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You sound more hurt than he is already. At least he seems to be thinking of her as just a lay. You seem personally affronted.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 10:08 AM
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Probably won't. Already did that under a previous account. It's in the archives. Then again, maybe it's time to bring back the hard truth in a new account.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 02:43 AM
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More and more men do. Don't worry. Slow, but inexorable destruction of the delusion. That's what happens when you insert the truth into a bed of lies.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 02:33 AM
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Don't directly answer, just say "I'm super picky" while laughing it off. Follow it up with "you're good enough so far though."
/r/askTRP27/05/17 02:31 AM
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Be cautious. My entire family is red af. We are all strong physically and economically. But my parents are left as hell when it comes to social things, though they're hardcore right for anything economic. My brother is as conservative as it gets socially, but left economically I'm libertarian, conservative economically, and a bit of a nationalist. Grandad was all conservative. GMa is all liberal, but conservative marriage. It's usually not so black and white. Still, interesting post.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 02:26 AM
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Not very well. Trust me. I know. They're all alpha widowed. Trust fund guys don't marry random college girls. They marry people their family shares a class with. It's kinda bred into you and an unspoken necessity. But you can still grab a doctor or engineer pretty easily if you don't slut it up and go traditional.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 02:19 AM
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I'd raise that to most people period. There's a severe dearth of quality people who should be raising children at all.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 02:07 AM
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Mostly because tingles can be created without being physically hot. There's fatter uglier guys than you slaying right now. They worked other areas for leverage. Do that. lift build social proof do exciting shit learn how to speak to people stay positive meditate find your mission and dedicated yourself to it money. Get money. cultivate your frame, are you funny? Experienced? Stoic? Mysterious? Lots of ways to go about it. Do it for you. Build it and they will come.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 01:46 PM
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One of my exes was the same way. Unfortunately just visiting my place is enough for most girls to get that vibe. Thankfully, I put on a much stronger "I don't share" vibe, so it usually balances just fine. I also don't let people live with me, never for more than 24hrs.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 12:29 PM
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Yeah. Definitely. Unless your schizotypal, in which case, maybe you can if you're lucky and have the exact right meds. You're an agent. You can do this. Small steps first. read the sidebar set up your goals (search smart goals) find your passion by trying many, many things. put yourself first. lift. Just start that now, even if it's only calisthenics start saving to rebuild your wardrobe consider moving the moment you have the cash. Trust me, you can easily build a new persona by location change…
/r/askTRP25/05/17 02:26 AM
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Every time they enter shoo then out. They'll condition quickly to thinking it's dangerous. Just be consistent in it. They probably came in once just because it's what animals do, but they've never been in danger while there so now it's registered as a good enough spot. You want to remove conditioning. Either that, or get floor length beads or a screen.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/17 12:45 PM
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You can leave her? Seriously. You've given her everything long enough that she completely depends on you, she'd feel like a child being cut off now. Not worth the time or effort. So end it. Then the next, better girl you find, don't let them move in, don't pay for shit, and hold your boundaries. If you want kids, you're wealthy, pay for a surrogate mother then raise them without a legal binding. Are you happy? No? Then try this. Yes? Well you wouldn't be posting here if you were. And drop the we…
/r/askTRP24/05/17 12:41 PM
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Gotcha bro. Some rules of studying from a guy whose parents taught for 36yrs each, at pretty much every level of education, PhD down to 5th grade. study 50 minute hours. 50 minutes study, 10 minutes doing NOT study. study early. The moment you have the material review it that night. Review what you can't remember the next night. Continue. use the knowledge. If you have to create fake situations, do so. Apply what you've learned instantly. This works best when learning a field which connects to y…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 12:32 PM
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Well, yes and no. I recommend listening to the podcast ace productivity to get full details, but: the brain doesn't think of two things at once. Correct. It simply switches super quickly. however we can train things to replace reflex, at which point it's not being thought of at all. For example, I could play Scott Joplin all day while doing heavy math or game theory, but only the songs I have memorized. If I'm sheet reading both will suffer. batching, is very effective instead of multi tasking. …
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 12:23 PM
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It's all about location. You need to put yourself where established alphas are. Go to cocktails, salons, men's retreats, not the big clubs and stuff, but exclusives and locals, "military bars are good actually". Location is huge. You need to put yourself near the right fish to catch it.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 12:17 PM
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My work actually focuses in an industry built by nerd culture. And you're absolutely right, mostly. In the past five years we've seen drastic shifts for the older nerds, the established ones about 25 to 35. They're simply checking out and not committing. Going mgtow but dtf. Oddly enough, the strategy they employ is simply pay to play, but they're making so much they're happy to treat a few girls as whores, I buy you ride, but never commit. It's very interesting, and it makes me kinda happy to s…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 12:15 PM
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Add in drinking a cold glass of water immediately. I actually have one waiting each morning. Your body is dehydrated, giving it water gets the gears turning very quickly. I recommend it highly.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 12:03 PM
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You know you're fucked. So monk up. Minimalism. One month. "Do I need this to survive?" No? Don't do it. Yes? Invest in it.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 01:45 AM
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Stop searching, start applying. You're an agent in reality. A few million years have given you this power. Fucking use it. Btw, I browse (scan) trp 10 times a day. But I only comment when I have useful info, and I ignore 95% of this stuff. I participate maybe at max 20 minutes in my day on trp. No problem with doing it, my problem is escapism. Fuck. Escapism.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 01:42 AM
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For 1, you're thinking. Not doing. Is it affecting the real world? Do you apply these thoughts in the real world consistently? Only you know. But be honest with yourself. If your plans follow with action, no problem. If not, you're escaping. Don't escape. You're an agent. Fucking do shit. For 2, as a musician and audiophile, no, listening to music isn't a problem unless, like any habit, it's stopping you from action. Tangible, real, in the real world functional action. Again, only you know. But …
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 01:41 AM
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It's not just you. But only you can choose to control it.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 01:39 AM
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Read through all of Aaron clareys works this last week. Not bad. Aside from that, still progressing methodically. Nothing big on the table this last week, still prepping for the summer rush at work. In a great place. One of the dudes I mentor is graduating, I think he may go for his master's. Gonna do something nice for him and send him on a weekend trip. (His entire life was hell and he's turned it around big time these last 3 years, let alone before I found him, nary a complaint to be found.)
/r/TheRedPill21/05/17 12:51 PM
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Nope. Yes your trainer. Any man worth his salt, especially with options, doesn't shit where he eats. Contrary to popular belief, sometimes we're capable of self control ;) Seriously though. Fire him then ramp up your interest to 11, try to grab a date. It's a win win. You get a trainer you can focus on, you take the risk, the anxiety disappears, you build some self esteem, and you may get a really good prize!
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/17 12:49 PM
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Occasionally. Only as far as individual traits through. "Booty, tits, deepthroat queen", or, "borderline, violent, clingy". Not really as anything but measurement sticks for the future. Red flags, preferences, etc. I never think things like "I wish that x was still here with me". Why would I? She isn't. She's an ex for a reason and now I know what I don't like and won't work. So I go find a better model. There's one out there I guarantee it. Yeah it's normal to be trapped in the past. You need t…
/r/askTRP21/05/17 12:03 PM
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Interesting discussion. As to the ending question, how to do this without becoming a total sociopath? I don't think this is a system that should be long term. It may be a quick way to dissociate yourself, but isn't anywhere near as effective as establishing your goals and mission clearly. I'm not saying this system is in any way dangerous, just not long term effective. If you have a clearly defined mission and goals, you can say no to people quite happily, without relegating them to non-agents. …
/r/TheRedPill21/05/17 11:58 AM
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A quick way to gauge what's giving you that rush is to take a month and go minimalist. Then again, that's a real pill to deal with and a lifestyle change that'll rock your world. "In my opinion for the better though" so let's start with an empty day. Take a day where you don't really have anything to do, keep a notepad handy. When you go to do something jot down a yes or no to the following 3. is this helping my mission. is it necessary for my mission. do I need it to live. This should look some…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/17 11:30 AM
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No sir. I don't compare myself, (which includes my goals, missions, and context) to a ghost. That doesn't mean I don't learn from their experiences. There's a difference between holding regard for lessons learned and beating yourself up or measuring yourself on a different historical figure in a different context. Good point though.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 08:33 PM
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I'd like to add a seventh rule. This one is a bit tricky and contestable, but it's immensely valuable. Be aware of sunk cost error. If you can't be objective, find someone who can. It's far too easy to become attached to a losing strategy, especially if you're just starting out. If more experienced, capable, and not invested people are pointing out myriad, provable failures in your strategy. Fucking listen. Know when you've failed and learn from it. Too many good men destroy huge amounts of thei…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 06:45 PM
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Huh. She sounds just like a huge swath of women. Not used to hearing their opinion isn't worth that much. And in this case, LaVar is 100% correct So she resorts to undermining tactics. Fellas, don't let people like this shake you. Ever. Just don't play their game. Back out and play your own game.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 06:43 PM
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Okay. I saw this yesterday and thought on it. Stop asking what alpha men want. Start asking yourself who you can be complimentary to. Find the guys who want what you have to give, and be around them. Make yourself present. You're going to be noticed. I wanted to write an entire essay on why the things you're offering don't matter to me, but I realized I'd be making the same mistake. (What I want isn't compatible with what you do. What I have isn't what you need.) You need to build yourself to fi…
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/17 12:42 AM
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Nah. I don't compare myself to ghosts. Nice theory though. Here's the failure in it. You assume (unspoken premise) that histories men, philosophies, and moral calendars are viable in the modern day. They're not. If they were, virtue ethics would get you laid. It doesn't. (It's also recursively invalid btw) and looking at history is great for not repeating mistakes, but not great for figuring out praxeology today. It's the same issue as attempting to repair the past, it cannot be done. You either…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 11:11 PM
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First off that last sentence. Because she's​ very successful No she's not. She's unhappy and meddling. How many successful people do that? Not success by others measurements but by their own? No. She's completely unsuccessful, I doubt she has the self awareness to accept or realize why. On top of that, you avoid the issue by finding a new friend, or, you can try to be blunt. Tactical approaches will only moderately help in this circumstance as it seems she's so solipsistic, she thinks of your pe…
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/17 11:06 PM
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Well, men inherently know most of this stuff. Maybe it's from watching too many "assholes" succeed. We know the evidence is there. We just ignore it. Maybe it's from the female inspired movies and romantics. Yeah. It's an asshole who somehow commits to their worthless ass. A pipe dream. We ignore it. Maybe it's from the lovable male jerks in sitcoms, the stupid, but effective alphas from things as casual as parks and rec, or friends. We ignore that too. All because we would rather not face what …
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 10:59 PM
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I came here to say this but you covered it so well. What people really want and what society labels people as wanting are two very different thing. Especially to those who are awoken to their goals, and have options. A lot of options.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/17 08:52 PM
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Not really. It's not loyalty if you see no better option. It's self protection. Necessity. Loyalty means you do have other better options, but remain steadfast. So yes. Women don't really have loyalty overall, it's hypergamy. You're either the best option she thinks there is, or you're probably cucked.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 08:48 PM
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Eh. A short sighted path. I can do those, (and have) but I don't very often anymore. Why? Because I can net more elsewhere. It's a function of opportunity cost. If I can consult at a net 80 an hour positive will I spend 15 minutes doing my oil change? No. Because 15 minutes is 20 bucks of my time. I'll batch it to a bro. This is just an example. There's also the question of how much your free time is worth to you. To me, my free time is worth even more than my hourly potential. So I'm happy to p…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 08:36 PM
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Nicely done. So use that. (You should) only validate things that match your goals. (If you want to fuck, only validate sex. If you want her to cook, only validate cooking) This is simple, yet a lot of guys get caught up in their own moral quandaries about a simple, easy fact of human conditioning.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 08:32 PM
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Nah. Entertainment is Human​. Letting yourself be controlled by it is beta. (Living in fantasies)
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 08:25 PM
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People hate seeing their own potential in a mirror. They just do. It's easier to bitch and whine than take a hard look at what you could be and ask yourself where have I failed. Great post bro. Keep crushing. Ignore the crabs, eventually they'll be on your dinner plate. You'll think of them as nothing more than an entree.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 08:18 PM
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I've done it thrice. The first two, yeah, ended well. By my choice. The third is what you should listen to. 1, 20yr old hb8 2 yrs together, her place, I was scarce, everything was gold. She was a deferent, respectful, sex slave. Left for logistics. 2, 23yr old, hb9, 1.5 yrs together, shared place I owned, she rented from me. Same as the first. Not monogamous, kicked her the moment business exploded. 3, 21yr old, hb7, virgin, a month in sex dropped "I don't need to impress you anymore" I'm thinki…
/r/askTRP15/05/17 05:04 PM
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Only watched it a few days ago. Net? It was probably useful to push traffic. Aside from that, it wasn't really about the redpill. It was about a feminist realizing how full of shit her belief structure was. Watch it? Sure. If you can get it free or just want to understand what an ex feminist feels. (Not that it will matter in your day to day life) Push it to others? Nah. Why bother.
/r/askTRP15/05/17 04:55 PM
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Curling in the squat rack. Fuck you. Fuck everyone who does this. Fuck it. Fuck them. Burn them. (Just ranting here) Realistically though, ask/tell them to move and often they will. Being direct actually works pretty well often times. Above all, I just lift at empty times. 5am. I know not everyone can do this, but if you can, it's worth it.
/r/askTRP15/05/17 02:56 PM
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Okay well, sure I'll help! Happy to. The red flags can be summarized in what you've stated in that last paragraph. Good income We don't care. We have that. Also some weaker men will immediately discount you for it. (They want to feel needed) hell. I love knowing I'm needed. Excellent cooking and cleaning skills Yes. Maybe. By whose standards? I cook and clean better than most any woman I've met. I do appreciate help around the house but I can get a maid for that. It's not necessarily what a guy …
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 02:32 PM
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Yeah you can view yourself as both. No problem. I could identify as a feminist too if I wanted. But that doesn't really change or do anything. Actions do things. Focus less on the labels, they change with time based on popular use, no one person will be taking back a lable, a majority movement may obfuscate one, but it takes a supermajority to control it. Only you can decide if the lable is that important to you, and once you do, you'll have to own the flak that comes with it. "Unfortunately, it…
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 12:16 PM
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I participate in reading for the blind and dyslexic. "Rfb&d", check them out. Very rewarding. Soup kitchens used to be my jam, but I've since left. I donate yearly to a chosen organisation. I managed for a certain food desert np for a quarter. I mentor young entrepreneurs. That's about it, though to be completely honest, I only do things that I get something from. The emotional fulfillment is usually secondary. It's good PR, networking, whatever. I guess who cares since the effects of the act ar…
/r/askTRP15/05/17 12:04 PM
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Yeah, a steady joke about a website crafted for men that would show you the "slutfax" of any girl registered there, has been going around for years. Of course it would never work, too many anger phase men would create a backlash. Too many brigading men and women would infiltrate. Too much information would have to be registered to avoid the first two issues. This seems ok though.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 12:01 PM
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Nope. Though he did take them on trips often as candy and proof. (Classic narcissist).
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 02:41 PM
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I'm 6 even. Lots of guys around me are 6+, not many are more swole, nor have the air I do. I get my respect. A lot of it is frame, a lot of it is presentation, a lot of it is social proof. You don't need to be better, but you need to be a bad fight. Mutually assured damage. That's enough.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 02:39 PM
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You know precisely why men play along. We want to fuck them. The thirsty guys want to fuck them so bad they prostrate themselves.
/r/askTRP14/05/17 02:35 PM
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All girls are insecure around an alpha. That's called passive dread. The trick is to provide just enough comfort to keep her around, but not to feed the validation machine. Complement her performance, not her looks. If she's at least average intelligence she'll begin switching to trying to impress you, not trying to guilt you into validating her.
/r/askTRP14/05/17 02:31 PM
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Relax bro. Go to Google, type in "beta traits", then read. Then type in "alpha traits" and read. Then check up on "tinder studies" and "OkCupid studies." Afterwards when the real world is right in front of you, check Pew research, which is the gold standard, for anything involving relationship choice. After that, come back and read the sidebar. We'll be waiting bro.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 02:22 PM
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From a business sense I'd have to disagree. You two can have fun, though I wouldn't take a dump in the same pond I'm drinking from. Not unless I was incredibly certain she wanted nothing more than casual fun. Then again, no press is bad press. So do what you will. (Speaking from experience)
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 02:20 PM
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There's a serious issue here. It's that the constant in this is you, yet you haven't owned that at all. What you're doing isn't working, we can both agree on that. But in my experience orbiting only happens when being fed. If that's not the case, it's not orbiting, but stalking. You obviously don't feel like you're being stalked, so you must be feeding these orbiters somehow. Especially if this is an established pattern over a long period of time. My recommendations are as follows. learn how to …
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 02:09 PM
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I think at its base, they're happy because they're collaborative. Humans are built to be adaptable, but in society specialization is key. They may have flipped the roles, but they've both embraced one of the two roles entirely. There's no confusion or argument about duties, responsibilities. Clear goals and paths are set, and complementary. I personally think this is the major reason the 1st world is having so many problems. It's not necessarily the flipping of roles, it's the obfuscation of the…
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 01:54 PM
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Agreed, and adding on, You're not even a white belt if all you do is talk theory then complain nothing's working. You need to at least be practicing. Half the threads I read here make that exact mistake, thankfully the mods are fast and fed up with it, but I think they need a larger team.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 11:39 AM
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Everywhere but where you eat. Never shit where you eat. (Rule 0). But yeah, I game at the gym, if I'm done lifting. I don't really see a problem. Also, the crowd does help a lot of people. It'll boost your testosterone, in turn increasing your max output and your drive to compete. Win win. Plus, I'm not wasting a room of my Castle on a full rack and shit. Just not worth it to me. I dunno tho, that's personal preference, one of my uncle's is jacked as fuck off a cable machine.
/r/askTRP13/05/17 08:43 PM
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Wait until you're being swolested. Just last night I'm minding my own business and someone is cupping my ass. Wtf, well, drunk sluts don't have boundaries. You'll get used to playing it off. Could I have made a big deal? Been angry? Yes. Especially since my friend owns the club. What did I do? "Hands off the merchandise honey. I'm worth at least a top shelf buy-in." They want attention and don't know how to deal with not getting it. That's all.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 08:41 PM
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Never been a fan of broscience. Not a fan of this post either. Humans are incredibly adept at understanding physical cues, tone, posture, color, heuristic thinking that is very often correct. That's why we look at someone and get a sense of them. Why is that guy depressed? He's slouching, his toes are pointed inward, the smile isn't authentic, some part of basic hygiene is missing, etc. Why is that guy happy? Listen to his laugh, it's authentic, his smile creates crows feet around his eyes, head…
/r/askTRP13/05/17 08:33 PM
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Very well done, in theory. Unfortunately the biggest issue I have with this is not anything you've written. It's logistics. The guys who've been burned? Most of them simply don't have the time for this. They'll look at it, before heading to their third job up cover mom's petticure I mean new boyfriend I mean child support and alimony. If they don't, jail time. Nothing's happening there. The guys who fear being burned? Most often they're utilizing the system to secure for themselves to avoid bein…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 08:26 PM
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Yup. Limbic brain screams, dopamine, now! But as humans we can go, wait wait... And with discipline even override it regularly.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 08:10 PM
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Yes. I can identify. And I am/was raised red. Count on failure. It's healthy. Knowing what not to do is more likely to be applicable than knowing what to do. Own it and learn from it. Be proud op. You stood the test and improved. Just fucking get it right next time.
/r/askTRP12/05/17 03:48 PM
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I personally recommend doing monthly goals. There are several threads on the trp main that do this and they only increase in participation. subject goal measurement date "for submission" your users will contact each other in their own time if necessary.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/17 01:45 PM
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Don't plan things. He's covered that. You trust him and enjoy yourself so let it be. Just do things. Whenever you're feeling like you want to impress him, do something. Maybe cook him his favorite meal at random. Maybe crawl under the desk and give him a bj. Maybe buy him a random thing he's been mentioning. You might hate Netflix, sex, falling asleep, but I'm going to tell you right now you're perfect for him and a huge number of guys. Kiss right? And do you really hate it? Or do you just feel …
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/17 01:35 PM
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Precisely. I take risks upon risks. (Though calculated rather carefully) My dad and grandad didn't have the opportunities they provided me, the experiences I've had are often outright questioned (until proof provided) or lauded by people 20 to 30 yrs my senior. You really need to go do things. Push yourself. Reinvent. Focus only on you until you're 30 at the least. Imo I won't even consider marriage ever, but if I had to, it would be 45+. Every year closer to the mid line yields more in every wa…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 01:10 PM
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I dunno. I'm​ pretty sure the strength of an argument isn't contingent on its source, but measured by it's consistency, relevancy, and results of premise to conclusion. I'm only pretty certain, though I am an analytic Phil masters.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/17 12:52 PM
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Maybe it's my vetting, maybe my stomping grounds (location and cohort) but feminism that's implicit has been shifting quickly to meritocracy instead of the current wave bullshit. Plus thankfully at this point (aforementioned relevant) the amount of social damage from aggressively identifying as feminist is as large as not. So it leaves it largely to personal predilections and effectiveness. It's nice. Not that the number of worthwhile women are increasing, far from it, but the number of shit tie…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 12:48 PM
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Nature can't intend without consciousness. Nature only has equations to balance. Thankfully those equations can be understood and then applied and gamed. (Thanks trp and praxeological thinking in general).
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 12:45 PM
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Thank you for actually saying this. A lot of men forget, what our society is now is not beholden by the past, only influenced. (Sjws are the worst about this, but the manosphere isn't immune either.) There was a time when feminism wasn't total shit. Today is not that time. But history deserves it's dues.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 12:43 PM
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Every time you feel the urge, do push-ups. Every time you feel the urge, do situps. Every time you feel the urge, do something physically exhaustive is the point. Something that will build and distract. Replace the habit, don't simply remove it.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 08:20 PM
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Pretty simple. Try to fuck her. If you get it by 2 tries, keep going. If you don't by 2 tries, next. This is for any reason, excuses, substitutions, logistics, etc. Doesn't matter. If you're not balls deep with the 2nd attempt, next. And next hard. (She'll fight her way onto your dick afterwards if things change.) Bruh... Keep it simple stupid!
/r/askTRP10/05/17 08:16 PM
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Why does breaking up suck? Because breaking habits sucks. The limbic brain needs dopamine and needs it right fucking now. How do you get over it? Don't just cut out bad habits, replace them. Replace the satisfaction with something else. Simply dropping your dopamine levels to nothing won't work for 99.7% of people. If you drop a girl pick up another. If you drop a hobby replace it. If you drop anything bringing your satisfaction, replace it with something else that'll bring you satisfaction.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 07:51 PM
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Go running. Do dancing. Join clubs. Body weight fitness. Study. Meditate. To be happy you need to progress. Set a milestone and achieve it. Start small and build higher as you pass the markers.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 07:47 PM
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If your technique isn't great, you'll do damage. Period. It's only a matter of time. While your joints are still solidifying and your body may have one last big growth spurt in the wings, lift long, not heavy. If you have some way to guarantee technique, do what you want. (Trainer) Good luck.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 07:45 PM
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Reframe it. You'll both be happier in the long run. After all, entrenched emotions get more and more damaging. You cut it off much less painfully than faking your way through cohabitation and marriage. You did both of you a favor. Of course, the only one the really matters here is you. Adults are responsible for their own happiness, she's not your responsibility.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 07:40 PM
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"oh c'mon red stoic. You don't need to compensate you muscle head" Quote that I astutely remember from 2009. Coming from a girl I was working with probably mid 30s. Hb8, easily the hottest piece in my group at the time. Fuck her. I failed that test spectacularly. I tried to logically kill her. Exposing myself, explaining myself, playing into her game. Deering. Don't do that. Just ignore it or amplify it to ridiculous proportion. All tests are a version of "submit" You should only ever act in way…
/r/askTRP10/05/17 07:29 PM
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Actually, yeah. My grandmother is 102 and still walks to the post office weekly. (Lives with my parents now.) My parents are 76 and 77. They look 50ish. Try having money and the right genetics. Staying in shape and hitting the doctor quarterly. You'd be surprised what that does for you bro. Also remember, statistically unlikely doesn't mean never happens. I wish I had my parents genetics. Unfortunately I'm adopted.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 07:15 PM
2

Yes. Well aware. Apparently op hasn't made the connection. Glad you have though. (To be fair this stuff most often takes time.)
/r/askTRP10/05/17 05:01 PM
5

Yeah, I could too. But I prefer driving a nail into a fresh puss by my own ability. I'm not disrespecting, seriously, you do what works for you, you have your own legit mission after all. Just stating another method for a different goal.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 05:00 PM
1

So he's successful utilizing methods that work for him. Be happy for him. So what. What do you want and more importantly, what does worrying about him accomplish towards what you want? You have your own mission. (Hopefully). Look at those with similar missions who are successful and amplify, improve as much as you can. Yeah this kids a hat trick, so what? You can't control that. You can control you.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 04:59 PM
1

A different perspective: What's your mission? Do you even have one? Yeah you're lifting. Yeah you're approaching. Yeah you're trying hard and reading everything. But do you exude purpose? Find your mission. Dedicate yourself to it. You've done nothing wrong but you're missing something key. . Your drive, you're reason to be, that which makes all things a measurement on yes or no. That which decides and dictates your passion. The thing that creates a spark. Find your mission.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 04:55 PM
9

get in shape walk from confrontation, instead act through dissociation no being butthurt game other girls. (That doesn't mean fucking them necessarily) dread. Constantly improve yourself and ignore her if she gets in the way. follow your mission. say no to bad deals constantly in any facet of your life, she'll pick up on it potentially carrying over to her performance. only reward sexual follow through. Really just head to mrp. They've got this fully covered in spades.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 04:46 PM
3

It shouldn't. If you have: a good diet lift no drugs limited masturbation limited to no porn. no genetic defects You should be fine. My grandad died at 90 with two 20yr old plates he was putting through the ringer. You can do it too. Of course genetics play their part, but health and lifestyle are massive in sustained performance. Men are biologically built to fuck and provide.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 04:42 PM
1

There is no satisfying answer for this. There's too much unsaid about the context. Are you a large swole guy? Are you small and weak? Do you exude confidence? Or weakness? What's the cohort of your location? Compare yourself to me. Exactly 6ft, 210, 13-11%. Swollen and swolested constantly. People move when I even look in a direction or begin walking. That took several years to secure. (Also high social proof, on a tristate scale.) Regardless, if you don't like being bumped into, give a harsh gl…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 04:32 PM
6

Any mission and a cluttered (unfocused/not disciplined) mind. Period. You're entirely right btw.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 04:24 PM
1

If I do bring them to my place, I always have evidence of other girls there. Passive dread. I never allow the illusion that there aren't other girls. If sex becomes anything less than enthusiastic, I stop contact. They'll either come running or there's another girl. You can even try the boyfriend game, "but no buying anything. Nothing." As long as you keep to the above. You can do shit together, spend your time together, but if the above ever fails, right back to soft next. Complacency is not an…
/r/askTRP10/05/17 01:37 PM
2

You need different friends. Ones that share the same values you do and are actively working towards them. This eliminates the negative effects of: solipsism envy crab barrel mentality It'll take some finding, but you should attempt to branch out and find those who share your ethics and experiences.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/17 01:15 PM
1

Actually not finishing the first time with someone new is pretty common, even for some of the experienced. Try: working on that death grip condoms that fit well. Measure yourself and hit bigdickproblems, their sidebar has a very exhaustive way to find condoms that fit you, not just for well endowed people. "They're also quite friendly" no porn getting a lot more experience "eventually sex will be very casual to you. Which I find healthy personally. Kind of like a game night between 2 friends. co…
/r/askTRP10/05/17 01:11 PM
2

Yup. Watched it all through school. Completely accurate. The ones with a work ethic unfortunately, don't stand out either, so it makes it seem that much worse and it's already very bad. These people will go into myriad positions with hard quotas and fierce competition, then men will have to pick up their slack. When they don't get promoted them scream glass ceiling and be promoted into obsolescence, ruining an entire division and multiple projects to come. When everything crashes around them, th…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 01:01 PM
1

How do you start? Reread the sidebar. First thing that resonates with you, practice a month. Come back afterwards and then practice the second thing for a month. You've done the thinking, start doing.
/r/askTRP09/05/17 05:40 PM
2

Search value management in the archives, or TheRedStoicpdf.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 03:35 PM
1

No. An app that is heavily vetted won't expand organically. An app that is readily available dilutes the mission statement (or) ends up with terrible ratings via infiltration or incompatibility. The best you can do is create a web app tied directly into the current manosphere. That's it. All other uses, go to Grindr.
/r/askTRP09/05/17 03:34 PM
1

He's fishing for validation. No biggie. Bitches love validation. (We know this)
/r/askTRP09/05/17 03:24 PM
1

Chemically? The limbic brain doesn't like it. It wants dopamine fucking now. The frontal lobe can't override if you don't give it a chance to. Culturally? Instant gratification + safe and cheap society = no discipline. Physically? Mix of both above plus lack of physical requirements for jobs, looking good is now an option, not a tangentially caused benefit from necessity for production. Mentorship? Too many blupees and single moms for strong male role models. No one forces you (while young) to l…
/r/askTRP09/05/17 03:19 PM
4

Oh yes they can. It depends entirely on how much she wants you and the standards you set. Most of my plates understand a simple rule. "If I'm hard. You fix it. Check frequently". Do I say this to them? No. Do I show it to them? Constantly. you want a hug? Your hand better be stroking my dick. (I'll put it there) you want to snuggle? Well my dick is hard now so fix it. (Pushing her head down) you want a good meal out on the town? Call your boyfriend or up your sex game. It's a trade. And you pay …
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 03:06 PM
1

Most people nowadays are very conflict avoidant. This results in people building habits that involve slinging shit with no repercussions. The moment you sling shit back, you've rocked their world. You've upset their core understanding of reality and the expectations associated. You've undermined their entire belief system. Yeah. There's going to be the bad, but remember, there's so much good too. A comparison for example. A guy in Uganda needs fresh clean water. It's priceless. It's rare. It's a…
/r/askTRP09/05/17 02:58 PM
3

Plate spinning for women is simply managing orbiters. Same type of game, different goal. (Support) You have 3 to 6 plates? A girl has 3 to 6 orbiters, the ones she's really sure want to fuck her, but can be utilized by tantalizing. Can't even dislike them for it. That's just human. Who turns down free shit? On the up side, this is turning around so quickly the collective 1st world has its head spinning. The manosphere, grass eaters, mgtow, pua, they're all very new, and mixed with global connect…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 02:53 PM
2

Either you mean a female friend. (You're orbiting, forget her now. Focus on self improvement.) Or you mean a romantic partner, most likely monogamous, which you're trying to downgrade. (tell her what you want then do it, accept the consequences regardless of what they are.) Yes you can certainly make your girlfriend into a FWB or plate. But it's less likely the longer you've been together. If you're making that move cool, but own it. You'll be dating other girls regardless of whether she tolerat…
/r/askTRP09/05/17 01:53 AM
2

