programmed to die protecting women. Feminists are helpi…
/r/askTRP27/02/20 08:48 AM
4

You have a weekly home poker game. Mostly you lose but once in a while the deck hits you in the face and you do ok. All down to Lady Luck is it not? Then you pick up a book and learn that there is strategy and tactics to the game of poker. Revelation. Some of your poker buddies already knew this and used strategy and tactics to take your chips on the regular. You thought it was all just luck but they knew better. How much do you hate them? More importantly, do they deserve your hatred? Are you n…
/r/askTRP26/02/20 04:50 PM
3

I don't know if she actually wanted the D Does your country not have a law against that? In the UK, a doctor will be struck off for fucking a patient. End of their medical career.
/r/askTRP23/02/20 01:49 PM
7

Empires need to keep expanding. When expansion stops being cost effective, the empire starts to decline. <soft, yet depressed, victimized, egocentric society. That describes the last years of the Roman Empire.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 11:02 PM
4

I liked you better when you were fatter. In my mid 20s, I fell for an older woman who had been round the block multiple times. She was probably bipolar and the ride was like living on a rollercoaster. BP me would mostly take it although sometimes I would show teeth or just be plain stubborn. That was over 40 years ago and when looking back with RP tinted specs, I see that she was trying to get me to man up. She didn't want me to fail those shit tests. During one argument she said 'I liked you be…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/20 01:53 PM
3

It's human nature to respect results more than the effort that went into achieving those results.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 12:12 PM
1

Assertive is the one you want. 'When I Say No I Feel Guilty' is the go to for assertiveness techniques. A female friend was forever moaning about her call center job so I bought her a copy. A few months later she was bragging about how easily she could handle disgruntled callers.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 02:34 PM
2

uncle who taught me many things One sentence from a favourite uncle can have more influence than years of indoctrination from a parent.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 01:55 PM
1

I am trying to learn new skills Learn social skills. Don't try too hard at first. You only need to get good enough to get by. Once you're middle of the pack for socialising, that might be enough for you. If not, socialise more.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 02:23 PM
1

"When I Say No I feel Guilty" It's a classic on assertiveness technique. Used copies are dirt cheap.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 01:14 PM
2

So many mothers say ' then he went and did it anyway!' with smiles on their faces. My dad was like that. Rant at me for going my own way and then brag about what I did to his drinking buddies.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 10:41 AM
1

As her actions when she's with you are good enough, I'd be inclined to give her the benefit of the doubt. It's probably girl talk bragging rights. To dump a girl who has been treating you well because of what a woman who does not like you says...
/r/askTRP03/02/20 11:02 AM
1

Nor did I ever wanted to pay for friends It's a question of degree. I have whiled away some hours talking to bar flies. Pleasant, and sometimes knowledgeable, company in return for buying them a drink or two.
/r/askTRP02/02/20 04:49 PM
1

I'd say that it was always like that. The difference back then was that people automatically deferred to authority. That also had women deferring to men. If a woman wanted to something outside of the socially acceptable, say get a job, she was met with opposition. If she kept fighting, any opposition would crumble. When the tide goes out, we learn who has been swimming naked. Most men are swimming naked. Back in the day, the tide was in and the naked men got away with it.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 11:29 AM
2

I know of a woman with an elder brother. According to her, her brother 'Went through my mates like a dose of salts'. She seemed more amused than angry about it.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 04:37 PM
3

you can’t grow if you’re short Plenty of short guys have done well. Work at developing whatever talents you have. When those talents are good enough to impress, people won't care about your height. Dudley Moore was a shortarse that had women lining up for him. Even before he got famous.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 10:47 AM
2

girls ain't as visual as us Some PUAs I've known were hit with the ugly stick. They did ok. Some were short as well as ugly.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 10:35 AM
2

Most of you underplay the role of genetically superior looks in the modern time. imo, Jonah Hill is a 'genetically inferior' alpha. Sure he gets to play a beta on screen, that's his gig. irl, he changes his arm candy with the seasons and afaik, no bad mouthing from any of his exes. Unlike what has happened to some good looking actors.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 10:12 AM
1

just because I get out of my comfort zone doesn't mean that I'll be good at the job or enjoy it The point of leaving your comfort zone is to do stuff that you're crap at and probably won't enjoy at first. It's not so much that you learn how much talent you do or don't have for a specific task, it's that you learn how to take on new challenges.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 12:29 PM
1

When I act goofy, silly, or socially awkward/get anxious no one takes me serious Why should they?
/r/askTRP11/01/20 08:56 PM
1

Your post reminds me of a guy that I've seen once in a while for the last 10 years or so. (He has stayed within the area I shop.) At first he was selling The Big Issue. It's a magazine sold by the homeless in the UK. Sort of legalised panhandling. The guy had a real attitude when sales were low. He later took to outright begging. Even more entitlement if your coins did not become his coins. The last time I saw him, he was anger on a stick. You were not angry when people helped you. Your plate, t…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/20 09:43 PM
1

'Kim' by Rudyard Kipling. https://freeclassicebooks.com/Rudyard%20Kipling/Kim.pdf Set in India at the time of the Raj. An orphan boy in a land full of intrigue and who to trust can be a matter of life or death. The story could be told in any setting where a wrong word can have you fucked over. Compared to Kim, I spent my youth wearing a blindfold.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 07:47 PM
49

The one thing that feminists and RP men agree on: It's always the mans fault.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/20 11:41 AM
1

Recessive genes can be passed on for many generations. If both parents carry the same recessive gene as an allele to their dominant gene, there is a one in four chance that the child will express the recessive gene.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 03:30 PM
1

The worst part of becoming a grown up is that you don't get to blame your fuck ups on your parents any more.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 02:06 PM
1

Opposite of love is hate? Love and hate are two sides of the same coin.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 09:59 AM
2

working crummy jobs, trying to claw my way up toward fulfillment Defeated before you start. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K55t6dXxuWI Get some fulfillment by doing your current job as well as you can.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 01:33 PM
1

The only way out is benevolent dictatorship, but that hardly ever works Monarchy tempered by assassination has its merits.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 03:25 PM
6

Is the biggest sadness in your life the absence of women queuing up to suck your dick for free? You go to poor countries because westerner = rock star and that gets you cheap sex. Then you complain that the women want some resources from you and that the cheap sex isn't cheap enough. Lighten up and splash a little bit of money around. Not too much, just enough to make a small but positive difference to her life. Instead of getting angry, learn to enjoy her attempts to play you. Play her back and…
/r/askTRP16/12/19 11:41 AM
2

The more you want to win, the worse you play. Learn to win and it's not exciting any more. iow, the one with the power in a relationship enjoys it the least. imo, what you're asking is the ultimate RP question. How do I put the magic back into the Land of Oz after I have seen the man behind the curtain?
/r/askTRP14/12/19 04:30 PM
6

'Nice Guy tm' is code for 'An asshole with low self confidence.' They are closet whoremongers. They make covert contracts. Keep putting Nice Guy tokens in and the vending machine of life will reward them with sex. When that doesn't happen, they can become angry. As if a hooker has ripped them off. With rude guys, she will respond to his confidence in spite of his rudeness.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 12:16 PM
3

Some women are naturally quiet. I've had 3 relationships with women that would sit all evening listening to my music and hardly say a word. Once secure with that, it's great. Alone without being alone.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 11:48 AM
1

I'm a human man and have instincts and urges Instincts and urges are for after working hours. It's unprofessional otherwise.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 08:20 AM
1

If even your dog pisses you off, that is a serious problem.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 07:46 AM
3

You did the right thing. An adult rat can be grabbed by the tail if you're quick enough. A baby rat can run up its own tail and you would probably have got bitten. Some very nasty diseases can come from rat bites. There will be a family of rats somewhere close. There are various ways of dealing with them. All with their pros and cons. If you poison them, you get to smell the decomposing bodies for some time.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 06:40 AM
1

Become a penniless hobo. That way, nobody, not even your fellow hobos, will try to get anything from you as you have nothing of value to them. If you do want to have some coins in your pocket, then those coins have to come from other people. Anybody with coins wants coin from you, that's how the game works. Being in competition with someone doesn't necessitate the two of you being mortal enemies. Some people have no ability to self-regulate with their emotions. Look who's talking.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 02:16 PM
1

I’m only hesitant to burn the bridge because it closes the door for us to reconnect down the road If happy ever after is his destiny, it will end up that you're never going to see him again. Best man or not. If he gets chewed up and spat out in bubbles, he'll come to you like a wounded dog looking for home. Best man or not.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 07:44 PM
1

That can apply to everyone. The more a person can handle being outside of the group think, the more likely they are to own their mistakes. If keeping the groups acceptance of them is the priority, then owning their mistakes is the wrong way to go. Ask any politician.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 09:35 AM
1

You still have some puberty to go. I'm as sure as can be that puberty is the best time to do lots of physical work. Any muscle mass gained in puberty is likely to stay, even if the person ends up with a sedentary lifestyle. Prime example is Cary Grant. He had to work hard from the age of 14 in a circus. In later life, he always looked in shape, no need for him to hit the gym.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 09:08 AM
1

Think of your time as a trading investment. Not all trades are profitable, the goal is to only lose a little when you're wrong and to make much more when you are correct. Best to sell on a rising market. If you're starting to get somewhere, fine. If you then feel yourself running out of steam, end the convo on a high note and bugger off quick. Think of it as a dollar in the bank. Some time later, you can have another quick convo with the same person and there will be no memory of awkwardness bet…
/r/askTRP06/12/19 08:23 AM
11

Without hypergamy, we'd still be living in caves.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/19 05:02 PM
1

If I wasn't getting attention, I would probably feel better because I wouldn't have much to regret. It is a wonder of the human brain that we don't even have to think about why bad shit isn't our fault. All we need is the desire for it not to be our fault and the excuses turn up like magic. If none of this is your fault, then you are well and truly fucked. Nothing you can do. Stay in the basement and play games, it will make no difference because you are fucked no matter what. Retired from the r…
/r/askTRP05/12/19 10:40 AM
2

Go on a date and have fun enjoying her company. If a woman really wants you and her flirting isn't getting the results she wants, she will find a way.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 09:36 AM
2

imo a poker analogy can apply to guys still in the anger phase. Say a weekly home game. He is a consistent loser apart from those rare evenings when the deck hits him in the face. Even then, he doesn't profit from the good luck as much as better players would. Then he discovers that there is strategy to the game. Not only that, his opponents, people he thought of as friends, are more than happy to use strategy to relieve him of his chips. Cue anger.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/19 12:34 PM
1

what are women supposed to do once they hit the wall They lock a man down well before they hit the wall. If she treats him right, he will have 'wife goggles'. She could be mid 40s or older but if she hasn't gained weight, he will still see her as being early 20s or whatever age she was when he first fell for her.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 03:29 PM
2

imo, it's even better that he is BP. Would could be worse for the agenda pushers than a BP guy calmly and methodically exposing their bullshit?
/r/askTRP27/11/19 11:42 AM
1

Increase your earnings until her hourly rate is less than yours. That way, she's saving you money, not costing you money.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 09:10 PM
2

Who knows? All Emile Bronte wrote about his past was that he was an orphan boy from Liverpool that Cathys father brought home. When her father died, her brother kicked him out. 3 years later Heathcliff returns as a wealthy man. How he managed that is a dark mystery. Women like dark mysteries. In relation to the original post, doing a Heathcliff refers to the beta disappearing and not coming back into her life until he is well capable of pulling hotter women than her.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 06:14 PM
1

Heathcliffe managed it.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 09:27 AM
27

It's never about you as a man/person. This is from an old post on WRP, I may be paraphrasing: *A woman wants a man who is awesome and treats her good enough. A man wants a woman who is good enough and treats him awesome.*
/r/askTRP23/11/19 09:50 AM
1

Even SJWs thought that the Amy Schumer shows were crap.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/11/19 03:47 PM
2

It’s like I’m obliged to entering her frame. All sins end up being paid for. If you think swallowing TRP is bitter, nah, you've got ~10 years of this. It ends when the kid(s) can travel unattended to see you. Until then, she has power that she can use to hurt you. That might not happen or it may happen early on and then tail off. Who knows? You being a free child minder has its advantages to a single mother so the less drama the better. Learn to not swallow bait. To quote George Foreman: To win,…
/r/askTRP16/11/19 06:58 PM
5

There are kissless virgin guys who are better looking than you.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 02:54 PM
2

3 centuries is bugger all in terms of our biology. There have always been powerful people. Some of those powerful people were women.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/11/19 12:15 PM
3

No it isn't but societal pressure is pretty much a paper tiger. Keep standing up to it and it loses its power. Being strong enough to stand up to it is another matter. ime, inner strength has little to do with gender. While Margaret Thatcher was making a fuss, there were many many women who chose not to make a fuss. While Lech Walesa was making a fuss, there were many many men who chose not to make a fuss.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/11/19 11:58 AM
7

women were either not allowed or heavily discouraged from partaking in these disciplines That didn't stop the women who really wanted to do it. They had obstacles to overcome. Who doesn't? If a man wants to get on in his career, there will be other men placing obstacles in his path. It's part and parcel of moving up the greasy pole.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/11/19 11:29 AM
1

Strong eye contact Not that I've ever been that great at it but guys that are good at making eye contact can pull from the other side of the room. Without a word being spoken both of them know that's it's game on.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 11:14 AM
4

Can you further explain point 1 after AFBB? I'm not who you asked but this may help: As part of a BBC doc about sex, a married couple had sex every day and gave the beeb the condom. The wifes job had her spend a week away on a training course. As that week approached, her cycle changed and she was ovulating while away. Not any conscious decision on her part, just her body doing what it's supposed to do.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 10:38 AM
2

Really? How so? She's known as a cougar because she wants your skinny ass. You being a bit on the shy side can help. She gets to lead you astray and spoil you for other women.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 09:24 AM
1

There is no more charming and lovable woman than a woman with baby rabies.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 08:02 AM
65

Always walk away from an ultimatum.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/11/19 07:49 PM
1

My first thought was that for common ground, half of the party goers or more will be wearing some jewelry. Here's an image search for 'jewelry making': https://duckduckgo.com/?q=jewelry+making&t=chromentp&atb=v153-1&iar=images&iax=images&ia=images If you'd enjoy making stuff like that then it's win win for you.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 10:27 AM
10

Why wouldnt she open her legs for OP quickly when she has done so for many guys before? One reason can be that she wants to see him again. Women can have a thing about being respected. The more they want an ltr with a guy, the more they want him to respect her. Him being a ons that turned into an ltr just isn't as romantic.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 07:41 PM
1

I'd suggest both raising and lowering your standards. Raising your standards has you only talking to interesting women. They do exist. Lowering your standards has you not judging her facial looks. Homely girls aren't that way through choice. If she's been looking after her body well enough to be hot from the neck down, that's to her credit.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 09:30 AM
1

For a few years in my early 20s, I was in a similar position as the hot girls you mention. If my experience is anything to go by, they're in it for the tips. Being at the front end in a busy place with a good tipping culture means making serious bank. I was averaging 5 times more in tips than my wages. It wouldn't surprise me if some of those industry girls are making more money in tips than most guys earn. It's not free money though, it has to be worked for. Not many lazy industry girls, we can…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/19 08:54 AM
1

In the 60s and earlier, that was knowing as: Sowing your wild oats.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 07:53 PM
1

I'm late 60s and looking back, the book that would have made the most difference to my life, had I followed it, was: The Richest Man in Babylon. Paying yourself first not only enables a decent retirement, it builds the habit of only spending 90% (or less) of your earnings. Creates a totally different mindset compared to people that live paycheck to paycheck.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 05:30 PM
1

Tell her no sex with you until she has fucked your mate. Then tell your mate what you told her.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 06:08 PM
1

There wasn't much beta to the short arsed players that I've met.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 07:04 PM
1

iirc, it varies. Fun finding out how it varies though.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 09:13 PM
4

When making out, I'd have a hand across her shoulder to check for muscle tension. If I went too fast with the other hand, her shoulders would tense up fast. I'd back off until her shoulders relaxed, then try again but slower.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 04:07 PM
2

Check out F M Alexander He developed a speech problem that had a negative effect on his income. It took him about 7 years of serious study to correct it and then he learned that it only took him a few months to correct the same problem in others. His way of using the body became known as the Alexander Technique. It is still taught today. The tl;dr is that most of us don't have full control over our body. We stutter or stammer under stress. We can't keep our eye on the ball. In some stressful sit…
/r/askTRP13/10/19 04:13 PM
1

ime, true crazies, ie. away with the fairies, live on a different planet etc. can be a lot more pleasant than 'clinically sane' women. The nasty can be there waiting for a chance to come out, that's why vetting is so important. It's difficult to notice the little clues while staring at her tits. Vet first, then drool.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 11:39 AM
1

I am very extroverted If you view yourself as dominant, consider the possibility that others see what you call dominant as domineering. If you were considered to be fun, you'd be getting plenty of invites rather than having to chase for company.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 02:31 PM
1

She doesn't need to know how you feel about your body. Whether or not your looks are good enough is for her to work out for herself.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 02:01 PM
1

After 6 years, I'd guess that 'The Talk' has come up more than once. If she's starting to realise that you are never going to marry her, she will be pissed enough to treat you with contempt. (Any of her mates recently engaged or married?) If she does make it back into your favours, expect some serious 'good girlfriend' game with a view to matrimony on her part. If you have no plans to wife her up, be fair to both of you and let this be the end of it.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 01:10 PM
3

As always, it's supply and demand. Back when food was scarce, being fat was a sign of wealth and therefore desirable. A woman having pale skin was more valued when poor women had to work outdoors. Ladies would use a parasol during the summer to keep their complexion fair. These days, 'manly men' are in short supply. There is a small but growing trend of career women choosing an outdoors type man to settle down with.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 12:16 PM
1

If you had friends right now, how many hours a week would you spend socialising with them? That's how many hours a week you should be out and about talking to people. There are guys who could move to your area and know lots of people in a short time. Be one of those guys. Big cities have lonely guys who never learned to go sarging. 30k people or 3m people, they're still people.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 09:01 AM
2

Huge difference between crazy and nasty. I'm fine with crazy, it's nasty that I vet for. Easy to spot when people watching. There's the way retail staff and servers get treated etc. A big one for me is how they value their time compared to others. Guy in a hurry, she doesn't move and what would cost her 2 seconds delays him by 10 seconds or more. Red flag for me. Friends meet at a mall and start talking. Decent people will move to the side to continue their conversation. Potential nasties won't …
/r/askTRP12/10/19 07:57 AM
1

Her calling you a player is her playing you. Seems to be working for her so far.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 02:31 PM
8

That would be empathising with another persons problem. You're agreeing that their current situation sucks, which is true. It could be you that got fired for a bs reason and your friend would be the one showing empathy. I see that as sharing a difficult situation rather than sharing personal feelings. The closer the friendship, the more that gets shared. Within limits of course. Too little of that and we're heartless. Too much and we're chasing victim status. Like attracts like and the best way …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/19 12:57 PM
1

I’m struggling with the latter. imo, taking the scenic route should always be an option. Not saying it's the best option for you but it has it's compensations. There are guys who have dutifully followed their game plan, eg. law degree from Harvard, get in with a good firm, make partner by a certain age etc. Success by almost any metric and they're close to being burned out. Their hypothetical twin brother had a blast at college, did just enough to get their degree and now has a small law practic…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/19 11:36 AM
5

to express emotion is human Wanting to express emotion is natural. Curbing the desire to express personal emotions is part of being a grown up. People who are in control of whether they share their feelz or not are perceived as more likely to make correct decisions in tough situations.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/19 11:11 AM
5

Why would women be attracted to a feminine man? I can see why women would be attracted to a man with the balls to act feminine whenever they chose to. What % of gym rats would go out wearing makeup for a laugh? Or would they care too much about the reaction of other males?
/r/askTRP10/10/19 08:10 PM
1

For such behaviour to be universally repeated, it must be a survival tactic imo. Pre civilisation, women the same age as those in a ltr today would have had multiple children. There is a hormonal change in men when they become a father. Perhaps women instinctively expect that change to happen once their ltr is established?
/r/askTRP10/10/19 07:19 PM
1

Not uncommon with new guys fwir here. He'll be ok once he has learned to shrug his shoulders.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 03:30 PM
1

Take a bus ride in a busy area and sit by the window. Try to make eye contact with every adult female pedestrian that you can, attractive or not. Give them a smile and see if you get a smile back.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 02:39 PM
2

haven’t really “earned” climbing up the pecking order yet OP losing frame suggests that the guy has a point.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 02:29 PM
27

ime, long term abuse victims lose any concept of 'equal'. To them, a person is either a victim or an abuser, no half measures. Sweet girl, do anything for you blah blah. Time passes and the expected abuse doesn't come her way. That's when she flips and becomes the abuser. Happens with men too. Long time abused husband gets dumped, cries for his abuser. Recovers, gets a gf. She is not abusive. He becomes abusive towards her and treats her with contempt.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 11:00 AM
1

Used copies on Amazon are cheap enough.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 10:50 AM
0

When I Say No I Feel Guilty. It's about assertiveness training although the author does touch on making conversation. I think it's a good place to start because it could be unwise to increase your social circle if you're a soft touch or get upset when criticised.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 07:00 PM
2

There's plenty of stuff that I kinda know but couldn't explain simply. Once I've got a good enough grasp of the fundamentals to explain it to a layman, I feel like I do understand it. Teaching is the best way to learn.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 05:11 PM
1

Beware of being false flagged wrt your mission. I knew a guy that wanted to be a nuclear physicist. He was smart enough to become one sure enough. Family pressure had him become a doctor. Another guy I knew was a ski bum. Work was something he did to pay for the skiing. At the time I met him, he was earning huge, multiples of national average wage. He did once get sucked in by corporate and did a few years for a multinational as a troubleshooter. Then he remembered his mission was to ski and han…
/r/askTRP06/10/19 04:53 PM
3

<Is it worth sticking with this You already knew the answer to that before you posted the question. It is a sad fact of life that our best efforts are most needed when we really but really do not want to make that effort.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 04:28 PM
2

I've just come to a fucked up conclusion that 90% of the men on this planet if given unlimited sex and blowjobs from women, they wouldn't give a fuck about their lives. That's an astute conclusion rather than fucked up. Monogamy, or at least the illusion of it, is great for building empires. If we had a social structure like the Bonobos, where all females will put out to preserve group harmony, we'd get nothing done.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 04:00 PM
3

Men don't hit a wall, they fall into a ditch. With effort, they can climb out of it. Then comes another ditch. Then another. The best part is that there is always something we can do about it. The worst part is that there is always something we can do about it.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/19 03:21 PM
3

In my mid 40s, I dated a single mother who was 26 going on 14. Her being 14 between the ears made for wild sex but for non sex stuff she could be irritating in the extreme. I'd sometimes threaten to dump her for an older woman.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/19 03:16 PM
14

Stacey gets everything handed to her and very few of us are natural Chads and instead have to develop our inner Chad over many years. Similar happens to butterfaces. When Stacey drops something, there are guys clashing heads in their rush to help her. Butterface has no choice but to develop a personality or she stays invisible.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/19 03:05 PM
6

There's a story about the troubled soccer star George Best. No longer playing, he had just signed a very lucrative advertising deal, had a huge bet come in and was dating the current Miss World. An old Irish guy comes up to him and says: 'Georgie boy...why did it all go so wrong?'
/r/TheRedPill06/10/19 02:57 PM
2

I've seen guys who are socially awkward make that a part of their game. Not even an act, they're awkward, they own it and it works for them.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 09:16 AM
2

some times deep down i feel like i am not enogh. She won't know that unless you tell her.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 09:03 AM
4

Another group of people who need to be (politely) put in their place are disrespectful friends and family. They will assume that you being self employed means that your time has no value and is theirs to waste. A guy I knew had a niche biz making ultrasonic cleaners for jewellers etc. He paid a mate a small % of sales for the use of his garage as a workshop. He used to build them at home but he got tired of the 'honey do' interruptions.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/19 10:28 AM
2

that difference is why older guys can get 20ish girls while the 20s guys struggle. In the early days of the Rolling Stones, Bill Wyman got laid more often than Mick Jagger. Because he was about 7 years older than Mick and had more experience of being bold with the ladies.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 12:45 PM
5

Plenty of blue collar guys with fuck you money. I knew a taxi driver that owned 2 black cabs. One was rented out to a day and a night driver. The other he drove himself from 5am to about 2pm Monday to Friday and a mate of his rented it for the rest of the time. As well as the 2 cabs, his house was mortgage free and in his own words 'I am fireproof.'
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 12:12 PM
1

2) Just like "don't get married", don't take on a partner. I would qualify that by saying the big problem is with equal partnerships. An unequal partnership is way better imo. Both partners know their place in the hierarchy and what they are each responsible for. In effect, it is a captain/first mate dynamic.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 11:55 AM
5

More importantly, looking back, what caused your failures? I'm not the person you asked but was self employed from getting laid off in my late 20s until my retirement. Some basic rules to ignore at your peril: Keep your overheads as low as possible. Work 100% of your chosen hours. If it's quiet, work on drumming up business and/or preparing for future busy times. If a bank sees problems with your business plan, believe them. They have more experience than you in this. If a new client/customer ha…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 11:46 AM
2

If you are not enjoying the journey, you are doing something wrong.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 10:58 AM
1

Feeling bored is similar to feeling entitled. The world isn't good enough as is. Therefore the world must change to something that suits us better.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 10:15 AM
3

I'd call that hedonism rather than being alpha.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 09:39 AM
1

It's going to be near impossible for you to have an average life. However, your genetics won't stop you from having a brilliant life. You'll either do great or you'll do shit. All your dna has cost you is the option of being 'average'. Up to you whether that is a blessing or a curse.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 12:05 AM
1

