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You don’t need to explain it to here. If you need to - prepare to next. That stuff doesn’t work on logic
/r/askTRP23/07/20 03:18 PM
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Better move would have been to come down all cheerful, say hi and that’s it’s cute she came around. Tell her to enjoy her whatever it is she is doing and then say you have to go see someone or shop. And the just to to a shop to grab some icecream. That’s it..
/r/askTRP06/07/20 01:09 PM
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Does she live alone?
/r/askTRP25/06/20 10:47 PM
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Just do it then and see if it was right. Good lesson for the future.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 10:06 AM
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Just ask her to bring you cookies 🍪
/r/askTRP21/06/20 02:08 PM
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UK
/r/askTRP16/06/20 12:16 PM
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Too big to swallow, apparently
/r/askTRP16/06/20 11:41 AM
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On point 👌🏼 I got bored working from home, so I actually started trying different outfits from my wardrobe. Good time to experiment, especially with stuff you haven’t work for awhile. Keep finding new looks that suit me.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 11:39 AM
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That’s a look. Do you wear it with a buzzcut?
/r/askTRP16/06/20 11:27 AM
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I guess it depends on your age bracket. At the moment there is a trend to call high end sports/leisure clothes a “streetwear” I personally quite like that trend as it bring back a lot of relaxed vintage looks
/r/askTRP16/06/20 11:26 AM
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I get it. What I really asked is to see what you personally wear - you specifically. Just out of interest. I am not asking for an advice because I don’t know how to dress. I myself dress well and have various different styles at hand depending on the social setting. Just wanted to see what other guys have in store.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 11:23 AM
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Honestly, I didn’t ask for your “I always dress better THAN others.. here is my website” This is not constructive, just kinda douche answer with little input..
/r/askTRP16/06/20 09:30 AM
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I was born and grew up in post soviet country. I don’t live there anymore for a long time now. My experience is that there isn’t much difference, with women, the difference is more in guy’s mindset. I had these arguments with my Russian friends from uni and from back home about all this “guy pays for girl” culture etc. Whenever I come over I have no problems. My frame is that I am the way I am and do what I want and girls just follow it. The more natural and relaxed you are the easier it is for …
/r/askTRP09/06/20 08:52 PM
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Ok now on a serious note... You can’t convince her and you shouldn’t. But there is the right way to tell her to do it: while you are both having sex and both really aroused (preferably in missionary when you can whisper dirty talk in her ear) you tell her that you want to come in her mouth and watch her swallow it. That’s it, she either complies and says yes daddy or she bails. Then you know where you stand but that’s your best shot. Ideally you want her to be in a state when she is about to com…
/r/askTRP06/06/20 12:12 AM
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Send her a google calendar invite for a meeting. Attach an agenda with PowerPoint bullet point outlining pros and cons of swallowing. Present to her using 3 repetition strategy. You can do it!
/r/askTRP05/06/20 02:23 PM
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The way it works is (doesn’t matter if its man or woman you are talking to) - if he is not comfortable about himself they see it straight away and that gives a weird creepy feel to most people, they can sense it. You have met guys like that - they weird you out because you feel like they aren’t genuine, they aren’t enjoying talking to you they just there to “be social” without having the fun
/r/askTRP30/05/20 02:12 AM
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Just tel me, when you talk to a girl that you find attractive, wtf happens? How are you not getting to bed with her? When was last time you had any plates
/r/askTRP30/05/20 02:10 AM
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Picnic in the park. Grab some drinks at the shop on the way. Don’t come overly prepared. Tell her to bring a blanket for you two to sit on
/r/askTRP30/05/20 02:04 AM
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At your age there is nothing negative about that experience. You should be thirsty for experiencing new stuff that is out of the ordinary. Staying at home, comfortable, doing the usual is probably the worst you can do for developing your mind. Also, no point stressing about what is outside of your control. And remember that no change is permanent and there is a time frame for everything. You are probably going to school there for 2 years and after that you will go to uni wherever you please. So …
/r/askTRP28/05/20 12:26 PM
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I’m excited for you, this is a great opportunity to make new experiences. My advice would be to embrace the culture, understand it, learn the language so that at least you can get by. This kind of stuff will give you opportunity connect with people that you otherwise wouldn’t later in life. What I am talking about is - when you are older ie 25,30,35 you don’t know who you going to meet at a party, club, professional event. This will give you something to talk about, especially if you find someon…
/r/askTRP28/05/20 12:19 PM
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Not enough information to give you advice My first thought is that you are moving to school in Middle East from a western country. Your dad got a job there, family moving? Assuming you are going to go to a private school, so not with locals but other western kids and some rich local kids. In that case you are going to hang out mostly within expat community and well-off local kids who understand western values. Therefore you will have a lot more freedom and should just avoid doing anything too ou…
/r/askTRP28/05/20 11:25 AM
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I eat what I want and when I want
/r/askTRP28/05/20 11:19 AM
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With your current mindset and experience you probably better off without LTR. Seems like it is too much stress to handle for you, need more work on yourself.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 10:10 AM
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Yea same, do it for the hunt but you also know that she ain’t the one to satisfy all your needs haha Also I used to get worries I’d go soft or not as hard because of that negative feedback. Now I just straight up tell them - I’m bot hard coz I don’t feel the vibe, sorry. Most of the time that changes their behaviour 180 degrees
/r/askTRP25/05/20 07:13 PM
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Yea, I strongly suggest you start by reading sex god method and work on your inhibitions. Everyone deserves to fulfil their sexual fantasies
/r/askTRP25/05/20 03:32 PM
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Some bs man.. I enjoy eating them out, especially the ones I really like. Hard to believe they get no pleasure from bj? Really? Got some blue pill conditioning to get rid of man...
/r/askTRP25/05/20 02:47 PM
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Tbf I don’t even feel comfortable telling them to give me a bj. May me be the first couple of times if they don’t get the hint. If she knows I like it and doesn’t try to please me - the dynamic is wrong. It just kills my drive.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 02:44 PM
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This is not what it is about. Girl who likes you and has respect for you wouldn’t tell you about seeing another guy, this is just disrespectful towards you and you both understand that. You can both understand that you see other people. But talking about it is disrespectful the other person. When you talk or hang out it should be about you two and that’s it
/r/seduction25/05/20 01:48 AM
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Whatever gives you more mojo. Usually you should go for a kiss when girl is already giving you a lot of kiss signals. From that point it doesn’t matter how you do it, just go for it. I personally like to play a bit and do a little lean and watch her get excited, may be smile and then go for kiss. Your mindset at that moment should be “I know this is mine. I’m just savouring the moment and do it at my pace”
/r/seduction25/05/20 01:43 AM
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What are your dates like? How do you get rejected?
/r/askTRP25/05/20 01:36 AM
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I think she is basically saying why are you talking and not making move/suggesting to meet up. Why you are talking to her tho? What’s the goal
/r/askTRP25/05/20 01:32 AM
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If she says she is busy and doesn’t propose another time. Say ok no worries - and forget about her unless she initiates talking and tells you when she is free. That’s it. Follow this with any girl. If she interested she will let you know. All you can do is push forward
/r/askTRP20/05/20 11:58 PM
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Watch Jeremy Fragrance on YouTube
/r/askTRP12/05/20 12:43 AM
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You that know there is a way to complement girls without being beta and actually getting their feel more emotional about you, right?
/r/askTRP06/05/20 01:00 AM
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You are not in a rush. It’s time to concentrate on yourself and think. You are not missing out on any pussy man so stop worrying about it. It’s great time to train your brain to concentrate on your own priorities and build from there.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 12:57 AM
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Man don’t get all these BPD comments close to your heart. She could be completely normal. This girl is showing standards signs of affection for a girl who is really in to you. I had a girl like that, they are a lot of fun and you should enjoy your time with her. I was also expecting her to start some shit any minute, but honestly that never materialised. Some girls are like that - play no games when they are in to you.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 12:19 AM
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Just enjoy yourself man. Follow your natural body desires. Just tell your girl that you like first time to do it quick because you get so much pleasure from it. There is no point get ur little bro so numb that your don’t feel shit and last longer. Just chill out and do it as nature intended.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 12:13 AM
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Aight mate, I unsubscribe from asktrp. Too many bucket crab simps here with binary logic 10101101
/r/askTRP25/04/20 11:52 AM
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For men it is mostly about personality and charisma... I am good looking, but I always get girls because I know how to have fun with them..
/r/askTRP25/04/20 02:58 AM
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Man you investing too much time in to this whole thing. You need to change your approach to how you deal with this kind of situations in life - your current way consumes too much of your time and energy and doesn’t give you results you want. I will just say what I do in those situations (happiness, peace of mind and moving towards the goal I want are my key priorities in life when I make choices). I want to spend time with girls who are excited to see me and we are equally attracted to each othe…
/r/askTRP25/04/20 02:10 AM
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Cba to read it. Basically the logic is - being yourself works best. Being yourself- means being confident enough not to suppress your real character
/r/askTRP25/04/20 01:23 AM
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Convo ended because you acting like a buthurt btch. Should have replied some lighthearted joke. If she continued convo - ask her to hang out for a drink. If she refuses - pull back. You need to stop acting buthurt and take shit so seriously. You clearly don’t understand the rules and girls see that. You are no fun to them..
/r/askTRP25/04/20 01:19 AM
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Tell your siblings that you are going to enforce your dad’s will regardless of how they gonna treat you. It’s up to them how they want to go forward with it. Tbf it is a good chance for you to rebuild your relationship with them by showing that you respect your family.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 04:03 PM
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You need to take your ego out of equation. Just look from aside - your are 22 year old guy getting buthurt over his ex because you saw her with someone else - it is all that is. You are experiencing normal feelings that many many guys in the world do every day. Year later you will probably really happy with some other chic or even three. It doesn’t really matter on grand scale. Learn to get abstract from your feelings and understand what is happening and there is timeframe for everything. Learn …
/r/askTRP17/04/20 02:16 PM
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Bruv stop being a bitch. Just reply: Lol smh lets get a drink on daytime* I’ll show how to make better vids. Stop applying logic and being all serious when texting. Just make fun and move on to meet
/r/askTRP17/04/20 02:11 PM
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You are thinking about all the wrong things. Knowing you gonna drop her and that you don’t owe her anything anymore you should be doing the following: -have DGAF attitude with her (but fun, tease her and not give a fuck) - basically a fuckboi attitude -experiment as much as you can. Time is running out and you have a girl with you - so try things that should include trying all the new stuff in sex you wanted to try but were afraid of. Tell her what you like get her in submissive state and enjoy …
/r/askTRP16/04/20 10:23 PM
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What sports do you do? Do you do any sport seriously? I always found that best way to find quality male friends is to get on a sport team/club/class/group you like and dedicate yourself to it. You will find that guys on your level will start hanging out with you outside of sports and you become good friends. Will also add this: Dedicating your free time as a young male to a sport of your choice will give you the following benefits: Status: you are an athlete. You hold yourself and your athletic …
/r/askTRP16/04/20 12:32 PM
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I don’t know about coffees but when I go for drinks I always do the same thing- we go to the bar to order, I ask her what is she drinking then order for her and me and when we need to pay I just say first round is on me. I can afford to pay for drinks, but by saying that I let her know that next round is hers. That gives me an opportunity to see how she handles that and almost always after some chatting and drinking they offer to get the next round and have no problem with that. I think the key …
/r/askTRP05/04/20 01:23 AM
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The only thing you need to do now is - fully withdraw your attention. If she reaches out just make it clear that she should talk to you only when she wants to see you. That’s it. Honestly, you should just look at her behaviour and judge from that. The fact she send you nudes but doesn’t follow through means she’s got fucked up value i.e. it is easy for her to be overtly sexual and in her head it doesn’t mean that she has to follow through with it. In any case you understand that you are dealing …
/r/askTRP05/04/20 01:13 AM
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Your post is vague as fuck. What kind of advice do you want? How she showing interest? Have you had sex? What’s the dynamic? You provided 0 info on all of the important parts. You are going to get shitty advice.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 01:47 AM
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Can you explain what actions do you take to meet women. How do you go about approaching them and what’s your experience so far in chatting/dating girls?
