Vocal tone

favours_of_the_moon · 2013-07-06T19:30:27+00:00

There was a study I once saw comparing the fertility of men with deep voices with men with squeaky voices. LOL.

I wish I had a voice like my man Charles Woodson.

amatorfati · 2013-07-08T08:48:27+00:00

When in doubt, shut up and think a little bit longer. Don't ever say "UHHHHH" or "UMMMMMMM", that's how women speak. Speak clearly, briefly, and decisively. Don't switch sentences midstream, if you can avoid it. Follow through with a thought or don't start saying it at all.

Don't try hard to be especially loud or fast. You don't need to be competing to be heard. Women have higher, sharper voices and tend to speak much faster anyway; you will lose if you try to outcompete them in a shouting match, almost every time. Aside from that, most of all, don't overanalyze this shit. Ultimately a voice is just a fucking voice, very few people have especially unique voices that are even remarkable enough to talk about. Unless you have some serious issue that most people notice, you have nothing to worry about.

2013-07-07T00:25:31+00:00

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tagged4life · 2013-07-06T19:27:47+00:00

Be calm, never rage.

DingFuckinDong · 2013-07-06T19:37:19+00:00

Are you speaking in your head? Or do you feel the vibrations in your stomach? Do you have an arhythmic pattern, are you rushing to finish your sentences?

Speech is difficult to get down because it involves so many different parts of your body. The mind(especially important), the larynx, the diaphragm, the glottis, the tongue, lips etc etc

Honestly just search for a voice training book off a torrent site, and more importantly: find one that works for you. Some speech books are more technical(speak using muscles x, y, and z) others are more spiritual(find your center, speak from your heart); just read whatever one calls out to you because then you'll be able to find your proper voice.

DaddyMonster · 2013-07-09T15:58:00+00:00

When I went noFap, my voice started getting smoother, deeper and more forceful (loud but steady and controlled) within two weeks or so.

After about a month, girls I've known for a long time started to look weirdly at me (they were fascinated) I spoke, and later I started getting comments from girls (both friends/acquaintances and new girls) that they like my voice and (I shit you not) that I speak really well. Even guys tell me that I "speak well". This is probably also due to me doing enunciation exercises, but the fact that I get compliments for both "speaking well" and for having "a good voice" is quite telling.

I make an effort to not speak too fast. I find that I have to repeat myself less often then. Speaking too slow makes you seem like a 'tard, so it's about finding a balance.

Title	Vocal tone
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Date	July 6, 2013 7:16 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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