It's a veiled booty call. You didn't jump in it. Or... . They didn't get the attention they want so they came to you. In my opinion ignore this kinda shit unless it's pure logistics. For the rule of 3. Three moves without consequence? You're being used. Within 3 moves consequence (you fuck her good) then turn her into a plate, or leave. Whatever you want.
/r/askTRP09/05/17 01:50 AM
2

I've been on... Quite a few? I think a dozen. Maybe Baker's. Usually the crystal lines and a few exclusives like the vistafjord. It's either way easy, or brutally hard. It depends on what line you take. carnival, or any holiday in on a Hull Queen Mary type, bottom barrel, you'll get laid fast. Lots of rich kids and especially Daddy's money. Drama abounds, everyone is liquored. What happens on the ship usually happens onshore. an upper line like Crystal or higher, you'll get nothing. We're talkin…
/r/askTRP08/05/17 02:17 PM
12

Why? It's easier to deny you want something you can't have, than admit you can't have it because of your own lack of value. Tldr. Hampster protects the ego.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 02:13 PM
1

Go for it. Don't worry about it. The first girl is always a practice girl. Hell, you go into it and do everything your primal little heart desires and you'll probably be better than most of the lays out there.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 02:06 PM
1

Dude don't worry about it. Is she giving you a raging boner? Wrap your dick in a wetsuit and tell him to dive in. You can always ignore or deny it later. Or even better, own it if it ever comes up. I understand where you're coming from eh the boycotting uglies approach. Lots of guys misunderstand that. An organized boycott doesn't work in the smp. Men have different goals. What does work which seems like boycotting, is men raising their standards over time because they've improved themselves. Al…
/r/askTRP08/05/17 01:58 PM
1

Wow. I've seen the opposite. Probably a cohort thing? I've noticed as men get older they'll become more passionate about their goals. That's about it. I certainly haven't noticed what you've seen. At least not in my circles. It's very contextual, also remember that older more established men are the ones running things, they are the ones invited to speak publicly on myriad topics. The mastery of a subject to that level suggests serious passion driving it. It may be correlative but not causal, on…
/r/askTRP08/05/17 01:55 PM
5

Totally wrong. Completely. Entirely. Lame ass sex with him He'll get no anal. That's for the alphas only. Edit: really? Truth veiled in comedy. Ok. Cmon guys.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 01:45 PM
6

An example bro. Tldr, schedule your time off to be as important as anything else. And it's not all the time. At most 2 or 3 salon invites a week.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 01:41 PM
13

Schedule some time off. I do. Twice a week I go radio silent for an event of my choosing. No investors, no family, no clients, no partner's, no plates, fucking nothing. Schedule your time off and use your discipline to stay on track. Humans need to entertain and relax. It's every bit as important as progression.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 11:08 PM
3

Because you are in love with what she could be, not what she is. Live in reality. She's just another meat sack trying to fulfill her own agenda. And that's ok!
/r/askTRP07/05/17 11:05 PM
2

Stand up comedy fixes this quickly. Seriously, get yourself to an open mic, and go. Fail. Fail harder. Fail less. Get good. Of course, the ability to explain yourself is key. read. A lot. Harder stuff than you're used to. write, a lot. Set word counts. Summarize things without losing content. speak to fucking everyone. learn tricks from watching masters, in real life is best, but there are plenty of people such as black Philip, George Carlin, etc, who can be watched to learn myriad speaking tech…
/r/askTRP07/05/17 11:02 PM
1

Humor can't break me. It's humor. Empty, silly, words. (And often very funny!) Kill your ego bro.
/r/askTRP07/05/17 10:57 PM
1

Have her take the shot or get an implant. Either that or get a vasectomy (freezing kids for later, expensive) On the tiny off chance you're like me, see a doc and test for sterility. Regardless of what you do, wrap up until one of the above is confirmed.
/r/askTRP07/05/17 10:53 PM
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So tldr. Don't be yourself. Be the best version of yourself that gets what you want. In other words, adapt and improve.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 10:46 PM
1

No. You give her attention, so you're worth teasing. It's that simple. Unless you have escalated, fucked, or gotten off via her, she's a pipe dream.
/r/askTRP07/05/17 10:45 PM
1

Every girl and their mom has been abused and doesn't do relationships. "For the wrong guy". Ignore what she says, watch what she does. You think she'd react to Brad Pitt that way?
/r/askTRP07/05/17 10:43 PM
1

If you need to talk in person, the best bet is finding one of the few endorsed who will Skype with you. Otherwise, keep your mouth shut. You can befriend alphas for good conversation, but no trp terms, mentions, or allusions. Keep it common dialect.
/r/askTRP07/05/17 10:39 PM
1

You're still hoping for previous expectations. (Fantasy) You know in your head there's a logically better system in theory, but you also know it statistically will not be. You feel betrayed, by society, norms, women, but most of all yourself. You are only ever angry at yourself after all. Maybe it was the lack of preparation, the dissociation, the lack of objectivity, the hope for fantasy, the keeping your head down, the inability to detect lies, but it is you that depresses you. This is normal …
/r/askTRP07/05/17 10:22 PM
1

Ooook.. Have you tried everything yet? are you swole yet? are you networked well? is your wardrobe in check? do you have a roster of exciting experiences and hobbies? are you passionate about your life? do you avoid complaining and use action to overcome? You can't talk or theorize your way around doing a lot of hard work. No? Then you simply don't know. Do those things first, then come back if they fail.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 08:21 PM
1

Buy a food scale for 20 bucks, download my fitness pal. Begin dieting immediately. You'll shed weight like crazy. Weekly. If you're obese you should be at about 1000cal down daily. That'll be the first thing that gives you positive feedback. Go from there. You'll get the confirmation, build discipline, and have more energy overall, week to week, month to month. While you're dieting lurk more, crush the sidebar, ask questions, balance your budget, read every day, per diem video gaming should be r…
/r/askTRP07/05/17 08:14 PM
1

Good. Even if it's behind your back. This is good. It means they're taking notice you're not a pushover. Keep on keeping on. A note, if rp Bros begin saying this, you probably do have an ego problem. Though honestly a touch of arrogance has never harmed me so long as you can back it up with action.
/r/askTRP07/05/17 02:25 PM
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Exactly. Do it, but protect yourself. (Duh) Plus, it's just fun. There's nothing like both of you having a primal good time. Absolutely nothing wrong with it and I only put the foot down on what I personally don't like.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 02:18 PM
1

Only just cut from 20/4 a week ago. Too soon to tell but the energy feels the same so far. I don't know that it'll help at all. You could get there too, just subtract an hour a month until you're there. Of course with IF. anything above the classic 16/8 ymmv. Edit, I was doing 20/4 for about a year if that makes any difference. It is like breathing at this point.
/r/askTRP06/05/17 08:27 PM
1

5, wake up 5:30, lift 6:30, eat 7:00, batching for the day. 7:15, meditate 7:45, clean something for 15 mins 8, start working 13, finish working. Plan for the afternoon. 13:30, probably meet a plate, if not go scouting or hit something interesting. 16, misc chores 17, check in with Bros, employees, partner's, etc. Decide on tonight. Go out. 21, get home. Sleep or chill depending. To be fair, this is my closest estimate. I have a base schedule but I switch it up as I need to more often than not. …
/r/askTRP06/05/17 01:15 PM
1

Grab some dress shoes for special circumstances, and then buy whatever your job requires. "If you need steel toe or shatter shoes or cleated or whatever." After those, get some comfortable fitted shoes. They'll be pricy, but they'll last longer and look better, and treat you much better. My parents always said, don't be cheap on your feet, don't be cheap with what you eat. It's served me very well, I never skimp on diet or good footware.
/r/askTRP06/05/17 01:06 PM
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Remind yourself over and over that everybody shits. Read some FRS to brush up on reality. Most importantly, immediately throw yourself into getting more plates. The moment you have 2 more, move on from her if the onitis isn't gone. Keep in mind, it is alright to have a favorite plate, whom you give some extra comfort. This only works if she's not your only plate. I have 5 plates, I like 1 of them best by far, and she gets extra attention. I'm actually okay with her introducing me as a boyfriend.…
/r/askTRP06/05/17 12:57 PM
5

Really, you just practice charity only from excess. Aside from that, yes, everything is a trade. Value for value.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 12:50 PM
1

Most people are crappy writers. Instead of being concise and precise, they say the same thing a dozen ways to ensure the message is understood by the widest audience. No problems here.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 01:24 AM
1

I understand bro. It sneaks up on you unless you're in constant measurement mode. I'm glad you understand, you'll be fine since you're obviously making changes and calling it out.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 03:31 PM
1

Only in politics... Where cohort approval is necessary for goals you have. (And that depends on your platform). Any other reason is silly. (Skipping avoidance of death or permanent DMG.)
/r/MGTOW05/05/17 03:25 PM
2

Like many, experience builds perspective.
/r/MGTOW05/05/17 03:10 PM
10

From another point. Men: so we get nothing? Yes. Men: cool we'll just build it ourselves. No, you can't have it unless we give it. Men: so you'll trade then? No. Men: laugh and do it anyway.
/r/MGTOW05/05/17 03:08 PM
1

Ever hear of the inverted spectrum? That's people and value. The unenlightened/inexperienced constantly assume others value the same things they do, or they're just wrong. Men and women are the same in this (mostly). It's only human. You only know love the way you do, you only know your values the way your echo chamber does. You assume love will be the same basis, after all that's the strongest measuring stick you have. Contrary to that belief, no, like the inverted spectrum love is quite likely…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 01:50 PM
8

The biggest issue in this one is misplaced blame. You made something common and expected, then took it away. So far as you've written, she didn't twist your arm, you voluntarily did all of this. Maybe thinking she was giving an ultimatum sure, maybe thinking that's just a nice thing to do. The point is, you could easily have responded with "lol maybe someday." Or simply ignored it. She didn't give you an ultimatum. You chose that action. Covert contract 101.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 01:44 PM
1

Oh I wasn't shitting on you. Just reminding that there's another direction people could use. Another perspective. I don't believe I insulted your post even once. I upvoted you happily. No biggie bro, I'm not discounting your style, simply pointing out from my position it's not helpful, others should consider that with your position and choose what they think will work best with their goals.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 01:41 PM
1

Huh. Should've archived. Anyone got an archive? Why are we not defaulting to archive!?
/r/askTRP04/05/17 03:03 PM
1

Sorry it's been so long. Because it means he is proud of our commitment and confident in it. To you. That's what it means to you. Just putting that out there. I know a lot of guys who are very proud of things they rarely speak of. (My family is filled with them, my friends and aquainted almost as much). It's very internal for many of us. Probably because we've learned society on the whole doesn't care what we signal. You should talk to him. In the end it's still whether you're okay with his meth…
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/17 02:29 PM
2

Shit it won't ship to me. That would've been perfect for one of my plates. Maybe help her break the gag reflex too "she's struggling with that." Sigh a link will have to be enough.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 02:25 PM
1

I myself prefer investigative statements. I'd imagine you do too. Just an example, but yeah, inflection and tone are next step, but I couldn't write on it here and be relevant, and I'm sure someone can do a better job. "Hint Mr endorsed hint."
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 02:19 PM
1

On the money. Nice way of saying it. Thx. I may use that in the future.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 02:16 PM
1

It's in the past. Don't beat yourself up about it, learn from it and make changes. Yeah you were unworthy. So change it. Can't fight ghosts.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 02:14 PM
3

Eh, I already have those things. (And today is recovery day so, don't worry I'll hit the iron alter tomorrow morning). I just don't see a reason to be paying for it. Not more than I already do. You can get chicks just doing what you'd do anyways, your hobbies, passions, whatever, and a good few plates added together will take care of everything you've listed no problem at all for pretty much no cost but some condoms. Plus she'll fuck you. I don't see the need to open my wallet or spend my time i…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 02:09 PM
2

That's nice. How much time did you spend writing this? Cool. Go spend it in the gym, balancing your budget, or gaming instead. It'll save you a lot of frustration down the line. You have agency, so use it to act. (And this is coming from a guy who used to submit some pretty good shit weekly) now I only comment in downtime. I've got shit to do.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 02:04 PM
3

Look at it this way. You discover someone's doing something wrong. You go off on them and force them to stop. They actually stop. Is it more or less likely that you'll do the same thing right back? That's right, anyone with basic consistency or agency would be less likely. Your wife is manipulative, deceitful, and checked out of the relationship. Just start filing for divorce under cover and document everything. The more prep you get and the harder you can spring it on her, the more likely the k…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 02:02 PM
1

I live in a city, not in one of the big ones. It's a college city that's full to the brim with 18-30yr old gals, and I live in a top floor pent across from one of the biggest landmarks. So yeah. Plenty of pussy. It flows like wine if you have the right tap.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 01:52 PM
2

Sounds exhausting to me. And costly compared to cheap/free plating or ons. Maybe when I'm much older I'd consider it. Doubtful though.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 01:48 PM
10

I actually didn't want to respond, but I should. Masculine men don't think women are dumber. In fact, most of us have been with plenty of women who outstripe us in multiple ways. We think the goals are different. We look for those who are complementary. Yes IQ measures the things 1st world shitty values most, and women are not as extreme as men on either side. Exteroception is masculine as well, interoception is balanced. Empathy is feminine. There are many masteries, I agree, but this seems mor…
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/17 12:18 AM
1

You missed note number 1. Have/find your mission. Everything else is a cherry on top. Your mission will allow you to: recognize bad deals quickly recognize good deals quickly increase your patience, lower your tolerance passively attract through intensity say no happily take calculated risks happily keep yourself as the prize constantly push to improve constantly measure yourself schedule effectively build goals effectively maintain a solid frame. (It's all the mission) sweep that dirt off your …
/r/askTRP04/05/17 12:07 AM
1

You're doing this for some reason other than a goal. Maybe it's for the chicks, suicidal recognition, your own mile marker, whatever. But you need a mission. Find that.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 12:03 AM
-1

In my experience there's three types of older woman. the validation whore. (40%). These women have escalated verbal game to get their attention because they know looks ain't what they used to be. You'll get nowhere. Yeah talk talk brag brag, never happens. the cougar. (20%). These women are rubbing your cock under the barstool, they may talk about sex, maybe not, but their actions are coming from pure thirst. Fuck them in the bathroom and be their booty call. the anchor. (40%) they'll fuck you l…
/r/askTRP03/05/17 11:56 PM
1

Hey man, she set her own arbitrary excuse to hamster away guilt. It didn't involve not fucking, so fuck her hard. I'm betting her deepkissing your dick is within bounds too.
/r/askTRP03/05/17 11:50 PM
5

As far as morals, they either do exist objectively or they don't. Which entails that either stop worrying about them, or choose your reference (religion, common sense, biology, law, whatever you're beholden to) and measure based on that. Trp doesn't address morality, it's a praxeology, people have moralistic philosophies on trp. To imply trp has morals is to imply using a hammer to drive a nail is moral. Hopefully that helps. (Analytic Phil masters here) happy to link you my full post on it. Or …
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 11:48 PM
1

She's probably a lush if it's 1am on a weekday. Invite her over to join you for something on a day that's logistics work for you. See what happens. Fuck her and keep records of texts. Lush girls can be very... Very regretful.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 11:46 PM
8

Laugh. Ignore. Flip the script. Agree and amplify. Cold shutdown. These are all very good tactics, though your personality will probably lend itself to one or two. These can all be detailed very well by searching top of all time or the sidebar bro! You've got this, the resources are here. And of course, practice.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 11:43 PM
2

Proper vetting makes a huge difference. Yes, get your vasectomy and use a condom. But also choose the type of girl you fuck carefully. You don't have to focus on instant first sight lays, my plates usually take about a week to be established. During that time I'm watching habits, hobbies, how they interact, mining for info, if I see something that makes my sphincter clenched or my hackles raise, I'm done. Ghost. The best way to build good vetting is practice, while erring on the side of caution.…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 11:41 PM
4

Most men I guess. If you're a well practiced trper, probably not. It's likely you have numbers, which means at any w time, there's x,y,z, pussy available. Speaking from experience, a good lay is never more than a half day away. Less if I'm willing to drop in quality/vetting. Yes it's fun and I enjoy it, but it's only as much a priority as I make it. Likely, that could just be me. I don't know and I wouldn't presume.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 11:33 PM
5

Don't point him directly to this sub. Keep putting information on his lap as he needs it. Try not to use official trp terms. Once you think he's mature enough to know what is and isn't acceptable to talk about, "really just how to keep his mouth shut about trp", send him the book of pook or something. Chances are if it resonates he'll search it and find his way to the manosphere.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 11:29 PM
18

Know your value. If they can't afford to lose you, you can do shit like this pretty commonly. "Not every time, but you can easily pull it out on an especially unfair male shit test."
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 11:43 AM
161

This works very well yes. The underlying truth to this is one a lot of guys miss. Shit testing means she's interested. That's it, that's all there is to it, if she's not interested, she wouldn't even notice you. If she's focusing on you and shit testing, she's literally giving you a test drive. "Will this car/man really perform like I think? Will it quit road side? Can it really escalate properly?" You don't think about the ones on the lot you don't like, only the ones you're considering. Same w…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 11:38 AM
31

True. Ideally you should do both! Even more success and you'll be healthier too.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 11:37 AM
1

Sticking to places that offer burgers in lettuce wrap is great for me. (When I'm choosing the meet up).
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 12:35 AM
1

Oh it wouldn't change anything. What I'm getting paid in the job isn't the same as my net income. By any means.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 12:59 PM
2

Well yeah. If you have access to clean water every day you never give it value. Just like if everyone's trying to fuck you since you're fifteen, that has no value either. Nor do all the favors that come with it. It's human.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 11:14 AM
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That's a woman's wet dream. Find the most desired alpha male around, then get him to submit to her mediocre used up ass. (While still miraculously being the most desired alpha male around.) It mirrors the blue pill male fantasy. Find the hottest, most insanely beyond porn level sexy girl around, but she needs to be virginal and dedicated to only his mediocre ass. (While still miraculously being the hottest crazy sex thing around.)
/r/askTRP01/05/17 10:58 AM
1

Not true in my experience. During my startup phase I worked 80ish weekly sometimes more, and I loved every second of my work. You still need food, water, sleep, socialization, sex, etc. You just have to be much more smart about it, hard scheduling time off and treating it as sacred as a meeting.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 10:50 AM
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Usually men want to spread the seed, but also do want to care for their own children, if they're aware of them. I think you'll find it not uncommon that the sperm donor isn't even informed on the decision to carry through term. He may have a suspicion, likely not unless the woman wants him to become the new provider as well.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 10:47 AM
2

Pretty nicely done OP, slightly angry sounding but nice. I'd like to add on. Experience is so much of this. You must date around, lots of chicks out there. You don't have to be taking the ltr plunge to learn good vetting. By good vetting I mean the following. know your absolute walking points. Things you can't compromise on. know your red flags. These are things you often can compromise with if there's only one or two. internalize your goals. This is what you use to recognize your green flags. I…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 10:38 AM
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Yes this was a shit test. She only wanted you to see how desired she is. (Inflating her own value because, these guys just can't contain themselves.) You should've laughed and ignored. You definitely failed. On the other hand, (not an opposite), you need to ditch her. A guy wants to feel her up and she won't even get angry? No retaliation? Only defending him to you? Making excuses? Nothing? Fuck that. This is a risk without reward.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 04:16 PM
1

Eh. That's not her speaking, that's her representative. You can ignore the representative. Her actions do the real talking. Pay attention to them.
/r/askTRP30/04/17 11:49 AM
1

Tldr, most women people are crap. We know. Thankfully we also know that individually we can mold the world around us at least in our personal life. Thanks to agency. We can make change with actions.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 11:48 AM
1

Agreed. On the other hand, if an argument can stand on its own merit, the source is irrelevant.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 11:41 AM
1

Looks will fade. Personality often spoils. (The longer women live the more baggage they have.) So pick whichever gets you off and remember it's just your turn, right now.
/r/askTRP29/04/17 11:52 AM
1

Holy shit. In 15yrs I haven't checked this one off. I'll have to call my bro and set this up. Thx. Gotta kill the fuckit-list.
/r/askTRP29/04/17 11:49 AM
2

Of course. Try eying a chick whose been checking you, then giving a dismissive or disapproving micro head shake. Proceed to keep eye fucking other girls, even less attractive ones chilling with her. Watch the Hampster spin it's way over to you very quickly. This is pretty much the furthest I take negging though, I've never found it to be very effective for me unless I want to really break someone.
/r/askTRP29/04/17 11:46 AM
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Hey, you got away with it and your life is better for it. Good job. Notice how he is not mentioned in my response.
/r/askTRP29/04/17 11:43 AM
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Yeah, deservedness is a silly thing. Like privilege, or guilt. They're illusions, the truth is that you protect what you have and work to seize more. That's it. That's all. Yeah life can be imbalanced, but I've never seen bitching about it be more successful than working a bit harder and smarter. but I've been lifting for months but I've hit 200k a year but I blah blah blah it's not fair I deserve x now No. Life isn't a coin machine where you put in time and effort and are guaranteed return. The…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 11:41 AM
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I think it's much simpler than that. Feminism feeds the ego, it gives you the default stance of superiority without evidence or merit. People love feeding the ego, women just do it differently than men. In the male world, actions and merit are king, since the default position of a male is disposable, merit is the only way to succeed. In the female world, positioning is king. Merit is largely useless as all they need to do is be average and young enough to bear children. So what do you do when po…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 11:35 AM
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Still at it. And I'm still laughing. So carry on. I'm starting to get the feeling your dad constantly beats you with a set of jumper cables.
/r/askTRP28/04/17 01:15 PM
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Yeah, you don't ever tell the creature that seeks financial and emotional stability and direction, that you're financially or emotionally imbalanced. Hey bro you learned. No biggie. Now you know for the future. You have Bros to lean on, not the gals.
/r/askTRP28/04/17 01:14 PM
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Ah. No dice. Politics is philosophical, the red pill is a praxeology. You should probably head to redpillright or yellowpill to get your political bent.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 01:10 PM
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Please try to use archive.is to avoid feeding these trolls. Also, worthwhile read, thanks!
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 11:13 AM
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I'm a libertarian, economically more conservative, plus I have a bit of a nationalist bent. Voted libertarian, so what's the goal with this poll op? Pure curiosity or collecting stats for something?
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 11:07 AM
2

Women will adapt to the market. It'll still be a spectrum of 80%lesser to 20% greater. The baseline will just shift. Things will continue with a higher quality man in general, and a more cautious woman in general. I mean you can already see this with more men becoming non committal because of increased standards, slowly women are adapting to it and trying to vehemently bargain/hide slut nature harder, or even actually change themselves. (Rpw, surrendered wife, etc). Either way you still need to …
/r/askTRP28/04/17 11:00 AM
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Sure. Once you see what a girl will do for a less than 8 hrs pay, you'll quickly realize how cheap good pussy actually is. It'll reset your expectations heavily, and increase your ability to say no. Get one you are really attracted to then destroy her, every nasty disgusting thing you can. Once you've paid the bill take note of how much that cost you in hours. If a girl ever takes more hours than that, she's unworthy. Just don't get addicted to pros. Unless you really prefer that lifestyle. Many…
/r/askTRP28/04/17 10:51 AM
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A lot like going up an income bracket, life gets better overall in myriad ways, but then resets once your baseline happiness adjusts. If you are a note/journal taking kinda person, looking back and reading old logs serves as a constant reminder of how much better things are, and can be in the future if you keep up progressing.
/r/askTRP28/04/17 10:47 AM
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In general you're perfectly right. I'd like to point out something though, you can't win a belief based argument with reason. You can and often will change the minds of people when it's arguing a reason based argument with reason. The problem is most topics people feel passionate about to expound on are belief based and should be ignored or avoided. Rational arguments however are had all the time, to great effect. Look here on trp actually. Arguing about a praxeology is rational vs rational more…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 10:44 AM
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It's true. It would increase my rent by about 30% monthly to get a bigger place for cohabitating. I don't need a lot of space, in fact, I prefer less. I could grab a good hook 5x a month for an hour of crazy fun, and never have to worry about shit for LESS$ than a live in girl. "Presuming I'm paying the rent." Plus no baby anchor, alimony, child support, and it could be a different girl each time. And even then I could still spin like no tomorrow and not put up with shit.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 10:35 AM
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Yup. All men are like that is just as true as all women are like that. Only in different areas.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 10:27 AM
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The best way? Preparation and a massive network. Coming from being a successful serial entrepreneur moving into serial angel, this is the only truth. Skill isn't enough. Location isn't enough. Intelligence isn't enough. Knowing the market isn't enough. Having the right connections isn't enough. A good work ethic isn't enough. All. Are. Necessary. You need to be able to fuse all the above to do what you're asking for. I'm making 8 digits yearly after tax now. But consider: wealthy family wealthy …
/r/askTRP27/04/17 06:02 PM
1

Well overall it's dangerous territory. Start off by finding a bdsm scene and learning how that cohort operates, the rules that are spoken and unspoken, the tools usually involved in different levels, from cake to slasher. Involve yourself in the scene and don't take risks, if anything ask for help from people a step up from whatever you're most recent experience is. Take it one step at a time and spend a good amount of sessions/encounters on each level to understand the nuances. Good luck.
/r/askTRP27/04/17 05:51 PM
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What does her silence mean? She's forgotten you for whatever reason. You're not the first pick in her time allotment. That's all that​ matters.
/r/askTRP27/04/17 05:45 PM
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Has anyone asked you the time on a busy street? That's what your basis should be. Be polite and quick. Then move on. Don't reciprocate nor continue the conversation.
/r/askTRP27/04/17 05:41 PM
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Not really. The friend zone is a state of placement. It exists. Whether you choose to stay there or not is something else entirely. Conflating/confusing/mistaking the two only leads to a denial of agency on either direction. The person being friends zoned or the person friends zoning. Keep them separate. They are.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 05:36 PM
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You're not really thinking about this at all. You're lost and need purpose. Read the sidebar while working enough to get your own minimalist place of residence, then move from there. After monk mode you can make decisions.
/r/askTRP27/04/17 05:33 PM
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Meet them in person, (if logistically possible) and follow the next 3 points. ensure its a limited amount of time by having another obligation. (15 mins, 30 mins, whatever) say "we Just aren't compatible." repeat or redirect to point 2 until it's time to go. No explaining or rationalizing. Afterwards, ghost. Hopefully you weren't foolish enough to have to deal with items getting back to their owner.
/r/askTRP27/04/17 05:19 PM
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Yeah the majority of 4chan anyway. They have their Gore groups, Jesus. Even the devil's advocates can have a devil's advocate.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 03:34 PM
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Eh. I've had quite a few who enjoyed anal. Whether they enjoyed it physically or just mentally and emotionally doesn't matter. It's fun if they're very clean, not fun if they're not. Honestly a pussy is better lubricated and with any amount of kegels and floor flexing it'll be every bit the snapper. Plus there's nothing like having shit on your dick. Eww. Even with a thorough cleaning it'll happen. Anyways in response to your question directly, no, women in general don't hate anal, they hate guy…
/r/askTRP27/04/17 03:27 PM
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Nailed it. Brush that dirt off your shoulder op. Girls love to talk. It's only words bro. If she's still enthusiastically fucking you, no worries.
/r/askTRP27/04/17 03:24 PM
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Yes really. Saw this change with a friend, sent from about 40% to 17% over a year and a half of seriously hard work. He simply enjoys life more. If you want to know what being fat is like, wear extra weight doing normal things. See how that affects your movements, your breathing, your willingness to simply do small tasks because even standing up requires a higher expenditure. Also, you lose about a half inch to an inch of depth on your cock being overweight. Less can't churn butter with a toothp…
/r/askTRP27/04/17 03:20 PM
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Yeah he's not concerned about that. And also yes, the dog hit me personally. Ex fiance killed my cat. Our cat. No. My cat. My fucking cat. That really woke me up stronger than anything. Deny a girl what she wants, fine. Deny a girl what she wants after you've given her access to your shit, and well, no fury like a woman scorned. Never getting married, or even just cohabitating again.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 03:12 PM
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The married ones at pick up scenes often are whores. If you're committed why are you heading to pick up brackets? If I am a recovered alcoholic do I just hang out in liquor stores? No. If I'm out on probation and putting drugs behind me do I casually chill with the guys at a drug den? Fuck no. For women, the ring is often another deniability claim. "Oh I'm just here for the music, I'm married." Bitch no you're not. You make good points.
/r/askTRP27/04/17 03:07 PM
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I really don't think marriage should be about the public commitment. Shouldn't it be about you two pledging yourselves to each other regardless of what others think? Regardless, that's dangerously close to virtue signaling, which isn't my intention. More importantly, I think you need to ask yourself why publicity is so important to you. You're already married to him. In my experience there will be zero change with public commitment aside from a party and some congratulations. He will still be hi…
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/17 03:02 PM
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Ok, I read your responses in the thread. Here's how not responding is better since you don't seem to be getting that one point. (You've gotten the others.) If you respond at all, you've given her attention. That's what people call giving her ammunition. Don't respond aside from basic politeness, I certainly wouldn't respond on vacation, and wouldn't respond to backstabbing commentary at all. If you acknowledge backstabbing commentary, you've confirmed it. You've admitted it's real, in other word…
/r/askTRP27/04/17 02:54 PM
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As long as you address it immediately, they'll understand. Now they'll act and claim that they don't, that's just a game. If she really can't put them together, you don't want her anyway, that's an alarming level of stupid, one that likely will get you into trouble eventually. (This goes beyond women and into men too, anyone that can't make a simple connection like that probably isn't a good influence in your life.) Humans are wired to understand cause and effect. I'd say many women are wired mo…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 02:33 PM
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Great question, and simple (yet often unspoken) answer. the bad guy will be butthurt and lash out. He'll be vindictive, destructive, you can demonstratively prove he took effort to punish you. the good guy simply won't react at all. He has options. He has a mission. If you're not working out it's because you're not compatible, not because he needs absolute control.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/17 05:24 PM
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Not at all. But men who are getting far under what they want, depending on discipline and priorities, need? Yeah. You're a back burner. I'm very sorry, but I need to be honest. 15 yrs of experience here. Both acting and coaching.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/17 05:20 PM
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It's a mix of things. proximity to alphas who are available (huge and rarely discussed) value management (what do you trade that they're not getting for free) and brutally, presentation. Looks plus garnish. I don't really pay attention to anygal not business based if she's under 7. (For my measurements, which I guarantee are lower than many endorsed, but higher than the super majority of average first world men). Honestly would need more info if what I've stated won't set you closer to the path.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/17 05:05 PM
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No. We refer to perfect women as unicorns, which means 1) this is subjective to the man 2) we know better than to give up everything to find it. So I can only speak for me. The only women I ltr are RP. And blatantly so. It's a treat to meet you gals! Hell. I'd love to marry my unicorn. But it hasn't happened yet.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/17 04:59 PM
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More power to this. The "tricks", (I call it strategy and just... Well functional interaction) don't work with people who have serious, intensive goals. The people who have decided their mission sniff out mimicry or canned tricks incredibly well. There's something about them, maybe it's the transparent honesty the pride in saying no, the objective measurement, whatever it is. Normal pua starts to fall unless you're​ actually what you're displaying.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/17 04:45 PM
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It's okay for you to friend zone or relegate her to a connector. Women have "dicks in a jar" so you can have a puss in a Jar too.
/r/askTRP26/04/17 04:36 PM
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Feelings are relative and indisputable. Women run on feelings. So a more attractive option to any woman is malleable and contextual. In other words, ignore it. Focus on what you want, learn what your stomping grounds are.
/r/askTRP26/04/17 04:33 PM
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No it just means some underage girl wanted an older guy. (Normal). Regardless of the reason, don't worry about it. Underage is too much danger so it doesn't matter. Take it as a compliment you can't act on and move on.
/r/askTRP26/04/17 04:32 PM
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I'm sorry, check my other response. He was fully funded by Sunday night. No offense, but I also wouldn't recommend a guy over the internet without his portfolio and solid proof. Beyond that, a personal meeting. My gut has always been very fine tuned, I trust the tone, the voice, the stance, and the handshake. Thanks though!
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 04:19 PM
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You're overqualified. I've been turned away from more positions because of fear that I'd not stick around, then I have from positions that I didn't have the merit for. Reach higher. (Or lie. That works too).
/r/askTRP26/04/17 03:29 PM
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I'm retired. "Economically". You need to own production and limitation. Without that you're forever the slave. So work towards owning things. You sitting on your ass needs to make you money. Once you're there for at least 50kpy after taxes (my measurement) then you're free. Of course the minimum depends on how you spend and what you want. Edit: my parents told me to check this when I was in highschool. You should look into it. (The first million is the hardest) and (benfords law).
/r/askTRP26/04/17 03:25 PM
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You progress, she gets healthy stress. Much better than "happy wife happy life" bullshit. Good on you bro. Keep working hard, and more importantly, take satisfaction in hitting each milestone! My personal "good enough" level is when random blowjob's hit multiple times a day. Then I know it's time to comfort, dread may be too high. It's safe to take an off day each week.
/r/askTRP26/04/17 03:20 PM
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Go to the rpsub. Search by "college" or "social" Sort by "top of all time" Enjoy, filtering by endorsed will quickly consolidate as a tip.
/r/askTRP26/04/17 03:18 PM
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Well in short: The majority of men (80% sub top) have to lower standards to get satisfaction. All women can raise their standards (because 80% of men won't/can't recognize their true bargaining power) The top 20% become that much more desirable and access given. So yeah. Fat chicks are bad. In fact, fat anyone is bad. It lowers standards all around unless they're in the minutia of stats.
/r/askTRP26/04/17 03:16 PM
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Agreed. Unfortunately look at the stats and ask yourself how many people make this decision by that guideline? Even worse, how many know well enough to? I'm not trying to be a downer, actually the opposite, we're lucky to have this information internalized or easily accessible.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/17 03:11 PM
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Have you considered escalating before the number? Getting her to qualify herself? Just a thought.
/r/askTRP26/04/17 03:02 PM
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I agree. Except the premises that're unspoken is that both partner's will be forthcoming, transparent, understanding, and honest. Beyond that just being self aware enough to be truly accurate. And even that isn't commonplace. These are not usually the case. Edit: how do you fix that? A large amount of time and effort. I can't think of anything else aside from total absolute crisis changing perspective.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/17 02:59 PM
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Ego. Why would an objective rational married man care? No idea. But you said married men, no other qualifiers. So probably delusion, ignorance, or dogma.(all to protect the ego)
/r/askTRP26/04/17 02:57 PM
2

