Intro: I'm here again with my random TRP nuggets post. Actually those became 3 separate posts at some point, and I'd like to hear your feedback about whether to keep my format or just split the 3 posts. My previous posts are here:
archive.is/P1bAi
archive.is/VeuDL
Enjoy.
TL;DR: Betas suck, PUA became a new social programming and emotional indoctrination, there's nothing wrong with being angry sometimes and you should not relapse into beta behavior.
Body:
I'd like to do my opening by talking about what I call the Agents. Probably this is not a new concept nor it's well known. An Agent is an aware beta. I don't really know the concept on the first hand because I wasn't one, at least not for a long time, but I've dealt with guys like these. There are a couple types and I'll try to explain them in detail.
Bootleg Alpha: I had a friend I've mentioned in my last post. He has game, he is socially manipulative, he's fit and rich, he is super-extroverted and etcetera. But he is a beta because he has shit frame and shit mentality. Also he is a Cpt. Save-a-Hoe. He has all the qualities that makes an alpha. And he knows how to use them. But without the frame and RP knowledge, he uses them to get LTRs who don't provide sex for him. Because "He respects chastity" and he's "Bored of sex and just wants a nice girl who'd love him". Except all his girlfriends sported a solid slutface. You don't know for sure but I was positive those girls were not virgins. AWALT. On the other hand, he's pretty beta and pussy-whipped in his relationships. Mommy issues? Anyway, he is an alpha imitator and he knows how to use it for his benefit. Except with women, if you're a beta you never win with women.
Performer Beta: This is also a guy I know. There is a spectrum to this, and he's on the bad end of the spectrum. Performer Betas can be harmless. But he's a slimebag. He puts on his nice face and feigns care and interest for all people around him.. while stabbing them in the back. You could tell how he didn't care about people and it's only a stage. He communicates shallowly and for sake of manipulation. An expert at powertalk. Flawless social game. For a non-aware person, he'd make sure you stay plugged in. Just like Agents in the movie Matrix. What differentiates this guy from the Bootleg Alpha is, he is aware of the nature of beta-hood. Instead of improving himself and sparking attraction in women, he chooses the other route. He is rich anyway so he shows it off, he makes himself look more beta than he actually is. Wears average nice (and rich) guy sweaters, sports a "cute" hairstyle, he always "listens and cares about women", and he makes them feel safe. Shares cute snaps all the time. He tries to make a friend of mine (HB9) into an LTR now. And she says she is not attracted to him but she feels so safe around him!. Incredible comfort game. And she considers a relationship with him and she takes it slow. What a surprise. Again, AWALT. Yet he is okay with that because that was what he wanted. That was what he planned. I know he's not that beta. He is a snake.
Voluntary Beta: Usually, those are the guys who've been so fucked over by PUA stuff they're into lovey-dovey PUA stuff now. You know, the creepy New-Age shit like "Send your rays of love from your heart to her", "Give her your masculine gift of love!", "Looks doesn't matter bro, all that matters is your heart! Go and open your heart to her!" and naive shit like that. Be Yourself ver. 3.0. They are usually timid and weak men and they're easy to exploit. What makes them Agents are, they're aware of the nature of women. Even though they go through beta-rage phases, they're okay with what women do. They're all okay and they actively supress their anger. Like you wouldn't believe. He feels thankful to bitches who fucked him over, he tells women he is their love servant, and he says he would openly give away his love to everyone even if they wronged him. But not in Jesus-y way. In a "I am a slave" way, mostly. Those guys are usually not dangerous or evil like Performer Betas. But they just "live to serve women", they hate misogynists, and they'd find TRP "overly-masculine, vulgar and so loveless!". So, who would they side with, let's say, if a woman accuses you of raping her? Exactly.
