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Crazy Bitch by Buckcherry.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 04:58 AM
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Sam Keen's Fire in the Belly: on being a man delves into this topic. It's a great book and worth a read.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/15 01:46 AM
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Yeah, never let 'em see you sweat. Convey she was merely one of many options competing for his time. Communicate he had a great time anyway.
/r/askTRP14/11/15 05:42 PM
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Act like nothing happened because you have abundance mentality. Her flaking doesn't phase you. You're qualifying her, you're the prize, and she needs to prove herself worthy of your time. If she does text you take your time responding because you're out having a good time living the kind of life she wants to be part of. Her flaking is just another test.
/r/askTRP14/11/15 04:01 PM
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My cousin pointed me in that direction. The veil is lifted and life is good.
/r/askTRP07/11/15 08:31 PM
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The PC muscle. Get to exercising it.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 07:49 PM
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I broke my phone addiction by buying out my contract. $100 a month? And for what? I realized I could live without being constantly connected and it is a great feeling.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 12:11 PM
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It is possible to tell sometimes. For one, trust your gut. Is there something telling you to suspect her actions? And two, when they start the accusations of you doing the thing they did, it's usually a sign.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 12:05 PM
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Surprising the guy never had to endure one of her pregnancy "scares".
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 12:33 PM
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"So many men are only interested in casual sex with a 61 year old women. Only a woman could believe this." I can only see men in their late 70s or 80s interested in sex with a 61 year old woman. If even then.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 11:20 PM
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Now that you have TRP knowledge it's kinda scary thinking manipulative, emotionally messed up women are raising children.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 04:58 AM
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Dread game? Your stock is rising and she knows it. Some dread might get her to change her tune. If this doesn't work it might be time to part ways. It's no fun going through the motions. Best of luck as she sounds like a great person.
/r/askTRP25/10/15 03:03 AM
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Her "Oh, would be nice if you got the 2015" You "Nah, the extra $6k I saved finances my player lifestyle." Don't take her tests seriously. Agree and amplify. Be cocky and funny.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 12:37 AM
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Comfort zone: all growth occurs outside of it. You have to put yourself in uncomfortable situations. More situations, more opportunities to grow and work on the social skills. I'd rather be at home playing my guitar or writing/recording my latest masterpiece than go out amongst the idiots. I hate the bar scene but I do realize there are other places to congregate. I need to force myself to do more outside activities and meet more people.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 12:34 AM
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If you aren't comfortable in your own skin how can you expect a girl to be at ease in your presence? Being comfortable in your own skin is a prerequisite to self-confidence.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 12:19 AM
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"Fulfilling a desire brings pleasure." But extinguishing desire leads to true happiness if you want to get Eastern philosophical about it. I get your drift though.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 12:18 AM
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"Nowadays, women not only have the option of minimal cost divorce, the status quo practically encourages it!" And the courts treat them like helpless innocents who could do no wrong, and simply can't fend for themselves. Poor things! I enjoy old B&W TV from before the feminist era primarily for the representation of men being men and being unapologetically masculine, and observing how women interacted with those men. Each knew their role and place and happily accepted it. It was the natural cour…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 12:15 AM
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I don't pity the ones who have their emotional act together. I've known a few who were pretty cool and had a handle on their Emotional Chaos Syndrome, but they are a needle in a haystack. I have no sympathy for those who manipulate with their emotions. It's like Karmic payback when they feel as though their lives are falling apart. So much of the problems we all face are self-created in one way or another. Some events are out of our control while others are not. "Women are much happier and bette…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 12:05 AM
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Pre-nups are usually only thrown out when it benefits the woman.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 05:36 PM
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You're right and basically said the same thing I said. I'm saying those dominant characteristics override the others. For men L&R usually overrides F&E; for women it's usually the opposite. I'm not saying or implying the non-dominant characteristics aren't present. Most of the time Men's decisions are based on L&R, while most of the time Women's decisions are based on F&E...and that is when they actually make a decision. Usually they get to subtle-hint their way through life and wait to be lead …
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 05:23 PM
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"Rules and standards do not apply equally to every person, but are applied selectively according to how that rule makes the woman feel in a particular situation. Men have Logic and Reason; Women have Feelings and Emotions.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 11:33 AM
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Not having cable I pull in what channels I can with an antenna. Although I don't watch much TV I find the old black & white pre-feminist television shows a great study to contrast gender roles between then and now. Men were unapologetically masculine and their leadership was not questioned by the women. If they did "act up" the men would very quickly put them back in their place...and they were happy to know a man was in charge.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 12:26 PM
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You can do quite a bit at home. Ever hear of P90X? Body Beast? Get yourself a workout tower (one of those pieces of equipment allowing pullups, dips, ab leg lifts), some dumbells, and some pushup stands. If time is your excuse, how much time to you spend watching TV? How much time do you spend playing video games? Etc., etc. If you want it bad enough you'll manage your time differently.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 05:51 PM
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Yeah, you have to either start at a young age, 13 for me, or really want to learn pretty badly. If you did want to learn guitar it is so easy now compared to when I started. Youtube makes it pretty easy. Yousician is another cool tool. Guitar Hero and Rock Band can give a guy a good start.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 04:18 AM
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Watched Premier Guitar's Rig Rundown on Lucero. Turns out I have the same amp Ben has. Already had the guitar which is an easy ID, but there was some confusion about exactly which amp he uses. The last time I saw them I thought he had a Blues Junior. Turns out I was right. Cool music to play along to. Cool band.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 03:13 AM
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Lucero is awesome. Great live band and they put on a hell of a show.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 03:03 AM
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Ohhhhhh yeah. Most songs I used to listen to had the subtext of the guy begging the girl to like him, and the guy asking for permission from the girl. Whiny as f*ck. And the ones all pro-woman, hear-me-roar, and I-hate-men I can't stand because underneath all the shouting they are still trying to find a masculine man to lead them. Funny how girls all really enjoy Crazy Bitch by Buckcherry.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 03:01 AM
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Lift, lift, and lift some more. Sprinkle in some light dread game coupled with some new hobbies/activities you are passionate about. Good luck and congrats on finding TRP.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 01:08 AM
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In general I find most people's conversations to be surface-level every day BS that I have no interest in. Most guys will talk about sports, and almost all women will talk about trivial, and gossipy, and every day mundane BS. Most people aren't deep thinkers and don't like to think about the deep topics. The unexamined life. Such a pity.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/15 01:32 AM
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Strippers are in general seeking approval from men and most likely have unresolved daddy issues.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/15 12:04 AM
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One need only look at the crime rate among young Black males to realize how important a father is in helping his sons enter into adulthood.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/15 12:00 AM
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She means, "I don't sleep around...with guys like you." Would she make that statement to a Chad?
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 12:52 PM
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6'-6" here and I can tell you being tall does help...up to a point. If a tall guy has game he can clean up. If, on the other hand, a tall guy is also skinny and lacks self-confidence because of being skinny then the height really isn't an advantage. Source: my pre-RP life. If a woman is given a choice between a shorter guy with game and social skills or a tall, skinny guy with no game? The guy with game will win every time. He'll be the one approaching the girls and getting them to experience th…
/r/askTRP16/10/15 01:11 AM
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If you want a visual on what to do just watch some lesbian porn.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 01:03 AM
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You have to force yourself to get in the habit. My problem is I have to fake interest in the day-to-day mundane BS that fills most peoples conversations. Talking about deep life topics on the other hand? Oh yeah.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 05:11 PM
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I know the angle you're trying to go for but I say: Only have her as a friend when you can get something out of her. It's what they do to guys they don't want to fuck. Put conditions on every time she wants to spend time with you. Make her bring you something from an out of the way restaurant or pick something special up from a store way on the other side of town. Just use her for everything you can get from her.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 03:53 AM
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Her "self-respect" wouldn't be an issue if she had the opportunity for a present-day clandestine rendezvous with Chad.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 03:35 AM
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I'm a little over a year into TRP and it's like I can see the script played out day to day in real time and know exactly what is going to happen. I'm glad I was turned onto TRP but I wish it had happened many years ago.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 03:33 AM
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No doubt if this woman had a chance encounter with a Chad in the present day she wouldn't hesitate to do those kinky things of her youth...and then some.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 03:28 AM
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"...women are wired to exploit sympathy." If you've ever been used/played/taken advantage of sometimes it takes more than once before you grow "cold" so to speak. I got used and screwed over one time too many and I vowed it would never happen again. I go into every situation with a woman expecting them to try to play me for their benefit, kind of expecting the worst and realizing it's a very real possibility. Until she proves otherwise she's just another potential user trying to earn my temporar…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 11:44 PM
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I've been going to a salon for almost ten years now. The girl gets to know me and knows exactly how to cut my hair every time. It is definitely worth the price versus one of those national chain places. While standing in line I can almost always pick out the Supercut on most guys.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 05:18 PM
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I'm of the opinion that the women who turn out right had strict fathers growing up and were instilled with morals. I work with a girl who is very polite, respectful, and a decent human being. No doubt her father was very strict with her. It's the only explanation I can come up with. Needle in a haystack.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 05:15 PM
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"...a few single moms my age or older who look amazing (fit and 5s to 7s)..." That's with clothes on.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 05:10 PM
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Ha. I went on POF just for the hell of it to see what was out there. One woman my age, 42, said how she'd love to find a guy her age. Good luck. She'd need it with the short hair, no hips, and entitled attitude feminism has instilled in her. Single women in this age group reek of desperation. I've been lifting and improving myself in all areas, and at 6'-6" I tend to turn the heads of women much younger than me. Why would I want to settle for a woman my age and all the baggage that comes with it…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 05:08 PM
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Girls are pretty hollow at just about any age. There's not a whole lot going on upstairs in most cases, and in general just about all they have is their looks. At your age group they are very immature. Don't think you can trust them. They will lie to your face, rationalize their behavior, and screw you over in a heartbeat. Just something to keep in mind while looking for a relationship and while in one. Honestly at your age they are just out to have fun. Don't take them seriously and don't let t…
/r/askTRP11/10/15 10:43 PM
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If you haven't already, check out the Red Pill on Reddit. Read the sidebar material. You're lucky to be discovering TRP at your age. Abundance mentality means you have lots of options and won't be heartbroken if the one you want doesn't work out. Even if it isn't true: fake it 'til you make it. Be confident but not arrogant. Always know your worth. You're young and will learn that often doing the opposite of what makes sense with the ladies actually works. Why does the badboy jerk who treats wom…
/r/askTRP11/10/15 10:29 PM
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Act like you don't want a relationship. Live an awesome life that she wants to be part of. Don't be needy. Make her want a relationship. Make her pursue you. Show her you have options, show her you're an awesome guy and if she plays her cards rights she can be with you. Have abundance mentality. And never forget: YOU are the prize she is trying to win.
/r/askTRP11/10/15 10:03 PM
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I was fooling around with an overweight married woman who wanted to take a shower with me after some morning sex. I had recently slipped in the shower and dislocated my finger and used that as my excuse not to. I just didn't want to look at her naked body in the light of day. Not going there.
/r/askTRP10/10/15 07:49 PM
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Funny about the getting good with practice thing. A girlfriend later after the free-spirit girl was absolutely no good at sucking cock. I'd go down on her every time but she wouldn't return the favor. When she did she was terrible at it and acted as though it was a chore and an obligation. WTF? I don't even remember if she told me her number. I fooled around with a little bit overweight married girl and boy could she suck a cock. AWALT confirmed: no loyalty and they will drop to their knees when…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 07:28 PM
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She's only crying because her meal ticket/retirement plan is leaving.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 06:04 PM
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Five that she admits to. She won't mention the time she was the main attraction of a gangbang back in college. No doubt the ten guys there who practiced bukakke on her only count as one of her partners.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 05:57 PM
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Ten years ago I worked with a free-spirit kind of girl. This was back in my clueless BP days mind you. She had a long-distance boyfriend back home and was trying to give it an honest go. We started out as friends but inevitably moved on the FWB stage. At one point she told me her number which was 17. She had a kid at age 17 as well, the father died very soon after becoming a father. and she at one point tried being a stripper. I had no idea about the Rule of Three back then. Looking back at my t…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 05:55 PM
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The thing that struck me the most was Edward Norton's voiceover when he mentions "We're a generation of men raised by women."
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 04:59 PM
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I was the typical clueless beta blue pill growing up, what with a single mom and sister raising me after the divorce, and an absentee father adding to the mix. So of course I was raised with all the incorrect beliefs and behaviors, i.e. clueless nice guy. And add to that low self esteem from being skinny. So, let's review: Skinny guy with almost no self-confidence who also happened to be a nice guy? Yeah, not exactly what you'd call a ladies man. Hearing the You're-a-really-nice-guy-but-let's-ju…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 04:47 PM
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The correct mindset should always be YOU are the Prize and therefore her primary privilege is the opportunity to be part of your life. In her eyes you are the alpha she is always trying to win over. Don't forget to sprinkle some beta in at random times, kinda like a carrot on a stick she only occasionally gets to nibble on. You are the prize and you have options of which she is one. If she plays her cards right she can stay.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 04:21 PM
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"... but you don't want to accidentally marry one." Or intentionally
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 11:53 PM
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Two kids by I'm guessing two guys. Odds are she can't say for certain who the fathers are. I think a visit to the Maury Show is in order.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 11:41 PM
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It's great to be able to vote, it's just too bad both parties are bought and paid for.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 02:57 AM
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It's simple really: subtle hints are their way of not being held responsible for things they really want to do.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 11:58 PM
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No-fault divorce laws need to go at a minimum.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 12:41 PM
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Well, the first thing that needs to change is getting rid of no-fault divorce laws.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 05:25 PM
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Standard badboy jerk-type ahole behavior. No wonder they do so well with women.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 12:21 PM
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It's almost as though she has memory capacity for one day at a time. When the next morning comes the man has to start from scratch all over again. Doesn't matter what he's done for her in the past, she is operating from what can you do for me now?
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 12:18 PM
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Just an aside, have you ever read this: http://www.rense.com/general32/americ.htm Amazing to think how far along it has come and how it ties in to destroying traditional morality and American values. There is no support group trying to keep people married, no promotion of family, or whatever there is gets drowned out by all the lefty Hollywood entertainment crowd pushing their BS. My parents divorced when I was seven and it did have an effect on me. I can see what harm feminism has done to Socie…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 02:08 AM
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Women are needy, require constant supervision and guidance, always test your authority, and can not keep in mind anything you've done for them. Every day you wake up you start from scratch and must prove yourself worthy. They have no loyalty to you and will leave at the drop of a hat if a better offer comes along. They will cheat when they are away if and when Chad gives them enough tingles. You certainly can't trust them in a way you can trust a male friend. They bring very little to the intell…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 01:53 AM
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As a Taurus, and I can confirm the strong libido aspect of that particular sign. It at times has felt like a curse but has finally simmered down with age. At 42 I find have very little desire for a regular relationship as women are just not worth the effort in most cases. What little you get in return pales in comparison with what you must endure. As the thinking around here goes: most responsible teenager and that behavior gets old fast.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 01:39 AM
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"Before marriage, a man has a life and a dream of a beautiful wife; after marriage he has a wife and a desire of a beautiful life." Anuj Somany
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 01:33 AM
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"...I don't fully grasp what goes on inside a young attractive girls head." Neither do they. There's not much going on upstairs with most of them. Step One: Keep up their appearance, try to snag a guy to take care of them, continue to act entitled and use men. Step Two: Repeat Step One.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/15 09:03 PM
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They sure enjoy the hell out of their looks when they're young and take full advantage of all the guys who are showering them will attention. I have no sympathy either. At 42 and 6'-6" I hit the gym and take care of myself. I'm developing a nice physique and have noticed a lot more attention from the ladies, young and old. The post-wall ones come off as so so so desperate. I went on a dating site a few months back just to check things out. One woman my age said how she'd love to find a guy her o…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/15 09:01 PM
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I think it's only natural as you age and the testosterone declines. And as you age so do the women...and we all know how women age. Add in their generally shitty and manipulative behavior to their looks and really, you have to question what use and value they could bring to your life. More trouble than they're worth? After a certain age almost always. Their looks are their greatest asset until they one day become their greatest liability. What I notice now is the stark difference of their painte…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/15 08:50 PM
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Sharkey's Machine has a great scene of Burt Reynolds holding frame when Rachel Ward succumbs to another case of the Emotional Chaos Syndrome. He shows emotion but never breaks frame. Her emotional storm passes and she is very soon drawn to him. Stand firm and hold your ground. Her storm will pass.
/r/askTRP03/10/15 07:17 PM
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I noticed a long time ago watching Wheel of Fortune how differently men and women would introduce themselves. Men would say, "Well I'm an engineer, architect, etc." Women would always say, "I'm a wife and mother..." Men define themselves by their occupations; women define themselves by their relationships.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 12:17 PM
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Proportionately curvy is nice.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 12:15 PM
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Ever notice how you don't give a shit around girls you don't want to fuck? Ever notice how the badboy, jerk-type asshole does extremely well with women? Stay aloof and don't communicate neediness. You have options and if she plays her cards right she can have the privilege of spending time with you. Feminism has succeeded in convincing too many men they have less value than they actually possess. Be masculine and unapologetic. Masculine attracts feminine...every time. You're the prize to be won …
/r/askTRP20/09/15 09:16 PM
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"When women get older, they lose their sex appeal...They're less attractive and" (let me finish this for you as this is most important to understand) they are needy, bitter, bitchy, entitled, have shitty attitudes and are generally unpleasant to be around. Throw their attitudes and personalities in the mix with the liabilities their looks have become and you have all you need to know about women that age. I'm 42 and shudder to think about dating women my age because of the aforementioned reasons…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 12:33 PM
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Gotta love pre-feminist movies and TV.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 10:30 PM
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A girl at work is a single mother. She and the father of her little boy had a blow out argument that ended the relationship. I asked her once how involved her ex was in her son's life. While he is in fact involved there still is no substitute for being a full-time father to your kids. Seeing them once on the weekends or maybe once during the week just ain't gonna cut it. The kid is 5 and I wonder what she is teaching him about life and how she must be instilling him with a lifetime of Beta belie…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 10:26 PM
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Melvin Udall when asked by a female fan how he writes women so well: "I think of a man and take away reason and accountability."
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 10:17 PM
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Why would any man marry given the following: two generations of feminism influencing a woman's thinking, the way men are represented in popular culture, and no-fault divorce laws?
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 12:33 PM
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http://weknowmemes.com/2014/03/a-mans-vs-a-womans-day-as-told-through-emoticons/
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 12:26 PM
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Is Gooey Retardo Mode what happens after you rang her bell so hard she started speaking in tongues?
/r/askTRP31/08/15 03:24 AM
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That's how she feels...right now at that moment. Give it 5 minutes and the teenage brain will get distracted by something shiny.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 03:16 AM
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Another one: "Remember when you were young and were told if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all?" Could be that since she's bringing it up about herself that she's taking the safe route with her subtle hints and is actually saying she thinks you're good looking.
/r/askTRP28/08/15 05:08 PM
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Slyly ask, "Are you just fishing for compliments...again?"
/r/askTRP28/08/15 01:55 AM
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Beauty is the bait on a future old woman's hook. It has an expiration date and it has a purpose in Nature, i.e. attracting a man so she can reproduce.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 12:48 PM
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Work you PC muscle. Gives you mad control and after a while you'll be able to fuck all night.
/r/askTRP13/08/15 12:33 AM
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I'd need a lot more than that to compensate for having to deal with the teenager tantrums. Seriously, I think at some point I'd want to throw in the towel knowing yet another episode of the Emotional Chaos Syndrome is right around the corner. And it never ends. But it sounds like you've got a decent thing going.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 12:37 PM
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Always the oldest teenager in the house and really more trouble than they're worth.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 06:07 PM
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The Political Establishment won't allow Trump to win the nomination. They own both horses in the race so it matters not which one of theirs is voted in. Trump has tapped into a nerve among a great portion of the country frustrated with the way things are right now. As the debates and political campaigns continue we'll see one of two things: Trump will go third party or he'll face media scandal after media scandal until he decides to throw in the towel. When it comes to presidential elections we …
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 05:33 PM
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When women cheat they are excused by the Sisterhood: "Aww. He wasn't meeting her emotional needs. It's not her fault. Poor thing. Any girl would do the same."
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 05:24 PM
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If you think mid-late 30s single woman is desperation, wait until you interact with them in their 40s. Classic behavior from her: think little girl throwing a tantrum because she didn't get a pony for her birthday. Hold frame, don't show her any weakness, and ignore. Avoid her when possible. I can bet you money she will come around again being all friendly. When I realize people are behaving a certain way just to get a reaction, I love denying them that reaction. Reverse psychology. When they wa…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 12:31 PM
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It's amazing how unbearable most movies are after discovering TRP.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 10:14 PM
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Oh yeah and for his political beliefs alone I'm glad he's getting screwed over. I believe he'll be in the same situation as Dave Foley and his divorce/support payments. Royally screwed. I feel sorry for Dave but I won't for Ben.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 05:29 PM
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I saw on ET recently how since Ben Afleck was married to Jennifer Garner for 10 years that LIFETIME spousal support may be granted. WTF? It was just some infobabe talking about the case but we are talking California so anything is possible. In addition to a prenup how about a bank account in a brother or sister's name? Take a small percentage of each check directly deposited.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 04:04 AM
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I tend to turn the heads of the girls in their early 20s. I'm thinking unresolved daddy issues for sure. Funny how jealous women your own age or in your age group get so jealous at the younger prettier things out there. They just can't stand it. Good deal on the no-TV thing. I have one but mainly use it for watching movies. I haven't had cable in maybe ten years...just can't justify the cost of paying that much money each month to stare. My time could be spent so much better doing something prod…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 02:41 AM
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Just an aside, I've made it a habit to glance at the toes peeking out of their shoes when women are all dolled up. Nothing like a gnarled set of toes to prevent a pedestal. It's like they look pretty fine and then you scan down to the toes. Yikes. It's just something I've noticed lately. Once you notice that, you see it everywhere.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 05:42 PM
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She'll likely be sporting that "baby weight" for the rest of her life. Hubby needs to hit the gym hard and sprinkle in some lite dread game to light a fire under her big butt.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 05:36 PM
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A long time ago scientists discovered a food that caused excessive weight gain in females. They named it Wedding Cake.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 12:25 PM
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I made the list. Badge of Honor.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 12:23 PM
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Those nice guys refusing to act are still living under the BP worldview and do not want to become what they hate. "I'm better than those jerks...that's not me...I treat women with respect...one day they'll come around." Unfortunately for the still-plugged in betas they fall for a post-wall ex-CC rider and think their luck has finally turned. I'd say it's mainly those nice guys are still plugged in, still clueless and haven't sought out any pickup material or things along those lines. They're sti…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 11:58 PM
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Well even if, and it's a big if, the looks are even okay for that age the entitled, demanding, bitter and bitchy attitude and shitty personality is still lurking underneath. Way too many ex-CC riders out there who still believe they deserve a quality guy but simply can't fathom reconciling that belief with the reality of the woman in the mirror. The women in my age group - I'm 42 - come off as very desperate for a guy their own age. They still hide behind the plausible deniability of their subtl…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 11:43 PM
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"About 50" I guess she lost count? So apply the Rule of Three and factor in she's had an STD.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 05:33 PM
1

