The disadvantage inherent when using dating apps/social media to talk to/meet women

mallardcove · 2017-08-04T20:30:22+00:00

This is why I don't believe the (several) guys here on TRP who claim they have a lot of success randomly messaging hot women on social media that they have never met. Are you telling me that an attractive woman on social media, whose inbox is probably drowning in DMs from dozens if not hundreds of guys, will not only find your message in the swarm of messages, but actually respond to you and hook up with you instead of a laundry list of high value guys she actually knows in real life that she can meet up with instead? I call bullshit. Odds are about as good as writing fan mail to your favorite athlete or actor or musician and getting a handwritten personalized response back. Yet, I see it around here all the time. "I DM 10s that I don't know all the time in Instagram and have a lot of success!"

In high school I was a huge pussy. I would be afraid to approach and talk to girls so I would always talk to them on AIM first. I would always get friendzoned. Probably because these women knew I had multiple chances to talk to them in person but didn't. So they saw me as a coward right off the bat. I even was afraid to open to a girl who sat in front of me in a class in college. I mean how much of a pussy do you have to be.

HighCliffRunner · 2017-08-04T19:17:33+00:00

There is little debate that approaching in person is better and will develop your social skills dramatically faster. With that said, you can still convey a shit load of abundance over a social media platform/dating app.

I don't do much social media game, only when a random girl adds me or messages me first, but that's not a steady and reliable way to meet girls. Having great pictures of yourself on Tinder with a brief bio and an Instagram linked to it that is updated regularly with interesting/exciting/exotic pictures is a surefire way to have huge success on Tinder without even trying that hard. Young women are vain and love validation. They see your lifestyle and think what better way to get attention from people than to have you take pictures of them during your travels/adventures?

idkwhattodonow44 · 2017-08-04T19:48:34+00:00

I agree with this. Don't text a girl unless your making plans. Anything else is a waste of time and can be done in person.

slothsenpai · 2017-08-04T20:59:30+00:00

Thing is that I've had a lot more success online than I had on a nightout. Online, I can show off my best pictures where I'm at my leanest whereas in real life I'm average height and don't particularly stand out in clothing.

Not to mention I have a relatively irregular high pitch voice and I'm not as good as approaching a group of girls without the fear of being laughed at or having that "go away" look on their face.

Online defo has its perks for those who are autistic and are better at flirting electronically than they are irl. At least that's how I personally see it.

Redpillandrew · 2017-08-05T09:08:33+00:00

Social media got me pussy, sometimes. Therefore I won't diss it right away

Title	The disadvantage inherent when using dating apps/social media to talk to/meet women
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Date	August 4, 2017 6:54 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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