A lot of new/old people on here may be scattered and confused when reading all these different ideas and philosophies. You don’t have to be.

In order to understand everything else this subreddit offers to teach you, you first have to understand the most important one: that being confidence.

Now I know what you might be thinking. “Oh man I’ve heard this a million times before. I need different advice”. Cut that shit out right now. In order to be able to obtain female validation and attention, there’s a basic 3 step process you need to self-actualize.

The first step is a positive self-image, which starts with simple self-evaluation. By realizing where your strengths lie, you have a better understanding on what it is you need to strengthen, and what could potentially make you a “natural player” come the near future. Analyze what you are good at and work on what you aren’t. This will help you gain groundwork in your weak areas while helping you realize what it is about you that are valuable. The first step to any of this is valuing YOURSELF more than you could ever value any woman. As hard as that is to accept, you have to suck it up.

The second step is gaining control over a group/crowd. Once you have realized what it is you are good and bad at, you can start practicing your skills on crowds of people. Usually this is best done in an all male-crowd. Since many of you feel that sense of self-conscious and anxiety around females. Use the skills you learned from the first step and establish yourself amongst a crowd. This is probably the most important step of all, since it symbolizes your transition from a soy to a chad. If you want the bitch, you need dominance and charisma over a crowd. Be the guy everyone flicks to in that crowd. Do this by analyzing what behaviors attract the most amount of people, male or female. Gain a following.

And the third and final step is taking all of these past concepts and using them on a female. At this point you will have learned how to inflate your own value, as well as use it to garner attention. You’re ready for your final step; getting a bitch. I’ll only summarize here, since the rest of the subreddit should be more than enough to teach you. But when you’re at this point, you want to realize that, even if it all goes wrong and you don’t even get her number, you still have to walk out as if she is the one missing out, not you. This last step relies on all the attraction/rapport tactics you all know, so I’ll end it here.

In conclusion, it’s all about self-image. You need to stop telling yourself how bad you are, and start telling yourself how good you are. Also lift (not even remotely a requirement, but a suggestion) Thank you for listening!