Ask a woman or a gay guy to take you clothes shopping
/r/askTRP27/09/19 11:44 PM
1

Could it be that you are bored with your life rather than bored with her specifically?
/r/askTRP27/09/19 11:28 PM
3

I would recommend acting asexual for 6 months. Socialise as much as study allows but no trying to pull. Nervous guys forcing themselves to practice their game is courageous but there is the risk of coming across as a sperg or a creep. Get a bad rep early days of college and it will stick. Work at your studies and work at your socialising. You're not at a party to get drunk, you're there to work on building your social skills and building a useful network of guys for your post college days.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 10:57 PM
1

I liked 'How I Raised Myself From Failure to Success in Selling' by Frank Bettger.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 09:29 PM
9

Like golf and a few other sports, the more you want to win, the worse you play.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 07:55 PM
1

Can you plate these daddy issue women? Or too risky? Sexual attraction can get in the way of vetting. I'm asexual in thought and deed until I know if she's either nasty or nice. If she's naturally nice, I don't care how crazy she is.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 03:13 PM
5

but what about when you're 70? I'm pushing 70 and get IOIs now and then. The youngest this year looked to be early to mid 40s.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 09:15 AM
0

Dread game?
/r/askTRP22/09/19 09:51 AM
2

many people have attempted to build a legacy through children, and they always fail That's why the British upper class send their sons to public (fee paying) schools. If what the boy goes through is exactly the same as what his father and grandfathers experienced, the apple will fall closer to the tree.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 05:00 PM
1

The question was 'less ugly without the tattoo'. That applies to her imo.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 04:38 PM
27

While counting on your fingers and deep in thought... One...two...three...you...five...
/r/askTRP20/09/19 04:26 PM
1

show me a woman who would be UGLIER if not for her tattoos The only one I can think of is Tess Holiday. I've no interest in articles about her but sometimes shit happens and her pic is on the page. My eye is first caught by her tats rather than her figure.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 02:46 PM
1

Instead of a night out being 100% socialising, make it 80% social, 20% work.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 03:55 PM
2

Rallying the troops. Was at a social evening and the hostess was the nervous type wrt to entertaining. She started to freak out a bit before everything was ready and her husband started DEERing. It went as you'd expect. The 2 of them in the kitchen talking in audibly loud 'whispers'. A dgaf guest turns up. Takes him less than a minute to see what's happening. He charges into the kitchen and starts bossing her about. 'Where's my food?' 'I'm your guest, you're supposed to feed me.' 'Open the fridg…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/19 03:35 PM
1

Many vitamin and mineral deficiencies can be solved by eating liver on the regular. I can't stand the taste either but it's the cheapest 'feel good'* food out there. 2.5oz a week is adequate for an adult male. fwir, eating too much of it (why???) can cause insomnia. Too much iron or summat? idk. *Feeling good for the hours between the eating of liver. :) You can get desiccated liver pills if you prefer to spend a few $ rather than taste the stuff. You might not have a deficiency problem but it's…
/r/askTRP14/09/19 12:21 PM
1

Eye contact. This. 2 guys, one is a gym rat and ripped but he can't handle eye contact. The other guy can do eye contact all day long but has a sedentary lifestyle. Which guy gets laid the most?
/r/askTRP13/09/19 10:10 PM
1

What are some good ways to deal with this shit? It sounds like she is already dealing with it just fine. She doesn't respond to them and she shows you her phone so not trying to hide anything. What if she hadn't shown you any of them? How would you feel if you only found out about the messages much later?
/r/askTRP13/09/19 09:21 PM
4

Don’t. Listen. To. Girls. 1st shrink: Wow you look just as young as when we qualified 30 years ago. Look at me, I'm old before my time from listening to my patients problems. 2nd shrink: You listen to them?
/r/TheRedPill13/09/19 07:57 PM
1

starts dropping rapidly in higher socio-economic brackets That was her family. Her father was a retired general.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 07:42 PM
1

The impression I got from her was only a small % of Russian men were moderate drinkers. The rest were either teetotal or drank every day if they could afford to. Was funny when I told her that occasionally dancing with someone elses partner at a social function was acceptable here in the UK. She was shocked.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 04:14 PM
1

I had a Russian pen friend about 25 years ago. She told me that many of her friends would like to marry a westerner but continue living in Russia. It was the values of a western man that they wanted, not his passport. Leads me to think that Russian men are poor husband material.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 03:15 PM
2

It's the damned Protestant work ethic. Everything should be hard work. Easy isn't virtuous. Making a lot of money quickly doesn't feel right if you're still suffering from the work ethic. It's very difficult to turn it off. Even though you do not have to work, you took a job because 'it was a good opportunity'. Meaning a work ethic opportunity that gets you more income or experience that will get you a better income. Like you need a better income. In your situation, a better opportunity would be…
/r/askTRP13/09/19 02:53 PM
1

I'm pretty sure being disabled would be worse I once worked in a factory with a wheelchair user. It when Polaroid cameras became affordable and he got invited to a lot of parties. His party trick was convincing women to get their kit off and do some porn.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 02:31 PM
1

Stop caring about why she's into you, it doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 10:08 AM
5

As well as the degree, college is for building a network. Need to talk to people for that.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 11:31 AM
29

There's an old saying: When poverty comes through the door, love flies out of the window.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 06:56 AM
4

The light switch effect is completely incomprehensible to us men. Plenty of hypergamy with sports pros. Player goes from team A to team B because $$$. Happens all the time.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 06:54 AM
2

A lot of church girls are slutty. When I was a young barman, the hotel had a Welsh drinks waiter of at least 70. He must have been born ~1900 or earlier. He talked of his home village where church on Sunday was a big thing. During the service, he'd be exchanging glances with different girls. After church, he'd be fucking one of them. Often on church grounds.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 05:27 PM
1

When on the taxis, and taking people home from a night out, I saw that loads. The fat guys that pulled were always smartly dressed. The scuffy guys that pulled were never fat.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 05:20 PM
1

That's all they've got. It's either talk about the cocaine of yesterday or their minimum wage job of today.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 09:01 PM
4

i used to do drugs. i still do, but i used to also. That joke used to be funny. It still is funny but it used to be funny also.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 08:58 PM
1

its starting to stress me out That's one of the ironies of life. The more you want to win, the worse you play.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 04:37 PM
22

If you can't handle me at my worst... ...It's because I'm nowhere near as hot as Marilyn Munroe.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/08/19 03:41 PM
3

As a guy, you just have to be the best she can get. A friend bought a hobby farm in Normandy, I've stayed there a few times. It's so rural that the neighbouring farmer has never left his small village, no need. The one and only shop/gas station was run by an older couple. When they got married, she was a widow and he was a widower. Him 6'3" and her 5'1". He was the only middle aged widower and she was the only middle aged widow, it was taken for granted that they would get hitched.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 10:23 AM
2

they are putting themselves in a subservient position I watched an interview with a British woman who had won Stripper of the Year twice in a row. She was asked what she liked most about stripping: 'Being in a room full of men knowing that for 10 minutes, I own every single one of them.' Do male strippers feel the same sense of control?
/r/askTRP23/08/19 07:47 PM
1

any alternatives? Liver pills. Dried and ground liver in capsules, can be bought or make your own.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/19 09:34 AM
3

How do I get this in my diet Eat 3 or 4 ounces of liver a week.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/19 06:14 PM
51

Lack of zinc can cause ED. Oysters have lots of zinc. Hence oysters getting the reputation of being a cock lifter.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/19 06:12 PM
2

Ever see a child want a toy for no other reason than another child is playing with that toy?
/r/askTRP22/08/19 05:59 PM
6

A common problem that those women talk about is how to get their man to become their leader without directly telling him to be their leader.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 05:56 PM
1

There are guys with the same condition as you getting laid on the regular.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 05:18 PM
8

Some of the women there know what's what. I thought this quote from WRP summed it up nicely: A woman wants an awesome man who treats her good enough. A man wants a woman who is good enough and treats him awesome.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 04:06 PM
30

If a woman joins a chess club to find a mate, the odds are good but the goods are odd.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 04:01 PM
2

The Richest Man in Babylon: It came out as a series of articles giving common sense financial advice during the Great Depression. Set in ancient Babylon to show that the fundamentals are always the same. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ehCVLRHOxBY&t=389s imo, it's better read than listened to but hey, free is free. The tl;dr (or tl;dl?) is: Pay yourself first. Put 10% of your take home into a deposit account every payday and learn to manage on what's left.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 09:34 AM
8

If a crime is committed, ignore the ideology and treat the perp as a criminal because that's what they are.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/08/19 09:14 AM
0

Give up any thought of having sex for half a year. By acting asexual, any creepy vibe is gone. Talk to everyone, incuding the fugly girls and the socially awkward dorks. Doesn't have to be long convos, just enough for them to feel better for having had a chat with you. That will show that you are approachable. (Who wants to stroke a very nervous dog?) Won't be long before you get IOIs.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 03:57 PM
1

Join a chess club.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 03:36 PM
4

he's an eleven. Eleven plus million in assets.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 10:21 AM
1

Any suggestions on how to fix this? Talk to everyone. Especially old ladies. Keep it brief and practice leaving them on a high note. You might talk to someone who feels just like you and they'll be pleased that somebody took the trouble to talk to them.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 10:17 AM
4

The law of diminishing returns. It might come as a shocking revelation that the emperor wears no clothes but after the shock has subsided, the emperor being naked is as routine as Tuesday following Monday. Where this place shines imo, is that posters can get honest feedback. To long term regulars, it can be like re reading FAQs every visit. I take note of the changes in questions/statements. A few years ago, a high % of posts said that looks were everything. Now, not so much. Confidence is pushe…
/r/askTRP14/08/19 08:58 AM
3

I steadily lost weight on a carnivore diet. No starving myself, I ate when I was hungry. No exercise either although I did become a bit more active when the feelgood side effect of the diet kicked in.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/08/19 12:09 PM
5

A guy I knew was adapt at 'sarging'. Way before the net and sarging wasn't a term then. When in a new location, a 5 minute message would take him at least half an hour as he would try and chat with everyone he met. Within a week or so, he had met almost all the locals and knew who could be useful to him. He stayed polite with the also-rans, usually a wave and a Hi! as he kept walking.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 11:33 AM
0

Going carnivore worked for me. It's not for everyone but you won't know until you try it for a few months.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 09:24 AM
7

Now you know how the butterface girls feel.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 08:59 AM
2

You're apolitical so tell her that.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 08:26 AM
1

No need to fake it. Women don't value a mans looks anywhere near as much as men value a womans looks. They value confidence. They view a lack of confidence in a man the way we view surplus weight on a woman.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 12:55 PM
2

I've been carnivore for about a year and feel great on it. Never going back to plant food. Even though I have a sedentary lifestyle it's expensive. I spend £50+ a week on pork and beef. I'm going to start making pemmican. Not just for snack food when I'm out and about but if I can cope with living on pemmican alone, it will halve my food bill.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 11:03 AM
1

Try this: First thing every morning, write down 3 things for you to accomplish that day. Keep it easy to start with. Three 5 to 15 minute tasks to get you in the habit of achieving 3 goals per day.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 10:50 AM
13

I've seen that happen too. The fugly does the cool gf thing and the low confidence guy is flattered enough to wife her up. After a few years, she starts believing that she could have done better and goes into shrew mode.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 09:49 AM
1

She just KNEW she was gonna take some. Sharing cuttings is a thing with plant lovers. I've never met one that wasn't willing to share cuttings.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 12:59 PM
2

Women are empathic and when a guy feels insecure or ill at ease, they feel some of it too. Guys that own being bald/short/ugly don't give off insecure vibes and women respond accordingly.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 02:25 PM
1

About the time I discovered TRP, I was reading (once again,) 'Kim' by Rudyard Kipling. The penny dropped. TRP is The Great Game. We are spies. Act accordingly.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 08:55 PM
1

i wasted so much time trying so hard That time wasn't wasted...IF...you have learned from it. It's the same for most endeavours. Look at the effort spent by an experienced swimmer or driver. They spend the minimum effort that gets the job done. Even when racing, no wasted effort. Then look at a learner, doing too much and trying to make things happen by a sheer act of will. Accept that you are doing to be on the clumsy side while learning new skills. I don't know who I am That's because you aren…
/r/askTRP10/07/19 04:40 PM
2

Plenty of people with the same problem as you. They tend to look for ways to be less stressed when taking the test. I disagree with that for safety reasons. The examiner sees your worst driving and that's how it should be imo. Do you want others to be given a licence if their worst driving is as bad as your worst driving? Once you do get your licence, there will come a time when you are really stressed out for whatever reason and need to drive. Everybody else wants your stressed out driving skil…
/r/askTRP08/07/19 12:56 PM
1

You know that you have to leave, so the reason you posted is for advice on how best to do that? I can't see it being in your best interests to bugger off right now. Plan ahead. Treat it like planning a divorce. Make a plan, set a time frame. Find somewhere to hide your assets. Increase those assets by going monk mode. Get familiar with areas you might want to live. Knowing that you will be out in x months should help take away most of the angst. No need to get ratty when you get shit on again, y…
/r/askTRP07/07/19 09:16 AM
2

Many years ago I had a part time job canvassing door to door. One of the women I worked with used to be married to a workaholic. She got tired of never seeing him and they divorced. I met the new guy she lived with. Decent guy, easy going, good company etc. Her deal for him moving in with her was that he didn't get a job. He seemed to enjoy being a kept man. Takes all sorts. I guess it's down to whatever you bring to the table that she wants. Must be plenty of women that would enjoy having a suc…
/r/askTRP06/07/19 12:24 PM
3

If the authors worked in sales, they would each have different ways of getting their results. If you find an author who speaks to you, then you can learn from them. Mark Manson may have a different definition of vulnerable than most. Then again, it's said that a bit of BP has to be mixed in if you want a successful ltr. If you never want a ltr, it doesn't matter, be as invulnerable as you want.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 01:22 PM
1

You may be asexual, or lean towards asexual.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 12:44 PM
1

Well at least she doesn't hate you. Otherwise you would have been one of the first to know and after encouraging a lot of drama, she gets to tell tales of how bigoted her father is. imo, she wants your approval but she feels that she can't communicate with you. She has assumed your reaction and is trying to avoid drama. Let her know that you will support her no matter what.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 09:40 AM
1

A cheaper alternative: Find some bs that has you make a work/business trip for a week to her home town. Invite her along so that she can visit her mother. As soon as she is at her mothers, return home and change the locks. If she doesn't have much stuff there, mail it to her mother. Otherwise have her stuff put into storage for 2 months and email her the location details and combo. No further contact.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 01:01 PM
1

How so? To me, it's reporting on the UK is the least biased I can find.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/19 12:35 PM
1

What could you spend that money on that would give you more pleasure than seeing the back of her?
/r/askTRP29/06/19 12:17 PM
0

Find a reasonably cheap place to rent, preferably furnished. Give her some bs as to why you need to move. Have her sign the lease because it's her turn. Pay a few months rent in advance. Psuedo move into the new apartment with her. Change the locks on your current apartment. Break up with her. Go home.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 11:04 AM
1

I used to have a weekly poker game. Once a month or so, a gf of one of them would attend. Without fail, each woman planning on attending would call me first to ask who else would be there. If they knew that they would be the only woman there, they'd be dressed down, no make up. If more than one woman, they'd all be smart casual and wearing some make up.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 10:55 AM
-2

You missed a 'lol incest joke'.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 10:14 PM
-7

Pillow talk with a gf: Her: what am I like in bed? Me: You're better than my mother. Her: And how would you know that? Me: Your father told me.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 09:40 PM
6

imo, it's the repeated meetings. There's dating advice about keep changing the venue. Some brain stuff about us having to re-evaluate our situation every time we change locale. Helps explain why people can walk into another room and forget what they went there to get. She sees a new guy, work, club or wherever and she starts vetting. Is he dangerous? Will he hurt me? Not paranoia, she's being wary just in case. Next locale, or next day at work, same questions but the answer lies a little bit mor…
/r/askTRP19/06/19 12:30 PM
2

I'm into film cameras. Convos can start when people see that it's a film camera hanging from my neck. I didn't get into it for social reasons, I like film cameras, always have. Sometimes I give prints to people I have photographed. That always goes down well. Those that always carry a camera when out and about, (not me btw,) can become minor celebs in their neck of the woods. Going by the photography forums, the camera that gets the most convos is a Rollei TLR. Anyone that got married before the…
/r/askTRP15/06/19 11:25 AM
3

The best relationships I've had were with girls on the game. The first was a neighbour. She was very good at sucking the last banknote out of my wallet. I was on sickness benefit at the time so poor. Better to be broke and laid than broke and incel. When I was out of cash, she fucked me anyway. She spent a lot of time with me, I think she may have caught feelings. Lost touch when I moved. The 2nd, I picked up one xmas eve, crack whore but looked passable. Was only intending a one off, crimbo pre…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/19 03:45 PM
16

Calculating the square root of 2 usually worked for me.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 01:24 PM
2

I was thinking that too. $4.4b for 3.4b viewers = $1.29 per viewer. $131m for 750m viewers = $0.17 per viewer.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/06/19 03:12 PM
2

Woman giving sex = man giving resources. (Resources includes time and attention.) A female slut gives her sex for no resources in return. A male slut gives his resources for no sex in return. Women value male sluts similar to how men value female sluts.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 09:50 AM
2

It depends. Only you know how badly she might take it if it is her that catches feelings and you don't. If your breakup was amicable enough, it can be a win win. Any jelly either of you had has gone now, it doesn't matter. If both of you know enough about each other to see no future in a relationship together but the sex was good, then why not?
/r/askTRP10/06/19 07:55 AM
2

Some women like to have an ex available for nsa sex when in between relationships. I know that you shouldn't go back... but if there is no relationship, just sex, then you haven't gone back imo.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 05:29 PM
2

I know this has worked at least once. ymmv Using either her language dictionary or a translate app, sit beside her and show her the word 'Princess' and smile. When (if?) she responds by showing you the word 'Prince', look sad and shake your head. Then show her the word 'Frog'.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 12:42 PM
2

aka a sportsmans double.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 01:43 PM
1

I used to make a white wine from tinned peaches. One month for the ferment to complete then run it through a Harris Quickfine filter. Dirt cheap. I'd turn up at a party/social gathering with 3 x 1.5 litre soda bottles of surprisingly drinkable plonk.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 11:55 AM
18

I've known single guys that slip on a wedding ring when they go clubbing.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/19 06:45 PM
3

My ex wife had a recurring problem with a male neighbour. I'd offered to sort him out but she asked me not to interfere so I didn't. The problem got worse and one night she called me for help. I sorted it out. Two access visits later, she started treating me like shit. My guess is that some women don't like feeling that they owe a specific guy. The nastiness is her saying 'I owe you nothing shithead'.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 08:33 AM
1

treat them as you would a stranger, or a friend of a friend. That's what the neutrals want. My bro had a bad falling out with a guy in the same social circle. Bro couldn't let it go. Much to the annoyance of me and others. Whenever the other guy was around, bro was bristling like an angry cat. Doesn't make for a fun evening. The other guy was cool and didn't do anything to make the neutrals uncomfortable.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 07:21 AM
3

Ltrs dont last of you don't give in some way Or put another way, LTRs don't last unless she thinks that you are giving in in some way.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 09:12 PM
3

I'm not about to validate her for free by complimenting her back Why not? It costs you nothing and it gets the ball rolling. When young, I heard it said that the best part of being old is that you can be wicked with far more self confidence. Now that I'm older, that is true enough. I got an ioi at the bus stop, a few hours later, we're fucking. Is it some game where the fuck doesn't count if she initiated? We fucked. Who cares who gave the first ioi?
/r/askTRP02/06/19 09:00 PM
1

There are guys about your age that have never needed or even heard of TRP, they're naturals. In theory, you and them can get equally hurt by Cupids BP arrow. In practice, you know that it can happen and are wary. They have no idea and if/when it happens, they'll be crushed. One guy I knew had a talent for exploiting women. They'd think there was something in it for them, exotic holiday in x months etc. Never happened. One woman thought she was going to get a passport marriage out of him and she …
/r/askTRP01/06/19 10:30 PM
0

Perhaps a bit more humour in dealing with the shit tests would help reduce the tears?
/r/askTRP01/06/19 08:52 AM
2

I’m looking for a way to display my wealth Travel to events that you are interested in and live a little. If you're going there anyway, it won't cost much more to have her tag along. Gives her bragging rights when talking to her mates..
/r/askTRP31/05/19 10:01 PM
3

To paraphrase Jane Austen: It is a truth universally acknowledged, that a single man in possession of good study habits, must be in want of a wife.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 08:01 PM
1

Check out 'Mind Maps' and Tony Buzan. Might help you set things out in a way that suits you better. Might not apply to you but 2 food types that have been reported to give brain fog are pork and dairy. I'm fine with pork but feel better after eliminating dairy.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 07:53 PM
1

A heartbroken girl still wants sex. What she (usually) doesn't want is to do the head over heels stuff. Not yet anyway. She finds a fairly decent fuckable guy that she sees no future in. No future = safe. He'll do until she's ready for a real relationship. A guy her type shows up and hey presto she is ready to commit again.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 07:14 PM
2

Some of the happiest people I know are dumb as fuck. Too much choice can be paralysing. Like when teacher tells the class to write an essay on a specific subject. No problem, the assignment gets done. Teacher asks for an essay on whatever subject you like...getting started is a real problem. Supermarkets have discovered this. Giving the customer a large range of a certain product often leads to less sales than if there was only a choice of two or three. Simplify by cutting down on your choices. …
/r/askTRP31/05/19 07:02 PM
1

We shall find out who is thirsty when the Jaguar drinks.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 05:43 PM
1

it's only when you are able to lead yourself, that you can lead others You don't have to lead just because you can. No harm in mostly going with the flow. Big difference between being dominant and being domineering.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 05:02 PM
2

I don't want all of my ~3 years of time to go to waste therefore I want to extract the last bit of value from her. Your ~3 years has zero value, it has already been spent. If I spend money every week at a burger joint for ~3 years, do they owe me free food? You said yourself that it was a quid pro pro arrangement of mutual validation. That she got the better of the deal is on you. You got something. Accept that and move on. The only way that you can extract anything from her imo is to use her fo…
/r/askTRP31/05/19 12:05 PM
27

I know a "Jim". When he met HHW (hard headed woman) he was unemployed and living in social housing. No bedroom furniture, just a mattress on the floor. He takes up with HHW and the next thing you know, they've rented a nice flat. Furnished on the never never. A few years later, he has a wife, a son, a commission only job and a mortgage. He was running round like a blue arsed fly to cover the bills. He's retired now. Has a large garage to play in and he potters about maintaining his VW campers. N…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/19 09:12 AM
2

As the saying goes, be careful what you wish for. There is a downside to having the power in a relationship. The one with the power can have an empty feeling.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 09:00 AM
4

Use your car as a filter. Those that give negative comments on your car have told you that they're not really worth knowing.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 09:48 AM
1

Not for me, I coasted and in BP terms, it just happened. Other peoples kids can be good fun. Their parents see them every day. Friends of the family see time lapse snapshots of them. Being a favourite uncle is cool job. No paternal responsibilities, set boundaries and allow them total freedom within those boundaries.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 09:16 AM
1

Women are a complication and kids are a real pain when they get to their angsty teens. Access visits worked out well for me. Get to see the best of them and let their mother handle most of the angst. Then have a beer with them once in a while when they're adult.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 12:30 AM
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When I can't look after myself any more, I've told my kids to park me in a 3rd world brothel.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 10:24 PM
2

With shy girls, it can take 6 months to find out who they are. Be wary of projecting what you want her to be.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 10:50 AM
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Not a physical disability then or manual labour would be off the table. Many people don't realise how much money can be earned from trades and manual labour. There's the joke about 3 brothers who became plumbers. The 4th brother became a doctor. They refer to the 4th brother as the poor relation. With the trades, including basic manual labour, if you don't plan ahead, you can end up physically fucked. Followed by financially fucked. That's where the challenge is imo. You don't need to be best or…
/r/askTRP28/05/19 10:24 AM
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A newspaper cartoon I saw in my teens has stayed with me: Nice sunny day, old couple relaxing in deck chairs outside a picturesque bungalow. She says to him: 'Now that we've got the rose covered cottage of our dreams, what do we do now?'
/r/askTRP28/05/19 01:38 AM
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You don't need to be like him. It's true that you can advance by being a dick but ime, being a dick limits how far you can advance. I've known guys that were dicks, selfish or greedy etc. and they plateau early. Our faults limit us. Common sense should tell us that improving our life involves improving ourselves. Being timid to assholes is a fault. You need to take some responsibility for what happened. He gave you red flag after red flag.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 11:13 PM
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Plenty of lying women in non arranged marriages. Lying men too. Worst case scenario imo is that you begrudgingly submit to marriage and that resentment becomes passive aggressive behavior. A miserable life for both you and your wife. If you're going to do it, do it wholeheartedly. After all, the poor girl has to put up with you. :)
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/19 10:30 AM
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I think that you're missing the point. It's not you that arranges the marriage, it's your parents. They will be trying to get the best match for you. If she's a dog, then you're no catch either or they'd find a hottie for you. Do you trust your parents decision making? If yes, then accept the woman fully and ignore any past she may have had. If no, then toughen up because there's going to be sparks when you tell them no marriage.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/19 09:34 AM
1

Being blessed with the lazy gene, I used to take advantage of 'need to be quiet' situations and go full passive. Me starfish, she busy busy.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 09:18 AM
2

Like a girl is going to admit that she's a lousy fuck. She said that to make it your fault.
/r/askTRP26/05/19 01:52 PM
2