/r/askTRP03/04/20 01:36 AM
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Ok boss, you do your thing.. Ps. No idea whats dzk
/r/askTRP02/04/20 02:16 AM
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“God damn boss”... thats some old generation bs or you are full of insecurities. I’m in my late 20s. I can afford to pay for both of us, but I rarely do. Just split it. Paying for a woman only signals that you are trying to buy her affection. The sexual tension has to be created by you and you alone should be enough to get her to want you.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 01:56 AM
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You did fine, but stop doubting yourself. Don’t cave in, say shot straight as you see it. The good thing now is that she knows that you are fine with breaking up if it comes to it. She will feel like she needs to do extra to keep you interested.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 11:45 PM
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Let’s be honest- say you have had enough sex is like saying that you had enough food. Wait a week or two and your mindset will change... Not about you personally, but this sub has so many posts like “I’ve had enough, I fucked this girl yesterday and that’s it, I am never gonna even lift a finger for a girl” This is such a bus, like people don’t actually look back and don’t see howl life goes in cycles. They just assess how they feel in this very moment and the project it on the rest of their lif…
/r/askTRP28/03/20 01:40 PM
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Great plan. Let’s see how long you last on that path. Rather than going from one extreme to another, how about you do the real hard thing - find the balance.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 01:36 PM
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Yea she misses her ex and she likes you. Do you expect every woman you meet to be only 100% about you? Get real
/r/askTRP25/03/20 09:42 AM
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Look, I don’t know what you expect us to tell you here. From what you wrote - I can’t see exactly what your parents are doing wrong. It seems like you just talk shit about them and don’t want to connect or listen to them at all. You are 22 year old man who can’t pay his own bills if you had to live on your own. You can blame who you want, but it’s a fact. Your parents probably look at what you are doing and don’t see it as a viable future for you. Honestly you better start learning how to connec…
/r/askTRP25/03/20 09:38 AM
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Set yourself a goal of completing something that you wanted for awhile but were putting it off. Set a tight deadline like a week or two weeks and binge on it - just like when you cram for the exams. Time will pass quickly and you will get valuable experience of pushing yourself to fully concentrate on task at hand.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 01:04 AM
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Tbf he is not exactly about to become king, there is a long line in front of him. So him actually becoming a king is quite unlikely
/r/askTRP24/03/20 05:25 PM
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Just say she doesn’t need to worry about it, that’s it
/r/askTRP23/03/20 01:42 PM
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Yes, basically can’t go on dates, can’t go to work, can’t socialise. You’d think that dating apps would be flooded, but activity is normal + can’t really invite them on a date since bars are closed. The good think is I can still train, work from home and my flatmate is one of my best friends so it’s pretty chill
/r/askTRP23/03/20 12:52 AM
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It depends. Online I have better results with saying something like “cool”. If you don’t really have any history with the girl staying nothing is basically ghosting and she forgets about you instantly.. which is fine, but that is a dead end.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 06:44 PM
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B Not enough interest or not right state of mind. You have a few options: Do nothing - pretty much next Say “cool” and pull away if you’re cba to invest any more time. She will either ignore or start initiating. Invite her out/start talking purely logistics. Either way you need to understand- the less she reciprocates to your chat the more you need to move in to “purely logistics” mode and not waste any time on girls who are not showing high interest
/r/askTRP22/03/20 04:21 PM
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Yes
/r/askTRP20/03/20 06:27 AM
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Correct, that works: a few days, weeks or like in my case - a month. Depends on her level of attraction and other stuff i.e. other distractions
/r/askTRP20/03/20 12:06 AM
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Consider this - I try to never kiss on the first date. My experience is that it actually diffuses the sexual tension and mystery that you create. I find that not kissing is better long term if you want to invite her over later and f close. My theory is that once you kissed and date ended without f close, she know what your intentions are, she goes away cools down, knows that you what to f and you are pretty much in her bag and then she has no incentive to see you again - she knows you want her.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 11:36 PM
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Man just say occasionally something vague “baby, you know how I feel about you” and don’t provide any more detail, just joke a bit after. You don’t need to be like a stone wall - say nothing and show no feelings. You need to learn how to make them feel that you like them that very moment but then withdraw so they are not sure later..
/r/askTRP17/03/20 11:01 PM
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Wtf are you in monk mode. If you are really in monk mode - get off reddit as well. What’s the point of external influence/validation by some internet bros. Attachment disappears over time. But you also need to stop clinging to it. You need to digest and understand what has happened and why you chose to do what you did. Unless you really settle it within yourself- you will never let go
/r/askTRP17/03/20 10:44 PM
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Read sex god method- it’s all there
/r/askTRP16/03/20 12:53 AM
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Since you are treating her like a gf and do bf/gf activities she perceives you like a bf. You basically have a relationship even though you might say she is your plate. She really isn’t, she is at least FWB, but sounds more like GF. I have been in that situation, the talk will come at some point soon.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 12:33 AM
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There are two parts to this: Devalue your attachment by creating new opportunities with other girls. Understand that you have already built attachment and that you are not thinking straight. You have wired your brain to think about her regularly and that bond will require time to break. You will have a feeling of withdrawal and doubts, but that’s just part of the process of your brain working through it. Give it at least 3 months before you start to let you go.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 12:30 AM
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If she keeps manipulating with malicious intent that disturbs your peace too much - then leave. If it’s occasionally then you can shit it down if dealt correctly. All depends on what you as a man want. You should have your own rules about it in line with what you want from life
/r/askTRP15/03/20 07:10 PM
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Women’s IOIs are not the same as guys. Let’s say if you are out in a club/bar - don’t look around to see if girls looking at you. Have your fun, talk to your buddies, walk around, be active. Girls with strong IOIs will you notice them in innocent ways like bumping in to you, being on your way and making sure you see them repeatedly. Don’t look at who is looking at you. If a girl repeatedly appears in you vicinity- that’s an IOI and invitation to approach her.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 05:01 PM
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Then everything is fine. You shouldn’t worry about it. Keep your insta strictly business and don’t pay much attention to what she does. And you better up that dread game by going on 6h rides at least a few times a week. Concentrate on your training man..
/r/askTRP13/03/20 12:40 AM
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How are things in bed? Are you dominant? Is she submissive? Do you satisfy each other?
/r/askTRP13/03/20 12:14 AM
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On a serious note, the dynamic you have with your GF from details you provided doesn’t seem healthy. If you are bothered by something as small as who she likes on insta it shows that you guys have a much deeper issues in your relationship. She either doesn’t show you much interest and doesn’t satisfy you the way you would like or you are doing something wrong in how you are managing her interest level. Basically she is either pulling back and not that interested or you screwing up your leadershi…
/r/askTRP12/03/20 11:44 PM
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Man, drop her. She should be there on the side of the road giving you bottles or giving you a massage after 5h ride. Tbf, from personal experience having a gf costs you at least 50 watts of your FTP
/r/askTRP12/03/20 11:30 PM
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AMS
/r/askTRP12/03/20 01:54 AM
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Well, there is best way to learn for newbies and that is sidebar. And they will be told that repeatedly every time they post basic questions- because no one has time to re-type ABC stuff which is already available
/r/askTRP09/03/20 11:36 PM
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Reading sidebar is productive. Posts should be about more advanced situations which requires other readers to apply their experience and understanding of already know material to solve difficult situations with certain intricacies - not a basic level situations. It’s like asking experienced chess players “how does a pawn move” over and over again. Just go a learn the rules! It’s all there in the writing, don’t be lazy
/r/askTRP09/03/20 10:59 PM
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By you putting in effort I mean that you will have to do things to get her in to the same emotional state when she was in love with you etc. Re-building that emotional connection will be hard and time consuming. You might not enjoy it and she might not follow your lead again...
/r/askTRP09/03/20 10:52 PM
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HB scale is subject to each person. That’s the point of it - how you rate a specific girl according to your own taste. HB 10 for me will still be HB10 in my eyes even if you might not think so, because she just does it right for me. Obviously we are talking about physical appearance and behaviour
/r/askTRP08/03/20 11:46 AM
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I have a similar situation. A fwb who I haven’t given commitment for almost 2 years. Honestly, once it breaks once it becomes a point of diminishing returns. You probably enjoyed sex with her because she was really in to you, submissive and would put extra effort to take care of you. Well, since you broke up she is not going to give you the same feels anymore. Get back to that point will involve effort you are not ready put in and honestly don’t want to. I would just accept that at this point yo…
/r/askTRP08/03/20 11:31 AM
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Man, this is not some magic pill. Use common sense: you plate an ex when you don’t care about her as much as she does care for you. You continue having sex with her and only meet up for sex and she is fine with that. Why it’s hard? Because it is rare situation when you are not invested emotionally and genuinely don’t care if she moves on or hangs out with other guys. The problem is that if you are faking it you are going to cause your self a great deal mental struggle and wasted energy when you …
/r/askTRP08/03/20 11:22 AM
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It seems like your brain needs rewiring. May be you can start by trying to help your friends without trying to be better than them. That might help you stop having these unhealthy comparisons with them
/r/askTRP06/03/20 12:05 AM
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Could just say “cool, what’s your number. I’ll text you later” and n o more ecuses, she give u number and u hit her up in a couple of days to set it up
/r/askTRP03/03/20 09:17 AM
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I agree, fighting anyone is rarely a good option. If you go out and get in to a fight regularly, especially over a girl, that means your instincts are way off. I have done different martial arts since I was 8 and until around 20 and I have never gotten myself in to a street fight. Never had to, probably because the way I carried myself I’d rarely get challenged. One thing you learn from practicing martial arts is that you never start a fight and let the other guy throw the first punch after whic…
/r/askTRP03/03/20 09:12 AM
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There is only one way to live man - don’t set boundaries with people directly/verbally. They set boundaries themselves - and you decide if they suit you or not. Friends and girls need go qualify themselves for you by acting how they naturally would, that way you won’t have trust issues with anyone because you won’t have any doubt about who they are. In this situation when you talk to her later just say - cool, he is a nice guy. Then see how she reacts. If she doesn’t outright reject the option t…
/r/askTRP02/03/20 09:49 PM
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If you are advised not to work out, the best you can do is make sure you provide enough protein and calories not to lose muscles and have plenty of sleep to help with recovery from antibiotics. Rest up
/r/askTRP24/02/20 10:51 PM
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None of us will be able to tell you as there is very little information. We don’t know - you could have bad breath, you could be acting needy. I don’t think I have kissed a girl on a cheek on date. Suggest you stop doing that.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 08:15 PM
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You don’t need to check how she is feeling. She is a big girl and can make up her own mind. Don’t show your caring qualities to anyone you haven’t met. She said she is ready to meet you should have just said yea cool, see you then at this time bla bla
/r/askTRP23/02/20 08:08 PM
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May be let her do her exam first... and don’t distract her with your relationship insecurities. Wrong time to “spice it up” All my gfs did the same shit when I was prepping for my exams and didn’t give them much attention, even though I would straight up tell them that I will be less available for next few weeks due to it. Guess what - they all tried to spice it up right when I needed to concentrate the most and that would drive me nuts...
/r/askTRP23/02/20 02:48 PM
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You did a lot of pushing while she did all the pulling, it became exponentially harder for you to get anything every time you escalated more and more. Once you give her a vibe that you are trying really hard it becomes a game for her that’s why she giggled.
/r/askTRP23/02/20 12:42 PM
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Just tell her that everything is fine and that you don’t have any bad feelings about her and no regrets and that you can be friends if she wants. But then just ignore or play down any advance from her. She will disappear quick
/r/askTRP22/02/20 01:37 AM
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Nothing wrong with being in an LTR if you are happy and it doesn’t hold you back or cause problems
/r/TheRedPill21/02/20 07:00 PM
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If I went to sleep at 8 I’d probably wake up at 3am lol What’s wrong with going to sleep then waking up and if you feel well rested - just start your day and do shit you need to do.. your body literally tells you - I’m done resting
/r/askTRP21/02/20 05:05 PM
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If you are talking to girls about Insta likes, you are doing it wrong..
/r/askTRP18/02/20 09:55 AM
1

