Three questions from the converting

kdunning · 2016-11-13T23:02:48+00:00

Some good material on LTRs

Guide by OccamsUsername: http://archive.is/1mcMY

Guide by down_with_whomever: http://archive.is/XpxvJ

Sepean · 2016-11-14T07:54:01+00:00

If you want to raise kids, do it in a nuclear family. If you want to have your freedom and fuck lots of girls, don't have kids.

dammit_redskins · 2016-11-13T23:06:05+00:00

Say she's a friend. Especially if the girl is present. Assuming things for her is the last thing you want to do.

OFAFV · 2016-11-14T02:21:49+00:00

If you are going to raise children, you will have to go LTR/Marriage route. Search up "Private Marriage", it is your best bet to avoid getting divorce raped. The only real benefit marriage has is that a Nuclear family with a good caring wife is the best environment to raise children.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2016-11-14T05:37:24+00:00

What label do you use to others to refer to plates in a social settings?

"This is {name}. She's one of mine."

or

"This is {name}. She's one of my many female fans."

or

"This is {name}."

or

"This is {name}. She's my love-slave."¹

If someone inquires if we're dating then:

"I suppose that's one way of putting it."

How is TRP compatible with those who want to father children, in terms of financial stability for the man and upbringing for the children?

As /u/kdunning advise, look up "private marriage". Blackdragon also goes into this on his blog.

Can someone please refer to core red pill material with respect to long term relationships? I'm after tried and proven criteria for drawing the line between a plate and LTR.

LTRs are TRP on hard mode. Or you could simply engage in multiple open (for you) LTRs with such number of women as you can manage. Women are willing to share a high status man.

¹ Yes, as a matter of fact, I HAVE actually done this. To pull it off, you need a plate/girl with a sense of humor and you need to say it in enough of a playful tone that it will illicit and "Oh...YOU!" out of her

whatsthisgarg · 2016-11-13T23:41:02+00:00

Your post is probably going to be deleted because it should be in askTRP; didn't you read the thing right above the box you typed all this in? Said something about personal questions. These sound like personal questions. But, anyway:

Can someone please refer to core red pill material with respect to long term relationships? I'm after tried and proven criteria for drawing the line between a plate and LTR.

It's not a game, with rules. Relax a little. You want some guidance, read therationalmale. What's the one about power in a relationship, and who cares more? You want to get a conversation going on TRP, read that, then talk about your take on it, make it a theory or field report post.

NakedAndBehindYou · 2016-11-15T06:53:27+00:00

What label do you use to others to refer to plates in a social settings?

When you introduce a girl to someone, just introduce her by name. Let the other people catch on if she's your date or plate or whatever. Usually they won't ask.

How is TRP compatible with those who want to father children, in terms of financial stability for the man and upbringing for the children?

Getting married is not recommended around here, but generally high quality women are not going to be willing to settle for a lifetime with no marriage. Thus, take the proper precautions. Get a fair prenup. Only marry a girl who is okay with that. Hold your frame and such. Always keep yourself in top condition both mentally and physically. Marriages can be successful, they just generally aren't a very good deal for men. If you're very lucky, you might find a good woman who is willing to do the "life partners but not married" thing. But that's rare.

I'm after tried and proven criteria for drawing the line between a plate and LTR.

A plate basically means you aren't emotionally committed to her. It also usually means that you're fucking other girls on the side, with or without the plate's knowledge. If you want an LTR, and plenty of guys do, just keep following the advice of TRP but stick to your one girl. You can be committed and fall in love without becoming an emotional beta.

Title	Three questions from the converting
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Date	November 13, 2016 10:44 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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