Thanks bro. Though was built through 15yrs of spinning. That's the down side. (And I was raised very red!) At least I helped.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 02:51 PM
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Those are some proportions. Flab to muscle ratio, definition, those are choices. They all lend to proportion, clothing helps too. Both of those guys could easily slay. I agree it's completely blatantly obvious everyone has a base line, but you can do so much to improve on the base line if you're 97% of the population.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 09:35 AM
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WHY aren't we stepping up and changing the society and make woman behave better? we are. Simply creating more rp men who willingly say no to bad deals is changing everything. It takes time bro. In addition there are myriad content providers with subscriptions growing every day educating young men how to NOT get cucked by the current system. I'm open to refute your any counter claims but if you have half ounce of brain and if you took the red pill, you would know this is truth. Nah. You haven't p…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 01:21 PM
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This is what happened before with my sahg. Quite happy until distance caused us to split. (Amicably) I'll add: Learn sewing and repair. Really underestimated skill that even many men are picking do something random for him every week. Doesn't have to be scheduled, but a little project is nice. "Honey I polished your shoes.", Or, "morning coffee and a bj alarm clock". Stuff that's small and easy. It makes him feel like a king.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 12:46 PM
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I skipped mine. Anyone worth knowing is still in my network anyway. Plus they're already pirranas via Facebook.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 12:36 PM
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Archived link. http://archive.is/G9fdj Don't give Jezebel clicks.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 12:26 PM
2

I've spent several years in very happy relationships with red pill women. (Naturally or actually terminology aware). Some may not call them successful, since we aren't still together, but the splitting was congenial, amicable, usually location or job based. I'd say RP works just as well on a red pill woman, as red pill woman tactics do on a RP man. Most of the advice and tactics used posted here are things I willingly admit I would react very positively to. Then again, I view both praxeological …
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 12:22 PM
1

Well yeah. People aren't perfect and there isn't a unicorn. Don't get married. Sorry bro it's just not statistically viable in any way anymore. Even Brad Pitt just got deep dicked raw dog style by Angelina (BPD) Jolie. I'm not saying it is impossible, but you'll have to assuredly make concessions, and assuredly be vetting more than you could ever count to find the least losing deal. The last generation of good marriages I've seen was my parents, and they're around 80yrs old.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 12:11 PM
1

It's the ideal fantasy. The inverse of the male fantasy. - perfect 10/10 virgin girl who fucks ONLY ME better than a porn star. See? Silly. But it sells a great escape fantasy.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 12:07 PM
1

Sure. I don't see any problem with that. Though if I know the girl is into me I usually do the one armed hug if I don't want her.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 11:53 AM
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Over the last two months, bluntness has become remarkably more effective for me. "Many more first encounter fucks than before". I've been wondering about this, whether it's the women changing, me hitting a new level, or a mix of both. In the past 15yrs, ons was possible but not likely. I always had plenty of plates though, but they'd usually require an introduction or two, then smash. Then decide to plate or move on. In 2 months I've been incredibly direct, fr below for example, and insta pickup…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 03:37 PM
1

Comes down to 3 things on my experience. hard to say no in person. They didn't want ya. casting a net, you weren't the best pick. "Or even second best that night". This is normal healthy human behavior. should've escalated immediately, all the way to fucking at first meet, but since you delayed, you're off the table. Attraction lost.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 03:24 PM
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Hey op, try this. "After reading all the other comments, they've pretty much explained things very well". give him a random bj. Crawl under his desk if necessary. Make it clear you desire him. "More than just being available". next time you're screwing, get into your favorite position, and pull his hand to your throat. "If you like that". If you don't like that, place his hands, move him with you. Both will give him clear signals "more is good". Just don't ever attack him for doing things wrong,…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 03:09 PM
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Others have explained why this is the case. I'll try to explain how to change it. (Which can take too much time to be worthwhile if you don't set the boundaries from the start). early in the relationship set standards of high sexual proclivity. Maintain them. "A hug involves a grope" put her hand on your dick. Snuggling leads to a bj. Whip it out. Etc. reward any sexuality she displays to you. Reward even more if it's above the norm. be unreactive towards non sexual activities. This doesn't mean…
/r/askTRP24/04/17 02:56 PM
1

Thx man. He's fully funded now. So the waiting game has begun lol.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 02:49 PM
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you lift too much you're already ripped, why lift so much you spend too much time working your being weird/an asshole/insensitive you don't care about my feelings you've changed hey musclehead anyone who works out is compensating OMG, friends help each other "do x for me" you're really selfish. "Share your assets" Valentine's day is coming up, I want x. why don't we get to go on dates you make me feel bad "don't leave me behind" you can afford it a real man "x" Etc. Etc. Etc. All of it is "Submi…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 02:45 PM
1

Fuck my bro and I have done most of those things "and we were appropriately dealt with" But cameras to regulate your own children, even then, that's pretty pisspoor imo.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 02:18 PM
1

That's not exactly true. You can easily be seen as an attractive person without escalating. Lots of guys are in shape, have money, social proof, etc, even good talking game, but don't physically escalate. Yeah they're attractive, but they're cowardly. Walking into a room will still get them more iois, and make women flustered, but following through though it should be easier, is much less likely to happen. If you want the social proof, be friendly, and deflect. Take her friends and such, but don…
/r/askTRP24/04/17 02:17 PM
1

Yeah. Put her on birth control or better yet, get snipped. "Vasectomy" Or, even statistically, buy the right fit condoms and maintain absolute control of them, even in disposal.
/r/askTRP23/04/17 10:53 PM
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"was I supposed to?" Only if you want to. Since you didn't, don't. That's perfectly fine bro.
/r/askTRP23/04/17 10:50 PM
3

Fuck yeah. It works really well. Watch that hamster wheel achieve lift!
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 10:46 PM
1

Hey bro, it's like my friend says. If you're watching sex do you want a guy with a for long or a micro? "No I want an angry powerful throbbing... Oh shit I guess I am a little gay". Really, your submissive fantasy is only going to be fixed by exposure. Get out there and begin fucking chicks, even and especially practice girls.
/r/askTRP23/04/17 10:45 PM
1

So really the question is "how to stop being shy" Well, take risks. That's really how it works. Gotta do it to learn it. I know that sounds flippant, but it's l like asking how to be swole. You lift. How to stop being shy? You socialize a little more every time.
/r/askTRP23/04/17 10:41 PM
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This is a question answered by goals. Is the goal to have the specific milk? "Nice goal" Or to have milk in general. "Also nice goal" Neither is wrong, it's a question of goals. Men and women both do this, and on both sides. Do you want sex in general? Do you want commitment and support in general? It's important to remember that ultimately different goals are fine, but contrasting ones are a practical guarantee of incompatibility. No need to shame either side here "I hope I didn't" but goals mu…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/17 10:38 PM
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Eh. Not that uncommon. "Holding, straddling, etc". Shit, I've had a few who fall asleep with me in them. "Thought it was creepy but actually turned out fine. Probably lucky." It's just sexualized comfort. That's good. When it ends, then you should be wary. Good plates and girls who are into you often just can't keep from playing/petting. It may have to do with how you set the standards for interaction though, I don't do random cuddles, my dicks getting sucked or stroked. Equivalent exchange. I g…
/r/askTRP23/04/17 08:37 PM
1

Yeah, but it doesn't shift blame, just includes ignorance. The blame still needs to be accepted. "Which is a healthy part of accepting and exercising your agency" If no one ever told me to lift, it's still my fault I'm not swole. I just didn't know better, yes, but ignorance is no acquittal. You don't have to beat yourself up about it, but you do need to accept the buck stops with you!
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 08:31 PM
1

Depends strictly on your goals. If it's that important to you, do it and don't bitch about the consequences. If it's not, don't. And don't bitch about the consequences. The one thing I can definitely say is, it's a very loaded game, the deck is not stacked in your favor, it's quite against you.
/r/askTRP22/04/17 05:08 PM
4

Actually it sounds like a person who knows exactly what they want and is clear about it. No butthurt necessary. He didn't even snap at her. Plus, you don't know this kid, neither do I! Check your rage bro. Kids are fine, but they're definitely cock blocks. If your goal is sex, better off without them.
/r/askTRP22/04/17 05:05 PM
2

Get out immediately. You can afford it. You can look for a better deal while you're out during your first lease term. For now, you really need a better environment for you to flourish. Shit man, cameras... Fuck.
/r/askTRP22/04/17 04:51 PM
2

Objectively, these urges aren't very powerful in you. Speak to some kids from juvie to find out how badly maladaptives deal with self control. However I understand your desire to fight for something. That takes time and a goal, a real goal. Focus your time finding that, and spend the remainder in the ring. If you want to at least become a warrior, boxing and wrestling are as fine a place as any to get started. Move to MMA afterwards.
/r/askTRP22/04/17 04:46 PM
2

Just don't escalate, and continually deflect any attempts for them to escalate. Pretty simple.
/r/askTRP22/04/17 04:37 PM
1

I... Don't have to trick anyone into fucking me. If they don't want to, they won't. I have a lot to offer and good portion of women want that, they have the right to barter for it like anyone else. It's an open market. Tricks aren't necessary "for me and many others". Blatant transparent honesty is very functional as long as you're willing to accept "no" with your head held high. I understand you're hurting bro, but what you're saying doesn't even make sense. If "guys like me" didn't exist there…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 12:30 PM
1

Well, I don't know where you're getting this "rubbing it in the face" nonsense. That's not our goal, we don't really preach, we're not supposed to be fishers of men, the info is simply here to be found, it's a toolbox in the back of the social market shed that only a few find and even fewer utilize, take it or leave it. There's plenty of guys out there who don't know trp, and are still very happy and successful, it's just that many of the praxeological approaches from trp are mirrored in success…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 12:20 PM
1

By acting. When people watch success they'll emulate or they won't. You can't make that decision for him, nor should you stamp on his agency by trying to force the issue. If he's a net positive in your life, keep him around, if not, there's billions of men out there, plenty of them can make a great friend.
/r/askTRP22/04/17 12:13 PM
2

Stop worrying about how you look in regards to him, you can't change him. You can change yourself, so take notes and keep working hard on you. Don't get discouraged, use him as a motivation, learn by watching him. He's another source of information and you're lucky that it's a real world one you can experience frequently.
/r/askTRP22/04/17 11:58 AM
1

No it doesn't go against being alpha. Nor does it really go against anything. Most of human interaction is about getting people to like you. Using tools is just that, using tools. As long as there's no coercion involved, you're good.
/r/askTRP22/04/17 11:49 AM
1

Don't feel bad. You two wanted different things and you didn't string her along. It's all good. In fact, that's the best way this could work out. It's fine to have different goals. If you went into a relationship not certain you wanted one, it would've been tainted from the start. Then no one wins, you certainly wouldn't.
/r/askTRP22/04/17 11:47 AM
3

Shit man, invader Zim, the tatted girls go crazy over that shit. Jonan Vasquez has gotten me laid probably 17/20 attempts. Pretty damned impressive. Then again, I've moved on from tatted girls, they're trouble.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 05:39 PM
2

Just ask them "are you red?" They'll catch on and say yes, or they'll be confused. Anything less than a yes is uncertain and your should act as though in Rome. "Do as the Romans do".
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 05:30 PM
1

Wouldn't. Would. Want. That's it. That's all there is to attraction. It's very simple and effective.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 05:18 PM
3

It's over. Even if you got back together things could never be as they were. Move on. For your own sake, and if you're that kinda guy, for hers too. For whatever reason, she thought she could get better. That amount of disrespect doesn't change, it's simply masked more effectively.
/r/askTRP21/04/17 04:58 PM
1

Seek psychiatric help immediately. Gender dysphoria is a serious illness. Even though by Pew research it's only affecting under 1%of the population, it's becoming more and more accepted. The way the first world is dealing with it, It's not fixing shit. The suicide rate is still a coin toss. This will fuck up their life without help.
/r/askTRP21/04/17 04:54 PM
3

All you need to know is that "familiarity breeds contempt". Distance and mystery, uncertainty, are very good things.
/r/askTRP21/04/17 04:51 PM
13

I took the jump. I'm an accomplished entrepreneur, and have been working towards serial investment for about a year and a half. I finally pulled the trigger with one of my students, funding him 12% of his startup in bioinformatics immortality research. It's been only 4 days and he's 80% funded, thanks to his talent and me sticking my neck out on the line to give him connections. I've not done something like this before, and it's a big step. I'm honestly afraid "and was paralyzed until recently b…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 04:45 PM
2

They're just virtue warriors. Beholden to their beliefs and narrative above facts or action. Just like any dogma, going too far to deny functional reality creates fools in a cult-like movement, but also creates a sense of belonging and purpose that's easier than accepting your own agency.
/r/askTRP21/04/17 04:40 PM
7

Hmmmm. Normally I agree with a lot of what you say, but you should've watched the video this time mate. All respect due. I mean that truly. Edit! I read lower that you watched it. I'm glad you changed tune.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 04:37 PM
1

It's actually a very boring story. (By my reckoning). So no.
/r/askTRP21/04/17 04:19 PM
1

Mr. Slut. Get it right bro.
/r/askTRP21/04/17 04:18 PM
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They all can. That doesn't mean they all will. You invest in the market knowing there's always a chance you lose money. With people it's the same. Men need to spread the seed, women need to upgrade to best for the offspring. The answer is exactly the same as in the market actually, don't put all your eggs into one basket Or as we call it, abundance and plate spinning. It really isn't something to worry about if you take the proper precautions.
/r/askTRP21/04/17 01:16 PM
2

Well since you're not a subscriber to red pill praxeology, expect things to continue this way. At least until you crush the sidebar and get some frame work done.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 01:05 PM
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I was completely against it, and the first time I experienced it was both unexpected and uninvited. After that fallout, I gave it a shot. Believe me I've never nutted that hard in my life, but I've also never felt so disgusted with myself. Maybe it's psychological, but try it. It's a powerful orgasm, like you wouldn't believe, but if you're not into it (as I'm not), don't do it. But try it once. You can always deny it ever happened and never do it again bro.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 06:07 PM
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Nope. It makes you care about your own goals, whatever you choose those to be. You decide what your walking points are, no one else. Trp just helps you be objective in that decision making. The rest is on you. One of my closest friends is a bleeding heart liberal, but he's red to the core. It's very entertaining to watch.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 03:07 PM
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Can it help? Yes. Massively. It will always improve your odds when you improve yourself. Will you ever have the percentage kill rate of a version of you without the condition? No. Accept it, try to move past it, after all you can't change it. Also you may be one of the few that would really benefit from horizontally oriented entertainers. (Hoes) save up to buy the love, hour to hour, and never worry about commitment.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 03:04 PM
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Practice hate fucking. Give it a Google. Trust me it works on both sides. Ime, girls just need that intensity, you don't necessarily have to like them to like fucking them. Maybe your different, very likely in fact, but fucking is as much therapy as it is pleasure for me. Just an option I'm putting out there. If that certainly won't work for you, vet differently and approach in circles that are more favorable to your tastes.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 03:00 PM
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Hey bro, she's not using you, you're allowing yourself to be used. You can walk at any time. Use your legs. Preferably in the direction of a new plate whose prettier than her.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 02:59 PM
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laugh at him. "Why do you always look so angry, why are you so awkward?" thanks for the concern bro, I appreciate it. why are you so focused on me? I appreciate it but, I don't swing that way. because you're not around, but hell you always brighten my day. because I neeeed to beeeee youuuuu. Everything should be said with a shit eating grin. Either that or outright ignore him.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 02:58 PM
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It's talk. Read her actions, ignore the words. She's putting herself near you at every chance. She's being sexual at every chance. So escalate. Pretty simple. The worst that can happen is you get a no.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 02:48 PM
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It depends entirely on context. If you're 8/10 and above, you can likely use this as a base tactic, especially on things like tinder, or while clubbing. Contexts that lend themselves to "having fun". You can also increase your chances by fucking a good 2 tiers below your level. You can also look at the context of introduction. Plenty of ons girls I've had, the first introduction was on the dance floor, they're grinding like crazy and checking your dick before they know your name, being blunt wor…
/r/askTRP20/04/17 02:43 PM
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You can't control it so don't worry about it. I know that reads as flippant, but it's not intended to be. Allow me to explain. All girls are like that for the right guy in the right context. Someone else just got that wombo combo before you did. You can't change that, though you can learn from it and appreciate that it helped you vet this girl and motivate you. What you can control is improving yourself. No matter how great you are at some point you'll be with a girl who another guy fucked much …
/r/askTRP20/04/17 12:42 PM
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Nah. I see where you're coming from, but really this isn't of much value I don't think, here's why. Imo, you're trying to boil down a praxeology that has many distinct categories, frame, game, aggressiveness, dgaf, health, wealth, social adroitness, power, location goal setting, discipline, and claiming that two of these things are the cornerstones. No way. Number one, every man has a different mix, and different goals, which will require some parts of the formula to be given more attention or d…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 12:22 PM
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Who cares what Chad is doing. You can't change him, only yourself. So don't waste the time worrying about him.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 12:06 PM
1

Giving is risky. If what you've given is not appreciated, your excess is worthless. That is, what you have to offer, what you consider expendable, is not worth anything. Not even enough to be taken and gracefully discreetly discarded. That fucking hurts. Always accept a gift. Don't ever give unless it's from excess. Ex. I give someone a console. 350 bucks of my time. Presume I'm making 10 an hour. That's a full week of effort. If it's received well, that's awesome, confirmation. If it's discarde…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 05:39 PM
2

Simply put, you need to be more powerful than her. That's all shit testing is. "If you're not stronger than me what are you worth, why would I want you?". That's all.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 04:22 PM
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You're right, but added nothing. Thx.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 01:12 PM
2

Trying to save one is hell. Just one of your own making, "as most are.".
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 01:12 PM
2

Yeah. My gym buddy always laughs at the people he trains, "healthy equals hard-on","sick equals softy." That's really all there is to it. These types always get it backwards, healthy people aren't making you look bad, you make them look even better.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 12:53 PM
2

Cool. In that case the listed podcasts are self help but done via exposition and demonstrative. (In parable or actual exercise). You should also consider listening to the black Philip series.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 02:46 PM
1

Well, yes. However you can calibrate further based on your personality and frame. If you're a funny guy then agree and amplify. If you're good with words, deflect. If you're a stoic then use amused mastery. If you really don't care at all and don't mind losing her, flip the script and destroy her. (Black knighting). The overall goal is to ignore the frame she's trying to make you step into and go ahead with your own. Just don't deer. (Defend, excuse, explain, rationalize). That won't fly.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 12:24 PM
1

Doesn't matter. Are you getting laid? Are you getting what you want? Is it a good deal? If it's a "yes" then don't worry about it. However it's obvious you're curious. Yes. Women brag. Usually it's humble bragging about how desired they are or how much access they have. "I just get sick of all these guys trying to get into my pants, not like Chad of course/ hamster hamster".. Men tend to brag in a more overt way. "Man she can deepthroat the whole thing, balls too. Plus she's chill as fuck, not b…
/r/askTRP17/04/17 12:12 PM
2

And more cash than they do/their family does.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 12:10 PM
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We can't. Each man sets his own mission. We'll all have different regulations and walking points. You're fishing for a man, but you're asking the fish how to throw a net. Better off asking a Fisherwoman. The best I could say is vague. Be in shape. Don't be a cunt. Offer more to him than others can to differentiate yourself. So go to rpw.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 12:08 PM
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Having options and being happy to walk on a bad deal. lift and dress well until you're constantly getting iois. Especially in front of her. be happy to cut losing deals from your life, she'll notice and relate that to her own performance and security. Dread is her being constantly aware that if she slacks there's another few options in the wings who won't slack.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 12:04 PM
1

Why not build your own? I do that twice a week. Push, pull, legs, (compound), push, pull, legs (isolation sculpting), day off, (Sunday). Repeat.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 12:02 PM
2

Ah. You've created a false dichotomy. Blue pill traits are good? Red pill traits are bad? No. Traits simply are. You decide what is good and bad for you. You can decide to be objective "what is most effective" or you can be relative to your own goals. You can also find where the two meet. If you're worried you're being a cunt then dial back the cuntyness. If you're worried about losing who you were, then recognize that people are always changing and who you were is rarely who you will be in the …
/r/askTRP17/04/17 11:58 AM
1

What did you do wrong? You wasted time and thought power trying to argue your point with a girl you're not fucking. It's a bad deal. Both because you can't use argument to change perspectives that are belief based, and because you're paying her time and attention and not getting anything out of it.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 11:51 AM
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Try podcasts instead? ace productivity master of memory the art of likeability Maybe you prefer self help stuff, that's cool, but I've found podcasts are quickly becoming a better replacement since they're not frozen in time.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 11:44 AM
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Yup, he's great. There's plenty of guys like this on trp, just use Reddit to friends them so you can follow their advice easily. It'll also help you cut the chaff quickly so you can spend less time here and more time out doing.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 11:42 AM
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Use it as an excuse to chill with your Bros. Take all the valuables or pets you have and don't want damaged to a friend's house and chill until she's gone. They'll understand. In the future simply refuse to move in with a chick.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 11:37 AM
1

Interested. But I didn't really swallow it so much as I discovered it the terminology. Most men get angry. Then move through the stages until they either stagnate or succeed.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 11:34 AM
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Biology and common sense. a girl who sleeps around is less likely to be faithful and bond, and less likely that you'll be raising your actual kids. (Biology). women are the gate keepers of sex and babies, a lock opened by a ton of keys is a shitty lock. A key that opens many locks is a master key. (Common sense). You can go much further with actual stats and studies, pair bonding, sexual science, etc, but they're barely necessary. Most everyone understands this apriori it's built into us since o…
/r/askTRP17/04/17 11:30 AM
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"Better to cry in a Mercedes than on a bicycle" comes to mind. Overall though, I agree. I think the 200k is kinda silly, I know plenty of people making much more who are unhappy, and plenty making much less who are happy. As long as your basic needs are covered plus you have excess for fun time, it's really down to your internal frame and mission. I'd sat a wage floor more than anything, say about 60k a year. (If you're only supporting yourself). Why? Because I was fucking ecstatic every day whi…
/r/askTRP17/04/17 11:23 AM
2

Well the first step is mimicry. Don't compliment someone unless they're doing something you like. Not just saying, but physically doing. Stay away from the obvious, this includes physical beauty and clothing. Anyone can dress up, even though most don't have any idea how to do so well, women usually know how to market their bodies. Don't give for free. Not even your time or attention. Certainly not money nor favors. You wait until there's a trade and you make certain to walk if the trade is one s…
/r/askTRP17/04/17 11:03 AM
1

Society insists on it because it's profitable. That's the core reason. Do you appeal to the people who are in the 20% who don't need you, don't need your gratification, don't need to be guided or told what to do, and are willing to walk away? No. You appeal to the 80% who will give you business.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 10:52 AM
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Nice write up, really accurate in my experience with the upper class. I think you're putting what he does naturally into words, just remember that he doesn't think and categorize this stuff, his lifetime of experience and upbringing has simply made RP his personality, his ingrained belief system. It's not at all as though he needs to think through these systems to apply, he simply is them. To those saying "pleasantly surprised that there aren't many", that he can only do this because of daddy's …
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 10:50 AM
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The time in which I do things is irrelevant. My priority matters most when transferred to your own metric. (You'll decide what to prioritize) I go monk every year for a month. no digital media outside of business lifting gets an upgrade to paying trainer for a month. (Form and criticism) try new things every week. whatever I'm doing worst that year becomes a focus, delegate or improve. whatever I'm doing best gets measured, dedicate less or more depending on the opportunity cost. From last year'…
/r/askTRP15/04/17 05:54 PM
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It's an ex bro. You've expended her. (Used up her value to you) So it doesn't matter. Focus on other things, block everything from her and move on.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 05:51 PM
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I internalize by practice. read the book schedule practicing the first step. practice the first step until it's natural schedule second step and practice until natural Rinse and repeat. Internalizing is beyond acting, it's at the point something is automated. Small steps with great discipline.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 05:47 PM
1

Pretty sure it is. A few professional comedians have laughed at it, and I know it's a common joke around stand up nights.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 02:40 PM
1

You kinda answered it yourself. If it's easier for you to state how a situation is, and whether that's good or bad, change the word good to "feeling great" or change bad to "I dislike x". If the equation is zero sum, "I'm ok." You don't have to change you, just change some terms. Or don't. It's really up to what you want most. As far as your ltr, she just wants validation that she's doing well, that or she's trying to guilt you into putting forth more effort. Only you can decide which that is.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 12:46 PM
1

With that attitude you're completely right. If you make a checklist based on the sidebar and begin working hard, you'll be fine. You have a double edged sword in being autistic, you'll always see the objective side of the equation which, through experience, can make getting laid a formula. You also won't see the nuances of the interaction without a lot of mental and emotional effort, which can cause problems without brute forcing tons of experience. So work hard, game all the time, take notes, b…
/r/askTRP13/04/17 12:43 PM
2

"you're fine, keep practicing." What she's probably asking is for more visual or physical feedback during the act. She's also asking for a little attention and direction. I usually go with "you're fine, can you deepthroat well?" Specifically "fine", not amazing, not above average, but fine. Not good, not great, but fine. As in "you're like any other girl unless x", x being you can deepthroat well.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 12:39 PM
1

Anywhere there are girls. What's the end game here, is this your fetish? Why look when you can touch, why touch when you can fuck.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 12:34 PM
2

consider adding in mediation. It's lifting for your state of mind. Also read the wiki article of the day every day. If you don't understand it slog through as much as you can. If you like it, grab a book on it. You may also want to listen to: Ace productivity podcast while lifting Master of memory podcast while lifting The art of likeability podcast while lifting Read something every day, there's a whole sidebar and if you search trp archives there's the red pill reading list. Enjoy yourself too…
/r/askTRP13/04/17 12:34 PM
1

Nope. I don't care about anything except "does this make my life inconvenient." Plenty of my plates have baggage, most humans do. But it needs to be baggage that affects me negatively. Most submissive girls have baggage, but they also make great plates ime. (As an example).
/r/askTRP13/04/17 12:58 AM
1

Do not get married. I got engaged, same thing happened, and even when I had epic level dread. (Girls calling me all the time, open flirting, swole, money, questionable missing hours, etc). She still treated me better than half my plates, but you could see the quality drop within a week. What you should take from this is that women adjust to standards set by surrounding frames. Even if you're ballin and risky, they just reset to that basis, so any sign of weakness is taken advantage of. (Most oft…
/r/askTRP13/04/17 12:53 AM
1

Hmmmm. Mines the honey badger. Forever angry but sweet tasting when satisfied.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 12:52 AM
7

Dave Chappelle said it best, "101 ways to please your guy, written by... Some woman. Ladies that list is 4 things long, suck his dick, play with his balls, make him a sammich and don't talk so much." He said of course to thunderous applause.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 12:46 AM
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I agree with you and the op, except for one thing. "Just be yourself" I disagree with that. Often times who people are isn't good enough. I watch people be themselves everyday, most of them aren't worth my investment. And that's coming from a guy who believes everyone can teach you something, "though no one person can teach you everything." I'm ignoring the semantic argument of course. "If you change yourself you're still being yourself" kinda stuff. Love that, do it all the time, but what I tea…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 12:42 AM
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Nah. Deflection has always worked fine for me as a reframe. I suppose that may be hard to display via text. Still, cool enough.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 02:22 PM
1

Cool if that works for you. I've watched many who it didn't.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 02:17 PM
2

