If you dont know, there is an app called "Tinder", old news now but I found about it yesterday. You have to sign in through Facebook and at first I was reluctant to activate my Facebook profile. Facebook is the fiefdom of white knights and manginas. Sadly, 100% of all girls I know are on it too and most of them use it to get instant attention.

Anyways, back to Tinder. First of all, if you haven't used the app its easy to use and has a clean UI. After signing in, I started sifting through girls in my area. In 1 hr I probably went through hundreds of faces. I liked some and declined most. Roughly liked around 1 in 20 girls i.e 5%. What I instantly realized was how the abundance mindset kicked in when the stream of faces wouldn't end.The other thing that hit me was how much aesthetics were involved. I was much more inclined to like a girl if she had a hot body vs a hot face. There was pic of a girl who had uncanny resemblance with my ONEitis and at first I thought it was really her!! It made me realize how I exaggerated my infatuation with this ONEitis. Anyways the insights were good and here are some:

  • Abundance mindset is naturally ingrained in women and not in men
  • ONEitis is not only physical but is more likely a manifestation of your own reality of the person
  • A good strong body is as important as a dominant personality
  • If someone gives you "iffy vibes" listen to your gut
  • Girls are very very similar in behavior (same corny BS disney-like quotations on their profile and same duck faces or slut poses)
  • Beauty is generic
  • All women are predictable