Nice guy doing his covert whoremongering with his crush might get the same negative emotions as a client treating a whore like a piece of meat. I'd end up BP with normal [sic] women but did fine with crazies/whores. Not RP as such, just me being me and them finding that to be perfectly acceptable. Maybe I saw the whores as equals and the normals as above me?
/r/askTRP24/05/19 08:42 PM
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It's a good time to be a little bit beta imo. Says she: 'My man is so soft and vulnerable...for about 20 minutes after I've fucked his brains out.'
/r/askTRP23/05/19 05:57 PM
1

People don't remember what you said to them first meeting. They do remember how you made them feel. Chicks love me until we debate See, you remember how she made you feel. Chicks love me until we debate What was that saying about insanity and repetition? Being good at debating is a valuable skill. That proves you can be clever. Of even more value is knowing when to avoid a debate. That proves you have wisdom.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 10:00 AM
2

Has anyone ever changed their mind because they lost a debate? Cathy Newman got fucking destroyed by Dr Jordan Peterson. I watched her next interview. She went straight into pushing her agenda. Including the wage gap myth which JP tore apart. As said, little truth bombs. If you get asked, in a neutral tone, 'How come...?' (to do with some illogical belief that you have,) there may come a time when you hear the same illogical belief expressed by another. You'll will be temped to ask 'How come...?…
/r/askTRP23/05/19 09:05 AM
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WISNIFG
/r/askTRP22/05/19 04:43 PM
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If the game isn't worth the candle, people stop playing. Who is it that has stopped playing? The spinsters, the bachelors or the parents? My guess is the parents. Otherwise their kids would be driven crazy with non stop settle down talk. Is there some kind of traditional dowry or bride price? A certain level of wealth to qualify one as eligible?
/r/askTRP21/05/19 02:17 PM
1

The importance of being able to make small talk is vastly underestimated by those that can't do it.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 12:25 PM
1

After exploring many options, it occurred to me that women would be royally fucked if men had zero chivalry to them. I came up with a scenario where he develops an at home income that allows him to be a stay at home father. She sallies forth and builds her career because women really can have it all. If/when it goes sour, it is obvious that he is the primary carer. (That was the plan.) He gets the house and primary custody. He might even get alimony and child support.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 11:31 PM
1

Wow! I was just about to ask why you are such a loner.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 06:41 PM
1

I was like that in my early 20s. Plenty of fist fights because jealously. Being primarily attracted to fun loving divorcees didn't help. I see it as an adult puppet having strings pulled by their child master. Can't cut the string if you can't see it. Can't see the string if you don't look for it. With regular introspection, I linked almost every jealous over reaction of mine to a matching childhood emotion. Some major stuff, some minor stuff too. Aged 8 or 9 I got grounded for something I didn'…
/r/askTRP19/05/19 05:32 PM
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It had happened before. I was 15 when I reacted to it and started punching him. He never fought back, just as well as I was giving away a lot of weight. Things calmed down for a while. About 6 months later, she started goading him hard and I could tell he was about to lose it. As I walked into the kitchen, I saw ma move her head closer to the open window so the neighbours could hear how abused she was. I left them to it after that.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 09:44 AM
1

Prior abuse can show similar behaviour. It becomes binary, there are victims and there are abusers. Mutually exclusive and nothing in between. If she starts off as victim, she aims to please. Lack of abuse, including withdrawal of affection, from him means he must be the victim and she swaps roles to keep it binary. If he shows teeth enough, she goes back to victim mode. Until he goes soft again.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/19 10:45 PM
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The question I have to ask is WHY? I managed to tear myself away from an ltr like that. Life was bland for some years after. Have forgotten the bad stuff but the good stuff? Oh my, she spoiled me for other women.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/19 10:25 PM
2

i even had 2-3 girls interested in being friends but thats it. That's it because you quit.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 10:27 AM
4

Bar flies are mostly males that only hang out with other bar fly males.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 09:06 AM
7

With a big smile: 'Thanks for giving me a lift guys!'
/r/askTRP11/05/19 10:48 AM
1

Let it him get on with it. At some point in time, he is going to be telling you what a cunt she is.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 10:31 AM
13

Take the average smv of the last 4 women to give you ioi and add 2.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 10:00 AM
1

I've seen it loads. Always a different story when the Jaguar comes to drink. iow, they will act differently when tshtf. Let them have their fun. They know it's a lie, you know it's a lie. As said before, nobody is thirsty when the Jaguar comes to drink. Except you of course.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 07:48 PM
5

I am really not that good at screening for crazies I've had relationships with lots of crazies and it is not the crazy that is the problem, it's the nasty. Learn to spot the nasty early on because plenty of 'normal' people can be nasty once they believe that they can get away with it. Think of meeting someone new as a job interview and you are the employer. How will they treat subordinates? Do they value a strangers time? How well can they handle things not going their way? It's your life and it…
/r/askTRP09/05/19 07:38 PM
4

Girl power bravado bullshit.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 06:00 PM
1

The sad part is that before discovering PUA, his wish was to meet a sweet girl and settle down with her. Some years later, he falls in love with a South American girl. He chose his fans over her and now he's crying a river.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 09:44 AM
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The problem is when I try to escalate to something as relationship they step back. Stop trying so hard. They prefer to win a prize rather than be given a freebie. While moving towards a relationship at her pace, you should be vetting her hard. In alternative universes, you are slowly becoming unhinged because you entered a relationship without carefully vetting her. Think of those that stepped back as bullets dodged.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 07:03 AM
1

I learned the term from 'When I Say No I Feel Guilty'. A brick gets thrown at the fog and it doesn't bounce back. Some things said to you are true and other things are false. Done correctly, it is neutral, you neither attack nor defend. 'You're late!' Yes, I'm late. 'You're a lunatic!' What makes you think that I'm a lunatic? It pairs well with Broken Record. Use this when someone keeps saying 'You're late!' (or whatever) trying to get a different reply from you, you repeat your 1st reply like a…
/r/askTRP30/04/19 02:13 PM
1

Get an acoustic guitar and mess about with it whenever you're bored.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 10:51 AM
1

If she is BPD or not is irrelevant. It works like this: Without her/before you met her/whatever, your quality of life was X. There you are, living an X life. She turns up, your quality of life is now X plus ?. Then she turns bandit. Your quality of life is now X minus ?. Who cares why or how, you were better off before you met her, time to dump. Pay yourself first.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 07:49 PM
1

There is a quote of Freud on the lines of: 'If men really knew what women were thinking, they would be ten times bolder.' Get that? You are one tenth of what a woman wants you to be.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 05:36 PM
1

I know a Sperg that has great autist game. He is asexual so he plays just for a laugh. He delights in telling tales of women hitting on him. Typical British dry humour: 'Oh that dark road looks interesting' says she, he does his Sperg routine and they don't venture down lovers lane. He gets his rocks off telling such tales as if he didn't know what the fuck was going on.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 05:28 PM
0

Another guy seldom mentioned as a womaniser is Mussolini. Short and a face that scared children. Before coming to power, he was having an affair with a married woman. He got the hots for her one night and climbed into her bedroom. Dragged her out of bed and fucked her on the floor while her husband was sleeping in bed.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 05:19 PM
1

When on the taxis, I had many regulars who were long term married. Some seemed 'accepting of their lot in life'. Not miserable but not radiating happiness either. A few couples were still really into each other. I did notice that with the 'obviously happy' couples, the man was dressed dapper. Smart casual during the day, suit and tie when taking her out in the evening. Kinda reassuring to see a woman 'miring her husband of 40+ years.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 04:02 PM
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<the guy a hundred feet over is 6'5" 200+ and is shy and unconfident af. To woman, that guy can be perceived as dangerous. Women have plenty of stories about a 'nice guy' that turned bandit when he got rejected. Bigger the guy, the bigger the (perceived) danger. With a confident guy, she knows that he can handle rejection and won't give her any stalker type problems as he will simply move on.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 10:00 AM
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I certainly don't want the guilt of... That's how 'New Girlfriend' game works. She's good at it isn't she?
/r/askTRP22/04/19 12:56 PM
5

The female equivalent of a 'nice guy' covert contract. I put out, therefore you owe me.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 12:48 PM
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Once you stop caring about the glasses, she won't care either.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 12:43 PM
2

she treats me like a god That's 'New Girlfriend' game. Once you've been love bombed enough, you'll learn who she really is. Enjoy the ride and bail the moment it stops being enjoyable.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 12:28 PM
1

'Just be yourself' is good advice. People in your position mistakenly take it to mean keep being the you that you are right now. That's not the real you. That's the fucked up version of you. Start becoming the you that you would like to be. If you can imagine it, it is possible. Maybe unlikely or even improbable but we don't have fantasies about our future that are not possible. Hardest part I guess will be getting out of your comfort zone. It's going to be nerve wracking but no promised land if…
/r/askTRP22/04/19 11:13 AM
1

if that same thing was said to someone else it wouldn't bother them. Sometimes it hurts like fuck but stoicism comes into play and they seem to shrug it off. Observers might think the guy is made of stone but he is flesh and blood like the rest of us.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 10:42 AM
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Don't assume that you are the only ex that she has contacted recently.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 01:13 PM
1

Get him a copy of 'When I Say No I Feel Guilty'. Basic assertiveness training.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 07:50 AM
2

You're doing well. Many guys your age still haven't woken up. Some are in prison. Some are married to a physco and fearful for their childrens welfare. Some are very very good at video games but nothing else. Some will wake up after they get divorce raped. Some will never wake up. Now that you know how unforgiving a minute can be, do something.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 07:01 AM
2

So I'm over relationships, or at least ones that don't give me everything I fucking want from them. I'm over relationships but if a unicorn shows up...
/r/askTRP18/04/19 07:48 PM
1

This might interest you: The Biology of Dads. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XFA1ZDqgpEI&t=173s
/r/askTRP15/04/19 08:27 PM
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If you want a family, the top priority is her qualities as a mother. No matter how well or badly the future turns out, not much else matters long term. Must be horrible for those fathers sacrificing their happiness by staying with a bad mom in order to minimise the damage done to their children. Sounds like you are about to learn that the hard way. 27 is baby rabies territory. Such women are usually totally charming. Until they've got the baby, then they revert to type. Yours is showing red flag…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/19 11:19 AM
1

Back in my early 20s, I managed to get what every BP boy needs. A gf that his mother thoroughly disapproves of. :) She was older, a divorced mother and her trips round the block had her addicted to booze and prescription meds. Nowadays, I'd guess that she would be diagnosed as bipolar. Loved her bone deep but couldn't handle that type of life. Was a long running on/off thing. Now that I'm an old fart and she has been dead for 25 years or so, I find myself reminiscing. When viewed through a RP le…
/r/askTRP14/04/19 09:17 AM
3

WISNIFG: Simple and easy to learn techniques that help you become immune to the criticism of others. The Richest Man in Babylon: Basic financial advice that can vastly improve your future.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 06:08 AM
1

London would be a good place to start imo. When working there I stayed in an Aussie run backpacker hostel in Bayswater. Lots of travelers tales. World travel is part of Aussie culture and they've got it sussed.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 10:14 AM
1

How does one deal with the simultaneous feelings of faking it but not having “made it” 'Faking it...' isn't fully accurate but concision rules and we're stuck with the word. What are you faking? If you're faking being Brad Pitt, good luck with that. If you're faking being you when the fuck up version of you is on a break, that's more like it imo. 'This is the me I am capable of being'. If you are capable of becoming that guy, then it isn't really fake. It's a demo of what you are working towards…
/r/askTRP08/04/19 08:24 AM
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I’ve wanted a family All that really matters imo is that she will always try to be a good mother to your children, no matter what. When it comes to mothering qualities, women are not all the same.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 09:47 AM
1

A lot of them have extreme spite and rage for all women and their ways. iow, giving up on TRP while still in the anger phase. imo, you can't be angry AND mgtow. Choose your path, stop giving a fuck about the validation of others and live your life as you see fit. If you are genuinely doing that, you have some attraction to some women and you won't have to try that hard to get laid. My path is to have the most pleasant life possible for the least effort. I'm doing well by my definition.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 12:08 PM
2

As long as she isn't nasty, I don't much care how crazy she is. We're given all kinds of clues as to whether she's nasty or nice. How they treat servers and other retail staff. How much respect does she show for other peoples time etc. eg. Waiting at the bus stop the other week. She was medium height and a UK size 10. At least 15 years younger than me. (I'm late 60s.) She stood right in the middle of the gap between the side of the bus shelter and the wall, looking in the direction the bus would…
/r/askTRP31/03/19 06:53 PM
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I've been mgtow for over 20 years and no complaints. The whiners are incels that call themselves mgtow. Men going their own way. If a guy wants to get laid on the regular but it isn't happening, then he isn't going his way is he? The moment they start whining, they are men going the incel way.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 06:03 PM
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I was some sort of hero just because I didn't whine or pity myself. All those old movies where their man ignores his wounds and fights off the enemy. Battle won, she tends to him. He howls like a baby when the Iodine is applied. She witnessed you be tougher than John Wayne.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 04:53 PM
3

I used to have long hair. 6 foot and enough bulk to look as if I have muscle. I moved to a rougher area. Fist fights with the neighbours rough. Long hair doesn't go with fighting so I cut it short. With my hair too short to grab, I got less shit from the scallies. Didn't have another fight in the remaining 2 years I was there. With long hair, people can think, often wrongly, that you will back off from a fight. With short hair, you look as if you might be able to handle yourself and get the bene…
/r/askTRP31/03/19 04:39 PM
1

They're even rarer if you don't give some of your prospects the benefit of the doubt. I've had female friends use my pc to post a dating profile. When it came to writing about themselves, it was deer in the headlights. Blank. These were women you could have a decent convo with if you met them at a party but their profile sucked. I doubt 5% of women read other womens profiles to suss out the competition but they all come up with the same bland profile.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 07:21 PM
2

I've become insanely picky about personality. I would never belong to a club that would have me as a member. Groucho Marks.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 05:50 PM
3

Most successful guy I ever met was a ski bum. He would ski until he got short of cash then go work and save hard for his next skiing adventure. He found himself being a troubleshooter for a multinational and got sucked in for a few years. (Started as a temp warehouse guy but was plain speaking and pragmatic. Rapid promotions.) In business class looking at snow covered mountains he remembered that he was a ski bum. Phoned in his notice when he landed. It was a position that most guys would see as…
/r/askTRP26/03/19 08:34 PM
1

Check out The Alexander Technique It's not a cure all by any means but if poor posture adds to your pain, then good posture will reduce it.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 01:14 PM
1

I was just wondering if anyone could give some advice on how to take in everything this sub has to offer without getting so anxious about worrying about every little thing I am doing wrong or worrying about not picking up on behaviors that I should be. Stop trying to be perfect. Not going to happen. Once you have given yourself permission to be imperfect, you will be able to give yourself credit for your achievements.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 03:44 PM
2

imo, stoicism isn't about not giving a fuck, it's about being able to turn off the noise. You're not supposed to believe what your parents say, you're only supposed to look like you believe what they say. Then you go do whatever you were going to do anyway.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 05:10 PM
1

I know reality will never again be as lively as it used to be ime, it was better when the guy with the white beard and the red suit was real. All downhill for me once he got outed. We can deal with how it is now or we can reminisce about the old days. (Hint: Nostalgia isn't what it used to be.) I do understand the plight of guys wanting a family some day. imo, if having kids is a priority then her family genetics, family relationships and potential maternal instincts are way more important than …
/r/askTRP04/03/19 02:55 PM
1

If it was all about looks, then no woman EVER has cheated with a guy uglier than her bf/husband. Truth is, they have. Maybe not all of them but a significant number above 0%. The one wish that always comes true is: "I wish it wasn't my fault." As soon as you wish it, there magically appears lots of reasons why it was never your fault. Once you start believing that it is never your fault, you are well and truly fucked. As nothing is your fault, whatever you do is of no consequence. You are a perm…
/r/askTRP04/03/19 01:51 PM
1

Whats best for them? Me being older with more money or younger but less money? For children, it's not about money, it's about the time they spend with their parents. I read a post about fond memories of their family camping for a long summer. At the time, the kid didn't know that they were homeless. All they knew was that camping is fun. That same summer, there must have been plenty of well housed kids that hardly saw their dad because he was always working.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 01:23 PM
1

As well as the age of the parents, the month of birth can make a difference. There are pros and cons to being one of the eldest or youngest in the class. Check out Maria Montessori for ideas on giving your sprogs a good start in life.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 01:13 PM
1

You're as good as your last fight. If you hold frame (genuine, not butthurt wannabe shit,) from now until you leave, then your last fights were good 'uns.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 02:39 PM
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It doesn’t make any fuckin sense Of course it makes sense. If you were going on a very long journey by car, how thoroughly would you check it out for potential problems? Why would she be any different? You are the vehicle that she is hoping moves her life forward. Damn right she is going to check for signs of weakness. If she doesn't, she was either never interested or, having found you lacking, is no longer interested in a future with you.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 12:15 PM
2

sometimes women fake niceness to get something from you Let them, it doesn't matter. All that matters is that you, and only you, are in charge of whatever she does or does not get from you. I suspect that the real reason for your concern is that you know you are as soft as butter wrt women. So you ask us how to identify which women won't take advantage of a weak man.
/r/askTRP15/02/19 09:03 PM
1

Entitled much? You're 15 and want the life benefits of being 30+. I know a guy who was similar to you at 15. Except that he was (still is) a charmer. At 15, he was on first name terms with pub managers. A couple of baby mommas by the time he was 18. Outwardly he seemed mature but as he had jettisoned his childhood in favour of growing up real fast, his childish qualities persisted. It's like building a house while skimping on the foundations. Doesn't end well. At the age of 40, his immaturity wa…
/r/askTRP14/02/19 01:53 PM
1

Without knowing the term, I've been mgtow for 20 years or so. Found TRP and this sub about 4 years ago. I wouldn't say that I'm living a RP lifestyle, mgtow is mgtow.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 11:35 PM
1

Compared to who? Do we have more now than previous generations? I'm a UK boomer and imo the 80/20 rule applied during my younger years just as much as it does now. There were plenty of betas. Different rules to the game back then but as always, there were winners and losers.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 09:17 PM
1

Get yourself a copy of WISNIFG. Used paperbacks are dirt cheap. You might feel like an adult but in their eyes you are not. Answering back won't convince them otherwise. Do basic shit without being told, as if you were living there alone. Taking the trash out, minor repairs etc. You'll get on with them better once they accept that you are an adult but you have to get them to that point in an adult way.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 03:20 PM
1

A lot of the 'mans man' guys were crap at being a husband. Might explain why they were away so much. An exception was Horatio Nelson. As well as his naval exploits, he pulled THE hottest society chick of the day. Not only that, he got his best mate to wife her up, giving her the title of Lady Hamilton. He also had access to her favours with seemingly, the consent of his mate. When Lord Hamilton died, he shacked up with his widow and her mother for a cozy arrangement. I'd guess that Mrs Nelson wa…
/r/askTRP30/12/18 02:35 PM
1

If he isn't looking, he isn't ready. Sounds like my parents. Drama filled and co-dependent. If I'd known about TRP, or whatever it was called back then, the worst thing I could have done would be to try and 'educate' my dad. At best, it would put a severe strain on our relationship. At worst, he'd go too hard too fast and blow up his marriage. You really want to risk destroying your parents marriage? Allow your father the right to make his own mistakes and put some effort into enjoying the time …
/r/askTRP21/12/18 10:43 AM
1

White males have been under pressure wrt honesty of opinion for only a few generations and look at the % of them that are soy boys. A few thousand years of similar pressure has happened to women. That's not going to disappear anytime soon. You might as well ask why Swedish men stay within the opinion corridor instead of saying it as they see it.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 07:12 PM
1

I looked around for a few weeks You were ready to find it. Your dad isn't right now and you need to accept that he might never be. This isn't something that you can 'convert' someone to. They have to come to TRP all by themselves.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 09:09 PM
1

Did somebody take you to one side or did you find TRP by yourself? You could lead him to places where he might stumble upon it. eg Reddit in general. You could talk about general relationship situations without using any TRP terms. eg. talk about an ex that liked you less the more you did for her. Why would she be like that dad?
/r/askTRP17/12/18 06:13 PM
1

As well as the other book recommendations, get 'When I Say No I Feel Guilty'. Used copies are dirt cheap. After learning the techniques yourself, leave the book where your dad is likely to pick it up. It's a click bait title to a beta. Don't ever talk about TRP. It won't end well. You might as well be talking about the lizard people that rule us or the advantages of getting into meth/heroin because that is how badly it will come across.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 03:50 PM
1

I assume that the decision maker would invite the prospect and his wife to dinner. With the expectation of a return invite. Sees the prospects home and furnishings, plus how his wife dresses. Talks about vacations and schooling etc. Not hard to estimate the spending compared to his income.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 08:10 PM
4

if you want the best odds, married guys with kids are better employees. I saw a show about work in the 50s. When choosing someone for an executive promotion, some big companies also interviewed the guys wife. Usually over dinner. Priority went to guys who had a spendy wife. Not too spendy, just a few points more than he earned. Her spending would keep his nose to the grindstone.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 11:11 PM
1

This was my go to when needing to work but not enough sleep: Soak the corner of a towel in hot but not scolding water and wring it so it's soggy damp. Place the towel on an eyelid and hold it there until it stops feeling hot. Repeat for the other eyelid. Instant pick me up and it lasts for 2 to 3 hours.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 08:45 PM
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I'm not going to be giving them a goddamn cent or spending any money on them though. I didn't mean beta bucks type spending, more like buying her a few drinks while she is out with you or not expecting her to go halves on the pizza if you're staying in.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 01:33 AM
3

I'm looking for anyone I'm attracted to that is interested in having sexual intercourse with me. imo, single mothers would make good plates in your situation. I knew loads of single mothers during my toyboy phase. A % had boyfriends that worked away a lot, usually oil rigs back then. When bf was there, he'd be a little on the free spending side and she'd be doing the good gf thing. Win Win as long as you don't catch feels or expect fidelity while you're away.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 11:26 PM
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Someone explain that with TRP. You already did: <I'm a fucking loser and never learned social interactions I've known natural players that are short, ugly or both. We can always find an excuse, all we have to do is want an excuse and hey presto, there it is. Antonio Banderas was getting laid before he became famous so it's not the baggy eyes stopping you is it?
/r/askTRP04/11/18 07:51 AM
1

Give the carnivore diet (aka Zero Carb diet) a try for at least 3 months. It will take about 2 months for your body to adjust so 3 months almost guarantees that you'll get the extra energy and sense of well being that other practitioners of the diet report. If it's possible to suffer from depression and not know it, that was me. Content enough. Retired so no need to have a mission. Nothing happens so nothing to worry about. yada yada. About 2 months into the diet I got enough energy and good fee…
/r/askTRP26/10/18 03:34 PM
2

Nothing happened. If something did happen, it wasn't you. Or her. Some other girl may have been fucked by someone that wasn't you. If she blabs, it wasn't you. Because you were trying to fuck some other girl at the time but you had whisky dick.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 03:07 PM
1

Get yourself a copy of 'When I Say No I Feel Guilty' and apply the techniques.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 06:36 PM
1

There must be something a chick is trying to extract from you. That's your cue to prove to her that you're not like him at all and that you won't do those bad things he did.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 04:24 PM
1

imo ADHD is code for 'toxic masculinity'. Sure, some parts of masculinity are toxic. Not just to others but self destructive shit like what you do sometimes. Shit that all of did when young. Learning to deal with it while keeping the positive parts of our masculinity is called growing up. Pills are for those wishing to avoid the work.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 04:05 PM
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fwir, yes.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/10/18 03:16 PM
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surprised this isn’t being protested as misogynistic or something. Maybe it was her lesbian lover that she hit?
/r/PussyPassDenied13/10/18 02:42 PM
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How do I get over number 3. Approach for any reason except the possibility of getting laid. For nervous people, the bigger they perceive the goal to be, the more likely they are to choke. Give up trying to get laid for 6 months and aim instead to have brief convos with as many women as possible. Including old dears. If you're not looking to bone them, then it's their quality as a person that matters is it not? Once talking to any and all women becomes as natural to you as breathing air, then you…
/r/askTRP13/10/18 02:32 PM
1

Assuming that you're both old enough, I've found casinos to be a decent venue for a first date/meeting. Might be different in the US but in the UK you get your pic taken on entry. So she knows that she is safe. Top level staff and the food is a reasonable price considering the plush decor. As gambling is optional, it can be a very cheap date.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 11:21 AM
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All Motorcycles Are Like That. They have 2 wheels and an engine. Some are sportier than others but will put you on your ass if you don't know how to handle it. Even the slow ones can fuck you up if you're an idiot. Some are very reliable but otherwise unremarkable. Some are reliable AND fun. Don't pay new price for a well used bike.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 12:41 PM
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At the time, we don't always know that we're being blessed with good fortune. Grass is greener and all that. If you split, whatever new relationship you form is going to hit a similar hump. Or end before it even gets to the hump. Also a chance of meeting a BPD. Enjoy the moments with your daughter while you can, it goes quick.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 07:35 PM
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For those wishing for a return to the golden age of Stepford Wives, OP has what was considered a good and happy marriage back then. OP, you're experiencing what many term 'the 7 year itch'. Back in the day, most couples had bugger all choice but to stay together. Once they had got over the hump, which could take a few years, their married life was decided by whether they could treat each other decently or not. As a kid, I can remember both types of couples. The happy ones were like old army budd…
/r/askTRP08/10/18 06:59 PM
1

the most charismatic people are tested all the time Why do you think that they keep passing those tests? imo, it's because they don't let their ego get in the way of achieving what they want. iow, it's not about them, it's about their goal. That goal may be minor but it is still more important to them than telling you how great they are.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 06:05 PM
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Beware women your age with baby rabies. The hormones can have them be utterly charming. Everything you could possibly want in a woman.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 07:56 PM
3

