Pre-text: I wrote this because I am in an LTR that I don't see any reason to quit and go back to spinning plates. I don't see many people in LTRs on TRP, but there's tons of people hooking up with randoms and spinning plates here. I am convinced that the LTR I am in is better than spinning plates, so I want to ask if you would agree with me, or if not, if you can convince me otherwise. Thanks.

I think you all over-glorify pussy and spinning plates. I wanna share my opinion on LTR and see if anyone have any valid arguments to convince me that it's a bad idea.

I'll go ahead and state the follows: Being in a LTR is great IF it can fulfill the following conditions:

- Your SMV needs to be higher than hers. Otherwise she can, and will cheat on you the moment a bigger alpha shows up. If she's an 8, you need to be a 9 or a 10. That, and will be submissive to you and listen to you and not hit up other men because she knows that you're realistically the best she can get - if she does any shit at all she knows that you can literally just walk out on her any time and hook up with a hotter girl. She's won't risk that and her chances of cheating on you is significantly lower (not 0%). She will also be obedient, which is important because you need to set boundaries. I for example told my chick I don't want her going to clubs without me. She has not done that this entire time (despite going out with her single girl friends very often before our relationship).

- She needs to be adequately hot. My girl is a 8-9 I'd say objectively. She's not a unicorn by any means, but she's pretty in general, hot when she needs to be, and cute some times. She has a good job, college education, no crazy back stories, no high n-count, I don't spot any red flags. The reason for this is that if she's not hot, obviously I'd be less content with her and would be more inclined to go for other girls.

- You need to not get too emotionally invested. Emotions are good. They will enhance your sexual connection to your partner and she will be more trusting that you won't leave her which will open her more up to you. While I have many emotions for my girl, IF I woke up tomorrow and she's gone, I wouldn't break into tears and wonder what's the meaning of life. I'd move the fuck on, shit happens.

- Do a background check when entering the relationship. Have no expectations the first months when you learn about her, and DO figure out her past. If you see any red flags dip the fuck out

- Don't be stupid. Don't give her access to your funds or anything else in which she could potentially fuck you over.

I've been around here for a few years, and I see a lot of field reports and sexual strategy, but in my opinion that's not the core of TRP. The core is improving yourself as a man. Pussy and women will come along if you do that. I think a lot of people found TRP after something happened to them involving a girl or a unicorn or whatever the fuck and you googled about it and came across TRP. Now what do you do? You look for how to slay pussy. You feel betrayed by women, you preach AWALT, you swallow the hard truth that all women are whores and now you can read how to get them easy mode. Enter the circle of over-glorifying pussy and spinning plates; it's your main focus now.

Is that really how you value yourself? How many girls you can fuck?

Do you go to bed at night feeling proud that you spent half the day chasing pussy and finally got laid?

I honestly believe all this time chasing pussy could be much better spent improving yourself, improving your career, reading, trying new things, hitting the gym, you name it. But if you spend all your times doing that, you can't get pussy right? What about our psychological need to fuck? Well, that's where a LTR comes in handy.

I'm in an exclusive LTR for a year and a half. I literally have pussy any time, any day I want. No need to spend any time "planning" your strats and going out to a club to hook up. This time I can rather spend doing productive things. The minute I get horny I have pussy on a platter. Having a partner also opens up for activities that would require a date, and honestly, sex can feel extremely much better with someone you know because you know how to do it with that girl and further increased by emotional investment.

Hell, even if I wanted to go fuck another girl I could (my girl would get upset but I mean she wouldn't leave me probs), but I don't really have much interest in it. I do look at a hot ass if I see one but fuck if I wanna go through all the effort just to lay them.

Anyway let me wrap it up real quick with pros vs cons and conditions to a good LTR. (Based on myself, as this is my opinion in my current ltr)

Pros

- Attractive pussy any time I want. Several times a day if need be.

- No risk of sticking your dick in crazy, STDs, etc

- You have another person there for you if you need it for any reason (even if you locked yourself out of your apartment or some stupid thing)

- Much more time you can use to improve yourself, your career, try new things, etc

- Confidence in the fact that you have locked down a hot girl (confirms/validates your smv)

- Stable future? (no more wondering if you'll end up alone in the back of your head)

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Cons

- You do always have a risk of her going behind your back and cheating although if your SMV is higher and you don't fuck this up somehow this should not happen.

- You can get bored? Although didn't happen here yet.

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So there it is. Basically I wrote this post because, after being a part of TRP for several years doing the reading and looking at field reports and me myself also trying "strategies" to hook up with girls, I don't see the point any more after testing this LTR. I have locked down a hot girl that most likely won't fuck me over, I have all the sex I need, not any worries about the future, considerably more time to set my mind on my future and career (I'm 23)... Even if this relationship was to go to shit for some reason (idk, some superstar hit on her or something and her pussy melted for the fame), I wouldn't regret it? It was a great fuck for two years+, and I can just go on about my day and either go back to hooking up or try to find another ltr?

I do want to mention, though, that I didn't go into this relationship with the intention of a LTR. I developed that idea after we'd been seeing each other for a few months when I realized that it would be a possibility (basically, she was hot and at the same time not crazy), and why the hell not - it's an experience.