I’m making this post to formally thank you to the red pill. I always thought TRP was a portion of the internet/reddit that was extremely bias. After lurking here for some time, that is so far from the truth.

I’m making this post thanking you because after lurking and implementing some of the ideologies here into my relationship. They have actually worked!

Now onto the Field Report. For some background I’ve been dating my (former) oneitis for a little over a year. Known her for 2. Before the relationship, I was practicing some TRP ideologies without actually knowing about them. I was in the best shape of my life, I was making an effort to be more sociable and practicing my game religiously. She comes a long and the relationship is fine for maybe the first two months. But after that the blue pill started taking over. She’s very needy and would cry if/when I wasn’t there for her. So me being the beta I was, I make room for her needs. I respect her more. I almost stop going to the gym so I can spend more time with her. I do all these things for HER and she still disrespects me, causing fights and break ups and I could never wrap my head around it(again oneitis ik ik). We get past these fights and when our one year comes around, I barely recognize myself. I’ve swallowed the blue pill.

Anyway, after I’d had enough, I look to the internet for help. I’d heard about the red pill but it was only in a negative light. I read up and go through an anger phase. I realize that this girl is not the girl I want to marry so I download tinder on the side and start socializing more(I stopped socializing less, but especially with girls because it would make her uneasy but this is exactly the feeling you want to produce!). I start hitting the gym and develop a idfc attitude.

Now on to the Field Report. What I’m specifically thanking TRP for is teaching me about dread-gaming! My god this shit works! So last night we were on FaceTime like we usually are. She was asleep and I was up on Tinder/TRP/and looking at Christmas light venues we could go to for the holidays. She wakes at 2am up from a message from one of her friends complaining about men. The specific situation was that her friend’s crush was posting seductive photos on social media and my gf’s friend didn’t like that. So at this point idk who she’s messaging this late so when she starts I ask her who she’s texting. No response. I ask her again. No response. I then tell her not to make me ask again.. again no response so I hang up on her. She sends me a picture of the texts to confirm who she’s texting but I spot something else. In regards to the situation my gf said that she would do the same thing her friend is complaining about to me (post lucrative pictures to social media) while we were together and that she did it for attention and comments. Hypergamy is too fucking real. Anyways I don’t comment on that right away. She sends me a wtf for hanging up on her and says goodnight. I reply only with “night” and she sends me another wtf. She never expected this from my previous blue billed behavior. She then says we’re done. I reply back with I told you not to make me ask again but okay and with a thumbs up signifying I’m okay with if we broke up. And I really am because she’s not that special.

She goes on talking about how she did nothing wrong, what I did was disrespectful yada yada, I don’t respond yet. I wait a couple minutes then respond saying I don’t need a woman who needs attention from a lesser man. Again she’s confused because blue pulled me wouldn’t say that. She then says she’s blocking me and proceeds to text me 5 times after lol. She continues bluffing and saying what a waste of time we were. I don’t respond for like 5 minutes so she sends a message in all caps asking me wtf I could be doing rn. I tell her I’m still looking at Christmas lights (told her earlier) and that she could either go with me or I could go with someone else. She tells me she could go with someone else too.. I tell her too bad they’re not me. She then says she could go with one of her friend’s guy friend named Tracy. I dodge shit test by telling her Tracy is a girl’s name. She says I’m a jerk and that I don’t even love her. I tell her I do love her which is more or less true. She says it’s not then texts me 5 more times and I don’t respond. She ends up blocking me but calls me a minute after. By the end of the night she was apologizing to me! I’ve been distancing myself in texts and I’ve been called a jerk countless times but her attitude is getting better I can sense it. Anyways I’ve only just started my journey but thank fucking you for the tips that and the help.

TL;DR: GF wakes up. Starts texting. I ask who she doesn’t answer. I hang up and she proceeds to tell me goodnight even tho she just woke up from sleeping at 2am. I tell her night and she proceeds to say we’re done. I say I don’t need a hypergamous woman in my life and she flips. I let the text ratio be about 4:1. And say she could go light seeing with me or someone else. She ends up apologizing by the end of the night.

Is there any ways you guys think I could have handled that better? That was my first full on RP experience with her and I’m excited for more.