the red pill has been a life changer. but there are several parts of the red pill that are difficult to swallow; and until you internalize these lessons you would not have truly swallowed the red pill.

for me, the most important yet difficult lessons of the red pill are these:

  1. women are incapable of love.

the biology of women makes them become hypergamous beings, always looking for better and more alpha mates. they look at men as job oportunities and would not hesitate to switch up. women cannot love the way men love. they are incapable of being loyal. AWALT. every women would do the same if they are in the same position. this lesson has been an eye opener, but is extremely difficult to accept. by accepting this to be true we are openly admitting that the way we see the world is delusional and that we have been lied to our entire lives. but it is true.

  1. get rid of oneitis, and develop abundance mentality.

the reason why this lesson is so important is not because i am promoting harem, or promiscuous activity, but rather we will not be able to love a woman without abundance mentality. when we develop oneitis, we become betas and theres nothing women hate more than a beta. the reason why this lesson is difficult is because we sometimes do meet a girl that we do care about. we would naturally want to only be with her. but doing so would cause the opposite of our intended results. not to mention developing oneitus would cause us to.ignore all her faults and only see her good. only by comparing your oneitis with other girls would you be able to objectively see her for who she is. so, always believe that the grass is greener on the other side and maintain your aloofness because it is neccessary. it is difficult and can break your heart a litle everytime, but youll get used to it. always remeber awalt. there are no unicorns and there are no snowflakes. even the girls in redpillwomen are still awalt. they might be less difficult to handle will give less shit tests, but still, awalt. just go over there and read between the lines. know that no women in the world can love the way that you can love and get rid of your oneitis.

  1. just have fun

stop trying to get in every women pants and have fun! actually enjoy pua instead of of doing pua. tease the women you meet, interact with them the way you would with a child. let go. just do it. know that life is meaningless and well, i hate the phrase but YOLO. dobt take anything too seriously. especially women. theyre all idiots. they cant even make sense in the same sentence. :P their hamstering runs their entire mind. have fun in life. if you failed to cold approach, forget about it, appraoch again someone else. know that failure means nothing. do it for the experience. and overall time youll enjot yourself. only then would you be successful.