Press charges? Seriously, I only harm those who are harming me, regardless of gender. And only if I can't escape. I've trained a decent amount and am swole, most of that training though included recognizing bad decision making and avoiding it. (In others and yourself). Plus, I usually pull with a lot of social proof, if things do escalate I have Bros, hoes, and bouncers on my side. Otherwise I vet very carefully.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 02:16 PM
7

She respected me, up until- No. She respected you until she didn't. No defending, excusing, explaining, or rationalizing. Too late for that.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 02:13 PM
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Ah, ask yourself how often she enjoyed sex. That want/need doesn't disappear. If you're not giving to her, someone else is. Period.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 02:11 PM
2

It's over. She just wants you as a dick in a jar. You give her emotional support and stick around as her last option, she doesn't give you anything. Do you know anything about Rock climbing? You're her belay. If she can't scale new dick enough she can fall down and you'll catch her. Block her and get back out there. She's disrespected you enough.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 02:08 PM
1

https://youtu.be/7cZx4JX2NR4 shopping for a husband. Pretty much explains the state of entitlement and hypergamy self destructing. And a key difference in men and women.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 02:01 PM
1

Just reposted this a few minutes ago. Doing it again. Frame tldr All of frame is summarized by viewing yourself as the prize and priority. A separation between "other" and "I" with "I" being the prize. That's it. Core Frame, it's the color you see the world in, the ever present sound track of your life. Everything about strong frame comes from viewing the world as a stage and yourself the main character. You're the dashing hero, you're totally separate from them, you're the only person that trul…
/r/askTRP11/04/17 02:00 PM
1

Repost: Icebreakers tldr You walk up to a new person, maybe you're introduced, you shake hands, Hi! My name is redstoic, what's yours? How are you doing? Ensue awkward silence. If you have this problem you need to understand icebreakers. It only takes 3 steps, you're probably doing any 2 of them. Core Icebreakers, in my experience, are best orchestrated based on the following 3 rules. Invoke likeability. (Practice an hour a day for a week). Invoke action. (Practice an hour a day the following we…
/r/askTRP11/04/17 01:57 PM
1

Nice steal. Unless against all odds you're the origin of that meme. True nonetheless.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 01:52 PM
1

Repost: Frame tldr All of frame is summarized by viewing yourself as the prize and priority. A separation between "other" and "I" with "I" being the prize. That's it. Core Frame, it's the color you see the world in, the ever present sound track of your life. Everything about strong frame comes from viewing the world as a stage and yourself the main character. You're the dashing hero, you're totally separate from them, you're the only person that truly matters in the end, and that's all there is …
/r/askTRP11/04/17 01:46 PM
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About all that seems relevant is: Women are afraid that quality men don't want them (paraphrased). The rest belongs in your diary.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 01:44 PM
2

I dunno. Several of my plates have called me nice before. "Though I can't be certain it wasn't a form of mate guarding, women are crazy social engineers. They know what's up and don't forget it." In general I don't care what people say. Just what they do. You can call me nice all you want, it's as good an orgasm call as any. If you're a very congruent person "rare" then maybe I'd read into it. Probably not.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 01:41 PM
1

You can be friends if sexual​attraction and support (provision) don't come into it, and somehow still have mutual value transfer. Which is pretty much never. Awalt for provision, horny for men.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 01:35 PM
3

Gold diggers. Unfortunately my family and my own name is well known around here so hoes be diggin. In places I'm not known I find I do worst with the Asian crowd and with tall chicks, great with everyone else. 6' even, Dominican, swole, hat trick/sigma type. Previously accomplished local musician, entrepreneur, very good looking. Edit, I do really well in cities, much better than in rural locations, that stands across the globe.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 01:27 PM
1

Try approaching it by trying this out. speak less. be concise and precise. be fine with not getting a word in. See how that works for you, scarcity is a value builder after all. This of course presumes you have actual value to add, so do interesting new things and be passionate about what you do, it'll keep your stories fresh and engaging.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 01:24 PM
2

By your actions. You don't have to openly explain a lot of this stuff, simply live in accordance to your lines. why marry? Don't. Say it's not for me right now. why aren't girls more than a plaything? No need to even say this. Just treat them like it. Reward for being fun, dissociate for being trouble. why marry a woman above 30? Nah. Marriage isn't for me, if it ever was I'd want a larger fertility window. You really don't have to DEER, "defend, explain, excuse, rationalize" if you simply act. …
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 01:17 PM
2

Well, block and ghost her. Learn for the future. Also accept responsibility. No girl "sucks you in" short of a baby anchor. You walked into this by your own volition unless she black mailed/held a gun to your head or something. It was your choice, own it, learn from it. There's maybe 1 exception, borderline people are emotional cancer. They can do it. But they're not as common as you think.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 01:10 PM
3

Why? Because women are 1st mates by nature. Think of it this way, the biological imperative for women requires 9 months a pop being a dependent. (Evolutionarily). We have not evolved from this, though we are conditioned differently thanks to a world of excess. Your captain better be able to provide. Period. This means whomever is the best deal for provision, protection, access, etc, is the best deal period. A woman needs to be malleable to the other things that person needs to ensure he stays wi…
/r/askTRP10/04/17 11:07 PM
1

Nail down your primary goal. Your mission as a man. The moment you do that everything else becomes much easier, simply because with a measurement stick of your goal you become very happy to say no to a bad deal. You move deals from "I want" into "I need". Think about it, you already have micro goals or passions. Ever turned down something fun because long term it was in the way? That's having a mission, it extends to everything in your life. Focus on that. Additionally, it'll create more satisfa…
/r/askTRP10/04/17 10:57 PM
2

By not escalating with her when she wanted you to, she felt like a slut. Then the asd arrived "right on schedule" Dude, you could've fucked her in the bathroom with a solid amount of kino.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 10:55 PM
1

I wouldn't worry about her. You failed the shit tests but drew a line in the sand establishing yourself as the one with options (by acting as a no thanks). For the future, work on those shit tests, they only begin because a girl wants to place you in the "fuck or cuck" baskets. If she was truly apathetic and disinterested you will know because they'll be unresponsive or give flat out deniers.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 10:49 PM
9

Yup. The only entitlement you have is to a transparently agreed upon contract. That's it. Works both ways men, if you're not getting what you want, walk. Simply walk. There are others who will fight to give you what you want instead.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 10:36 PM
3

This times a million. Great advice, everything I would've said myself.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 01:59 PM
3

Sidebar. Now. And block her. No contact needed.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 01:57 PM
2

"no thanks, I'm not looking for dating." That's really all you need to say. If she pushes just repeat it, if she accepts it keep spinning. If she breaks as a plate move on and don't be butthurt.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 01:55 PM
10

Classic tropes exist for a reason. Sometimes because of underlying truth. Did painting with a friend one summer, ended up maintaining the milf who lived there for a few weeks. Felt a bit dirty though. Like a man whore.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 01:42 PM
2

You're not wrong. I mean that sincerely. However, I'd like to put forth a few things you may not be considering. you go after a specific demographic. Maybe it's not the one you're effective with. you have a sample bias "exactly like I and everyone does, can't be helped, isn't negative", try a new vetting and approach style.
/r/askTRP09/04/17 11:26 PM
1

Tldr. I know little of this girl, I don't use condoms as I should, I haven't read the sidebar, and if I have skimmed it, am certainly not applying it's lessons. Please make the decision for me (denying my agency and ignoring your lack of context)
/r/askTRP09/04/17 09:31 PM
1

Pre pay a trainer as far in advance as you can afford. You'll be fine. If the issues continue then continue with the trainer and additionally get a psych.
/r/askTRP09/04/17 09:28 PM
9

To respond to this, for op. "No, you may not do x. (Enter my house, search something, etc)" And, "That sounds serious officer. I'll need a lawyer before we speak further." Repeat ad infinitum. Those two are the only things you say to an leo. I love Leo's to be fair, but you need to protect yourself. As far as the girl, block and Ban, limit all interaction to text which you must capture and save. You'll be fine.
/r/askTRP09/04/17 09:24 PM
2

Yup. Always ask if you're feeling it. I've been mocked for stepping "out of my league" before. You know what? Didn't hurt after the first few times. (By few I mean about a dozen? Over the course of half a year when I became active.) About half I ended up forgetting. A quarter I ended up fucking Another quarter ended up plates. Now that's honestly really good numbers, but I see no reason not to shoot for it. Risk is need for thick skin. Thick skin builds frame. In turn frame increases game. Game …
/r/askTRP09/04/17 09:18 PM
1

The only things that are worth your time are those that don't subtract from your mission. Period. Hobbies can be worthwhile, burnout is brutal. Stupid mindless entertainment too, burnout is brutal. A bad deal that takes instead of being equivalent or beneficial? Never worthwhile. This is the fundamental truth of the redpill. The world is objective in reality, we all have our sample bias. Discovering your personal mission allows you to say no happily, with an excellent measuring stick. Discover y…
/r/askTRP09/04/17 09:15 PM
2

Start the counting method. Before opening your mouth you must count to ten. You'll miss plenty of opportunities to shine, yes. But that's not your problem. Your problem is building the discipline to shut the fuck up. Focus on that. Additionally you should reward yourself if you have the discipline to follow through. If you don't put your foot in your mouth for x days, you get something. Tie it into something you love. Maybe video games, maybe reading, whatever. Make yourself accountable for chan…
/r/askTRP09/04/17 09:10 PM
1

ghost her, block her, get busy. Only interact in recordable methods. save everything
/r/askTRP09/04/17 09:08 PM
1

This is truth. Source, I own my company. My boss is the market. My hobby is my mission.
/r/askTRP09/04/17 09:04 PM
5

In the future, don't schedule dates. Schedule hobbies that are get togethers with friends. Then invite a girl to join. Not "would you like to have dinner?" Instead "I'm doing karaoke with my Bros at 8pm Friday at x. You're welcome to join." Or even simpler, "I'll be at x around y time." More importantly you should be sending that message to a few women. A few times a week. The ones who show are fine, if there's conflict foreseeable, reschedule with the least favorites. But you need outcome Indep…
/r/askTRP09/04/17 08:58 PM
1

Sidebar. Then hit up redpillwomen. They'll help you very well.
/r/askTRP09/04/17 08:40 PM
7

To u/throwingmyslfoutther I gotcha fam. A covert contract is one which is never overtly given. In other words, believing in and expecting the Disney narrative for example, is a covert contract, unless at some point you make clear your expectations. Nice guy syndrome is already immensely covert. "I do x for her and she'll do y for me" doesn't work if both parties aren't on the same page, and is usually very presumptive, not at all transparent in your intentions. It's both a function of delusional…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 08:37 PM
1

Ignore shower technique's. Focus on habit forming and discipline. That is all.
/r/askTRP09/04/17 08:26 PM
2

Look, how much money you have can be flaunted, with abundance. (Not the abundance of your access and wealth, but abundance of options. Dread really.) You can do as I do. I don't talk about cash with any plate, nor on a date, but they'll know. Maybe you swipe the card too casually, maybe the next club is inordinately expensive, maybe a refurbished Spyder stands out, whatever you do, your general attitude towards expense will be different. So own it. Don't state it, act. And more importantly, don'…
/r/askTRP09/04/17 08:20 PM
1

Because you decide your mission, which also means you decide your own measurement sticks for success. Whether those are objectively influential is another matter entirely.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 08:06 PM
3

Okay. So, there are things which are beneficial, neutral, and negative. Each of these values are on a scale. At the high end of beneficial "almost purely theoretical aside from axiomatic based arguments" we have absolute answers. You'll find these in maths, physics, and fundamental concepts such as that which is or isn't true, and by that I mean which is consistent internally. Then you have the ones in the middle, somewhere on a spectrum, where what you do helps alleviate but doesn't solve. "The…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 08:01 PM
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Well that's a pretty weak set of reasoning. A, b, and c, are good things. But if you don't do c, you're not contributing. There are degrees, and more important differences in measurement scale. I suppose our measurement sticks are simply too dissociated from each other. Fair enough.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 04:30 PM
1

Telling a fish he's a failure because he can't climb a tree. That's what he means. The thing is even though all these people are telling you that, it's up to you to buy into their narrative. Don't.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 04:09 PM
1

"I agree, let's keep it physical and simple and see where things lead as we get to know each other." Draw a line in the sand. This is a trade, not a one sided attention ATM.
/r/askTRP09/04/17 04:01 PM
2

Yeah sometimes. Other times I'll invite them to join me at something I'm already doing. Usually a physical activity with a time limit. Escalate from there, either they'll fuck you or they won't, no biggie.
/r/askTRP09/04/17 03:57 PM
7

Nah. You may think enjoying the decline is a myth, but I'm very happy and thriving in it. Do I do my part? Yes. I mentor younger guys and take care of my own, I donate heavily to charity, occasionally do soup kitchens and charity events. I spin happily and effectively, I take care of those I choose to. I employ and tutor young men and help them thrive. I'm a net positive in society and masculinity, and example has brought emulation from plenty of others I know. A rational appeal is usually much …
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 03:51 PM
3

Stop tolerating her crap. if she invites people over without telling you and you don't like it, just say that won't work. You've made plans. Text the guys and go out. Check meetup or local events and choose one. Try something new. if she makes plans without consulting you, and you don't like them, say no thanks, I'm not feeling that. I've made plans. Go do something with the guys. if she's being passive aggressiveness nip it in the bud. Don't react at all. Just tell her to cut it out and go abou…
/r/askTRP09/04/17 03:43 PM
7

Well I'm friending you, I need to see this. It'll be hilarious (hopefully) Regardless of the cuts, do an FR after the fact.
/r/askTRP09/04/17 02:24 AM
1

I don't think so man. I'm nearing 30, but my plates are 21 to 26. (This month) highest plate was 31 in age. Taking care of yourself, (lifting, diet, skin care, if you're lucky genetics,) will make you reasonable for years. My grandad died at 97, his last girlfriend at 96 was a 35yr old milf I wouldn't have minded hitting myself. (She looked sub 30) I'm just saying from experience being around wealthy healthy people, you can make it happen without doing too much. I think you over estimate how muc…
/r/askTRP09/04/17 02:20 AM
2

You did mention "to have a girlfriend or more" Is that your goal? If not, you can still spin easily. Just lie or evade. Both work. The latter is probably less morally questionable.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 05:29 PM
1

Don't over explain. It shouldn't matter unless you're looking for beta bucks categorization. Look, I'm in my 20s, an entrepreneur and serial investor, upper class. I have about 30 employees. My answer to "what do you do" is "work and play in the entertainment industry." If they follow up it's "I work on total quality management. Efficiency meets effectiveness. I love my job." I don't want to nor am I obligated to say more. Just reframe the qualifiers to her.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 05:24 PM
1

First off, what do you have to offer. Think on that heavily. You need to have value. Maybe a knowledge everyone needs, maybe a skill set, maybe social clout, even money if you can leverage it properly (most can't). Whatever it is, use it. Live an interesting and productive life. Second, approach. Ice break. Integrate yourself. Walk away from failure as a learning experience. Read how to win friends and influence people, listen to Ace productivity and the art of likeability. Most importantly, you…
/r/askTRP08/04/17 05:14 PM
2

Stoicism isn't ignoring emotion. It's accepting objectivity. (It is the nature of glass to break, of men to die, and of sickness to happen). Adjusting your reaction to these truths and many others, learning to put only the value something truly has upon it, creates a happy and virtuous life. Above all it's about calibrating expectations to reality, and accepting the agency to react to both appropriately.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 05:03 PM
2

About the same. I'm naturally sterile, but I've also had a vasectomy (to be safest). Unfortunately I don't leverage a dinner out of it, my satisfaction comes from social shame. I never mention or allude to it until a girl pops that question. Then the papers are sent to the parents, let the social shaming ensue.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 05:01 PM
9

Drop her to plate, or simply accept that there will always be other attractive men.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 01:08 PM
1

Be direct my friend. Also it's good to form a habit of setting limits up front. "Yeah we can chill until x", or "oh I don't do sleep overs, not my thing." You can still be spontaneous about your adventures and have specific boundaries. In your case to kick her out, be firm, if she creates problems she's just pushing for more, withdraw attention for a while afterwards. You don't need that crap.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 10:41 PM
1

Incredibly old Post but I need to say this. We don't sell dick, we sell tingles.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 10:53 PM
1

They're just people. Treat them like it. Think of a person asking you the time on the street. Be polite, don't transfer value, don't be butthurt.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 10:25 PM
3

There's so much truth in this. OP, you're not a full pr and damage control firm. You're a man. Which is great, but accept that this is beyond you, move on and own it, or move on and learn from it. Don't bother trying to save this crap.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 10:23 PM
1

The last sentence says it all. We give these bitches this power. There's a lot of value in simply saying no. And even dissociating from those who say yes. Let social shame have it's effect.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 10:21 PM
1

She's not a plate anymore.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 10:19 PM
1

Dude it's fine. I know it hurts right now but you'll learn to live with it, it's part of life. I've had ex's fuck friends afterwards, it's just part of the market. Commodity b is turned down well to someone else it's commodity a. It's like being upset that you sold a car and your best friend bought it off the lot without asking you. No biggie bro. Go get some more abundance, if you really need to scratch the itch fuck someone prettier than her in her social circle. Just move on.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 10:18 PM
1

Oh no, that's upsetting. He will be missed, brothers, carry on his lessons through action.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 10:12 PM
1

Don't worry about it. You'll feel more than curiosity when the actual line is crossed. You'll feel betrayal and rage, (if you're weak enough to be threatened), you'll feel pity and disgust (if you're strong enough to simply be disappointed).
/r/askTRP05/04/17 02:32 PM
2

You did great. She's just trying to make it your fault. Maybe /probably not even intentionally or maliciously. Move on. Be happy.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 02:21 PM
1

Hmm. So you took an online quiz for this I'm guessing. No. Go see a Psych, learn about what mbpt is faulty, why it may work, get the test done by a professional with access to the full system, stop spending time worrying about it. If you have the experience and awareness, your own heuristics will be more effective. Though I admit, I can usually call people by mbpt within ten minutes of meeting them, that's not because I'm big into mbpt, it's because i've taken too many Psych courses and have spe…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 02:18 PM
3

Bro, it was just a missed opportunity, not a missed outcome. Don't beat yourself up about it so much.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 02:06 PM
2

This'll be funny for you, "I'm an analytic Phil Masters, but let's eli 5 this" Logic is simply a system measuring consistency and non contradiction. Men are logical. Women are logical too. The stuff in the argument, the premises, is where you run into the problem. Men tend towards facts. Women tend towards feelings. If a man accepted a woman's premises, "feelings" he'd see the consistency in her actions for what they are, logical. If a woman accepted a man's premises, "facts", she'd see the cons…
/r/askTRP05/04/17 03:10 AM
7

I've been mentioning this for months now. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 02:56 AM
2

I have to agree with him OP. No fap is great to stave off being unable to cum, but no porn is much more important. Fapping every now in then is human and fine, porn, well there's tons of legitimate literature you can Google to see the effects of that.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 06:12 PM
1

Well, the fact that you're writing this means you have a moral calender, so you're not psychopathic. You're principaled, normal, or dissociative in some way, "maybe, presuming everything you've said is both accurate and standard for your life, which is a big premise to swallow", either way the actions that flow from that calendar are fine in society. No biggie. I wouldn't worry about it at all man. Unless it's breaking day to day interactions no problem. If it is, visit a Psych.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 06:09 PM
4

First off, that's a green flag, (her only going out with you) that's good. It could be both green and red if you're her sole source of simulation though. Only you know the situation in its entirety. As far as the jealousy, that's not abnormal. You must have some critical mass level dread (or she's critically crazy) for conversations to create this kind of backlash. Consider that carefully before deciding how to proceed. Regardless of whether : You come to the conclusion she's the imbalanced one.…
/r/askTRP04/04/17 06:03 PM
1

It's not what you say, it's the presentation 80%of the time . (on the perceived end, how your target views you is important more than how you view yourself in this case). Be in shape Dress well Have excellent frame Evaluate and escalate quickly Have abundance (be happy to say no) Another useful thing is to be genetically good looking. (not everyone is, but everyone can improve their lot). What you say will often be forgiven, women will fuck you (and often chase fucking you) based on a first impr…
/r/askTRP04/04/17 05:39 PM
1

Be specific. What do you mean? Covert contracts? Yeah. Beta most of the time. Lying to a dying grandma? Alphas do that all the time. I'm not sure what you're getting at. If you're intending to make a moral argument, well that's up to you to decide. You'll find people on both sides. Overall lying is just a tool. How you use it can be alpha or beta. But it in itself is just a tool.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 12:30 PM
2

In general, do what you want to. Just accept that beta bucks categorization is something that will come with it. Knowing that, you can work on establishing boundaries in other ways through a more tailored frame. Also, if you like expensive things, make friends in your bracket. It'll save you headaches.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 12:29 PM
2

When you feel like you need to ask the question, there's probably something wrong. So to get to working. Lift, dress well, approach.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 12:26 PM
3

It is hilarious, as someone who has enjoyed comics and their media most of my life, to see every superhero group have at least one gay couple nowadays. You realize they're like, only 4% of the population right? What are the odds that any random group of 6 individuals will have a guaranteed gay couple? Really? Hmm? I don't have a problem with gays, I have a problem with misrepresenting source material to fit agendas. Edit, u/snowiceolated is on the ball with this one. Even though I find miles mor…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 12:18 PM
23

You're right. Where I live the guy would've been tased if not outright shot if he couldn't be contained by 2 men.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 06:08 PM
1

Good advice. Wish we'd been following trp before my bro was finding a red therapist. Didn't have a term for it back then.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 04:24 PM
1

You're right. That is ideal. But if you check the stats for single fatherhood damage against single motherhood, it's much healthier for the kid. Not many stats out there, but worth looking into. I agree with you completely, but what should be isn't anymore.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 04:19 PM
1

I don't know, I'd have to disagree. I may pick up a girl with the intention of fucking, a simple ons. If it isn't happening after a night of smooth, mutual escalation, I have every right to ask her to leave or cut it short. Not cruelly, as in mocking or berating her, or even acting butthurt, but a simple, "you know I think i read you wrong, I'm out to hook up tonight, so let's wrap this up." isn't in my book, being an ass. Then again, I'm very transparent in my goals, a woman who misunderstands …
/r/askTRP03/04/17 04:16 PM
3

It's a dual test. This is why I don't do ltrs anymore. Once they know you well enough they can form these traps. It's both trying to get something from you and bolster her security. You can dance through it by giving physical comfort with verbal shit, or physical shit with verbal comfort. The former: hug her tight, give her a kiss, rub her butt, stare deep into her eyes and say "I love me as much as you do too." The latter: smack her ass, give her a grope, and push her to the kitchen while sayin…
/r/askTRP03/04/17 04:03 PM
0

Make money. Surrogate mother then get a Maid or childcare individual for your downtime and help. Just don't bang the babysitter, leave that to your son.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 03:56 PM
2

Nah. Lift and dress well, watch the change happen. I mean, you're right, it is difficult for Brown guys, but most of them aren't swole and dressed well, and their game is crappy or creepy. (this isn't entirely their fault, there's a large culture backing it both in conditioning and reception). It can be overcome. The best thing you can do to win is improve yourself bro!
/r/askTRP03/04/17 03:51 PM
1

Hey bro, some suggestions. search trp history for "corporateland". It'll help you very much in RP corporate navigation. read the 48 laws of power. ensure you take credit for everything you do. let her take on these big projects, she'll eventually be promoted to obsolescence, when backup orbiter simply can't handle the demand alone anymore.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 03:41 PM
15

"cis women are over" I check national stats Yep. Trans is still under 1% of the population. Gay is still under 4%. So.... Go fuck yourself. I continue reading. Okay you clever Bastard. I laughed.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 01:26 PM
6

Turn to her, do a double take, laugh, "Damn, brain freeze, the blood is rushing elsewhere. I'm Chad, what awesome thing happened to you today?" Stop over thinking it bro.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 01:20 PM
1

Don't steer the conversation unless you're excellent at it. The moment she even mentions a quicky situation of any type go for "well I don't have magnums on me. Hope you do." socially calibrate for that, whether you say it laughing, serious, inquisitive, that's on your context. When she starts digging (as most often she will), you can explain the difficulty of a quick fit without foreplay. That's all you need to say. No measurements even necessary.
/r/askTRP02/04/17 11:55 PM
1

Fucking talk to your old man. Even if he hated you, the experience he has outweighs the penalties. Especially if he's self determined. (prime rp).
/r/TheRedPill02/04/17 11:52 PM
2

The art of war is, simply boiled down imo, making the risk not worth the reward. You can do this by superior strategy, leverage, fear, raw might, or tactics. But at the base, the value risked isn't worth the gain. It's all beautiful deception and /or exposition and leverage of your assets. Every man should read it once a year, it's the gift that keeps on giving.
/r/askTRP02/04/17 10:37 PM
6

You must be in a very specific context, black dude spinning for over 15yrs here, Asians are tough. Really tough. But if they want you, you'll know it. Edit, to the person I responded to, I'm 11 to 13%, depending on length of bulk or cut, I'm a strong man build, bear mode muscle, I'm very well off, easily an 8 or 9 out of ten, but very interested in where you live and how you pull! Love yellow parties.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/17 10:34 PM
17

Ever gone to a convention? I have. More than I care to remember. The number one thing female employees bitched about was the slut in the group who was committed in some way. (of course they wouldn't tell anyone except the guys they really wanted to fuck, funny that...). This is normalcy. You can't be surprised. They'll approve in the Queen bee presence but won't say shit to the others involved in the social contracts, (husband's, prospects, boyfriends, fathers, etc). I'm not saying it's a superm…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/17 10:06 PM
2

Yes. You can have that moment, but you'll need to work hard to make the space for it without sacrificing at least time. Keep upping the milestones and crushing, you'll know when you're there.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/17 09:17 PM
7

This guy has it right here. Op, hope you have learned from this.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/17 09:13 PM
320

Rule 1. Never shit where you eat. Additionally, you weren't aware of this social contract she held with this guy, but it shouldn't have happened anyway, because of rule 1.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/17 12:59 PM
3

It's pretty simple. If you're not comfortable with this, then demote her to plate. You're the one who sets your boundaries, not her. Sure you both deserve to be happy, but that also means some things you don't compromise on because in the long run you're just not compatible.
/r/askTRP02/04/17 12:56 PM
25

Mostly because these guys are looking for the wrong thing in clubbing girls. A party girl is fun to play with, not fun to commit to. A committed girl is fun to commit to, and can be trained to play safe.
/r/askTRP02/04/17 12:52 PM
8

Women enter male spaces because they need men. Pretty simple. If you're​ fishing you head to a pond.
/r/askTRP02/04/17 12:51 PM
1

What each man decides he wants?
/r/askTRP01/04/17 07:55 PM
2

You're over thinking this, as though choosing one or the other is permanent. Study him, emulate him, then begin cutting out what doesn't work for you. You can follow his lead while building your own style. These are not mutually exclusive bro.
/r/askTRP01/04/17 07:52 PM
3

Someone has experienced a mask on the pillow. You know what I mean. When they bite the fabric and leave their face on it. What a disappointment. Modern feminist art. Ech.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/17 07:46 PM
10

I dunno. What are his merits? I'm black. Most of my plates have had several guys, guaranteed more than I'm aware of or care about. I don't really think it's my problem who she's fucked, as long as she's clean, just a plate, and up to my standards in behavior and looks. I will say, if you're uncomfortable, just get a new girl. Come on man look around, there's tons of them.
/r/askTRP01/04/17 06:25 PM
8

Ask her when she's off, invite her to your place for some drinks. You'll either fail or succeed, both will be fine.
/r/askTRP01/04/17 06:16 PM
3

Ghost her and go after others. If she still wants your dick she'll show up somehow. Then you can decide what to do. Your turn is probably over bro, no big deal at all.
/r/askTRP01/04/17 06:14 PM
2

Well, you broke her trust, pretty shitty. Don't make promises you can't keep. She broke your trust, pretty shitty, don't be with people who do that. Especially when they spin it afterwards. Even more so if they're damaged goods. It's not your job to pick up the pieces unless you made the mess.
/r/askTRP01/04/17 06:13 PM
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Nah. Never had the drive or need. Always been averse to children and marriage. Forget that noise, no one will be sharing my casket anyway. I completely get why many men want it, just, no, it's not the end game. It's just one. To be fair, your post may be helpful to those who swallow the same premises.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 09:16 PM
1

What do you think is witty? Do that. Own it. Recalibrate after the fact. Learn, rinse and repeat. Practice.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 09:13 PM
1

You'll always get crushed by a guy with less than you. (by your perception). Learn from him. He's got something to teach. In this case, it's definitely frame. You're intimidated enough to come to us with this issue, so work on yourself until you think of yourself as the lesser diety among men. Practically, he's probably just got more experience than you do. Thicker skin from more approaches and better banter from more practice.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 09:08 PM
1

Focus on application, not paying for anything. From my grandad "those who offer to sell you truth are selling words. Those who act are worth following". In the case of this free (pricey) literature, read it, apply it, discard what isn't working for you, add it to your library in case you need a refresher.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 09:04 PM
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know yourself (meditate, do a self swot, try many things) study everything you're interested in, then do it. (read a wiki article a day, kill books, email or speak to masters, then go practice) know your enemies (investigate, ingratiate, obliviate) know your mission and vision (my shoulders are broad, but they're for my desires only) say no happily to anything that negatively affects your mission and vision. (abundance and focus means I can forget you and not lose a thing). That's it.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 09:01 PM
1

You've done too much texting and not enough dread. She's become comfortable with to ignore requests that take half a minute to make happen. It'll only continue escalating until you put your foot down and use you actions to bring her back in line. If she doesn't give you what you want with great verifiable reason, ghost. There are others after all. Believe me, either she'll reach out or you're better off without.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 08:58 PM
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Multiple people have. Search top of all time. Op should've done so before posting though he's not wrong.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 08:36 PM
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Eh. You'll have to go through 10 to 20 therapists to find 2 to 4 rp ones, and within those you'll need to find the one that clicks with you. It'll take time, and of course, money. My brother found one at 8 in, he got lucky.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 06:07 PM
1

In the words of Charles Bukowski, "find what you love and let it kill you" So keep trying new things every day, set smaller size goals, and incrementally increase them. Once you find a mission that speaks to you really double down and focus on it. It sounds like you need to find a mission first.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 06:03 PM
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"be yourself" is impossible without knowing who you actually are. The first step is figuring out that, afterwards being yourself is easy. You know your goals, your strengths, your weaknesses, your walking lines, anything that helps becomes a yes, anything that doesn't becomes a no. But you have to know yourself to be yourself.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 05:55 PM
1

