It just now clicked with me that there’s this pattern in my life and I just wanted yalls opinion on it to see how I can fix it

The pattern is this,

I have the ability to be a like able extroverted guy that almost everyone wants to be around. But here’s the problem, I get bored.

Once I have secured in my mind that I’m now an extrovert and that I can now effortless be liked and make friends, then I guess I get bored of those people and stop putting in the effort to be liked, but I still want to be good friends with them but there’s just something in me that always pulls me back to be introverted self that cuts social interactions short because idc what they are talking about. I revert back to my “I have nothing to say self” and lose my ability to effortlessly make people laugh and have fun.

I don’t know why this is? I’ve tried my best to quit being an introvert because I fully believed that you aren’t genetically one or the other, that it all depends on your mindset. But now I’m regressing to thinking I’m destined to be an asshole(aka an introvert)

Any tips ??