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Switching Out the Condom

ss_camaro
January 28, 2013
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Title Switching Out the Condom
Author

ss_camaro
Upvotes 16
Comments 32
Date January 28, 2013 12:55 PM UTC
(13 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/17fcqf/switching_out_the_condom/
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Comments

[–]Modredpillschool 13 points14 points15 points 13 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link

she got upset and started to tell me that I didn't even try to fix our marriage and that it was basically my fault for her feeling like a stranger. She said that I have been nothing but "emotionally abusive" and that is something she didn't want around our daughter.

Catch that guys? It's his fault because she feels that way. There's that female solipsism at work. If she feels that way, it must be because of something, otherwise, why would she feel that way?

This would be heavier if it weren't the go-to phrase for every breakup ever. I hear this "emotionally abusive" bullshit all the time. The problem is that women shoehorn almost everything they perceive as bad as emotional abuse.

Just because we got in an argument doesn't mean it's abuse, nor does it mean I'm the one perpetrating the abuse. Jesus fuck.

[–]Bobsutan 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Solipsism or narcissism? The two are so similar in Red Pill context they can practically be used interchangeably.

[–]chikinpickle 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

Yeah that's what my mom said about my dad when she took him to the cleaners.

I went and lived with my dad. My two younger brothers went and lived with her.

I got a full tuition scholarship and maintained a GPA between 3.0 and 3.5 between starting my engineering degree and now (my senior year). I was given another grant this year. I'm going to get a second degree in German when I finish this one.

My younger brother got C's barely graduated and will do the same for community college that he's now attending. My youngest brother is failing classes his sophomore year in high school. (in AZ, which is difficult to do for those unfamiliar with public schools here).

Who's the better parent?

[–]lucidvivid1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago [recovered] (9 children) | Copy Link

I went and lived with my dad. My two younger brothers went and lived with her.

That's interesting. How did it impact your relationship with your brothers?

[–]chikinpickle 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Obliterated it. This winter break I spent a week with them on a family vacation (my dad and stepmom and us).

Most time I spent with them in 7 years. It makes me sad to see their potential wasted. They are easily just as smart as I am.

[–]lucidvivid1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago [recovered] (7 children) | Copy Link

It makes me sad to see their potential wasted. They are easily just as smart as I am.

Yeah, I can imagine.

Do you ever talk with your dad about it? Does he acknowledge it at all?

[–]chikinpickle 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Yeah but he can't do anything about it. She refuses to speak with him about anything. My brother wastes all his time playing video games.

[–]lucidvivid1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago [recovered] (5 children) | Copy Link

Thanks for the responses. Haven't seen that before, where the kids choose. I thinks it's great that you were able to stay with dad.

[–]chikinpickle 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

No, the only reason I was free is because I made my mothers life a living hell from the time it began. Waking her up in the middle if the night to fight about it. Breaking shit. Picking the lock on her bedroom door when she tried to escape the fight and following her in there. She heard my opinions from the minute ahe got home. Told my brothers about why dad REALLY wasnt there (restraining order). Found the tape recorder she put on the house phone and broke it.

Told all the counselors and crisis management people that came to fuck off. They all wanted to talk and nobody wanted to listen.

Printed out porn and posted them all over the house.

Shit was ugly man. She figured that the extra $300 a month wasnt worth it.

God bless my dads father. He was in town when I ran away to my friends house. Him and my dad showed up, and when my mom came my grandpa looked her dead in the face and engaged pure alpha. Said "chikinpickle is going to be living with his dad now. We will come by next week for his things."

That was that. But someone from my dads family had to stay with us until the divorce was final. Because my mom accused him of every kind of abuse Imaginable. So he wasnt allowed to be with any of us "unsupervised"

[–]lucidvivid1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link

Oh Jesus.

I thought it was some, I don't know, civilized process ... where the kids had their decisions taken into account. Yeah, naive of me.

Your grandpa sounds like a badass. Glad you had them fight for you.

Do you have a/any relationship with your mom now?

[–]chikinpickle 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Civilized? Haha man you should know better than that. My grandpa is a stand up guy and my grandma is a wonderful lady as well.