Yeah, look up the okc and tinder studies. They'll tell you everything you need to know. Men rate on a bell curve, women rate by anything under 7/10 is a failure. Keep in mind that the measurements are only implications of the online dating demographic.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 05:52 PM
2

be assertive and direct. hold frame. don't cave. be happy to say no to any bad deal. There you go. It's not a contradiction. You can say hi and escalate, but also not be butthurt if it goes south. You can be forward and a leader, but also shut up when you know you're wrong. You can go after what you want, but also say no when it's a raw deal. Hopefully that helps.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 05:50 PM
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Be honest. Escalate again and if she rejects just smile and say "yeah, you're great and all, but we're just not compatible. Sex is a big part of relationships for me." Then show her the door. There's always another girl no need for a one sided deal.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 05:46 PM
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Quit drugs, including alcohol and carcinogens, eat citrus, clean up your diet. Most importantly, ensure your attractive as you can be, it'll have the greatest effect on her perspective.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 05:44 PM
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Agreed. "be objective in your assessments" and "do your best to know yourself" pretty much handles everything listed here. However I can say that it's reasonably well written and the points are clearly formulated, even if I disagree with some of the premises.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 05:41 PM
1

Heh. I have no boss, just employees and partners. Though really the almighty dollar and our vision is still a boss I suppose.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 11:26 AM
1

Read, read everything. Write constantly. Do stand up comedy. Listen to comedians that are highly rated. Listen to comedians that have dropped or burned out. Listen to podcasts. Pick up comedy books. Speak to everyone, constantly, try to get one honest laugh per interaction. Take notes, log your success and failure, what does and doesn't work. Study logic, semantics, politics, history, culture, science, anything you have even a remote interest in. Knowledge creates the preparation for comedic opp…
/r/askTRP28/03/17 02:55 PM
3

Huh. Did my job for me. Nicely done too.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 02:53 PM
1

"enough to know a childish question when I hear one."/smirking
/r/askTRP28/03/17 02:49 PM
1

Go for it, put her on top the first time so she can do the positioning for you, grab her buttocks to control the speed. Don't tell her it's your first time. Everyone needs that practice girl.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 02:48 PM
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Get a vasectomy, always use your own condoms, carry a phial of tobasco to swish in the condom before you dispose if it, a few drops should do. It'll murder the sperm and you'll find out if she went digging for it. Get abundance, be happy to say no if your gut is twisting for any reason. There's lots of red flag posts in trp, use them then Experience will make the bigger difference for you personally. Either that or hit a therapist to get your mind straight.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 02:47 PM
1

The best seduction game I've ever played against came from an ex international escort. She studied her client's, was at least as smart as I, changed her wardrobe, studied branching specialties to always have an opinion that was 'informed yet deferent' in her exact words. Her management service even paid for acting lessons, insurance, and flights. These women are literally trained to be exactly who you want at any given time or did any given customer. The problem was once she taught me about this…
/r/askTRP28/03/17 02:38 PM
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Pull her in, if she's not resisting then go for it. If you sense her resisting you pulling her in, just reposition her and evaluate then escalate again.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 02:10 PM
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Well, mostly it comes down to discipline. The way I built that most was by over investing in the new hobby I wanted to pick up. (pre-paying for a membership to something, tying a hobby to a friend, etc). The goal was to make it more painful to not than to do. As your discipline builds, so will your productivity, it becomes a perfect cycle of stress and reward. So yeah, I'd recommend finding a way to schedule things in such a way that the cost of not participating is much higher than participatin…
/r/askTRP27/03/17 01:52 PM
1

If you hate it where you are, take comfort. Leaving is your new mission. Do whatever non destructive things you need to until you can leave.
/r/askTRP25/03/17 04:03 PM
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Add right now on the end of both of those and you have a perfect description.
/r/askTRP25/03/17 04:01 PM
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No substitutions, extensions, or refunds.
/r/askTRP25/03/17 04:00 PM
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"I understand why you feel that way, but right now I've got to focus on this. It's best for both of us." Done. If she still bitches add a little more comfort, but don't move on your position.
/r/askTRP25/03/17 03:57 PM
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Go. Make friends. Nothing's keeping you there if it doesn't work out. Try it out, learn for the future, have some balls, face some risk, do a field report. Especially because this is good practice for forcing yourself to be social even if you don't want to be. Discipline. You need it, we all do. Life won't always offer you a choice like you have now.
/r/askTRP25/03/17 03:54 PM
1

Don't over think this. Yeah the other guy went on a (in my opinion legit) disapproval of weed but, that's your business bro. I think you're just talking tactics, not lifestyle, not to imply those can't be inclusive. First ask yourself, is she coming over for the drug or the person. Be harsh and honest. Have you fucked her before? If yes no problem, escalate as normal. If no and you've established the trend of being the getting high fun guy/orbiter, then you'll be randomly nuking the aesthetic an…
/r/askTRP25/03/17 03:45 PM
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Seriously though. (Laughing at some of the other answers) She's disrespectful. You don't need that in your life. She displaced blame just as much as any other girl, maybe more, you also don't need that in your life. If you're not exclusive, then consider the following. Calibrate. Think on fucking her again. You can I'm sure, but would it open up a dangerous situation? What's her history? Is she likely to become legally vindictive or socially destructive if you fuck and run? I'd recommend just dr…
/r/askTRP25/03/17 03:39 PM
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Do what makes you happy bro. Fuck what you enjoy, just accept any dangers that poses. Own that shit.
/r/askTRP25/03/17 03:35 PM
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You're setting some crazy bars if you live in America. It really is locationally​ contingent. A year would probably be better. However you know your situation better than I. I'll tell you this, focus on discipline not motivation. Focus on production not planning. Doing over saying. Keep a log to look back on and check out the ace productivity podcast. It's free.
/r/askTRP25/03/17 03:34 PM
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Pretty much everyone does. Do you have the discipline to continue crushing even though you're having a terrible day? In general though, no, don't show women your own weakness. A casual, "it's been a rough week" is fine, but don't unload, don't explain, don't excuse or rationalize.
/r/askTRP25/03/17 03:31 PM
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You don't form improvement contracts with women. You'd be much better off picking a guy friend. (One with a history of doing not just talking.) Good luck.
/r/askTRP25/03/17 03:29 PM
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I'd say it's much easier to define what isn't quality, because what does it for you is going to have plenty of individual preferences, red flags however are largely agreed on. a history that makes you uncomfortable dishonesty inconsistency disrespectful lack of complementary skills and hobbies chronic cock connoisseur. children that aren't yours (not from being widowed.) mental disorders or health disorders. Really the most important are, does her history make you uncomfortable, and do her actio…
/r/askTRP25/03/17 03:28 PM
1

Ah cool. Most people do have an aversion to that. Rightfully so.
/r/askTRP25/03/17 03:20 PM
2

You may know it as spelunking?
/r/askTRP25/03/17 02:58 PM
2

Op listen to this. Ask him questions. Get this done. I was actually going to page him to respond but as usual, he beat me here.
/r/askTRP25/03/17 02:57 PM
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Almost anything boiled down to the following will work, but only if you go out and apply it. putting yourself and your goals above everything maintaining frame/getting over your ego. escalating. socializing. You do those and you'll learn myriad amounts, you'll definitely improve. Yes there are legit artists out there, and a ton of fakes. Honestly though a will to do instead of only study up is what's necessary. The ultimate best teacher will be experience. I wouldn't spend a cent on a pickup vid…
/r/askTRP25/03/17 02:54 PM
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This exactly. Being hot increases options, definitely. But girls still don't tend to put themselves out there. Some do, but I have found it's always a symptom of something very wrong with them. It will lower the lmr though, most often. Approaching is still overwhelmingly on you, learn to recognize iois better, and never be afraid to escalate.
/r/askTRP25/03/17 02:49 PM
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Rock climbing is great. Caving. Dirt track. Kayak. Skiing. (If you push yourself) Wrestling. (Especially if you don't have your ground game down). I'm a little confused though, you quit boxing to avoid the danger, and want to replace it with something that satisfies the thrill of danger?
/r/askTRP25/03/17 02:46 PM
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This is a common mistake of entering music. Play what you're passionate about. You'll be better at it and have less a chance of being exhausted or burned out. The girls that match will come running. Source, could've made a living as a top pianist. Still play, but only for me. Turned down 2 scholarships for it too. If you're not trying to make money, music should be for you.
/r/askTRP24/03/17 08:59 PM
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Reread the sidebar? Do a sentence summary of each paragraph? It should be rather simple, hell, the book of pook pretty much covers core concepts and I'd read that to a child.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 08:58 PM
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Why do you care. Why do you think a praxeology based sub would care. Go away.
/r/askTRP24/03/17 08:57 PM
1

Do. Not. Shit. Where. You. Eat.
/r/askTRP24/03/17 08:56 PM
1

Not sure what to do? Save up and move out. Aside from that, air purification may help minimally, but I doubt it. Honestly second hand smoke, unless you're hot boxed constantly, does little to anyone past puberty.
/r/askTRP24/03/17 08:55 PM
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You start by using proper grammar and syntax. The reality is you'll be judged on that immediately. Further, you need a tutorial on ice breaking, which will only help if you practice it. So here is a repost. tldr You walk up to a new person, maybe you're introduced, you shake hands, Hi! My name is redstoic, what's yours? How are you doing? Ensue awkward silence. If you have this problem you need to understand icebreakers. It only takes 3 steps, you're probably doing any 2 of them. Core Icebreaker…
/r/askTRP24/03/17 08:47 PM
1

Look up fogging. It'll do you good.
/r/askTRP24/03/17 08:45 PM
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For any that are, Google should find them. For any that aren't, asking won't help. Not trying to be harsh, just realistic.
/r/askTRP24/03/17 08:44 PM
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Well you can talk to professionals about depression or low t. So, do that. If those aren't the case then just do what you're feeling, can't help with so little information honestly.
/r/askTRP24/03/17 08:42 PM
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Personally, I recommend https://drive.google.com/open?id=0B6YJEPGSOZ8lckNCTmh2TmYyTWM Others may disagree, though a few endorsed have lauded individual chapters or more. It's definitely helped many judging by the responses I've gotten. It's much more actionable than theory. Pick up ace productivity podcast, how to win friends and influence people book, and the art of the deal. And beware of studying and not doing. Not implying you are, but keep it in mind. You have to act.
/r/askTRP24/03/17 08:36 PM
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Conditioning is built on exposure to causes. So expose yourself to the situation that makes you uncomfortable, as much as you can handle. To to handle a little more each time, escape when you need to. Eventually you'll have built up the tolerance and maybe even be able to revel in it.
/r/askTRP24/03/17 08:36 PM
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Hey it's not impossible. Just unlikely. I'm glad it worked this time but the general rule you implicated isn't generally effective. That's the harp I was stringing with my comment.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 06:43 PM
1

Have you read the 'corporateland' series here? I recommend it.
/r/askTRP24/03/17 06:41 PM
1

Well yes. The 80/20 rule stands for almost everything production related. Consistent action is another rule to success.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 06:38 PM
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No. Simply no. Rational discourse only works on rational minds. Actions work on pretty much everyone, including belief built discourse. (The hyper dogmatic should be left alone, there's nothing to see there).
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 06:23 PM
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Oh man.. Should've escalated immediately after the greeting then throughout being together climbing. Keep it sexual. She'll give you a hard no if she's really not up for it. Playing gentleman doesn't work.
/r/askTRP24/03/17 06:20 PM
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Well the why has been answered. The deeper issue is your response. Just escalate and assume attraction. Keep practicing, you'll get used to it.
/r/askTRP24/03/17 06:17 PM
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Either they don't like you, or they have no idea where to place you in their heuristic. The first is simple and bad, the second is simple and good, and can be leveraged.
/r/askTRP24/03/17 06:15 PM
1

Google play, rent it for less than 5 bucks. Or try Amazon or piracy.
/r/askTRP24/03/17 06:13 PM
1

Last time this happened I simply said "oh man... I didn't lie, you lied. Not a great way to start anything." Signed off and haven't thought of it until today. Liars don't get let down easy. Just next.
/r/askTRP24/03/17 06:12 PM
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Precisely. OP take note. No wanking for a while. You'd be surprised how quickly you'll revert. If you find yourself not lasting long enough a few death grip sessions here and there can increase your staying time.
/r/askTRP24/03/17 06:05 PM
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Until it's too late, and they realize even with a baby anchor they wouldn't want her nasty ass.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 05:48 PM
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I'm fine, but why not list those in the main post? Just a few references would probably do you a world of good for outreach. (Imo) I'm already accomplished, I just am certain that adding actionable resources to a theory increase stick.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 08:15 PM
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You can't negotiate attraction. Are there no kids? No shared ownership? No shared accounts? Leave. You're bored, go do right by yourself, (and her) and leave. As far as future ltrs, that's almost impossible. They'd have to get through about 2 yrs of plate, 2 yrs of date, and 2 yrs of cohabitation for me to pop the question. And that's if there's no glaring red flags by my account and I still have my money, access, and power.
/r/askTRP23/03/17 08:11 PM
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Nice advice, nice reasoning, but empty insofar as practical application, the how. I agree, I've actually done what you've said. I worked and was raised in big, big business, and became an entrepreneur, now attempting serial investor. The payoff, though less than playing corporate right now is higher than anything I could've imagined considering freedom of choice and freedom from being controlled. You should repost this with examples of the how. That'd be awesome.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 08:09 PM
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You very well may have been redpill bro. I've dealt with a BPD ex fiance, a few clinical studies, and a BPD plate. You know how schizophrenia is the cancer of mental diseases? BPD is the cancer of relationships. Just learn how to recognize it. They really are that dangerous and efficient at pulling you in. Not trying to excuse agency here, but seriously, they're the worst of the bunch bar none.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 05:16 PM
1

Eh. You have a bored first mate. She'll keep coming to you for orders, give her some. Tell her to learn how to sew or something. Buy her a dildo and tell her to learn deepthroating. Whatever. Just give her some menial tasks. Beyond this, you need to set strict boundaries for your time. Respect your time. Even if you don't have to. I could spend my life never working again, but I work harder than ever, (just an example). If you really respect your time, schedule and stick to it, if you say you're…
/r/askTRP23/03/17 04:59 PM
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Text her, "I'll at least make it afterwards. Maybe cya during". Nail down the personal time for escalation, don't commit to anything else you don't wanna do.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 04:04 PM
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Text back A with no butthurt, "oh man the window closed on that, but you cann get me back next time." Go enjoy yourself with B, close her and fuck her so she's actually primed to be a plate. Remember above all, have fun.* Continue on at your leisure.
/r/askTRP23/03/17 03:59 PM
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All the stuff you're doing now​, go out and do the opposite. Take genuine interest in people, go out, invite others to do things, join groups using meetup, etc. You change yourself​ by action.
/r/askTRP23/03/17 10:40 AM
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Focus on getting rid of that insecurity, the best way is success. Lift harder until you're swole without taking off the shirt. Dress better than he does. Don't take plates to meet the family, keep them separate. There's plenty of ways to isolate this and maintain your success without creating a dichotomy between you and him.
/r/askTRP23/03/17 10:37 AM
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If she's causing issues with other plates do simple math. I'd rather lose 1 than 3. Otherwise, just keep fucking. As long as she's still fucking you no problem.
/r/askTRP23/03/17 10:33 AM
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Normally I'd agree. BPD is another beast entirely though. It's human interaction cancer.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 10:14 AM
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I read the sidebar, began applying everything I could and testing the waters, made friends with guys who were having 3 ways and chilling with them while taking notes. You know, I just started doing things. Making changes, a little every day. I mean, if you want to catch fish, study an accomplished fisherman. Then emulate and integrate what works for you. Rinse and repeat.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 08:34 PM
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You did well. Don't use please so easily. Frame things as statements. It'll get you far.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 08:14 PM
1

3 months to notice lifting in yourself, 6 for family, 9 for strangers. That's IF you're dedicated and have a good diet. These numbers will increase or decrease based on genetics, regiment, and clotting worn.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 03:02 PM
1

spoke to a friend I have on here whose an endorsed about my mentoring young men. Learned a lot about myself that I needed a wiser, more objective person to tell me. broke barriers in the big 3. "Deadlift, squat, press, ohp too" opened interviews for a new full time manager. Free time is about to become the standard for my life for the first time in a decade. Can't fucking wait. helped a long term bro sign on his first house, already got him two renters, he's now in the game. I'm happy for him, i…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 02:52 PM
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Man I was skeptical after that title but you nailed it. You've outlined what is correct, but what's right. Right implies morality. Great job OP. yeah, you need to act to improve. Anyone can learn how to use a toolbox, but you have to do stuff with it for things to happen.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 02:45 PM
1

Yes. I'd add that power is about value. What the world sees in you and wants. Great post OP.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 02:42 PM
1

I started the piano over 20 yrs ago. I've been an entrepreneur for 8 years. I find enjoyment in anything I choose to do, not necessarily everything I need to do. Currently my most rewarding pursuit is mentoring and tqm, close second being rock climbing. Long term I've always had a passion for analytic philosophy, specifically in semantics. To be fair I have too many hobbies, and I'll play any sport that isn't on ice. I hate cold weather. I discarded piano because of the industry pressure and sac…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 02:39 PM
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But she's a 7. And I'm being lenient. Seriously, my plates are 7, 8, 8, 9. "Right now" she looks like my 7, who is almost 35. The oldest girl I've got in quite a while. If they're making these kinds of excuses for 7s this blatantly, great. It'll only wake people up even faster. That's good. Let the destruction continue.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 02:35 PM
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Expertise, yes. Above average knowledge, yes. Mastery, highly unlikely. I'm an master in one thing. Piano. I could've made me entire life just off my talent and dedication, and chose not to. Even today, where I only practice for me, not for anything professional, I can still outstripe must composers and performers. This honestly I'd no where near as uncommon as you'd think. As far as accreditation, I have a triple major, finished a master's, and will be doing another. I'm an accomplished entrepr…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 02:12 PM
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Agreed. The actions you need to take are easy. The habit changing and belief breaking is what most struggle with. If you can get past that I think many find that once objectivism and healthy habits are built, RP kinda runs itself.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 02:02 PM
1

Do your thing. If you're happy, fine. If not, change tactics. Don't look to other men for your mission.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 05:41 PM
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Black chicks? Be blunt, flash money, be new. Be discreet. That's it. They'll fuck you quick, and try to nail you down for the cash. I should hate saying this about my race, but it's true. I'm black and I won't touch black chicks anymore. Bucket of African Queen entitlement and victims. Fuck that noise. Granted there are exceptions, but those exceptions are class based, black culture is down the shitter right now. I will say this, black chicks may be horrible at blowjob's, specifically deep throa…
/r/askTRP20/03/17 05:38 PM
2

Well first off, case studies. Forbes is a great starting point. Then begin looking into case studies on renown failures and success. Visit the business websites themselves and read their mission and vision. Pick up some college textbooks. Listen to entrepreneurship podcasts. Talk to entrepreneurs who are successful and those who have failed, connect the dots. The knowledge is out there, but admittedly lots of it is bullshit and often times industry tactics conflict. Unfortunately this isn't some…
/r/askTRP20/03/17 03:31 PM
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Lots of wasted words. "Would you still like me if I was fat/crippled/ugly/etc?" Chuckle "what do you think." Look at her like it's a very stupid question. That or ignore it. Just ensure you don't try to deer your way out of this one. Your actions will decide the limits for you.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 03:25 PM
2

Oh he answered your question. Read the sidebar bro.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 03:20 PM
2

Yes plenty do. Why, do you want to change that or are you fine with it?
/r/askTRP20/03/17 03:17 PM
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Repost: tldr You walk up to a new person, maybe you're introduced, you shake hands, Hi! My name is redstoic, what's yours? How are you doing? Ensue awkward silence. If you have this problem you need to understand icebreakers. It only takes 3 steps, you're probably doing any 2 of them. Core Icebreakers, in my experience, are best orchestrated based on the following 3 rules. Invoke likeability. (Practice an hour a day for a week). Invoke action. (Practice an hour a day the following week) Invoke e…
/r/askTRP20/03/17 03:15 PM
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No. Redpill is a praxeology. An apriori toolbox cannot hold traits of personality or perversion. I'm certain there are narcissists and perverts who use the redpill, but the redpill itself can't be narcissistic nor perverse. You're essentially asking if, "a hammer is narcissistic and perverted". It makes no sense.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 02:24 PM
2

If you have the cash, pay a trainer as far in advance as you can afford. There, you're locked in. Make it hurt more to miss a lift than to go to one.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 02:22 PM
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Definitely seconding this. I just can't hate women anymore, the most I feel is pity. I could honestly extend this sentiment to most people I met regardless of sex, orientation, etc. People simply don't know themselves and have been sold a lie. Quite a few lies actually. Especially about human relations and how they work, value and what it actually is, and solipsistic tendencies.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 02:19 PM
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That feel is real. At that point I choose to add more walking points to my lineup. Cut down my options significantly but it made sex just scarce enough that it's a worthwhile/satisfying endeavor now. Also increased plate quality drastically. You know the funny thing is, that thousand cock stare is standard for women nowadays. They just don't have the self awareness to realize it most often. Or if they do, it's too late and they blame men for it.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 12:59 PM
1

Agree and amplify or let your (presumed social proof) do the talking for you. You can always chance it and black Knight, destroying them, but that's best left to adepts, otherwise it's more trouble than satisfaction.
/r/askTRP18/03/17 06:12 PM
1

Be less focused on numbers and more focused on satisfaction. You getting what you need? Good. No? Adapt.
/r/askTRP18/03/17 05:26 PM
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Meh. I've owned 3 cycles, a cafe, a ninja, and a hyabusa. Fun times. Oh I learned on an old school triumph. Learn to do maintenance yourself on a throw away. Buy all the protection, leathers, Kevlar, helmet, use them. Don't go out in dangerous weather. Own a car for real transport and safety. Don't lend it out. Put insurance on it. Don't do crazy tricks. No suicide clutch/jockey. Join a casual tour club to get good advice. Don't race. Don't push yourself to take dangerous risks. Don't believe yo…
/r/askTRP18/03/17 05:21 PM
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Yes it does. A woman who'se interested in you will listen to anything, smile, nod, laugh at cues, etc. A guy needs content. Plus he has to know where you are in the totem pole. If you haven't gained the respect of the men in your circle you'll be ignored, mocked, and tested until you stand up for yourself. The ways to establish yourself​ with men are simple. We only deal with 2 types of authority, instead of women dealing with many. Men deal with: experience dominance Women deal with experience …
/r/askTRP18/03/17 05:12 PM
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Well, she does and doesn't. She has leverage because you allow her to. If you broom her, (stay polite but nothing more, no time, no value transfer, no more attention then what you'd give someone asking the time on the street), and go about your business, her power dissipates. There's always consequence for action, yes, and inaction too most times. But those consequences don't have to be negative. Think of it this way, you keep playing her game and stressing. you go about your business with the m…
/r/askTRP18/03/17 01:42 PM
1

Just fine. I don't really believe in luck though, it's preparation meeting opportunity. If you're failing often with a demographic cake tactics or move markets. No biggie.
/r/askTRP18/03/17 11:49 AM
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Well, does anyone like it when people notice they're improving? Yeah. Yeah I would say so.
/r/askTRP18/03/17 11:42 AM
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Rolled one, succeeded at two, sold one of those two, own and run the other currently. get your MVP up and running before you drop anything, your current income, school, whatever. Without the MVP don't even bother taking a first step. save up a quarter to a years worth of living income. If you can get the MVP to an accelerator even better, but make sure you have the cash. prepare for working two full time jobs. Either 80+ for the business alone or 40/60 your income plus business. kiss your social…
/r/askTRP17/03/17 05:30 PM
1

Focus on passing. Get a professional and take it seriously. If you're really trying to crush down they'll put you through a lot of exhaustion training then SLEEP LIKE THE DEAD. Probably your best option. Make your diet a very high priority to maximize gains and rest. Good luck potential Jarhead. I haven't seen it in this thread, but make sure you give all the details of the test and your timeframe to your trainer. Do you have months? A month? A fortnight? Huge differences there.
/r/askTRP17/03/17 05:24 PM
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Make it a point to meet everyone. Learn how to ice break effectively, don't feel bad for cutting a conversation short to move to someone more compatible. Above all, focus on your own enjoyment. Don't be the drunk guy.
/r/askTRP17/03/17 05:21 PM
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Don't worry about it. Just improve yourself and have confidence that your goals are the most important and necessary things in your life. I myself am bear mode, more Mickey Rourke than Pitt. I could never be Pitt, just never appealed to me. So I haven't had abs in years, but whatever I'm wearing it's brutally obvious that I'm capable of crushing 90% of what crosses my path. If you lift long enough, for you which is crucial, you'll decide what you want, there's plenty of girls out there and you c…
/r/askTRP17/03/17 05:14 PM
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Why do you want to be her friend? Nah, doesn't matter. After reading your responses I don't think you'll answer unless we tell you what you want to hear, not what you need to hear.
/r/askTRP17/03/17 05:09 PM
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Your the dick in a jar. Not good enough for now, but someday when the times are desperate enough... You get the idea. Broom her.
/r/askTRP17/03/17 05:07 PM
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Keep up the man's work. Every post, fucking gold.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 05:00 PM
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Don't chase, work on you. Monk mode time. Rediscovery your passions and goals while learning the satisfaction from crushing your own milestones. They'll come. Women are predictable. Put something better than them in front of them and they'll want it. Shit, put something new in front of them and half the time they'll fight for a test drive.
/r/askTRP17/03/17 04:57 PM
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Bro she asked you for wood. Not some press board crap or something from a tree. Give her the whole log 8 inches​ at a time.
/r/askTRP17/03/17 04:53 PM
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You're right, except in my experience, having a connection for coke is enough.
/r/askTRP16/03/17 08:29 PM
1