I'm retired and every guy I know of a similar age lives alone. The till death us do part generation seems to have almost died off. It's ironic that women tend to initiate the divorces and then, after a few flings, find themselves miserable and lonely. While the ex husbands are pretty much content and happy with how things have turned out for them. We've all got sprogs except for one guy. He's been a natural player all of his life but with each passing year he gets a bit weirder. Like he's realis…
/r/askTRP04/10/18 03:00 PM
1

It is all in the genes. More like it's all in the Christian ethic. fwir, the Roman Catholic Church had dire financial problems circa 1,000 ad. At the time, priests could be married and have a family. 1025 ad, priests got a letter from the church saying, in effect, lose the wife or lose the job. A man with no dependents need less wages. When asked why, the priests got told some bs about keeping sex away from doing the work of God. In cultures where Christianity was imposed much later, the attempt…
/r/askTRP03/10/18 11:40 AM
1

You can lead a horse to water Part of a song lyric by Roy Harper: *You can lead a horse to water but you cannot make it drink You can lead a man to slaughter but you cannot make him think*
/r/askTRP03/10/18 11:29 AM
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fuck it sucks If the other guy knows about her fling with you, it is going to suck for him even more.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 02:40 PM
3

If making the correct decision was always the easiest option, we'd all be fucking perfect. As the song says: What's love got to do with it?
/r/askTRP26/09/18 07:07 PM
2

Being alpha and being charming are not mutually exclusive.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 06:57 PM
1

Help with the deposit/first rent/moving costs on an apartment for her. Will be cheaper in the long term and no risk of losing the tenancy of your place.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 06:07 PM
1

Help with the deposit/first rent/moving costs on an apartment for her. Will be cheaper in the long term and no risk of losing the tenancy of your place.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 06:07 PM
1

Check out The Alexander Technique and book a lesson. Not all AT teachers are great ime. If you leave the first lesson feeling like you're walking on air, you've found a good teacher. That feeling wears off pretty quick but with continuing lessons it takes longer to go until pretty soon, that's your default state. People take lessons to fix certain problems. eg stuttering but it's important to realise that the lessons are to teach you how to use your body correctly. With correct use of the self, …
/r/askTRP26/09/18 05:25 PM
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she’s a drug smuggler She sure is. Multiple visits a year to Egypt and on low wages.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/09/18 03:28 PM
2

He gets to have starfish sex with hot babes and you get to have anything goes sex with their less than hot mates. Happened to me a lot when I had a player for a coworker. Married guy but always out on the pull. (He had a weird wife, trying to catch him was sport to her. Her eyes would light up when grilling me about what he'd been up to.) I'm 6 foot, he was noticeably shorter but he was the one with the most game, frame and confidence etc. Once in a while, I'd get the hotty. He'd report back tha…
/r/askTRP23/09/18 08:28 AM
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irl, Jonah Hill seems to be tuned into TRP. Changes his arm candy with the seasons and no exes crying foul.
/r/askTRP22/09/18 05:49 PM
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Standard rule for any negotiation: If you are not embarrassed by your first offer, it is way too high.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 01:06 PM
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<Shes told me Play safe and don't believe whatever she said about him. It might be true that he is a perfect beta bux but she has no tingles for him because he is 'too nice'. If that is true, she's not going to tell you that is she?
/r/askTRP20/09/18 12:18 PM
1

<Smoking a cigarette after not smoking one for 6 months That's not the problem. The problem is not smoking a 2nd cigarette after that '1st for 6 months' cigarette. If you can manage that, fine, 2 cigarettes a year it is. Otherwise, accept your limitations and don't smoke again. Ever. Moderation in everything. Including moderation.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 12:10 PM
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I don’t know what to focus on Focus on you. Ever notice that women can be choosy? How about you being choosy? Stop staring at her tits and vet her instead. Is she a nice person? If not, fuck her and her tits, go talk to someone else. Talking to a pleasant old guy with war stories is a better use of your time than wasting it on any person who is not pleasant to you. Life is too short. If the only IOIs you get are from fuglies, take it on the chin and accept that you are only 2 or 3 smv points abo…
/r/askTRP20/09/18 11:50 AM
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Visiting from TRP, I have to ask, why get married knowing all this stuff? If the genie turned me into back into a 20 year old, I'd get married again. However, I would spend a very long time vetting her.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/18 10:40 AM
2

From her pov, you are less likely to stray than Chad.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 12:19 PM
1

As the song goes, it's not what you do it's the way that you do it. A skilled woodworker can make just about anything from wood using only a chisel. Same for a machinist, they can make almost anything from metal with only a file. They'll both get there but it will take a lot of time. afaik, Edward De Bono (lateral thinking) was the first guy to think about the process of thinking. People working hard at their studies but only using a chisel/file from their creative toolbox. Others use more tools…
/r/askTRP19/09/18 09:32 AM
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<I DONT GET IT. Neither do they. Neither did their parents and the parents before them. There might be a few sickos that look for ways to deliberately fuck up their sprogs but mostly it's clueless people not knowing what their priorities should be. Unless you believe that they deliberately tried to fuck you up, no harm in cutting them some slack.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 02:19 PM
1

Strongly consider the possibility that almost every fight you have had with her was started by her. Women are very good at engineering arguments. A drama free relationship does not compute with a drama filled childhood and having you get mad takes her back to familiar territory. Source: Schizo ma who could push dads buttons without him even knowing that buttons had been pressed. You need to break her from the drama cycle. STFU whenever she tries to push your buttons. If she keeps trying gtfo and…
/r/askTRP18/09/18 01:59 PM
1

I have my emotional distress moments. LOL As the old saying goes: It will pass. It's importance to you in 5 years time is it's real importance.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 01:29 PM
5

I really dislike JP. No too keen on him myself but I have enjoyed watching him demolish SJWs. The way that free speech has now been fettered by political correctness, we need all the untarnished free speakers that we can get. Whether or not we like them is irrelevant. A useful idiot is, by definition, useful. Milo could get away with stating truths because they had no nasty label that they could pin on him. Then he went and hit himself with the pedo stick. Still an idiot but useful no more. JP c…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/18 12:14 PM
1

What constitutes as truly crazy So I can safeguard myself against this, any red flags I should look out for? There's away with the fairies crazy and there's plain and simple nasty. Crazy or normal, nasty people should be avoided. ime, the devil is in the tiniest of details. Does she respect other peoples time? You've been in situations where a stranger is obviously in a hurry and you are in their way. Getting out of their way costs you 2 or 3 seconds but saves them 20 seconds or more. Nasty does…
/r/askTRP17/09/18 01:55 PM
3

I've never had the opportunity to try this but it sounds cute enough to work: Take her language dictionary, look up 'Princess' and show it to her. Hopefully, she will look up 'Prince' and show you that. With a sad face, shake your head and show her the word 'Frog'. You might get a kiss.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 10:03 AM
1

McJob the biz that you're not keen on. Delegate the routine/mundane stuff to others. Aim for 80% of the profits if just you but for only 20% of your previous personal input. Once it gives you a virtually hassle free living wage, you can concentrate on doing what you love.
/r/askTRP15/09/18 02:56 PM
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<I've seen a dude wear pink shorts with a girl, and I seen some guys with girls wear their hair in buns Don't be thinking that something magical used to happen in relationships of yesteryear that is no longer available to you. The majority of men have always been beta. Back in the golden/stepford age, men would not want to be seen out on the street pushing a pram. Why? Because other men would laugh at them. At that time, women were trained/conditioned to take a backward step and defer to their m…
/r/askTRP11/09/18 02:23 PM
1

Because she will tell her mates.
/r/askTRP09/09/18 06:05 PM
2

Mom = Superwoman WISNIFG = Kryptonite
/r/askTRP09/09/18 05:14 PM
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I 100% believe they tell their friends In some pua guide I read, one piecce of advice was to give her foot massages once in a while. She WILL tell her mates because bragging rights. After you split, expect some of her mates to show more than a little interest.
/r/askTRP09/09/18 04:46 PM
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To take something from a woman to the advantage of another woman cannot be sexist.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/18 04:39 PM
3

<I never learned to decide my own path I shudder when I hear people talk about exactly where they plan to be in x years time. It should be about the journey, not the destination. Get to the top in your late 40s, a burnt out wreck or take the scenic route and get fairly close to the top as a 55 year old that looks 40?
/r/askTRP09/09/18 03:54 PM
1

She's not out of your league, she is out of bounds.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 10:47 PM
5

It's really that simple. Don't forget sharing needles. I'm sure that some athletes assumed they'd be ok with sharing a needle only used for performance enhancing. Like the virus is only activated in the presence of heroin, not juice.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 10:13 PM
2

I was driving a private hire car during the UK aids leaflet campaign. NW England. Driving into town on a Saturday night with 4 young women and one would say 'I got my leaflet this morning'. Crickets. If she carried on talking about it one of the others would say 'You're boring me' or the ever eloquent 'Shut the fuck up'. They were going out on the pull and really didn't want to know. 4 guys in the car was the opposite. The leaflet got mentioned and that was the subject of conversation for the re…
/r/askTRP04/09/18 09:59 PM
1

I think that you need to establish a boundary: If you go out together, you go home together. You go out for fun and prospecting, not getting a ons that night. Otherwise, you can face a lot of negative situations. Women don't want to be thought of as a man thief and most will shy away from fucking you that night. Get digits and fuck her another night. If she is allowed to pull on a night out with you, the first guy to lay her has cracked the dam. Everywhere you take her after that, guys will be q…
/r/askTRP04/09/18 09:25 AM
3

If nothing is your fault, then you are well and truly fucked. How can you be anything but well and truly fucked if nothing you do makes any difference?
/r/askTRP04/09/18 08:32 AM
2

On a poker forum a guy said that his gf was going nuts over him playing online poker. OK says he, I won't play poker if we've had sex in the last 24 hours.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/08/18 01:18 PM
2

Have a look at this Never get busted Made by an ex cop, it will show you what not to do. Things like touching your head while talking to leo.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 11:56 AM
1

Women don't want to see the dull side of the medal.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 10:20 AM
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White Knight = VSM. Virtue Signalling Misogynist. It's disgusting how they'll talk about equality but treat women as inferior beings that need to be protected by white knights such as themselves.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 11:47 AM
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I'm ok with chick flicks. I already know how bad the world can be and sometimes I want to forget that for 90 minutes.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 01:22 PM
1

<I also don't want to be 65 and spend my days alone. Most of the guys I know of around that age and older want to live alone. Including me.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 12:48 PM
1

The old adage is that an item is only worth as much as somebody is willing to pay for it. The opposite side of the coin is that the item is worth as little as somebody is willing to sell it for. You sell cheap and buy high. What are you expecting to happen?
/r/askTRP03/08/18 02:57 PM
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A relationship for a mgtow is like having a job when you don't need the money. No problem with walking as soon as it stops being fun. We branch swing back to our solo life. However: <he did say I was his last try in the dating world imo that isn't something a true mgtow would say. Neither would a mgtow (or a RP guy) say that they'd be open to living together so soon. My guess is that he is a BP that has found TRP and is still a bit angry and maybe hurt. So he's hiding under the mgtow shield for …
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/18 02:36 AM
1

I've seen newbie posts from guys your age that feel entitled to respect from older guys and are pissed that they aren't getting it. Women and their BP mates avoid them because they're acting aggressive. Some guys have blown up their relationship with too much RP too soon. Maybe the relationship couldn't be saved but they'll never know because they snatched at instant results instead of being patient. Fake it until you make it is, imo, better done as fake it just a little bit until you're comfort…
/r/askTRP02/08/18 03:29 PM
1

At least you found TRP when you were 15/16. I'm 19 and found this a few months ago. And then you have guys here in their 40s and 50s finding this for the first time. Everything is safe until you forget that it is dangerous. The younger you are when finding TRP, the easier it is to underestimate the dangers imo. BP kid finds TRP and becomes insta-dick Billy no mates. That's much less likely to happen to a guy pushing 30.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 11:39 AM
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You don't "apply" trp to things, you become RP and everything you do in life is automatically done in a RP way by default. Something I remember from 'Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance'. How do you become a perfect painter? Become perfect and then paint naturally.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 04:38 PM
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I’m saying you should have walked up to the table and informed him that is your gf and informed her that the relationship is now over and then walk away. I would prefer introducing myself to him as one of her EX boyfriends. She has no option but to play along. Relationship ended with no drama. For the rest of her night her hamster would be on steroids. New bf wondering wtf is going on.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 04:19 PM
2

Not trolling. Just pointing out that there are short and/or ugly guys getting laid.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 01:17 PM
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<everything depends on a man’s physical appearance alone Let's talk Danny DeVito. Before he got famous. How old was Danny DeVito when he first got laid? Hint: It was way before he got famous. Anybody not getting laid before that age is a faggot right? If a not yet famous Danny DeVito can get laid at [whatever] age, how about the rest of you guys already older than that shut the fuck up?
/r/askTRP29/07/18 04:54 PM
1

I know a couple that were p4p on their first meeting. Ship whore meets sailor boy. I was best man and driver at their wedding. She told me that she gave their marriage 5 months. Currently 30 years and counting. When on the taxis, a common theme for dating was go clubbing on Saturday night and wake up next to a stranger Sunday morning. Get to know each other over a cup of tea. (How very English lol.) Decide if courtship ensues. To quote Chuck Berry: You never can tell.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 04:43 PM
1

<why females settle for betas then? Maybe the beta is the only guy she can get to commit. Also, these days a small % of women actually prefer betas.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 04:32 PM
2

During periods of unemployment, a few mates and I would bs about money making ideas. About 4 miles away was a business we payed no never mind to. That business is a shoe shop. Cue Al Bundy. Big store, primary location opposite a shopping mall in a suburb. Been going over 50 years to my knowledge. Never a closing down sale. However they're managing it, the doors stay open. Try going to your breadhead mates and excitedly telling them that you are going to open a shoe shop. Anybody want in? Cue yaw…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 03:52 PM
1

that's exactly a reason for the high smv female to mess with the high smv male's head Doesn't work like that. Got this from the RPW sub and might be paraphrasing but she got it in a nutshell: Men want to be treated awesome by a woman that is good enough. Women want to be treated good enough by a guy that is awesome. Men date down so to a male 9, HB7 is good enough. IF she treats him awesome. HB8 not treating him awesome? Next.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 02:52 PM
0

<the beta male wants to secure his sex with the hot female by simping He is giving away his commitment in the hope of getting sex. For a hot enough male, she will put out partly in the hope of getting commitment. Heads she gets commitment and hot sex. Tails she gets hot sex.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 02:05 PM
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I spent years reading every self help book I could get my hands in including NLP I did too. It was reading NLP that got me out of that habit. The early days of NLP were innocent enough. Plenty of guys that were skilled enough to warrant a promotion but didn't have the social savvy for management. NLP helped them achieve their true potential. Then it got hijacked by greedy fuckers that wanted to give the appearance of being better than they were. Style over substance. NLP would say: 'Stop coverin…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 11:36 AM
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I rarely feel good and use it as justification for waiting until I’m at my very best to do something. I got told many years ago: 'If a job is worth doing, it is worth doing badly.' Took me a while to learn the truth of that.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 11:15 AM
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Even in my 20s I could sense that there was something like TRP but was pretty clueless as to what the details were. When I did find this sub, I was 'Ah I knew it!' Lots of previous inconsistencies in female behaviour started to make sense. Similar to playing poker every week for years with the same gang. Some nearly always win, some always lose and the rest win some nights and lose other nights. Then you discover that there are books on how to win at poker.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 10:19 AM
2

I know concentration is superior to mindfullness I wouldn't know about superior but imo concentration is different to mindfulness in that the object is an empty mind. Not gonna happen right? That's what the concentration is for. You give your full attention to something simple. Helps keep other thoughts away. Those thoughts do surface and you need to get back to your concentration. It's an eternal battle between your powers of concentration and your desire to let your mind wander. If your back i…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 09:53 PM
1

Just be discreet. Knowing that a guy is going to be 100% 'No Strings' has its attraction for some women.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 08:50 PM
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I don't vet enough For me, it's is she nice or nasty? People give out lots of little clues. Do they move out of the way if someone looks to be in a hurry? How do they treat servers etc.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 08:13 PM
1

3D printing is nerdy and can be used to make small gifts. 'Oh honey, you made me a heart shaped box...'
/r/askTRP28/07/18 07:51 PM
1

it's too binary for me to invest time into studying. Try joining a chess club that has league teams. My club had a doctor join, pretty good player too. Chess was his time out from the world. Two hours of trying to win a board game as his only priority. He had no time to study so just played his best every match. The way league games work, the more you win, the higher up the board you play and the stiffer the competition. So whether you study or not, each match should test you.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 07:27 PM
1

It takes money to make money. Done right, it takes a little money and a lot of time to start making a living from gambling. To stand a chance of being long term successful, disciplined bankroll management is vital. If you're good enough to be a long term winner, you're also good enough to build a large bankroll from a small one. ime, gambling is a good short to medium term hobby. There's lots of nerdy stuff to get into. Formulas, bankroll criteria etc. Almost everything you need to learn for suc…
/r/askTRP28/07/18 07:19 PM
1

In Europe, cuck means she is adulterous and therefore cuckolding him. Don't think that was the case there. A husband being pussy whipped used to be known as henpecked.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 04:34 PM
1

We can actually discuss the beauties in life, our emotions, and other shit we wouldn't want people to hear. Aussie guy I knew loved being in London and the type of conversations he could have there. Plus the entertainment. The longer he stayed, the more he missed Oz. He'd go back and enjoy the brashness of his fellow Aussies and all the bro stuff. Then he'd start missing London. One legged exiles are thing. That might be you, wanting to hop between 2 worlds.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 04:19 PM
1

In the 80s I had a muslim coworker who was under his wifes thumb. He'd vent to me about her to the extent that I knew a lot about his marriage. He was always inviting me to his place and his wife would make a huge fuss of me. Absolutely obvious that she ran the household. Just for sport, she wouldn't tell him what she wanted. He had to guess and woe betide him if he got it wrong. No cross words. The way she put down a tea cup would tell him if he was in trouble or not. Outside of the house, she …
/r/askTRP28/07/18 03:58 PM
2

<for some reason I just feel like people don’t give a fucking shit about me. It’s like I’m invisible Sounds like you're trying too hard. Or perhaps there is nothing to see? <I’ve had zero luck in the last 2 years. fwir of college girls, that's on you, not them. <I have no idea where to start. You could give up on the wanting respect bs. It's hindering your journey. Feeling entitled to respect is for snowflakes. Even wanting respect 'just because' shows insecurity. Try taking an interest in other…
/r/askTRP28/07/18 03:29 PM
2

I'm not going to feel guilty about that. Neither will she. She wants to fuck you because of who your girlfriend is.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 01:26 PM
1

what would be an appropriate response? Unless you are deliberately nasty, the response doesn't matter as long as it is concise. No DEERing. As already said, the MRP sub is for guys like you. The stay plan is the same as the go plan. 1) Live with wife and enjoy going to the gym. 2) Split with wife and enjoy going to the gym.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 03:41 PM
1

I do enjoy her company. Best of all worlds would be her agreeing to a semi open relationship. That concession puts her in your frame. She'll share if she wants you enough.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 03:04 PM
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The irony is that she lost more than you did. Those years of yours were pretty worthless compared to hers. A man, assuming he has his shit together, is golden from his 30s to his 50s and beyond. A woman is golden for something like between the ages of 18 and 28. That's 20% of her golden years wasted on BP you. No alimony, child support or dv accusations coming your way either.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 12:37 PM
1

Let’s say he doesn’t give a fuck. Then you don’t need all this extra shit of salsa, rock climbing, and piano playing or whatever other meme shit you have to do to get game. It's not about need, it's about want. There will be guys that have planned to go rock climbing and then they get a booty call. Sorry honey, am busy. iow they climb rocks because they are into climbing rocks. I know a natural player that only has one of the trinity, looks. Even then, he isn't tall and his looks are about a 7. …
/r/askTRP23/07/18 10:54 AM
1

That fits in with the old saying: 'The prettiest girls get approached less.'
/r/askTRP23/07/18 09:50 AM
1

<I’m past the emotional thing but still want to go to her workplace and see her to say goodbye It's been said that when there is a 'but', anything preceding the word 'but' isn't true. That seems to hold up in your case. It's done. It's over. Girls want closure and can act crazy trying to get it. Men act stoic even if they don't feel stoic.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 09:33 AM
1

WISNIFG As a read it is dated but following the techniques will reduce your family problems.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 09:27 AM
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<Feeling still there even after a period of no contact. She's going to be stuck in your head for a while, might as well get some profit from it. All the RP stuff and game that you should have done with her, practice it on other woman. Oneitis = no other woman can hurt you. You couldn't care less about their feelings so go for it.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 10:49 PM
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the hottest girls, like you stated, don't seem to think I am gay Could it be that your approach varies depending on her smv?
/r/askTRP22/07/18 09:50 PM
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<I’m just looking for any advice I can get to kill it in my career. I'd guess that your employers are on the ball when it comes to spotting and developing talent. Wouldn't hurt to trust them on that.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 09:36 PM
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You're the opposite of the old saying 'Marry in haste, repent at leisure.' Well done. When I was in sales, one company motto was: 'You don't get what you expect, you get what you inspect.'
/r/TheRedPill22/07/18 08:39 PM
1

Counting on fingers...One, two, YOU, four...
/r/askTRP22/07/18 10:57 AM
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I've been there, it can suck. Things changed as my kids grew older. At first it's power plays because she can. Acting beta plus reduces the drama ime. Then she wised up and realised that dad = free childcare and I got lots of access. Can move up to regular beta then. Which I may have done, can't remember. The older they got, the less power she had to fuck with my access. To be fair to her, she was ok with me doing all kinds of 'Don't tell mom' stuff with them once her anger had gone.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 09:35 AM
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<I thought about prepare a sentence like this "She had very good times, I respect your decision and I hope you won't regret it, this time is for good" "K".
/r/askTRP21/07/18 10:12 AM
4

a better example of a redpill figure would be someone with the characteristics of James Bond There used to be plenty of old school charmers on the screen. eg. Omar Sharif. Even bad boy Oliver Reed was a charmer when sober.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 02:50 PM
2

when I was bringing home new girls regularly, she always asked why I wouldn't commit to any of them Cats and dogs. Men choose a pet who has qualities that they want in a mate. Companionship, loyalty and whatever else points to >>>dog. Women choose a pet who has qualities that they want in a mate. dngaf, aloofness, only give attention when wanting something etc. and it all points to >>>cat.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 05:06 PM
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No matter how you view it, males are the expendable sex. When the ship is sinking, nobody cries: 'Children and women first!' That could be for grammatical reasons and maybe grammar evolved in such a way as to put the survival of women above the survival of children. Who knows? If all the men perish, the species can survive because there are boy survivors that learn to become men. If all the children perish, there are fertile women survivors that can produce more babies. If all the women perish, …
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 04:36 PM
5

The most obvious answer is 'Why would I give a fuck about another persons opinion wrt how red pilled I am? To give a fuck about that would be blue pill.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 03:53 PM
2

I had a bad childhood but at least it wasn't shit. Both of my parents had a shit childhood. All four of my grandparents had an absolute shit fest of a childhood. My kids had a so-so childhood but at least it wasn't bad. My grandchildren are having a blast. A measurable improvement every generation is all it takes.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 03:31 PM
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What he is doing is pointing out bs where he sees it and tbh, where pointing out bs makes him a buck or three. SJWs are a ripe target to a person of his erudition so why shouldn't he make a good income telling the emperor that she is bollock naked? The JP message to SJWs translates to 'Prove your argument.' They can't so he often gets labeled as alt right. iow, people not 'on message' = alt right. Non SJWs see JP destroy the SJW 'argument' and go wtf? I didn't know that those SJWs could be beate…
/r/askTRP17/07/18 03:04 PM
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you can have feeling for a women and still be a Chad Natural players are more vulnerable than guys that came to TRP because of bitter experience. They don't know that it's a game and they can get well and truly blindsided. Most famous example is the Duke and Duchess of Windsor. Chad, (family name David, royal name Edward,) had looks, privilege, fame and fortune etc. Plenty of cucked husbands thanks to him. Wallace was a socialite that dngaf. She thought that he'd be fun to have a fling with befo…
/r/askTRP17/07/18 02:33 PM
1

Haven't had the opportunity to try this but it sounds fun. Use her translation dictionary to show her the word 'Princess'. If she replies by showing you the word 'Prince' then it's game on. Do a sad face and show her the word 'Frog'. You might get kissed.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 04:45 PM
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Nothing wrong with being tender, romantic and sweet if that's what does it for you. (Moderation advised though.) What's wrong is acting 'nice guy' to facilitate getting laid. Even worse is rewarding bad behaviour. The tenderness, romance and sweetness is conditional. Why play nice with somebody that disrespects you when you can be somewhere else and/or with people that don't disrespect you?
/r/askTRP16/07/18 03:15 PM
1

I have been feeling less like a team as things are more one sided You've got me remembering back to when I was in the same situation your husband is in now. You are absolutely correct, it is one sided. I never felt more alive. Your husband is on cloud nine right now.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/18 10:44 AM
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<It will build resentment and distrust in the long run. I disagree. A good person will live up to their promises, even if they were vague at the time. btw, a man will forget IF his efforts were done willingly. The vague promises are a form of a thank you. A man will do the protector role without thanks but any thanks given are most welcome.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/18 09:50 AM
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<My husband has been completely wonderful; taking on more at home and taking care of me and our toddler. He has taken time off work for my hospital appointments, and tells me off if he deems I'm doing "too much" at home, as it's going against his wishes and showing him disrespect. Once a man has given his commitment, he lives for those moments. Kinda cruel to deny him eh? Take it easy, play the preggo card for all it's worth with vague promises of how you'll make it up to him. Men gotta do the M…
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/18 05:49 PM
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I meet a ridiculous amount of awkward women, I think almost all of them. Very few are super smooth and even keel. Most reek of insecurity and self-doubt Amazing how much women open up if you come across as non judgmental. 'I'll kill myself if it wasn't for my kids.' Running out of fingers for how many times I've heard that. I'm the last person a woman would look to for sympathy so I'm guessing that they just want to vent to somebody that they know won't gossip. That excludes all of their female …
/r/askTRP14/07/18 05:07 PM
1

