Ok, I've been mulling this over in my head for a while. I'm one of those married RP guys who found his unicorn, but that doesn't mean the game is over. I've been hearing a lot of trite advice from people, and it's actually fairly interesting how, with just a change in language, most successful dating advice becomes RP advice.

For example, "Just be yourself around her" and "Women are just people too" = "Don't put the pussy on a pedestal."

Then, I came across this article, on eHarmony of all places. Let's look at their 10 tips:

  1. Get Clear on The Red Flags That Matter Ok, you set boundaries, you stick with them, you next girls who aren't good fits.
  2. Think, At Least a Little, About What You Need Again, you're setting boundaries. You're being a bit selfish. You're not going to lose yourself in her.
  3. Be the Best Version of Yourself Be fit, be funny, be interesting.
  4. Do a Couple of Little Chemistry Checks During the Night Escalate. Learn body language.
  5. If You Don’t Want to Really Kiss Her Two Hours in… This one is pretty much self-explanatory, except why you'd be out with a girl you didn't want to kiss.
  6. Crazy Never Gets Any Better Well, that's just RP advice.
  7. Don’t say “I’ll Call You.” Dread game? Dread game.
  8. Get an Assessment from a Female Friend We all know this one is BS, but I'm including it for completeness.
  9. Do Whatever It Takes to Get Some Confidence Again, just some straight RP advice.
  10. Go Some Place You Feel Comfortable This is just another iteration of having confidence.

You guys have any other stuff?