I don't see Connor withstanding too many of Aldo's leg kicks. They will seriously throw off his fight plan. I still think the UFC moved him up too fast. He's good and in time he just very well may become the best. Maybe an Aldo loss will do more for him at this point in his fighting career. Who knows though? Connor may just land a punch that flattens Aldo in the first ten seconds of Round One.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 12:28 AM
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I saw a program called The Naked Ape by Desmond Morris. He goes into the waist-to-hip ratio as 70% waist to hips being the magical ratio that subconsciously sets off attraction signals in men.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 12:05 AM
1

Pre-feminist TV is actually worth watching. I've mentioned it several times here. The Rifleman, Rawhide, and Wanted Dead or Alive are great studies in male/female interactions where ea. gender knew their place. Men acted like men and women actually respected them for it. Watch theses shows as a study of male/female interaction. Masculinity wins the day.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 05:25 PM
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"...resumes not mentions a B.A. get tossed in the trash." That's just Educationist! I can't wait for the new strain of discrimination to be latched onto in lieu of accepting personal responsibility.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 05:55 PM
1

So, avoid the books with tattered covers that have been "read" quite a bit?
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 08:48 PM
1

Sam Keen's Fire in the Belly: on being a man is a good read.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 05:27 PM
9

Sometimes people don't want to hear the truth because they don't want their illusions destroyed. Friedrich Nietzsche
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 05:04 PM
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Most guys can't pick up on subtle hints, and women communicate to men in subtle hints expecting us to be mind readers. If they were blunt and direct and asked for exactly what they wanted it would save a lot of time and eliminate confusion.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 02:35 AM
1

I love the Socratic Method when pressing for the truth and revealing the lie.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 11:08 PM
2

"Women don't trust other women, because they know each others nasty tricks." Like Al Bundy once said, "Women understand women and they hate each other."
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 11:06 PM
1

I'm feeling the same thing. I value trust and honesty and expect that of anyone I let in my circle. Really letting the woman = teenager analogy sink in it becomes clear what you can and can't expect from them. Relationships = Too much effort for too little reward. More headaches and drama you would otherwise never have to deal with. You can go to great lengths for her but it is soon forgotten and she is back to testing you, back to making you prove yourself. And all the while her with one eye ou…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 10:57 PM
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What's funny is thinking back how women always say they need a guy (make that clueless blue pill guy) they can trust who will never lie to them. Honesty is so important for them to receive from a guy. It acts as a counterbalance to their rationalized fantasy world they live in. Calling them on their BS shakes the foundations. How many BP movies or TV shows do you see where the guy is always portrayed as the one who lied and broke her trust? How many of those same movies portray the guy as the on…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 01:18 PM
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"As long as someone else was leading her, she can avoid any and all accountability for her actions." She throws out cryptic, ambiguous subtle hints in the hopes that a man will latch on to one and lead her where she really wants to go. Pretty clever because she never really makes the decision and is therefore never responsible for what happens. Go hamster go.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 04:49 AM
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I only plug in my TV to watch movies. I haven't had cable in probably ten years. I recently got rid of my cell phone. Damn it feels good to unplug from technology. I hate the feeling of being connected at all times. How many times do you walk by someone at work and they have their phone in their hand, distracted checking emails or updating their status? How many smartphone zombies do you see out in public thoroughly enchanted by the hypnotic glow from their Electronic Attention Device?
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 05:33 PM
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And notice how demanding and entitled the post-waller is? And yet these women wonder where all the men are.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 11:47 AM
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Can confirm. I've been playing guitar for almost thirty years now. I have my own home studio and am always writing and recording my own tunes. Play them a little something you wrote. It has a cool effect. To most girls who have no hobbies, you come off as this amazing cool guy, almost supernatural in your abilities. By contrast you realize how little they are devoted to, how little passion they have for anything. Basically, the majority of the are simply coasting along on their looks and their c…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 11:03 AM
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The whole War on Terror is the biggest bunch of horseshit. Couldn't be any more transparent what is really going on. Clueless idiots comprising the majority of the public simply go along. Just give them their bread and circuses (football and Dancing with the Stars) and they're happy. “Once when he happened in some connection to mention the war against Eurasia, she startled him by saying casually that in her opinion the war was not happening. The rocket bombs which fell daily on London were proba…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 02:30 AM
2

Why devote so much time and energy on something that views you as nothing more than an accessory? Treat them like accessories. Nice to have around...at your convenience.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 05:27 PM
1

Yeah, I know. Any wonder why MGTOW is so popular?
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 02:33 AM
1

More like "I love the way you make me feel."
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 11:51 PM
1

The cryptic ambiguity of their subtle hints releases them from all liability of what happens next.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 11:47 PM
2

Can confirm. Parents divorced when I was seven. Absentee father. And while mom did play catch and try to fill the father role it was not the same. If you examine crime rates in different segments of society, where do you see a peak? Where boys do not have the influence of their fathers in their lives crime increases. A young boy needs his father to help him enter into adulthood. This is important on so many levels.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 11:43 PM
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Personality and attitude are pretty damn important and the reason most women in my age group aren't considered options. Already made introductions with The Wall and they're a shit personality? No thanks. Life's too short. Bitchy, entitled, needy, and ugh, desperate. There's also an undercurrent of noticeable resentment toward men their own age. If she's in this age group but is cool, genuinely nice, fun to be with, not demanding, and doesn't hate men? That's a good start.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 11:31 PM
1

Just wait because it gets worse after they hit the wall. They're practically insufferable in their 40s.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 11:18 PM
2

Ashamed to admit their true desires as in really wanting to fuck the girls who see them as nothing but a friend. That's what I meant.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 11:02 PM
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Nice guys are ashamed to admit their true desires and wait to get the go signal from the girl thus giving them permission. Nice guys don't understand body language cues and fail to grasp the cryptic and ambiguous subtle hints which women throw out there as a tool to absolve them of all responsibility of what happens next. Nice guys still believe the Disney lies they see in movies and TV. Nice guys are spineless and obsequious pleasers afraid to make girls mad. Nice guys give their attention away…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 05:41 PM
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Sounds like you have an almost ideal situation. Logistically that wouldn't work for me. I refuse to fly because of the TSA. I could go the bus route of course. I just bought a new car and don't want to rack up lots of miles. I suppose I could always rent a car. Anyway, I think I get what you're saying: baby steps, dip my toe in and test the waters of getting back out there.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 01:49 AM
2

So she must have panicked when the 30th birthday was approaching thus causing her behavior?
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 11:12 PM
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It's been about 18 months since my last gf. Funny enough I found this site after we split up. I'm in about the same boat you are. Took a break from women, and as if standing up on a hilltop overlooking the games people play, I see it for what it is. Every interaction with a woman is filtered through the RP lens. For me the downside of MGTOW was becoming accustomed to the peace and quiet and solitude of not having to deal with their teenage-ish behavior, self-created drama, and, of course, their …
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 11:07 PM
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"Your quest for a good man could last a lifetime" It's in their biology to not get wet panties from a guy with good qualities. Good men can be found every time she turns around. Problem is she is not attracted to them. No woman is.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 12:26 AM
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So if the father is a beta, why did you allow him to impregnate you? Is your son really his or is the father a ONS alpha badboy from your past? Are you admitting to the typical female script of cock carousel rider then quest for beta provider life story? Just curious to hear a woman's perspective on TRP. I was a child of divorce with an absentee father. Grew up with an older sister and raised by my mom. FOR THE LOVE OF GOD do NOT teach your son to be a supplicating spineless nice guy. You admitt…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 12:23 AM
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"It is the phrasing children and adults use when they are lying." How about this instead: it's the phrasing children and adult female children use when they are lying?
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 12:14 AM
1

I wouldn't say I'm angry at them. I've been here for about a year now. The anger phase passed pretty quickly for me. When I listen to the married guys at work describe the problems their women cause for them, or I listen to the typical females talking in a group running down their men, gossiping, or talking about the most trivial mundane crap I realize how much I enjoy the peace and quiet and solitude of the single life. I can't help the recurring thoughts that keep popping in my head: they're m…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 12:09 AM
1

"Weather their storms and you'll be fine." Even easier to not have to deal with their self-created storms in the first place. What little good you get from them isn't worth all the BS they put you through.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 09:57 PM
2

"I don't allow people that have an attitude in my restaurant." So what is Amy doing there?
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 09:52 PM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MkFS5csLihQ Just at 1:15 1:17 1:26 1:36 1:47 2:14
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 09:45 PM
2

You should tell her that same thing for expecting Valentine's Day.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 05:21 PM
1

If only I'd known of TRP way back when...
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 01:48 AM
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Twice a year: once on your birthday and once on your anniversary...isn't that how it always works for married people?
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 05:45 PM
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"If you think she is a snowflake, it’s because that’s what she wants you to believe. It serves her purpose" They all try so hard to put on the demure snowflake act in the beginning. It is really laughable.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 05:42 PM
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I've always been the observer type in a group setting. I just sit back and enjoy the conversation as it unfolds. If I can relate a story or am asked for my opinion I will give it. I find most conversations to be filled with wasted breath because the majority of people are scared of and can't stand uncomfortable silence. My natural tendency is toward introversion but as I've grown older I just don't care what people think of me.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 11:58 AM
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"Women are lazy" Yes but they also become lazy after they snag a guy. Watch the weight gain after they're married. Once they've decided they are leaving the guy they will start to get in shape to hopefully ensnare the next sucker. I see Miranda Lambert has gotten into great shape...Blake Shelton might want to watch out for what may be coming. Once they're out of a relationship they will work to get back in shape not only to make their exes jealous but also to hopefully snag the next sucker.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 09:38 PM
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I've been tired of the consumerist bullshit culture we live in for a long time. I admire the Indian ascetics of yore and their simplicity of life. Being a guitar player I've acquired lots of gear over the years. Recently I decided to raise some cash and sell off a good portion of it. While I did earn some cash I gained something even better: cleaning out the clutter and getting down to the bare necessities of what I need. Felt great to drop the anchor of those possessions. It really is true abou…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 09:20 PM
2

Blue Pills are taught to be Blue Pill through their upbringing and kept that way through constant role reinforcement in popular culture.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 05:40 PM
1

The quote is from the author's comment on The Dhammapada. This is definitely one of the books that did the most for me. That particular translation is a very easy read. He also translated the Upanishads which I also recommend. In college I took a philosophy class which was one of the best things I ever did for myself. I read tons of philosophy books and it eventually steered me to Eastern philosophy. I'd definitely recommend Schopenhauer as he seems to have an Eastern feel running through his li…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 05:04 PM
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They made mention of updating their privacy terms and that these new terms would take effect Jan. 1st, 2015. I didn't like them so I deleted my account. FB is such a timesuck. I kick myself thinking about how much time I wasted just scrolling and clicking. One of the girls at work constantly has her phone in her hand every time I pass by. No doubt she is either texting or checking her FB.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 04:51 PM
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"...if one succeeds in not giving in to selfish desires as they arise, the mind gradually quiets down, leaving a longer and longer interval between waves of desire in which the mind is calm. This calmness is our natural birthright, a state beyond the suffering entangled with desire." Eknath Easwaran The temporary high you feel after you acquire a desired possession quickly wears off and you are soon, yet again, seeking out the next object of desire to give you that high. It's a never ending cycl…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 04:10 PM
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What hobbies do you have? "Oh, you know, like staring in the mirror, picking up my phone every ten seconds, and seeking attention from men."
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 01:59 PM
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I have a hard time getting motivated to talk about the everyday, mundane BS that fills most people's conversations. Especially women's conversations. Just overhear them talk and it revolves around the stupidest, petty, childish, meaningless things. It's almost painful listening to them in a group setting. I seriously can't bring myself to have enough interest in it to make myself a good conversationalist. One PUA guy I discovered said to be successful with women means you must talk to them like …
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 01:45 PM
2

