First post: was just discovering red pill during this time frame .. it’s been a hell of a journey but would never go back to these blue pill habits

Summary: played a long game and failed, only to find out I got played

Details: Let’s take it back a few months — I met a hb/8 at a concert. We hit it off, smoked a joint, vibed out and went our separate ways. Got her number to stay in touch. A few weeks go by and I brought her out to a co ed intramural team I was playing with, she brought friends and my teammates like all of em so they ended up joining us. Mind you this is a league that involves copious amounts of weed and beer consumption and a flip cup game after so it’s more of a social thing. (Slowly) Initiated kino plenty of times and she warmed up and reciprocated. Probably spent way too much damn time waiting around and not escalating faster but w.e.... Ended up asking her to a trance show (via text) - she responds back ‘oh I have a long distance boyfriend but we can go as friends’. blue pill me says ‘ok cool nbd I’m just out of ltr myself blah blah blah woe is me’, however red pill me figures this trap out and runs and focuses on my other plates. I actually made a very poorly timed joke about a current event after and haven’t talked to her at all

Fast forward to today and I’m just swiping through tinder sluts and I see her. What a wholesome lady she is

Learnings and thoughts: I'm actually quite amused after seeing her profile. Bitches Aint shit but hoes n tricks. Sluts like this are the reason I don't want to get married. If anything I almost see this as a bullet dodged -- unless I'm overthinking the whole thing (which is a terrible blue pill habit of mine I need to break) and I can go back in and play a different hand (of cards)

Keep plating: even though I was just starting to learn about red pill during this time, I was working on another 2 plates and boy did that help me move on quicker

No one that hasn't given you anything is worth a bit of your energy, be it physical, mental, or emotional unless it's being reciprocated: I'm all for give before you take, but there comes a certain limit to what you can give before you're a beta blue pill doormat

Escalate quicker, do or fucking die - I should not have waited so damn long

Nobody gives a fuck about your past - big mistake telling her I'm fresh out of an LTR

Anything else I'm missing?

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