Very new - random thoughts

pornpornpppp · 2017-05-04T18:15:01+00:00

No, you don't have to go full dark-triad to get pussy. In fact, all you need is a couple hundred bucks to buy an escort. However, if you want a HEALTHY relationship, you need to stand your own ground and not get bulldozed over and supplicate yourself before the femme.

TRP exists because modern dogma doesn't teach this, and even teaches the opposite- to be a cringey nice-guy eager on all fours to fetch anything for his mistress.

You can have a GF without respecting yourself, but you'll just be an extension of her bank account while she slams an actual chad on the side.

newName543456 · 2017-05-04T19:35:57+00:00

Do you have to be completely alpha to get a gf?

Of course not. Many beta guys have gfs.

Are these relations you really want to be in though?

I'm still holding out hope that a woman will like me for me.

To the point: abandon it. Pronto.

Now, I think women should be respected in everyday life when you're dealing with a non-sexual situation.

No disagreement there. Ultimately being openly disrespectful is a shot in the foot for you whenever you have to deal with the person again, man or woman.

GayLubeOil · 2017-05-05T10:29:28+00:00

You are too far lost in the Blue Pill to be saved. You are older than 30. Old dogs can't learn new tricks. You have an idealized image of yourself and the world. In fact you wrote my Red Pill children a cute little paragraph about how awesome you are.

You are afraid of being an asshole aka enforcing boundaries. This is beyond dangerous especially with women in your age group.

Here is how your adorable Red Pill adventure is going to end. You are going to use your Alpha PUA tricks to attract a woman. Your going to be really happy with your success.

But in reality there was no success. You are just firmly in Beta Provider zone. The succsesful person isn't you it's the woman who caught the beta provider whale.

Then over months or maybe years women will spend your money and time. You won't be able to say no because you can't enforce boundaries for fear of being a bad guy.

Also if you are taking Kabala guarenteed you surround yourself with losers. The Kabala only has meaning when you have a strong theological foundation. The people taking Kabala without the appropriate prerequisites are hollow men searching for meaning in life aka not leaders. Hence why your relationships don't last more than 6 months.

In conclusion sighn up for boxing.

MattyAnon · 2017-05-04T20:58:46+00:00

to get me to open up and not reciprocating. I think that it's a test.

It's a test. Best way is to open up a tiny bit them clamp back down on it. Tease her a bit with emotional availability, then yank it away from her.

If they want to see my sensitive side, they'll have to earn it.

Don't show them much of it, especially before sex.

Let them be vulnerable, and prove themselves to you. After they've earned it, you can open up with them.

Why are you so determined to open up to them at all???

I'm still holding out hope that a woman will like me for me

hmmmmmmm maybe a bit. Up to a point. Terms and conditions apply. Even if she does somewhat like you, it's still 100% conditional on the circumstances, subject to change, and temporary. Maybe an hour, maybe a year, maybe three years. Sooner or later it will end.

Still respect women as much as men in non-dating aspects

Respect is earned. Don't hand out unconditional respect to anyone.

When they ask you a question that's kinda boring, don't answer it

Yes. Ignore low value questions/comments, as they're beneath your value threshold.

LastRevision · 2017-05-04T22:49:49+00:00

Do you have to be completely alpha to get a gf?

I'll do you one better- you don't have to be alpha at all to get a girlfriend.

The question becomes: what kind of relationship do you want?

Any woman who has been genuinely attracted to you has been attracted to alpha male characteristics, and these characteristics lead her to believe that you were the best man she could get to date her. The younger she is, the likely more genuine this sentiment will be- older women may still be attracted to you thinking that you're the best she can do at that time, but having had more promiscuous sexual experience, you're not only competing with whom she can presently ensnare, but with every man she's ever been with. We call this concept the "Alpha Widow," and it's become a rapidly growing phenomenon in a world of free sex and online dating.

Even if a guy doesn't know he's displaying alpha male characteristics, even if he's completely unaware of the Manosphere and red pill theory, it is still what garnered genuine attraction from a woman. We call this "natural game"; and every man has developed it to some degree. I likened it to the missile launching sequence from Wargames in my blog post "The Cool Girl and the White Knight":

Sexual strategy is like that scene at the end of Wargames where Joshua the computer tries to launch nuclear weapons and start World War 3; the computer cycles-through launch codes quickly while keeping the bits of code that are a positive match. Most people unconsciously allow their brain to do this work, matching behaviors with their positive outcomes, and bookmarking those behaviors while discarding the ineffective.