How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie. I've heard of it but have yet to read it. That one is on my list.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 11:53 PM
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"... the very epitome of nice guy...He recently got married. If things don't go well..." IF things don't go well? A nice guy? Who just got married? Does he understand what her past history is or is he under the delusion she is a special snowflake?
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 12:31 PM
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Meditations is a great read. And don't just limit yourself to Marcus. If you haven't already branch out into philosophy and even Eastern religious books. Expand your mind. For starters I'd recommend Schopenhauer's World as Will and Idea & Essays and Aphorisms. And also The Dhammapada (Eknath Easwaran translation).
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 12:28 PM
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Lots of traits in there to describe her. I'd say she's a mix of Munchausen and HPD. When the looks go they need to find a way of getting the attention they crave. This mostly explains her behavior.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 12:21 PM
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Can confirm. Lady at work, 58, is an attention whore. Almost Histrionic Personality Disorder or maybe just didn't get enough attention as a child. She constantly seeks attention, anything from sneezing so loud the whole building can hear to making comments on the slightest thing just to get a reaction. It's the worst when there are new men in the building. She goes out of her way to get some of their attention. The guys I work with are dumb enough to make comments on her behavior. Morons are jus…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 02:58 AM
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It's kind of stalled adolescence in a way, the peter pan syndrome. Refusing to fully embrace adulthood by escaping into a fantasy world where real life responsibilities temporarily do not matter. Imagine the pre-feminist ideal masculine man. Think of Chuck Connors, John Wayne, Steve McQueen for example. Can you imagine them using their valuable time playing video games? You've got to be kidding me. At some point, you simply must give them up. "How old are you? And you still play video games?" Lo…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 02:49 AM
1

Women don't think logically.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 12:16 PM
1

"The Midlife Crisis No Longer Exists" I don't know man. I still see plenty of middle-aged bald guys driving around in new Corvettes.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 12:51 PM
1

She thinks she wants to meet a nice guy. She thinks it makes sense to her to want a guy with nice qualities, but AWALT. She will quickly grow tired of Mr. Nice Guy's spineless supplicating ways and be off looking to rendezvous with Chad T. in no time flat.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 05:37 PM
1

Abundance mentality. Isn't it great?
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 05:34 PM
2

I had/still have to some extent the tall and thin problem. I had the metabolism fat people would kill for. Not so much anymore, although I eat better than back when I was younger. I do work out and do have some muscle mass but it is difficult to put any weight on. Eating right to gain can be pretty expensive, and figure in the cost of protein powders and other supplements that help you gain. Anyway, I still try and will not complain without doing anything about it. I know I am making gains and a…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 11:29 PM
1

I had been burned bad once and it was also the best thing that happened to me in this area. I decided it would never happen again. It's one of those blessing-in-disguise sort of things. I came out of the situation even stronger. Sucked at the time but I'm glad it happened. You know the old saying about that which does not kill me makes me stronger? Turn that self-hate into positive energy and use it to motivate yourself to become the best version of you possible. You can't change female nature..…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 05:40 PM
1

I met one once who mentioned a book to me: The Four Agreements by Don Ruiz. She also mentioned Eckhart Tolle. She was a free spirit kinda girl and had more philosophical interest/knowledge and understanding than the usual girl. Generally though, girls have difficulty thinking in those abstract philosophical themes. Not always, but mostly it just doesn't click. I suppose if you used examples involving makeup, shoes, cell phones and text messages they might be able to grasp the concepts.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 05:56 PM
1

Gnothi Seauton. That concept has been around a long time. Trust your gut.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 12:45 AM
2

The destination is not the reward, but the journey is. Who you become is worth more than the benefits of becoming that person who can easily pick up women, has solid game, has lifted and improved his physique, etc. Your focus is on your mission and women are just a nice side benefit...they are never the focus of your life. It's like being careful what you wish for, where you find out when you get what you wished for it really wasn't all that it was cracked up to be and that Anticipation really i…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 11:54 AM
1

It's a by-product of being passionate about something you enjoy. You pursue a hobby because you enjoy it and get something out of it. Your enthusiasm and passion for it is what women pick up on and that is the side benefit. If you pursue a hobby just to primarily attract women then you're not doing it for the right reasons. That's my point.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 05:12 PM
1

What girl ever thinks to herself, "That guy's awesome prowess at video games really gives me the tingles"? Now if your hobby was something like playing guitar in a band? Playing guitar one-on-one with them is a magic bullet. But if it's your hobby it's your hobby. Playing video games? Does it increase your SMV in the eyes of women? My only criticism is a hobby should at least increase your level of interest women feel for you. Dedicated to making the next level on a video game or dedicated to wr…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 06:05 PM
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"But Barry Betabitch is just as bad a captain." Barry Betabitch has no idea he's supposed to be a captain. He unfortunately bought into the feminist idea of equals.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 11:31 AM
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"...it only counts if I make a move first." Yep. They enjoy both the plausible deniability and the ambiguity of their subtle hints. If they dared to be blunt and direct and ask for exactly what they wanted, they fear they might come off as sluts and whores.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 11:22 AM
1

Reminds me of an old George Carlin bit where one housewife calls another to talk and the woman who was called says, "Not now Gladys. My stories are on."
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 02:16 AM
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Be a man: stop playing video games for starters. The time you spend playing games could be better spent lifting, pursuing a hobby, or improving yourself in other areas. Don't be like that awkwardly dressed guy in his late 30s in Best Buy looking for a new game to occupy his time. You've seen him...don't become him. To paraphrase Kahlil Gibran: Put away childish things and become a man. Use your time wisely.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 11:51 PM
2

Along these same lines of defining Woman, there is a great book by Sam Keen called Fire in the Belly: On Being a Man. It's a good read. http://www.amazon.com/Fire-Belly-Being-Sam-Keen/dp/0553351370/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1433709578&sr=8-1&keywords=Sam+Keen+Fire+in+the+belly
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 08:40 PM
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I imagine women in abusive relationships saying "Yeah he hits me and treats me like shit," and thinking but never admitting, "but it sure beats being with a dull nice guy who treats me well." Given the choice between an exciting bad boy who gives her the occasional smack on the jaw or an easy-going drama-free guy who treats her well she'll take the excitement of the bad boy who occasionally smacks her around.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 08:26 PM
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I remember hanging out at home with some friends late one night. As my roommates came back from the bar, they brought back some girls who traveled in our usual circles. As soon as the girls set foot in the house the drama started. It went from peace and quiet to needless, catty drama and BS in the blink of an eye.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 08:19 PM
7

On an episode of Family Guy Brian watches an episode of it and asks, "So it's a story about three hookers and their mom?"
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 08:14 PM
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Can confirm. Single mom with older sister and absentee father growing up. She raised me to be a clueless nice guy. "Be a gentleman, open doors for her. After all son, that's someone's daughter, or sister." Blah blah blah. All the wrong behaviors to be taught and the exact opposite of what creates attraction. I hope that cycle is broken for all boys one day.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 08:10 PM
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And after she tames him she will of course become disgusted and lose all respect for the now spineless sap.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 06:31 PM
2

Men process the world through Logic and Reason. Women process the world through Feelings and Emotions. When you observe women in a group listen for the F words: Feel, Felt, Feeling. "I lost 20 lbs. and I FEEL amazing." "I just FEEL so..." "It just makes me FEEL like..." "When you do that it just makes me FEEL so..." "When that happened I just FELT so..."
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 06:10 PM
3

What I can't stand is that hyphenated married last name bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 11:40 PM
2

More and more women are exactly like the wife in the passenger seat of the "wife lake tantrum" video. Look it up if you haven't seen it before.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 05:21 PM
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Years before I found TRP, I did visit AM. One of the profiles on the site perfectly described the married woman/beta husband scenario and her desire for a rendezvous with Chad T. and being pounded until she could only muster incoherent monosyllables. She mentioned that although she loved her husband dearly, she still desired a good Alpha pounding.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 05:16 PM
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"Women got everything they wanted, and now they're not happy with it, and it's their own damn fault....." They're never happy...with anything. And they'll never be able to comprehend being at fault for anything they do. The teenager analogy is so apt.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 05:11 PM
2

Without my cousin pointing me to this sub I never would have found it. I'd say selective and very careful awakening to those you know who would truly benefit from it. I passed TRP along to a friend I grew up with. Classic clueless BetaBux dealing with unbridled hypergamy. He has been through two divorces and has a six year old son. I figure this could very well break the cycle for him and his son. If nothing else I just hoped it would wake him up to never making the matrimonial mistake again sti…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 11:45 AM
1

"The less it fails to ruffle you, the more confident you look and the more she starts to look like a desperate, childish retard." Reverse psychology. As soon as you know they are seeking an emotional outburst response, remain calm and don't lose frame. Become cool in your subtle patronizing, and annoy them with it so they break frame. Make them give the kind of response they were hoping to get you to make.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 11:37 AM
1

I still think female guitar players are a novelty no matter how good they can play. Yeah she play great but can she make a good sandwich?
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 02:50 AM
2

It would be easy to get on stage and do an impression of every female comedienne there ever was. Just get up there and say, "Men suck."
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 02:49 AM
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No-fault divorces & two generations of feminism and what it has done to women's attitudes toward men for starters. Women are brought up to believe: men are the sole cause of all the problems in the world, men are idiots, men have no valuable opinion and know nothing. And popular culture reinforces this. The benefits simply aren't there and failure is almost a foregone conclusion given the available supply of entitled women. How many of you have watched friends or family members get absolutely sc…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 02:44 AM
8

The lean muscle Brad Pitt look in Fight Club is correct.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 10:29 PM
3

Buster Hymen sure gets around, doesn't he?
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 11:54 AM
2

Yep. Agree. If only the under-25s had the conversational skills and life interests of the over-50s.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 05:54 PM
1

At 6'-6" and 42 I do notice more attention from younger girls. It's most likely an unresolved daddy issue thing but whatever.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 05:51 PM
2

“Sometimes people don't want to hear the truth because they don't want their illusions destroyed.” Friedrich Nietzsche You need to internalize the sidebar material. Give it time...you'll get there.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 05:48 PM
1

Philosophy books and books on Eastern religions are highly recommended by me. I do have the book you mentioned and dogeared many pages with underlined passages. There is lots of life wisdom in that book. Look into Schopenhauer's World as Will and Idea as well as Essays and Aphorisms for starters.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 05:40 PM
2

I'm not happy (nor sad), but I am content. There is a difference. Happiness is all too fleeting. It does not last. Being content with who you are and what you have is much more satisfying.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 05:34 PM
5

"So imo, love is indeed possible, it's just that it is rare, and takes an extraordinary woman (and extraordinary effort to receive and maintain) to wield it in a rapidly decaying society." I added the parenthesis part as I feel it applies.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 11:13 PM
1

Well I don't know your history so I can't comment on your behavior as a teen. My comment relates to male-female interactions in relationships/dating, and is an attempt to understand the cause of female behavior in these areas. It's just a theory of mine and makes sense to me.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 11:56 AM
8

I'd say the biggest contributor to post-Wall women having a hard time finding a man is they are largely insufferable to be around. Needy, clingy, bitter, bitchy, ungrateful and demanding are just a few of their wonderful personality traits. Add that to their looks - and that damn short hair - and the single life is a much better alternative. I'll focus on my guitar and music as those are a better use of my time and the payoff is guaranteed.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 11:45 AM
2

What you can really do without is all the hassles, the self-created drama, the tests, and the childish behavior that come free with the sex. Read up on Nikola Tesla and what can happen when you focus your energies on non-female related endeavors. He was asexual and celibate and accomplished a great deal.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 11:36 AM
2

I forgot to add The Upanishads to the suggested reading. It delves into the fulfilling Desire and the seeking after Happiness problem as well. The following are from the Eknarath Eswaran translation: "The objective world is neither real nor unreal; it is appearance - specifically, an appearance of separateness from ourselves, an illusion that happiness comes from the world outside rather than from within." "There is no joy in the finite; there is joy only in the infinite - free, unbounded, full …
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 12:52 AM
4

Schopenahuer and Buddhism both address the happiness problem. I'd recommend The World as Will and Idea or Essays and Aphorisms from Schopenahuer. Lots of great wisdom about life in there. And for the Buddhist take on happiness I'd recommend The Dhammapada. Deep and profound insights. Philosophy will do wonders for lots of people.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 07:23 PM
1

Broach the subject by asking if he's ever watched the DNA drama on Maury, then mention in passing that his kid doesn't really look anything like him.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 09:46 PM
1

That is pretty interesting and something I hadn't thought about. I need to think about if I've ever known any girls also in similar situations. Maybe I'm too close to it to notice, but my sister is pretty chill. Has her head screwed on straight. I never see any drama from her or the typically annoying female behaviors. She and I shared the same absentee father so maybe your observation makes sense. Maybe by not getting, and therefore not craving, the father's attention at a young age forces them…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 09:23 PM
4

After being on here for close to a year now I think of the analogy of a teenager acting out because that teenager is really begging for discipline. Same thing for women and their childish behavior: they desire a calming display of masculinity, as in what a little girl sees when she is in the presence of her father. The Masculine provider/protector/authoritarian/disciplinarian. It seems that psychologically they desire for a return to simpler times when Daddy took care of everything and they were…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 12:32 AM
3

8 huh? Apply the Rule of Three. I wonder what she considered a short term relationship? And does each guy involved in the gangbangs count as one of her relationships? Just be glad she didn't leave you with the gift that keeps on giving.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 03:37 AM
9

My first time was with a free spirit kind of girl. Wild and fun, crazy and carefree. But also childish, irresponsible, untrustworthy, dishonest, and selfish as well. Lots of fun, crazy in the sack, gave amazing head, but under no circumstance is she to be trusted. EVER. You're taking a chance even with protection. Fun as a fling. Hit it and quit it. But more than anything with a free spirit kind of girl: DO NOT EAT THE BOXED LUNCH. She moved away and we kept in touch for a brief period. At the m…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 01:51 AM
3

"I'm not against LTR but it's something that evolves from meeting the girl -> plate her -> and if she can offer enough for me I'll consider an LTR." Exactly. Being the man IS the prize and what SHE is trying to win. Sounds like the OP is still putting women on pedestals as though they're something special, a prize to be won after great effort. They're not. They're more trouble than they're worth dressed up in a nice wrapper. Seriously OP, what do they have that is so appealing? Looks have an exp…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 11:36 AM
5

I was dating a girl who, on this very topic, inquisitively asked about the "every 15 or so seconds" how men think about sex. After a pause I said, "I'm sorry, did you say something?"
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 01:17 AM
24

Wish they'd do an overlay with a pre-feminism rate of divorce.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 01:13 AM
3

Funny how they all say a good man is hard to find, but yet they aren't attracted men with good qualities. Good men are all around, they just don't want anything to do with them because the men with good qualities don't give them the tingles. Most likely the good men are still plugged-in Blue Pills and are unaware of women's tests and unaware that masculine behavior attracts 'em and keeps 'em. It's an unfortunate vicious circle.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 01:11 AM
3

"Once you start working on yourself and notice that women show interest in you, you will also stop putting them on pedestals. Because from that moment, you are the fucking prize, not her!" It's easy to get to abundance mentality once you realize they're a WHOLE lot more trouble than they're worth. And the part about working on yourself more and putting yourself first does have a noticeable effect on attracting women. As I've worked to improve myself I do notice I attract more female attention. I…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 11:33 PM
9

Your married male friends will secretly, if not overtly, envy your freedom. Just smile when you see them changing dirty diapers and dealing with a predictably heavier wife. Smile when you see him being berated by the same predictably heavier wife. Enjoy that freedom and know that your friend's wife has him by the balls. Your married friends wives will of course try to shame you into "manning up" to marry one of their wonderful snowflakes they call friends. If you do agree to go out with their fr…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 11:57 PM
3

"They can put on a great front." With RP knowledge the Demure Snowflake Act is quite amusing now. They try so hard at the very beginning.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 06:00 PM
2

Yep. A friend of mine shacked up with a girl he knew from his past. She left her hubby for him - not sure if they were screwing at the time though. I don't think so - and things were good. They got married. And things were good...for a while. They had two girls. And things were good...for a while. I talked to him about a year ago. Things are not good. In his own words, "Daughters are good, wives are not." If I had to guess I'd say the wife is out having semi-regular visits with Chad T. while the…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 12:14 PM
4

"90% are literally just children that just kept getting larger and larger." Remember the song Girls Just Wanna Have Fun? They just wanna have fun. No responsibility, just fun. Let the man take care of the important things, the perpetual teenager just wants to have fun.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 11:57 AM
4

I know. If only she had followed through on one of her suicide "threats" he'd be so much better off right now.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 01:12 AM
2

I wonder if those traits surfaced when he was just dating her or he saw them and chose to ignore them? I don't think he mentioned in the interview. If he noticed them and proceeded on to marriage then it's on him. I know when we're first with someone new we tend to overlook little things, but major batshit crazy stuff? Hell no. Nip it in the bud or move on. Knowing your worth goes a long way toward what behavior you will tolerate. The older I've become the less I tolerate any disrespectful and s…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 09:40 PM
6

So maybe the best scenario if you were a celebrity and chose the get married/have kids path would be to buy some land for privacy, then build a modest house and live at a middle class level to safeguard what your future alimony and child support payments would be. "Well your honor, we chose to live as though I only earned $48k a year, so base my payments on that."
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 09:28 PM
1

