I’m somewhat new to RP and probably discovered it about 6 months ago.

I wish I would have discovered it much younger in life, it could have saved me a lot of time pain and heartache over the years.

I saw a post about trickle truth today and I thought the loss of my most recent plate would be a great example of AWALT and the Trickle Truths that women can put out.

Met this girl in May on an out of town day trip and get her number a solid HB7

During some heavy banter the following day she invites me back to her place.

On my drive over to meet her she decides to tell me that she has 2 young children (this is news)

I get over to her place and no kids there so that’s cool for the moment, we get frisky and then I leave later that night. [Red Flag One – Hiding Children – this story should have stopped here]

I go back to my part of the state about 1hr 45min away She says she still wants to see me and offers to come out my way next time.

We go out and have a great time and she is REALLY good at the things she does (compared to most girls in their 20’s) She wants to hang out again, I tell her that is fine but also let her know from the start that 1.) I am not driving out to see her and 2.) I am not going to get close to her children or even meet them for that matter. She cries….but later agrees.

Over the course of the summer she comes out quite a bit at odd times, day trips, day sex, sometimes spends the night on odd nights, I don’t ask a whole lot of questions because I have made it a point from the start that there is an expiration date on the relationship. (She will become unsatisfied with the rules at some point)

Then one night she starts to give me a sob story about how her boyfriend (and father of her children) cheated on her and she found out and he is still trying to be with her but she left him because it will never be the same (trickling out that there may be another man and hamstring her behavior). I don’t dive in much further because frankly I don’t care…she’s just a plate

I next her for a month or two mainly because I was busy with other plates and work [Piece of advice if you chose to next there was a reason for it, stick to it]

She hits me back up asking what I am up to. Our relationship quickly escalates to her driving 2 hours here and 2 hours back for sex again. Hamster starts spinning after a week or two and she wants to know that she is more than just a piece of ass. I calm her down and remind her about how much fun we have together. This works and the sex continues for another month.

She comes to see me one weekend and is doing some strange things. Tells me that she dropped off her kids and wanted to spend the weekend of her birthday with me. She is getting a lot of texts that she is trying to respond to when I am not looking [not that I care]. Asks me if I own a gun [I do, but weird]. Then she leaves for the weekend and I get a phone call from her Husband who wants to kill me.

Turns out I’ve been railing his wife for the last 6 months. She bounced on a romantic dinner that he had reserved for her on her birthday. Left the kids with him and came and spent her birthday with me, getting defiled.

She tells me that they have been separated and he was her boyfriend. He tells me they are married and sleep in the same bed (same bed I destroyed her in, thank god only once). In the long run I made some very poor and some very good decisions. Sticking with her just for the ass was a poor decision and ultimately a selfish one. “Once you say next, you should block her texts”

The decision to distance myself from her, her life, and her children was ultimately a great one.

In the end I got more spank bank worthy sex than I could have asked for, and I was not the one who had a hot mess on their hands when the fun train crashed.

I feel really bad for her husband…I should know, I was him not even 4 years ago back before I started to discover RP truths on my own, and eventually made it here 6 months ago in my quest to find out why the same thing had happened to me with no explanation or reason for it other than me treating her like a Disney Princess. I can tell you, it was a whole lot nicer to be the other dude on the end of that phone call, and it makes me feel like I have come full circle, even though I still have a long way to go.

I learned

  1. Watch for RedFlags
  2. Small trickles of truth are the sign of a leaking damn about to come crashing down, watch for the signs
  3. If a woman agree's to ridiculous terms in a relationship there is a reason for it, and it is most likely a bad one

4. If it looks and acts like a pump and dump, leave it at a pump and dump even if they offer more

tl;dr - Got a plate, she trickled out the truth about kids and relationships, turned out she was married and hamstering AWALT I learned to watch for redflags and that women tell the truth as they see fit and in bits and pieces.