SUMMARY:

What do you offer me? I am looking at you, an open letter to BP Men, new to TRP and Womyn.

BODY:

Yes, you who spends the same amount of time doing their make-up that I use in the gym, then spends the day in their Yoga pants because in reality they're comfy, and perhaps spend half an hour chatting with a friend on an elliptical machine. Engaging as a social butterfly, going out every weekend.

Your hobbies include..? Selfies do not count. You like shopping? Watching the Kardashians and Soaps? Travelling and searching for yourself? Tattoos of feathers and the infinity sign..? You are nothing more than a consumer.

A King marries a woman, she becomes Queen. She is the most powerful, highest status reigning woman of her area. A Queen marries a man, he does not become a King. He becomes the man who married the Queen. (PATRICE O'NEAL.)

My question to you, is what do you offer me that I can't get elsewhere? Why are YOU special?

You have your time. For now. We understand that you live in a society that perpetuates rewards by being social, engaging the chemicals which give you wild emotions or by engaging in a social structure that rewards your very biology for.. existing?

We read, write, create. We go fishing, or woodworking. We can cook, bake, nurture just as well as you can in the prehistoric gender roles. The ideal body image for men and women are entirely different: only one is achieved by not being a fatass.

Is it misogynistic to point out the inexplicable lack of self respect for the mind? Nowadays a woman with a hobby goes up in SMV by the RP man: why? Because they have more substance than the blonde who gets ploughed more than Greece's GDP.

When it gets to the point you are nothing but your appearance, I am sorry that I only see you as a sex object, an object of my attraction and desire, and that the only thing you're capable of rousing in me is a physical one.

To the reader, fuck you and your insecurities. Nobody cares about your achievements and what you did to get there until you're already there, and by the time you get there you're already so well developed that you're ahead of the game. If this clicks with you now you still have ways to go. I do, you do. You, who just like the next person has no idea what they had to do to get there.

Unfortunately, that means they took steps to get there, and not as a byproduct of 'existing'.

LESSONS LEARNED

  • The system has entirely different rules and playsets for each gender, each with their entirely different winning objectives and styles.

  • Consumerism is everywhere but is more prevalent as a prime directive for the female gender, social status, power, money and attractiveness.

  • Women of substance... kudos to you.

  • You will never have it easy, but so long as you continue learning, the sun starts in the east and sets in the west, the seasons will change and the tide will turn. You WILL have your chance.

  • Men should be something of substance and create. You will enjoy your life more to do something you enjoy. Painting? Cool. Making claymations? Make the best goddamn claymations you can.