"TL;DR: Respectfully educate women about RP principles so they can stop acting a fool...Don’t hesitate to discuss these issues with the women in your lives if you truly want to advance TRP. Some of us are pretty reasonable." Key word here being "some". Needle in a haystack that is unfortunately not worth the hassle of trying to find. Wishful thinking. Men have Logic and Reason, Women have Feelings and Emotions. For Men Logic and Reason override Feeling and Emotions. For Women Feelings and Emotio…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 06:37 PM
21

Damn. Just looked up his situation. Bitch of an ex-wife. Money-hungry cunt. Any celebrity even contemplating marriage should have some money stashed. Give some to a family member you can trust. Have them open an account and let it draw interest. Rock solid prenup. Screw that. Just don't even get married. Don't have kids. Gold-diggin' bitches.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 06:03 PM
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Yes, unfortunately so. I'm glad men are finally waking up to this reality and opting out of the unfair Marriage 2.0 contract. I always did like Dave from when I discovered him on The Kids in the Hall. That goes way back. I had no idea about his divorce rape and now I cheer him on. I really hope he gets out of this situation. I'd like to see him getting more work but I know the c*nt ex-wife will get the money.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 04:31 PM
3

"I don't need all those mind games, manipulation and henpecking." Yes. The self-created drama is what gets me. That and their inability to grasp the concept of synonyms. They just make things a whole lot more difficult than they really need to be. Replying to another thread I had the analogy of two buckets. One was filled with water and the other had but a few drops. The few drops represents all the good stuff you get by dealing with the full bucket of their shitty, childish, manipulative behavi…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 04:24 PM
2

"And honestly, I am at a point in my life where I am happy with how things with just me are. I know I am an awesome person, and I don't need to convince anyone to stay." This. Perfect mindset to have. "Okay honey. You don't like the way things are then there's the door."
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 04:07 PM
188

If you want a divorce rape nightmare just listen to what happened to Dave Foley. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5-Wf9o3_uKw If this doesn't convince you to never marry I don't know what will.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 03:59 PM
43

"Anyway. She's all over me at this event. Follows me around. IOI's like crazy. She comes up and tells me goodbye at the end of the evening. Lot's of kino. So I stupidly message her today on Facebook and say "hey it was nice seeing you last night" She agrees. Then I say "What's your number? We should grab a drink sometime". She's "seen" it. Nothing for like an hour now." Strike while the iron is hot. You missed your window of opportunity the other day. KINO and IOIs? She's practically begging you…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 10:11 PM
2

"I'm trying, but I still have a ways to go. I'm far along on changing the outer me, but not very far in changing the inner me if that makes sense." The inner part is the hardest to change. The more you repeat something to yourself the more it becomes your reality. It takes a while to undo a lifetime of negative thinking. I'm still working on it and making good progress in both areas. Not where I want to be just yet but I am getting there. Getting the inner game sorted out feels like 80-90% of th…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 05:29 PM
0

Back when I was a freshman in HS a friend of mine who was a few years older than us and out of school at the time gave me some advice: "Stay a virgin as long as you can." He was a player and screwed lots of women but yet here he was expressing regret to a certain extent. It will happen for you. I was in the same boat and after having given up I discovered Double Your Dating and started implementing the cocky/funny advice teasing girls. Never take them seriously, never take life seriously. Relax,…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 05:20 PM
2

"And that's when you take revenge on that bitch who were cruel to you during HER SMV peak. "let's just be friends ;)" And then watch for her reaction. Man, I can not wait to reach that age." Sounds like you're possibly still in the anger stage. Back in my clueless nice guy beta days I would inevitably get the You're-a-really-nice-guy-but-let's-just-be-friends speech when I was lucky enough to stumble into a date. Think of it like this: Now you know women are attracted to certain personality trai…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 04:58 PM
3

Don't lurk so much...contribute after you've read enough sidebar and can relate a worthy story. And congrats on waking up. Better late than never of course. I was 40 when I discovered the Red Pill. It's a life changer for sure. Now I can play The Game instead of being played by The Game. As far as Catch and Release goes I understand your point. I'd say most of us who discovered the RP have had to struggle with that very thing. It takes a while to undo a lifetime of conditioning. Back when you we…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 04:28 PM
33

"Women are a stress test for men." To quote Ulysses Everett McGill "A woman is the most fiendish instrument of torture ever devised to bedevil the days of man."
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 03:48 AM
3

A guy at work has two daughters. One was married about two years ago, the other just got married a few weeks ago. One guy already has a kid with one of the daughters. I feel sorry for the poor clueless saps for what their lives are going to turn into. Hopefully they'll discover some RP knowledge.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 03:45 AM
1

Ray should not do that. Only Wayne Brady should.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 03:41 AM
42

When you look at what women morph into as they age, the question becomes: Why would you want anything to do with a short-haired fat wrinkled troll, especially when it also comes with the usual negative (read: annoying) personality characteristics inherent in the female of the species? Why would you want to be legally bound to that? Not to mention there is no loyalty to be had. She will never be able to love you the way you want her too. As you get older, the balance of power shifts and you will …
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 03:39 AM
9

My dad was cool to us kids when he and my mom were still married. After the divorce it was like he didn't care all that much about being a dad. It wasn't all bad and I do remember some good times but I know damn well he could have done a lot more than he did for me and my sister. Sometimes see him on the weekends, sometimes he'd be on time, sometimes he would call and cancel for the weekend. Something more important came up. Kinda messed up to be a little kid dealing with rejection from a parent…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 09:34 PM
3

Honestly, you're making too much of it. The first time I had sex I laid there afterwards and said to myself, "Hmm. So that was it?" The sex was great, she could suck a cock and was super slutty and wild in bed, but I wasn't magically transformed. Nothing special happened afterwards. I was the same person I'd always been only now I'd had sex. Find a hobby you really enjoy - and I do not mean video games. Drop those as fast as possible and channel your time into improving yourself. Use your time w…
/r/askTRP23/05/15 06:59 PM
1

I wish I had known this stuff in the past. After a long break from the dating scene, I had the good fortune to come across some PUA material. It was DD's Double Your Dating and it explained the nice guy finishing last problem. I read through it and had some "a ha" moments. I adjusted my behavior accordingly and was having success in the dating world. At that time I still had no RP knowledge though. One thing I was doing was not being a needy guy hanging all over my gf while we were out in public…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 01:38 AM
1

"To those guys saying Gyllenhaal wasn't that hot, did you ever watch Secretary? Yeah she isn't a super model but she is cute and definitely tie-up-able and fuckable." I did see a few minutes of that movie but never finished the whole thing. She's got a unique look that grows on you. Kinda like she's got a cool personality vibe thing going on and that makes up for the looks part. I've never thought she was ugly. She's cute.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 05:39 PM
9

Up to a certain point their looks are their greatest asset. After that point their looks become a liability. The party can't last forever. They should have figured that out a long time ago and modified their behavior accordingly...which, of course, will never happen.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 12:00 PM
4

Yes. How many times have you caught a girl in a lie? You know the truth and they know they're caught, but they still try to rationalize and explain their way out of it. You can see it in their faces, and their actions trying to cover their lie betray them.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 05:23 PM
68

"If you're a recovering beta and such a woman propositions you, be very careful. It is easy to be infatuated with her if sex and attention is new to you, but be aware she may have ulterior motives." May have? They ALWAYS have ulterior motives no matter the Wall status. A recovering beta with RP knowledge won't be fooled so easily. It's the still-plugged in betas who are at risk. I can just see the fake snowflake act they'll put on in charming and enchanting the poor clueless saps. It's all so co…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 12:35 PM
7

Incapable of loving the way we want them to. Let's examine the desire for love psychologically, i.e. the motivations behind it. I still think examining motivations the following way makes sense. In a nutshell men seek out women who have personality traits similar to their mothers; women seek out men who have personality traits similar to their fathers. What we seek to replace is the unconditional love we got from our mothers, which can only come from our mothers. Women can not love men that way.…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 12:14 PM
33

If only these post-Wall women could warn the current crop of young women on what lies ahead. They'd first have to figure out the part about their shitty behavior though. And of course that will never happen.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/15 05:25 PM
25

Drama. Girls love it. If there is none they'll create some just to get some of that emotional cocaine. If a situation is smooth they'll stir the pot just to get some of that emotional cocaine. They love the ups and the downs and can't stand for things to be emotionally dormant. They love the tension of their self-created drama and how it forces you to react to it. I look at the pretty girls and think how it would be nice to have them around...and then I remember how much BS, tests, and self-crea…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/15 03:12 AM
3

Female ambition = leech off male accomplishments, get married, have babies, then divorce to get all the cash and prizes. Re-marry another clueless sap and divorce again a few years later.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 06:08 PM
2

Once it kicked in we didn't feel like eating. Anyways it's too hard to eat when you can't stop laughing.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 11:37 AM
1

Only twice? I tried counting the number of LSD & shroom trips I've done. My memory being just a little hazy of course, as those days are like a big kaleidoscopic blur of fun times. I tried recounting the number of times and couldn't get an exact count. Not quite sure the exact number but it was many many times what you've done. No braggery here, just relating my experiences. Had lots of fun. Lots and lots of fun. Never laughed so hard in my life. Mind expansion and deep profound life-changing ex…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 02:29 AM
2

TL/DR: have fun with naturals but be careful out there. In my experience, be careful with the purple on the stems of the mushrooms. It always seemed like the more that was on there the more potent it was. Take a little bit to start out, find a cool place either outdoors or a place you are well familiar with. Maybe get a friend experienced in these things to go along. You want a controlled environment as much as possible. Put on some cool tunes and enjoy. No negative people. Also, you can put on …
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 11:28 PM
2

Oh, and I don't think it has been mentioned on this thread yet, but pre-feminist TV is a good source for positive masculine behavior. Start out with good old B&W westerns like The Rifleman, Wanted Dead or Alive, Bonanza, and Rawhide. Observe how the men interact with women. Watch how women react in the presence of a truly masculine man. Observe how the men carry themselves.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 12:30 PM
3

"I realized that I didn't even want them anymore. I was on to bigger and better things." Ha. Exactly. Once you get past their fake demure snowflake act, and see their temporary beauty for what it is, and realize the tests & childish behavioral crap is planned for you, it becomes less and less important to chase after them. If they want to be with me, then it will be on my terms. I can take them or leave them. "Oh, you're throwing a tantrum and testing me? See that door over there? Don't let it h…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 12:21 PM
4

Feminism and its mistaken ideas reinforced in popular culture, and single mothers raising boys without a masculine father influence has more to do with the problem than internet porn. At some point video games need to go and these stalled adolescents need to become men by leaving childish things behind to quote Kalil Gibran. Remember the voiceover line in Fight Club? "We're a generation of men raised by women." Big part of the problem.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 02:38 AM
0

"Also don't fuck fatties." But fatties do give some great head IME.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 02:31 AM
0

"...plus girls love guys that look like their dads (in theory)..." Not look like, but seek out guys who have similar personality traits and characteristics of their fathers. I still think it all goes back to their subconscious desires to return to the safety and security of when they were little girls in the presence of their fathers. Everything was taken care of and they had no worries.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 02:28 AM
2

I do P90x and I can honestly say the Yoga DVD makes me sweat more than any other DVD in the system.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 02:24 AM
1

FMIWLF where the W stands for wouldn't.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 02:23 AM
1

I agree. Check out Steve McQueen in Wanted Dead or Alive. He's awesome interacting with the ladies. Watching both of these shows through the RP lens is so illuminating. Gotta love that pre-feminist TV.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 01:36 AM
8

"I have learnt through bitter experience the one supreme lesson to conserve my anger, and as heat conserved is transmuted into energy, even so our anger controlled can be transmuted into a power which can move the world." Mahatma Gandhi
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 10:00 PM
2

Megyn Kelly at 45 is hot because she hasn't succumbed to the Short Hair Syndrome. Every time I've seen her she's had at least shoulder-length hair. Going short would knock her down a point. She'd still be hot but not as much as she is with long hair. It's just a matter of time before she goes for the Grandma Cut but for now we can enjoy her as is.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 09:50 PM
1

Even if they did make the vow, post-feminist women wouldn't take it to heart anyway.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 09:44 PM
6

Barf. That saggy, flabby, chicken-skin stomach on the right was disgusting. Damn. Work out, keep in shape, take care of yourself. Why is that so hard?
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 07:20 PM
5

So this new Mad Max movie is about a woman with a dyke haircut taking the lead? No thanks.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 07:07 PM
3

Love how post-feminist women really take the "obey" part of their wedding vows to heart.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 12:36 PM
2

So Rule of Three. What number did she give you?
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 11:37 AM
4

I'm the observer type in a conversation and will usually only respond when asked. If I do have a humorous anecdote to share I will; if I have something relevant to add I will. Otherwise I just enjoy the group thing happening. I think most people are deathly afraid of silence and do whatever is necessary to fill the gaps with useless words. To me silence truly is golden.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 01:55 AM
1

About six years ago I FB friended a girl I went to HS with. She was a year younger than me and her brother who I was friends with. She was a hot little thing back then, and I always thought she was out of my league. I'd later find out she always had a thing for me. She was now married and I only had the intention of saying hi and catching up...I was respecting that she was married and had no plans to do anything like that. This was, after all, several years before I would discover TRP and had no…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 01:51 AM
19

Looking back in my clueless nice guy beta days I knew a few guys who were operating on the same level as this. Amazingly hot women always at their sides. The guys treated the girls like crap, blew them off, were late, just didn't care two shits about the girls other than using them for sex. Back then I used to think what jerks they were. If only I'd had TRP back then.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 01:37 AM
11

"Confidence I have when it comes to doing things. Talking, not so much. I can speak to my friends and people I've known for a while, but strangers it's hard as I've lived sheltered and played tons of video games." My problem about the talking thing is I care so little about the daily mundane BS that fills most people's conversations. I have to feign interest. Deep life subjects on the other hand? You'll have a hard time getting me to shut up.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 01:32 AM
13

Congrats on your journey and realizations. Stay on top of your physical game and keep on improving the mental side of things as well. I'll be 42 tomorrow and competing with most guys my age is usually not even a contest. I'm lifting for me, doing things I enjoy and improving in every way I can. At 6'-6" I do stand out of course, but lifting has helped me stand out even more. While I'm not at my goal just yet the internal change from lifting is bigger than the external change so far. I'm going af…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 06:27 PM
3

Yeah. It's too bad the same mothers who are repulsed by that behavior enable it in the boys they raise. I've learned so much since being here for what hasn't even been a year. There is so much I wish I could have known all those years ago. TRP has really lifted the veil.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 06:15 PM
1

Oh God. The shredding. I wish that would have died Dec. 31st, 1989. It was cool...when I was a teenager. Shredding is one reason I can't stand going into Guitar Center. Those damn teenagers doing their best to play as many notes as fast as they can. Argh! Anyway, yes I agree. Getting really good is just impressive to other guys who wish they were that good; girls are more impressed with a good melody and the overall feeling you can evoke when you play a good song. I've found my niche with what I…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 06:05 PM
-2

Got one of these: http://www.topsknives.com/product_info.php?cPath=4&products_id=139 And one of these: http://casiberia.com/product/tiger-elite-katana/sh6006kfg The katana I have has the hi groove.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 05:04 PM
17

Guns and rifles are fun to shoot. Feels great having that protection in house should I ever need it. Nothing quite like the recoil of a rifle or shotgun. Plus, every time I buy a new one or fire one of my guns or rifles I feel like I'm giving a middle finger to every gun-hating liberal out there.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 04:34 PM
10

It won't pop, but rather slowly deflate over time. No shortage of single mothers bringing up the next generation of clueless nice guy betas.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 04:28 PM
4

I can only hope he discovers, on his own or a friend turns him on to, TRP. It will salvage this disaster of a scenario.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 04:27 PM
8

The wife will seek out a bad boy...or ten for some good old fashioned alpha poundings once she realizes her spineless beta hubby fails her tests and the bedroom has been dead for quite some time. Poor clueless sap.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 04:23 PM
2

Yeah, I understand what you're saying. Going from a false belief system where I expected and wanted a certain outcome with women, to the reality which is an outcome a lot less than I would like is hard to accept. Get a dog to get that unconditional love I guess. They can't be want I want...they don't have the capacity to. Realizing all they can give is as good as it gets kinda sucks especially with all the crap they put you through. Trying to adjust to this diminished return on investment. Seems…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 03:28 PM
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"Men and women function at their best when the man is the captain (60%) and the woman is the firstmate (40%) which locks in the power relationship so that the man is the rewarder and punisher and the woman is the charming manipulator." Father = rewarder and punisher Daughter = charming manipulator. I keep coming back to this analogy I've come up up with to explain their behavior. It's as though they desire to return to the time when they were little girls in the presence of their fathers. Everyt…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 03:10 PM
1

She doesn't lose her funk she gets in a funk. It's one of her moods when the depression hits. I doubt you'll be able to talk her into getting treatment for her condition. I bet she'd become very combative if you suggested she get help for it. Unfortunately, she'll have to seek out help on her own, finally get tired of being that way. Until then, caving in to her whims is only enabling her. Your sisters will unfortunately succumb to her manipulation. And it sounds like it's getting worse because …
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 03:00 PM
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Not so extreme as yours seems to be though. Parents did divorce and both my sister and I were used as pawns in the child support game. I remember planning to go live with my dad and my mom was mad that her child support money was going to be cut in half. As far as moms go mine is alright...when she stays on her happy pills to combat her depression. When she gets in one of her funks, it's not even worth talking to her. She just wants to drag everyone down into it with her. Until it passes I just …
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 05:04 AM
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Mom's love the guilt trips. They never end. I finally had enough of my mom's shit in that area and let her know I'm too old for that...they don't work on me anymore. Stay strong and don't let her emotionally manipulate you into feeling sorry for her whereby you'll feel obligated to be back doing things for her. You have done nothing wrong. Stay the course. Make her break and see the error of her ways...if that's even possible. Classic female manipulation. If it isn't the men in their lives they'…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 02:33 AM
1

