I often ruminate on violence, personally my craving to flirt with it, that's gone too long between consummations. Nonetheless I would like to expound a bit on the importance of a strong pimp hand.

When your pimp hand is strong you can tell a woman to shut up and she will shut up before thinking about it. Later when she gets surly for her compliance is when she gets the pimp hand. Later still when she see's the power of your pimp hand used on another she realizes it's useless to fight it, and bam! her universal rules for how she acts changes, because a strong pimp hand is like gravity, fighting it is typically a fools errand.

This process works much better on girls with strong fathers, for obvious reasons.

In all the arguments between the internets about how men and women are the same, any reasonable side can agree that men have been endowed with the lions share of violence. We are just staggeringly stronger than women. Most women are super aware of this, for all sorts of pragmatic reasons in day to day life, however many women forget the connection with this and violence. Remind everyone, especially your woman that you have not forgotten your endowment.

I have on several occasions talked a friend into fighting me in the back yard. It's good fun, and teaches you a lot about yourself and your friend. I recommend it to everyone when ever I can. I like to talk about these experiences with women and I have some other things related that I'm looking forward to doing, but I need to find a partner. Without fail, I get the wiggly eyes from the women, men, oddly, seem less interested. Another time I nearly got in a street fight with some fucking bully and I came home hopped up and related the story to my ex-wife and she was nearly done up to go out to a meeting and she asked if I wanted a quickie. The right kind of violence = tingles.

I have been struck by a woman once in my life in highschool, my angry, stunned reaction alarmed everyone, from then on I hated her and made it known when ever she was in earshot. That was the time I resolved that should a woman strike me she's in for it. I have not been struck by a woman since. I believe this is because they I know I have not forgotten my place in the violence hierarchy, that is dangerously, possibly terminally higher than her. Sometimes people try and talk up some individual woman's fighting power and I always laugh and talk loudly about how I could probably kick her ass. I'm not scared of a 130lb dog either, why should I be scared of a woman.

What I have just outlined is where the frame of the pimp hand comes from. It is important that you remember that if should your woman enrage you enough you could just grab her and end her life, the law only punishes it doesn't protect. Then you tell her what is expected of her.

As I have outlined these anecdotes the same reserve is used for anyone should you be challenged. Remember the seat of political power is violence, violence no matter what anyone says is real power. Men still have it, we just have to a lot more covert about how it's used. This is the seat of my confidence.

In the 5 fights I've been in I've only won one, but I know how to take a blow and I know that I can fight on and that I will, because I have, I have never been crushed only beaten. I encourage you to come to some level of familiarity with violence and it's effects on your physiology and psychology. It's super important, I'm a big dude, but I've had to bounce dudes bigger than me, I was able to go up to that giant man because of the iron in my spine.

The next time you are ready to end the relationship because of a transgression, I offer an alternative, tell her you can break up or you can spank her viciously. Also I have already decided on certain things that will get a beating. In which case I will tell her she can get a spanking or she can call the police and I will beat her until they arrive. Sometimes the crime is worth the time.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AlvvCYUDHrQ (There's never a reason to beat a woman)

Caveat emptor. This kind of stuff does make you an asshole, but oddly people seem to love this about me.