It's cool. Even stoics trip up, just remember, you're only ever angry at yourself.
/r/askTRP16/03/17 06:56 PM
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Just some friendly criticism and support. Nicely done by the way. Anything not quoted I agreed with. Women are attracted to attractive men, you may word that and dissemble it as much as you like but it’s a fundamental truth. They might not sleep with attractive men on the first meeting, might not stay faithful to attractive men and might even try and beta the poor fellow. But it is true regardless. Thats only fundamental because it's a tautology. People are attracted to things, what they're attr…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 05:23 PM
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Excellent advice. I learned this lesson when I began going over to their place commonly instead of a first date. I noticed a definite increase in numbers. Then I started using mine. Now I'm back to going to theirs though since I prefer my place to be off limits unless they've been plates for quite a while.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 09:28 PM
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If you don't attach value to monogamy then why bother with ltrs? All I have to say.
/r/askTRP14/03/17 07:27 PM
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Most likely you reek of being a provider. Hit the sidebar.
/r/askTRP14/03/17 07:26 PM
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Eh. Check your ego. You're not hurt that she fucked him, your hurt because you think it's a measure of your value. It isn't. Bitches be trippin.
/r/askTRP14/03/17 06:50 PM
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Well it's pretty simple. Either the experience is worth more than your relationship. The relationship is worth more than the experience. Or you cheat. Now write down the ups and downs of all options and make a decision. Unfortunately this is something only you can really decide. You'll get advice from all 3 perspectives here, and they all have merit.
/r/askTRP14/03/17 06:22 PM
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That's really the best suggestion. I'd step on it OP.
/r/askTRP14/03/17 06:10 PM
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Repost for clarity. Search top of all time to find the op. SUMMARY Ice making, the opposite of ice breaking. There come many times when you need to halt relations, often without burning a bridge. This post is the other side of the coin to my ice breaking post on forming connections. Within I explain strategy to effectively break connections with any person. Especially women. The goal of course is simple. 'We don't Burn bridges, we bar them". hey RedStoic, this crazy bitch is blowing up my Facebo…
/r/askTRP13/03/17 05:28 PM
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Always even with a condom. If she has an open sore and gives you head you may never know that you've caught something. Same go to I use. I've never had a girl deny it who I've regretted, though that's probably part of abundance.
/r/askTRP13/03/17 05:26 PM
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It's either a game to trap you. "Wearing the mask she thinks will ensnare you" or it doesn't matter. Either way, don't be tripped up. You shouldn't commit to her either way, keep doing what you're doing and don't let it bug you.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 04:18 PM
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Two things: Proper formatting is necessary, if not necessary than heavily recommended. These answers can be found in the sidebar, if not in the sidebar by searching top of all time in the main sub.
/r/askTRP13/03/17 01:27 PM
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Calm and the improved ability to focus on what is happening. Takes quite a while but you should meditate as frequently as you lift. Probably more.
/r/askTRP13/03/17 01:24 PM
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Possible? Definitely. Cost effective? Statistically worthwhile? Hell no. Definitely not.
/r/askTRP13/03/17 01:23 PM
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Don't worry about it. Being healthy, exercise and diet and hygiene, will take care of getting your best results in that area. You should be doing those anyway so, don't worry.
/r/askTRP13/03/17 01:22 PM
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I have an ex fiance. Didn't go through with it, but that's by far the worst. Thank God.
/r/askTRP13/03/17 01:17 PM
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I've noticed that too. Most of my girls give gifts and pride themselves in "knowing what I want". I think my mother is probably the only girl I've ever given actual gifts meant for her, then again my family doesn't do the gift thing often. They're good girls. Edit: wait not exactly true, I have paid for a girls gym membership before. But she paid me back. Is that a gift? Probably just a loan.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 01:16 PM
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When she feels it's the most rewarding thing to do at the time. Both unconsciously and consciously. The motive behind it don't really matter do they? I mean you can set your own standards so once you know you choose, next or allow.
/r/askTRP11/03/17 06:14 PM
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"hey, I don't think we're compatible. I need to focus on me." Pretty much all you need to say. Your shoulders are/should be broad enough to handle that. It saves both of you time. Just do it.
/r/askTRP11/03/17 06:10 PM
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There are excellent arguments on both sides. However, I recommend checking out the ace productivity podcast. Make your own decision afterwards. I personally have goals which are long term, for me they're more of a mission statement to achieve my vision by 50yrs old. Good luck OP. Good question but too many answers are reasonable to too many different types of people.
/r/askTRP11/03/17 06:08 PM
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Reposting an extreme cut of this, because OP did a very solid job. summary Perceived Scarcity. It gets panties wet, and is one of the easiest to add to your arsenal. One of the easiest ways to maintain Scarcity is directly related to management of your time. (How you do that is up to you), but one thing you can do to make your life easier, is keep the mobile on silent or vibrate. You help yourself exude outcome independence and the perception of being busy by maintaining silent and vibrate only.…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 06:03 PM
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Go alone and involve yourself. Going to groups such as meetups and googled local events is great. If you can't approach people you're largely out of luck. Thankfully that's for men, all you'll need to do is be present and practice appeal.
/r/askTRP11/03/17 05:43 PM
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Yeah. Well, kinda. Men can and will better themselves without resistance, but they can't do so publicly. It'd be nice if men's suicide had the funding it deserves. But we have to ban together anonymously or personally. Not publicly.
/r/askTRP11/03/17 04:00 PM
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Of course we can talk about it, the problem is the vast majority of posts dealing with race are non agent based. "In some way crying victim". Yeah life is hard, we're not equal. Context is important. But the thing people seem to constantly forget is that there's an uglier guy with worse social bias than you doing better than you are out there, and probably nearby if you look. The major difference is he put in the time and effort and didn't quit. I'm not attacking you, your point is legit, but I …
/r/askTRP11/03/17 03:59 PM
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Well, you meet people by going out and physically meeting them. Done. Simple. You'll have to act. Otherwise, head to rpw, they'll help you more than we will.
/r/askTRP11/03/17 03:55 PM
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Meh. If I respond to a flake it's usually just "cool". Then I go about my business, soft next until her message includes logistics. If the messages never do, then it never happens. Which is fine. Plenty of girls out there will make you the priority. Don't need to waste time on those who don't, won't, or can't. "Not my problem if their life really is that hectic, just means we're not compatible because that's not what makes me happy."
/r/askTRP11/03/17 03:49 PM
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Of course. Yes. Because showing her you want her is escalating. That's all you need to do. Everything else is negotiable, circumstantial, but your success will always increase statistically if you escalate. It's actually quite simple, plenty of endorsed and vets have said this constantly.
/r/askTRP11/03/17 03:44 PM
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This has been suggested myriad times in different ways. The answer is always the same. You don't talk about redpill. This includes gatherings, going about it publicly, or even disclosing personal info. Right now it's too dangerous socially to bring groups of men together for almost any reason aside from championing feminism. Let's presume the sub is built. An infiltrator appears. Manages to get the info on a meet. Goes to anyone in journalism. Bam, faces and names of individual guys, plastered a…
/r/askTRP11/03/17 03:40 PM
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This. She wanted the d immediately. You didn't give her the d immediately. In the future, the only thing to assume is escalation. She'll take care of any resistance on her own accord.
/r/askTRP11/03/17 03:38 PM
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Incredibly, and not at all. My business thrives on references and word of mouth. For that reason our digital and gumshoe/event marketing section takes up almost half our budget. Personally, the last time I've checked into my Facebook (personally not for a business post on the business page) was over 2 months ago. I don't read anything posted in my feed. I don't check my messages, I just don't have the time nor care. Anyone with something of value to say can find my personal number with a modicum…
/r/askTRP09/03/17 08:04 PM
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Yet again, ignore what women say, hell, what most people say. Watch how they act. Worrying about words is wasted time. (Most often) Logic rarely combats belief in any effective way.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 08:01 PM
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Either manscape or own that shit.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 06:30 PM
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Let one of your plates come over and care for you once or twice. Your girlfriend's tune will change immediately. If you don't have other options you can pull, well there's a problem in itself. Regardless, women operate on what have you done for me lately. Right now you can't do anything so attraction is fading, and if there isn't dread as a motivator it won't balance out. Harsh but you'll notice it's true.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 03:16 PM
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Nah. You can't blame a predator for hunting any more than you can blame a pet for becoming dependent. It's part of the parcel.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 03:12 PM
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Sure. People do lots of things. Just do what you want to and if it's not working for you, change it. The goal should be to develop a persona that is yours, not to necessarily choose a persona. The difference being that one is natural, the other is not. This isn't to say don't take advice or don't try new things, on the contrary, it's to say keep what works for you and throw out the rest. I understand your question, but you should really go field test it. If you're not getting what you want, chan…
/r/askTRP09/03/17 03:06 PM
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Agnostic. With a firm foundation in "leave me alone-ism".
/r/askTRP07/03/17 12:12 PM
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It's only important if you treat it that way. Its power is removed when you don't bother with it.
/r/askTRP07/03/17 12:08 PM
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Have you tried mindful meditation or stress meditation? I'd recommend looking into either, and searching trp main for any mention of it. Sounds like what you need to quiet a busy mind. Most of the people I know who use meditation to quiet the mine use candle and flame, or building a fire methods, where you focus by feeding thoughts into the former or latter then letting it die out when there's no remaining fuel.
/r/askTRP07/03/17 12:06 PM
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Nice post OP. I'd like to add that most people should purchase a good food scale, they're cheap. It really helps when used with my fitness pal.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 11:44 AM
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Don't worry. More and more women talk like this, and attempt to apply it, more and more men check out. The good thing is, men adapt and do, women talk and justify. They can say whatever they want, the high quality men aren't going to change what they're doing, if anything they'll double down. Hell, the sexodus is very real, and the movement is growing, though I don't necessarily support it, it's more and more common to meet mgtow while out and about.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 11:43 AM
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A dangerous game. Once your attention isn't necessarily only sexual in transaction, you've put attention on the table. As most of us know, what's on the table doesn't count once it's been gained for women. They think overwhelmingly in "what have you done for me lately". So I can't answer that really. I've had plates who were at some point friends, and I've had friends who became plates, I've rarely been okay with friends with benefits. I'm not even agreeable to the idea that men and women can be…
/r/askTRP06/03/17 11:43 PM
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Dude did you a favor. You weren't escalating quickly enough, he moved in and regardless of intent taught you a lesson. "Whether malicious or not". You'll always meet a bigger better guy, unless you're the best period. If you're the best period, you're always on defense against usurpers. Regardless of whether you're three predator or prey, running will still be involved. Take this as a good lesson, reduce the likelihood of it happening again by continuing to improve every day. Sidenote, I've been…
/r/askTRP06/03/17 11:18 PM
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Kinda. Depends on what you want. To just fuck? No. Being me right now is enough. Plating? No. You just need to be the fuck boy, not the objectively best option in her purview. Anything involving loyalty? Yeah. You do. Plus you'll need a good amount of luck. I think the more important question you should be focusing on is, what do I want from this girl.
/r/askTRP06/03/17 11:12 PM
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A tldr for those who want the meat of this masterbatory pseudo philosophical erotica. improve yourself and take pleasure in it (nothing actionable given) power comes from leverage in 3 ways. (Nothing actionable given) over sexual success, conflict resolution, and dominating nature. So essentially "power is influence." Yeah, thanks. Great insight bro. Wasted time guys. Wasted time. This isn't even philosophy done poorly, it's just bereft of value.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 11:01 PM
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You're not struggling with the pill. The pill is a toolbox, a praxeology. You don't struggle with a hammer and whether it drives a nail. You're struggling with the philosophy you used to have about life no longer being effective. You're awake, dreams are no longer your narrative. The cycles you're going through are normal, that's plate spinning, it's fine, it's healthy. If that's not what you want simply change tactics, but use the same tools. You'll be fine. The truth is, most people are vapid,…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 10:47 PM
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Yeah, not your problem. It's shocking the first few times you see it go down, less often shocking the more you experience, but yeah, not your problem. Someone who sees that then wife's the sloor isn't about to change.
/r/askTRP05/03/17 10:34 PM
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Nope. The redpill is a toolbox, a praxeology not a philosophy. I couldn't claim that a toolbox is bad for me, how I use it may be though.
/r/askTRP05/03/17 12:41 PM
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You really should block her from everything. All social media, your phone, email, etc. If she tries contacting you other ways politely state that you have no interest in speaking with her and hang up, or simply delete the message instantly. If she bothers you personally suggest that a restraining order is necessary. I'd agree still won't stop bothering you do exactly that.
/r/askTRP05/03/17 10:31 AM
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That's fundamentally untrue of you're willing to look into instincts and practiced reactions. The body can be and is faster in exposition than thought in many circumstances. "No disrespect intended bro" By thought, I include unconscious drives of course.
/r/askTRP04/03/17 10:31 PM
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Nah. Belief certainly does create actions as stated. Placebo effect actually backs this up. No problem or inconsistency at all. I understand why at first glance people often think this, but mentality can effect chemistry, and also changes the small things in how we care for ourselves. As I said, belief is important, actions matter.
/r/askTRP04/03/17 04:58 PM
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Here's the highlights. there are plenty of other girls you lack abundance, or you have onitis she has absolutely all the power in this situation Move on.
/r/askTRP04/03/17 04:57 PM
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Bro don't ask for a bj. Go onto the make out, start feeling her up, see if she starts petting you, if she does whip it out, if not then escalate and move her hand, if she starts petting then, whip out out. Lead bro. Lead.
/r/askTRP04/03/17 04:54 PM
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Hey there fellow climber. I climb once a week while swimming, thrice a week during winter "Fuck cold water" I recommend if you're just getting started, do starting strength or strong lifts 5x5. Afterwards, look into push pull legs and begin adapting your regiment based on whatever research you do and what you feel you need. Most of my climbing buddies don't really lift much, they do callisthenics instead. I understand the benefits, it's a different type of strength that definitely is better for …
/r/askTRP04/03/17 04:51 PM
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I tried everything I could get my hands on, then I found what I did to the exclusion of other things and and made it my primary motivation to monetize that.
/r/askTRP04/03/17 04:42 PM
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Actually it's totally advisable. Belief has never done anything. Actions done in the name of belief do many things. Belief itself is intangible. Actions aren't intangible. "Coming from someone who personally thinks belief is very important"
/r/askTRP04/03/17 04:40 PM
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Not really. Spinning plates is the most logical decision for you maybe, probably certainly. It's certainly not the most logical decision in general. Abundance is, that could be argued, and spinning plates helps with that definitely. However if you're a guy who doesn't enjoy spinning even though he can, well, it's obviously not the most logical decision. Hell, I know incredibly red individuals who don't spin at all, they maintain abundance just fine because of their approach to life. Tldr sample …
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 04:36 PM
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Gotta love those lucrative word of mouth markets. But don't discuss them!
/r/askTRP04/03/17 04:32 PM
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This makes little sense. This tactic usually works only if the girl already desires you in some way. Then removing attention whets the appetite. Otherwise I don't see this as anything really, aside from basic playing it safe, which is good in some situations, bad in others. I tend not to friend zone girls unless I'm working with them, even then I wouldn't call them friends. Being a friend takes energy, necessitating attention, unless you're meaning 'friend' as someone you're simply polite to, in…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 04:26 PM
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Eh. My parents are the same way. I just respond with "haven't found the right one." Anything deeper than that I don't really acknowledge, nor will I bother discussing. Then again my parents are really red, so it's only brought up as a reminder that the family name is on the line. Fwiw.
/r/askTRP04/03/17 04:22 PM
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You don't have to until you want to. Just spin if that's your thing. Or use whores. Whatever. If you need a relationship to be sexuality satisfied, OK. If not, spinning is great.
/r/askTRP04/03/17 04:19 PM
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Well yeah. You establish yourself as the prize. This flips the normal narrative. Good job bro. Keep at it.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 04:16 PM
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Well, you should really look into the productivity gap. Men are 20% more productive per dollar paid across the board. No one wants to talk about it, which is odd, since it seems to me that's the first thing you should question when looking at the so called wage gap, then accommodate for that. Very odd isn't it. Just to put that in perspective, if you do a 10hr shift with a woman and call her productivity of 10 units an hour 100%, the male is doing 12 or 13 units an hour. If that's orders dealing…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 11:45 AM
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Conjecture is fair, as long as the argument and premises are agreed on and tight. My comparison is that of the market rules, right now women are the sellers in a seller's market. As the market shifts and the buyers "men" increase their standards, the competition rises, the sellers accommodate or go without. One example of this is the decline in women associating with the term feminist over the last several years. As the term becomes less and less attractive an identifier, women have identified a…
/r/askTRP02/03/17 05:34 PM
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Oh no problem man. The issue with boundaries between room mates/bros "not lifelong bros" is that they're often not vocalized. Regardless this is a clear warning of what kind of person he is. Now that you know you can take precaution by calibrating your expectations. I think you did well for what it's worth in the context.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 05:31 PM
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Nah bro. This is your mistake. You care about who your plate is fucking, that's wrong. It's a plate. Not a relationship. If you want commitment it goes both ways. Nothing wrong with wanting commitment, but if you do then don't treat her as a plate. Either way, your friend used the oldest excuse in the book, and obviously respects you little, same with her. Either don't be butthurt or recognize you're in onitis of some sort or other, then next them both while learning for the future.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 03:14 PM
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It depends completely on men as a group. If men raise their standards or check out, women are forced to change what they're doing. This is slowly happening, but the number of men going red and mgtow still hasn't hit critical mass yet, so women will continue doing their thing until en masse it's impossible to get commitment from the majority of men. It'll take time. Don't worry about it, improve yourself as much as you can and you'll still have a solid supply of pussy, even better, a solid supply…
/r/askTRP02/03/17 12:13 PM
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How much is the commute costing you in time and money? If it's cost effective sure, if not, don't do it unless you have to.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 12:08 PM
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Get physical, logistics then escalate. If she turns you down then move on. Pretty simple. Just remember not to feed her attention unless it's getting physical. Whenever she comes looking for attention move it to logistics, when you are with her, move it to escalation. Then fuck her or next her.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 12:07 PM
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Nice. I'll throw this on top of my own schedule. Sounds fun. Oh yeah, I recommend using a scheduler. It's important to block your time and hold yourself accountable for how it's used. I use the goal scheduler in Google calendar. Find what works for you though.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 11:51 AM
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Just give them one of the books. No more Mr nice guy or something light on rp terminology. They'll either follow through or not, not your problem anymore. I usually just point the book of pook out to them and tell them to read it. Beyond that, not my responsibility.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 11:33 AM
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As a stoic, practicing now 18yrs, I can't disagree with you there. However, I can state that stoicism doesn't necessitate a higher power aside from objectivism. Where you base the source of that objectivity is up to you, so long as you're consistent in both methodology and justifications.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 02:40 PM
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Hmm. Didn't end in a lawsuit but I was fired because I (at the time 19yrs) refused to fuck my assistant manager. (Ex military, 37yrs) she even tried to get me drinking at her house. Eventually she switched the schedules on me and framed me for stealing wine. "Video evidence proved it was her". The only reason there wasn't a lawsuit is because my family knew the GM. She disappeared within the week and I retroactively got the 2 weeks notice treatment and good recommendations. (I didn't want the jo…
/r/askTRP01/03/17 01:07 PM
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Not worth the risk. It's no one's fault she's damaged except her grandfather. But it's no one's responsibility to pick up the pieces either. Certainly not yours. Move along.
/r/askTRP01/03/17 01:02 PM
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Follow the leader bro. If the big guys are leaving, time for you to leave too. "More often than not".
/r/askTRP01/03/17 12:59 PM
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Any time a woman has a theory on what she's attracted to immediately think of her history, what you know of it. Then throw out everything she's saying and either next or escalate. You never ask a fish how to catch fish, you ask a fisherman. "Preferably one much better than you".
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 12:57 PM
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Get out of bed the same time every day. Set your alarm in another room or across the room. If possible randomize the alarm sound. Immediately upon waking drink a real cold glass of water. Exhaust yourself physically and mentally each day. Work and play and think hard. Don't make your body work hard overnight, one of the biggest issues with this is don't eat, drink, intake stimulants or poisons unless prescribed officially. Look into sleep apnea, much of it is caused by being out of shape or over…
/r/askTRP01/03/17 12:50 PM
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Well I read the whole thing. Another piece of drivel. All based on the same fundamental misconception. The redpill is a toolbox. Not a philosophy. People have philosophies on the red pill, the red pill isn't a philosophy. This stupid piece writes as though the redpill itself is a call to action and conditioning, which it can't be, any more than a saw talks you into cutting wood or a neighbor's leg off for disposal. I'll be the first to admit lots of redpill people have philosophies which end up …
/r/askTRP01/03/17 12:46 PM
2

I'd recommend searching top of all time. Anything over around 400 upvotes just cross reference. You'll start recognizing the names. Build your own friends list. I do agree, it would be nice and convenient to have a formal listing. My concern is that it would make it easier to bring them trouble as well.
/r/askTRP27/02/17 03:31 PM
14

Man, I watch guys make this mistake constantly. If only they'd remember, whatever attracted her to you in the first place is what you should keep doing. Don't switch up. Most often it's the guy accidentally going alpha, cocksure and engaging, then once he realizes she's into him he starts betafying himself in front of her very eyes. Sad. Well, there are some guys on the other side. So it's not all bad. Learning takes time.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 02:45 PM
3

You're right. Nicely done. But I'm happy. Happy is largely a choice. It takes a lot of discipline and work to accept the reality of the world, but once you do, happiness is largely a choice. "Unless you are clinically fucked, even then consistent medical balancing can fix that in many cases."
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 02:42 PM
5

That's because fate isn't real. Preparation meets opportunity. That is all there really is to it. To choose fate or luck is to Deny agency.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 02:39 PM
5

Agreed. My limit is 2 red flags. Anything more and plate is all they can hope for. Ever. More than 5 red flags and I don't even stick my dick in it, often I won't finish the date. I'm not having any issues finding girls, birds of a feather and all that. Find a good girl, chances are reasonable there are others surrounding her or in her cohort.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 02:37 PM
1

On the up side, that many subscribers disappearing will force a change or lead to failure. I'm hoping.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 02:34 PM
1

Eh. Reality is, if you've fucked enough girls you've probably had sloppy seconds and didn't even know it. Statistically over a certain number of chicks it'll happen. I can almost guarantee if you've had over 30 girls you've at least made out with another guys recent blowjob receptacle. Don't worry about it. She's doing it for you too. Just worry about STDs. Wrap that shit.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 03:59 PM
4

I think that's it, but also that a crappy person hates having a mirror hung in front of them. They do this, then see the guys they feel entitled to doing it, which almost forces them to think about what they're doing. Can't have that, hamster overdrive.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 03:23 PM
1

There was the entire dad bod thing, that died very quickly because it was so easy to create myriad YouTube videos as evidence that it was bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 03:01 PM
5

Good start, remember to continue escalating next time. For now just soft next, be polite but don't feed any attention, things are physical or not at all. If she's up to get physical then escalate. If a second cop out happens just move on entirely.
/r/askTRP25/02/17 02:22 PM
1

"I'm sure you can measure up if you work hard." Either that or straight up ignore it or laugh.
/r/askTRP25/02/17 12:13 PM
6

Nah. A man should have a vision, a mission, and the ability to remain objective in the face of decision making. He should be in healthy shape. He also needs a y chromosome. Aside from that, his vision, mission, and objective decision making will decide his "list".
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 12:06 PM
3

Men worth a damn don't. But a lifetime of free validation from beta males, hypergamy, and the need to protect themselves from responsibility for their place in the totem pole makes them bitchy, entitled, and prickly to avoid facing the rejection they know deep down they deserve. At this point I simply ignore them beyond reacting to them with amusement, and fuck their hot friends. After all if their hot friends want you enough they'll shut them down on your behalf anyway.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 01:25 PM
3

Simply put abundant is having more than you need. To make the market abundant is relative to a market which you have the leverage in. "Whether buying in a buyers market or selling in a seller's market, you want the market in your favor" The fastest way to achieve this is recognizing that there's always another option. This is true most of the time, though future options are hardly practical for desperate situations. The most effective long term way to gain abundance is to work hard. You have to …
/r/askTRP21/02/17 04:37 PM
1

Well it's an easy answer. You improve because you want to. If you don't want to, don't. It's that simple. Trp isn't here to convince you, just as a toolbox for you to use if you choose to change. The only real convincing is internal. If you're ecstatically happy and don't feel something is missing, keep doing what you're doing. If something's missing, fix it. That's on you bro. Congrats though you've built a nice place for your needs and that's a good thing.
/r/askTRP19/02/17 09:43 PM
1

Ignore the revenge fantasy. That won't happen so quickly. Health first, then stabilize yourself financially. They'll hear about your success through the grapevine, but a revenge fantasy is still based on them as the focus. You should be based on you.
/r/askTRP19/02/17 09:14 PM
1

Winston Churchill. David Starkey.
/r/askTRP19/02/17 09:10 PM
1

Whatever you're good enough at that people constantly remark on it or ask your advice, attach a price tag. If there's nothing you're good at to that level, mow lawns or something. In a city that will be tough, but you can shovel snow, pick weeds, whatever. Tldr tutoring.
/r/askTRP19/02/17 09:03 PM
2

Hmm. An aggressive alpha male who she friend zoned? Are you sure? Maybe it's a big brother or family member or something? Treat him like a bro and keep escalating with her. Walk away if he attempts to instigate. She'll follow and deal with it for you if she's interested enough. No girl is worth a fight, unless you have kids together or they're family.
/r/askTRP19/02/17 09:02 PM
1

Just search r vs k selection. Should be a lot of quality stuff if you use Google scholarly research.
/r/askTRP19/02/17 08:58 PM
2

No idea. I make it a point to do what I want unless there are physical or legal repercussions. A decade ago I'd probably have said start a business and go all in. But now I've done that. Not sure. Good thought experiment though.*
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 08:58 PM
32

You handled it almost perfectly. Just lock eyes and let your group handle it for you. Maybe a discerning tsk tsk will be enough. You should regard it as beneath you.
/r/askTRP19/02/17 08:47 PM
11

Last time this happened I told her I need the whole package to make a decision. So she got naked. Then we fucked. New plate born. I must say though I have seen girls do this strictly for attention. It isn't a big deal. User your social calibration to tell if this is an invitation or purely for attention. If the former, escalate, if the latter treat it like NBD.
/r/askTRP19/02/17 08:36 PM
2

Two excellent goals. Build them backwards. For building your own business, figure out the vision, then work backwards on goals, until you hit the goal you can achieve within a week. "I want this vision, I'll need this scale, I'll need this many employees, which means this much profit, which means this likely industry, which means these talents for differentiation, which means finding these advisors and resources, which means this kinda pitch and strategy, which means this kinda model, which mean…
/r/askTRP19/02/17 08:32 PM
1

Damn. You beat me to the punch. I was going to reference my blue eyes white dragon. You kinda just get better and better as the months go on.
/r/askTRP19/02/17 08:28 PM
36

Priorities. A good thing to have. Nicely done op, all around.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 08:21 PM
1

Repost on ice breaking. Search trp history to find original. tldr You walk up to a new person, maybe you're introduced, you shake hands, Hi! My name is redstoic, what's yours? How are you doing? Ensue awkward silence. If you have this problem you need to understand icebreakers. It only takes 3 steps, you're probably doing any 2 of them. Core Icebreakers, in my experience, are best orchestrated based on the following 3 rules. Invoke likeability. (Practice an hour a day for a week). Invoke action.…
/r/askTRP19/02/17 02:10 PM
1

You can't rule out time and effort. However you can add in discipline and planning. Do the math, what's most likely to pay, what's most likely to get you where you want to go. Do you even know where you want to go? If not figure that out first. Eventually we all run into the hard truth of limited time. Life is one long management of opportunity cost.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 08:52 PM
1

Keep conversation purely sexual, treat her as you would a brand new girl, don't get pulled into memory talk, don't commit to anything. And after you fuck her move on. Ex's just aren't worth the hassle 90% of the time. The other 10% still no more worth it than spinning something new.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 08:47 PM
2

Actually there's quite clear evidence of this. Just Google "women less happy decade over decade." Even feminist research has noted it, though they incorrectly claim that it is only because women are being asked more often if they're happy, as though that makes any sense no matter how parsed. It's especially strong after 30. Oddly enough it correlates directly with sexual liberation. Huh. Odd.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 08:38 PM
6

The guys I know who are most successful based not on cash, but personality/charisma are usually pretty light hearted socially. They laugh, they joke, but they know when to say no. Resting bitch face is definitely an issue, though some can pull it off. Remember to have fun, anything dealing with a girl is a game.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 08:27 PM
1

Well, what do you want to happen at the end? What are the steps to make that happen without compromising yourself? Do those. Ex: I wanted to fuck plate 1 and plate 2. To do that I needed plate 1 and plate 2 present and able. I schedule to make dinner and sleep over at 1s place Monday night, and to make dinner with 2 Tuesday night. I fucked 1 around an hour and a half ago. I'm fucking 2 tonight. Done. I got sex. They got my time and bragging rights about making dinner together. Good trade.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 01:16 PM
2

Well there's your problem. There's no one fix for all situations. You expect different results but aren't willing to change. Not every circumstance is answered with sexual strategy. Read how to win friends and influence people. Great book. It'll cover the next strategy you should focus on, helping you deal with your fear of social rejection, not sexual rejection, "you're doing great on the latter after all".
/r/askTRP14/02/17 12:25 PM
7

"what I did wasn't normal" ... Yes it is. Rarely will people admit it, but it's very normal. Maybe not normal as in "the super majority" but definitely normal as in "every group of 5 has 1 like this". We all know the horny friend. Stop bashing on yourself. Use toys as you are, enjoy yourself. I've dated plenty of girls who have that hidden box with things that strike fear into the hearts of prudes everywhere. It's perfectly fine and healthy. Some people are just breeders. Now for functional fixe…
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 12:20 PM
1

Started drinking a lot and dropped out of college early on. Started my business as a monk mode. Was actually a great rock bottom I guess. Never lost access to pussy and all hatred was internal and discipline based. Met a guy who was a close combat instructor with 2 tours under his belt, he'd started a pool installation business. He kinda took me under his wing and that plus actually listening to my red as fuck family got me back on track quickly. The constant training helped build discipline rea…
/r/askTRP14/02/17 11:45 AM
3

Hmm. Aside from a few, the majority of girls I've had have been white. Usually redheads. A few yellow. I don't deal with black chicks, mostly because their culture is shit and African Queen syndrome makes them nightmares to tolerate. But I'd have to say the biggest difference is class. Black women are the least likely to be in the same class as myself and my friends. Cohorts don't mix that well at that extreme a difference. Didn't notice much about the racism though. I've yet to meet a guy whose…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 11:20 AM
1

Go minimal or go home. Keep your life easy, do not build a pad for others, build it for yourself.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 02:48 PM
3

Pretty standard. It's not simply one class, the right college experience will turn a devout into a dirty porn nun. Women are Social, resisting the cohorts internal shaming is brutal for them. Want to make a perfect girl a slut, just make her cohort sluts and wait. Guys do it too, to less of an extent.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 02:41 PM
1

Well yeah. Best you can do is keep your mouth shut. Men do things, the kissing. Women say things, that's the telling.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 02:28 PM
1

Sex between two informed consenting adults should have no additional requirements on either side. So there's no guilt to ever be had. Ever. If either one is using covert contracts, then they're not being transparent or keeping the other informed, the contract is void. Pretty simple. Tldr never feel guilty for sex under informed consent.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 02:26 PM
31

True. Still, great step, it sets a good precedent.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/02/17 02:21 PM
1

Well I think you've outlined the first thing you need to change. Find a better cohort.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 05:11 PM
1

High enough value perceived. And it's not that they did nothing, it's that they did things to set habits in youth. Either by parenting, genetics, tutelage, quick learning and raw intelligence, perfect location, etc. Something was done. Some people are born winning, both from environment and genetics, most have to work at it. No big deal man, that's just life.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 04:42 PM
1

All I think when anyone, male or female approaches me is "what do they want?" That's it.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/17 04:05 PM
2

Well that's fine man. But there isn't some magic bullet. You have to do things to make change. Of course the man decides the mission. Take what you need and leave the rest, but there's no instant fix. You'll have to actually do things to change. It fits fine with trp praxeology, but it's up to the man to decide the philosophy for that praxeology. Agency is a default, and action is required. I simply gave some direction on what to do. If he wants to do it or not is completely in his court, but do…
/r/askTRP12/02/17 03:56 PM
5

Going to be alone on my birthday. Confidence is low. But life is good? Don't know how to feel right now ffs. The last 3 weeks I've just felt so depressed, I'm lifting and working but everything just feels so numb and repetitive. Do you have any hobbies to speak of? Are you doing anything that makes you step outside of your comfort zone? Schedule time weekly to try something new once a week. User meetup or Google local events to try new shit. Force yourself to, it's part of your improvement. For …
/r/askTRP12/02/17 02:58 PM
2

I'm brown/black. I get a pretty impressive percentage of whatever I approach. Pretty simple. Some girls have jungle fever/make daddy mad complexes, that's a benefit for me, some girls prefer white guys, that's a penalty for me, but all girls love confidence, social proof, and money, so that's also a plus for me. I don't do black chicks anymore. The class difference is too large and the cohort is terrible, miss African Queen don't need no man is a ton of work for no winnings, and can't take a gir…
/r/askTRP12/02/17 02:44 PM
1

This. This precisely. And no joint checking account. Separate it ASAP. If they have to set you up with a joint one pocket cash as much as possible until you can go in and set up your own account. I've watched too many guys with shit families come up to rent and find bitch mom/dad/step whatever emptied them out because they felt entitled to it. Don't listen to the "I raised you you owe me". You had no part in that contract. It's their job to support you and get you ready for the real world. Don't…
/r/askTRP12/02/17 02:38 PM
1

Your height is unfortunate. That can't be all it is I don't think, I know short guys with a lot less who slay no problem. Do an FR on some of your approaches and turndowns, writing it alone may help you see a trend, if it doesn't, post it in ATRP and I'm certain someone will be able to get you sorted. Hell Vasily has already given you a good place to start. I can say this. If your height is bothering you enough, that'll mess up your game more than being short itself will. One of the things I've …
/r/askTRP12/02/17 02:30 PM
2

No not really. Maintaining the totem pole is normal. The thing is lots of guys do it from a position of fear, the alphas doing it to test if you're committed. Usually if you pass, you're in the group. Guys interact by trying to break each other, if you earn the respect they'll be the best people to have on your side.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 02:25 PM
1

The absurd answer previously mentioned is good. I prefer the direct approach. "Nah not my place, it's my castle, where I go to escape. I will be keeping it that way."
/r/askTRP12/02/17 02:21 PM
1

Nah it's completely actionable, just not easy for some. You'll have to work on it, and the best way to do that is meditation and practice. Maybe don't practice on a professor who directly influences your grade, but you'll have to practice nonetheless. In the meantime find someone in class who can answer or write him an email directly asking the question in text. You can be as specific as you want and there's no chance to interrupt in an email.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 02:18 PM
2

Lots of assumptions about what makes people happy in here. For someone with your mentality/priorities I'm sure it's okay advice, but don't make the mistake of personal bias. The redpill praxeology here is just a set of tools, the crowd that gathers here simply learns how the toolbox works, but ultimately the philosophy of how to apply the praxeology is up to the man. After all, the man sets the mission.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 11:27 AM
1

You'll know when you fuck her. If you have enough experience that is. Until then you can't be sure so don't worry about it. You don't wonder how a fish tastes if you haven't bought, caught, or cooked it yet. You do those first then decide if you want more
/r/askTRP12/02/17 11:22 AM
2

Get yourself some nice khakis or pants, not jeans, cargo, etc. Brown, black, or tan, save them for impressions such as job interviews. Button up shirt with a tie, blazer may be too much. Do you know anyone who works there? Mine information, what does management wear, dress that way, maybe 1 level lower.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 11:18 AM
1

That's one of the things you'll have to decide for yourself. Is that good enough to balance the scales for you? I'd say reading that post I mentioned would definitely help with that circumstance, but figuring out your priorities for a work environment, where your limits are and your walking points are, is even more important. No matter what decision you make there's almost always a flip side, you'll have to decide for yourself which reaction is healthiest for you.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 11:02 AM
1

I chose to start my own business. Now if anyones metrics drop for any reason I can do what I want with them. But seriously, for those who cannot escape situations like this easily, put in your time and search for a new company. Make friends with the highest up you can, and make friends with hr. Keep your mouth shut and document everything you do so you can demand credit. Law 38. But overall, while doing this, search for a new place to work. I also recommend you search the trp history for "corpor…
/r/askTRP12/02/17 10:54 AM
3

That's correct. I live in an East coast city, in one of the upper class districts. I suppose my sample bias was showing. True enough man.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 02:48 PM
2