Yes. Exactly with the big stick. Speak softly and carry a big stick is the saying, but point taken. Be honorable, masculine, and project respect. Exude confidence. It's a great study just watching men in those westerns move. They exude a quiet and understated confidence. Quite a stark difference compared to the majority of what passes for men these days. From http://www.phrases.org.uk/meanings/speak-softly-and-carry-a-big-stick.html "The widespread use of 'speak softly and carry a big stick' beg…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 12:57 AM
1

Schopenhauer is an easy ready...no reading of Kant beforehand is necessary. World as Will and Representation and Essays and Aphorisms are great books. I've made it about 119 pgs. through Critique of Pure Reason and roughly 84 pages of Phenomenology of Spirit. I just keep finding reasons to read other things. It becomes difficult to follow especially when a dictionary is necessary every page. I picked up Being and Nothingness and read a few pages. Ugh. One day I'll make it through all of them.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 04:54 PM
6

I've mentioned it many times here that just watch some old B&W TV westerns to view the correct masculine behavior when interacting with women. The Rifleman, Wanted Dead or Alive, Bonanza, etc. This was all pre-feminism. You had shows like Father Knows Best and Leave it to Beaver portraying women happily fulfilling their roles as wives and mothers. This was pre-feminism. Women WERE happier before feminism. Nowadays men and fathers are portrayed on TV as bumbling fools unable to tie their shoes.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 04:46 PM
1

I agree. Schopenhauer is my favorite German philosopher because of his Eastern-influenced thought. Nietzsche was good too. I've tried to get through Hegel and Kant and just haven't been able to.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 04:29 PM
8

Guitar is a great hobby to have. Not only as a creative outlet, but also has the added benefit of intrigue. You're spending time being passionate about something you love and that drive is something they are attracted to. Write and record your own tunes. They love listening to something you created.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 03:11 AM
3

"In general (80/20), women aren't worth the effort." I posted this a few days ago but it is so relevant and always will be: Words of wisdom from Arthur Schopenhauer: "In the girl nature has had in view what could in theatrical terms be called a stage-effect: it has provided her with super-abundant beauty and charm for a few years at the expense of the whole remainder of her life, so that during these years she may so capture the imagination of a man that he is carried away into undertaking to su…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 06:33 PM
4

"When you talk to girls and they shit test you, they're giving you the opportunity to prove that you just don't give a fuck. Really, that's all that a shit test is: it's an opportunity to prove whether or not you care that you're being confronted." "Eventually, I think society will move past the application of shit-tests but not now. They serve a function, which is to return a value. The value of alpha or beta. A signal." The more I've studied it and tried to understand it, the more I realize wo…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 02:52 PM
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I get the crux of the post. If something is given to you it has less value than the same thing you had to earn. I'd wager that just about every guy who discovered TRP has had to struggle with the following concepts after swallowing the Red Pill: Being good gets you nowhere but taken advantage of. Being an asshole gets you everything you want. I see this played out every day. And while I am an aspiring asshole, I still find it a little difficult to go full asshole. Lots of conditioning to break b…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 02:46 PM
1

Shitty, childish, bratty, selfish, manipulative behavior IS at least an 8 on the asshole scale. I'm supposed to accept that behavior to be as good as it gets because they just can't help it? Accept it and move on?
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 01:42 PM
1

Yeah, I know. I hear what you're saying. It's a depressing realization. I've been burned, lied to, used, and had my time wasted before. The time I got burned ten years ago was a turning point. I decided it would never happen again. It sucks to realize the state of things with the opposite sex. I've always been a generous guy who believed in karma, treat others how you want to be treated. I don't want to become an ahole just to be able play the game. But that appears the only way. Give the girls …
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 12:05 AM
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Words of wisdom from Arthur Schopenhauer: "In the girl nature has had in view what could in theatrical terms be called a stage-effect: it has provided her with super-abundant beauty and charm for a few years at the expense of the whole remainder of her life, so that during these years she may so capture the imagination of a man that he is carried away into undertaking to support her honorably in some form or another for the rest of her life, a step he would seem hardly likely to take for purely …
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 05:46 PM
4

"He also focuses more on finding LTR material, which is exactly what I want" I had the same dream at one point...still do actually. There is a flicker of a hope deep down inside I'll find a genuinely nice person...who also just happens to be a woman. Definitely a needle in a hay stack though. When I think about getting back out there trying to find her and knowing I'll have to deal with all the BS, the fake demure snowflake routines, and the generally crappy human beings, I quickly move on to mo…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 12:39 PM
1

I agree, although if he's just getting back into it P90x hurts like hell at the beginning. He will be sore. I like it, have the workout tower, dumbbells and bands. It's a great all around workout. I have started doing the Body Beast 8/12/15 rep idea at the gym and this does make a nice variation when lifting.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 05:38 PM
10

Your focus is on your mission. Always. The side benefit of women will come. Make yourself the best version of you possible, both mentally and physically and you will become irresistible to women. Focus on your mission and have an abundant mindset when it comes to women. They need you more than you need them. Never forget that. Women are a nice fringe benefit but never your focus.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 04:00 AM
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Ever see a really pretty girl with a guy who is obviously below her attractiveness level? So what's going on? The guy is most-likely one of two personality types: 1) Outgoing, self-confident, assertive and the life of the party, or 2) the badboy jerk-type asshole who treats her like crap. If she is with this guy she is likely suffering from low self-esteem. So, while looks do matter, and you should get take care of your appearance by lifting and getting your body in shape to be attractive to wom…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 03:55 AM
1

I think being a few inches shorter would be great. I have trouble finding clothes that fit. Or should I say, stylish clothes that fit. Usually the big and tall type stores really mean they have clothes for big only. See a nice pair of shoes I like only to find out they only go up to size 14 at best. I need a 15 dammit. Oh, and let's not forget back problems. I if stand too long my back will start hurting. Walk too much? Back will start hurting. Public transportation, sports stadium seats, airpla…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 08:51 PM
4

"We don't want a guy that makes us FEEL insecure about our body. We are insecure enough as it is. We don't need a perfectly sculpted guy standing next to us to make us FEEL worse....the smaller we FEEL and the better we look next to you in a picture." It's all about how she feels inadequate next to someone who takes care of himself. When listening to women talk train yourself to listen to the "F" words: Feel, Feeling and Felt.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 05:58 PM
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"Some dads still raise good girls. Her dad is very alpha." THIS. If only guys who have daughters understood how important their role is in bringing up a girl to become a quality woman. During a first date, a question about her relationship with her father, and what type of man he is ought to be a prerequisite. Would give some good insight into what kind of woman she is and what to expect by continuing to have anything to do with her.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 05:53 PM
8

Women are never happy no matter what. They'll create a problem where there is none just to have some of that Emotional Chaos Syndrome.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 05:48 PM
1

Don't forget the seemingly synonymous meaning among the general population of the following words: Two, Too, and To They're, Their, and There You're and Your...still waiting for Yore to be used interchangeably here.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 05:45 PM
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Gonna be 42 here in a few days. If you're lifting, and have fully embraced TRP you will do just fine. Lift, lift and lift some more. Stand up straight and project how confident you are. Always have that subtle smirk of a smile going on clueing them in that you know what's really going on. I guess being 6'-6" gives me an advantage, but I do find I turn the heads of a lot of tiny, petite 20 somethings who are usually single moms. Yeah, it's the exploration of their unresolved daddy issues thing I'…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 05:39 PM
1

The light that burns twice as bright burns half as long.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 05:32 PM
1

"I almost drove her back to her place to have sex and then never get back to her..." That's exactly what you should have done. All the power would be on your side. Use for sex, string her along and cut her loose. Keep making her come running back to you.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 05:31 PM
1

Words of wisdom from Arthur Schopenhauer: "In the girl nature has had in view what could in theatrical terms be called a stage-effect: it has provided her with super-abundant beauty and charm for a few years at the expense of the whole remainder of her life, so that during these years she may so capture the imagination of a man that he is carried away into undertaking to support her honorably in some form or another for the rest of her life, a step he would seem hardly likely to take for purely …
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 05:25 PM
2

1) Pick a hobby you really enjoy. Bonus points if it's a musical instrument and you play in a band. Write songs and record them. Become passionate about your hobby. Ever see girls at a concert overtaken by the music that they sway and move to the beat? Hypnotically controlled. Imagine being able to make them feel that when they listen to your own tunes. It's pretty awesome to be able to do. 2) Read Philosophy and world religions. Buddhist and Hindu texts are great for a better understanding of y…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 07:51 PM
1

"Depending on the level of tone of the response I sometimes will ignore it entirely. I'm running the show here. They submit or they get Next. Could care less which they pick." Looking back in my clueless nice guy BP days, I would see these types of guys who were doing just what you said. And DGAF attitude, putting the women they're with down, making belittling comments about them, and frankly not treating them very well. And how did they do with women? Amazingly well. How hot were the women they…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 07:21 PM
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"Oh god, I hope she doesn't raise her kid to be a "nice guy," who's different than all the men who fucked and chucked her." I swear you must have met my mom. This WAS my absentee-father upbringing. Older sister and single mother raising me. Oh how I wish TRP would have been around when I was a teenager.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 07:11 PM
1

"...because no one wants a 30 something cynical i hate the world bitch." You think 30-something, cynical, I-hate-the-world bitches are bad, just wait until you interact with them after they've hit 40. It doesn't get any better. If the two choices are 1) the carefree, drama-free, easy laid back life of MGTOW or 2) dating them, being in relationshits with them, and even marrying them? The choice is clear. Their shit just isn't worth the hassle.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 07:07 PM
2

I visualize the demure snowflake act as bait on the end of a fishing line...with a bitchy post-wall hag at the other end turning the reel every so slowly.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 06:58 PM
2

"How did they find their energy for these women. Blue pillers are a mystery," You know the old saying Ignorance is Bliss? They truly are clueless and in being clueless I kinda feel sorry for them knowing what is headed their way with these women: shit-tests galore, dead bedroom, more of their self-created drama...and these women getting some alpha poundings on the side. All the while the BPs still believe the Disney lies.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 06:53 PM
2

"It just sucks that all the men I'm cool with are pretty fucking retarded as well." Unfortunately it usually goes something like this: "Sports, sports and more sports. Beer. Trying to get laid. Relationship hassles. Sports sports and more sports. Lame TV show. Beer. Trying to get laid. Relationship hassles. Sports sports and more sports."
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 06:41 PM
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"...there is very little about women I actually care about listening to. Their interests, attitudes, behaviors are all very shallow and egocentric." While I'd agree this is the case for the majority of girls and women, there are a few here and there who aren't so shallow, who actually do have interests other than maintaining their appearance, and are actually decent human beings. They are definitely the exception though and not the rule. I was in the gym a couple months ago and there were two ea…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 06:37 PM
1

I love philosophy and love pondering the big life questions. I'm able to think in abstract terms. Normally I'm reserved when it comes to group conversations because I have to feign interest in the daily shallow BS that fills most people's conversations. Sports? TV shows? Pop culture BS? No thanks.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 05:57 AM
1

"...the added stress and drama..." Hopefully it will still be a net positive once you reach the next levels of her shit testing. You're only dating right now (you didn't say for how long) and can still walk away relatively easily compared to being married to her. Once you're married you can't walk away so easily and this changes the woman's shit testing dynamic. Maybe you found a good one though. The truly good and decent women with good hearts and great personalities do exist. Needle in a hayst…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 05:52 AM
1

"...how can a man get hot for them." How can a TRP-awakened man get hot for them? Is a better phrasing to the question. Clueless betas will believe they've won the lottery.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 05:33 AM
1

"I find them to be blatant suck ups until you get to know them a bit better then it basically goes how you say it is." They all put on a show at first. They try so hard to come off as demure snowflakes. Post-TRP it's just so damn comical to get back out there and see the act they put on.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 05:18 AM
1

Don't forget to add that damn short hair in the mix as well.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 05:15 AM
1

Seems they never do get the memo about developing an awesome, pleasant and fun personality to compensate for the reality of their post-Wall looks.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 05:13 AM
2

"Because these entitled, self-absorbed, cynical, burnt-out-and-worn-out bitches will remind you what is wonderful in a woman -- because they have absolutely none of it. Joy? Joie de vivre? Fun? Innocence? Nope, nope, nope and are-you-fucking-kidding-me?" And yet we men of their age are all supposed to be lined up around the block to date them. Yeah right. Bitter, bitchy, & entitled coupled with their introduction to The Wall? Oh hell no. Shit tests galore...but yet they've been introduced to The…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 05:08 AM
1

One thing I don't do is chase after a woman who just had an attack of the Emotional Chaos Syndrome and who walked out of the room, building, public area, etc. It's just another shit test. While a plate was over at my condo one night I called her bluff on something. Her reaction? Gathering her things, stomping loudly across the living room, and slamming the door with enough force to shake the entire building...all at 2 AM. While she sat in her car for a few minutes waiting for me to come apologiz…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 05:39 AM
1

"You'll finally get up the nerve to tease a girl a bit and she'll light up like you bought her a new puppy. TEASING WORKS. Girls love it." The other day I was talking to a guy co-worker when a female co-worker interrupted us for something. I looked at her jokingly and said, "Can't you see the men are talking?" She wasn't mad but did walk off with an amused 'I'm outta here/the sh*t's getting deep' thought to herself. After I was finished I went to see her and she said, "Oh you actually have time …
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 05:23 PM
0

PC Muscle and kegel exercises. Exercising this muscle gives you mad control. You can go all night long with practice.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 12:54 PM
3

Masculine attracts feminine. It's always been this way and always will be this way. I've noticed the TV shows and movies made before the horrible mistake of feminism happened show how men are supposed to act. Spend some time watching old B&W western TV shows like The Rifleman or Wanted Dead or Alive and observe how different the male/female interactions were. It's happened every time to me with a girl where it feels like she is feeding off my energy and draining the life out of me. It's all abou…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 04:25 PM
0

So OP can we summarize by saying Don't get married?
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 11:55 PM
2

I love Eastern philosophy. The Dhammapada is a really great book. Also check out the Upanishads if you haven't already. Eknath Easwaran has the best translations of both IMHO.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 06:09 PM
2

If you don't love yourself to begin with why would a woman want to be with you? If you don't believe you are good enough why would a woman want to be with you? If you believe you aren't good enough so will every woman you want to be with. We give off certain vibes that others pick up on. "We are what we think, having become what we thought." Dhammapada 1 You have to silence the internal critic. Every time the all-too-familiar negative thought pops up, you have to not even pay attention to it. Co…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 05:34 PM
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"...so I'd let her decide." They are biologically programmed to follow a man's lead. If they have to put what limited brain-effort they possess into something other than keeping up their appearance, they get confused and resentful. Makes their brains hurt having to make decisions.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 01:59 AM
1

"...if you don't demonstrate strength, and that's all shit tests are for." The way I understand it and what makes the most sense to me is they shit test because they desire a reassuring display of masculinity. This takes them back to the time when they were little girls, and daddy was the protector, provider, disciplinarian and authoritarian all wrapped up into what was her idea of masculinity. So when they are stricken with another bout of the Fear of Abandonment, they desire that reassuring di…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 01:17 AM
3

Ever hear of the saying: Strike while the iron is hot? You had a perfect moment to close the deal and you didn't take it. Seems like her LMR could have been easily bypassed at the time.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 12:38 PM
3

Kind of reminds me of an old saying I read in a philosophy book: "Life is a comedy for those who think, and a tragedy for those who feel."
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 05:48 PM
2

Just keep Melvin Udall's wisdom in mind at all times on how he writes women so well: "I think of a man and I take away Reason and Accountability."
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 12:53 PM
7

She'll of course say only three or four...and the beta chump will believe her.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 12:50 PM
1

I learned about the PC muscle and kegels years ago. Developing that muscle allows you to go at it all night.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 10:40 PM
14

Funny how they always stress how important it is for the guy to be honest and not lie. Hmmm. Because they are incapable of telling the truth themselves and are using this speech as a way to cover their tracks from the outset? I've seen it in movies countless times where it's always the guy screwing up and then there's the obligatory scene where the girl tells him she'll take him back if only he promises to never lie to her again. Honesty is so important after all and women can do no wrong. Fucki…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 03:37 AM
2

To quote from a favorite book of mine: "Do not give your attention to what others do or fail to do; Give it to what you do or fail to do." Dhammapada 4:50 Getting to the point of not caring what other people think of me is freeing. My time is limited. My time is valuable. I choose how I want to spend it and I chose to spend it improving myself. I don't have time for the petty things. I'm not being selfish...I'm on the path of self-actualization.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 03:17 AM
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Congrats on being so young and discovering TRP. Keep up the good work...you're going to have an awesome life with women. Just remember to never fall back into your old beta ways when you get into a relationship. If only I could go back to being 16 and having discovered this stuff.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 12:27 PM
3

Not sure as it's been a while. She was a blonde cutie but I thought she was a lesbo who was experimenting.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 12:19 PM
5