Something about musicians it seems. Nobody seems to object to musicians being rich. We can even feel a bit shocked to learn that a well known musician is now poor.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 12:55 PM
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Was a comment on RPW I found interesting: Men want to be treated awesome by a woman that is good enough. Women want to be treated good enough by a man that is awesome. Assuming some truth to that, her 3/10 bf was awesome in her eyes because she knew no better. Then she met Chad. My guess is that she will resign herself to a lonely life and stop dating. 'Out of the blue', some guy will give her tingles and she'll attach the awesome label to him. Men are luckier with oneitis because no matter how …
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 12:49 PM
1

A lot of social awkwardness is down to a difference in IQ/smarts or whatever you want to call it. Guess what cuts across all borders? Work. Get yourself a job that needs to be done. Serving drinks in a bar, being a server, driving a taxi or doing shit that other people can't/won't do. You have an instant connection. Even if they are arseholes, they need you and you need them, there is a connection. Once you can handle that, you don't need to ask Reddit any more.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 05:35 PM
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Changing from one thing to another means being temporarily unbalanced. We walk by putting one foot in front of the other. In between steps we are unbalanced but we know what happens next and don't worry about it. We don't feel as if we are unbalanced. When we are not fully sure of what happens next we become more aware of how unbalanced we are. It's a natural thing to happen, you aren't doing anything wrong. If losing sight of the shore was easy, everyone would do it.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 05:50 PM
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You don't get that from women that have experienced real strife.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 04:03 PM
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<How can I stop it? Laugh at yourself. We've all done it. We'll probably keep doing it too. Accepting the sillyness of it stops us making a big deal of it. Involuntary mistake. Like stubbing your toe. Wish you hadn't but it's done now. Won't matter tomorrow.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 03:24 PM
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As the old saying goes: Love (ie. sex) is like a bicycle. Anything will do to learn on but once you've learnt, get a good 'un.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 01:26 PM
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<How come a week ago everything was good and now she can erase every feeling connected to me and just fucking move on so fast? It is your assumption that everything was good a week ago. I've known a few guys whose ltr/marriage breaking up came out of the blue. To them that is. Everyone else could tell that their relationship was on the rocks.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 07:49 PM
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Take the ones they're not into. You get laid with less effort That's why a plain chick will hang out with a hottie. Her hot friend gets Chad and she gets laid by Chads mate. For wannabe alphas, many guys are insecure as fuck. So what if you get to spend time with a guy that is more alpha? Does it never cross your mind that that alpha gets amoged in some situations?
/r/askTRP10/07/18 05:54 PM
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What if i come from a position of advantage? Different rules apply. You marry the person that is best for your family. Genetics, income, social position etc. are far more important than 'being in love'. For the 'love' side of things, you get to bed who you want as long as you are discreet about it. The British aristocracy has functioned like that for many centuries. Old money in the US probably works the same.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 04:58 PM
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<Id probably like to make content and act or do something with the creative arts like podcast or tv show or even movie. You can do that under the umbrella of your fathers company. You can do anything you want. You'll be the head motherfucker in charge.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 09:59 AM
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idk if it still happens but I read of parties in Brazil that had ticket sales based on 1 male for every 4 females. Plenty of women interested as it made for a comfortable environment for them.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 09:47 AM
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the other is a bucket of yuck With all male panels, often one of them will play bad cop to see how you handle them. Guess it can happen with all female panels.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 09:11 AM
2

Meditate twice a day with lyricless music Inward Harmony is my go to meditation music. The shifts in tones can be very subtle. If you've got a good sound system, or headphones, the cd is well worth paying for imo.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 12:05 PM
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I don't think I can find 10 chicks that are attracted to me That is one of the rare upsides to having oneitis. You only care about her, your oneitis so you don't give a flying fuck whether other woman are attracted to you or not. [If you do give a fuck, that's like cheating on your oneitis. Naughty boy. lol] Practice game on them. Who knows, you might find one that is too dumb to know that she isn't supposed to be attracted to you. Along with the other self improvements you're making, you'll nee…
/r/askTRP08/07/18 11:50 AM
1

If the play is cute enough, I quite like it when my female friends try to game me. imo it shows deference rather than entitlement. If you never let them win once in a while, they find someone else to play with. If they always win, you're an orbiter/beta bux. Your choice as to which plays you allow to succeed and which of her plays have no chance. There is a UK sitcom based on a relationship dynamic similar to yours. A Fine Romance. Yes it's dated but the 2 leads, Judy Dench and Michael Williams …
/r/askTRP08/07/18 10:51 AM
1

To quote Oscar Wilde: 'Wit is like marmalade, it should be spread thinly.' Same applies to acting silly. It's a good mask for hiding who we really are, or who we think we really are but it shouldn't be used as a mask imo. Sporadic usage to lighten a tense atmosphere or to make a child laugh has an objective other than to hide ourselves from others. Then again, if that's who you really are, have at it. The late Eric Morecambe could never turn off his sillyness. Even when the doc told him his hear…
/r/askTRP08/07/18 09:33 AM
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There’s a fine line between making the most you can and your time Guy I knew grew up almost feral because his dad worked so much overtime. They weren't even that poor but the dad loved his job.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 11:52 AM
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How many people are that tall, and also attractive with a good body composition, have money, career, personality, be close enough for her to meet Also, how many women in that area are a better option for him than her?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/18 06:42 PM
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How do sluts avoid being called sluts They put 'No players' in their profile.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/18 11:43 AM
5

Did the crew of the Endurance have beta traits? They followed Earnest Shackleton 100%.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 07:06 PM
2

So what to do when you don't have height? Short guys seem to follow the same 80/20 rule as taller guys. 80% of them are BP and the other 20% don't give a fuck. Mickey Rooney did well for himself. As did Dudley Moore, Danny DeVito and countless others.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 11:16 AM
2

<Do I reply everyday or some days just blank her? You do you. If you delay replying because some guy on the internet said to wait, you are not doing you. If you reply straight away because she might get pissed if you don't, you are not doing you. You do you. Respond when you want, ignore when you want. If she wants YOU then make sure that she gets YOU. If she does not want YOU then wish her well and move on.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 04:56 AM
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Few great men with grandchildren think on their death bed, I wish I didn't have any kids and just fucked thots all day. Why be great? Every man with grandchildren thinks like this. Listen to this all of you clever as fuck young dudes that got snipped without saving swimmers. I am going to be an ancestor and you are not. You might be the most important leaf on the tree right now but come autumn, you will be gone. As will I. Come spring, a part of me comes back to life but you will still be ever s…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 04:40 PM
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I wouldn’t say enforced monogamy is against red pill. It’s necessary for civilizationempire building. FTFY. A community based on life long monogamy will piss all over a polygamous society. Empires get built. Men bring home the spoils of war, the women get to wear bling and their men get laid. Nobody gets close to fucking over a society based on fraternal polyamory. How could they? Their soldiers can die knowing that their wives are not widows and that their children are not fatherless. Great for…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 04:31 PM
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ASPHALT (All smoking potheads are like that) To quote Frank Zappa: That's me! That's me! Consider your line stolen. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 03:59 PM
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He is a man of logic but lacks the true nature of an Alpha male. Those that can, do. Those that can't, teach. That also applies to Machiavelli.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 03:54 PM
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My best female friend for 15 years was, imo, gorgeous. If you think Joanna Lumley was a looker, then my friend was a looker. She was also asexual. I could tell that but most guys couldn't. She had no interest in me and I had no interest in hitting on her. Why throw a stick for a dog that doesn't like chasing sticks? She always had a bf for social reasons but they would always have jobs that meant being away from home a lot. In the time that I knew her, 12 orbiters fell in love with her and made …
/r/askTRP04/07/18 03:22 PM
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If families are going out of fashion, what is a better solution to keep evolving the species? Walking Marriages have their pros and cons. Not so good for the economic growth of a society but seems good for keeping a family unit intact even if times are hard. At the poorer end of society, we already have similar. eg. guys with a few baby mommas that give more time and resources to his sisters children than his own.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 02:03 PM
1

The word argument can have different meanings. Best not to use it without context imo. Emotional shouting matches can be labeled as drama. Respectful discussions of opposing points of view are disagreements.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 12:57 PM
1

I do that shit to manlets Does your opinion of them change at all because of how they handle your mogging?
/r/askTRP02/07/18 08:23 PM
2

I talk to my dad 1-on-1 and i know inside (and verbally sometimes) he agrees with the points i make How important are these points that you insist on making to your mother? If, say to win a bet, you never made any of your points to her for 3 months, would the world be a sadder place? If you can't stfu, ask questions instead of making points.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 01:33 PM
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ditto for all pleasure addictions. Can't remember the book but the intro was on the lines of: One by one, man destroys his pleasures through excess until those few remaining pleasures are strong enough to kill him.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 01:13 PM
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I had a oneitis that was bipolar, bpd, whatever. No future with her so changed location. Got friendly with a woman I wouldn't normally date. Her clock was ticking and so it seems was mine. Just knew that she would be a good mother so why not? Any other stuff didn't cross my mind. Didn't work out. Not enough assets for divorce rape. I got to be a Saturday parent which was a blast. Grandchildren are also a blast.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 05:58 PM
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As a successful man who worked hard to build up everything I have, it belongs to me and nobody else. Using TRP maxim of women are water, then great women are formed by great men. A good wife multiplies her husbands success. Comparing the relative success of Jobs and Gates, they seemed to diverge post 1993 when Bill married Melinda. My ex was supportive when I was trying to get my business off the ground. To pay for that level of support would have cost much more than my income at the time. Secre…
/r/askTRP01/07/18 05:32 PM
1

Over heating in bed can sap energy.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 05:44 PM
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I've never viewed any personal relationship from the perspective of getting something Whether you think that or not, you have done it. Everybody does. Hopefully not as gross as 'I bought you dinner, therefore you owe me sex' but we're all looking for something in a relationship or we stay alone. If nobody ever expected to 'get something' from a relationship then we'd all end up married to the first person we ever dated.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/18 11:43 AM
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I've never loved someone like I've loved him Love alone isn't enough to fix another persons faults. You already know this or you wouldn't have posted here about your doubts. Your post suggests that he can't even commit to himself. Big red flag imo. Some men are comfortable in the role of being a passenger rather than be a man that gets things done. That might not be him but it does sound possible from what you've written. Passenger or not, suggesting California is laughable. Proves that he is ei…
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/18 11:47 PM
1

and then... it's me holding the conversation up talking about myself and my life and she's there with her score card. looking at my watch and saying 'Gotta bounce...see ya'.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 07:27 PM
2

Fellow Brit here. Maths, physics and chemistry were my favourite subjects. You might not need any knowledge of those subjects to get a good job but it does tell employers that you are smarter than most and that you have a good work ethic. If saying yes to somebody makes you feel like a mug but saying no makes you feel like a [swearword], then being a [swearword] it is. That can be hard at first but you do get used to it. Users are well used to being told to go forth and multiply. They'll move on…
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/18 06:13 PM
1

<I'm shocked when I learnt that a girl accepting to suck my average guy friend's cock (He is absolutely not better than me on anything) He is better then you when comes to getting blow jobs. I would also guess that if the two of you found yourself in a commission only sales job, he would have the higher income. They call it the mating game because it is a game. Like all games that have winners and losers, winning strategies are counter intuitive. Give it some thought and you'll realise that it h…
/r/askTRP16/06/18 05:14 PM
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Whenever a guy tells me that an ex got back in touch with him, I ask him what number on the list did he think he was. With a 7 year relationship, OP is probably top or very close to top of the list but there is always a list. #1 blows out, try #2. If #2 blows out, try #3 on the list.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 03:39 PM
2

ime, what women really need to be taught is to stop treating their children like a piece of shit.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 03:20 PM
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Boys need male role models. Might be accidental or it might be deliberate but either way, the rise of what I'd term pedophobia has decent men avoiding the company of boys that need their guidance. When I was growing up, there were a lot of activities for boys. Youth clubs, boxing and judo clubs with volunteer work done by older guys that cared enough to add their input. Army, Sea and Navy cadets had ex military guys volunteering. Now, far too many decent guys are scared of having their honourabl…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 03:13 PM
3

You can be married and not be in love, if you find a good person to share goals I wasn't in love when I married. I was ready to start a family and just knew that she'd be a good mother. As it turned out, we were both good parents but equally lousy at being a spouse. Kids turned out fine so no ragrets.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 02:43 PM
3

sharia law prohibits usury They have ways of getting round that. They arrange the loan in such a way that it is compliant with Sharia law but the repayments made are the same as if it were an interest based mortgage.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 10:56 AM
1

She might be asexual or have a very low libido.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 04:14 PM
2

All is vell.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 08:07 PM
1

She text “not funny ____ wtf” 'You're right, not funny. Won't happen again.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 05:15 PM
2

call me selfish. Nothing wrong with being selfish, it's breaking your word that is wrong. If you want an open relationship on your side but closed on hers, then go for it. Plenty of women are prepared to share a high value man. Going along with monogamy when you don't really want to is a lie. If she does come back to you, you're fucked if you go the please trust me route. Better to say something like 'I'm an asshole that can't do monogamy, what happens now?'
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/18 01:47 PM
1

the backlash with female friends we both know is the only thing holding me back. Thoughts? You could tell them that you don't date within your social circle.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 07:51 PM
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You used to be like that. Use them as a yardstick to measure your progress. If you can, spend some time where nobody knows you and talk to as many people as you can.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 07:21 PM
1

Would you consider a cougar? A 25yo guy I know hits up the oldies online and gets plenty. btw, there are older women that would pay to take your cherry. One thing to look out for on dating sites is a woman listed as being say 26 and her profile says 'I'm 46 but the site won't let me change my age.' It's code for 'I want young cock'.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 12:09 PM
1

I see it as personality is why people like you at parties and character is why people are glad to have a friend like you when the chips are down. The bonds created through personality are like velcro, easy to make and easy to break. The bonds created through character are like the string on a kite. That string can become thicker string, then rope, then a cable. <i cant seem to be able to banter or be quick and witty fwir, Tricky Dicky had the same problem. He learned stock small talk to rinse an…
/r/askTRP12/06/18 11:55 AM
2

An author I found valuable but doesn't get mentioned much is Frank Bettger What's remarkable about him imo is that he wasn't born or raised to be one of lifes remarkable people. A mediocre baseball player and then a mediocre salesman who learned how to do remarkable things.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 11:45 AM
1

Get yourself a copy of 'When I Say No I Feel Guilty'. Learn the techniques and keep practicing them. It will help you to get from automatic 'flight or fight' responses to 'stand your ground without being aggressive'. Lots of things you can do to improve your life but imo WISNIFG is the best place to start for a person that has parent problems.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 12:50 PM
3

Ms Cincik said: 'Children were crying and women were crying, it was awful. <you could have pulled the chord from the safety of the next carriage that you left me for Why didn't any of the crying women get blamed for not pulling the chord? The woman is blatant about her double standards.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/06/18 08:59 PM
2

No that's incorrect. This is the UK. The appeal judges can change a sentence up or down. I know of a case where a guy appealed a £50 fine for assault and they gave him 3 months.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/06/18 08:31 PM
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She's lucky that her appeal didn't result in her getting a custodial sentence. (That has happened in the UK.) Oh hang on, not lucky...pussy pass.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/06/18 05:28 PM
9

Only the converted will tolerate proselytisers. If a persons actions don't interfere with your life, allow them the right to be wrong.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 10:49 PM
0

I just want to run up to her and shake her while screaming, "WHY ARE YOU LIKE THIS?! Because she didn't have the heart to tell Billy to fuck off when she first tried to dump him. Billy knows that she doesn't really want him but he's going for it anyway. Billy got to muff dive and for Billy, that is a result. You're blaming her for acting as her biology dictates. If blame should be given, it is Billy that is going against his biology.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 02:58 PM
1

A lot of adult anger comes from the pressing of buttons formed in childhood. If you think back to a time that you 'lost it', there's probably a childhood memory connected to that particular feeling of anger. ime, thinking through that memory as dispassionately as possible helps to disconnect the button.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 02:07 PM
0

I've read a fair few posts here from these lesser men. They seem to think that reading the sidebar entitles them to instant alphahood and no fucker is gonna amog them at the club tonight. MRP advises guys to regain control of their marriage slowly but here on TRP, it's hey you went to the gym so here's the keys to a Porsche Carrera GT. No need to learn how to drive lesser cars first, that's beta.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 12:44 PM
1

What is the strategy to take if they have some position of power / responsibility that they use to fuck with you though... Unless they're really damaged, people don't fuck with their allies. I've never had a problem with a boss/manager once they've realised that I'm on their side and will (within reason) cover their back.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 12:35 PM
2

A meal at a nice hotel where you have booked a room?
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/18 12:15 PM
1

If she's as far as BDP, she can DESTROY your life That's true enough but the YT guy is way OTT. He's what I'd call a Closet N. Right down to telling you that you that to have to cut people out of your life. No you don't. (BPD excepted.) Ns are manageable. Sure they'll use any trick in the book to make themselves feel ever so important but that's also their weakness. They'll use any trick in your book if their own tricks aren't working. Once you learn how to press their buttons properly, you pret…
/r/askTRP03/06/18 02:00 AM
21

In the UK, it's illegal to have sex with anybody that is 'under your care'. (Forget the proper term.) A 52yo student and their 22yo tutor hook up? The tutor is a sex offender. One guy got 12 months for banging his consenting 16yo step daughter. (Age of consent in the UK is 16.)
/r/TheRedPill02/06/18 10:40 PM
2

What the fuck is wrong with being in the company of somebody more alpha? Not hanging out with crab bucket betas is a given but there are plenty of guys who are either beta, alpha or somewhere in between that are worth hanging with because they are decent people.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 08:19 PM
5

Men are binary when it comes to relationships. A woman is either good enough for what he wants from her or she isn't. Haven't seen this posted anywhere for a while. imo it pretty much sums up the difference between how men and women think. <if he didn't commit to them, why would he to me? Your man is looking to settle down, it is your potential as a mother and a wife that is important to him. None of his exes measured up wrt starting a family but evidently you do. The game is yours to lose. btw,…
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/18 07:45 PM
3

Only 9% of women in the UK identify as feminist. There's a mumsnet thread bemoaning this fact and in the comments was this gem: I think you're being rather naive when you say that "most people believe in sexual equality" - that's simply not the case. Most people believe in not treating women like shit, but even lots of women believe that men are inherently superior.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/18 12:47 PM
5

It's a sad fact of life that doing the right thing can hurt like crazy.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 01:39 PM
2

I find benefits to using weed but to maximise those benefits, I need to lay off it for a while. With weed, I get to think through whatever projects I've got going on in my head. Great for streamlining and removing unneccesary effort. Without weed, I get to actually do something physical about making those projects happen. The main thing to remember about weed and alcohol imo is that once you have your first drink or your first spliff, that's the end of your productive day.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 01:35 PM
2

I'd like to know for sure because if a certain person is talking shit about me, then I need to handle it have an excuse to keep being a beta boy.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 12:54 PM
1

it would lower my value if I tried to become his friend Outcome dependence?
/r/askTRP31/05/18 08:15 PM
2

Sneaky little perverts the lot of them. There was a YT of a guy with a large (artificial) bulge in his pants and a hidden camera. Almost every woman opposite him on the tube had a good look. One took a pic.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 04:16 PM
2

Men are hypergamous when it comes to their career. You can look at female hypergamy the way you'd look at a mans career path. Lots of overlap.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 09:40 AM
1

Amateur dramatics. They're usually short of men.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 05:04 PM
1

You could get yourself something that you really but really wanted when you were 15 but was too expensive.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 04:24 PM
66

I proceed to laugh at the hilarity in the moment. I've got laid by laughing at the bad moments. Mate and I had the same night off (barmen) and we went clubbing. Club was dead because 9pm on a Tuesday night. Just 2 pairs of women dancing. We decide to split a pair up and we get on the dance floor. Just as we're about to do the classic maneuver, our target girls stopped dancing together and split up the other 2 girls, leaving us fucking stranded and looking all alone. Was slick enough to look like…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 09:07 PM
1

In my 20s, I was a barman in a holiday resort. I worked 6 nights a week and last orders was 4.45am but I'd finish an hour or two earlier if not too busy. Arrangement with my gf was that she could go on one off dates but no sex and I could have one off sex but no dating. Lots of pussy available so a pretty fair deal I thought. Whenever a guy would ask her out, she'd do the hope you don't want me for sex bs and the guy would play all nice and swear that he just wanted to take her on a date. That's…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 08:23 PM
2

There are PUAs that target profiles that say NO PLAYERS because they're an easier fuck. They both get laid and she's not a slut because she said no players.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 06:50 PM
3

It's easy to assume that's it is only us that she has called. We're one of many on her list. She keeps throwing out baited hooks until one of us bites.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 06:30 PM
2

can't choose which people i surround myself with Use them for practice. You could act as if he has the hots for you. Are you ever going to stop having a crush on me? Stop negging me, you need better pickup lines than that. If that doesn't work, try something else. Keep trying until you find their weak spot. Keep the delivery light, gives you plausible deniability. Fuck man, why you getting angry over a joke? Jeez...
/r/askTRP24/05/18 05:06 PM
2

he crossed a boundary Are you absolutely positive that you didn't cross a boundary first? There are lots of clever guys in the world. Some of them aren't liked much because they are too clever. The really clever guys never give the impression of being 'too clever'.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 04:56 PM
10

What are gaslighting For fucks sake lowkey65, are you ever going to stop asking what gaslighting is? You do this all the fucking time. You get answer after answer and then a week goes by and you ask the same question about gaslighting. Again.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 05:22 PM
3

You must be bitter as fuck if you think such behavior is awalt. Whether he is bitter or not is irrelevant. What's important is that he is correct. awalt when it comes to enduring a weak sauce mediocre pissant. She treats you like scum but will let Chad piss in her mouth. Same woman. Same awalt. Different stimuli.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 05:12 PM
1

I don't know why we had that crazy chemistry in bed. For how long can a girl with her mental problems keep a bf if she doesn't give mindblowing sex?
/r/askTRP22/05/18 04:58 PM
11

Maybe they are marrying up?
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/18 05:14 PM
1

Think of dancing as a mating ritual. You want to mate? Then you learn to dance.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 02:49 PM
1

<What's the threshold? The minimum requirement? Whoever/wherever you are right now is the minimum requirement. The fat guy fucking a hot chick? She is not that important to him. The poor guy fucking a hot chick? She is not that important to him. HE is important to him, which is why she responds. You have made HER more important than you. You get one guess as to why she does not respond.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 04:47 PM
1

For an older guy, being a divorced father has a lot going for it. Regular contact with your sprogs, continue your mission while spinning plates or slob out and go mgtow, your choice all the way.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 10:26 AM
2

<Because of this decisions an after a year and half of living alone I was forced to move back home with my mother and my stepdad You weren't forced, it was your best option at the time. There are people your age that would live under a bridge rather than go back to the parental home. Accept her for who she is. You know from experience what a lack of discipline can do. What was her childhood like?
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 02:20 PM
1

If you're angling for a fish, it is the biggest fish that you can get. The moment you catch that fish, it is no longer the biggest fish that you can get.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 12:50 PM
7

with all the reputable news sources in the world Less and less of those nowadays. There is bias everywhere. Many news outlets are cleverer than the Daily Mail (not difficult). Their bias is in what they don't say. eg. ignoring a news worthy story that doesn't fit their message and instead giving a non news story about somebody being upset. Of course the Mail does this too but in a cruder way. Can't remember the last time I read a Mail article that showed a woman in a good light. Although, in a g…
/r/PussyPassDenied11/05/18 10:59 AM
3

As you only have the guys word for what she said to them, she might be (almost) as innocent as you are. Possible scenario: 1st time, she waves. Not what you'd expect from a girl that you'd been creeping out at work. Boyfriend pissed. 2nd time, you acknowledge her. Boyfriend double pissed. Maybe she said something to try and make him think that she didn't have the hots for you. Even dumb meatheads can smell that bullshit so boyfriend now triple pissed. 3rd time, triple pissed boyfriend starts run…
/r/askTRP10/05/18 12:11 PM
1

Learn the difference between being lazy and being idle. A lazy man understands that the purpose of work is to avoid future work. An idle man wants to do nothing now but will pay for it by having to do extra work in the future. Idle men can end up working really hard even though that was never their intention. Ignore the mistranslation in the Bible, it is the lazy that will inherit the Earth. Before you do anything that could be considered work, including your studies, ask yourself the important …
/r/askTRP09/05/18 06:18 PM
1

Less is more if you’re not what women consider hot. I knew an ugly guy that was a natural player. He would say 'If I was good looking, I'd be able to bed them 30 minutes sooner'.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 09:25 PM
1

I thought I am supposed to be an unflappable high confidence guy. It’s the only way to survive. There are some socially awkward guys that have frame. Their frame might be fuzzy round the edges but they're not trying to prove that they're socially competent. They've found a way of owning their awkwardness and some women find that endearing. The fact that they survive, and get laid sometimes, proves that unflappable high confidence is not the only way to survive. <what is your definition of ‘creep…
/r/askTRP08/05/18 09:20 PM
1

