The red pill doesn't always work.

Auvergnat · 2016-12-04T11:24:42+00:00

Fuck that was painful to read.

OK here's the thing: you don't understand red pill theory. You say red pill doesn't "work" when in fact, you failed to realize you weren't applying proper red pill theory because you don't get it completely.

Acting alpha is what makes girls sexually attracted to you. It doesn't make them acting nice, it doesn't make them wanting a relationship with you, it doesn't make them stop trying to grab power out of you.

From your report, you've been acting very alpha and you've got a girl very sexually attracted to you. To me, this spells as "the red pill works". You put alpha coins in and you received sex as a result.

Now you need to understand that alpha is not the totality of what the red pill is about. If you want a relationship, you need to throw in some emotional support, some personal investment, some relinquishing of your power. That's some beta traits.

From your report, I gather that you've been acting anti-beta:

I frequently heard statements such as "I bet now you are gonna go around fucking tons of other chicks and you are going to leave me". I would never fully entertain these discussion and i just laughed and played it off as if she was being a child.

That was a comfort test and if that girl was anything but a one-night-stand, it means you blew it.

She started doing everything in her power to make my ed come back, infrequent sex, wearing condoms, constant excuses. She figured if she could get it to come back shed be safe again. [...] she would find ways to to try and keep me from continuing these positive habits, like staying at my house during gym hours and bitching if i wanted to go to the gym ...

Yes that is classical behaviour of a woman under intense dread. Exactly as the red pill theory predicts. That's when you need to give off some beta traits if you want your woman to stay with you.

... which was met with me telling her that she was going to stay at my house and i was gonna go to the gym and when i got back if she wasnt there it was over and she was free to leave. perfect rp right?

No. That's not perfect RP, however that's perfect dread application. Perfect RP would be to know when to dread and when to ease it off.

Wrong, she couldnt handle not having the power or control, it drove her mad, fights started, verbal and physical abuse became a regular thing, and any calm attempt at controlling it with rp tactics was met with furious insanity almost as if she had a built in power switch detector.

And here OP and dear readers, is what happened when you lay so much alpha that your girl is very sexually attracted to you, but lay so little beta that her anxiety levels reach insane heights. OP, YOU made your girl crazy by failing to apply proper red pill theory.

We went out one night with the girl and another girl who was also afriend of mine since I was in pre k drunkingly came and sat on my lap. My gf blew a huge fit but i ignored her because i knew that she had slept with other guys during a break we had so i wasnt about to be rude to a girl i really cared for to save her feelings that she didnt deserve to have saved.

aaaaand you add some more nuclear dread ontop of it.

Dread is usually good, but if your gf is insecure about herself then most dread will send her into pyscoland.

There you almost get it. Dread is good if your woman doesn't respect you or is not sexually attracted to you. If you apply dread to a girl who is already dying with anxiety that you might leave her, then this sends her into psycoland.

Dread works on girls that appreciate your value, it will send pyscos over the edge though.

Women are prone to crazy yes, but your stupid actions are what sent her over the edge. You basically had a fire starting and you threw oil on it in attempt to drown it. And when the fire went wild, you failed to see it as the direct result of your actions but rationalized as "Well that's what fires do. Get wild. Maybe I should pour more oil on it.."

Whenever she really acted out I would ghost her and focus on myself. Sounds normal right?

No. You ghost her and focus on yourself only when a woman doesn't respect you and doesn't want to sleep with you.

TLDR: If you want relationships, you're absolutely going to need to recognize comfort tests or you're going to see a lot of girls acting crazy in your life. Again, the red pill is not only "act alpha". It is "act alpha to get sex, and act beta to get relationships". If you just want one-night-stands or spining plates non-exlusively, then by all means, just "act alpha" and enjoy the pussy carousel. But if you're trying for a relationship, this is a recipe for disaster.

privacythrowaway2003 · 2016-12-04T10:40:43+00:00

met with me telling her that she was going to stay at my house and i was gonna go to the gym and when i got back if she wasnt there it was over and she was free to leave. perfect rp right?

Throwing down ultimatums if she isn't there when you get back from the gym is a little overboard.

The rest, sounds like the relationship is just over. You are changing, she doesn't like it, you realize it, and you're both kind of angry at each other.

Just let her go, and text that chick that sat on your lap, that you drank a pint of pineapple juice and she should come over.

MattyAnon · 2016-12-04T14:30:18+00:00

You shouldn't have dated crazy. It's not our fault you didn't trade up for something sane.

[deleted] · 2016-12-04T12:46:21+00:00

You started improving. The shit tests intensified from dread. You didn't know how to handle it & be witty or apply amused mastery which could've dispelled it. You were doing it right but didn't know you were. Got to a new level you haven't seen yet & lost. From it being new terrain. Read up, keep both eyes open & try again

ecosci · 2016-12-06T22:42:31+00:00

You have to be a selfish asshole 90pct of the time its what make the tingles gush out she goes into her natural role to meet her man needs which causes her to feel feminine and sexy this part of redpill always works because its science.

Entropy-7 · 2016-12-04T15:08:07+00:00

Of course TRP doesn't always work. For one, it aims at the centre of mass of what women are like and tries to deal with it. That - if completely mastered - won't get you more than 80% results.

The second thing to understand is that your peculiar circumstances and mental states really fuck with the equations.

If you have intelligence and looks but are all fucked up right now, then what you have to do is withdraw, reorganize and then do it right.

YOUR mental health is far more important that the flak you will draw from the girl you lost your cherry to if and when you tell her you need your own time to figure things out.

If you have a recognized disorder, then seek professional help. . .

When I was at my wits' end I did it and the fuck of it is that it was two women - a psychiatrist and a therapist - who really came though for me. . .so don't be a "phaser" if you can help it.

Deal with the immediate threats to you life, but deal with this anxiety and get out and see how beautiful this shitty world can be.

At this point, I will cut it short:

Get some profession help about your own issues and most of the bitches will get in line.

TRUE: Bitches be crazy! It's on a sliding scale and you have to examine your own tolerance for risk and crazy (in a relationship). Just to say, those were low in my 20s, high in my 30s and decreasingly low since then.

BluepillProfessor · 2016-12-04T16:23:02+00:00

I wrote an entire 350 page book with 250 footnotes and recorded 20 podcasts about this topic:

Saving a Low Sex Marriage: A Man's Guide To Dread, Seduction, and the Long Game.

It is amazing that you were able to get rid of a psycho bitch and get multiple girlfriends, and spin plates but...Red Pill doesn't work. What?

The title notwithstanding, nobody ever said Red Pill would "Save" your marriage. My book is about strategies for doing that, but Red Pill makes no promises except that your sex life will dramatically improve. It will, but nobody can claim that wet pussy will always belong to your current wife or girlfriend.

Also, Dread is effective for a low sex, low desire, disrespectful woman. Dread is NOT effective to calm the crazy. If you are getting sex you should NOT be using hard Dread. If a woman is giving you sex, and you are continuing on the path of hard/active Dread then- ESPECIALLY IF YOU FAIL TO PROVIDE COMFORT WHEN NEEDED- is likely to make her give up.

It is certainly NOT going to make her easier to live with or more pleasant. Dread activates the secret pussy drenching trigger that women don't want you to know about. Dread does not calm shit tests or shitty behavior.

Take the Red Pill bro. I think it is catching in your throat and you have only managed to swallow about half of the pill.

Title	The red pill doesn't always work.
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Date	December 4, 2016 10:29 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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