Simply put, we just aren't going to be happy with the same women. As we know, the women that alphas are happy with tend to toy with betas in a way that ultimately isn't healthy for either of them. They don't belong in a relationship together. Similarly, an alpha would quickly get bored with the women that are best suited to beta men, thus leading to a relationship that is also unhealthy. There is nothing wrong with people of either gender being alpha or beta. Life truly takes people of all types and for every man out there, an ideal woman awaits. The problems arise when people lack self awareness, don't know who they are as a person, and consequently go barking up the wrong tree. Spend some alone time on a daily or at least weekly basis reflecting and considering who you truly are. Put your phone on silent, turn off the TV, go sit on the porch, and bring your mind into the present moment in order to focus your mental effort on the internal work that must be done to realize your full potential. Gradually building self awareness will eventually allow you to point yourself in the right direction and pick out the women you might be happy with. In addition, being able to bring your mind in the present means that when you do find that wonderful woman you will be able to be in the moment with her and the right things to say will simply come to you. Best of luck to whomever you may be, alpha or beta.