Remember- beta and alpha is a spectrum; and, furthermore, each is a set of behaviors and characteristics. It's sometimes situational. When I was in high school I was the AMOG ("Alpha Male of the Group") with my friends; to a complete outsider, I'd look like some hot shit alpha, and I absolutely got pussy in high school due to this appearance. When I was in college, I struggled socially because I didn't have that same group of friends, with that same dynamic. You may find that you have an easier time displaying alpha characteristics with some girls, and not so much with other girls; this is due to the frequency, and intensity of "shit tests" the girl is giving you. Essentially a "shit test" is her trying to break-down your Alpha characteristics in order to examine their authenticity. Women love an alpha, as it speaks to a man's savvy and fit genetics, but loathe a man faking it.

Now, you can get a girlfriend without doing any of this- there are plenty of soy-filled blue pilled "Betamax" Barrys with girlfriend, but it's not because their women are genuinely attracted to them in the strictest physical sense. The girl may be misguided, low value, or with poor Barry for reasons alien from genuine attraction... and if she has any Sexual Market Value at all, she's very likely to cheat on Barry, dump Barry when someone attractive comes along, or long-con Barry and divorce rape him.

I don't know. I haven't been. Don't really want to be. Want to be my own man on my own terms.

... and it looks like you're headed in the right direction. Keep it up.

stonepimpletilists · 2017-05-05T13:11:43+00:00

Dickriding GLO... again, because he nailed it.

Do you have to be completely alpha to get a gf? I don't know. I haven't been. Don't really want to be. Want to be my own man on my own terms.

I seek the validation that only a woman can give me. I cannot explain why, I only feel it. I will provide the most basic lip service to lifting weights, because I wish to persuade you that it's important. I mention it like I read about it in a book, and use the word testosterone, because that's important to men, right?

Now i will disgregard any behaviours that come with elevated testosterone, hoping that you don't know this and call me out on it. I also hope you equate my feelings with higher testosterone, like any normal healthy man, feelings are the key. I use words that sound good. Principled... Driven. No idea what they mean, I read them in our corporate vision statement. I also stole the idea from my resume, add some action words in front of my beta behaviours, to make them sound more dynamic. Fiercely intelligent, way better than those timid intelligences. I then give a complete bullshit contrast, charismatic and awkward, because then I have all bases covered!

Now, after spending too many words describing my sensitivity, my beta behaviours, I'm telling you... I have a hard edge! I'm sensitive, charming, and awkward, but all they see is the Mighty Oak. I mean, they never touched my dick or anything, but they said nice words, which is just as good right? Perhaps my amazing job that none of you will have is a factor? ^{Oh, I know people with amazing jobs love to talk about them. I'm just going to allude to it, and hope you picture whatever your amazing job would be... thats the one I have, k?}

I just saw a post on negging, so I'll add some of that, but use the stupidest language for it. This was the Awkward I talked about it before, but trust me, it's also charismatic. I'll word it all like a writingprompt post, which means I'm not doing it, but trying my damndest to give you the same emotions as if I did.

Now here comes the hard sell. I'm telling you to act like a chick, but I'll hedge it. You won't change your mind, but I'll get you to dip a toe into acting like a whiney cunt. It's just a toe man, I swear it works!

Throw in some "Please don't doxx me ladies, I like you a lot, unlike these other guys" To cover my bases when I get popular, and then when I snag one with my 'authentic' charismaticly awkward closed openeness, I can be the same bitch I always was.

TRP has the best parlor trick, eh?

TLDR; translation from cuck to english

DigitallyDisrupt · 2017-05-04T23:20:38+00:00

We're not your journal or dear diary.

daze0fyore · 2017-05-05T17:16:26+00:00

I fucking love these "alpha" trolls. Haha.

Title	Very new - random thoughts
Author	daze0fyore
Upvotes	10
Comments	27
Date	May 4, 2017 5:49 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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