Just ask her if she wants to do a movie night
/r/askTRP16/02/20 10:33 PM
3

Just read this, will tighten your text game a lot and is a good reference point: http://authorcloud.co/MrVs-Guide-To-Texting-Girls-dq16ldatn?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/askTRP14/02/20 08:38 AM
12

No, never ask weak questions like that. If you have to - make a statement. Just say “I will see you tonight” Otherwise, make some adjustment to time/place and she will confirm.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 12:20 AM
1

Always set up drinks with planned logistics to get to yours after the drink. Basically, choose place within walking distance to your place and invite her over for another drink at yours after you had good time at the bar. If she says no - there is your answer, but you have to do that
/r/askTRP13/02/20 12:08 AM
5

You are in her frame. If it’s no hassle you can go get her number and try flip the frame. Don’t expect much, just have fun
/r/askTRP10/02/20 11:14 PM
1

What I found works best for me is not kissing at all until you are at your place and plan on having sex
/r/askTRP10/02/20 11:12 PM
1

I don’t give a fuck who my plates fuck. But if I did and she knew I did care and did it anyway then I’d feel like a cuck. The moment I’d feel that I’d that our relationship is going in that I’d drop it. If I decide to endure it anyways that would mean I am content with being a cuck
/r/askTRP09/02/20 04:34 AM
1

Cuck is when you are forced to share a sexual partner without really wanting to. It is a feeling. You can always say no and not be one. Depends on ur arrangement with your plate/gf/fwb
/r/askTRP08/02/20 09:00 PM
9

Man, all you need to know about texting is here: http://authorcloud.co/MrVs-Guide-To-Texting-Girls-dq16ldatn?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/askTRP07/02/20 12:26 AM
2

If that is what you actually want - then do it. If you are only doing it to get on with girls, then you are trying to implement a covert contract and that is not what trp prescribes. Don’t do ingenue things to get laid, that will leave you frustrated if unsuccessful and not fully satisfied even if successful
/r/askTRP30/01/20 12:36 AM
1

Honestly, 20 min walk is fine. When you pick up a girl just tell her its 12 min away and provide them with good chat on the way. No one really cares. Once she says yes to a drink at urs, distance doesn’t matter
/r/askTRP27/01/20 01:36 AM
7

I’m a semi-pro cyclist and I can tell you - your knee problems come from your position on the bike. You are not supposed to get any knee pain man. I cycle 10k+ kms every year and no issues
/r/askTRP27/01/20 01:06 AM
10

Go build a snowman outside and pose shirtless with him.. ask a friend to take pics
/r/askTRP27/01/20 12:56 AM
1

All you need.. http://authorcloud.co/MrVs-Guide-To-Texting-Girls-dq16ldatn?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/askTRP23/01/20 11:52 PM
4

Man, your issue is that you haven’t decided what YOU want. If you want just sex invite her over for movie night and snacks or whatever. If you value her as a plate, can take out for drink one in awhile. Also, don’t try to establish your dynamic over text. Just meet and lead from there..
/r/askTRP23/01/20 11:49 PM
2

Correct action, but personally I think it’s incorrect mindset to have. “Girl doesn’t value me” sounds like a buthurt way deal with rejection. Lets be honest, not all girls will like your appearance, style or whatever just like you don’t every girl you meet. Rejection is not personal, you are just finding out if you both like each other, there is nothing about her not “valuing you”
/r/askTRP20/01/20 12:35 AM
1

Not sure what you expect without giving much information. “Hi guys, men want other women while in relationships what you think about me thinking about other women...” not sure what exactly you want to hear as an advice
/r/askTRP19/01/20 03:04 AM
1

Man, I don’t care either way. You asked what can you do, I told you my suggestion. If you just want people to parrot “yea it’s mans nature” the off you go, you got the validation you wanted. My suggestion is self-growth and learning. Not for everyone, I get it. I don’t pretend to be sex guru or anything, It’s just in my relationships I have never been in a frame where I had to ask girls about their boundaries, we just did stuff and experimented. They will tell you what are their boundaries with …
/r/askTRP18/01/20 10:22 AM
1

From what you say I can see that your problem is in your mindset and how you see women. You don’t seem to know what you want from women and can’t satisfy yourself sexually with your gf. The fact that you haven’t tried everything sexually possible with your gf says a lot about how you approach relationships and what your frame is. You have a lot to learn about sex and what you personally want from it. I suggest you read the sex god method book, it should open you up a bit more and learn how to sa…
/r/askTRP18/01/20 02:23 AM
3

Ffs just ask her out on a date..
/r/askTRP18/01/20 01:08 AM
2

Ffs don’t talk to her about it. Make it happen
/r/askTRP18/01/20 01:06 AM
2

Bruv, non of this makes sense. You waited for a girl for 2 hours (which you shouldn’t have) and then when you met her you didn’t fuck, because of what, being alpha? I’m sorry, I’m not trying to piss you off, but this is a textbook example of how to piss yourself off. If she is late by more than 15 min, call your other plates or mates, set something up and leave. Send text to plate saying you got to go, another time. No need to be but-hurt, she obviously needs to make up to you and will do if she…
/r/askTRP17/01/20 08:12 PM
2

Huh want some validation and attention? Tell what’s wrong or gtfo .. smh
/r/askTRP17/01/20 05:45 PM
2

Just text her saying lets do a movie night.. that’s it
/r/askTRP12/01/20 10:51 AM
1

It’s not about being smart
/r/askTRP10/01/20 09:44 PM
2

I strongly believe that personal experience trumps lessons learned from advice of other. When you experience something yourself your brain won’t come up with any bs excuses anymore
/r/askTRP10/01/20 03:58 PM
25

Go for it to learn your lesson
/r/askTRP09/01/20 07:23 PM
5

All my friends I have made through out life was through one and only method- you find a male that you like (looks cool, behaviour, does something you like etc) and you test him by - challenging him to compete, test his frame by dissing a little bit or just invite to do some stuff together - if you like how he respond i.e. doesn’t get defensive, understands your vibe - then you proceed to get closer by doing more activities. Basically all my good friends are guys who are competitive, have purpose…
/r/askTRP08/01/20 11:32 PM
3