41 here. I look at some of my friends the same age and see: Divorced once or twice. Child support payments. Maybe re-married to a woman who, SURPRISE!, was no better than the first wife. Convinced to adopt kids that aren't his. Oh sure things were probably nice and rosy for a few months after vows were exchanged. But that eventually wears off. Kids that aren't even his in the house. Her nagging, testing, drama-creating, needless self-created bullshit. Dealing with her asshole ex who resents the …
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 01:01 AM
2

A great song to play after you're done fucking them is Stay With Me by Faces. "Don't be here in the morning when I wake up."
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 12:48 AM
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"But her past doesn't matter!" Funny. Years ago I was watching Chasing Amy with a work fling and this very subject came up. She was adamant that not only did her past not matter, it was also none of the guy's business. Sheesh.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 12:46 AM
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Reminds me of the saying I once heard: Not all men are stupid, some are bachelors.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 12:44 AM
3

Trust is earned and not something to be freely given away.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 12:40 AM
4

Do not apologize for being masculine. Recognize how lucky you are to be a man. You, as a Man, are not subjected to the Fear of Abandonment (FOA). You, as a Man, are not tormented by the Emotional Chaos Syndrome (ECS). Because of the absence of these two afflictions, you have no need to create drama or test the opposite sex to gain reassurances until the next episode of FOA or ECS strikes. Logic and Reason guide your thinking. Your decisions are not clouded by your emotions. You, as a Man, have v…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 12:34 AM
14

One work fling told me her number, and this was back before TRP and before I knew to multiply by three. 17. When I was with her, thankfully briefly, she was already screwing another guy at work. After we parted ways, I knew of three other guys she was involved with. She gave great head, and no wonder...she'd had lots of practice. Ever think back to that one girl in your past and realize you're damn lucky not to have caught anything from? Yeah.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 12:18 AM
1

I wonder if in their minds each time they were the main attraction of a gangbang if it only counts as one partner.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 12:10 AM
12

Men have Logic and Reason. Women have Feelings and Emotions. That's about all you need to know. Melvin Udall in As Good As It Gets when asked by a female fan of his books how he writes female characters so well: "I think of a man, and I take away Reason and Accountability."
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 05:41 PM
7

Strippers have unresolved daddy issues and are always seeking approval from men. Most likely sexually abused by their step fathers, other family member, or someone. Definitely some emotional trauma under the surface. Take away the Dim-light camouflage from the majority of them. No thanks. Do not marry them. Ever.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 05:38 PM
4

The language we use is powerful...so is our self-talk. I'd take your response even further and remove any mention of Beta. "I now work every day to increase and maximize my alpha traits" This way he won't even be mentioning and therefore associating Beta with himself.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 12:54 PM
2

Think of the mindset: if something is given to you it has less value than the same thing you had to work for. Beta freely gives his attention and adoration. Translation: No value and worthless. Endless supply of this everywhere she looks. Think of a penny. Alpha makes her work for his attention and adoration. Translation: High value and worth a whole lot. Limited supply of guys like this in her mind. She must do whatever it takes to win him over and lock him down. Think of a Krugerrand.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 03:35 AM
3

The man becomes less interested in sex with his wife, she loses...her looks and gains weight and a bitchy attitude. Ever see those commercials for Viagra or Cialis? Those women they show are still relatively doable. How about some truth in advertising? If the guy diagnosed with ED had the usual looksfellapart wife well of course he'd need help to get down to binness, but how about the same guy who has a hot young wife with a rockin' bod? Do you seriously think he would need a pill to get down to…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 03:27 AM
0

I thought it was wedding cake that made women not want to have sex.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 03:20 AM
3

Unfortunately most of the people I know who call themselves Christians live their lives as Church on Sunday, Sin on Monday...all the while keeping a nose in the air, holier-than-thou attitude. And don't see anything wrong with with being hypocrites in their daily lives either. It's like for most of them a sense of arrogant superiority emanates wherever they go. NACALT though. I've met a few decent and really nice Christians...who by the way actually didn't try to convert me on the spot. Can you …
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 03:15 AM
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Free your mind. Investigate the following: The Gnostics. The Mystery Religions. The dying-and-resurrecting godman myth. Eostre and the rebirth Spring festival and why the date of Easter changes every year. Saturnalia and Brumalia. Serapis, Osiris, Dionysis, Apis, Horus, Attis, Tammuz, etc. Read the following books: Jesus and the Lost Goddess. The Laughing Jesus. The Greatest Story Ever Sold. Challenging the Verdict. The Secret Teachings of All Ages. The Secret Origins of the Bible. The Dhammapad…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 11:34 PM
2

"They began to teach me that sex before marriage was a great sin, even jacking off was great sin too (I still beat it anyway, lol)" Funny how, according to the story, God is not married to Mary but still proceeds to have relations with her and get her pregnant. Nice example, huh? And masturbation is not a sin. What is commonly mistaken for trying to make masturbation a sin is the Sin of Onan. God specifically instructed Onan to impregnate his sister-in-law. Onan spilled his seed on the ground, t…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 11:25 PM
1

Were you listening to the forgetfulness binaural beat? Seriously though. Other than the forgetfulness did you notice any benefits?
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 11:16 PM
2

The tone in the left ear mixes with the tone in the right ear. They cancel each other out to create a new tone which stimulates specific brain activity. For me I downloaded several different kinds and listen to them at night. I think it helps slow the thoughts down allowing me to focus and fall asleep easier. I think there may be something to the science behind it. Maybe one can develop or eliminate certain personality traits through the repeated use of them. You can read up on it here if you'd …
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 11:15 PM
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Also, there are the hypnosis, subliminal, and binaural beats recordings as well. Listen to a track as you fall asleep or just have the binaural beats on in the background. But I do believe they help.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 05:34 PM
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Ha. Way to go! She's a user type and will use any guy in her path to get what she needs. She no doubt has mastered how to bat an eye and maybe even a peck on the cheek or a hug for the clueless betas to get her way. You should flat out ask her: "So while I'm doing your homework you'll be out with that jerk who treats you like crap, right?" She needs the rude awakening and in the long run it would be good for her. I'd mention how her beauty has an expiration date and she won't be able to manipula…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 12:52 PM
1

Did you discover TRP during your marriage or not until after it was over? Did she push you to adopt her little rugrat? Are you on the hook for support? How quickly after the wedding vows were exchanged did that great new part of her personality surface?
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 10:47 PM
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Imdb.com has him at 5'-11" so 160 lbs. sounds about right. I'm 6'-6" so yeah, quite a bit bigger. I'm still working on sculpting the physique but the lean muscle look is what I'm going for. Umm, not so sure about that last part. Have you seen World War Z? He was looking pretty rough in the face. Age is catching up. He could still no doubt land a whole lot of ass, but I bet not as much as he once so effortlessly did.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 10:42 PM
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I remember seeing a study of what body type women prefer and overwhelmingly it was the lean muscle look of Brad Pitt in Fight Club. Not too bulky and muscley, but yet well defined and toned.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 05:25 PM
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Every married guy I know who changed for his wife and gave up the things he loved at her request inevitably ended up divorced. I doubt these guys were aware of TRP so there's that, but her requests for you to change are tests.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 05:05 PM
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If women didn't communicate in subtle hints he would have gotten the hint long before she cut her hair.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 04:27 PM
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Just be out to have a good time no matter where you are. Your good time is not dependent on any woman joining you. You do not seek any woman's approval. You will have a good time no matter what, wherever you go. You are present in the moment, and not worried about the outcome as far as a favorable one goes with a woman. You're not needy, you're a fun guy. Convey that. Mindset really. I once read an attitude to have of Don't Give A Damn. Not about what people think especially.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 12:29 PM
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Always be striving to improve yourself, whether it be physically or mentally. Follow your bliss, to quote Joseph Campbell. Do whatever it is that you are passionate about. Make no apologies for it either. Do something where you can express your creativity. For me it's music. Give me a guitar and I'm a happy man. Realize how lucky you are to be a Man. You are not afflicted with that swirling vortex of emotional chaos females are subject to. Be a Man. Unapologetically so.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 11:43 AM
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"...it's safe to assume something is wrong with her." Yeah, she probably has way too many cats. What does apply is the attempt at shaming us into the marriage trap. More and more I think it's them wanting us to share in the wonderful experience of divorce. In their minds it's unfair and shallow of us not to have experienced that. Women need to be married. Men do not.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 11:33 AM
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And withholding attention and making them work for it is one of the things the jerktype personality does so well in attracting women. If something is given to a girl (attention from a beta nice guy) it has less value than the same thing she had to earn (attention withheld from alpha and jerktype ahole).
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 11:18 AM
1

Confidence is king. Develop this early on and you'll be so far ahead of the game. Ever see a really pretty girl with a guy who is obviously way below her level of attractiveness? It's one of two things. 1) He's outgoing, self-confident, assertive and the life of the party, or 2) He's a jerk and an ahole who treats her like crap but it's okay because she has low self-esteem and unresolved daddy issues. Do whatever it takes to develop your confidence when you're young.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 11:14 AM
1

It's kind of fun to watch TV and count how many women have succumbed to the Short Hair Syndrome. For me watching TV goes like: "Short hair...old woman. Short hair...old woman. Short hair...old woman."
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 11:09 AM
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I think I found it. http://www.andtheylivedhappilyeverafter.com/when-she-cuts-her-hairlook-out.html
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 11:05 AM
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You're right and it's habits. Language can be very powerful. Be more decisive. "We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit." Aristotle
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 11:02 AM
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Bottom line? If Rolling Stone were a conservative-themed magazine, it would have already been shut down. But RS being a liberal slanted magazine, not even a slap on the wrist. There is a double standard as to what is allowed from liberals. Remember Clarence Thomas and Anita Hill? To paraphrase, "It's not the nature of the evidence but the seriousness of the charge."
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 10:57 AM
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"Honestly, you are over thinking the whole thing and were way too outcome dependent" Yep. Be present and in the moment. Have fun more than anything. If you're relaxed and in a good mood she will pick up on it. If you're tense and nervous she will pick up on it. Just go out on a date with the intention of getting to know her and have fun at the same time.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 10:15 AM
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"Bowling is a good first date" Plus it gives you ample time to check out her ass.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 10:13 AM
1

If you don't love yourself and think yourself worthy of love, you will broadcast a subconscious message of the same thing. People, especially women, will pick up on it and treat you accordingly. Don't let a negative belief become a self-fulfilling prophecy. Believe in yourself first.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 10:11 AM
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My last gf was 30 and a mom to two boys. It was all about the boys. I did get some time in there alone with her, but I would always be way down on her list of priorities. That would be as good as it gets. "No fuking way an ex party chick will make a good wife/mother. Nope, it's just not going to happen. The new beta is oblivious, shit he doesn't even realize he's a rebound." Yep. And the clueless beta will think he won the lottery with such a nice girl. "Really, she's great and is so nice. Treat…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 10:02 AM
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"It's a crap shoot, I've dated younger & fo fucks sake they are still in party years. Im to old to for that shit." I second that. Way too old for that party scene. Yep. Carefree and enjoying the carte blanche their beauty gives them. If I could find one that is young, but mature and not a party girl. I guess that would be venturing into unicorn territory.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 09:58 AM
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Good for you man. Hopefully none of the things I mentioned about the kids or cheating wife happened? Were you Red Pill before the wedding?
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 09:55 AM
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Hmm. I always thought the trying to change them thing was always a compliance test.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 09:52 AM
1

Oh geez. I'd have to do some web searching for it. It was from a female author IIRC. Just some random webpage I stumbled on. One of those 10 Tips kind of things. I'll try to track it down. If I find it I will send you the link.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 09:49 AM
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I was 40. I had discovered the PUA stuff 10 years earlier and that helped, but TRP really helps you put all the pieces together.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 09:47 AM
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Yeah, you're right. Clueless Beta would want to try to work things out.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 12:53 AM
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SE Louisiana. I venture up to MS. up in Hattiesburg from time to time.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 11:32 PM
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Yeah. It usually goes like, "My kids come first. If there is any time left for you I may pay you some attention...if you're lucky."
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 11:30 PM
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I get what you're saying. I had discovered the PUA stuff and learned a few things. But would I have discovered TRP on my own? Maybe, maybe not. I really don't know. And yes, the cousin is cool. A few years older than me back in another state and we still keep in touch. The whole thing came about because he was saying how wise I was for never having been married.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 11:29 PM
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More and more I think I am right in the psychology behind their actions with their men as wanting to return to the safety and security of being a little girl and daddy being the provider/protector/disciplinarian. It is the only thing that explains their behavior in this area.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 09:16 PM
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Well if my older cousin hadn't mentioned this site to me I wouldn't be where I am today...which is much better off. He helped me out, and TRP knowledge can help a lot of men out. Are we to accidentally discover this site all on our own?
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 09:13 PM
1

Manipulation is Test Number One in their playbook.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 09:04 PM
1

TRP truths in action. "He always caved in because my mom threw temper tantrums like a child, until she got her way." And the cycle repeats. You need to turn your dad on to this site and then encourage him to throw some mean dread game. What else is left for him but a life filled with a nagging b*tch. Sorry, but that is how she comes across. At best he'd salvage the sinking ship and straighten her out.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 08:58 PM
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Hey! You're 18 and you've found TRP. Do you realize how far ahead of the game you are? I WISH I would have known this stuff at 18. Sheesh. What I wouldn't give to be 18 again with TRP knowledge. Keep your chin up and remember what you learn here. AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 08:52 PM
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Well down here in the Southern states there are a lot of pretty women. But that beauty is so fleeting, isn't it? I get the sense, not only from you, but from others here with similar European experience that the women over there are a better class than here.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 08:46 PM
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"For the dude, nothing but divorce rape." And probably paying child support for kids that might not even be his.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 08:43 PM
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"They like to feel wanted by guys younger than them," Oh geez. Let me tell you about this one older lady in my office. She's approaching 60. All things considered not too bad. A few drinks at a bar, some laughs, who knows? Nah, screw that. Don't even want to imagine that. One day last year we had a meeting in house with some people from another branch. So, Ms. Approaching 60 had some new males in the bldg. to try and get their attention. She was so pathetic putting on a show. It was laughable re…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 08:42 PM
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The archetype of femininity includes long flowing hair. It's like the women who do cut their hair off are advertising they have no interest in embracing their identity as a sexual being. I think they're subconsciously communicating that and when you look at most of them who do, it makes sense. Most of them, not all. But basically after they hit a certain age I think it rings true. I once read how since it's inevitable they will feel as though their life is spinning out of control, cutting their …
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 08:30 PM
2

I would think in the Ukraine there is a better class of women than here in the States.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 04:38 PM
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Well, just think of how the usual scenario plays out: Post-CC rider approaches The Wall and in a panic locks down a clueless Beta. Beta knows nothing about TRP, the CC, her high partner count, or her tests. He fails her tests and caves...because he truly does not know he needs to be masculine and stand up to her. He's afraid of making her mad. So dead bedroom ensues with her probably cheating on the side with an Alpha. Clueless Beta finds out and files for divorce. High probability one of his ki…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 04:35 PM
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"Go for as young as possible OP" I know. I seem to give off that subconscious surrogate father figure vibe to some of the young ones...who probably have those unresolved daddy issues. "the amount of baggage a 30plus chick has is not worth the time of day. Even if she has no kids & looking for a settle guy." Girl I work with in another branch is 36, been married once but no kids. Seems pretty cool. Fun to talk to and we have common interests. Takes great care of herself and is a fitness fanatic s…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 04:26 PM
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Not really looking at my own age group per se. It is nice in a way to be able to make a reference to something in my generation and have her get it. I threw up a profile just to see what was out there. The Desperate 40s are mostly what responded. Some younger ones than that responded but didn't really interest me. Otherwise, if only women my age had that youthful, carefree and fun attitude coupled with nice long hair that younger women had? That would help to compensate for their introduction to…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 04:13 PM
2

