So my story starts out pretty much the same. I had oneitis and I constantly kept paying attention to this girl who friend zoned me. She was in a relationship with another guy and when she broke up, what I did was comfort her. She seemed interested and I was happy. I kept fantasizing about how eventually we might end up together. So what she does is friendzone me again cause she was treating me like a friend again. At this point, I felt lost and done with everything cause I thought she felt the same way. So what I realised is that I'm going to do is just ignore her. Might sound cruel but it's what I had to do for myself. It was hard at first and I even slipped up at one point but it became easier as time went on. Now she's being passive aggressive as fuck because what she did was post a photo on FB with our group of friends and she tagged everyone except me. (It was a Bday post). She even went as far as to show that she hung out with them without inviting me. What I would have done before is act insecure and tried to make it up to her but what I did was just laugh to myself that it happened. The best part is if I ignore this then it's going to infuriate her even more. Honestly, I still care about her and if she's really in any sort of life-threatening danger or anything I would help her out cause I'm a good guy like that. But at the same time, I don't have to put up with her BS and I can meet other women and find one who appreciates me for me. Might be hard but oh well.

The Red Pill has taught me so much like how to be independent and that I don't need a woman to make me happy. Also that if I am happy that women will come to me. It also taught me that I am enough and if she finds another bf then so be it. I'm average looking and I'd like to say and I've realized that more women are interested in me and are flirting with me than I realized. I'm going to keep to myself to myself and keep ignoring the BS.

TLDR; Red Pill taught me independence and what it means to be happy and cured my oneitis.