This is easier said than done but it can be done: When faced with a situation/decision where you really don't know how to handle it, forget the present and look to the future. In 3 years time, all of this will just be a memory. Some actions might hurt now but be no never mind later. Flying off the handle might seem like it helps now but be regretted later. What is the course of action that benefits YOU the most in 2021? Once you've decided that, you have a plan and life is easier when following …
/r/askTRP07/05/18 02:52 PM
1

I would have to question the quality of these younger women. I don't think it is that difficult to nab yourself a 20-something frumpy, dumpy trailer park girl. Quality is personal preference. I prefer crazies and druggies to 'regular' women as for me, they're better company and less hassle*. Note 'crazies' not 'nasties'. Many of the frumpy dumpies have strong tendencies toward nastiness. *I vet for 'play nice' before I even think about anything sexual. If she's a potential nastie, I don't care h…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 02:23 PM
3

What if it was 2 guys? The guy in the white T shirt takes up a fighting stance. Why do that if not inviting combat? Would the other guy be just as wrong to take first swing?
/r/PussyPassDenied06/05/18 06:54 PM
4

A man wants to be free for his hobbies. A man needs his hobbies. Whether it's alone time or with mates, he gets time off from being husband/father/provider/wage slave. We can willingly do all of that but we really struggle to do it 24/7 and we can get so tired that we no longer care about losing frame. Time off recharges our batteries.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/18 04:28 PM
1

I've seen guys behind her pull her down. Not too gently either.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 05:06 PM
2

It's probably never going to stop. Neither are the most outlandish conspiracy theories. What I have noticed is that more and more people have stopped caring about this type of drama. As an example, the YT of those women walking out because a female speaker stated the fact that on average, men are taller than women. It does the rounds, usual drama etc. but it was just 3 women. About half of the audience were women and apart from the vocal 3, those women did not object to being told a fact.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 12:45 PM
5

This is MRP in nutshell: Lose weight. Get in great shape. Dress better. Become as attractive as you can. Learn to become a Sex God in bed. Become OI about not getting sex if she doesn't want to. Just cheerfully move on to the next thing. Get shit done around the house, manage the kids, finances, etc. Generally improve yourself in every way. If your wife is a bitch, realize that it's ultimately your fault. If she's mistreated you in the past, that's on you, not her. Always remember that she's a f…
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/18 02:10 PM
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It seems the consensus is that once a woman hits the wall she's lost her worth. Wife goggles are a thing. Assuming that she doesn't gain much weight, all she has to do is give them a clean once in a while and not do anything that breaks those wife goggles. If a woman marries at say 22, when she is 35, her husband will not see a post wall woman, he will see his beautiful 22 yo bride. If she divorces him, her next guy will see a 35 yo post wall woman. You can prove this for yourself if you know an…
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/18 01:19 PM
3

Jonah Hill is better at being Chad than Johnny Depp.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 05:44 PM
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RP guys are funny. No problems with the risks of fast cars or climbing mountains. How many women are tornado chasers? Yet when it comes to a divorce, it's omg, half my shit man! According to TRP, accumulating shit isn't that hard, so why the bitching about maybe losing half of it? Go get more shit. Plenty of divorced fathers that end up happy with the way things turned out. If you never want kids, fair enough but if you do want kids enough to care about the little buggers, they're going to cost.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 05:13 PM
2

Thank god for my current girlfriend and my last two girlfriends for being mutes My last 2 shackjobs were mutes. Sheer bliss. We could spend an evening listening to music with hardly a word spoken. As said earlier, people with spare cash will use some of it to avoid the type of problems that poorer people see as a fact of life. eg. how much is a gram of weed in NYC? If you're on the poor side of life, it can cost you your car, your job and perhaps even your liberty. If you're rich enough to pay a…
/r/askTRP25/04/18 02:51 PM
1

<Women don’t date down, so I’m pretty sure if she had a boat load of money over you she wouldn’t date you. She's Asian and my guess is in her mid to late 20s. Being single at that age is real bad news in many parts of the Orient. Christmas cake women. Difficult to dispose of after the 25th. Any woman in a culture where men won't date her because they consider her to be too old, is a 4 at best. Being rich adds a point or 2, so if OP is a solid 7 or more, then she is marrying up.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 08:59 PM
2

I want to know what I have to lose in my specific situation Worst case scenario: You marry her, she becomes poor, divorces you and takes half your shit. How much shit does she get half of and where did it come from? Say you stay single and at your chosen retirement date, you have accumulated 100 units of wealth. Will she be bringing to the table or merely taking from it? A spendthrift wife, even in a happy(ish) marriage could have you struggling to have 50 units by retirement time. Maybe you hav…
/r/askTRP23/04/18 08:45 PM
1

<I feel like RP theory failed me. Some women say that they don't like bald guys but those women have fucked bald guys. For every excuse you give, there is a guy that has fucked her because of that excuse. How do you answer that? Think on this: If none of this is your fault, then you are well and truly fucked. You have no agency, you have no control, you are well and truly fucked. You are a victim. Get your balls cut off and join the victim club. Or maybe you do have some agency and life is what …
/r/askTRP13/04/18 08:23 PM
1

The 'Like That' part of AWALT has a wide range. Using a different term, 'All Motorcycles Are Like That'. You can tell a motorcycle from a car right? They have 2 wheels and an engine. Some are reliable but slow. Some are fast but unreliable. Some are slow AND unreliable. If you know what you are doing, you can, within their limitations, have fun with them. If you're an idiot, they will dump your ass in a painful way. Your fault, because All Motorcycles Are Like That.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 05:53 PM
1

I've had some success with this: The arm you have around her shoulder is for getting feedback. Keep that hand in contact with her shoulder muscles. When your other hand goes further than she is comfortable with, you will feel her shoulder muscles tense up. Back off with the grouping hand until she is relaxed again. Rinse and repeat until she feels relaxed no matter where your hand is.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 05:40 PM
2

I'm mgtow rather than RP but imo, whether you go to a party/piss up/whatever the big question is: 'What's in it for me?' If there is the possibility of improving your network, then check it out. If you are working to improve your future then improving your future is work. Work isn't always fun, sometimes it's just work. The fact that you feel drained afterwards and need time to recover suggests that you are trying too hard. Attend with the aim of learning how to expend as little energy as possib…
/r/askTRP07/04/18 07:42 PM
1

Two people, equal everything, except that one is alpha and one is a narcissist. (The two traits can overlap.) Not much to choose between them when the going is good but when it hits the fan, the narcissist blames others and the alpha takes full responsibility for the fuck up.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 12:06 AM
1

There are blue pilled narcissists who try to act alpha, but then you see them crash and burn after something like a divorce or being unemployed. Or losing an election.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 11:53 PM
2

I don't think women realize that antagonizing a man is like a man throwing peanuts at a chimp and not expecting to get his fingers and junk bitten off. I can see it becoming the human version of this You can see the young girl beating her chest reflected in the window.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 01:49 PM
1

<I’ve been toying with the idea of telling her I’m done chasing but as long as she initiates I’ll try to find time for her if I can. She will translate that as meaning: Please fuck me. Please...pretty please...
/r/askTRP24/03/18 01:00 PM
1

A woman I knew got married to a German guy and took his surname. Then she realised that her name + new surname was close to sounding like 'suicidal'.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/18 12:46 PM
2

that's why it needs to be meaningful for you and enjoyable too I read an article about young marines on a rock climbing course. At the end of the day, the marines would be spent but their instructors, mostly middle aged, didn't seem tired at all. First thought was acclimitisation so they had some young marines stay there for a few months. Nope, worn out at the end of every days climbing. Finally, tptb learned why. The instructors loved climbing rocks. It wasn't work to them, it was fun. The youn…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/18 11:51 AM
1

also get a bit of red pill rage No point being angry at nature. I had a staffie that could convince almost anyone that she hadn't been fed and was starving. That dog managed to get triple fed one day and could hardly walk. It's part of what staffies do. I get played sometimes by women in my social circle. If it's minor, I go along with it, no big deal. They already know not to try big plays on me and they get off on small victories because women.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 11:26 AM
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what do you do with extreme assholes? In the UK, if evicted from social housing, they usually get left to fend for themselves for a while. If a spell of living on the streets doesn't get them to straighten up and fly right, then the streets are where they deserve to live. This one has been evicted from private housing and not by the LL, which is unusual. If she has the money for a deposit and rent in advance, she can find private housing. For social housing, she has a child so will get offered s…
/r/PussyPassDenied24/03/18 10:17 AM
2

That is so true and the prenup thing isn't close to being the main reason that we are fucked. We have a government and an opposition that no longer see their primary duty as protecting the people they govern.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/03/18 09:47 AM
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afaik, prenups aren't recognised in the UK.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/03/18 08:39 PM
3

Head of state is also head of church, head of the military, (recruits swear an oath to the monarch, not the government,) and other stuff I forget. Prime Minister is leader of the party that (usually) has the most MPs but they need the monarchs rubber stamp to be legit.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/03/18 04:23 PM
2

How I Raised Myself From Failure to Success in Selling by Frank Bettger. It's old but it is a story of an ordinary guy that managed to do remarkable things. While still being a good guy.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 06:36 PM
12

Queen = Head of State.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/03/18 04:16 PM
2

It's not a lie if they believe it.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 02:15 PM
285

In the UK: Head of State: Female. Prime Minister: Female. Home Secretary: Female.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/03/18 02:14 PM
1

Partying and studying are not mutually exclusive.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 11:44 AM
8

Live everyday like you'll die tomorrow. Can't remember the proper word but it means something on the lines of duality of thought processes. Live everyday like you'll die tomorrow. Check. Live everyday like you'll live forever. Check. If what you are doing only checks one box, not both, you shouldn't be doing it.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/18 11:09 AM
4

For some people, identifying with a cause raises their own importance to a level commensurate with that cause. Cause X is important right? I support cause X, therefore I am as important as cause X. Actually no. You are just somebody looking for a bandwagon to jump on for self validation irrespective of how important cause X actually is.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/03/18 10:21 PM
2

<Leaving is not an option for me. In that case, your relationship will get worse and worse until leaving him is absolutely your best option. Even then you might stay, like my mother did, and really fuck up your kids. My parents loved each other but for as long as I can remember, were rarely civil to each other. Drama on steroids. Shitty way to live a life and I hated them both for staying together 'For the sake of the kids'. I'd have preferred to have grown up alongside Oliver Twist in the orpha…
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/18 03:49 PM
1

Women don't see ugly the way men see ugly. Lack of confidence is what women see as ugly.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 09:36 PM
1

You weren't ready to get it done earlier.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 08:19 PM
1

I did it the lazy way and outlived her. Not the best option ime as she was hard work when alive but I couldn't convince her of shit once she had croaked. All that negativity for me to lose and it took decades. Still a bit left. I wish I had applied the techniques in WISNIFG plus agree and amplify. Apart from doing my head in, her negativity posed no threat to me physically or financially so why did I get so angry? Sucked into her drama I guess.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 09:15 PM
1

What do you like best about your job? What part of my work/life are you talking of? What do you think I should work on first? People can't play ball with you if you never throw the ball back. Practice asking questions and look for another question in their answer.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 08:55 PM
2

<I wish I was like the other women- the cool girls with great hobbies and passions, extremely confident in themselves, great social life by default of having their interests, etc. I wished I was asexual I'm a heterosexual guy that acts asexual when it's convenient, which is most of the time. I value my privacy so I don't date or hook up within my immediate social circle. I also refuse to be an emotional tampon for my female friends so they know to save it for their girlfriends. Until they can't …
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/18 08:27 PM
2

Let's play with the MM quote. (Which I'm sure was written for her.) 'If you get to see me at my worst, I don't deserve you.'
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/18 12:59 PM
2

I'm currently reading 'Sense and Sensibility'. They married young back then.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 05:34 PM
1

fwir, they don't bother doing outcall stings as it doesn't get them as many arrests as incalls.
/r/askTRP24/02/18 08:51 PM
0

It's looking like you might be working elsewhere whatever happens. Either owner A has in it for you and fires you or does the passive aggressive constructive dismissal thing or the 2 women get the place unionised and you'll leave anyway. You really need a genuine offer of employment in your field. Start looking now. Once you have that, you can talk to A and B together and tell them that you don't want to leave but no way will you work for a unionised company. That way, you haven't overtly told y…
/r/askTRP24/02/18 08:24 PM
0

I've worked for a few firms that had 2 owners with opposite personalities and character. Often, owner B is a hardass that enjoys business but doesn't want to deal with employees. He leaves that to the nice guy, owner A. At one factory, the socialist owner A caught a driver stealing diesel. He'd been doing it for years. Instead of firing him, he had the guys wages docked to pay off what he stole. Two years later, that driver tried to get the company unionised and there was a long strike. Owner A …
/r/askTRP24/02/18 06:51 PM
1

Get yourself a copy WISNIFG Used copies available dirt cheap. Read and apply the techniques. It's kryptonite to parents.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 07:17 PM
1

I was wondering to what degree their SMV would be affected by having kids with an ex-wife. ??? Asking guys here about smv gets an educated guess at best. You're a woman. Therefore a guys smv is whatever the fuck you say it is.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 12:06 PM
2

There are so many tales about successful guys being idiots with women that it isn't jumping to conclusions.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 09:17 PM
3

How can she be out of your league if you are the prize?
/r/askTRP12/02/18 06:58 PM
7

'Rake' is an Aussie show on Netflix. Cliched 'brilliant but self destructive' protagonist. Relevant imo is where he is talking about his exes. When he falls for a new woman, he doesn't stop loving the previous ones. Maybe most of us are like this? No harm in having feelings for them. The harm is in allowing those feelings to degrade your own current and future quality of life.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 04:22 PM
1

'Away with the fairies' crazies can be good fun and nowadays I prefer them to 'normies'. Less baggage. It's 'nasty' that guys should be screening for and it doesn't take much people watching to spot those women.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 07:11 PM
3

There was a social experiment where a class got to interview, in turn, guys from different professions and social class. Afterwards, the class was asked to estimate the height of the guys. All of the guys were the same height but the higher class guys were perceived as taller.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 04:34 PM
0

<it was always considered wrong to fight with a women Once women lose that protection, they are so screwed. What happens when enough men are so sick of SJWs that they will quite happily beat up white nights for no other reason than they are white nights and therefore traitors. Without white knights, women stand alone.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 04:16 PM
7

You can't act like a slut and expect people to treat you like anything but a slut. I once had a fling with a single mother of 26, I was 46 at the time. For her, it was like time stopped when she hit puberty, 26 going on 14. She always wore short skirts, cheap ones so they rode up at the back, made worse by her wearing high heels. As much cleavage as possible. She dressed like this walking her kids to and from school. There was an unwritten code among the other mothers that there was no dolling u…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 03:58 PM
1

<Taking a hiatus on dating for another month or two - i know I'll hear it's gay but i worry if i fuck around I'll be tempted to get into a relationship because i haven't built myself enough. Fair enough but on your other post you said: <I’m not super into the idea of meaningless sex, I wanna be with someone low count and I feel like if I don’t hold myself to the same standard I’ll sabotage that from manifesting. That is a covert contract with women you haven't even met yet. Men and women are ver…
/r/askTRP06/02/18 02:12 PM
1

Cheap trick but it works most times: Using your pocket English/Your language dictionary, look up 'Princess'. Show her the word then point at her and smile. If she is interested, she will take the dictionary and show you the word 'Prince'. This is where you sadly shake your head and show her the word 'Frog'. If she's gone this far, she will probably kiss you.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 11:21 PM
1

"do onto others as you would have then do on to you" I don't see anything wrong with that. If somebody caught me trying to steal from them, I'd expect some form of kickback from them, maybe violence. So if I catch someone trying to steal from me, that's what I would do. Same if I was being verbally mean to someone. They're not wrong to be mean back and neither am I if that's what I choose to do if they are being mean to me.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 09:42 PM
1

I had a female friend that I could tell was asexual. More chance hitting on a lezzer so I never bothered. After a few years it was like we were brother and sister.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 07:35 PM
1

I used to be angry with my parents. Until I realised that their childhood was absolute shit compared to mine. Not only that, all 4 of my grandparents had a far worse childhood than my parents did. A lot of RP wisdom relates to having the ability to walk away. You won't be a grown up until you can mentally walk away from their lack of parenting skills.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 02:13 PM
1

Fix the body language asap. Someone grows up stressed and it shows in their body language. They move away from the stress but surprise surprise, they still have the same body language and that generates stress for them even though they are far removed from the original source of stress. Check out the Alexander Technique
/r/askTRP31/01/18 07:50 PM
1

It isn't mine. Heard it on an old tv series The Water Margin
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 05:08 PM
9

I read of an English woman that divorced her French husband and was outraged by the French court granting the two of them joint custody.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 01:23 PM
6

A female coworker (English) told me about when she went to Canada in her late teens to stay with relatives for a year. She got so fat that her dad, who was at the airport to pick her up, walked right past her while looking for his daughter.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 01:19 PM
12

'True wealth is having a thrifty wife.'
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 08:20 PM
6

Yeah, that's what I take it as, a short lived emotional beating. I've never physically hit a woman but every one of my exes knew instinctively that I would hit them hard if they were dumb enough to ever hit me. None of them ever hit me, so no problem.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 02:35 PM
0

It's possible that you are not the only ex that she texts when drunk. Men tend to have the habit of thinking that when an ex communicates with them, she is not also communicating with other exes.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 12:34 PM
4

Have you read any of the stories on here of men who have gone through divorce? There's a thread here called 'How to Divorce your Wife'. The guys that did it well have, imo, achieved the perfect endgame. Joint custody so regular contact with their children. No alimony so a lot easier to rebuild their wealth. Downside is having to play Billy Beta for a year or two during the breakup but once that price has been paid, it's gravy all the way.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 12:22 PM
4

There was a line in (iirc) a James Clavell novel that puzzled me at first but now I'm starting to understand it. Spoken by an older oriental guy: 'A man must beat his wife once a week but not too harshly, or she will endeavour to make his hours bitter.'
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 11:51 AM
12

a guy gets married, thinks that he's "won" and he doesn't have to go out and compete with other guys anymore, he anesthetizes himself with sportsball and beer and pretty soon he finds himself on the wrong end of a petition for divorce. I'm a baby boomer and there were so many marriages like this back when I was a kid. The prevailing attitude from married men seemed to be: 'I don't need to chase women because I own a doormat'. Looking back, 80% of married guys my dads age or older were drunk capt…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 11:25 AM
1

Chester is the sort of area that some want to move to when they retire. Many will be in want of a reliable handyman. They will have been ripped off by registered tradesman and let down by the local handyman due to his unprofessional attitude so they will probably be wary of you until they learn that you act professionally. Things like calling to let them know if you'll be late and tidying up after you have finished the job. As always with self employment, work all of your hours. If you only have…
/r/askTRP30/01/18 10:37 AM
2

If you go to London, work will be easy to find but rents are ridiculously expensive and the extra you pay in rent is usually more than the extra wages London pays. If you do decide on London, make a financial plan and stick to it. Live like a pauper and get the fuck out once you have reached your target. That city can suck the life out of you. Plenty of people moved there full of fire and ambition, then found themselves working a second job because one wage packet wasn't enough. When working in …
/r/askTRP29/01/18 05:50 PM
2

<Maybe what you mean is the less you want to win the less likely you are to notice you lost. That would be a form of sour grapes mgtow and is not what I mean at all. Take up a sport where you need to act counter intuitively to stand a chance of winning. There's plenty of choice, golf. darts. pool/snooker, poker etc. <how am I supposed to win without wanting You keep the 'wanting' in the background and concentrate on making correct decisions. The 'will to win' has to be put on the back burner or …
/r/askTRP26/01/18 09:37 AM
2

One of lifes ironies is that the loser gets to be the most alive. You are so alive right now. Every instinct you have screams for her, you now know your purpose in life and whatever that is, it involves her. While you are feeling ever so alive, your oneitis is feeling 'meh'. (Unless she is pining for Chad and has forgotten that you exit.) At the same time, it is possible that one of your plates has caught feelings for you. She is 100% alive while suffering from unrequited love and you are 'meh'.…
/r/askTRP25/01/18 07:37 PM
9

<What's the point of building my SMV if it's going to be thrown out in the long term. Wife goggles. Many women fail to understand just how powerful wife goggles are. To your husband of 15 or 20 plus years, you have no wrinkles and no crows feet. You haven't aged at all and you are as beautiful as the day he married you. [Doesn't always apply to weight gain though.] Break or crack those goggles and he will start seeing you wrinkles, warts and all but until then, you are his hot young dream girl t…
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/18 05:35 PM
1

The Richest Man in Babylon Financial advice given in the form of parables. A good starting book imo.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 09:34 AM
2

could/will take half your shit eventually Some wives worry so much about their husband leaving them that no amount of cash and prizes would make up for that.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/18 05:44 PM
3

I see it as all the various RP subs try to answer the question: 'What's in it for me and how do I get that?' All of the subs discourage any form of abuse and all such posts are usually jumped on hard. RP is a healthy form of selfishness that goes against the BP mantra of 'Sacrifice yourself so that others may benefit.' TRP has a lot of young men and they want what most young men want. A good income, lots of sex with hot women and no commitment. Only natural that TRP often talks about that. [In t…
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/18 05:01 PM
1

BP rich: Was reading of a business tycoon, easily a billionaire on todays money. Huge house, butler, well known chef exclusively employed by him. You get the idea. The guys favourite meal was shepherds pie but his chef refused to make it for him because reasons. He hosted top level dinner parties and needed his chef so couldn't fire him, therefore no shepherds pie. RP rich: Middle aged guy I knew. Working class and clued up wrt finances. Owned a good house, no mortgage. Also owned 2 black cabs, …
/r/askTRP06/01/18 03:42 PM
1

I'm 6 foot. Good looking, good genetics and have done ok with next to no game. I do (did) ok. The only guys that ever did better than me were shorter. At the time, I put it down to women being less scared of them because they were pipsqueaks. Turns out it was because they had more front. Who knew?
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 06:24 PM
4

There is no way I am going to pull either of those things off if I'm nervous. I've seen that so many times. Nervous guy with no chance feels he has to try because real men always try right? Easiest way to stop being nervous with women is to go asexual for 6 months and talk to as many people as possible. Girls are shit hot at spotting sexual interest, be it from a dork or a hunk. Acting asexual has her feel safer if you're a dork and the more you get used to talking to women the easier it becomes…
/r/askTRP04/01/18 12:54 PM
0

If rants are the worse she does, let her rant.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 12:04 PM
2

no matter how I try I feel like me being her son ruins any attempt at me trying to get through to her with knowledge You could start by accepting that your mother has the right to be wrong.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 11:58 AM
2

It's fucking sick that's what it is Which is sicker, her pressing your buttons or you allowing those buttons to be pressed?
/r/askTRP04/01/18 11:38 AM
1

Dads want their children to thrive and they know that means some risk is involved along the way. Mothers will say that they want their children to thrive but their main desire is to have them safe. Less risk is better. The thriving bit is to be done when they are not there as they don't like like knowing about the risks.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 11:32 AM
2

Self-esteem is psycho babble. Get therapy about feeling bad because you keep whipping your dick out and pissing whenever you feel the need to piss. Several thousand dollars later, you're cured and you no longer feel the slightest embarrassment when getting the urge to piss. You get your dick out and piss.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 06:25 PM
1

I made the mistake of talking about TRP. Even after I learned to stfu, I'd regularly get shit from some of those I'd mentioned it to. Luckily, the incels came to my rescue by getting their sub booted. Now, if I get asked about TRP, my standard reply is: 'The incel sub got deleted. Guess where the crap ended up?' Followed by a shrug of the shoulders and TRP is then considered dead to those that know me.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 02:46 PM
-5

I'm an old guy that isn't wealthy and have basically coasted through life. Wasn't that bad actually but I'm a boomer and the dice were loaded in our favour. Most men would like to start a family at some time. If I were a 20 yo now but keeping what I already know, I'd be looking for a wife now. Immediately. I'd be looking to add nuclear family parents to my social network and seek opportunities to meet many such parents. If the parents I got friendlier with happen to have a young daughter or two,…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 02:14 PM
5

<What I crave is a really intense bond that goes beyond “are we compatible?” That was my parents. They met and fell in love on the dance floor. My dads sister told me that everybody commented on how much in love they were. Guess what happens when two incompatible people fall deeply in love? Drama. Lots of drama. Screaming, shouting and arguments. Night after night after night. Mustn't forget the door slamming. They still loved each other, that never stopped but they really but really didn't like…
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/18 12:34 AM
2

All men have emotions but we can be very selective in who we show them to. Many of us choose to only share our biggest concerns with a close male friend. For whatever reasons, women often want to know what is in their mans head. That is ever so private and to many of us, is as offensive as being repeatedly asked to show her breasts is to a wife. Or maybe her cervix, that's a very private place that most women won't show her SO on demand. I'm in my mid 60s and never once has a man asked me what I…
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/18 11:18 PM
4

If only I were born during times of patriarchy There were plenty of unfaithful wives back then. In a relationship, ime, the toughest one ends up being the dominant one. I had a Muslim coworker. His wife did the one step behind bs when out in public with him. At home, she ruled with a rod of iron.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 08:33 PM
16

Most guys are oblivious to IOIs. If a guy can tell an IOI straight away and approaches, then she has made the first move. All he did was respond to an invitation.
/r/askTRP31/12/17 01:28 PM
1

Not sure what it is called but role reversed starfish sex. She is on top with her legs closed. Guy is on his back with his legs open. gf with a loose pussy liked doing that a lot. I liked it too as it tightened up her pussy, plus she was the one doing the work.
/r/askTRP31/12/17 01:20 PM
0