Yes, just meet her man
/r/askTRP05/01/20 06:07 PM
5

American Pie 6
/r/askTRP05/01/20 06:06 PM
35

Man, very few will be able to understand your pain here. This is not about RP or BP.. this is a human situation where anyone would be emotional and in need of answers. You should reconcile your feelings and try and understand what and why you feel. Don’t suppress your feelings, you need to come to terms and it has to come to you naturally. For now forget about acting RP or BP, just try and understand what is going on in your head. Going through this process will make you a lot stronger mentally …
/r/askTRP04/01/20 09:39 PM
28

Stop acting like a pussy just because some idiot touched your girl on a hip in a crowded club. It’s going to happen time and time again. Just keep her close and tel them that she is with you. And ffs just get a table next time and chill with your girl. Why you walking around like a dhead
/r/askTRP04/01/20 01:56 PM
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If you are really 40 and successful wtf u asking these BP questions here. Do whatever you want.. decide for yourself. The fact that somebody had a bad experience doesn’t mean you will have bad experience. We know nothing about the girl, from what you say she seems like easy lay.. why would you even question situation like that..
/r/askTRP03/01/20 05:01 PM
3

Don’t be stupid. Just reply with common courtesy, nice and short. Could say something that you will see her when back in the city..
/r/askTRP01/01/20 11:52 PM
2

Probably can talk to him as a short term solution. long term - your GF should consider moving to another place as these kind of problems rarely resolve in a way that would satisfy you
/r/askTRP31/12/19 04:07 PM
7

Lol some strong sarcasm game
/r/askTRP27/12/19 01:46 AM
1

Yes, otherwise you are stopping yourself from growing. If you want you can wait for after the hols
/r/askTRP27/12/19 12:02 AM
2

My advice, from my personal experience of very similar situation, - tell her that you want to see other people, that you still have feelings for her and want to see each other but if she can’t accept it you will be fine with it - that’s what you say. Now, what you should tell yourself is that - you are fine with taking this risk and that you are fine without her. Honestly man, this kind of decisions early on in your manhood will propel your consciousness to the next level. Never again you will b…
/r/askTRP26/12/19 10:41 PM
2

Honestly, I don’t know why this sub has so many guys with empathy and emotion problems. I have always found that the quickest way build quality relationship with both men and women is to show your capacity for empathy, not too much but show that you can care, but it also has to be outcome independent. As in I’m a nice person to you but I don’t really care if you want to reciprocate or not. And of course you show your alpha side as well.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 12:59 PM
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Your relationships suck because you have some kind of anger and empathy issues rooting from your past. There is nothing wrong with being emphatic, it doesn’t have to come from a weak place but from realising that being emphatic doesn’t make you weak. I don’t really see where there is a logical connection with “I overcome my problems, so they should theirs”. I’d hate to live with that mindset, makes your experience of other people miserable. You need to do some work on yourself to enjoy human int…
/r/askTRP26/12/19 12:55 PM
1

Lunges with dumbbells
/r/askTRP26/12/19 01:24 AM
1

Yes do that. Got to be more stoic which means being able to take an L and not care because she doesn’t really matter. You have to understand that it is just some girl you been fuck with and got some feelz, she is not some wife material unicorn girl that you should be afraid to lose, she doesn’t exhibit those qualities nor you were trying to wife her up.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 01:39 AM
1

It’s not how it works. You called her, your part is done. You are too much in to her frame and clearly have oneitis for her. You need to withdraw and get your mind back. With your current mindset even if she reaches out back you will fuck it up. You care too much and she clearly doesn’t ..
/r/askTRP25/12/19 12:46 AM
1

You have a wrong mindset man. All your problems stem from being indecisive about what YOU want to do. If she is slutty and doesn’t talk about future - you should get the message and understand that it’s not your job to pursue relationship with her - it’s hers. Never get feelings involved with girls like that. All the thoughts you have about her is because you confuse yourself by not seeing things straight. With my girl she was 100% pursuing relationship and did everything to prove a good girl st…
/r/askTRP24/12/19 03:51 PM
2

I had this fwb for almost 2 years and it just kinda broke, coz she wanted relationship and I didn’t tho I did have feelings for her. She should do most of the calling, I’d say around 70%. It also tells you what is her current level of interest. Through out the 2 years there where cycles where her interest would drop and the key was not to give in and start over pursuing. However, it’s important to give her some attention to show that you do like her. But it has to come from feeling of abundance …
/r/askTRP24/12/19 11:48 AM
2

I had that situation before with fwb. A lot of contact, then all of a sudden nothing for 4 days, then she reaches out with “helooo are you alive” Even the ones who are really in to you will shit test you once in awhile to check your value. Don’t reach out. Go enjoy yourself with friends and to do something. It’s only hard be because you keep thinking about her - need to really understand that it’s a FWB for a reason and there must be a reason you didn’t make her your ltr. AND don’t act buthurt w…
/r/askTRP24/12/19 10:35 AM
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Where do you live lol? I always greet girls with cheek kisses, when I go on a date or a party
/r/askTRP24/12/19 10:27 AM
4

I don’t understand why you don’t act masculine and make fuckin move. Don’t give shit for free, don’t take her questions seriously, whenever she initiates something like that - give a funny reply and escalate to meet. You are older man, she doesn’t know shit. Do you want her to ask you out or smth
/r/askTRP24/12/19 09:26 AM
4

This is the point where you start to alter your decisions because now you have fear of losing her. You need to meditate and think about yourself without her and understand that you are just fine without her and whatever happens will happen. The only way to maintain frame and confidence in LTR is to have a mindset that if it doesn’t work out then you will be just fine. Doesn’t mean you have to be a dick, it’s just that she should see that you don’t doubt your decisions and know what you want
/r/askTRP24/12/19 02:04 AM
1

Just reply “k”
/r/askTRP23/12/19 01:01 AM
1

Same as you can be negging a girl all night and then fuck her to her surprise
/r/askTRP23/12/19 12:31 AM
2

Not even going to read. Yea there is - you have around another 50 years to go. Just do what you like and enjoy it
/r/askTRP22/12/19 07:56 PM
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I didn’t have proof of her cheating, but I found out that she lied to me about her whereabouts after a night out with girls (she ended up at some guys house and got back at 5am saying she was looking after her girl friend who was sick) That broke trust we had and I didn’t really care if she cheated or not. Best thing that happened to me for my own development. Happy it worked out that way. I hold no grudge and still talk to her. She begged me to get back together etc but I was basically honest w…
/r/askTRP22/12/19 06:54 PM
10

Get that ring back and sell it. That’s what I did and was the best decision. Broke up with my gf/fiancé of 8 years a few years back
/r/askTRP22/12/19 05:58 PM
3

In these situations it is very simple. She gives you any kind of IOI should be an invitation for you to ask her out. Don’t get your ego involved too much, don’t overthink this. Basically when a girl gives you any kind of positive reaction - this means she is currently in the right mood to agree to meet you, she might be bored or is thinking about you. If she blanks you another time again and you see a pattern - that means it’s a waste of time. I’d say if she reaches out like this you can try 2-3…
/r/askTRP21/12/19 08:38 PM
10

Man don’t listen to these guys telling you bs. Basically a lot of girls don’t like anal because of bad experience with exes. Her ex was probably doing same thing as you are try to get in to her ass just for the sake of it. She is obviously stressed and you just keep asking her and checking if she is ok with it. I have been through that. The only way you can have anal sex with her is if you get her in the mood where she is completely relaxed and really horny and you also need to be confident abou…
/r/askTRP19/12/19 12:32 AM
2

Online game should be polarised and concentrated on finding girls who find you attractive already. You are not going to create attraction by text, if you are it is very inefficient and will leave you mote frustrated than give you results.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 02:45 AM
7

Man, I had plenty of lays with the most dumb opener.. just say: chicken or pizza?
/r/askTRP18/12/19 01:20 AM
2

Man, read your own post. Some angry miserable guy who is gonna die soon pisses you off... it’s clear that he is fucked up if he does that shit. You shouldn’t take him seriously... The fact that he manages to piss you off in his current state is the last joy he gets out of his life. Realise that. The best thing you can do is to show that you know where both of you are at in your lives..
/r/askTRP17/12/19 02:00 AM
1

Man just tell him next time you see him that you forgive him and that you will be sad to see him go..
/r/askTRP17/12/19 01:53 AM
4

Man just start talking about your ex and how well she used to blow you. Then act surprised when she gets mad.. just say you were remembering good times. This is not a shit test, this is disrespect on her part. Stop “ignoring” it
/r/askTRP10/12/19 01:27 AM
1

Abundance is a mindset, not a count of women you have rn..
/r/askTRP10/12/19 01:23 AM
1

You should stop expecting something like this from women, which is way too unreal. Stop hurting yourself by getting emotionally in situations where failure is imminent. The reason woman will tell you she is in love even though you are not even physically with her is that because she feels like it at that moment and she can’t bring herself to logically understand the reality of your situation. Whatever a woman tells you - you need to assess that situation from a logical perspective. This particul…
/r/askTRP10/12/19 01:18 AM
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It is fine, your brain will continue make you think about her and the whole situation occasionally. Though less and less with time. It is not about forgetting about her. It is about understanding this situation, and tell your brain that it is fine, you made your choice and that YOU are fine with it. Every time she comes to your mind, don’t fight it. Just think through the situation again, remember why you did what you did and let your brain wonder. That’s how it worked for me. It’s normal to thi…
/r/askTRP08/12/19 07:47 PM
1

Agree with not taking any action. One of the key TRP truths I have found for myself is in how many situation- taking no action is the right thing to do.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 06:09 PM
2

Whatever she told you, just say that everything is fine and it’s no big deal. That she shouldn’t take it personally... That will mess with her
/r/askTRP06/12/19 02:05 AM
1

So you went to gym 12 times and want to see love handles go? Man.. it will take longer than that. Keep doing what you are doing and see in 3-4 months time
/r/askTRP02/12/19 11:37 PM
1

If she doesn’t give you drama, it can also be a bad thing. When girls care a lot they give you drama. When they don’t give a fuck you get no drama. I know you think she is a good girl, but from what you say that you see each other once a week or every two weeks she might as well be seeing other guys and you wouldn’t be able to tell..
/r/askTRP02/12/19 01:32 AM
1

