Does the Red Pill represent any kind of ethics or is it unethical by its principles? Should you play by hypergamic rules and passively accept everything we've learned here for our own personal benefit? Lately I've found myself conflicted about hypergamy and how actually should I respond to it when I'm involved.

I've found myself becoming interested in a co-worker that obviously tries to monkeybranch onto me from her current partner. Putting aside the fact that you should not shit where you eat (I'm switching job soon anyway) this really puzzles me.

All the RP truths are becoming confirmed in this situation. The nice, polite hardworking guy living with her, calm personality, absolutely unassertive and conflict avoiding. He sits at home doing overtime for his job to earn more money so she can spend it round the city while he's at home. Like, for example, when she's meeting me. And then she would complain that her boyfriend works too much and won't pay her attention (disregard paying beta bux) while signaling that she is open to cheat/switch while getting touchy and flirty with me.

Even female co-workers can see that and openly encourage me to take part in her monkeybranching rather than shaming her for hypergamy. AWALT.

Last weekend when we met she was pretty much DTF but I just keep dodging escalation beside subtle kino and flirt. I'm putting her in my own friendzone so far, because I'm thorn between finding her fun and attractive and being repulsed by her behavior.

First. Because few years ago, before I was Red Pill, same thing happened to me. I've been used and cheated on, and now I'm basically repeating the cycle from the other side.

Second, It seems that I'm still in anger phase and the fact that she displays her lack of respect for current partner makes her look low and unworthy, despite I know that all women are like that.

I tried to justify it, I thought about doing some hump and dump and then informing her boyfriend. Or basically teaching the guy a lesson by letting his gf crush him, like mine once crushed me, as a wake up call that might serve him good.

I'm not sure if I'm just still blue pill coward giving myself excuses or trying to play by the rules which I benefit none from (maybe beside self-respect).

We constantly hear that women don't give a shit about ethics, they often go for thugs and the fact that such people don't play by the rules and have no respect for others makes them look alpha in female's eyes. Is this what we strive for?

Let situation above be example of problems that might appear during RP journey. I think I will tip my fedora on that. Unless she openly breaks up and moves out from her current place, there won't be any action from my side.

No matter if you are dealing with beta cucks or not, men should always have more respect for each other, than for the women, and act on it. I think we should play by the men's rules, not the women's ones. Maybe keeping you ethics fedora may make you less desirable for some females but it provides a strong moral spine which actually might serve as a boost to confidence in your own choices and values. At least, that's my conclusion for that.