You clearly HATE woman. Not just the women that have harmed you - you hate ALL women. I bet you hate the midwife that pulled your nasty ass out if your mother's pussy. You fell at the first hurdle. This is a place for men. Almost any female trying to fit into a male domain is going to have her tits mentioned. You think a new man in an established male group gets a free ride? No chance. He will get ribbed anyway they can think of until he has proved to them that he can take it. That's how men wor…
/r/askTRP29/12/17 09:58 AM
2

Would it be BP or RP to simply let it go?
/r/askTRP24/12/17 05:31 PM
26

Looking back at my 20s, the more beta I was with a gf, the more her mother liked me.
/r/askTRP24/12/17 10:59 AM
1

How do you know she wasn't legitimately scared and wasn't attracted? Because if she was genuinely attracted to you sexually, she would have fucked you by now. Many years ago, I was a drinks waiter at a cabaret club. (Remember them, you old farts?) A dozen women working there and me, the only male, apart from the manager who was so hands off that we hardly ever saw him. Place ran like clockwork. At first it was 'Male present, act accordingly.' Three weeks later, they got sick of that shit and ign…
/r/askTRP22/12/17 08:33 PM
1

How do I stop her from continuing to make these remarks in the future? Reply with a joke about her vagina being huge/loose. Her: I'm not impressed by the size of your organ. Him: I wan't expecting to play in an auditorium.
/r/askTRP22/12/17 04:25 PM
1

Was once talking to a young woman who was so soft spoken that she was barely audible. Studying drama. Wanted to be a theatre actress.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/17 03:43 PM
1

Start doing stand up and keep working at it until you are funny. There's always room in show business for a funny runt.
/r/askTRP22/12/17 03:35 PM
3

Some guys own their social awkwardness. An attractive mix of strength and vulnerability. When we see the results others get, it's easy to forget that most, if not all, medals have a dull side. You have no idea how many times that guy has been a sad wallflower wishing he could get what some other Chad was getting. Or how many times he has cringed from embarrassment after finally gathering up his last shred of courage to approach her and then be laughed at. Or it could be the opposite and he has h…
/r/askTRP20/12/17 01:37 PM
1

<would she have done that? Bragging rights.
/r/askTRP16/12/17 07:32 PM
3

"content" Girl code for 'bored'.
/r/askTRP16/12/17 05:43 PM
2

Ken Dodd joke: She asked me how many women I'd slept with [starts counting on his fingers] two...three...You...five...
/r/askTRP29/11/17 08:32 PM
1

If I were starting over as a young guy, I'd be looking for an asexual girl that was ok with me getting discrete side action.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 04:23 PM
4

It would be more interesting to hear about 60 years ago - pre-hippy. I bet it was less AWALT through enforced standards and economy. I'm a Brit born in the early 50s. It might have appeared to be less awalt back then but people had a stronger sense of propriety so you never really knew about it unless you were also involved. Most of the men back then acted in a somewhat RP way because that was what was expected of them. RP actions for BP reasons. As soon as guys got challenged by the second wave…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 04:22 PM
2

<Valid advice will be taken seriously You're now talking about what you bring to the table, so maybe my advice had some validity? I could have toned it down a lot and still have made the same point though. As others have said, you need to go on a lot more first dates and a lot less second and third dates. In the six months it took to rid yourself of an unsuitable guy, you could have gone on a huge number of first dates. All guys have some red flags. The biggest red flag of all is an over 30 neve…
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/17 02:17 PM
1

<Now feel free to carry on. If ever there was a phrase guaranteed to make me love you! Maybe I am a troll. Maybe not. Either way, imo you are worth some effort. Can we talk about the agency of the (type of) guy you want to end up with? What does 31 year old you bring to the table that 25 year old you didn't? Serious question.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/17 10:00 PM
3

You are right. I am wrong. The men that you want have no agency whatsoever and must be re-educated to agree with your view of the world. Viva la revolution!
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/17 08:35 PM
2

Mid 70s, me mid 20s, her early 30s. Love at first sight yada yada. We start shacking up together and I bring my sounds and LPs to her place. I like Leonard Cohen. Played Dress Rehearsal Rag and she went into Cosmic overload. Talked about suicide for days. Days turned into more suicide talk days and I snapped. We were sitting on the couch and I covered her mouth with one hand while holding her nostrils closed with the other. For somebody so keen on wanting to die, she fought like a fucking tiger.…
/r/askTRP26/11/17 08:12 PM
5

It's very interesting because I used to attract very open-minded and honest people in my 20s Sorry to be 'that guy' but in your 20's you were gold. Then you went to silver, then bronze. Now you are tin. Or fast approaching tin. ffs, stop thinking of yourself as gold. Those days are long gone. On the basis of 'half your age plus seven', that makes the maximum age of your guy 48. Too old for you? Them's the breaks. You want a a 36 yo guy? On the basis of 'half your age plus seven' that 36 yo guy i…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/17 07:28 PM
0

Even more rewarding not to get sucked into a pissing contest and go talk to some women instead.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 10:24 PM
2

He's a plastic alpha imo. On a TV show he got introduced as 'The Monster from the Shadows' and then gave a very passable impression of a sperg. To make that debacle worse, he made a validation video about how the show did him an injustice. Poor thing.
/r/askTRP24/11/17 02:37 AM
10

It's just ridiculous Every girl believes that princes are born, not made. Princes know different.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 07:06 PM
11

She did not lie. She told him to tell you that she likes you. Orbiter cuck lied and told you she is not interested in you. I don't think that the orbiter lied. She was interested enough to have the orbiter pass on a shit test to OP. Shit test = Are you worth fucking? The orbiter didn't know that it was a shit test, hence the bewilderment when he saw her snogging OP.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 11:02 AM
3

I guess I want her to want me then I can decide if I want her back I've played that game. Sweet fantasies of her wanting me back and me saying nah. It wears off.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 01:27 AM
3

Some girls like baldies, some don't and some aren't bothered either way. Shallow or not, girls can easily tell if a guy is insecure about himself.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 12:13 AM
7

the longer routes are what you want since they'll pay the most. It's pretty random what you'll get though. I drove a taxi for many years, what are the best jobs depends on how busy it is. If it's busy, you want short fares because they keep you where the action is, so less dead miles.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 06:05 PM
1

What was common about all three, however, was ME. Some people that have have been in a long term abusive relationship get the mindset that there are only abusers and victims. Helps explain the love bombing he/she can do in the first 2 weeks. Then it (subconsciously) dawns on them that you are not an abuser. Therefore they are the abuser and you are the victim. Both of you then fall into victim/abuser roles. Their next relationship can have them playing the opposite role. I've seen that happen wi…
/r/askTRP15/11/17 10:06 PM
1

If you want a cheap, effective and neutral deodorant, use Everclear (96% abv alcohol) in a spray bottle. Can keep your pits odour free for over 24 hours. If you want compliments for smelling nice, find out what higher smv guys use.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 10:35 AM
1

<They all get pissy about it. Some never talk to me again...others pop in every couple weeks to get an oil change. They get pissy because they feel cheated. Whether you led them up the garden path or they did it to themselves is irrelevant. They feel cheated so they must have been cheated. imo you need to let it be known asap that you don't do commitment. It's honest and it will filter out a lot of husband hunters. Some will hope they can change your mind but hey, you did warn them at the start.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 01:11 PM
4

<I'll notice zero IOI from these women initially, just friendly chitchat. But eventually their behavior changes drastically after a few months. Maybe that is down to: 'I tried being subtle but he didn't notice. I tried being obvious but he still didn't notice. But he did take notice when I hit him with a brick.'
/r/askTRP12/11/17 04:28 PM
13

Can't remember where I read this but it seems appropriate: As part of their training, some Marines were sent to the Rockies to go rock climbing. It was noted that the young Marines would mostly be flagging at the end of the day but their middle aged instructors were not. First assumption was acclimatisation as most of the instructors had been there for years. They had some Marines stay on but no, they were still more tired than their instructors at the end of the day. Then the penny dropped. The…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 03:31 PM
1

The problem with dysfunctional families is that ALL members of the family have behaviour problems. That includes you. Some of the shit they call you out on is justified. You are not going to be able to move on until you accept that and make an effort to correct your behaviour. Get a copy of WISNIFG and practice the techniques.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 09:48 AM
1

<i stopped using them nbecause i heard they arent useful for maths,physics,chemistry,biology Boeing use mind maps. A Boeing Aircraft engineering manual was condensed into a 25-foot long Mind Map, to enable a team of 100 senior aeronautical engineers to learn in a few weeks what had previously taken a few years. The result was an estimated saving of $11 million. Source
/r/askTRP28/10/17 08:19 PM
3

do I really fuck the crazy again.. knowing the crazy? Crazy gets such a bad rep. Totally unfair imo. I like crazy women. Got raised by one so I can almost understand the lingo. Here's the thing. Crazy =/= Nasty. Two different things although both can be true of the same person. 'Away with the fairies' crazy is great for as long as you can handle the weirdness. 'Nasty' crazy is fairly easy to spot. A disrespect for other peoples time, a sense of entitlement, her exes are literally Hitler etc. Cav…
/r/askTRP26/10/17 08:01 PM
1

Young guy wanting to game women but comes off as creepy. Wants to know how to appear non creepy while still being a creep.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 10:08 AM
1

Kim byRudyard Kipling. Ears and eyes open and careful choice of words when speech is needed. Kim is adept at following the 48 Laws of Power.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 03:47 PM
1

Some people have a strong aversion to eye contact but are otherwise ok. He could be one of them Maybe the women see him as 'strong but vulnerable'?
/r/askTRP24/10/17 12:08 AM
1

Do the dam chores because you are a man and it needs to get done. A couple I once knew. She wanted a shelf putting up. He said he'd do it. He didn't. Over the next year, a couple of reminders from her got her accused of nagging. A guy in their social circle does that sort of stuff for a living so she suggested bringing him in to put up the shelf. He starts sulking like it's a direct attack on his masculinity. I SAID THAT I'LL DO IT. Another year passes, still no shelf. They split up and a month …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/17 01:57 PM
1

The line is stoicism. +Everything. Stoicism isn't about not giving a fuck. Or even about making other people think that you don't give a fuck. Stoicism is about letting other people know, just by looking at you, that everything is going to be all right because you can handle it. Adventures in Two Worlds by A J Cronin is the autiobiography of a doctor. He talks of the most stoical man he has ever met. Top bowls player. Never cracked no matter how high the pressure. When the guy comes in because o…
/r/askTRP17/10/17 07:19 PM
1

$600 a month to be 'not quite free' seems more expensive imo than $850 a month to be fully free. Any half decent but reasonably priced hotels close to where the parties happen? Getting a room at a nearby hotel once or twice a month gives you a bed for the night so no DUI worries and if you score, that's a bonus.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 05:05 PM
1

If you’re too spontaneous, people start to see you as a normal person with vulnerabilities—not as a leader. That is wrong because...?
/r/askTRP09/10/17 12:07 PM
0

To suggest then that adolescent boys are any more prepared for sexual trysts with fully mentally developed adults in a position of authority is neglectful of reality. If men could only engage in a sexual tryst when fully mature, almost all guys under 50 would be virgins.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/10/17 09:48 AM
1

The way UK law works, if your 22 year old teacher fucked 50 year old you, she could go to prison.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/10/17 09:35 AM
1

You have a point but if a woman can get that into a guy because of a wing-man, I want a wing-man like that.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 01:04 PM
1

I like to learn things for myself the hard way. Might as well, it's only a year. if she ends up coming along, the evil furry creatures will not be invited regardless How can that possibly happen? You making her lose the moggies will cause a lot of resentment, which will grow and fester. It's over but you're flatmates with benefits until the lease is up. Stop pretending otherwise.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 12:53 PM
1

The twins knew.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 12:32 PM
1

There was a pheromone test on UK TV some years ago. Identical twins in their late 20s, only one of them wore the pheromones. The female reporter, also late 20s, didn't know about the test. She thought she was out having dinner with identical twins to see how much difference there was between them. The show came back to them in the restaurant every half hour or so for a quick update. You could tell that she'd been enjoying the wine and the brothers looked like they were going to burst into laught…
/r/askTRP04/10/17 11:24 PM
1

You were living alone before she moved in. You'd still be living alone if she hadn't moved in so the rent is 100% on you imo. Think of whatever she does pay in rent as being 'gross profit'. Subtract the extra you spend because of her, fad food etc. and what's left is 'net profit'. Looking at it that way, it could well be that you're getting paid $x a time to fuck her.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 02:07 PM
4

I was a private hire taxi driver for many years and saw all kinds of dudes pull women. What those guys all had in common was that they didn't give off a 'Desperate' vibe. Women can spot that so easily.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 12:36 PM
1

Judging by the experience of myself and other guys I know, the big danger is not having to learn how to game again but not having a strong enough network of males when the ltr/marriage ends.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 01:59 PM
1

Now guys like you are trying to blame men because they don't bitch slap their wives when they get mouthy or throw them over their knee when they are unpleasant. wtf? I said nothing of the sort. Plenty of guys on MRP doing well and with wives happy that their captain is no longer drunk at the wheel. No violence needed. If they can do it, so can others.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/17 06:13 PM
1

Some marriages go the distance, some end in divorce. If AWALT, then what decides the longevity of a marriage is the husband. Has to be. If it can be the womans fault, the fact that some marriages go the distance proves that not all women are like that.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/17 02:49 PM
8

As a Brit, it's a case of 'different worlds'. There's the internet and there is the real world. It's been over 15 years since a women has identified herself as a feminist to me without someone else bringing up the subject. Sure they can argue feminism if somebody else starts it but otherwise they (and the rest of us) just get on with living life. It's a bit like living in Stalinist Russia. Some shit you don't talk about and life goes on regardless.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 04:50 AM
1

What's the point in doing that if you have no intention of ever interacting with them again? It's not done because it benefits/hurts her. It's done because that is what is best for you.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 10:01 PM
1

I am having a hard time applying it to ALL areas of my life. Then don't. Start with small successes and build on them and do it easy. The whole point of self improvement is to have more fun in life is it not?
/r/askTRP19/09/17 02:40 PM
1

An ex was very loose. She knew it and had a position that compensated. It was a form of reverse missionary. Me on my back, legs open, her on top with legs closed. She'd do the pumping and I'd be the starfish. Great fun but difficult to last long.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 01:54 PM
1

Did you have a stressful childhood? If so, it could be a problem with your body posture. Easy to recognise a kid that is nervous by their posture. Kid becomes an adult, lives far away from the original cause of the stress but if their body posture doesn't change, the anxiety is still there. Check out The Alexander Technique
/r/askTRP17/09/17 01:32 PM
2

Stop thinking like a special entitled snowflake, that's womens work. btw, your ex is a plate.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 10:57 PM
2

I got into an argument with some idiots Let's fix that for you...I got into an argument with some fellow idiots
/r/TheRedPill12/09/17 05:01 PM
2

Is this the first time you will have stayed at a hotel when you could have stayed at her place? If so, it's a painful proof that you have really 'left home'. Way different than 'My son lives here but is currently serving in the military'.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 05:45 PM
1

Check out mind mapping: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mind_map
/r/askTRP05/09/17 05:46 PM
2

Back in the 80s, a private eye was talking about his job. Most of his clients were wives that suspected their husband of having an affair. According to him, with every husband that was having an affair, the other woman had longer hair than the wife.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 07:08 PM
1

This was the Socrates quote: The children now love luxury; they have bad manners, contempt for authority; they show disrespect for elders and love chatter in place of exercise. Children are now tyrants, not the servants of their households. They no longer rise when elders enter the room. They contradict their parents, chatter before company, gobble up dainties at the table, cross their legs, and tyrannize their teachers.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 02:23 AM
1

Our parents can blame our grandparents, who can blame our ... Best we can hope for imo is to give our kids a better childhood than we got. For all their faults, my parents easily managed that as my grandparents set a very low bar.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 01:34 AM
20

She is also responsible for a lot of my psychological problems. I used to believe that about my mother but I was wrong. Was my mother responsible for me entering manhood with psychological problems? Yes. Was my mother responsible for me continuing to have psychological problems? No. That's on me.
/r/askTRP27/08/17 11:01 AM
1

It's been like that for as long as I can remember. My early years coincided with the rise of The Rolling Stones. Lucky me. Here's the 100 top hits of 1967: Of the lyrics about relationships, they're nearly all BP, it's what sells.
/r/askTRP26/08/17 11:39 AM
3

Victoria did ok. As did Elizabeth I.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 04:12 PM
1

Socrates said some mean stuff about the youngsters of his day.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 04:06 PM
1

what was going on in fcking 1924 already? The Roaring 20s. Heroin thin babes and decadent parties. Everyone having a great time except the socially awkward. Boom times thanks to easy credit. Marie Curie had won 7 awards when Tesla wrote that. Maybe he felt a bit insecure?
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 03:51 PM
3

Those women do exist. and nearly all of them are still married to the guy that they wed in their 20s.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/17 12:14 PM
1

You don't need much in the way of IQ. Enough smarts to be able to tell if a guy is good at his job is plenty. That's how some alcoholics are able to be successful managers and businessmen. They learnt to delegate because they had no choice but to delegate.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 11:38 PM
2

People can't teach what they don't know. The mix of RP and BP back in the 'good old days' was about the same as it is now. Some guys were naturals and their sons learned by example. Most guys had a lot of BP tendencies and they did their version of mgtow by spending time in the pub with other mgtow husbands. While there, they talked a good fight, then went home to SWMBO. The movie 'An Education' absolutely nails the prevailing attitude of the 60s in the UK: http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1174732/?r…
/r/askTRP23/08/17 06:41 PM
3

It wasn't you. Besides, you weren't there so it must have been somebody else. If accused, deny and keep denying until your tongue bleeds. That gives her a little bit of hope that you didn't actually cheat. Which of course you didn't.
/r/askTRP22/08/17 11:11 AM
2

'So you've had sex with most of the guys round here?'
/r/askTRP21/08/17 05:00 PM
2

Their genetics were incapable of giving a single fuck.
/r/askTRP21/08/17 04:49 PM
1

Get the fuck out of London and move to somewhere real.
/r/askTRP19/08/17 08:12 PM
2

Damn right they can be fun. Had a ons with a slim 56yo when I was 20. She wore me out.
/r/askTRP19/08/17 09:32 AM
2

I'm willing to stay his friend because I've learned to accept that he's willing to be a flaccid lazy version of what he could be. It used to bother me a lot, but I've come to grips with it. 'Nobody has to be...any better than what they want to be.' [From 'Australia' by The Kinks.]
/r/askTRP19/08/17 07:59 AM
1

How do you not be a bitter soul. Simple. It's your fault. You might disagree but any man that does agree that it is their fault has not a trace of bitterness in them.
/r/askTRP18/08/17 01:03 AM
4

Our grandparents generation was more alpha I don't think so. What you see with Brando and Newman etc. is the cream of the crop. Most guys from back then were pussies, same as now. The difference is the environment. Woman back then were expected to take the submissive role and get what they wanted by using girl game. Even then, there were always some couples where she wore the pants. When a 20 something, I heard plenty of disrespect in the pubs from middle aged wives towards their husbands. The m…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 03:26 PM
1

Ask her if she has the $10 she owes you from the bet. When she says 'It's $5.' you can say something like 'So you haven't forgotten but you're the type of person that welches on a bet.' Then drop it. If she pays at some point, you've set a boundary for her. If she doesn't, she has set the boundary at 'plate only'.
/r/askTRP16/08/17 02:57 PM
1

WISNIFG https://www.amazon.com/When-Say-No-Feel-Guilty/dp/0553263900 Kyrptonite for parents.
/r/askTRP13/08/17 12:45 PM
3

Why should the author be blamed for lack of sources when he actually provided them? Why no outcry against whoever edited out the sources?
/r/PussyPassDenied11/08/17 01:45 PM
1

Can confirm. In my early 20s, I and every other guy at the resort were surrounded by pussy. Some of the guys, including me, got bored with one nighters and got into a ltr. We still had side pussy though. Only once or twice a month, so that doesn't count.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 03:27 PM
5

I am perfectly OK with dying as an old man living by himself as long as I have kids and grand kids around when I do. That's me right now. Waiting for God and loving every minute of it.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 12:30 PM
13

The guy must have already known that. My guess is that he was becoming increasingly unhappy with the way things were going and had a Jerry Maguire moment. Either that or he did it as a career boosting move. Either way, I think he'll come out of this ok.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 01:26 PM
9

Before finding The Red Pill, I was a sad, socially awkward beta. It was a bitter pill to swallow and it hurt. It hurt a lot. Now that I have fully digested The Red Pill, I can say with confidence that I no longer give a single fuck about being a socially awkward beta.
/r/askTRP06/08/17 03:46 PM
1

I had some regular passengers that were hot girl/fat guy couples in a ltr. The fat guy would be cool though and the AMOG when out with his mates. The basic point imo is that if a male is not sexually viable because he lacks confidence, then drunk or sober, she is not interested in boning him. If she has baby rabies and he would look good pushing a swing, then fucking him once in a while is a price she will pay to get the ring on her finger. Looks are important in that it is easier to have confid…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 12:51 PM
2

I was a taxi driver in the UK for about 15 years. I drove a lot of newly hooked up couples home from clubs and no, it's not looks that women have as their top priority. The dtf women went home with guys ranging in looks between downright ugly and Greek god. Fat guys as well. What all the guys had in common was 'bottle'. Their own brand of bravado, courage, cheek, call it what you want. It may have been alcohol induced but hey, the booze can only bring out what is already there. 'Look at that guy…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 11:42 AM
3

I just don't get what there is to look forward to other than sex and money. Grandchildren. I'm pushing 70 and I have so much fun taking the grandkids out for the day. Lots of fun and then I get to hand them back. To a guy that is not yet a father, I'd imagine it's like trying to explain colour to a blind person. We're here to breed and seeing the loin fruit of your loin fruit is a HUGE validation wrt justifying your existence. If you know any guys that have regular contact with their grandchildr…
/r/askTRP05/08/17 10:42 AM
1

I've been pretty beta my whole life. That's not such a bad thing at your age. There's something to be said for growing up slowly. There's a guy I know that grew up way too fast. He didn't have a stressful childhood, far from it. His dad was never around because work and he did whatever he liked. Had the charisma to get away with it too. Aged 15 he was on first name terms with pub managers. Couple of baby mamas yada yada. You'd wish that were you but here's the thing: He was 15 going on 30 but en…
/r/askTRP31/07/17 10:41 AM
9

One of my uncles was at Dunkirk. From what I remember of him, he was a regular guy. The young guys of today would somehow manage to cope. As do guys from every age when they have to. A quote from a man that is alleged to know his shit: “The children now love luxury. They have bad manners, contempt for authority; they show disrespect for elders and love chatter in place of exercise.”
/r/askTRP31/07/17 06:22 AM
1

Offer your uncle some of your time as a thank you for his help. Do odd jobs around his house,like cleaning his oven, washing his car etc. If he is able to help your mother and you, he must know people with similar finances to his, or better. When he sees for himself that you have a decent work ethic, there's a good chance that he will recommend you if he hears of any work going.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 03:22 PM
3

Usually the shit-testing over time turns more into a running gag between the girl and myself With a gf 20 years younger than me, I'd threaten to leave her for an older woman.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 03:11 PM
1

Said by cannibal to Missionary: If God didn't want us to eat people, why did He make us out of meat?
/r/askTRP28/07/17 07:23 AM
1

Have a lit candle 12" from your face. Practice talking quietly until the flame barely moves. Then keep increasing the volume.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 06:34 AM
1

My dad was like that. Except when he was in the pub with his drinking buddies. Then he would brag about me for doing the same shit that he had called me on.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 02:15 PM
4

'I liked you better when you wouldn't go to the wine shop!' [Wine shop = off licence = liquor store in the UK.] Thanks to TRP I at last know what she was trying to tell me.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 08:55 AM
2

ime, women care more about Outcome Independence in a man than most of the other stuff put together. With OI, a man will find his true nature. To Thine Own Self Be True, it gets women wet. If a man is obviously Outcome Dependent, then he might as well weigh 400lbs, she'll never see him as worth a fuck.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 11:24 AM
6

fwir, the pill cons her body into thinking that she is one month pregnant. A pregnant woman tends to prefer beta traits in a man. According to a doc on fatherhood, expectant fathers produce much more estrogen than normal. If they decide to start a family, once the pill is out of her system, it's quite possible that she is no longer attracted to her beta traits partner.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 09:06 AM
1

TRP = fold that hand, it isn't worth it. MRP: Should have folded that hand but now that you're in the pot, might as well play to win.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/17 09:15 PM
1

I understand, it is not your fault.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/17 09:11 PM
3

You could cut back on the gym, say 3 times a week, because exams are more important right now. After August, get back to gym every day.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 05:40 PM
2

If I had to bet, I'd go with her writing it. Would a guy really mention dick size? Repeatedly? Would a guy be so casual about his intended having bpd? Referring to him as N, then later Nigel. Can't see a guy doing that with his own name, N both times or Nigel both times. The dig about your mother was nasty. If he wrote it, he is a bigger bitch than her. My take is that she is up shit creek and is desperately trying to convince herself that she isn't. All is sunshine and roses, look at how well I…
/r/askTRP27/06/17 05:19 PM
1

I'd rather have a stoner girl than an alcoholic. An ex was telling me about her sister. Had a guy chasing her but he liked a drink and she didn't. She told him she wasn't going to take up with a drinker. He does a deal with her that he never drinks alcohol again but no way does she ever call him out on smoking weed. She agreed and they later got married. Last I heard, they'd been married for almost 20 years. If there are no unicorns, then imo it's a matter of finding a partner whose faults you c…
/r/askTRP25/06/17 03:58 PM
3