Back in Denver years ago I had a summer fling with a girl I worked with. At one point she told me her number, which was 15 or 16 if I remember right. At the time I was years away from discovering TRP and had no idea you're supposed to multiply her number by 3. At the time I really believed it...after all she had been in lots of relationships. That number seemed right. After the fling ended? Multiply that number by at least 3. My friends would always say she seemed a little skanky. They were righ…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 01:35 PM
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Love it. When I was younger I never really understood the whole older guys dating younger women for other than the obvious physical reasons. Now I get it. If we have to endure all the crap they put us through, enjoying a nice body makes it worth it. Just thinking about dating women in this age group makes me reconsider MGTOW. A woman in this age group can increase her SMV or at least maintain what she's got through exercise, healthy eating habits, not smoking, and enjoying a few alcoholic bevera…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 06:21 PM
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"Fortunately for us and unfortunately for them, their value quickly diminishes once they hit their 30s. And deep down inside they know it." I'm 41 and have sensed a shift where the playing field has not only leveled but tilted very much in my favor. Women in my age group? Largely bitter primarily about the wall and their introduction to it. Not only is their physical attractiveness largely lacking, their attitude is a huge turn off. And to make things worse, they have an entitlement mentality th…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 01:51 PM
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I've always had a sense that in most cases of male-female interaction girls use it as a manipulation tool. They learned early on they could whip up some tears in front of daddy and get their way. They make the connection early on that since daddy is a man all men must be this easy to manipulate. Losing the argument? Whip us some tears. Want boyfriend/husband to cave in for something she really wants? Whip up some tears. In some cases tears are genuine, but in the cases where my gut tells me it's…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 01:37 PM
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Not having cable I pull in whatever the antenna can get. If I do watch TV it's either the PBS-type stuff where I can actually learn something, or it's pre-feminist TV where men proudly exhibited their masculinity: old black and white westerns or shows where the wife stayed at home and was a happy homemaker. And of course Bob Ross. If he's on I have to stop what I'm doing and watch him paint. It's hypnotic. Otherwise, I realize it's a tradeoff of my time: I could be relaxing on the couch or I cou…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 01:25 PM
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Not weird, just different. From what I understand they use relaxer in their hair to make it easier to manage. It's pretty easy to see weaves if you're looking for them. Same goes for that fake pony tail women use to make their hair appear longer. Then there's the wonderbras, high heels & fake breasts...again easy to spot once you know what to look for. Lots of deception in their appearance but yet they're the ones preaching how important honesty is.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 01:45 PM
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Post-RP? Now pretty much what I notice first off is bad makeup and physical flaws. Just watch some TV and see how bad their makeup is. Eye bags, crows feet, forehead wrinkles. I don't have a foot fetish but if you ever want to knock a hottie off her pedestal, take one look at her gnarly toes. Years of jamming them into tiny pointed shoes have made them deformed. Of course they're just human and no one is perfect, but TRP has really helped me destroy any beauty pedestal. My attitude now is: Yeah,…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 05:18 PM
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"The problem with betas who marry is that they let their SMV dip really badly and then their wife loses the tingles then cheating becomes an option." The problem with betas marrying is that they are betas and are the ones their wives settled for after their CC ride. Their wife settled for a beta but still deep in her core longs for an Alpha. A clueless beta has no idea about shittests and certainly is clueless about AWALT. A clueless married beta is just a man who will one day be divorced.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 01:43 PM
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"Just look around at what the average American marriage becomes - woman constantly bitching about every damn little thing under the sun" How many of the typical American married males are unaware of shittests and the constant attempts to beta them? How many married men are unaware of their wives' past CC experiences, and how many the married men realize they are the clueless beta chump she settled for once her beauty started to fade and she went into panic mode? It seems that if the majority of …
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 01:18 PM
2

Another good book in this vein is Fire in the Belly by Sam Keen. Reclaiming masculinity.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 01:12 PM
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I've been MGTOW for a long while now. I always joke by saying if I had listened to Society I'd be working on my second divorce by now.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 01:07 PM
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Came across this article that has some insights about why women cut their hair. http://www.andtheylivedhappilyeverafter.com/when-she-cuts-her-hairlook-out.html
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 01:44 PM
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I remember being at Best Buy just killing time, browsing, picking up some movies or new music when I saw it: a guy in his mid 30s looking at the game aisle. By the way he was dressed it was obvious he was not only unmarried, but also without a girlfriend...and probably had been for a long time. What his appearance communicated was social awkwardness and lack of positive female-attracting qualities. To summarize his appearance: jeans, running shoes, flannel shirt, baseball hat and glasses. Not ex…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 01:36 PM
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The older I get the more important personality has become. Ever been around a girl who at first wasn't all that in the looks department, not ugly but just didn't really do it for you? But yet the girl had a great personality, was fun and nice to be around. The more time you spent talking to her the more you like her and the more attractive she becomes. That's happened more than once to me.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 01:27 PM
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Funny how while in a relationship they'll pack on the pounds, but after the breakup they lose weight and workout at a feverish pace as if to make the ex jealous while simultaneously trying to trap the next sucker with their toned bodies. Nice body and pleasing personality = demo mode Lets herself go, sh*t tests & megabitch = full version.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 06:19 PM
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They're attracted to the kind of guys they "shouldn't" (logically) want, and try to turn them into the kind of guys they "should" (logically) want. If they succeed in turning them into the kind of guys they "should" want, they become disgusted and leave for the kind of guy they "shouldn't" want. For women in this area emotions rule over logic every time.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 06:34 PM
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I've noticed a long while back how women generally get kinda...goofy, for lack of a better word, when they enter their 50s.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/14 07:56 PM
1

"You can condition those negative habits out of you, as well as condition positive ones into you, with a little help of classical conditioning" To quote some Eastern philosophy, "We are what we think, having become what we thought." Dhammapada 1. This is so true. I think by default most of us have a negative thought train running in the background at all times. The more we repeat something to ourselves, whether it is positive or negative, the more it becomes our reality. I've found binaural beat…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 01:52 PM
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James Bond is an excellent study in Alpha male and holding frame. Watch the Bond movies specifically for how he interacts with women. Study the scenes. Dissect. Learn. He is 100% RP. The epitome of self-confidence. For me the Daniel Craig Bond really illustrates Alpha qualities the best of all of them. Just my opinion though.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 01:48 PM
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"Let off some steam Bennett." Gotta love 80s era Arnie.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 01:36 PM
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"...They gradually start talking to more and more people, finding comfort in the fact that it’s fun having random convo’s..." I've always found it hard to become interested in BS small talk. I feign interest and go though the motions. Want to really grab my interest, then let's talk philosophy or deep life topics, not BS pop culture. I have however started to force myself to have more and more random conversations with strangers. Get out of my comfort zone and practice conversational skills so a…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 06:50 PM
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Congrats on discovering TRP and making changes to improve yourself. One of the self-improvement courses I bought in this area was from a guy named Carlos Xuma. Something he mentioned was that as you are transforming yourself the women in your life will try hard to keep you where you were. You're on the right track. Be selfish. Put yourself first. Say no and don't elaborate. Don't be a doormat. Realize your worth and command respect. Keep up the good work.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 11:25 AM
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Exactly. That event was way back in high school and when I was still in my clueless nice guy beta phase and had yet to discover the Red Pill. I decided then that I didn't want to act like an idiot and make a fool of myself just to get girls to like me. Looking back, I would have been better off had I done so.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 05:19 PM
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"...she will get addicted to these emotions and thus addicted to you." She'll associate those feels with you and become addicted to those feels, not you.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 12:09 PM
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Back in high school one of my friends was among some girls in the stands at one of our team's football games. He was acting like a fool but yet because he was making the girls feel something, they were eating it up. I thought to myself how could girls want someone who acts like an idiot over someone who was laid back and calm and methodical.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 12:03 PM
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Good idea. Anything you can use to project confidence in yourself is good.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 11:27 AM
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I'll look through my books I have for the answer, but if I remember right I think it conveys to her that you are thinking about kissing her by looking at her lips. It "plants" the idea in her head and interrupts her thoughts. Jedi mind trick kind of thing. I'll report back when I dig up the answer.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 11:26 AM
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I think what facial expression I have at the time helps in this regard. There is that vibe you get when maintaining eye contact the other person also feels. Has something to do with the eyes considered to be the window to the soul...or so the saying goes. How long should you maintain? Depends on the scenario. In conversation with a girl you like? Don't break contact first. Keep a smile or a playful smirk on your face, or convey a seductive look on your face when talking to her. I think this help…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 11:09 PM
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When walking look forward not down. Lead with your pelvis and not your head, i.e. lean back a little. Leading with your head implies you think too much, while leading with your pelvis implies you are sexually confident. Walk with a purpose. Make every step count. Take up space. Keep your body language open. Look people in the eye when talking to them. Eye contact is a very powerful tool when used correctly. When talking to a girl do the triangle with your eyes: look at her left eye, then look at…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 05:47 PM
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"...which is the only thing your average woman is bringing at all." She will also be bringing this to the table: self-created drama, endless tests, making mountains out of molehills, analyzing every word you say from five different simultaneous directions (synonyms don't exist in a woman's mind), and all the crap she is going to put you through. But I do get your point.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 05:39 PM
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My cousin who was RP aware thought I'd benefit from it and he pointed me in this direction. He was right. If only my awakening had been a lot sooner.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 10:09 AM
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Any guys who meet her song criteria will not get her panties wet, i.e. Beta Blue Pill. Any guys who are Alpha Red Pill and treat her like crap and like she's only good for a fuck toy and she'll go weak at the knees.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 11:35 AM
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Of the ones you mentioned I've read Marcus Aurelius. Meditations was great. I bought Being and Nothingness but have yet to start it. I had trouble making it through Kant's Critique of Pure Reason. I always underline and dogear my pages. From time to time I'll revisit my bookmarks.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 12:17 AM
1

My philosophy professor truly loved his job. It was a great class.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 12:13 AM
1

Read The Bhagavad Gita and Dharma Bums. Eastern religions and thought really resonate with me. After reading The Dhammapada it was like a light going off. Definitely a desert island book for me. You might like Dharma Punx.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 12:09 AM
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The Dhammapada (Eknath Eswaran translation) Anything by Schopenhauer, The Secret Teachings of All Ages, The Upanishads, The Secret Origins of The Bible, An Introduction To Modern Philosophy
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 12:03 AM
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Congrats. Your worldview is forever altered for the better. It's amazing how you see now what was always staring you right in the face the whole time. For me it's almost as though I can now see a few moves ahead, or see a few available options for female behavior and know that they will choose one of the options always. I wish I had learned RP knowledge twenty years ago, but am grateful to have found it nonetheless. Never stop improving yourself.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 05:16 PM
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Honestly one of the best things I've ever done for myself was taking a philosophy class in college. It expanded my mind immensely, and the thirst for knowledge was insatiable. I read numerous philosophers and even ventured into world religions. I can not stress how much this improved my outlook on life and my inner game as far as it related to life. When I think of picking up a new book to read, I always first think of philosophy or a religious book of some sort. The unexamined life truly is not…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 05:09 PM
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Exactly. Just last night I was watching Rick Steve's Europe and this episode he visited Iran. I purposely watched the episode as a study in gender roles. I noticed how the men and women knew their roles and didn't deviate from them. The women followed the rules. There was order. The women didn't try to rebel against the established order, nor did they seem oppressed at all. The women he spoke to spoke freely and genuinely seemed happy, not oppressed. They seemed happy with their lot in life. Now…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 10:59 AM
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Exactly. 41 here and feel the same. I'd rather play my guitar, write songs and record some music at home. Pour my energy into that. If I happen to get lucky then it's a bonus. Funny though as how my mindset has changed through RP to one of primarily DGAF, now I notice more girls are interested. I think knowing what to expect, i.e. tests, self-created drama, craziness, brattiness, etc., etc., etc. makes me ask myself if I want to deal with their BS or any potential Stage Five Clingers.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 05:38 PM
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Guitar player and songwriter here who looked back at the lyrics I wrote pre-RP and think, "Geez." I would get oneitis real bad & write a song about the girl. Thank God I never gave any of the songs to the girls. Even became more than just friends with a girl I worked with a few years back. I was just part of her carousel ride, but was totally in love with her. Well as she was about to move back home and start a new job I wrote a little poem-ish thing about the our time together. Again thank God …
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 05:21 PM
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You'd get the same reaction if you mentioned you just won the lottery.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 11:15 PM
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Yeah, I remember that. Great movie. For a 9 year old boy, this was one those movies you just had to ser. Phoebe Cates coming out of the pool was worth the price of admission.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 11:09 PM
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To update the movie according to AWALT & RP knowledge, the caption at the end should read that Stacy grew tired of Ratner's continued failure of her tests. Ratner became even more spineless, supplicating and beta, being a clueless beta after all. Stacy cheated on Ratner multiple times seeking Alpha poundings. Ratner took her back each time because he loved her and was clueless to AWALT and RP knowledge. Ratner is even father to four children that are, unbeknownst to him, not even his but belong …
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 05:08 PM
0

"My friend, it's only going to get worse. I've been dealing with these shit tests for 9+ years. It's hard as hell to maintain frame, but the frequent and hot sex is worth it." Devil's advocate and hypothetical here, but let's throw in the post-wall and excessive weight gain into the equation: is enduring her shit tests worth it at that point when you are a whole lot less physically attracted to her?
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 12:31 PM
3

Exactly how I feel. A perpetual teenager constantly repeating bratty behavior all because she doesn't have the brain capacity to learn from her mistakes? She learns a lesson for about three minutes at the most? And it's a bit of irony to learn these truths but yet taking steps to improve yourself makes you a better man which therefore attracts these teenage-brained women. And at that point, do you even want the hassle knowing what is in store for you?
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 11:30 PM
3

"Once you see their nature, you DO begin to feel sorry for them...but you really have to see them as children who don't know any better. It's kind of sad." They need you a whole lot more than you need them. The swirling vortex and cauldron of whirlwind emotions clouds what little reason they do possess.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 05:57 PM
0

It's situations like this that make me glad to be single. Honestly, dealing with a teenager's mind in a woman's body? Is it seriously worth it? And knowing that what you just went through will continue again and again, and that she will never learn from her behavior? And that you're legally bound to her teenager, childish behavior and how she can choose to leave and screw you over financially at any moment?
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 05:54 PM
6

"Marriage laws in most states blatantly favor women. It isn't actually 50%, but it is around 35-45%." Courts and divorce law still view women as helpless and unable to take care of themselves financially.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/14 02:06 AM
0

Don't know how old you are but 41 here and definitely remember watching it when I was younger. I see reruns sometimes and now analyze the show through the RP lens. Sam was a ladies man for sure, spinning plates, not tied down. Now enter Diane into his life. How does his behavior change when he's pursuing her and in a relationship with her? Same scenario with Rebecca. How does his ladies man mindset become altered when these two women are in his life? I think it's easy to see the alpha vs. beta b…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/14 05:38 PM
3

Having RP knowledge you understand how important that relationship is.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 12:41 PM
1

So after knowing her for so long, are you able to predict when another of her shit tests is most likely to occur?
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 11:51 AM
1

"I also came to the realization that we are NOT who we were. We are who we make ourselves each and every moment." To quote The Dhammapada "We are what we think, having become what we thought." Mindset is so important. Congrats on the change. Great post.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 11:44 AM
-2

Yeah. I discovered getfreakybig.com. Am currently trying out Testanobol. I don't want to become Hulk endomorph or anything. Just nicely toned lean muscle/Height weight proportionate/Noticeable that I work out while in clothes. I'm getting there. Lifting heavy with the image of how I want to look in mind. Internalizing RP truths has really helped. Once I get the body where I want it to be: look out. To borrow a phrase from Jerry Stiller in The Heartbreak Kid, I'll be crushing lots of pussy.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 05:58 PM
1

It's also important to remember that as you are improving yourself through RP, the women in your life will want to keep you where you are. At first they will not buy your new attitude toward them. Don't worry. Just keep it up.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 05:51 PM
3

Guys, I'm 6'-6" but have always been on the thin side. I do lift and have some muscle tone. But generally lack of self confidence stemmed from not being happy with the way I look. Combine a skinny guy who was very shy with beta nice guy traits? Yeah, not exactly a lady killer. I've internalized a lot of TRP since being here for a few months now and I do feel an internal shift has occurred. I've always been mindful of my posture and body language since I learned about how important it is. Even th…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 05:39 PM
4

"One of the reasons there is a higher rate of divorce is because people are living longer..." Two major reasons for women initiating divorce: 1) Women's financial independence. They're educated, have jobs and can support themselves...when they were uneducated and stayed home they were dependent on the husband for their survival. Leaving really wasn't an option. 2) Marrying a clueless beta after her CC ride is over, then rapidly becoming disgusted with his lack of Alpha traits and continued faili…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 12:55 PM
12

Brazilian Butt Lift is THE program to improve the butt.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 12:47 PM
1

What about simplifying it to something like: Man's brain = logic and reason. Woman's brain = feelings and emotions.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 09:38 PM
1

"It's like you either have to be really serious or really funny to get them to see the shit that flies out of their mouths sometimes." Remembering Jack Nicholson's line in As Good As It Gets definitely applies at all times with women. When asked by a female fan how he writes women so well he says, "I think of a man, and take away reason and accountability."
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 12:14 PM
1

This is great. Kind of a reverse shit test.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 01:53 AM
1

Give her some sweet lovin' then ram it in her ass and call her a whore.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 01:49 AM
2

Just type this in google: Were women happier before feminism?
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 01:44 AM
3

"...it benefits them very well staying married to their beta sugar daddy." As long as they can get their Alpha poundings on the side behind Beta husbands backs it works out just fine for these ladies.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 05:35 PM
5

Do you really give a shit about what feminist have to say? Feminism is the primary reason masculinity has been under assault.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 03:28 PM
6

"The thing is, by the time you figure all this stuff out, you say "fuck it, not worth it" and move on to better goals like bettering yourself and the people that you care about." By bettering yourself and focusing on you first you become more attractive to women. It's ironic how not making them the focus of your life, and really treating them as a fringe benefit of having improved yourself and having made an awesome life, that they find you more attractive. It puts them in the position of qualif…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 03:16 PM
3

"Never fully satisfied, she always keeps an eye out for a better option." Ain't that the truth? All the more reason to always be gaming her so to speak. Be on top of your game at all times. Her loyalty to you is tied to the number and quality of feelz you provide her. "She loves those vagina tingles you make her feel. But it's the attraction she loves, not you. A guy is just the conduit to reach the emotions she craves." It's all about those feelz. It's hard to accept that we're just being used …
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 03:09 PM
4

The media is always cheerleading for women to succeed and pushing the equality myth. They so want women to succed in traditionally male-dominated endeavors. They make a big deal about the first woman this, the first woman that. Blah blah blah. Danicka Patrick sucks as a driver but is probably a good cook. Women should stick to what they're good at. I truly believe they were all a lot happier before feminism happened.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 01:19 PM
2