And no, I stopped talking to her after she kicked out my 19 year old brother so she could give his room to his 18 year old ex girlfriend after she got kicked out of her parents house. (This all happened a week after he broke up with her.) This was about 4 months ago.

My dad stuck his dick in a crazy.

[–]lucidvivid1 point 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

My dad stuck his dick in a crazy.

You mentioned your stepmom in an earlier comment. He's happy now?

[–]chikinpickle2 points 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Yeah for the most part. But I dont think he sees the whole picture still.

[–]TRP VanguardVZPurp 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Oh man. So I'm not alone after all. The "emotionally abusive" bit was racking my brain for a while, I almost believed it.

[–]Modredpillschool 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Every woman I've ever met uses this to describe their last boyfriend.

Even my exs do. It's a good crutch to use when they have a hard time getting over their boyfriends.

Of course it doesn't help when they take situations out of context and tell their friends. Their friends will parrot back the "abuse" message as well.

Women are terrible friends to eachother. They will always give advice that makes their friends least happy.

[–]TRP VanguardVZPurp 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Wow. This has exactly been my experience.

[–][deleted] 13 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

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[–]TRP VanguardVZPurp 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yes, no doubt. I never really listen to what a woman says anymore. It's almost entirely irrelevant.

[–]chikinpickle 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Almost? Entirely irrelevant.

[–]Top_Ozone 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Man, huge credit to him for only breaking a mirror. The will power it must take to not punch out every single one of that guy's teeth; especially considering the gall he has to change the condom in front of him.

Yet the husband was the "emotionally abusive" one. These stories never get easier to swallow.

[–]chikinpickle 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Shit man, If that had been me I would go to prison for removing that man from my house at gunpoint.

[–]mechakingghidorah 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'll never be married,but if that had been me,that guys brains would be on the floor and the cheating slut's right after his if he'd had the nerve to change fucking condoms in front of me instead of apologizing and running away.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link

Idk what it will take for men to realize you absolutely cannot have children or get married. Once you do there are no good options. Even if you have decent funds offshore and citizenship in another country you will still be unable to visit friends in the USA (or whatever country you married in).

Also no offense to the husband but I was very impressed with the other man's alpha. Changing out the condom was pretty boss. Once the wife started hitting that the marriage was doomed.

[–]TRP Vanguardnicethingyoucanthave 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Can't believe husband was weakling enough to say, "well, I'm going to leave now, enjoy fucking my wife again in my house" - I feel like someone needs to take him under their wing.

Go in the other room. Take out your phone and call 911. Say there's a man in your house, then put the phone down without turning it off. Go back to the bedroom and do your best to kick his ass. Do NOT use a weapon. Maybe you'll get your own ass kicked, but that can be a good experience too.

The cops will eventually show up, and as long as nobody has hit the woman, they will arrest boyfriend, because he can't argue self defense. He could have left but husband has no obligation to leave.

Changing out the condom was pretty boss

We men ought to stick together a little better than that.

[–]Modredpillschool 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Well it was a dick move to switch the condom. But you see why she was fucking him. That was a very alpha behavior.

[–]mechakingghidorah 6 points7 points8 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That was very stupid behavior.

I know the manosphere promotes alpha as a way of life,but provoking a guy who could be a hair's breath from grabbing a gun and blowing your brains out is stupid.

Nobody thinks a beta will do anything until he shows up in a mall or a school and starts blasting.

That guy was very lucky.

[–]bigkik 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Um isn't the woman a witness in that situation?

[–]35652424 -2 points-1 points0 points 13 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Source?

Sounds like one of many troll stories that are posted recently on reddit to make fun of MRAs' reactions.

[–]Frankly_George2 points 13 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link

There's a link back to Reddit at the end of the post.

[–]Bobsutan 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Site is blocked here at work. What's the URL?

[–]Modredpillschool 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

http://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/17af63/wife_30_cheated_on_me_31m_and_now_i_might_lose_my/

[–]mechakingghidorah 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Should have just taken all the money from the accounts and left the country ASAP.

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