I dunno, it's kinda silly. There's great historical precedent for women trying to ape male behaviors and invade male space. It's simply trying to increase their own value by appearance and relevance to other women. That's all. Just look at how malleable women are, whatever the alpha says goes, switching beliefs and even political perspectives to follow the right guy is commonplace, or even just to appear special, "read as more desirable." Let them have their fun, regardless of whether they under…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 02:01 PM
10

Arbitration is not court. It is agreed to allow the arbiters decision to stand as though it were, but it is not court.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/02/17 01:31 PM
1

This is the same thing as a girl asking "how do I appeal to you" It's a show of deference, or at least, that's how I've always taken it. She trusts you enough to decide how to appeal to her bracket, how to make you pleased, tell her what you want or don't. Be certain about it. My answer is always "wear green. It's my favourite colour". Then again, this could be a test, questioning your social adaptability and your sense of social positioning, but let's be honest, must girls have become really cr…
/r/askTRP08/02/17 05:11 PM
9

Well I think you've answered it already. A bunch of women didn't get what they thought they should have and banded together to make a scene. It doesn't get simpler than that. That's pretty normal actually "as women to leave tend to act in groups instead of individually" It was a thing, no one will care about it in a few months, nothing of value was done, tantrums were publicised, change didn't happen.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/02/17 05:08 PM
11

Well... Hopefully you mean that. Just in case you don't, here's your participation trophy and validation. Now do things that support it actively. "I'm not presuming you don't, just very wary"
/r/PussyPassDenied08/02/17 05:02 PM
1

Go through with it and send an after care message. "I had a great time, we should do this again yeah?" Let it hang. They'll most likely respond with something positive. Do it quickly after the fact so there isn't time for her to get herself in trouble. Those few words can save you entirely. Take victims don't agree to another meeting.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 05:00 PM
1

No. But an alpha does speak with purpose. Whether that purpose is internally based, externally playing, comedy, efficiency, narcissism, doesn't matter. They control the interaction most likely, and they have a reason behind their speaking. It could be for amusement, it could be deal brokering, but people listen. "Even higher alphas", they don't say things which are to be ignored unless specifically because the alpha wishes them to be ignored. Now maybe bring soft/rarely spoken is in your definit…
/r/askTRP08/02/17 04:51 PM
1

The short of it? Practice. You have to go be social. It'll be awkward. It'll hurt. But you'll learn and build thick skin. Just remember anyone who isn't interested is simply missing out on you. It's OK. Of course, while doing this you should be improving yourself, lift, diet, educate yourself, make money. Done. I'm sorry OP, I realize this is so much easier said than done. But you can do it, worse off starters have, so can you.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 01:09 PM
14

Eh. Maybe. Most of the men I know who live rather red add/drop a plate a month. That's not at all unreasonable. Some just do ons every week to fortnight. Maybe top 20%? If you're Social and not fat you can easily bag a new one a month just by asking constantly.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 01:03 PM
24

Nupe that's no 5. 2/3. Only way to be worse would be genetic failure or massive body damage/disfiguring.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 01:01 PM
1

Perfect rhetorical question, they don't need to be here. This is how you point out a fool, good job bro.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 12:34 PM
2

There are a few good ones. They're not statistically worth betting on. You have a better chance of doing everything red to attract one, maybe you will. Probably you won't. The dearth these days isn't good men, it's good women. They're much more scarce than good men. You'll meet maybe 3 a decade and for 2 they won't be available. "Nor will they cheat with you". Just IME. I've met 3 good women over 15yrs of searching and spinning. 2 were off the market "not even because they had better captains, t…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 06:37 PM
1

Thx, that was my suspicion. Still like the convenient though probably intended contrast he supplied.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/02/17 06:53 PM
3

Hell. It's about time. (That the sidebar was updated). Thx mods! Trp could use a sidebar update too IMO.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 05:24 PM
-5

Huh, so he literally went around as a dumb cunt Impressive. Not even mad actually. Is he joking though this is too on the nose?
/r/PussyPassDenied04/02/17 05:06 PM
1

That's a good take on it. I'll read during found time. Ten minutes here, five there. But rarely do I dedicate a solid hour to any Reddit reading, and if I do it's probably because I just submitted something.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 05:15 PM
1

Pretty simple to write, can be difficult to implement, but it's really only 3 things. create the best version of yourself, lift, read, do awesome shit approach constantly and give invites to join you. (Not ask permission to take them somewhere) maintain social proof, you can use social media, abundance, whatever, just ensure when people ask about you several hot chicks are mentioned. Have that excitement. Each of these could be natural or take a long time to build, that's your life, I can't advi…
/r/askTRP31/01/17 04:34 PM
7

I don't understand how. He stated that yes or no is their deciding factor and his. A yes is informed consent. A no he leaves it alone. I think it would be hard to be less rapey actually.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 04:29 PM
1

People won't like this perspective, but it's worked for a long time (for me). Granted you'd only get this rolling with pure abundance and maybe social proof. Try law 38. If that doesn't work go tactical nuke. Speak your mind at all times. Black Knight. Be brutal. Make them cry. Whatever you can do to break them, do it. Not out of spite, but because it wouldn't affect your plates. (Obviously you should have some set it simply not give a fuck) Feminism is the ultimate shit test, none of them are g…
/r/askTRP30/01/17 06:26 PM
1

Maybe. I doubt it based on my experience with escorts/strippers (as plates never paid). There'll be a baby threat pretty early the first time you seriously fuck up there, op hasn't logged one here, maybe it hadn't happened, if it has, I agree entirely. If not, I doubt it.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 05:39 PM
1

That's to be expected. It's an addiction for some. Which means like an ex smoker can still get cravings a decade later, so will you. But you'll be more and more dismissive of them. Hang in there bro.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 06:31 PM
7

Little bitter, but you're perfectly right. I'm black, and I don't touch black women even though I'm sterile. Not only because of what you've said but also because they're infested too. Plus the African Queen thing is just a horrible personality to tolerate. One thing I will point out is that this seems to disappear in upper income brackets. The numbers drop massively with enough education.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 06:25 PM
1

Just because I understand my time with a trainer is limited, doesn't mean I want them giving instruction to others on my slot. It's basic respect.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 06:23 PM
36

Quality repost. Every once in a while, it's good to reminisce.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/01/17 06:21 PM
3

Who do you choose to hang out with? Who are you present around? You sound very nice, but it's not that there's a dearth of leaders, it's that you're probably not putting yourself where you find those leaders. There should be plenty of excellent men in any metropolitan first world location, but you'll have to look in different areas. You can't catch a shark in a swimming pool, you'll have to go sharking. Find cocktails, closed venues, high gate communities, etc, you need to find where they congre…
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 06:17 PM
24

Women survive on social influence. I presume this is mostly nature because of the need of support through childbirth, and partially nurture due to the society they're raised in and how badly it enforces women are wonderful complex. This means every decision is a social decision. How anyone who even hears or guesses it happened matters because they could lose influence or support. Just for an example a plate of mine went shopping for new years gear, "new toys for the bedroom", it wasn't until aft…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 06:05 PM
1

You're right, IME, but caution to the novices out there. You can pull this off with good calibration but don't upset the masters. Now at an angel group, I wouldn't recommend it, you want to be liked and charming, but not build the rep of being a flirt. At a network group, yeah okay so it. No problem. Both the above should be done after you are good at understanding the context quickly. I myself, I don't flirt when involving business. Then again my personality is much more stoic. I can, but I get…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 05:39 PM
1

Nice NE quote there. Also all around good advice.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 05:30 PM
1

Nice advice. I only use SM for business, and occasionally to check pictures people face marked me in. The one major upside of it is the sheer amount of passive social proof you can advertise for pretty much nothing at all except letting people take pictures with you at places. Aside from that, nope. Better things to do and physical people to meet. Much more rewarding personally. As far as others have mentioned here, yes it is a problem with the person, but I'd recommend an alcoholic remove alcoh…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 05:25 PM
9

Probably has read several of Shakespeare's works. Lots of the comedians I know have. It's cool, mastery of language doesn't preclude limited dialectic expositions.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/01/17 01:15 PM
1

Basically this has no hard definitive answer. There are a few traits that tend to be present in leadership, though context is every bit as important. Cohort culture as well. charismatic. Most leaders have a certain charisma. People want to be around them. It's debated whether this is a chicken before the egg trait since some leaders weren't charismatic until they began leading. quick decision maker. In a crisis, a leader can make quick decisions that pan out well. Why? There's a lot of theory an…
/r/askTRP26/01/17 01:47 PM
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Eh motivation itself isn't bad. It's just very limited and fickle. Motivation can be used as a gateway to discipline by habit building, if the motive is strong enough. I think what's bad is when people stop at motivation and don't foster discipline using it as a jumping board.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 01:29 PM
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Why... Are you required to take a feminism class? I'm just curious. I had to do 6 yrs for a triple major then 2 more for a master's, and I've honestly never met someone required to take one outside of being in that specific school. I'm not mocking, I've just heard this more and more since I left college.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 10:19 PM
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Of course they're sexuality driven marketing. Not certain if they're a scam though. Anyone remotely associated with the business likely knows that there's a certain set of numbers you call to get girls to show up especially for VIPs. Additionally almost every major special or deal needs to be geared towards saturating the room with pussy, because pussy sells. The guys will throw down for a chance at it and the girls will often spend some cash while there too. So yes, it's purely marketing sex, m…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 10:12 PM
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Shit. Feel like my dad just went, "yeah I'm proud of you, but listen here you little shit, don't forget you're mortal." Great content, could probably do an excellent reminder post with this as a base.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 09:56 PM
1

job hunt find place that offers better let boss know it's time for a raise to x salary because you got an offer. specifically don't mention looking for other positions or shopping around. Use the half truth. Let him stew on it, either you take the offer or he gives you the raise. I recommend checking for the corporateland post here. It'll cover it for you.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 02:53 PM
1

In general, I don't really do holidays like that. I make it clear early on that I'll gift things when I want to, not when pressure dictates it. Now obviously you've been running them for quite a while so the preconceptions are already there with the first two, treat them as you have in the past. The new one though, is still in the mould, you can condition her differently, "I try not to do vday, too commercial and everyone hikes prices. Let's do x special a week afterwards." My point is, you can …
/r/askTRP24/01/17 02:49 PM
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Well, depending on dosage and frequency her brain is irreversibly fucked. So there you go. She should be anal ready though.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 02:42 PM
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Amused: "getting ahead of yourself ain't ya?" Stoic: "doesn't even address that comment." Mastery: "that seems to be all you think about." Abundance: "yeah, it is late, I should get going. Checks phone with tinder open" or you can even nuke hard "don't worry I've got that area covered."
/r/askTRP24/01/17 02:37 PM
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No no no. No. That's because parents are child rearing. Leo's are LAW ENFORCEMENT. Not babysitters.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/01/17 02:32 PM
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"wait until your father gets home" Still feel my myself tense up imagining mom or the maid saying that. Well that and "Son, explain to me what you did wrong." Fuck. Our society needs to get back to this proper division of responsibility. It just fucking works.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 02:21 PM
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Well done. The last few stoicism posts I jumped on, because they conflated practicality with theory, this is excellent. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 04:29 PM
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Lol yeah, maybe they're projecting. Statistically unlikely though.
/r/askTRP21/01/17 05:04 PM
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OK. Well, I agree with that, but some direction is good too. check your posts for grammar and spelling use correct formatting check top of the week or month to see if it's been done better than you could. familiarize yourself not only with the sidebar, but top of all time as well don't break posting rules, you'll waste everyone's time I might add, that an implicit thesis is generally a bad idea for written content exuding industry or cohort based texts using formal dialects with presumed prior k…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 05:03 PM
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Mkay. So, where's the ask here? Where's the how. You've clearly covered the what and why, but I feel this is half baked as you'd put it. Where's the goal?
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 04:56 PM
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-lift -approach -read -do a hobby -try something new weekly -diet effectively. (Part of lift) -scheduling -weekly review of your self SWOT analysis (just to ensure you're focused/objective in goals) Do those and you'll end up fine.
/r/askTRP21/01/17 04:51 PM
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You won't be viewed as gay after you fuck their crush. Ignore them. Crab barrel mentality. They attack you because they won't put in the effort.
/r/askTRP21/01/17 04:47 PM
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Trades. Go get into a trade. Doesn't matter what it is, just find one. If you can swing it, get an apprenticeship. HVAC, cooking, welding, tatting, plumbing etc. Almost all trades are with your hands, hard work, you'll learn much and the people that teach them are good strong people. In general, of course there are exceptions
/r/askTRP21/01/17 04:43 PM
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Agreed. Then again, the issues only tend to arise with maladaptive types, you, clearly, are not maladaptive.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 04:16 PM
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OP, you could have ended this with a laugh, and if she pushed it a serious, "wait, so you're seriously staring at my bro through class? Is there something you need to tell me?" Wait expectantly They're children. Treat them like children. The only way to prove to a fool they're a fool is to lead them to hang themselves. Talking at them doesn't work.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 04:14 PM
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Pressure flip. Wait, so you are staring at my bro? Is there something you need to tell me? Wait expectantly
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 04:12 PM
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Probably a great idea to head to rpw, they'll help you out.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 04:09 PM
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Tell your friends "nah man, she's stolen enough of my time as it is. Not wasting any more on her." Leave it at that *
/r/askTRP21/01/17 11:16 AM
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I find they're usually allusive, not directly spoken, but agreed by proximity or reference. Ex, you both hear about someone else doing it and agree that's fucked up. You didn't explicitly tell each other here's the bar, but you both confirmed it. It's pretty rare that unspoken agreements work, power talk usually states the terms, we just don't think about it while we're doing it with bros because it's so natural.
/r/askTRP21/01/17 11:04 AM
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This is normal. They make the mistake of thinking things guys find cool about guys are the same things guys find attractive in girls. Hence the issues with depression in women increasing year over year, decade over decade, with business suit chicks and aggressive independent chicks hitting the wall still clueless about how to maintain guys attraction. It's a congruence failure, they want you, and instead of being feminine, they (poorly) emulate male strengths. There's this tiny plate I just pick…
/r/askTRP21/01/17 10:59 AM
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Agreed. I wouldn't recommend posting the, commenting sure. Better to post here with the right tags instead.
/r/askTRP21/01/17 10:46 AM
2

Dave Chapelle covered it rather simply when referencing Lewinsky. Paraphrasing, "women hate Monica, because they're jealous. Every girl has that dick she regrets, but I'm betting yours wasn't a president. Probably Kenny from Safeway or something." Of course the women nodded laughing.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 10:39 AM
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Definitely a wouldn't 5ish.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 02:07 PM
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Reading about theory makes you excellent at reading theory. That's all you're practicing. You're better off learning actively. Start small. You only improve at what you practice. get into the gym study accounting and get your budget in shape set aside time to go out each week choose something to work on each time you go out, 'approach, icebreakers, escalate, iois, etc" More than anything you should only read until you have a new thing to do then do that.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 01:28 PM
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Summary: Introverts have a higher level of stress dealing with others. This tires them faster. Extroverts have a higher level of stress being cut off from others. This tires them faster. Neither is bad. Both requires management of stress and recovery. Neither is an excuse for being maladaptive.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 01:17 PM
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Noted. Next time some girl is trying to buy me shots I'll call the cops. Ass.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 01:10 PM
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Agreed. I suffered for a few years to start my business, now I still do 60 to 80 hour weeks but only because my business is my hobby. I love it to death. Very different from waking up and getting through" a 12hr day vs waking up and *accidentally working 12hrs because this is fucking amazing
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 02:37 PM
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They're around. Usually don't mention it though. I'm surprised your inbox doesn't have PMs mentioning it really, at least one or two?
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 02:35 PM
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The lesson may be there, but it only counts if people learn from it. Still doesn't make me happy. Rather have the lesson beforehand, when change can happen and make a real difference. Then again, it doesn't make me unhappy either. More of a, welp... Yup.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 02:33 PM
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Nope. I don't expect a random chick to follow me. I expect a chick whose interested and after a minute or two of conversation to at least begin mirroring. That's all. Expect is certainly not the right word. Though mirroring is a really quick clean way to tell attraction respect and investment is present. Tldr. Someone can be into you without mirroring. If someone is mirroring they're into you. Since you have plenty of options, you don't really need to waste time on any but the evidenced infatuat…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 02:27 PM
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Well it's never going to be easy. If it were, you wouldn't have this issue in the first place. The sidebar should've given you everything you need, top posts of all time should give you even more. Those two together complete 99 percent of what you can get from trp. The rest is up to your willingness to act and try new methods.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 04:39 PM
1

Gay guys work really well too.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 03:48 PM
1

I'm not a fan of giving for free. My time is valuable, more than hers 99%of the time. I'm not stacking cash on top of that.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 03:43 PM
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Build yourself a better life, into a better man. Girls will invite themselves in. Don't focus on improvement for women.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 03:33 PM
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Then end them. Good. From what you've posted looks like you'll be much better off. Que the onitis OST.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 03:27 PM
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Nah I did. I'm arguing the idea that if he was a huge cunt the slap was deserved. Nothing more.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/01/17 03:23 PM
1

Not really a problem to me so much as an expectation. Tons of newbs here, tons of anger phase. It's something quick to focus on to help dispel the illusion through shock. Now I would prefer if people were strong enough to move past this faster, but hey if they were that strong in the first place they probably wouldn't be here.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 03:20 PM
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I think it's just a calibration issue then. If I approach a dozen women I can walk away with a lay most likely. 2/10 is pretty realistic. They're a type of person too and often things just don't match. Now what can be done to improve it? Let's hit the checklist fit at a glance, check approaching casually, check well dressed, check setting a limit on the interaction, x. (To do this I recommend setting a timer when you're first interacting, I'll give this girl 2 minutes to start following me. I us…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 03:18 PM
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She was qualifying her willingness to be led by you. That's it. Calling her out wasn't a problem, you stopped yourself and continued escalating. But I would rethink the motive a bit.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 03:06 PM
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I'm sorry, I can't condone the idea that it's justified to escalate a nonviolent affront such as cutting in line theoretically to physical violence. That's for children who don't know better. Not adults. Certainly not supposedly equal adults.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/01/17 03:02 PM
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I understand the sarcasm. Fully fair. But actually yes, I am a practicing and raised stoic. I have a master's in analytic philosophy and there's a chance if you're a heavy stoic you've even read some of my contributions. And of course there's no need to avoid reminding people of reasonable goals to achieve. Convoluting the message however, is rarely necessary. I'm only asking you to step back and think about it. I'm not, as previously stated, attacking you. Just making it known. (As a reminder, …
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 12:11 AM
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Yes... Yes that does. I cannot and will not try to help there. I simply don't have the knowledge. I'm sorry. I can say this, an unhappy marriage damages kids more than a happy or cordial divorce.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 12:08 AM
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40 mins to an hour. My hiit routine ranges between 35 and 50 minutes 4 days weekly. What you do and how you do it is every bit as important as diet and psychological bragging rights. I have tended to notice the people who go for the sucursal aspect aliens more time than strongmen.
/r/askTRP15/01/17 11:53 PM
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Books? No. Do. You learn this by doing. You'll see four things thrown about constantly and for good reason. Boxing. Definitely yes. BJJ. Definitely yes. Krav maga. Definitely yes. Wrestling. Definitely yes. Get a basis in these and join an MMA group. Even just one followed for two years will fully and completely change your life. But you have to do. Not read. Protip: if you're not hurting, you're not in the right class.
/r/askTRP15/01/17 11:50 PM
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Grew up with a maid. (and a maids house). Spent about 5 years without one, no problem. Now? I simply have cleaners, much cheaper, when I'm as established as my parents, I may have a maid again. We'll see. I'm just not as comfortable with someone who knows the core insider details of my daily private life so well. As far as finding one, either spin enough plates that their unique skills can fulfill the value of a maid, or simply hire one. A Google search should really answer this question. Be rea…
/r/askTRP15/01/17 11:48 PM
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Stoicism has been deeply covered. Check top of all time. Please. The misunderstanding between theory and practicality is often the main issue. Sample bias makes it worse. I'm not targeting you, simply saying this has all been covered in myriad ways, the ones that are functional have been done to death.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 11:43 PM
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Not if you simply say no. Done. Simple. Just say no.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 11:41 PM
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Hmm. Not ready yet. Put it back into practice kill the sidebar again and come back with more experience. Not a horrible start, not great either.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 11:39 PM
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Let's be up front You will find 99 percent of what makes trp useful by a top of all time filter and the sidebar. Much of it is rehashing and reminders, some is bitch moves, much is misguided. However, you can search by top of all time then friend the people you respect, that lend value to you. You can sort posts by these friends later. But that's on you. Remember most of trp is awakening, only a few have been around and long enough to have much of value to say. Hell most of the things you see po…
/r/askTRP15/01/17 11:36 PM
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Hey man I run almost all my game through cold approach. Have for the last decade. Excellent results. Can I get some more specifics? Yeah your height isn't helping but you're not letting it hold you back which is vastly more important. How are you dressed? What do you talk about? Are you comfortable approaching cold or Still learning? How well known are you? Do you set a limit on the interaction "creating scarcity"? How's your general social proof? Where are you approaching? Lots that could poten…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 11:34 PM
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Agency. Red pill demands it. Blue pill avoids it.
/r/askTRP15/01/17 10:29 PM
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Time to leave. Get your attorney, provide proof, keep it all under wraps until she's served the papers. Try to get a female judge. Normally marriage is Rough to leave, however in this circumstance, play your cards right, if you have no children even easier, and you'll be just fucking fine.
/r/askTRP15/01/17 10:27 PM
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Leave when you're gaining nothing. That's about it.
/r/askTRP15/01/17 10:24 PM
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Preselection. That's my official response. However, the reality is, whatever she's lacking at the moment will probably get her going. A stud can be cucked by a nerd. It's just different. This is the importance of mystery, and a large reason that compliance and commitment fail. They get bored. Thankfully most women are lacking a strong unbound leader, so rp works excellently. It's still no guarantee.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 10:20 PM
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Anything for a recognized bro. And doubly thanks for no names/location. I truly appreciate it.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 07:25 PM
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This all the way op. Just because you're functional doesn't mean you're not failing yourself and your own potential. If you need that cloudy dissociation to be comfortable, try meditation.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 07:23 PM
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This is the best answer. Not the one you asked for but the one you need op. Which one can you operate most comfortable and confidently with? Do that. And own that shit hard.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 07:21 PM
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I doubt it. Drawing too much attention to this is bad for the girl and the court, so it'll probably be let to lie. Then again, I'm not claiming conspiratorial circumstance, only historical trend.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/01/17 07:19 PM
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Why are you asking us? Based on your responses to below you'd rather justify your own choices than listen to any conflicting input. You do you bro, the intellect is obviously there, as is the drive, the sondor and humility both seem eclipsed by bias though. All I can say is jump into it, either do or don't, then come back if your system fails. If it doesn't, then great, double down. The reactions to perspectives which are admittedly questionably informed in the most part, are still a measurement…
/r/askTRP13/01/17 07:14 PM
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You're not a 5. Basic hygiene fail, obese, no. First let's be realistic. Even spitting mad game you're a 2 at most. At least you're not deformed nor retarded. You have to get to the gym You have to stick with a diet for 2 years. You need any two of the following, money, power, looks. Charisma is necessary regardless. Yeah, you can jump 2/3 steps easy, but first you should look at being realistic, accepting responsibility, and setting some plans in stone. Recommended, kill the sidebar, anything b…
/r/askTRP13/01/17 06:42 PM
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https://youtu.be/wYIwPtLQWaU I have never in my life responsed with just a link until now. In this case, remember, action defeats words. I would never write a check on words. Listen and do.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 06:27 PM
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Above and beyond I recommend owning a good food scale, tracking everything put into your mouth, and holding to a diet. Regardless of being keto, Paleo, lean, whatever. Diet loses weight. Log everything and stick to it for 3 months. And you'll see improvement. Especially if you're already in shape and trying to get rid of that last layer to beat out the six pack. At that point keep crushing in the gym, but put double the effort and strictness into your diet.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 06:24 PM
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Did a post myself on the zone. This is well done, could've been read over for grammar and spelling, punctuation, but still solid message. Nice job OP.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 06:14 PM
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Either it's 'get back in your line' or its 'I'm really not certain you're what you seem' Occasionally it's simply ball busting because bitches be crazy.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 01:15 PM
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Pretty simply, use a separate account for awoken subs. Use other accounts based on the cohort you're speaking to. Keeps life simple. Just remember to switch when appropriate. Other than that, yes, you've got it. Law 38. Not Everytime, but 80/20 has this covered.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 01:03 PM
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Yeah. But there's good bitches and bad ones. She's a good bitch. She's his bitch. For now
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 12:54 PM
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I had my really nice leather jacket, it's zipper got busted because some fatty decided to try it on from the closet. Believe me he's right to say this. Bitches will help themselves to everything and anything if you don't say no. They don't even make that specific bomber anymore /sigh
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 07:38 PM
1

Use dictates everything when it comes to language. Regardless of how, it's consistency and challenging yourself. Listen to everything in English, watch only English shows, "use subs at the beginning, then turn them off", read only English literature, anything, even magazines as they'll help with dialect and colloquialisms. Listen to English music. Talk to native speakers using myriad online methods, hell, even Omegle. Constant immersion is the only "fast track" there really aren't shortcuts.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 06:22 PM
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Agreed. In my experience teaching as well, even I resent the person who delves into a big question they could've asked 30 minutes ago during a lull, 30 seconds before we're supposed to leave My go to was always, "you can message me or see me during office hours!"
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 03:03 PM
2

But they gotta pay.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/01/17 02:56 PM
5

Well you've got the ugly truth down. Concisely however the fact is: Women do not have to be worthy, because they are necessary for procreation. That's all. Water doesn't have to taste good, we must be hydrated, you'll eat anything if you're starving, you'll fight if you're cornered. Necessity always beats worthiness or additional requirements. A prince would act a pauper if everything were cut from him. Tldr: since they're required for procreation they don't have to be worthy. Just present.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 03:08 PM
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Someone can't dissociate between their own fantasies and reality of an abuse of authority on an undeveloped mind. This is so normal it's almost depressing. That's OK though, I'm sure if you try hard enough you can abuse authority over a 13yr old too. Surely you'll be in the right because they all probably share the exact same mindset you do yes?
/r/PussyPassDenied10/01/17 02:49 PM
1

Adoptions I must say, are very different psychology. Still not ideal, and I'm biased AF from personal predilections and experience. I would never raise a kid, but if I did, it would be adoption, not a single mother.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 02:56 PM
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It is rare, but I grew an inch at 26. It's very uncommon. It wasn't posture because I've always had excellent posture. I was 5'10 slouch 5'11 straight, now I'm 5'11 slouch 6'even straight. I also needed to buy new longer pants, the height was in the legs. Very rare, but outliers can exist. My guess though, is this guy simply fixed his posture and wore better heavier soled shoes.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 02:49 PM
1

It's a rigid hyper dogma. That person committed heresy and was excommunicated. Funny how well that makes sense.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 06:23 PM
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Ignore her user of pronouns and anything she says implying snowflakeness. Use regular real pronouns and lead a happy life banging stable girls. Setting example is best for modifying siblings.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 12:21 PM
2

Rough case. Does he deserve absolute compensation? Hell freaking yes. Does she deserve dmg for a mistake made as a 13yr old? Hell no. Still, pass granted. Just a very unfortunate circumstance both ways.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/01/17 10:36 PM
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Amusing yes, to those who have their shit in order. The fact that it's so rampant in the 1st and Western world, that's a symptom of a massive failure. It doesn't depress me, but it does make me happy to help in the exact right context. (Normally, 80% of the time, law 38 obviously)
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 09:34 PM
1

I'll do a sport of choice on rest days. Basketball, rugby, dance, etc. Something active but won't max out my muscle strain. Hiking is generally a good choice, as is dance.
/r/askTRP02/01/17 07:09 PM
1

The avg plate for me is 3 to 6 months. The longest "and my favorite, she gets most of what you would probably recognize as girlfriend benefits" is 6 years. At this point it would be fair to call it a one way open ltr. (I Fuck who I want but she acts as a classical conservative wife for me. To be fair she knows she's my favorite.) The thing about spinning is you know they'll break, so keep milling and vetting for new ones. If you find a very compatible plate a year or two is completely possible a…
/r/askTRP02/01/17 07:00 PM
1

That's good. "She feels she's not enough". Very good. Price dread for days. Provide comfort sparingly and keep doing what you're doing. Try to tie comfort to things you love, " random blowjob alarm clock, give comfort", things she can do. You'll both be happier for it.
/r/askTRP02/01/17 06:56 PM
1

So you lost the genetic lottery. That sucks. However, that's also an opportunity. You'll have to triple down in social capital, income, and frame. Get swole, build your social network, make bank, don't give any of it freely. Yours is a hard path, but not impossible.
/r/askTRP02/01/17 06:54 PM
1

Are your parents already red? No? (If they were why are you here?) Then shut the fuck up and live by example. Words are cheap.
/r/askTRP02/01/17 06:50 PM
1

Likely yes. Though I don't know it and there shouldn't be in this sub. There's tons of info for you to maximise your own value and capital to get others to happily choose to follow and comply with you though.
/r/askTRP02/01/17 06:49 PM
1

I'm pretty certain "checking top of all time for rpw" that's been done very well and in spades. I think simply modifying and upgrading the sidebar with links would be sufficient. Regardless, for both praxeologies, women should do rpw first, men should do rp first, different strategies and noviciates will often be intimidated or dissuaded by reading the wrong praxeology first.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/17 06:46 PM
2

Not worth it IMO. For example, let's presume your supposed to be clocking 5 sets of 5 reps 150lb OHP that day, yes? Then warm-up with the bar alone. Then one set 50lb 5 reps Then one set 100lb 5 reps Of course, include your stretching in your warm-up. Then get on to the lift. In general my warm-up is always a stretching plus a compound from bar only (if applicable), to 33% to 66% then 100%, the final one being the first recorded group for the session. I generally do stretch, bar, stretch, 33, st…
/r/askTRP02/01/17 06:39 PM
2

You can't "make her" do anything. She chooses to. What you can do is improve yourself, "game, frame, mission, education, cleverness, fitness, wealth" until you're so desirable that they usually choose to.
/r/askTRP02/01/17 06:11 PM
3

Seasonal affective disorder? It's very real, look into it and see if you match up, if so remember to get enough sunlight (vitamin d) and continue lifting, buy a lamp if necessary to help you adjust.
/r/askTRP02/01/17 06:09 PM
1

I've been on both sides. Buzz cut/bald and full head of hair. (I prefer the full head of hair because I have naturally EPIC hair) however when I was swimming for a few years, bald it was. It had absolutely zero effect on my success rate. Nothing. Zilch. Nada. That's just the numbers, of course girls are people too and have preferences. Maybe the tatted chicks weren't as interested with my luscious locks, but the gym bunnies and models upped the ante. Play to your strengths bro. Own your shit. Hi…
/r/askTRP31/12/16 05:50 PM
4

To be fair, external validation seeking is the enemy. Internal locus of control and validation is most excellent and healthy.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 05:47 PM
1