The Addict: Those are also aware of the RP knowledge to some degree. They're closer to the PUA mindset rather than the "normie" mindset. PUA has pretty BP aspects, which I will adress in the next part. As I said, the Addict is aware to many aspects of human sexuality. He knows that the alpha dog gets the bitches. He knows women fuck around. He knows that there are no "good girl"s. Even though seeing that, they are addicted to their beta life and behavior, which I will mention at the 3rd part of this post. They are just addicted to it and they don't want to change their ways. They're happy like that. They always have an excuse if you were to listen. Only if I was rich. Working out is not important. Girls should love us being ourselves or I don't want them anyway. I LIKE gaming/weed/eating junk, why would I give up on that for pussy!?!. And etcetera. This is half of their addiction. Their other addiction is to the beta sexual script, which is you be nice and suck up to her and expect sex in return. They know they shouldn't, but they do those things anyway. Buying gifts to women. Treating them dinners. Being overly nice. Being too respectful, and list goes on. Nothing wrong if you're trying to eliminate those behaviors from your life because all of us can fuck up from time to time. But the Addict fools himself by thinking NAWALT is a thing. He lacks the vital RP frame and mindset. He's more harm to himself than you, but he is a system-aware beta.
How to deal with them? Hold frame and don't think you can learn from a Bootleg Alpha because he does not have any shit to teach about being an alpha. Because he's not. Be wary of the slimy Performer Betas. Yet if you observe you can learn a few things about being a Machiavellian but I doubt it. Don't buy into the crap of the other two types, obviously.
This part of my post is about the BP components of the PUA, and the masculine rage. And how those two topics interact. Initially I planned them to be 2 different topics but in our day there is a strong connection between those two.
So, what's so BP about PUA? This part of the post is especially for people who still think PUAs are good after the incident with the Simple Pickup simps. PUA is for getting women, so it can't be that beta, right? First wave PUA was especially beta and bluepill. With all of that creepy NLP, hypnosis and peacocking stuff. Tricks for demonstrating high value (but God forbid, not actually having it). Basically it was (and still is) to find a way for low value men to get laid. The Beta Fucks. As a sidenote, before beating up all this PUA stuff so much, I gotta say that sometimes they make good points and some stuff is relatively useful. And most of us start from there. I have watched over hours of PUA videos myself, in the past. There's a spectrum of PUAs, from the "cool enough guys who game women" to "clueless men-children who just want to get laid" to "people who knowingly deceive others to acquire material wealth", from better to worse respectively. Anyway, what's so BP about PUA? First off, we said it started as the most beta thing in the world. Secondly I want to state that many PUAs want to indoctrinate a false attraction model. Which is Success with women = Game. In reality, it'd be something like Success with women = SMV x Game. Right alpha frame and mindsets are also crucial. Now just go into Youtube. Type PUA. Watch a random video. Most likely they'll start their video by preaching the false attraction mindset. Pure Kool-Aid shit oftentimes. "If you want women you only need game". Why? Because how can you sell your products to fat, awkward virgins? By telling them to drop video games and porn, stop smoking weed, lift and eat healthy? That wouldn't bring too many dollars would it? Of course you do it by saying game is the only thing that matters. Funny thing is most PUAs have their SMV on point. On that point they either don't really know about attraction and they're as clueless as women, or they're fucking people up. Let's move on to our next point.
PUA promotes a cult mindset. Our cult leader goes on stage. Guys start to applaud and scream like crazy. Our alpha yells, welcomes everyone, does a few wacky things. People laugh. And he starts to preach. And, you don't get to have a different opinion. Importance of SMV? "Nah man only chodes think like that". How about expanding social circle and getting women that way? "Why, can't you go do cold approaches? Are you a pussy?". Maybe approaching all the time is not the answer? "Drop your ego, man. Of course you should approach 7/24, everywhere". If you have a different opinion, you're a chode and that's it. What cultivates a cult-like environment is the common language. "Neg her bro, self-amusement, always be opening, give her a high five and spin her around, do the claw!". Besides, you'd know which group I'm talking about, but most of the PUA forums have a strong censorship mechanism. If the man does not like what you think, your post is gone. Don't worry though, we can give you a coupon if you'd like to buy our products! So, basically raising little beta slaves who act alpha is one of the BP aspects of PUA. Also, on a slightly different note, being Machiavellian is also discouraged. "If you want her, just go and say that to her, that's manly". Lol.