"I think as soon as you've had sex, it seems really amazing for maybe a few days, then it dawns on you that it doesn't mean as much as you had imagined,..." Exactly. There is such a build up in the mind of what the experience should be before the first time that the actual act rarely if ever actually lives up to that...as if we should be magically transformed somehow. I remember lying there afterward thinking, "Hmm. So that was it?" I had a great time and all but I didn't feel like I had gone th…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 11:34 AM
1

I know what you mean. I had a plate who wore a wonderbra. For 26 and one kid she had small saggers with dead nipples. Total disappointment when the bra came off. But she gave amazing head, was wild and crazy and great in bed. Gave me the best compliment I ever got from a girl. The first time we were together I saw her the next day at work and she said, "I think you tore me a little bit last night."
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 08:39 PM
12

"...while a small breasted girl might put work into optimising the rest of her body." I've noticed that girls with this feature tend to realize they need to develop their personalities in order to compete. It's been my experience that these girls are usually pretty cool and fun.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 05:21 PM
1

"Only add disclaimer, that ending takes place 15-20 years later than the rest of the flick." And if you think about it, women "settle" for guys with those traits only because they know they are no longer desired by the alphas they really still want to be with. It doesn't take long for women (who rode the CC too many times) who marry a BB guy to become dissatisfied with his lack of alpha traits. And what percentage of divorces are initiated by women? If you're a recovering beta and aspiring alpha…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 12:57 PM
1

My older cousin (married by the way...making the best of it...can't trust her...has too much invested...cheaper to keep her...too old to start over) turned me on to this. He emailed me saying how wise I was for never getting married, but that he thought this would help me. I knew a little bit of this stuff. Scratching the surface really, but did not have the in-depth knowledge of TRP available to me. Now I spread the RP word as much as I can.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 12:42 PM
1

It's shit like this that makes me think the BS just isn't worth it and the easy, hassle-free MGTOW life is the way to go. Women should compliment your life not complicate it. Wish I would have learned RP stuff a long time ago. It all makes sense and the next gf I have will get a full dose of the RP tactics from me. By the way OP, have you ever studied her father and that relationship for insight into her behavior?
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 10:43 PM
5

Life is so simple and uncomplicated without a woman in it.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 01:51 AM
2

"Women are basically adult children. Treat them as such." This is so true. So so true.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 06:08 PM
1

Remember one of the basic tenets of TRP: a woman is the most responsible teenager in the house. You get more of the same behavior you deem acceptable. "They only learn the lesson for a few days." Doesn't that mean they never really learned the lesson in the first place?
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 06:05 PM
3

Just go cold on her. Take a long time to respond to her texts. Don't call her. Purposely miss her calls. Call back hours later. Show her you aren't afraid to lose her, that you do have a life apart from her and that you have options. Call her back hours later at a bar while you're among a group of females and make sure she overhears it. It kind of seems like she's trying to draw out your feelings and by discussing the way you feel about her you lost the test. You need to become a challenge. Funn…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 06:00 PM
4

Funny how women care so much about their real number AFTER the fact and act ashamed of it, but not WHILE they're riding the CC.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 05:51 PM
6

Ha. Remember in Clerks when Dante finds out his gf's number? He yells at her as she's leaving, (paraphrasing here) "Try not to suck any dicks on your way through the parking lot."
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 05:49 PM
1

The anger phase is important. It's the start of killing off the old belief system and the transformation of the old clueless beta nice guy persona. We should be angry for being lied to for all these years. Get angry, but channel that anger into improving yourself.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 12:02 AM
2

Turnabout is fair play after all. It's poetic justice. It must be a rude awakening realizing that the only guys they can get interested in them (if any at all) are the same type of guys they never actually wanted when they were young and still pretty. I bet they feel as though they settled for Mr. Dull Clueless Beta Boring Nice Guy who doesn't really get their panties wet. After years of these guys failing their tests and becoming thoroughly emasculated, these women will be longing for an alpha …
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 11:59 PM
1

"Now they are invisible to all men." You'd think the sisterhood would teach seminars on this stuff. Not that it would get through to any of them.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 11:47 PM
1

"...wait until middle age. Women are ignored and avoided because their bitchiness has grown to stratospheric levels." I'm 41 now and can largely concur. Either their bitchiness is out in plain sight, or they realize their beauty years are behind them and have learned to adapt as best they can, i.e. conceal the bitchiness as much as possible and play nice while on the hunt for the next Mr. Right. Some are cool though and realize the tables have turned. It's a great feeling knowing they sense the …
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 11:45 PM
1

Why would Mr. Stable even consider a recovering slut? Hopefully Mr. Stable isn't a clueless beta.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 11:37 PM
8

Knock women off their pedestals by asking for a picture of them without makeup. Ask them for a picture of what they look like when they wake up. Realize that most hotties you see need a lot of help from makeup to get there. Keep this in mind when talking to them and NEVER allow yourself to be mesmerized by her beauty. The beauty you see in public is just the demo version.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 01:11 PM
0

Yes I understand that but my comment is more about what little you get from a woman versus everything you have to put up with in order to get it. A basic part of TRP is realizing women can't love us the way we want. If I'm going to be constantly tested then I want a whole lot more for my troubles. My life right now is really simple and uncomplicated. Doesn't anybody else view constant testing as more like a neurotic behavior? So I got an A+ plus on my test. Now take it again? Don't the results o…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 01:04 PM
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I think I'm at about the same stage as you or maybe a little further. I just observe women with a smirk, sometimes with disgust and other times with disdain. My greatest negative energy is directed at the pretty ones, as in they have to qualify themselves and really work for my attention. I think it's important to direct what you described you're feeling at them. It's a bit of an edge that wasn't there before and they'll sense you're different...you're not falling for their charms now. I was alr…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 04:13 AM
2

"...and ABOVE ALL, primacy of feelings." Yep. As a form of research, next time you are around a group of women, or watch an infomercial aimed at women, pay attention to how many times they say, "I feel". "it makes me feel so..." or "I just felt so..." I saw one weight loss product commercial where one of the ladies said, "I lost twenty pounds and I feel amazing."
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 12:43 PM
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This applies to just about everything. The phrase I came up with is: Anticipation is often better than acquisition. Once you acquire it, the novelty soon wears off and you're on to the next thing you think will fill the void. It's an endless cycle.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 05:24 PM
14

She's only in awe of him because she's the one overweight and he's in shape and takes care of himself. Notice the part about how other women look at him? She's afraid he'll leave her for a younger more attractive woman. Once she gets back in shape, she'll feel differently and start to take him for granted, but then again she's a married mother...exercise and getting back in shape aren't even on her priorities list.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 12:40 PM
1

Yes, when something is given to you it has less value than the same thing you had to work for.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 12:19 PM
2

I was equating the authoritarian/disciplinarian aspects of the father with the jerk's behavior and then it just made sense why women would find the jerk attractive. It had never dawned on me before why it worked so well.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 12:12 PM
1

For me it was more of a disillusioned phase and difficulty letting go of my idealized beliefs about women. Once that veil is lifted though there is no turning back.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 05:54 PM
1

Your inner state is projected out into the world and people pick up on it. It's like a vibe you put out there. Ever been around a clinically depressed person? Feel their misery while you're in their presence? Been around a really miserable, angry person? Pick up on that vibe while you're in their presence? It's the same with feeling lonely. People will pick up on it. Right now I think it's a case of fake it till you make it, and never let 'em see you sweat kind of thing. Just remember that this …
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 12:28 PM
2

"I fucking HATE small talk." AMEN to that. I can't stand it either and hate that it is a necessary evil. I try to feign interest while I'm engaging in it but really despise it. Why can't people talk about important things? One thing I noticed back in HS was how a friend of mine was making an ass out of himself in the bleachers at a football game. He was mingling with a group of girls and being a moron...but yet the girls were just eating it up. I thought, "Really? How fucking stupid are you girl…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 02:21 AM
3

Are there any examples pre-feminist movement of clueless beta nice guys being the hero in TV and movies? I haven't managed to research it, but it's a hunch. Go back and watch reruns of B&W TV from the late 50s and early 60s. Remember how Ward was represented in Leave it To Beaver? The wife did not question his authority or undermine him. How about how Chuck Connors was portrayed on The Rifleman? Stoic, Masculine, Take no crap and stand up for what's right. Watch Steve McQueen on Wanted Dead or A…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 12:43 PM
6

"I asked her what type of men she likes, and she said "an older guy who takes care of me". Surrogate father figure/protector-provider. Ask her first to describe her father's personality traits, then ask if that is also her perfect guy. I bet it's close. I bet she's insufferable to be around. I work with a post-wall woman. 58 years old, loud at times, acting inappropriate for her age (constantly trying to assert her sexuality or should I say desperately trying to pretend she has any), and constan…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 12:14 PM
4

"Most women melt under the pressure of being tested, while feeling strong attraction for the man who can dominate them by flipping the script and challenging her." I've always used the reverse psychology approach when I realize people are doing things simply to get a reaction or desiring a certain outcome with their behavior. By not giving them the reaction they're looking for, I turn the tables and win their game.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 11:57 AM
3

Next time you hear a group of women talking, listen for how many times they say the words "feel", "felt" or "feeling". I always liked this illustration. http://www.bforbel.com/2013/12/the-emotions-in-a-mans-day-vs-a-womans-day.html
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 11:49 AM
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I had no idea women tested men. No clue about that stuff until a few years ago. I'd say most clueless beta guys aren't aware of this phenomenon either. And when you figure women initiate divorce 80% of the time, it's a no brainer that's this information is largely unknown to clueless beta husbands who married a recovering slut. Women initiate divorce after years of testing their husbands, emasculating them, and finally being so repulsed by what they have become. And that's not even mentioning ho…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 05:40 PM
2

Those trendy soy lattes will up a guy's estrogen levels as well. http://www.menshealth.com/nutrition/soys-negative-effects
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 05:26 PM
1

Anything that forces you out of your comfort zone is good. I think you have to put yourself in uncomfortable positions so that you can grow. I play guitar and it's just usually writing songs at home and playing for fun. I fill in for a band with some of the guys at work from time to time. Being on stage in front of people is hard when you're not used to it and the stage fright is uncomfortable, but it's one of those things I need to do to grow. The company picnic is coming up in two weeks and th…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 05:16 PM
1

I've never run after them when they have an emotional outburst. I've always liked the reverse psychology approach. When you realize that when anyone does something solely to get a reaction, by not giving them what they want you win the game. Looking back on being a kid you can see how little girls pull this crap to get what they want. They never change.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 06:09 PM
2

I can say that, even though I am still improving and am not quite where I need to be yet, I have noticed a difference. I keep RP knowledge in mind at all times and use that as a filter to process my interactions with women. It's amazing what this insider information does for me. It's like seeing three moves ahead, finally having the rule book. I'm firmly in the DGAF mode at all times and it has this cool effect of giving off this positive vibe people pick up on...especially women. I was at the c…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 06:02 PM
1

You could have said, "It is all just an act and yet you keep falling for it."
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 05:49 PM
2

Before I even knew about frame I held it in a situation. Here's the setting: a girl I was seeing was over late at night, I don't remember what was said but it was along the lines of her calling my bluff. I held firm, she stormed out of my place with heavy steps late at night and slams the door hard enough to shake the entire building of a condo complex. She sits in her car waiting for me to chase after her. Not happening. I don't reinforce tantrum behavior and never chase after them when they ha…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 05:44 PM
1

Now that a guy is aware of them he should expect them and keep them in mind at all times as a likely explanation for when she does something where he has to ask what is up with her behavior. Is what she just said or did a complete 180? Most likely a test. I agree that sometimes they just want to stir things up to experience an emotion. Perfect way to explain why they prefer to be with a jerkhole over a nice guy because at least the jerkhole makes them feel something even if it is treating her li…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 01:09 PM
1

Not to mention, they haven't fully evolved into the complete b*tches they will become later in life. If we have to endure their sh*t tests, self-created drama, emotional manipulation, all the hassles and the complications that they bring to what was an easy life before they entered the picture, then at least we can enjoy their beauty and bodies while they're still in tip top shape.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 12:48 PM
4

"One need only look at a woman’s shape to discover that she is not intended for either too much mental or too much physical work." "With girls, Nature has had in view what is called in a dramatic sense a “striking effect,” for she endows them for a few years with a richness of beauty and a, fulness of charm at the expense of the rest of their lives; so that they may during these years ensnare the fantasy of a man to such a degree as to make him rush into taking the honourable care of them, in so…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 09:33 PM
1

I believe Adrian Peterson is being set up for a divorce. I believe his wife is just doing this so she can have leverage for an already-planned divorce. Anybody else sense something wrong?
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 01:38 AM
1

Yep. Alan is insufferable to watch. He never gets it.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 03:47 PM
2

I think we've all gone through the same stages. Once you get over the anger stage you'll start smiling now that you've been initiated into the secret society stage. Your whole outlook changes. You'll examine your past relationships and say, "Yep. Mmm Hmm. I see it now. How could I have been so stupid/blind/etc.?" Then you'll be smiling again knowing that you got this and will think and act differently from now on. For me it was disdain for those guys acting like morons, but yet the girls were ea…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 05:50 PM
1

I learned about the pedestal concept a few years ago and it took a long time to de-program. Old beta beliefs still clinging to life...I wasn't ready to unplug...still wanted my idealized beliefs about women to be true. Little by little I made the conscious effort to not pedestal. I can say for sure it was TRP that really lifted the veil. I love my attitude I have around women now. It's a great vibe to put out there. It's as though I'm part of the club now, have become an initiate, and see their …
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 03:49 AM
3

Just thinking here but maybe now that the veil has been lifted and you placed her on a pedestal in the past, the reality of it might be she's actually not all that. The fantasy you built up in your mind couldn't live up to reality. I would feel resentment from being in her friendzone part of it. You got out of the friend zone, flipped the script and found out she wasn't all that after all. Don't revert to beta-mode. You're treating like an alpha and she loves it. Take it for what it is. I think …
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 08:31 PM
1

I like the line from Marilyn Manson's User Friendly "I'm not in love/but I'm gonna fuck you/'til somebody better comes along."
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 02:04 PM
7

"And I'm fucking fabulous, so you'll want to be there.You coming?" Should have left off the You coming part. This implied uncertainty. "And I'm fucking fabulous, so you'll want to be there." This is stronger and more powerful. It implies the right message that you expect her to be there and are not giving her any option to the contrary.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 12:35 PM
1

"Nowadays women are married to the government" But they don't get to put the government through their shit tests. hahaha. I've even heard women say something along the lines of, "yeah I can take care of myself financially but it is nice to have a man around." Basically saying they only need a man to fill the surrogate father figure/protector role.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 12:25 PM
2

Yeah, I know. I've learned how important personality is. Beauty? I almost look at it like a handicap now. I see a pretty girl now and think with a smirk how she's in dire need of being put in her place from always being given her way. I kind of think the more beauty she has, the more she's probably controlling, manipulative, etc., etc. That kind of thing. Now this might now be the case 100% of the time, but I kind of see it as the more beautiful she is the more she's compensating for lack of a g…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 12:17 PM
7

You showed weakness, and failed her test. You are exhibiting neediness and clinginess. Show her you have a life apart from her. Go out and have fun. Meet some other girls. Show her she is replaceable. No contact until she contacts you. And when she does contact you act as though nothing happened, and act like you're having a great time without her.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 12:37 AM
1

Wouldn't thinking about how what she needs/wants in a man is a surrogate father figure/protector provider apply here, in that she does not want a weak provider/protector ever? And this could be the rationale behind the never-ending tests?I think it's wise to learn as much as possible about her childhood and continuing relationship with her father. I believe it tells a lot. My last g/f has a confrontational/strained relationship with her father. The father of her two boys was the classic badboy j…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 11:10 PM
1

Nothing wrong with MGTOW. I joke around by saying if had listened to Society I'd be working on my second divorce by now. And when you constantly hear married guys telling you to stay single? What's that tell you? I've known a few guys who appeared to have great marriages only to one day be blindsided. How many married people are truly happy, completely satisfied with their spouses, and can say their significant other more enhances than complicates their lives?
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 10:55 PM
3

Totally. Bullshit way to condition unsuspecting guys into beta thinking.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 09:13 PM
2

It's a conscious thing to slow down while you speak. I find that when I exhale I am pushing down with my stomach and it forces more bass in my voice.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 06:55 PM
13

Remember: every woman is looking for a man to put with her shit, self-created drama, and who will willingly endure her tests. Therefore, YOU are the prize and are qualifying HER. Realize just about every interaction with a woman is a test. Watch some old black and white TV westerns for good examples of positive masculine behaviors. The Rifleman and Wanted Dead or Alive are two good examples. Steve McQueen and Chuck Connors took no shit. Steve knew how to be alpha with women. Watch and learn. Obs…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 06:21 PM
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Yes and, coming from my experience, I believe it's because BP's have the incorrect, idealized view of women in mind. Either by choice or because they just haven't had the veil lifted. It's hard to change habits and beliefs you've held for a long time.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 06:05 PM
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Yep. Exactly. Women say they don't want any games but that's their whole MO when it comes to interacting with men. Seems they never grow out of the learned behavior of little girl manipulating her daddy - and therefore all men must be easy to manipulate - by being bratty, pitching a fit, self-created drama, etc. to get what she wants. I consciously keep the frame of no-compromise or caving in mind at all times when interacting with women. For example, a really young hottie (but I can see the cra…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 04:33 PM
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Don't forget about eye contact. It is a powerful tool when used correctly. Also remember to practice your deep voice when speaking. This takes daily practice, but basically speak only when exhaling. It automatically lowers your voice.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 02:43 PM
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