Buck http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1753549/?ref_=fn_al_tt_2 An examination of the life of acclaimed 'horse whisperer' Buck Brannaman, who recovered from years of child abuse to become a well-known expert in the interactions between horses and people. The TL;DR is that if you cannot control yourself, you cannot control the horse.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 03:40 PM
6

if you are discovered to be hiding assets she will get 100% of them A woman won $1.3m in a lottery. Kept it quiet and then divorced her husband. It got discovered and he was awarded the $1.3m.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 01:02 PM
1

1) Take huge bong hit. 2) Under the influence of bong hit, realise the meaning of life, the universe and everything. 3) Start to tell Reddit RP the meaning of life, the universe and everything. 4) Forget what you were talking about because 1).
/r/askTRP23/06/17 08:44 PM
1

How many top 5 traits did Horatio Nelson have? A hero to every man and gets to plate the hottest society chick of the day. Who happened to be his best friends wife. (Best friend was ok with this.) When his best friend dies, Nelson gets to live ménage à trois with plate and her mother. If Nelson didn't have whatever is considered to be in the top 5 traits, why is that trait considered important?
/r/askTRP23/06/17 08:20 PM
1

You can end up in a gilded cage. Guy I knew married for money. He was a few years younger than me and she had a daughter that was older than me. She became insanely jealous. He learned to stare at his feet while out walking with her, less arguments.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 03:14 PM
1

I find my stability in science, but if faith works for you, it works. It is easier to believe that a 3 day old corpse went walkabout than believe that there are parts of the universe where time does not exist. Plenty of unbelievable stuff once you go outside of classical physics.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 02:21 PM
1

If he was going to do anything to you, it would have happened by now. I've been in similar situations (also UK) and ime, if they threaten over the phone, that's all they do.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 11:58 AM
1

I want to just hookup with as many girls as possible and not give a fuck about their feelings for once. That can be fixed in a heartbeat. Stop doing LTRs.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 12:24 PM
1

That how it used to be in the north of England when most women were SAHMs. Every payday, her husband would give her 'the housekeeping' and she'd pay all the bills. Whatever she managed to save was hers. Whatever wages he had left after giving her the housekeeping was his.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/17 01:03 PM
2

Tell him that you owe him, up to a point. Also tell him that once that point is reached, you will forever cut him loose. Nothing personal, just self preservation. Then stfu for at least 60 seconds. Make sure they realise that when you call it quits, it really is quits. That way you have done your duty to him and most importantly, you have done your duty to yourself.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 04:33 PM
16

My take on it, in easy English: When you get fired, play nice. If the company ever wants to hire you again, play nice but ask for more money.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 12:53 PM
1

I would like a small ceremony with immediate family members and perhaps a few close friends but nothing that would be costly Perhaps you could combine the wedding with a vacation? Assuming that your family and close friends do take vacations, you could all agree to holiday together and you get married while you're there.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/17 02:32 PM
3

The day after I first read about 'manspreading' I was at my local bus stop. A middle aged woman was sat on the bench of the bus stop. Two large bags on the bench to her left and a bag to her right that she was rummaging through. No room for anyone else to sit although the bench could have easily sat four people.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/06/17 12:53 PM
3

You already know what the sensible answer is. You're hoping for a 'I took up with an addict and we're doing great! Five years and counting.' story to give you an ok to follow a path that you know will hurt you. If you insist on throwing away some of your youth, at least learn to recognise the pinned pupils of heroin users: https://www.google.co.uk/search?q=heroin+pinned+pupils&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwjDr_-Yy5_UAhXCLMAKHauHAOoQ_AUICigB&biw=1024&bih=512
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/17 04:42 PM
15

Sometimes it's just a girl having fun at the expense of one of her mates. I was walking home one evening and had to pass a gaggle of stationary teenage girls just hanging out. They bunched up to let me past. As I approach, one girl shouts 'Hey mate! She fancies you' and gave the girl in front of her a solid hip shove. Embarrassed squeals from the girl whose tits just got squashed against my chest. Only a 40 year age difference, maybe I should have opened the group?
/r/askTRP02/06/17 04:06 PM
35

As she's getting handcuffed by police officers: I'm calling 911
/r/PussyPassDenied31/05/17 08:48 PM
5

If you truly want an alpha, consider much older childless guys that are ready to start a family. As said already, expect discretion from him rather than fidelity. He can get laid by HBs without committing so from you he is looking for things like maternal qualities, social expertise and all the pink skills. You do your part in providing that and the two of you could make a really good team.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/17 03:58 PM
-3

But I couldn't take my mind off the fact that if she had a change of heart she'd walk away with half. So much for outcome independence. :) It's just shit man. She takes half your shit? Get more shit. She doesn't get half of your qualifications or half of your business network. She just gets shit that you can easily replace. If you have chosen wisely, can be difficult nowadays I agree but a wise choice gets you a good mother for your children. If it doesn't work out, she will still love your chil…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 08:42 PM
11

fwir here, ask around until you find someone that got really screwed over in their divorce. Then have a consultation with the lawyer that did the screwing over. Take their advice on what you should be doing right now.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/17 12:07 PM
1

I missed out on the college life. Is that 'I never went to college' or 'I was sensible in college and focused on my future'.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 02:32 PM
2

The fact that you married again proves that your first divorce wasn't bad enough to stop you marrying again. I was a lousy spouse, so was she. By luck or design, we turned out to be decent parents.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 11:47 PM
10

I had some great times in my 20s. Lots of income, lots of pussy, lots of adventures. My fondest memories though, are of being with my children at various stages of their childhood and my current best times are when I'm with my grandchildren. If you choose a good mother for your children, a divorce isn't that bad, you get over it. It's the guys that let their dick choose their wife* that can have real problems if it turns out that she is a low quality mother. *The fact that a HB can brag about no…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 03:05 PM
1

It could be that the negativity was always there but now you notice it more.
/r/askTRP20/05/17 06:35 PM
3

How the fuck could I ever ensure she doesn't become a whore in the current climate? You've answered your own question: the niece looks up to me immensely She wants to deserve your respect.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 02:55 PM
1

I've just done a google image on 'Amateur choirs'. The men seem to be outnumbered in every mixed choir.
/r/askTRP19/05/17 05:14 PM
4

I was dubious about May being PM until I read this: https://www.lrb.co.uk/v39/n06/david-runciman/do-your-homework She passes the trench test imo.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/17 11:15 AM
1

Even on TRP you can still find the old "just be yourself" chestnut. Women want men that 'Just get it'. Which is not you. Assuming AWALT to be true, all (most) women are performing very close to their potential. You are not. You have T levels that they can only dream about and (in their opinion) you piss that advantage against the wall. Them saying 'Be Yourself' is an invitation to actually DO SOMETHING RAD. oh... ok... maybe not you.
/r/askTRP16/05/17 11:24 PM
4

Doesn't seem fair to miss Mussolini from that group. Pure badass. Gets the hots for a (married) plate. Fucks her on the bedroom floor while her hubby sleeps in the marital bed. Epitome of dngaf.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 11:00 PM
5

Once had me a nympho gf. Stuff of dreams right? Long short, I wasn't enough, she had another bf and we worked shift about, every other night. Much as I liked fucking her, my nights off were like heaven. There is more to this world than sex. Insignificant things like ...sleep.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 10:34 PM
1

The vibe I got was that she's not trying to compliment me, more like she's trying to frame me as "the little beta who does his best" Are you the little beta who does his best?
/r/askTRP11/05/17 02:22 PM
2

WISNIFG https://www.amazon.com/When-Say-No-Feel-Guilty/dp/0553263900
/r/askTRP11/05/17 12:20 PM
2

I didn't have 50% custody but had regular access weekends. They're all in their 30s now and what they say was the biggest difference I made to their childhoods was exposure to lots of other places and other people.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 01:54 PM
23

Moved into a new flat and became friends with the next door neighbour. She'd pop in for a chat and a cup of tea 2 or 3 times a week. One Tuesday, I casually mentioned that my chess club had a league match Thursday evening. Got in from the match about 11pm. A few minutes later she's at the door. As I let her in, she says 'Congratulations.' 'For what?' 'You won.' 'How did you know that? 'I could tell by the way you were walking when you got out of your car.' I was walking on air for days.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/17 03:57 PM
3

Saying they're free is like saying stuff you've shoplifted is free. The payment is the risk you take. Only needs one girl with buyers remorse to accuse you and you will pay heavily.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 01:39 PM
2

Unless she is very slutty, getting an orgasm is way down on the list of why she fucks you the first few times. They ALL get monetary compensation in some way or another. There is no such thing as a free jump. If she's worth fucking, even she doesn't get sex for free. You can be the sharpest dressed guy around for the same spend as what an average (feminine) woman spends on clothes, shoes, hairdressers, makeup etc.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 10:35 AM
1

Seal, Mick Jagger and Billy Joel and Lyle Lovett are all uglier than sin dipped in shit; yet, are married to supermodels and actresses. Shortarse Mickey Rooney married 19yo Ava Gardner.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 10:01 AM
1

I was a drinks waiter at a cabaret club. Only other male was the bars manager. About a dozen women in all. It took about 3 weeks for them to get fed up with having a guy spoiling their gossip fests so I got treated as a female. I had absolutely no idea how dirty women can be. When guys talk it's 'You do her?' and a yes/no reply is given. Women share all the details. One time they were talking about losing virginity. Girl told the story of dating her first bf for 3 years. Next bf was more persuas…
/r/askTRP17/04/17 06:53 PM
1

You see it on dating profiles sometimes 'I like a man that keeps me on my toes.'
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 04:18 PM
1

I'm fucked for life? That's up to you. [Long post, just in case it helps.] My head used to be almost exactly where yours is now. I blamed my parents for all the shit in my life. Excuses 'R Us. Then it dawned on me that their childhood was way worse than mine. Dad, aged 6, was farmed out to another family and his parents took in a neighbours 5yo. It was 2 years into The Great Depression and they got more benefits looking after someone elses kid than their own. (A scam involving many poor families…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 01:07 PM
1

It's the pump part of 'pump and dump' that OP seems to be having trouble with. If a guy has trouble pulling, then getting into a situation that obviously won't last gets him laid more. If nothing else, the guy isn't as vulnerable when he's 30 and an ex CC rider with baby rabies smiles at him. This is blue pill territory, bro. Every guy is born blue pill. In the absence of a RP father to guide us, we learn by experience. With every new single mother I shacked up with, I was a little less BP than …
/r/askTRP16/04/17 08:15 AM
1

Getting laid on the regular, with a woman too old for it to become 'happy ever after' has its advantages for a young inexperienced guy. If the guy has incurred no extra debt when it's over, all he has lost is income and that was going to get spent anyway.
/r/askTRP16/04/17 07:25 AM
1

Why would you? You're not wet behind the ears and in need of experience.
/r/askTRP16/04/17 07:17 AM
4

I had such fun with milfs in my 20s, you're in for a treat but always remember, there is no such thing as a free jump. What some young men need (including me at the time) is a girlfriend that their mother thoroughly disapproves of. She'll chew you up and spit you out in bubbles. Maybe she'll pass you on to one of her milf friends, it does happen so who knows? You'll get a little less chewed up with milf gf #2. Some self preservation rules: Don't go white knight because of any hassle she says she…
/r/askTRP15/04/17 02:37 PM
1

Check out mind mapping: http://www.tonybuzan.com/about/mind-mapping/ https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mind_map
/r/askTRP14/04/17 08:01 PM
2

I really liked a line in 'Kim' where the old monk says (I may be paraphrasing) 'Education has to be top quality or it is not worth having at all.'
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/17 04:31 PM
1

I also used to have trouble with that line. Sometimes you hear about 'Betting the company' eg M$ with Windows and Sony with the Play Station but they're long term bets and only made because it was believed that the odds were in their favour. Then it dawned on me that the crucial word is 'can'. If you can. Knowing you have the guts to do it means you also know that you have the guts to do anything.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/17 04:28 PM
1

It has been tried: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1168182/Catfights-handbags-tears-toilets-When-producer-launched-women-TV-company-thought-shed-kissed-goodbye-conflict-.html
/r/PussyPassDenied13/04/17 03:41 PM
3

The best games are counter intuitive, the more you try to win, the worse you play.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 01:13 PM
1

This situation aside, how often do you talk to non family about your father? If not at all, then you're indifferent to him. Any decision you make won't be wrong imo. That was me, I ignored him for the last decade of his life and my brother was the only family member that went to his funeral. If you've been griping about him once in a while, then there's unfinished business and the time window is closing. Doesn't matter if what you have to say (privately) cuts him to the core, it will said for yo…
/r/askTRP12/04/17 11:54 AM
2

I'd guess that 1) she's been dissatisfied for some time, maybe a couple of years. 2) 2 months ago she met a guy. Maybe someone fat friend knows. She fucked the guy while away. I've known a few marriages end like that. Wife obviously unhappy, husband clueless to that. Wife suffers in silence. Until there's a branch to swing to then she's gone. Husband blindsided and thinking he can revive a corpse that has been dead for years. Be angry at yourself. It's your fault. Edit: Poor choice of words with…
/r/askTRP11/04/17 03:56 PM
1

"what do you do for work" I manipulate pixels.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 02:59 PM
2

WORKING FOR MORE AND BETTER By whose definition? I knew a ski bum. Get money. Spend it skiing. Get more money. He took a job at a Sony warehouse and was randomly picked to attend a board meeting. No fear of being fired so he was blunt wrt how they were doing things. 2 years later he's one of their top trouble shooters. Flying business class with a company credit card in his suit jacket. He looks out at the snow covered mountains and thinks to himself 'What the fuck are you doing mate? You're a s…
/r/askTRP10/04/17 12:41 PM
1

ime, as you age, you move from being achievement orientated to being more journey orientated.
/r/askTRP09/04/17 11:31 PM
2

I'd guess Childcare Payments.
/r/askTRP09/04/17 03:06 PM
1

If he has fucked her, he'll have fucked most, if not all, of the other girls as well. Have heard too many stories of one gay + group of women.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 07:03 PM
5

I've posted this before. 2 doctors, she gives him a BJ and on the sly, spits into a cup and then uses it to get herself pregnant. Kid is almost 2 when she claims for child support. It goes to court and the judge rules that once it was in her mouth, it was a gift and therefore hers to use as she saw fit. $800 a month child support.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 12:21 PM
1

Fairly sure that this story is true but it involves John DeLorean, so who knows? When he was invited to resign from General Motors, the top brass wanted to know how come he rose so quickly in their organisation. At the time, GM bureaucracy was likened to trying to swim in molasses. Maybe it still is. He would tell, for a $250k consultancy fee. They coughed up and he told them that the first thing he did when he got to his desk in the morning was to write down the 3 most important things that he …
/r/askTRP06/04/17 06:52 PM
1

in the end there is literally nothing you can do about child support. Don't know how it works in the US but there is a (somewhat immoral) tactic that can be used in the UK. Being a welfare state, it often happens that the state gives her money for the kids then the CSA, Child Support Agency, looks to the father for reimbursement. There is a hearing and the assessment is based on the dads net income. The tactic is, just before the hearing, to increase his pension contribution up to the legal maxi…
/r/askTRP06/04/17 06:12 PM
1

Get rid of her orbiter somehow?
/r/askTRP02/04/17 05:56 PM
4

There is 'Wife Watching'. She is tied to the bed and blindfolded. He has arranged for one or more guys to turn up and bang her. Guy gets his cuck kink met and she (maybe) gets off on having not a clue who fucked her.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/17 05:02 PM
1

Apart from the excessive lifting, your behaviour seems kinda feminine. Ever thought about coming out as a man?
/r/askTRP31/03/17 04:08 AM
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I doubt he's the husband, or it would be a 'I got rid of...' type post. Not the wife and why would Chad post here? The playing field is tilted in Chads favour, why would he want to help level it up? Probably not a relation of the wife, women don't talk in that kind of detail about relationship arguments/fights with their brothers or male cousins. Who does a young woman share her Chad horror stories and honeymoon fights with? A long time orbiter?
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 05:06 PM
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I was in a bar and there was this cougar woman. Older than what I'd normally go for but she still looked good. She must have been an absolute stunner in her day. I'm figuring that if she has a daughter, she'll be mid to late 20s. The cougar comes over and starts flirting with me. Asks me if I've ever had a Sportsmans Double. Eh? She explains that it's a mother/daughter threeway. OK then, sounds good. She takes me back to her place. Holds me by the hand and leads me to a bedroom. She opens the be…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/17 12:39 PM
1

Positive. It can hurt if it goes wrong but it doesn't hurt for ever.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/03/17 04:10 PM
3

If her actions suit you, why care what she thinks?
/r/askTRP28/03/17 12:50 PM
9

I'm trying to figure out how to parlay this into a threesome with her mom... aka A Sportsmans Double.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/17 12:30 PM
3

The noise is part of the price of becoming an ancestor. Divorce when the kids are 8, 9 or 10 and take some shit for a decade. Look forward to access visits and being a disney dad etc. Next thing you know, you're out having a beer with your grown up children. Time keeps flying and you're in the park playing with your grandchildren. Absolutely fucking fabulous. Well worth a decade of crap and noise.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/03/17 11:38 AM
1

My problem really is that I'm too nice That has some pros. Letting new friends get away with small shit early on is a super quick way of filtering out the dross. Good people don't take advantage like that. The con is: how do I handle this situation without being a bitch or weird about it? You can't. You're either going to be his little bitch or (according to him) a cunt. Telling him, and others like him in the future, to fuck off will make you feel uncomfortable until you realise that people lik…
/r/askTRP26/03/17 01:38 AM
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imo it's about being wanted. Heard a radio interview with an author that was writing a 'true life' story which involved her interviewing women working in a Texas (iirc) brothel. She was told to strip to her underwear or the women wouldn't trust her, which she did. Some type of waiting room with scantily clad women and at irregular intervals some guy would appear and choose one of the women for business. At first she was scared that one of them would choose her but that didn't happen. After some …
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 06:31 PM
1

Maybe they talk about you when they get together?
/r/askTRP16/03/17 02:56 PM
1

Sounds like it could be limerance: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Limerence
/r/askTRP14/03/17 04:24 PM
9

My first experience of the bad side of policing was when I was 15. It was summer holidays and I was awake early dawn, about 5am. I saw a police car parked outside a neighbours house with 2 officers inside, just waiting. Their son had fallen from an upstairs window and was in hospital. This was back when UK hospitals had strict visiting hours so no overnight vigils. I learned later that they were waiting for signs of activity so that they could call and tell them that their son had died.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/03/17 03:30 PM
1

almost every time I go there I have a fight They see you as trouble.
/r/askTRP11/03/17 01:16 PM
4

Could be just a stage persona. The late Les Dawson was known for his mother in law jokes but they got on great.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 12:16 PM
3

I remember that this was a well used theme in lame 'married couple' sitcoms of the mid 60s and feminism hadn't got a grip back then. She donates his favourite gardening jacket/whatever to the church sale and he spends the rest of the episode trying to get it back.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 10:19 PM
3

That would explain the rise of the skinny rock star at about the same time the pill became widespread.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 07:45 PM
1

fwir on RP, we're never more than 2 or 3 points higher than the women giving us the eye. At least you no longer have 3s and 4s thinking they have a chance.
/r/askTRP04/03/17 04:07 PM
1

There's a story about Michael Douglas and Catherine Zeta Jones a few years after they married. Some big social event and a drunk guy holding a camera asks Douglas if it's ok to take a pic. After getting a yes, the guy shows Douglas which button to press, hands him the camera and then puts his arm around Zeta Jones, posing for Douglas to take a picture of them.
/r/askTRP04/03/17 03:33 PM
1

It's code for 'Don't talk about it'.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/02/17 07:46 PM
1

absolutely a dealbreaker for LTR Or a deal maker. Women love dancing. If her SO makes her look good on the dance floor, she'll want to go dancing with him.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 04:48 PM
2

There was an article about an increase in young British Indians asking their parents to arrange a marriage for them. The ones asking for an arranged marriage said things like love matches can fail badly and at the very least, they'd be marrying someone all 4 parents thought they'd be compatible with.
/r/askTRP15/02/17 03:05 PM
1

From 'Blast from the Past': Adam, you're a nice boy but what Eve needs is a good man.
/r/askTRP15/02/17 02:39 PM
3

Low budget scifi I can't remember the title of. Mad Max type future world where food is in short supply and the protagonist and his dog can communicate telepathically. Guy gets lured by a female into her (literal) underground society to be a 'not in a good way' sperm donor. She relents and helps him escape. Back above ground, his faithful dog has been waiting for him and is very close to dying of starvation. Girl says 'How sad, nothing we can do, let's go.' Next scene is the guy and his now well…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 02:29 PM
5

The ending of that movie is absolutely brutal.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 02:18 PM
1

'I love you more.' Said as if she had just said she loves you.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 09:23 PM
3

A zinc deficiency can lead to a loss of libido so zinc rich foods got the rep of being aphrodisiacs.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/17 08:31 PM
1

Pay yourself first. https://www.amazon.com/Richest-Man-Babylon-Revised-Updated/dp/1530429498
/r/askTRP21/01/17 06:23 PM
1

Quite a judgement from a post. You did give clues. Shocked at her reaction = knows nothing about women. she went from a "meh" fiance to a... She wasn't a 'meh girlfriend' the day before you proposed so how did she become a meh fiance'? Something to do with you letting it happen because you don't understand women?
/r/askTRP18/01/17 10:47 PM
5

Some years ago, there was a piece on BBC Radio Two about a Budhhist sect in London. They were gaining converts by proposing that things like a new car or a promotion could be gained by some form of chanting. They interviewed one convert. The interviewer was focused on the materials gains and did it happen? The guy was excited to talk about the chanting etc. but when asked if he got the car 'Oh yes I got that but the important thing was...'
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 03:43 PM
1

Let's see...[counting on fingers] One...two...three...YOU...five...six...
/r/askTRP29/12/16 05:54 PM
7

When I Say No I feel Guilty. The Richest Man in Babylon.
/r/askTRP17/12/16 04:31 PM
2

He does seem to have sigma traits. As shown by his taking over the rebuilding of Wollman Park ice rink. From the Wiki: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wollman_Rink The rink was closed in 1980 for a proposed two years of renovations at $9.1 million. Six years and $13 million later, after the problem-plagued work was still not completed by the city, Donald Trump persuaded Mayor Ed Koch to let him complete the work in four months at $2.5 million in order to have it open by the end of the year.[3][4] …
/r/askTRP09/12/16 06:56 PM
1

Nothing wrong with catching feelings imo. If you let those feelings change your behaviour, then that's on you, not her. You're walking away from the game rather than putting the work into learning how to play the game. As Groucho Marx said: 'I don’t care to belong to any club that will have me as a member.'
/r/askTRP01/12/16 07:36 PM
2

The Bond books were fairly new and popular when I was at school. Our English teacher talked of a scene where Bond was getting shagged by an enemy agent and she'd wrapped her legs around him so her accomplice could kill him. He saw the guys reflection in her eyeball (is that possible?) and twisted around so she got killed by the blow that was meant for him. Teach was horrified that a class of 15 yo boys thought it was ok to have her die while saving himself. This was a bit before 'burn your bra' …
/r/askTRP01/12/16 03:52 PM
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Guy I know does this. Interrupts people, says or posts tactless shit etc. and thinks a simple 'Sorry' after the fact absolves him. At a mutual friends place, I was sat next to him while he was playing a song on guitar. It was late, I got out my phone and called a taxi. He complained about it when he finished the song. I gave a mumbled 'Sorry'. He kept complaining. 'Hey, I said sorry. That means whatever I did is ok now, like the way you can keep interrupting people and it's all ok because you sa…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/16 03:35 PM
1

A woman I knew liked to decorate her living room every year, so she had that fit in with Christmas. She'd get the new wallpaper early December and the painter and decorator would come in and strip the old wallpaper. Then she and her 2 young kids would turn the room into a grotto. The decorator would be booked for the day after 12th night.
/r/RedPillWives30/11/16 10:29 PM
1

Something I read in the 70s, when feminism was starting to get big: Retired couple entertaining their 2 adolescent granddaughters. Gran related a story from early in their marriage. She wanted something she knew that he wouldn't approve of. Over time, she worked it so he thought it was his idea, like in 'My Big Fat Greek Wedding' only a longer time span. The 2 girls were upset that women had to resort to such practices back then. Gramps was tickled pink at how clever his wife was.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/16 04:17 PM
2

Broken record: 'That was then, this is now.'
/r/askTRP06/11/16 04:08 PM
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If you can make one heap of all your winnings And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss, And lose, and start again at your beginnings And never breathe a word about your loss; That's the one I had trouble with for a while. Then it occurred to me that being able to do it and usually choosing not to is a lot different than doing it just because you can.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 01:26 PM
1

Most women don't understand just how powerful wife goggles are. How you look to him on your wedding day, that's how you will look to him forever, assuming you keep your girl game on point. As an example, in my mid 20s I took up with a woman 6 years older that had been living a hard life. Still sexy as fuck though. Started as a ONS. In the morning light I watched her sleeping. Holy fuck, the deepest craggiest crows feet I'd ever seen in a person under 70. We started living together, true love and…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/16 03:50 PM
1

For helping a child sleep, check this out: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Inward-Harmony-Marcey/dp/B000001UN5 I used to play it on repeat for my kids on access weekends. Grandkids got played it too. Really sophorific, never play while driving.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/16 08:47 PM
3

They dress up for other women too. If there was just one woman coming to our poker night, she'd be dressed casual, no makeup. If they knew another woman would be there, (they always asked beforehand,) then they'd be dolled up a bit.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 05:57 AM
2

As it worked for them, ask them to arrange a marriage for you.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 08:49 PM
124

Men love women. Women love children. Children love dogs. I see it as 'Men love women. Women love children. Children love puppies. Dogs love men.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 06:19 PM
1

Not so much discipline but a build up of desire to see the project get done. Frees my head up to think about the next project.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 01:54 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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