Man that doesn’t sound like a good LTR. The dynamic is way off. She is not that much in to you, denying sex shows that she is very comfortable at knowing that you can take it and you don’t have other options. My advice is continue engaging with her as before, but start to check out mentally. Ideally start seeing other girls. Alternatively, if I were you, there is no way I would be satisfying with that kind of interest level from my LTR. Getting her interest level back up can be too much work and…
/r/askTRP02/12/19 01:26 AM
3

I don’t think you should do anything atm. You have to wait until he gets in to a bit of trouble, so watch out for the moment. When his relationship starts to get rocky because of him over pursuing- take him out, have nice time with him. Do some bro activities and feed a bit of red pill truths. He needs to stumble first to realise that what he does doesn’t work. You don’t really know how long this BP phase lasts in their relationship.ay be the girl is really in to him right now and really enjoys …
/r/askTRP30/11/19 01:28 PM
2

Man you are worrying about the wrong thing. You will never know what she does nor you should invest any amount of effort in to investigating what was she up to. All you need to look at is how she treats you and act accordingly. That’s the only thing you can control - your engagement with her based on how she acts. Treats you well - you give her positive feedback and give a little back. Starts to act out - you withdraw. You need to understand that any woman is capable of cheating, but a lot depen…
/r/askTRP29/11/19 12:58 AM
3

Its not about making peace with your downsides. You have to realise that some girls prefer your downsides. You need to understand that there are girls for whom you are a 10 - and you need to act like you know it. It a fact I have hair, one time I did a really short buzz cut that I looked like a skinhead. I thought I looked dodgy as fuck, but some girls were really in to me. Even now when I show some girls a pic of me with shaved head on a date - they say oh I like you like that. At the same time…
/r/askTRP27/11/19 11:13 PM
3

Haha was thinking the same straight after second paragraph- sample size of 4 where 30n count wasn’t actually bad. Where these conclusions come from..
/r/askTRP27/11/19 10:58 PM
2

Partying, travelling alone, I am quite adventurous and there is stuff you can only do alone or with other men - the type of holidays where you don’t have to consider what your gf does etc. In general the feeling of freedom from having to consider another person every time you want to do something or change direction in your life. You are responsible only to yourself!
/r/askTRP26/11/19 10:09 AM
1

How about going to the army earn some more money and then go to uni?
/r/askTRP26/11/19 01:55 AM
4

Look, I don’t know what kind of relationship you had, the were probably some red flags that you didn’t notice. I doubt it was all perfect and out of the blue. I have been in similar situation, 8 years together and engaged.. Basically man, it takes time. You need to try chill out, accept what you feel. Don’t try and get in to this angry mode - I hate women, I will never be cheated on ever again bla bla This shit happens left and right. Just understand that it will take your brain at least a few m…
/r/askTRP26/11/19 01:45 AM
2

Man seriously, stop giving her attention if you want to have a chance Go date other girls do ur own shit. Reply to her snaps once a day. Leave her on seen if she doesn’t ask u a direct question. You need to withdraw man, you are ruining it and getting way too invested in someone who is clearly undecided about what she wants. You can’t convince her to like you by pursuing her. If she confronts you about you not being interested etc just say “i like to spend time with girls who are excited to see …
/r/askTRP25/11/19 02:05 AM
3

For now just chill out man. You are forcing yourself to internalise TRP too quickly without letting the new knowledge settle. Basically understand that you now have to test TRP truths in real world. Once you see that things are the way they are you should not have any negative feeling towards it. It’s just the way it is. And you don’t need to respect anyone who hasn’t earned it, man or woman. The thing with TRP and women is that once you understand what motivates them, what is their agenda in ce…
/r/askTRP25/11/19 01:53 AM
1

Second that. I’m 6’ and I was shortest guy in my boat. Only did it for one year, but I also had the best 2k time (6:30). Rowing goes hand in hand with powerlifting. OP should spend more time in the gym and definitely bulk up unless he wants to be in a lightweight boat.
/r/askTRP27/10/19 11:33 PM
1

Saying common sense things, isn’t it
/r/TheRedPill22/10/19 05:45 PM
1

Man honestly, stuff like that happened to me too. Only you later realise that it is a girl who picked you up and fucked you. For sure you feel like a man, but “I’m liberal” and “I am staying at yours tonight” is not exactly fuckin shitests. She openly told you I am a slut I am coming with you tonight. There isn’t much to learn. Last weekend me and my buddy were standing outside the club smoking and this girl came over to us to chat and she was literally telling both of us how handsome we are and…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/19 11:39 PM
1

Man I have been there. The best thing that happened to me. Once you realise that you are fine and your future is bright - you won’t have any bad feelings anymore. Be happy for yourself. I can honestly say that I now have no resentment towards my ex and wish her well because I now truly live the way I want
/r/askTRP19/10/19 10:41 PM
8

Just fucked a girl on first date, she had a period. Not a problem. That girl would have told him that she is on a period as it is an easy excuse. My bet is that because he is a virgin she could see that from his actions, wasn’t progressing the correct way and weirded her out. I can picture it, when you kiss a girl and all of a sudden try to finger her - instant ASD. Have to do it right and get her in to the mood first. Speaking from experience..
/r/askTRP15/10/19 09:33 PM
2

Quality reply man, with numbers. Thanks
/r/askTRP11/10/19 04:23 PM
14

You dealing with it the wrong way. I broke up with my fiance of 8 years around 3 years ago. She fucked up on her side and I had break it up. You need to leave behind the victim mentality and that you got “mugged off by a girl”. Just wish her well and be on your way, think about the future and opportunities you have. I had to realise that non of that really matters, let your ego go as the world doesn’t care which girl you are with. Now, I still talk to my ex from time to time, we are kind of frie…
/r/askTRP11/10/19 12:20 PM
2

Wait.. i know you want to get it out of the way. But right now if you make a move you lose. She has to reach out. Look at her past behaviour- she is very manipulative. She will throw your frame off centre and you will be pissed off with yourself why you bother chasing her Go get distracted with your purpose, another girl, friends or whatever else you need to do. On a general note, if I were you- when you meet her you should tell her straight that you are not looking for a friend and show her out…
/r/askTRP06/10/19 10:38 PM
-1

Man just show alpja dgaf attitude. Say something like “well good luck, if it doesn’t work out you better wear some nice lingerie next time”
/r/askTRP10/09/19 11:57 PM
0

Alright so, basically you are dealing with a girl whos get her game on point. There are some precursors in your situation to point towards this kind of outcome: you said she had that DGAF kind of attitude, she basically knows she is hot and knows how to play it right. All this was basically a shit test, which you kind of failed. Basically, she probably does that to every guy, knowing they want to go for a k-close at any sign. The way to pass it was: act like you don't care about k-close and that…
/r/askTRP10/09/19 08:39 PM
-4

Man you fucked when you went for k close. Don't kiss on dates, there is no point. If I had an excel spreadsheet with all the dates I had I where I went for a kiss, the f-close chance goes down massively. By kissing you show her that - you 100% in to her and want to fuck. She will be initially excited but then after a short break will not be interested anymore as she knows your endgame. ​ Also, learn to understand from various signs if the girl is gonna kiss or not. You can pretty much tell if sh…
/r/askTRP10/09/19 07:46 PM
9

Man, I had the same when I was 17. She wanted to be friends. I was like ok and hang out with her, but then I basically went no contact for a week, showing no interest and that I am after other girls as well. That changed the dynamic 100%. Much more ate than towards me etc no shit tests. She became my first proper LTR. Basically nothing happened until I said fucking I don’t care and went to do my own things and not pay her any attention
/r/askTRP30/07/19 10:36 PM
1

I don’t know man, I have a slightly different view on it. It shouldn’t bother you. It could be the fact that you make those things look so effortless that they think that you are lucky. It could be the ultimate compliment since it confirms that you make your gains in life look effortless and they don’t think your are trying hard to be someone you are not it just seems natural that you are successful. Hence they say you are lucky. If it comes from a guy then it’s different, guys value each other …
/r/askTRP29/06/19 09:16 PM
7

ok right, what you do in these situations where some dude is shit-testing you is de-escalate and take back control of the conversation by not-recognizing the threat and "giving him an order back" ​ when he said "you are going to pick it up....right?" ​ you: take a few seconds to look at him, with no emotion. Then just say "yea I am using it. You can use it after me, I don't mind" or if you want for a stronger push back say something like "you will have to wait if you want to do your set" ​ Basic…
/r/askTRP21/05/19 09:22 AM
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Listen up man. 2.5 years ago in my mid 20s I was in a 7 year relationship with my ex fiancé, a sweetheart from HS. Found out she lied to me about staying at friends place after a night out. I always trusted her, never really checked her phone. My gut told me to do it that one time and I did, found out she was seeing some guy. Also claimed nothing happened. I don’t know if she was lying, but lying was enough for me. Broke up, moved out. Bounced back real quick and was happy man within 2 month liv…
/r/askTRP08/04/19 09:33 AM
3

Same happening to me. Used to be mostly in to skinny girls. They still look nice in clothes etc, but you know they aren’t most fun haha
/r/askTRP22/03/19 01:23 PM
8

Thats some bs, I was talking to my buddy the other day exactly about the opposite that doesn’t matter how much older you get 18-25 girls always look the most appealing
/r/askTRP22/03/19 01:21 PM
1

Yea, not reading anymore 😂
/r/askTRP10/02/19 11:15 AM
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Why?
/r/askTRP10/02/19 02:04 AM
1

Problem with all the replies above is they tell you tolerate shit and hope for the best after - NO, this is not how it works. This is your fucking challenge bro, if you resolve your HS shit you will leave HS with respect, knowing how to deal with this stuff later in life. Do you think college will be much easier for you. Don’t back down, don’t wait for better times. You know what you need to do and just shying away from it asking people for advice here. It is not about the people around you in H…
/r/askTRP28/05/18 04:23 PM
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Not gonna lie, if you want to resolve this shit right now - don’t tolerate it. Doesn’t matter if you know how to fight or not - next time someone tries to bully you physically or calling you names - challenge him/her back. Give then the best smack you can right away - they night think you overreacting but they won’t come close to you again. You are a man, you shouldn’t be afraid getting beat up - it is a small price for peace and respect you get after. Long term - lift and do some boxing at leas…
/r/askTRP28/05/18 04:17 PM
2

