TRP primer for the collegiate guy?

SoftHarem · 2013-05-28T03:16:51+00:00

Do not under any circumstance become overly attached to a woman. You are at one of the lowest points in your dating career, and women are approaching their highest. The deck is stacked against you from day one, so I would advise casual dating and forgetting about monogamy.

Your goal is your career. School -> Network -> Career. Those are your priorities and I would ignore women unless they make it painfully obvious they want to suck your dick. You have your late 20's through the rest of your life to rack up your notch count, but do not waste your youth chasing broads.

RedSunBlue · 2013-05-28T03:08:14+00:00

I guess I'm just wondering what kind of advice a older guy might give to someone my age with regards to cultivating a TRP lifestyle.

Off the bat, there is no The Red Pill^TM anything. The red pill is an allegory for truths that are ignored by society at large, not a brand label to be applied to "acceptable" pursuits.

Girls would even ask me for my number, or pull me towards them to dance.

I also kind of want it

Do you really need someone here to connect the dots for you?

VZPurp · 2013-05-28T03:24:26+00:00

Regardless of your current circumstances, tend toward delusional self-confidence. Even if it's unwarranted, it'll convince others you are confident and then your brain will develop actual confidence. In a sense, you're reprogramming your subconscious with conscious direction.

However, you must still act on that delusion and do the bold things you want to do but the self-defeat circuit is telling you to back off / hamstering up excuses. That is the cure and where the reprogramming occurs. Recognize the self-defeat/cowardice, tell it to fuck off: You are a conqueror, an explorer, or an adventurer. The unknown doesn't scare you, it excites you. Rejection is nothing because there is so much of life, and so little time. It's a pointless thing you can shrug off as irrelevant to your interests.

Since you're a young guy surrounded by young girls, the most important thing for you to do to increase your sex life is to eat an impeccable diet and increase your muscularity. It's a huge turn on for women of all ages, but especially young women. They love to touch a man's muscular body; it makes them feel protected and desired.

You want to maximize the traits women are attracted to. This does not require gimmicks - just the combination of studying, field work, and self-improvement.

I noticed in your post, you focus on things that you can't change. That attitude does nothing but hold you back. As long as you are relentlessly improving yourself, don't have a single drop of doubt or self-defeat in yourself.

Girls who you pull in and are attracted to you will want to get fucked senselessly by you. They'll want to be fucked on the floor next to your parents' office room if it came down to it.

What will turn them off dramatically is you caring about that stuff, because you will communicate insecurity covertly to them if your brain is thinking like that. Women are expert covert communicators, highly tuned to analyzing your behaviour. If you are overtly insecure as well, then it's totally game over.

There is a lot of information on pick up, but I personally found the most useful to me was getting a good grip on reality and what women are attracted to, and then pushing myself out of my comfort zone. Gimmicks would only work if you bought your own bullshit - after all, you'd pretty much just be communicating incongruence. I'm not much a fan of them. I like to roll out my own style.

A realistic assessment of yourself is also in order. Knowing where you currently stand, and comparing that against where you want to be, often shows what you need to work on the most.

Everyone is going to be at a different starting point due to this reason, but in general the core traits that women are attracted to (and which are beneficial to your success in life as a man), don't really change.

I suggest reading the sidebar and the blogs linked there. I personally found heartiste and rationalmale to be the most useful. Keep lifting.

Finally: Spend time going out! I don't care what major you're in. You're either using your time inefficiently or just using it as a crutch to allow your brain to insulate itself from the outside world. You will NEVER improve if you don't get out there in the field, talk to other humans, and do fun social activities.

This transformation improves all aspects of your life. Knowing how to navigate social spheres and take risks is critical to success as part of a social species.

2013-05-28T09:03:49+00:00

One of the reasons for this kind of anxiety is that the higher education racket sells itself to teenagers as a one-stop-shop for all of their formative young-adult experiences. That's why their brochures have pictures of ivy-covered buildings (Tradition of Excellence, explains the caption) and attractive young couples sitting on the grass (Friends for Life).

They want to make you think you're a dull person if you treat it a business transaction where you (or your parents) hand over money in exchange for being taught useful skills. But that's the sane way to treat it. Or treat it like a day job: you hope to find interesting people in your workplace and to have some fun, but that's not primarily what you're there for, and you wouldn't feel disappointed in yourself or let down by your employer if your workplace didn't provide you with all of your social or sexual needs.

favours_of_the_moon · 2013-05-28T03:16:05+00:00

Yeah roll with it dude.

Make some memories and have a GREAT time.

Advice for collegiates, do a little extra reading. Study up on tangents that interest you. Take an actual intellectual and personal interest in the subject matter. Spend some time in the library. It will pay HUGE dividends down the road.

30303030303030 · 2013-05-28T08:39:52+00:00

Don't refuse yourself women cause they are at their absolute best at your age.

Live with your parents until you finish school, work only during weekends, grades are your n1 priority, self development and life plan second and there's the place for pussy. Do yourself a favor and fuck them cause you will wish down the road you fucked more when they were <25. Don't waste time on them, don't overly chase but do your moves.

There is a time for everything, going out for few beers and having some fun as well. You might not want to waste it on tv or watching your ceiling but there is time for pussy. Just don't give it to big of a value, still, with amount of sluts (sure, banging "bad boys"...) around you should get some as well.

Also, don't fap, don't watch porn. http://yourbrainonporn.com/

_Molon_Labe_ · 2013-05-28T18:49:52+00:00

Bang anything that moves. Get regularly tested. Use condoms. Pull out. Do not under any circumstances catch feelings. It will ruin your chances and probably your education. If someone gets pregnant [and why are they, you're using condoms and pulling out,] pull a hail mary and gtfo.

Lift. Read. Study. Work if you can. Save if you can. Get a degree, network, and get internships and a job secured. Pussy is pussy. Your life is your life. Fuck pussy, don't fuck your life.

Title	TRP primer for the collegiate guy?
Author	RNAofYouListening
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Date	May 28, 2013 2:56 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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