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This redditor is forced into chastity, shamed, threatened, and emotionally abused by his wife. What does he do? Accepts his shitty fate.

ray1991
September 1, 2013
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Title This redditor is forced into chastity, shamed, threatened, and emotionally abused by his wife. What does he do? Accepts his shitty fate.
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ray1991
Upvotes 50
Comments 19
Date September 1, 2013 8:08 PM UTC
(12 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1lj80d/this_redditor_is_forced_into_chastity_shamed/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/this-redditor-is-forced-into-chastity-shamed.233203
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Comments

[–][deleted] 27 points28 points29 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Take her to Africa, leave her there.

That comment made my day

[–]brotential22 points23 points24 points 12 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Anyone else notice that the only time in 5 years that he got some was when he actually showed he might have a pair?

Married ten years and celibate for five of those, except for one occasion three years ago when I moved out, came back for the pets, and was rewarded with it once.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan13 points14 points15 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

And she used it tactically to lure him back, dread game. Damn. He's a loser. I pity and laugh at the same time, it's a fucked up mixture. Part of me thinks "if i was that guy" the other part thinks "I'm glad I'm not as retarded as this guy"

[–]brotential7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

My thoughts are "holy shit that could so have been me if it weren't for game/trp/manosphere". I wish I were better at communicating red pill wisdom to male friends/acquaintances, but like the movie says most people aren't ready for it.

[–]puck_mar1n5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Marriage is a deck that is stacked against men from the beginning. I really just don't understand how any man could agree to marriage without an ironclad pre-nup that protects him.

As for this poor son of a bitch, unless there were extenuating circumstances (i.e. severe medical issues) why would you go one month celibate, much less 5 years? Anything over 2 weeks (again, excluding serious medical issues) would be a huge red flag to me that there were issues in the relationship.

[–]brotential5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Marriage is a deck that is stacked against men from the beginning. I really just don't understand how any man could agree to marriage without an ironclad pre-nup that protects him.

Yeah even pre-nups these days aren't the deterrent they used to be if manosphere anecdotes are to be believed. Luckily we have game :-)

As for this poor son of a bitch, unless there were extenuating circumstances (i.e. severe medical issues) why would you go one month celibate, much less 5 years? Anything over 2 weeks (again, excluding serious medical issues) would be a huge red flag to me that there were issues in the relationship.

Mah nigga. I tell my GFs straight up that if they don't put out, expect me to fuck other girls. They always feign outrage but somehow it doesn't put them off me. Some of my friends express surprise/faux indignation at my "unenlightened attitude" or whatever. Poor saps. It makes me sad that the past few generations of men have been conditioned to reject the truth that if she isn't on your dick frequently, your relationship is platonic at best and parasitic at worst.

[–]puck_mar1n5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I tell my GFs straight up that if they don't put out, expect me to fuck other girls.

I have a three date rule. If we haven't had sex by the end of the third date, there won't be a fourth date. It's a dead giveaway that we won't be compatible and the few times that I've ignored the rule only serve to remind me of why I have that rule in the first place.

If we're in a relationship I expect (yes, expect) sex on a regular basis. I'm not talking every night but a few times a week at least. If it's less than that, then it's a HUGE red flag that something is off kilter in the relationship and it either needs to be fixed asap or it's time to abandon ship.

[–]TRP VanguardVZPurp6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If we're in a relationship I expect (yes, expect) sex on a regular basis.

It is not a relationship otherwise.

Then again, parasitism can be considered a relationship.

[–]Amuro_Rey1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's the "Absence makes the heart grow fonder" rule in action!

[–]houseQM 13 points14 points15 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Stories like this are what make my blood boil about marriage. With the way hey are structured it feels like a losing battle for men.

[–]santaincarnate6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A game we don't have to play, and which anyone with ears to listen has been warned about for a few decades now.

The fact innocent men with no interest in the marriage nonsense have to pay for her legal fees is more offensive.

[–]rugbytitsandmedicine13 points14 points15 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Ok. That's it Op you won this sub, time to retire the word beta, we'll have to use something else

[–]replyaccount-3 points-2 points-1 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Omega is what guys like this should technically be called. Being a beta isn't actually a bad thing at all.

[–]Lord_NShYH5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Up next: he gets cuckolded, and his cock is put under lock and key.

In the finale to the trilogy, he become a full-blown sissy, and can't imagine life without eating the bull's cream-pie out of his wife's pussy.

[–]Endevour 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Wait, hang on.. Hold the fucking phone here!

Why does he have to pay alimony if there's no kids? Am I missing a huge part of US divorce laws?

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Alimony is child support, especially in this case

[–]yoy216 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

He's not necessarily accepting his fate. He's just trying to minimize the pain he'll go through

He explains where his town has free family lawyers for women and how men often foot the alimony upon divorce.

It's a lose lose.

Should still divorce her though

[–]gmflag9 points10 points11 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You can also say he is hamsterbating about it. Like we have learned in many examples before us, society failed the massive shit test of Feminism. We are paying the price for it now.

[–]Immuchtooawesome2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Coping through a marriage, or any relationship for that matter, is a fucked way to live.

I sure hope he grows a pair.

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