At this moment in time all EQ stuff is not quantifiable. You can't measure it - therefore you can't provide any solid proof of how it works. On the other hand IQ has a long history of proving correlation with success. Yes, you can say that one person is more emotionally adept than the other, but you can't exactly measure how and by how much - thus you cannot compare the results and identify what exactly it is that makes the better or brings the more success. In that case it is much better to rel…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/18 02:13 PM
2

It is different. It will be a new game for you - you will have to actually speak in real life. No-one here will tell you how to do it. You will learn a lot if you just stand up right now, go to nearest bar/club/cafe and speak to the first woman you liked - about anything. Even if you just ask them what weather it is. Just go man!
/r/askTRP15/05/18 06:38 PM
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Your last question doesn’t make sense.. Anyway, why don’t you try and tell us what happenes? Are you waiting for some guy here say: maaan I tried and it fucking works! This shouldn’t matter to you. You are just clearly afraid of getting out of comfort zone. If you are afraid to try and see and afraid it might hit your ego too hard - then don’t do it. If you see it as a fun opportunity to find out more about the world - go for it. Wtf you need to ask TRP about what you want to do?
/r/askTRP15/05/18 06:35 PM
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The reason it hurts is because you didn’t get closure. It was unexpected. You either try get closure if it haunts you too much or forget about it all. It sounds like you got your hopes high with her without actually testing where you are both at. It’s like you have built all this theory about how she is invested in you without investing in it yourself. You haven’t invested anything to maintain her comfort but tricked yourself in to thinking that she is completely on it... Basically- you fucked y…
/r/askTRP09/05/18 06:27 PM
1

Go to a rave, drop some acid and hope that your personality openness changes by standard deviation
/r/askTRP06/05/18 10:57 PM
1

Mentally check out - do not anything that happens between you two personally. And don’t get your hopes high. About other girls - you will make a lot of mistakes. I do, did one last night actually. Not a mistake, but when you realise that your game was not optimal at that moment in time and situation. Grow some thick skin and learn to pick most important learning points from each interaction and then forget about the issue you had. The only way is forward
/r/askTRP06/05/18 09:57 PM
1

Sorry, typo *mentally check out of her teasing
/r/askTRP06/05/18 09:42 PM
1

Yea man, it is your brain doing disservice to you. The best thing you can do is to eliminate the triggers
/r/askTRP06/05/18 09:41 PM
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Honest advice: stop getting but-hurt about it. You need to mentally check out pf her teasing. The only way you have a chance to still get her is you have to show that you don’t care about whether you fuck her or not (abundance). Take it as a game. She had to show some interest first tho. However, chances are it won’t happen.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 09:38 PM
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I think you are a bit lost here.. doesn’t sound like she is your plate, but a gf From what you tell, it looks like it is better for you to break up anyway.. since your are going to be a Marine
/r/askTRP06/05/18 09:35 PM
2

Read you post again - it might be that she wanted a full on domination. But that’s a fkn risk
/r/askTRP06/05/18 09:32 PM
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Well, a kino example would be when you touch her intimately and then you stop and change setting slightly with a bit of a smile. If done correctly she will feel like you are in control of the situation, it gets her interested and wet..
/r/askTRP06/05/18 09:28 PM
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Trying too hard. If she rejects once and then again then it turns in to a joke.. she will keep doing that. It is hard to tell without knowing the whole setting, but you should have tried more push and pull rather than full on aggressive. Had to create doubt in her about what you actually gonna do next.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 09:23 PM
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Well, since you said you are committed. Firs you need to break that commitment. Your suggestion in the last paragraph is along the lines of what you should do. Whatever you feel comfortable with. It is the best thing you can do which is fair to you and to her.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 12:55 AM
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You need to understand why they pop out tho. Read up. I am a cyclist and when I get down to 10% bf I constantly visible veins on calves and forearms. After workouts they pop out on thighs and sometimes biceps. This basically happens because after workout you stop moving the blood around and veins start to get swollen because blood stays there.. Also, the longer you do certain excercise/sport your body will build vascularity in required areas so your dad if he has been doing it for years would ha…
/r/askTRP02/05/18 04:40 PM
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They come out more after workout. Also required low-ish body fat. Also, depends on your genetics. I have veins at 15% bodyfat (not the biceps tho), some guys don’t have veins at below 10% bf.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 04:32 PM
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Man all you had to say is that you like her but you cannot do a relationship atm due distance etc. Basically, it’s not in your plans. However, if she likes hanging out etc and you like it - tell her that. Do not tell women explicitly about other women because to them it sounds way too personal i.e. “there is another girl I bang which I like more than you, but I don’t mind banging you as well”.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 04:26 PM
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Doesn't sound like you enjoy your relationship anymore. Don't hang on to the nice stuff that already happened. Most good things don't last forever, need to know the right time to let it go, think of the opportunities you are giving up on in the future...
/r/askTRP02/05/18 12:37 AM
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I think this is a safe advice, but after practicing TRP principles for over a year now, honestly, I am too lazy to do so much effort for Almost any girl. In my mind I know what I want a girl to behave like etc and if she is not on it, I rather let it fade and find someone else.. I have options. Had two plates drop in the last month and that was just a routine date really..
/r/askTRP29/04/18 06:42 PM
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The way I worked it out for me is by basically asking myself questions about why I feel certain way about a girl i.e start worrying etc and it always comes down to this: You are afraid of missing out/losing her because you think she is better than others. She may as well be, but you need to ask yourself whether you really need this girl and all the responsibility that comes from getting more involved with her emotionally etc. Ask yourself why you really need another person next to you all the ti…
/r/askTRP22/04/18 11:57 PM
2

Go and do 1 Rep Max of each exercise... perfect celebration
/r/askTRP17/04/18 03:34 PM
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The truth is that on the big scale all this shit you think about doesn’t matter. These thoughts will come back to you from time to time, because your brain is used to thinking about your past and she pops up. Just accept it as something that does happen occasionally and let it pass. Understand that you are slowly changing your old brain firmware to a new one, more applicable to your new environment. Takes time to uninstall all the shitty soft you had geared to care for ur ex. Shit happens man, l…
/r/askTRP16/04/18 11:34 PM
1

Marrige is for kids. Unless you plan on getting kids right away, there is no point of marrying - you already get all the benefits you can and even more
/r/askTRP13/04/18 08:56 AM
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Genuine question- what do you actually want from yourself and from them? What’s your ideal you are trying to attain?
/r/askTRP08/04/18 11:42 PM
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Bad advice, this is how you get guys in trouble. By all means keep escalating, but with a girl who you never had sex with and she tells you she doesn’t want it - stop right there and get on with your own shit. Even if you get sex - it’s not worth it.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 09:18 AM
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Man, I don’t know you as a person, but it sounds to me like you have some misconceptions about masculinity and some insecurities. Well who doesn’t.. Basically you can offer them oral, ask them, don’t ask them - it doesn’t affect your masculinity. It is about how you do it and whether you can stand by what you want to do
/r/askTRP07/04/18 09:47 PM
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Ok. More important question for your own development is - why do you feel that offering is beta? Also what do you mean by offering?
/r/askTRP07/04/18 09:38 PM
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If u bothered to write more than one line about your situation, wouldn’t have to make assumptions. Do you think we are all psychics here?
/r/askTRP07/04/18 09:35 PM
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The thing is, the way he phrased it is not clear whether she actually wants any details. Very possibly the guy just checkin to see if he should tell her details to make her more jealous.. which I think is not the right thing to do it you want to preserve he as a plate
/r/askTRP07/04/18 09:14 PM
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Not sure what you mean exactly. I still hook up with my ex LTR of 7 years. She knows I sleep with other girls etc. I don’t talk to her about them, because there is no point. If it will agitate her, don’t talk to her about other girls. But you both know you are not exclusive so..
/r/askTRP07/04/18 09:12 PM
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Loool where these guys cone from. It is beta for you, because you obviously don’t like it
/r/askTRP07/04/18 09:08 PM
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I broke up with my LTR if 7 years. We also used to like doing sports etc (I got her in to it) Ski,run etc. But I always thought of it as my own activity, I would do no matter what, but need to change your mindset a bit. Thing of goals you wanted to achieve which you didn’t when doing it with her. I.e. don’t go the same routes and places, try to explore and build. You are on your own and do your own shit
/r/askTRP07/04/18 07:09 PM
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Man, I am younger than you are, but oh boi I wouldn’t want to live your life. If you just woke up and realised you don’t want to live that life - concentrate on yourself and making your son a man (you owe him that) and that your wife won’t turn him in to a beta bitch. That should be your priority. Go to gym and do shit load of sports with your son, spend as much time as you can with him. For yourself - prepare for a battle, may be divorce, but do not do anything or accept anything that will make…
/r/askTRP07/04/18 07:04 PM
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Harsh haha I guess I was being too nice in my comment
/r/askTRP07/04/18 06:55 PM
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How do I know? You have given 0.01% information
/r/askTRP07/04/18 06:08 PM
1

Your question shows you are not ready to even think about LTR
/r/askTRP07/04/18 06:05 PM
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You are not a LTR material mate..
/r/askTRP07/04/18 06:04 PM
1

I like good quality techno (clubs/concerts), I go there to listen to good music that boosts my mood tenfold with or without MD. Just listen to the music and move randomly to the beat the way you enjoy it, closer your eyes. Sometimes girls give me IOIs or I just look around and see who is up for some chat, if I see it I just walk up to them and start talking and dancing. The main thing is - never make your behaviour about them. It is easier if you actually like the environment you are in - it boo…
/r/askTRP07/04/18 05:56 PM
1

Really? Got to try stop it then 😂 was happy with the size before, but can make some mad improvements haha
/r/askTRP07/04/18 03:25 PM
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Easiest solution - just fap 3 times every day.. no problems with overstimulation after haha
/r/askTRP06/04/18 03:29 PM
2