And here comes the worst part. Emotional indoctrination and shaming. And sometimes pussy-pass in its most sinister form, disguised as "empathy". And this is where the PUA and rage topics collide. Basically, you'd be shamed and indoctrinated for experiencing normal humanly feelings. Starting from the most innocent one, the good ol' approach anxiety. Not much shaming goes on about it except a few refer to their followers as pussies who can't approach. But it's a normal humanly feeling and it doesn't need to be destroyed. It's impossible, probably. We just have to roll with it. Learn to cope. Secondly, indoctrination about women fucking around. Well, every woman fucks around, so they should go fuck around, isn't it?! Well, that's a no from me. I fuck those who fuck around a lot but I don't approve it. "You're just being judgemental, bro!". No, I just want to fuck women without worrying about STDs sometimes. I'm okay with women fucking around because that's the reality, but I don't think they should. But as our nerdlords state, they should and we should be cool with that. What is this, Being a Cuck 101? And they try to hamster it with that so-called empathy. There is even a "guru" who suggests making your plates/GFs have sex with your friends, by actually hooking them up. "Just to get rid of the jealousy, bro!". I am speechless at the face of this unbelievable cuckoldry.
And our main topic is rage. You don't get to be angry at PUA-land. In truth, you're supposed to get angry when you learn all things you knew were lies. You should get furious when you see how women lied to you in the past. I never had one who cheated on me but a cheating girlfriend, that shit is supposed to make your blood boil. Rage, especially for those who are in the Anger Phase, is a healthy response. It's good in RPland. In BPland and PUAland, it's not. It's either "You can't get to be angry because you're an overprivilaged white cis male! Muh opressions!" or "Women are like that bro, don't get butthurt lol. Are you a loser? Have some empathy". I'd like to say that, no, you have every right to be angry sometimes. Of course doesn't mean you should hurt people but you have every right to be fucking pissed off sometimes. Repeat after me. I-HAVE-EVERY-RIGHT-TO-BE-ANGRY-SOMETIMES. She ditched you? You can yell like an old man with Tourettes if you want. She tries to blackmail you into a relationship? You can be angry. She's just a shameless fucking slut? If it makes you hard, it's all good but if it annoys you, it annoys you. Don't try to learn what to feel in situations. That's beta. That's brainwashing. That's indoctrination. That's very BP and PUA. You're not a child anymore. Find your own way and develop your own frame.
Now YELL with me. SOMETIMES I'M ANGRY ABOUT WOMEN AND LIFE AND IT'S OKAY. Then go make life better for yourself.
Men are looking for excuses to act beta. This is what's going on in your brain if you're all new to TRP, or if you're still plugged in. Be careful. Your mind will come up with shit. Here are some:
"We don't have to hit the GYM, women like guys with game/personality/money/status anyway"
"Well, she seems pretty decent so let's assume she is. She is now a pure and innocent virgin who is LTR material."
"Instead of getting good grades, being successful, being fit and healthy, I should go out game girls. With many women, my life will be in a better shape, right?"
"Well, by brooding in a bar with my drink and not reacting to people, I'm being pretty alpha."
"I know LDRs/GFing up a slut/forgiving her in case of immorality doesn't work usually, but she is special and it may work this time.. Let's try! No harm in trying, right?"
"I buy dinners for my dates but it's okay since I'm RP aware."
"It's okay if I smoke this cigarette, I'm not going to start again anyway, right?"
"Okay, women suck, they're all pretty much bipolar sluts, but she may be different! I want to try! I will open up to her and buy her gifts and I'll be nice to her! With the right person that should work."
As a person who've been influenced by most of the thoughts above, I warn you, you don't want to be that beta again. If you need muscles you hit the GYM. If you want more people around you, you go out and socialize. If you want more SMV you go fix things about yourself. If she wrongs you, you next her. If she gives red flags, you next her. Do what you need to do.
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