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"Uniqueness", Popularity, "Being yourself". Who you are? How much do you let the ideals of others define you?

Di-onysos

July 8, 2015
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Title "Uniqueness", Popularity, "Being yourself". Who you are? How much do you let the ideals of others define you?
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Di-onysos

Upvotes 8
Comments 6
Date July 8, 2015 2:04 AM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3ci2yc/uniqueness_popularity_being_yourself_who_you_are/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/uniqueness-popularity-being-yourself-who-you-are.34446
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[–]OverTimeAgain4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I appreciate it a lot. The meta stuff is always my favorite. A lot of redpill seems so superficial so basic. It is nice to see there are people who see beyond the veil of vagina.

[–]AureliusThunderkok2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You're post disappeared huh?! Funnily enough that happens quite often to pro-authenticity posts on TRP. Must be a glitch.

[–]Di-onysos[S] -2 points-1 points0 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Less to do with "authenticity" and more with "eliminating cognitional errors".

[–]datdude20141 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

This is a good read.

I want to add that when you have plates and high notches it's easy to go back to your roots. But sometimes having alpha mentality is crucial in the beginning to get you going from the beta phase.

In short, push yourself to alpha status as hard as you can, then when you have reached your goal, scale back some and enjoy the ride.

[–]Di-onysos[S] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If you're a beta and can't get laid, then you probably should get your shit together.

But when you have your shit together, what then? Where will you move on from there? Arrested development is a bitch. It is essentially a strength-based addiction. You stick to whatever you're good at. If you become this "alpha" that you've always wanted to be, it's easy to get stuck there, to never "move on".

Once you get there, you will realize sooner or later that this "alphadom" is as inherently empty as everything else. It is not the "end of everything"-state, pinnacle of personal development. This is when you realize that you must be constantly moving towards something, constantly reinventing yourself, be in a constant state of inner creative destruction.

You could say that the greatest enemy to personal development is reaching your goals. Because that invites stagnation like nothing else.

[–]Endorsed ContributorRunawayGrain0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

As a male you certainly can "be yourself" if you have the money and power to back it up. Otherwise you need a vagina to "be yourself."

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