Step 1. Clean your room Step 2. Wake up at the same time. Step 3. List 1-3 things you want to do that day and follow through. Can start with things easy to achieve first, build it slowly. Keep doing until you feel like some part of your life is under control.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 03:11 PM
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Man, those moments are jewels. Love to see when girls are tight on time - no game required, they make split decisions and follow thru. No time to fuck around haha
/r/askTRP14/03/18 03:08 PM
1

Hope you enjoy your life to the fullest
/r/askTRP14/03/18 03:05 PM
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full of resentment... wonder why. Have you cleaned your room lately?
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 12:23 PM
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tbh, I don't understand the thing with tinder shaming.. In big cities I have found no difference between girls you meet on tinder, club etc. If anything they are less introverted and shy - much easier to talk to. get out of anger phase mate, enjoy women YMMV
/r/askTRP06/03/18 03:34 PM
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been on quite a few tinder dates over last year. The scenario that works most of the time is - date 1 - go for drinks, 2 rounds - lots of chat and kino. Date 2 - movie night at yours (yes, you just tell her directly "come for a movie night, I need to test my new projector". If she says yes - bingo, she might try to push for a proper date (never had that) or just gonna say no - means she is not that in to you. As simple as that edit: P.S. I find that like shooting a 3-pointer in the game. You pra…
/r/askTRP05/03/18 10:37 PM
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What exactly do you mean by dissolving? Is it a temporary solution or long term one?
/r/askTRP05/03/18 12:33 AM
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You see, one of the issues I find is that I don't have this attitude and will power to resist things like that. What I mean is - rather than tempting myself with it and knowing that there is a big risk of giving in the obvious solution is to cut it out and not put yourself in a situation where you know you can fail yourself...
/r/askTRP04/03/18 11:17 PM
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haha, that's a broad generalization but true a lot of the time. Can invest in fitness and game, don't really need money for women... but need money for other stuff. One thing I realized so far is that - you don't need money to get women (at least when you are young). I have actually been thinking about it and though of cutting out tinder/dating completely and just go clubbing now and then. But it has been inconsistent results. There would be 2-3 weeks where I would get what I want every weekend …
/r/askTRP04/03/18 10:57 PM
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wonder if your nickname has anything to do with PACCBET the brand haha. Anyways, send me your pic I will tell you if you are attractive. Attractive works differently for guys than girls. You already saw how girls react to your friend, so you are not that attractive. You need to think about whether your attitude matches your attractivness type. Do you look rough, sweet, cute? A lot of the time how you act i.e. look at girls, talk to them etc adds in to your attractiveness. Also there will be girl…
/r/askTRP04/03/18 10:47 PM
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Cesar did it...
/r/askTRP25/02/18 05:23 PM
1

Completely agree with you man. Just for reference: I am 26 and over the last year I have learned the most how to walk away from tings: from gf, friends, some family and other stuff. Saying no to things is how you gain traction with reality and actually realise your worth by only doing and engaging with things that matter to you. Now, understand me correctly - walking away or saying no doesn’t mean permanently (like in family situations for example) but at that moment when you say no - you add mo…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 08:15 PM
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I understand you have a very strong opinion on fap, but I personally don’t view things as good or bad - it is always situation dependant. Don’t use binary thinking. Yes masturbation has slightly different effect on than sex. However, depending on the situation you can exercise your own choice to so either. I.e. if I need to focus and get on with a task (i.e. study session) that requires less distractions and use of will power - I would either fap and get rid of that horny feeling than fight the …
/r/askTRP22/02/18 04:06 PM
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Let’s be real - even plates require time. Everyone here talks like they are some king kong walk around shag plates left and right when they want. For a fact I have 2-3 plates atm. Still, if I want sex I have to arrange the whole meet up etc. Even though most of the time they come to me for a movie- it takes whole evening after work.. Lets be honest- if you are a young male working hard towards your career and at the same time do other things ie sports and other hobbies - most evenings you just d…
/r/askTRP22/02/18 12:52 AM
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Still didn’t answer the question.. I really wonder whether al the guys who talk about no fap actually have access to regular sex or you just don’t have either.. in practical terms. Of course theoretically you can have sex..
/r/askTRP22/02/18 12:46 AM
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Man, chill out and let yourself recover - don't go hard non-stop. Or go hard at something else (if that's what you are asking). If you are physically incapable of running around and doing things do this - research stuff you always wanted to but had no time for. If you feel inspired - sit down and plan your future, make plans for the year, schedule things (basically get things in order and outline your future moves). Otherwise, read read read lots of books you are interested in but had no time fo…
/r/askTRP21/02/18 08:26 PM
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It does you, since you are feeling it is...
/r/askTRP21/02/18 08:20 PM
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Sometimes you don't want to go out and try harder... fap relieves the tension and allows you concentrate on the task. Speaking from experience: working, studying professional exams and doing sports at the same time. To get laid, practically I need to waste a whole evening to go on a date with one of the girls I know or even if she comes over for a movie - it is always a whole evening affair and you don't get much done. Fap is like 15 min affair... and done
/r/askTRP21/02/18 08:19 PM
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Real question for you (no fap guys) A lot of the guys talking about no fap don't really talk about sex. Is sex readily available to you before and during your no fap adventure? Asking because I always wondered on effect of fapping on relationship etc. I used to fap and have sex with my gf on the same day, so was never sure about the effects etc.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 08:15 PM
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Just like most of the comments below. Man, it doesn't matter if women are rational or not - you should be mentally strong enough to walk away away from anyone and anything if it does not satisfy you. Wanting something and demanding something from someone else is a selfish thing - people should naturally be willing do things for you (if we are talking about personal relationships, not business) otherwise you don't need it.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/18 06:13 PM
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Spot on man I don't really read much TRP anymore, I kind of work it all for myself now and don't feel like I need to keep topping up. BUT, on the subject: I worked out that the most optimal and enjoyable way for myself to interact with people (mind I live in a multi-million European city) is to engage is many conversations and quickly test them for compatibility. I realised that people I enjoy spending time the most is those who are independent, self-ware and critical and at the same time show i…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/18 06:10 PM
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Guys You are my inspiration. I'm a young professional, working in finance. Laying girls isn't a problem really, the goal is to make it as effortless as possible. Own bachelor pad and easy logistics is the ultimate goal - working towards it. Really happy for you, glad you enjoying your life.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 10:32 PM
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Man, reado Preventive Medicine by Rollo Tomassi - you won’t have any more questins. There are times (during menstrual cycles) when girls get attracted to “beta” traits and to “alpha” traits. Its science.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 08:23 PM
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Man, can absolutely 100% second that. I have only discovered TRP now (26) and have been in an LTR from age 17 to 25. Amazing experience, loved her a lot. But, I always had a view that I enjoy the relationship but if it is going to go wrong it's fine - basically I knew I can lose her or she can lose me. Boom - we broke up last year (she fucked up). Because of my mindset, it only took me 2-3 months max to recover to a good level where I was enjoying my life more than before. Still have some feelin…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 10:37 PM
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We need more older Brits here in TRP. The writing is so eloquent and congruent, it's just pleasure to read. Delivers the message, thought through and well balance - makes me unwilling do dispute any of the points made. P.S. I myself did a law degree in UK and have been living here since my mid-teens.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 04:42 PM
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whenever you say "all that shit" shows your inability to handle it, because you failed somewhere. And it's ok - you could have had quite a bit of success, just tired of it. It doesn't mean everyone should go MGTOW - especially young guys. It just doesn't make sense. You can't shortcut your life from puberty to being old straightaway - life is for living and not being afraid to fail, multiple times. What about getting abs because its healthy and you also get to fuck more chics? You can't separate…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 02:02 PM
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If you have time for it and you like taking pictures of the stuff you enjoy doing - why not? Who am I to tell you not to? I like certain sports and nature photography, when I travel I will take a lot of shots and then share the pictures on my insta - mostly pictures of me running in the mountains, picturesque views and other stuff I think was cool. I also follow people who inspire me and give me ideas for shots. Sometimes I get bored of it and stop and revisit it when I feel like I would enjoy i…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 01:57 PM
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you know, here on TRP people try to put their life in 3 lines which never makes sense. The other thing is people try to come up with a lifelong solutions saying - do this one thing all your life and you will be successful. Thats BS. (btw, not referring to you, just in general). From what you describe MGTOW, I can attest I use the same principles. I go MGTOW when I need to achieve certain goals and go back to the game when I feel like I need more sex or I want to enjoy it to the full again and ju…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 12:27 PM
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Not everyone has problems gaining muscle man... If your natural physique is of skinny bitch, too bad you weren't born a girl. You will have to eat 3 times as me and lift non-stop just to maintain. For myself, I am happy with a good lean V shape upper body and well built legs - i.e. swimmers physique. Do wtf you want man and what works for you.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 12:15 PM
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Ok then. Tell me what is a difference between a man who fully exercises RP principles and a man who is MGTOW. Why would a man living RP life describe himself as MGTOW? I think we have a collision/overlap between these terms. If you watch any RP vloggers on youtube i.e. Entrepreneurs in Cars - this is exactly how they describe MGTOW. There is no way going around it - the term MGTOW implies a man who is willingly avoiding/abandoning pursuit of women (which is natural for men). It is like the momen…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 12:10 PM
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Well, I am glad you are able to pull 8+ every time you go out. You must have gotten bored of it. I can't pull 8+ every time, so I am working on it. The journey is fun, I like pussy. Seems like yo u don't like it as much. Well, more power to you. I guess we are all MGTOW, we all go our ways. Since when the definition of MGTOW is "not being interested in fucking girls anymore". Basically guys with low sex drive...
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 01:56 AM
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Agree. I can give a very specific personal example when I consider doing monk mode: - I want to run a marathon under 3 hours and at the same time have to do my CPA exams this whole year. 90% Monk mode would make sense for me because if I want to achieve these goals I will have to dedicate all my free time outside of work to 2 things: studying and running (includes going to gym, not going on big nights out, no alcohol etc.) for the next 6 months. I am doing from a position of knowing that I can g…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 01:45 AM
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For me distinction between RP man and MGTOW is very simple - you go MGTOW because you can't get any pussy. I like pussy - I go for it, I develop ways of getting it and I enjoy it. If I don't get it enough - that means I need to improve. The moment I stop enjoying this whole process or get bored - I will focus on other things. Also, there are moments when I stop dating or take a break because I need to pay attention to other things for a while i.e. career, self-care. Once it's back on cruise cont…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 01:35 AM
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who fucking cares, do whatever you want... I fap when I want, and don't when I know I am meeting a girl so need to be on top of my game. PUA's have some good stuff to learn from to apply in clubs etc, it's pure tactics as opposed TRP being a strategy. Social Media is fine if you use it for your own purposes - engage with long distance friends to arrange that trip to US or Europe next summer. Or warm up a pussy for the next weekend so you are on her mind. If you not good at using Social Media, th…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 09:19 PM
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Don't take below comment as an offence. Saying you are "guilty" of this admits some kind of inner conditioning. I have noticed guys use this term quite often. It is a pretty innocent remark, but just think about it. There is actually nothing wrong with a guy cleaning his room when he knows a potential sex is to occur - it makes total sense. Also, from my personal experience girl's rooms are more messy than guys, at least definitely not cleaner. Perhaps their rooms only smell nicer haha
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 02:38 PM
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Man, I honestly don't know how all you guys get so pessimistic and bitter about your life. You are fucking young, fuck you. I was in an LTR for 7 years from age 17 to 25. We were also engaged. Was livings BP dream which was really nice, good feelings, nice emotions. Majority of my mental recovery happened within 2-3 months of the breakup, which I know is pretty quick by general standards. I don't know why, but my outlook on life is not that I am fucking scared of missing out on my life all the t…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 02:32 PM
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Man, honest advice here... no jokes Go get a single dose of LSD. Have a nice trip and enjoy a depression free life for at least 6 months or longer. There is real research to back this up (google it). If you suspect that you have an actual condition, and to me it looks like you do - do it. It won't hurt and potential save you from yourself.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 01:25 AM
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Touch down man! "I do miss the conversation and "togetherness" but I don't think I want to ever be in that prison again." - exactly how I feel. Had an amazing dynamic with my ex and the feelings were great, but once single you just realise how much more freedom you have to do things you want and I don't mean sexually. I can live monogamously, for some reason, but everything else just suppresses my mojo, my drive to do things just dips.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 11:28 AM
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Lol the violence is not aimed at the guy above, we are talking about a situation when one experiences strong emotion in vacuum. You can't deny that humans are able to feel emotions so strong that it would be unhealthy to try and suppress/control it to certain extent i.e. when significant other or close relative passes away. I have experienced it, and at that moment someone telling be to be more stoic about it wouldn't go down well. Probably the last thing you care about in these moments are abou…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 09:59 PM
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Wtf is all this alpha talk. I am a man who cries. And I don't care. I am also a man who will rip someone's head off if they challenge me when I cry or tell me I am weak, because I won't tolerate that bs from anyone. If your emotion is genuine and you don't do it just to look around for people to support you - this is no weakness. You have to own it. When I'm in grief and I fill like I need to cry, I will. But whoever doubts my strength can go their own way, I wouldn't care. If your self-worth is…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 02:13 PM
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Binary thinking detected - go read side bar hahaha
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 01:59 PM
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This is no criticism, but an observation: After reading Rollo's second Rational Male book, he explains the hypergamy in a lot of detail. I would suggest to a lot of TRP readers to read it at least a couple of times. I see a lot of TRP discussions approaching AWALT topics with binary view, wanting to get an answer in one sentence. If you ever want to understand hypergamy and AWALT in proper terms, you have to gain better understanding of contributing factors which lead to different outcomes in si…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 01:56 PM
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I will be honest with you - I find you have a lot of issues with the way you look at yourself and at the girls. I am almost ready to conclude that the lack of results that you have is predominantly due to errors on your side rather than you being on the wrong side of luck or standard deviation. You have been given a lot of good advice here, but you seem to come up with some excuse/explanation why it is not applicable to you or your situation: - nudes are off-putting - girls have low attention sp…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 11:56 PM
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I would say keep playing around with pics. Use some Insta filters on your photos (manual edit). I found my combo of pics that works really well for me now and I don't change it anymore. The things is there is always place for improvement, just keep at it (purely for experiment). I had dry spells of few weeks when everyone flaked, no dates, nothing. Happens. Leave it for a bit come back when you are ready. Don't get too invested. Make it fun for yourself, try different things and different way of…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 03:49 PM
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Well instead of whining and agreeing with the OP - I will give you this: I have vastly improved my tinder experience recently after using it for 12 months. A lot more girls message me first and initiate conversations, drastically increased amount of matches. Note that before doing the following your profile needs to be quite good already i.e. photo in a suit (looking professional), photo doing some activity top-less (I don't have abs, but pretty lean and athletic), photo with a dog, photo doing …
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 01:02 PM
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12 month ago broke up with fiance (7 years together since High School, was my first one). Here is the progress: banged 10 HB6-8, made out probably with double that (never really dated before due to LTR, had no game - everything new) Took break from work, went skiing for 2 months. Qualified instructor now. Did a few trips with friends Established good social circle for socialising (clubbing etc.) Career growth, got 20% salary increase at new place. On track to finish my CPA next year Lifting, tra…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 12:19 PM
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Just a few logical flaws to be pointed out in your reasoning: discussing your needs in a relationship doesn't equal "negotiating attraction". They are different things. Yes, you shouldn't negotiate physical attraction with the girl. Yes, you should let her know how you like to be treated and what you want from the relationship (note, not asking her, but telling her) Being a bad fucker doesn't lead straight to a conclusion that she gets dick somewhere else. It's just not logical nor rational to a…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 05:06 PM
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Man, relationship-building and screening is not mutually exclusive. From my experience, there is no better determinant than girl's past to know what she is capable of, people and especially girls don't change their behaviour patterns that much and rarely to extensive work on their weaknesses. I have observed multiple friends of my ex going through same motions with new BFs. They had no idea about their past (only things she chose to share with them) and were giving them level of trust they shoul…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 02:43 PM
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Good lad. Learn from this experience - being decisive and upfront with people usually works better and allows you to be in control and keep your frame when the shit hits the fan. In my past, because I always kept my intentions and decisions straight with my ex - after break up I could always shut her up if she tried to blame me for anything by just simply saying - You know me, you trust me and you know I never back down from what I say, I always was straight with you. You fucked up, now fuck off…
/r/askTRP02/11/17 11:56 AM
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Thanks man. That Outlift has 350mg of caffeine, no wonder you get up haha. I sometimes stop drinking alchohol after 1-2am and have a redbull and water which easily keeps me going until 5-6am if I am having fun. This is the first year I have tried coke, mdma. I have done it in small doses (usually half of what people do) and the feeling you get is great and for me its enough to get myself on the roll, I never really feel like topping up after that. As you said, I want to find the way to get to th…
/r/askTRP01/11/17 03:14 PM
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Well, enjoy it then and make it better. What are you complaining about? TL;DR; I had a gf, told her I was looking, she dumped me immediately , I hooked up with the girl I was looking at and everything is more than great. hahhahaha
/r/askTRP01/11/17 11:37 AM
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The way he handled it, he can potentially miss out on both now.. Obviously we don't know a lot of details, but it is a possible scenario in such situations. The only way to tell a woman that you want to move on etc is only when you made a rock solid decision, she can't even argue with that. If you bring her some indecisive shit she will slap you like a bitch you are..
/r/askTRP01/11/17 11:34 AM
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Man, just man the fk up. The situation is pretty clear. Don't be feminine and try to branch swing to avoid some minor risks. Take your chances and go for it. The situation is pretty clear to me. You have been with a girl for a few years. You have no more passion for her. You have found another girl you want to be a man for a want to try with her. You should sit down by yourself and think about points 2 and 3. Are they true, is it a temporary feeling or not. What are your goals with new girl and …
/r/askTRP01/11/17 11:22 AM
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If I understand correctly, you have broken up by now. So listen up (I went through break up after 7 years together and engagement last year, took me 1-2 month to get my SMV back from declining and in to growing and feeling much much better) Understand one thing, it is going to be uncomfortable, it is going to hurt for a bit, no avoiding this pain - take it as a challenge. Think of yourself as an athlete and this is the game you are playing, embrace it. No contact No social media of her. Prioriti…
/r/askTRP01/11/17 11:06 AM
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Think.. A guy who has been in a long marriage, recently divorced and already has kids to take care of is less likely to want to jump back in to commitment and go through the cycle again. I am not saying it's impossible, just less likely.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 01:07 PM
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Why don't these women, assuming post-wall is 30+, don't go for men 40+? Logically, free men at that age would want to settle etc. However, I know from my personal observations that there aren't that many men in that age bracket who are still single, have no kids and not recently divorced.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 11:12 AM
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Just a general comment I find that on TRP the Alpha talk sometimes gets too ridiculous. Basically a bunch of dudes asking each other is this alpha or not etc... Alpha never needs confirmation of whether he is alpha. You are alpha, you are the fking rock that women hide behind for safety. You had a moment of weakness, sh_t happens, got injured. If it was a big upset in your life - it is normal to have a moment of weakness when you think you can't handle it. This doesn't make you not-Alpha, may be…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 09:18 AM
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I agree, have swallowed the same pill the hard way about a year ago. However, through observing friends and family I have encountered a certain specimen/type of women (one or two) who seem to act against the hypergamy. This particular one was quite attractive (solid 7 or may be 8, blond, blue eyes, slim, with some assets) and from what I have observed she had 2 LTRs with guys who were pretty weak mentally. However, important to notice - she was not feminist, agro or "tough" in any way, she was q…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 08:54 AM
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Someone's been hurt... How about learning to balance? You know yourself better though...
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 06:35 PM
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*affect I think you have a good post overall, but the analysis is purely your perspective on life through the lens of your experience and age. As you said, those guys are early 20s (I am mid-20s) and they act accordingly. When I go out and if I chose to get drunk and fool around - this is exactly how I would act. No f_cks given about who's wife/gf it is, ring or no ring. They just play with people and see what they can get out of it. The way he teased you I found quite amusing, absolutely right …
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 06:25 PM
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