Would one be able to have integrity and self respect when he is making money by making not so honest living? The short answer is yes. One could do that. Since what is worth self respect is ultimately subjective in conditions. (Some respect themselves because they can kill a man, others because they practice charity weekly, neither are exclusive) etc. From what I see, regardless of the job one does, money always go from loser to winner, if we over simplify it. Whatever you do 99.9% times, it is g…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 05:42 PM
2

Bulk in cold seasons, cut in warm ones, buy a good food scale, use my fitness pal premium to track everything you put into your mouth, progressive fitness is an excellent app for having an easy to use graph for gains and genuflection, visit fitness sub to get a handle on minutia, and find excellent form tutorials, choose a diet and stick with it. (I do keto and Paleo depending on the time of year and prices of fish, during summer I'll carb up because I rock climb, swim, dance, etc, need that lon…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 05:06 PM
0

Shit, 5'11 swole and have never had a problem bagging 7 to 9. Then again, model face.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 05:01 PM
4

I simply wouldn't go. Your wife can certainly understand why, and excuses can be made. I don't hand out to harlots, not even attention.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 01:51 PM
12

If you've got enough money tossing a girl a few hundred is like offering five bucks for a bj. To him it was probably not even memorable. Just because it was semi new and well, he could. A lot of big time escorts try this too, though if they're with a company they're often warned it's a stupid, alarmingly stupid idea to extort or blackmail powerful people.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/12/16 10:59 PM
1

This is such a simple concept so many don't accept. You know who gets laid consistently? The people who ask and escalate consistently. That's it. Just by doing that every chance you get, you'll start building up the social skills, you'll start getting positive pressure from those you see succeeding to be in shape, to make something of yourself. You'll start getting yes as well as the many no's. You'll build frame and thick skin from all the turn downs, they won't even phase you. You'll be happy …
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 01:23 PM
1

I'd have to say your point actually wraps in nicely with mine. They're not mutually exclusive.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 12:55 PM
14

I think that's usually guys who can't separate their fantasy of a personal slut, with the reality of an actual slut. Too much porn I'd wager.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 01:30 PM
2

By action. Setting a consistent strong example is the best thing you can do. If your life is awesome and you're happy, others will do as you do. Especially children.
/r/askTRP27/12/16 01:12 PM
2

The thing many seem to be missing here, is that this tactic only works if they're already interested. OP did state this, in a bit convoluted way, but it does seem to be the case IME. Ignoring those who never cared in the first place of course doesn't work. What gets attention is when people see what they wantand can't have itnot when those who don't want it in the first place are denied access. At least, in this context. To be fair, I would suggest OP be more transparent and concise in his wordi…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 07:02 PM
1

Wholely agreed. However there something to be said for the inverse relationship between quality and quantity. Just take a break. Not only because you might need it, but also because you'll reach less people with this influx of submersion. I'm sure you'll be fine either way, just giving a friendly piece of advice (from experience) It would do you very well to consolidate. Give others time to really ruminate and exhaust the influx of ideas! It can only help both parties.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 06:59 PM
8

Bro, you need a break from reddit. If you had a history of binge quality posting, "which even a certain few endorsed and vets do from time to time, hey multiple projects can come to fruit quickly" you maybe could keep this up. But you don't. It's time to take the most responded to posts and simply handle fixing any serious legitimate issues with theory that pop up, and then take a break and internalize the lessons from them. Go do something bro! I actually am loving the content, but you've gotta…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 05:33 PM
4

You can do what my parents did. No television, internet, and use private school until 16. Hey, that last one is a question of income, but the other two are pretty simple to implement. By the time I discovered video games I was already a man in the making. Granted, That didn't stop me from falling back and over indulging for a year. But the basis allowed me to build my company, which involves game theory and consultation. So it worked. For me specifically Tldr I don't disagree. However I do think…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 08:52 PM
2

Never effected me when I was younger. Doesn't effect me now either. Granted I'm now in a big city, but I lived in the middle of a small county for quite a while "2 yrs" and never used my car. I preferred to bike or use Uber. Especially if going out to date or scope, because drinking would be involved. Easier to Uber. Hell most of the girls I've had probably didn't know I have a car. And a rather nice one at that. Just didn't come up. My ltrs knew of course.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 11:29 PM
2

Bit of everything. But it's taking place at my house with a big group so, house party I guess?
/r/askTRP23/12/16 11:24 PM
11

Nah. You're drawing a false dichotomy, implying honesty cannot be tactful, or vise versa. The beauty of understanding language is that it leads to the third option, telling someone to go to hell in such a way they look forward to the trip. Learn that skill and you'll be fine.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 10:55 PM
3

I've definitely watched this play out exactly as you've stated op. My dad and mom both have PhDs, and are in the upper bracket. I'm slightly higher than they are IQ ways, but less educated than either of them. My brother is a bit of a Savant for maths, but had zero EQ for the first decade and a half of his life. My dad always pushed us both to chill with a massive group of different intellectually able, to enforce that intelligence isn't everything, though it can allow much more than someone wit…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 10:11 PM
6

That's not true. I've had my share of conflicts of opinion or reason with plenty of the endorsed here. Never been banned. Been upvoted quite a few times. Even asked for advice occasionally. How you do it matters as much if not more than what.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 10:03 PM
1

Great post. Crappy measurement stick for the test. I'm sure it stacks for your experience and location, I'd openly call bull in mine.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 06:54 PM
12

Same here. 'Master' or 'Young Master' is standard for when I was growing up within my grandparents or parents house. 'Little Master' or 'Little Trouble' was fine for my maid. She could do anything though, I love her as my mother. (Still not certain if she was banging my dad) Unfortunately most people can't recognize the connection to old blood that way, it's a very closed circle, so utilizing it works as you've stated, only with the perfect frame.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 06:46 PM
5

Clever, but off point. I'm considering it an honest mistake.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 06:44 PM
6

Don't need to do that. Go get shot at and watch some of your friends get blown up. You'll become a critical eye in no time. Won't have any time for bullshit and it'll be easy for you to recognize. If you get out in one healthy piece that is. In summary, if you want to force yourself to be dark triad, do things that force your brain to shut off empathy to survive. There's not really going back though.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 02:30 PM
1

Nice OP, even though as you've admitted, you've simply rehashed that kino is a good screening tool we should all utilize. Lot of guys still don't get it. Hell even a few very red accomplished guys dont really get it, though I find those guys use more of the tinder game than day game and personal contact.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 02:25 PM
34

I'm satisfied. The circumstances of the death are odd, the way they lived geographically is odd, they're both odd people, and rightfully if you've earned the cash you get to decide what to do with it IMO. (I know that's not remotely how it most often works). So I'm glad. This is fine with me.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/12/16 06:54 PM
1

Well it seems you know exactly what to do. You'll be fine bro just keep pushing, and push the inappropriate girls to the side.
/r/askTRP19/12/16 03:33 PM
5

Thanks! You seem an apprentice writer, I'm happy to PM you with the red stoic PDF if you'd like to measure it against upcoming lessons. Regardless, keep on it, but try to consolidate a bit more, attention span is low and history is worth much less than practicality. Then again you've covered the history so the future will likely be practicality centric in your posts. Looking forward to it, but keeping a watchful and hopeful eye. (As someone professionally accredited and personally practiced in t…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 03:31 PM
2

Ignore them, (unless they escalate to physical, for example being swolested though after only a year I doubt that's the case). You can joke it off or laugh without addressing it if necessary. (Friends girl gives obvious flirt, laugh and say nah, I couldn't think of you that way).
/r/askTRP19/12/16 01:22 PM
47

Reasonable job. I've found stoicism in practice is very simple. If you can't change it, don't worry about it. If you can change it and don't want to, don't worry about it. If you can change it and want to, change it, so why worry? Of course this is much easier said than done, especially for the novitiate. However it seems to be the way most of my peers and professors or practicing Stoics run their lives actionably. People definitely tend to mistake that which they do and don't want to change, bu…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 12:17 PM
2

You can't afford to feel bad about this. You made clear your intentions without even using plausible deniability. This is her issue. Restate your case then let her keep fucking you if you want. Personally, I'd simply drop her, even if she does clam up verbally, you'll be looking at someone desperate enough to pull shady tactics to keep you in her life. Not worth it. Trust me.
/r/askTRP17/12/16 08:18 PM
2

Well. She's not a girlfriend anymore right? Just a plate? Good. If she's just a plate have fun until she's broken, (or, more broken than she currently it's after reading that message), then grab another. She's obviously not got enough respect for you to be an ltr.
/r/askTRP17/12/16 01:16 PM
0

The high points: don't worry about being inexperienced. He'll love teaching you, it's just another fun dominant romp added into the mix. don't listen to other women. It's your life, you protect what you feel you should. They're most likely intimidated by their own value slipping. Crab barrel mentality. focus that time and energy on building your other values. Stay fit, stay fashion sensitive while being classical. Build healthy feminine habits. Bring even more to the table than being a virgin. T…
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/16 01:04 PM
3

Listen bro. There will always be someone better than you objectively That doesn't matter at all. Stop worrying about it. What matters most is perspective (frame). Are you better than yesterday? Then you're the best person you know that's it.
/r/askTRP15/12/16 03:36 PM
3

True comedy usually comes from suffering. Not self imposed victimization, which certainly isn't suffering, it's virtue signalling or crying to be special. Look at the vast majority of great comedians, they all suffer(ed) for their art. That's completely against the vast majority of women's ideals. Their biological imperative it's to take the least risk to greatest reward, and gather protection/comfort. Men take risks, try much worse deals, both of which leads to us being on the extreme sides of …
/r/askTRP15/12/16 02:06 PM
2

Without context and content, responses are severely limited and purely speculative.
/r/askTRP15/12/16 01:55 PM
2

Hah, welcome brother. Don't worry, that bitter flavor is the medicine. You'll be fine when you've adapted fully over time.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 12:43 PM
3

Think of every way she's contacted you. Carefully now. Create a checklist. Got them? Think again. Close friends she has who've messaged you on her behalf? Family members? Okay, got it all? A comprehensive list? You sure? Good. Block all of them. Right fucking now. Don't look back. There's a few dozen locally, a few hundred citywide, a few thousand in your state and several million in your country who can be better than her. Treat yourself. Respect yourself. Discard refuse. She's an ex because sh…
/r/askTRP13/12/16 11:11 PM
2

You're probably starting on East coast,. West coast swing is much more difficult, especially for a novice. I might be wrong, but that's my suspicion.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 08:46 PM
11

Hey. If your getting asd your anyway in. Just shut up and say the least possible deniable thing. It can be blatantly stupid. She's just trying to protect her hamster but has already decided "imma fuck him if he doesn't fuck it up"
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 08:41 PM
5

She was in the act of branch swinging and failed. Now you're her best option. That's it. That's all to see here. Tldr "she overestimated her own marketability" Yeah no contact and forget her.
/r/askTRP13/12/16 08:26 PM
2

You can do it. But there are limiters. do you have the network to connect a lot of partiers do you have access to a location, even your own place, : preferably owned by you, a home' will work. are you socially adroit enough to have bros you can count on as bouncers and moderators. are you not in a community with a seriously regulated noise level. if the above are positive, do you have the attractiveness and willingness to host? (Do NOT GET SMASHED AT YOUR OWN PARTY) Source, holding weekly and bi…
/r/askTRP13/12/16 08:22 PM
1

There are no ex addicts. Only those who are recovering with a clean track record. 'track lol' Source, I sponsor a few people. And have my own issues only recently discovered. Every chance and every reason is an opening.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 08:13 PM
1

Why don't more guys know this? More guys should know this.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 08:11 PM
1

After sex, when she's getting ready to leave, tell her, "lets fuck over breakfast tomorrow" When her eyes widen as they should invite her back to the bed. You've just listed her as your favorite, even unintentionally. Do with that as you will. I'd recommend not doing it often, once is luck, twice is coincidence, thrice is a trend. This is written from my own experience, damn it if you feel it is bad advice. I'm fine with that. My shoulders are broad.
/r/askTRP13/12/16 08:07 PM
3

If you'd read further into Chuck's exposition and definition of fight club, you would know even Tyler is a satirical approach. It's about finding balance. Extremes both fail. This is exemplified very well in the book, but less so in the movie. Tyler is fundamentally broken (natural Chad to the extreme) every bit as much as Jack. For different reasons. They both choose a message that is worth more than themselves. Tldr, goals are still underneath you. You need to control them. Extremity and dogma…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 07:59 PM
2

This perfect hypothetical is broken by what isn't assumed within it. (But is assumed in surrounding to it) It is assumed and statistically backed, there were safer males who she chose not to be with, alpha or not. There are plenty of ltr/marriage centric alphas out there. Why not have one of them? Take my favorite for example, I've had a few ltrs that ended with monogamy, I did so too early the last few times and biologically I was still racking numbers and setting measuring sticks for my needs.…
/r/askTRP13/12/16 07:49 PM
17

Those are great. But the girlfriend experience can be summarized by overflowing desire. What you choose to fill those roles can be myriad. Maybe your man needs to destress, nothing better than massages for that, dependent on the man. Maybe some guys destress by playing video games, or rock climbing. Regardless, if your goal is the girlfriend experience, you need to remember what got the best reactions from him when you were first started, in that dopamine crazed phase, and do more of that. Whate…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/16 07:35 PM
0

Yeah, don't do it in the gym. Maybe if you both happen to be leaving at the same time, otherwise you're there to do a job. Do it. Focus on form and the next set.
/r/askTRP10/12/16 08:04 PM
2

I wouldn't do it so brazenly, however picking up a new skill to distract yourself while he rebalances could do wonders. Something new that helps alleviate his concerns without dominating them. Maybe sewing, knitting, patching, something that will benefit both of you as a unit over time, but gives you a way to deal with your legitimate concern, while giving him the time to rebalance without feeling guilty. I say this specifically because I do feel that guilt when I need to clam up severely, knowi…
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/16 07:58 PM
2

Pretty simple. They're attracted and want confirmation that they pull emotional strings with you, it validates them. Of course performing on demand makes you a beta, a trained monkey, so they voice their frustration at your frame by addressing something menial instead of saying it outright, forming it as a shit test/light mockery. You passed. Don't worry about it, also don't shit where you eat, bet they could be great connector girls though. I get this frequently too, my go to response is 'don't…
/r/askTRP10/12/16 07:51 PM
2

I don't think it'll happen. What has helped me is blocking users who seem to repost very often. Eventually it'll clean the feed quite a bit. Good luck and i feel your annoyance.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/12/16 07:48 PM
17

One of my bros just got back from being stationed in Korea. He made it very clear the welfare comes largely from army guys paying out the ass to these sloots. It also comes from rich tourists. The guys who live there are practically women themselves they're so beta. He also stated the overall mentality of the youth is abysmal, their parents and grandparents worked their fingers to the bone to rebuild, while the new generation feels absolutely, we're taking California blond absolutely entitled to…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 07:43 PM
15

As a cautionary, if one person is a lazy failure, they're the problem. If most of the people you're dating are lazy failures, you're the problem. Even making the massive unrealistic assumption that what you've said is true, the onus is on you to vet differently and change your proximity to more successful people. You can't control others, only you. A critical look in the mirror would probably answer why you have the perspective and experience you do.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/16 03:29 PM
1

Nope. My dad has a gym, my uncle has a gym, but both live in seclusion with huge houses and guest houses. Me, I love my Penthouses, I'm gonna stick to the gym. Before you try to build, ensure it fits your lifestyle. I can't figure a reason to maximize a medium amount of space for simply including a home gym, when the cost of one is offset by a membership which would probably last longer than me spending the same on a place I plan to move from every x years. Now if you're really heart set on this…
/r/askTRP09/12/16 06:42 PM
1

Both the challenge and affront to your ego. Pretty much it. Prescription? Abundance and meditation.
/r/askTRP09/12/16 06:35 PM
2

You won't. Late growth spurts are rare, I know, I had one. Gained 2 inches at 26yrs old. I've never met anyone whose experienced the same except a certain type of islander (which I am). You're better off buying platforms and fixing your posture, and anything else you can do to improve your smv.
/r/askTRP09/12/16 05:59 PM
1

Tear up the check right now. He probably knows you gangrene cashed it if he really is serious about money. It's likely hanging over his head, 'not really your problem but you claim to like the guy so, whatever' And tell him to give you what he can monthly until it's paid. (Cash) if he can only afford 3 or 4 bucks (or euros) a month fine. Don't ask him for it again, and never again lend money without a contract, especially to friends. It doesn't end well. It's a gift, or nothing. Take this as a l…
/r/askTRP09/12/16 05:55 PM
1

Between you and me, "I have mentors and am a mentor to three" You can tell a good mentor if he's not taking anything from you. He's doing it because of something personal, not profitable. Is your mentor taking anything from you but time? It's actually quite common for good mentors to simply be stroking their own ego by helping others succeed, which is fine, it won't really cost you anything. In essence, selfish charity. If your mentor is practicing it, use it. Anyone else is grooming you for som…
/r/askTRP09/12/16 05:51 PM
2

Pretty simple. Presume the former. If you are wrong after the fact, correct it. Never presume the latter.
/r/askTRP09/12/16 05:49 PM
6

Nope. Not everything. Most things aren't actually. But to deny the benefits attached to those hobbies is kinda silly, and it seems to be the case that productivity in general grants more access.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 02:02 PM
1

They're in an ltr. There's someone like her nearby with less risk. He can protect himself by realizing such and sticking to physically local choices. Sorry but I have no advice beyond that, though I'm certain you've considered that, and more certain he probably wouldn't do this due to onitis. You may have to just watch this one break. Look into getting him a great later who can create a trust to pay himself from to at least save his assets. Also consider having him lie outright. (List my job, st…
/r/askTRP09/12/16 12:45 AM
1

When you write that lgbtxyzmnope I had to double take. That's actually the abbreviation, holy fucking shit. Hey at least it's not a news article.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 12:38 AM
1

Several dozen. Who could do it to my standards and be compatible with me? None. I've dated the options who appear and left them. It's very unlikely.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 03:40 PM
7

I love it, but swing probably isn't a good starter unless you're naturally very well balanced even then I'd recommend starting with salsa, mumba, etc.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 12:36 PM
130

Learn to fucking dance. It's seduction in body mechanics. It is fucking manly and a good workout. Go hiking. Seriously. Camp. No trailer camping. Get 20 miles into nowhere and enjoy it, bring the cellphone, but shut it off and only use it if there's an emergency. Rock climbing is one of the most enjoyable and panty wetting hobbies I have. Try it. That thing you're afraid of, just do that. Get the cash together, the time, and do it. Really, you'll thank yourself. Meditate. Daily. You lift for the…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 04:26 PM
5

Not really relevant to anything we practice here, though it is amusing and might fly well at pussy pass denied. Reported. (Not because I disagree with you though)
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 04:22 PM
-2

Another gold standard excellent post. I think the major takeaway here, is that action begets results. We are agents, living in a world we can choose to effect, or choose to ignore and avoid. Feel good words are almost always simply avoidance. The thing that sets ECS and endorsed/vets aside, is that their advice is always from a position of practical application, or deeper understanding of it. You'll notice, reading top of all time, or going through these few individuals histories, 80%of their po…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 04:14 PM
1

More like 7 years to get the best prospects you can. 18 to 25, after that it's slowly downhill though the biggest wall is 30. How many years do you have left? Just go talk rpw. They'll help much more.
/r/askTRP06/12/16 07:07 PM
1

There's nothing to "get over". It's just your turn. Fuck her good, get yours, if she passes enough vetting, consider plating and dating. Don't get married. Her n count means as little to me as her begging for a relationship. It's irrelevant, long as I'm getting what I need right now.
/r/askTRP06/12/16 06:15 PM
2

Alpha is a bundle of traits from a set. You can be alpha in some traits and not others. Unfortunately for him he's missing any relationship alpha traits.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 06:01 PM
2

Hmm. I remember the playground. The guys just lied. Even if you hated each other there was still a "team boys". If a girl started causing problem, zero attention, zero support, everyone would lie to cover you. 'nuh uh, he dindu nuffin' Of course this unspoken agreement died the moment we were old enough to realize putting your dick in one of those girls felt pretty good.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 02:44 PM
1

Are you a lesbian? You sound like a lesbian Excuse me while I check your post history. Something is setting a flag off for me... Edit, pretty new account. But I trust my instincts. I reserve judgment.
/r/askTRP05/12/16 07:39 PM
29

Funny. Knowing the type of guys flooding now they won't recognize it as a higher level joke/warning. It's so sad sarcasm itself is considered higher level nowadays I'm sorry bro.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 07:30 PM
1

Never let her disappear once she has your money. 30% on meet, 70% on leave. Good rule to follow.
/r/askTRP05/12/16 05:36 PM
1

Been busy a long time but, "whore to culture" fuck man my sides
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 05:17 PM
1

Yup
/r/askTRP05/12/16 05:08 PM
1

That really comes down to your social group. You need to be present in groups of experts to find someone like that. If you are, then you're likely not offering much outside of your stated abilities, (remember if you're looking for a captain that's a given, what sets you apart to a MAN?) If you aren't, then you should begin. I would suggest seminars and meetup to find highly educated and intelligent individuals to build a new (maybe additional) social group to go scouting. You'll be fine! Sorry a…
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 04:07 PM
1

In my experience and opinion, I refuse to ltr girls who aren't introverts. They're more likely to be virgins and dependent to the point they don't cause problems because they generate their own dread for you. I can just do me, and they're already scared because they have inbuilt anxiety about the world being better than them. This carries over to the wonder of you choosing them. They're great. Warning, more frequent comfort tests are necessary and I'm rather... Giving when it comes to Virgin int…
/r/askTRP05/12/16 03:56 PM
2

It was. (Hey everyone needs love and I've got plenty to give, if they pay.)
/r/askTRP05/12/16 03:54 PM
1

It works. (Raises hand) You're not going to get more than a month's more lays out of her though. Should probably be replacing the plate actively while she's checking out.
/r/askTRP05/12/16 03:52 PM
2

You must of written this while on something. You seem rational and capable of at least remedial logic. You know as well as i nihilism is recursively invalid, and when it comes to application insipid and unlikely.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 03:45 PM
1

Probably. Because it would be one I didn't put on and supply myself. I presume treachery, you can easily control the problem so do that and stop hyper focusing on a problem very easily remedied by some agency.
/r/askTRP05/12/16 03:41 PM
8

Thread closed. The metaphor is too damned accurate. Even better than the failsafe lock and key metaphor.
/r/askTRP05/12/16 03:39 PM
2

No of course not. However they are repulsed by feminine actions. If your compassion is born from excess and strength, your fine. (I'll cook for a plate whose parents have died, maybe give her a week or two of comfort). But if your compassion is feminine, tears at the unreal, (movies, books, hearing about circumstances, primarily empathetically imbalanced) yes, of course it's unattractive to them, especially when this is part of what defines you. Women are to be water. Men are to be the rock.
/r/askTRP05/12/16 03:37 PM
1

I cannot be me without my history and I'm pretty fucking awesome. How do I know I'm awesome? I haven't used the Smith and Wesson retirement plan, and I can look around and know 80%of the people I meet want some major part of my life as their own. So I regret nothing, though I treasure the lessons I've learned from failure. Edit: to be clear, hindsight is 20/20, and the grass often seems greener theoretically. But change is the key. If you regret the past, apply it right fucking now and you'll be…
/r/askTRP05/12/16 03:30 PM
5

Eh. I agree with you, but don't be so disturbed. Likely you work and socialize in a very liberal atmosphere so your sample bias is showing. Over half the country appreciates tradition. Trump is the president elect after all, even though that half of the country doesn't get media time or a lantern hung on their concerns. Edit, willow girl actually backs this. My bad. Hopefully still a good explanation to get your mind going.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 03:26 PM
3

It's actually quite simple. Preparation meets opportunity. If you didn't prepare, then seek opportunity, you don't have much to stand on. So prepare yourself. When opportunities strike, you won't need to relegate them to luck, you'll either be prepared to utilize them, or be prepared to delegate them. If they're truly not for you, you're prepared to happily say no.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 03:24 PM
1

My partial sympathies, partial because you shouldn't waste your time arguing with the dogmatic, is a fool's competition and a fool will always have the advantage in that endeavor. As far as rights, I fully believe the only real right we have is to our agency. Everything else is a desire, privilege, need, or want. Not a right. What comes with this singular right is responsibility, a double edged sword. If you have agency, others have it too, and they may react to how you exercise your agency in a…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 03:22 PM
1

Whatever you want. Have you checked meetup and googled local events? Are you a part of a dance class, carpentry club, motorcycle club, etc? The choices are really endless, you just need to exercise a tiny bit of agency and search, then go.
/r/askTRP03/12/16 02:38 PM
1

Whatever comes to mind. It usually involves hey, what's your name.
/r/askTRP03/12/16 02:35 PM
2

No though it will eventually be passed without needing any thought, in which case it's little more than amusement if you notice it at all. So in a way, the annoyance disappears, so it kinda stops.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 02:25 PM
5

Eh. That falls dangerously close to stating the past doesn't matter. And it does. Especially to alphas. It's how we vet (most of us, and we're really good at noticing the details too). Now, change is real, I'll whole heatedly agree, but the fact is, there's more options than ever before thanks to 'sexual liberation' so the heuristic ends up working most of the time. Even if it's biased and theoretically uneven. Such is life. To op, don't beat yourself up about it. You're better than most% of gir…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/16 09:54 PM
7

Apparently yes. I don't really follow politics aside from reading the platform's of the contestants, then reading experts for each point, but looking this up ... Yeah, she did start getting physically violent and drinking a lot. Supposedly? I'm skeptical to believe most media sources these days. I reserve judgement.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/12/16 09:50 PM
3

No one. But good blow jobs involve another person. That's what plates are for.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 09:38 PM
1

The wiki article of the day. Read it, slog through as much as you can. If you understand it and don't like it, fine. If you can't understand it, check out a book on it. If you understand it and like it, hell start looking into it as a new hobby. But read. Read a lot. Read as much as you lift. Read.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 09:36 PM
1

Eh. My favorite just presented me with plans to get "epic mount" tramp stamped/bumpered (lower back scene). Then again she's a ki valedictorian, so it's fucking rad design ways and completely unique. She's apparently been saving around 3g to get it done by the best. She obviously is pushing for exclusivity yeah, but still, it came off a bit creepy. Dunno how id react to a wife doing that, then again I wouldn't get married, and especially nothing with my name if I did. (If I get married it's eith…
/r/askTRP02/12/16 09:31 PM
15

Are you looking for someone smart? Or someone well educated in your field. There's a massive difference. Iq and eq ways I'm far above the norm, but my education is specialized in a few areas. The girls I've chosen to date openly admit there's no competition if you're looking at the ability to problem solve or comprehend things quickly, but especially in my areas of education. However they've always been more educated in something. I'm constantly interested in their field, and though I pick thing…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/16 09:14 PM
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If the kid is old enough to be on his own, she's way past prime I mean, even if she squeezed it out at 18, that's 36 post birth or becoming more common c section. More likely she's 40+, and considering the older trend towards birth nowadays maybe bearing down on 50.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 09:03 PM
4

You don't. You find another of the millions of girls around.
/r/askTRP02/12/16 11:54 AM
1

Nothing to do with my standards actually, just that it's not uncommon at all. Even mishaps happen. Better to have an additional backup IMO. After all, I'm sterile, (with paperwork to prove it) but I still use condoms. You can't control others only yourself, so take the precaution.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 01:27 PM
1

Whatever pay gap there is, is completely compensated for by the productivity gap. No one wants to talk about it, but it's there. Just Google it. Men are about 25% more productive across the board. Welp. Common sense isn't so common I guess.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 12:33 PM
2

Definitely matters. Her skipping the pill, poking holes, fishing for sperm from BJ's and used condoms, these are not rare, in fact they're rather standard. Better to have the BC to back it.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 12:26 PM
1

Yup. Checks out. Feminism: red definition one massive fucking shit test that leads to crazy sex from crazy women. See "The taming of the shrew" for play by play.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 11:59 AM
2

You'll have far more luck and achieve much the same pushing for male birth control, such as vasagel.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 11:48 AM
2

God damnit-
/r/PussyPassDenied30/11/16 11:41 AM
2

What you're looking at is what I call the connector girl. You don't want, but she can passively raise your preselection or connect you to girls you do want. Treat them with politeness, be dismissive or play dumb when they push for more, you'll stay in their gatherings, meet their other contacts, and they'll have your back so long as you keep it as stated. This group better be huge, I mean look around it, how many girls there do you want? If you're not seeing any now, you have a trend and are bet…
/r/askTRP29/11/16 10:00 PM
17

Good job. You've just compiled easily half the weekly reposts on this sub. Thank you. I laughed, I laughed and have the hardest equality boner. Hopefully this gets up voted enough that it'll kill the reposts for a while.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/11/16 09:54 PM
17

He's joking about the endorsement obviously. She's on the ball because of her own attunement to her solipsism, not objectivity. However, she's still on point. (Just for different reasons) This isn't all that uncommon. Most plates and women in general will spit rptruth to the right guy.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 09:40 PM
2

Yup. Ltrd a few of them. Rare but fun catches. Then again, many of the ones I met and stayed away from were virgins for a good reason, no guy could tolerate them. And that's saying a lot considering the sheer number of manginas grasping for little to nothing.
/r/askTRP28/11/16 05:46 PM
1

Act only as a reward. You get good sex? Reward her with a snippet of attention. She starts withholding for commitment, soft next and dread.
/r/askTRP27/11/16 03:41 PM
12

Deference is huge in respect. Trust his judgement and make that known not only through words, but action.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/16 03:40 PM
4

I'm definitely in the class your mentioning so I'd like to provide the biggest thing I've seen as a marker: Proximity. You need to be around wealth to marry wealth, it's overwhelmingly true, there are rare exceptions. Most of my friends are wealthy, my family is, I am, the majority of my ltrs are, and the thing they all have in common is proximity. They do similar things at similar places, spend money on the same types of things, have the same general taste in hobbies and vacations, and in gener…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 02:17 PM
0

You're right, but it also isn't so black and white, "as is the norm" Yep, lots of butthurt posturing here on trp, but that's too be expected. There's also a lot of honesty behind intension, not expression. Many simply revert to "ltrs are beta" because beta at it's core still only represents "what I don't want for me" to them. Eventually many will decide they do want ltrs, many will be perfectly happy not wanting ltrs. This is the internet, people rarely put their intentions into precise expressi…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 02:04 PM
2

It's more of a question of appropriate judgement. Share when you have carefully vetted, and in safe context. Don't when you're in a flammable context. I wouldn't share in an office, but I have no problem speaking my mind to close friends, or even plates, especially since I do so with confidence and authority, or not at all. Your side and the other are both two sides of progression. I've made very great connections because I did speak, I've made excellent connections because I didn't speak. Pract…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 01:54 PM
10

Duplicate experience. When I was younger I'd try to commission others into my improvement. (Let's lift together, let's run together, hey want to check out that rock climbing group? Let's try salsa, lots of hot chicks there) etc. Always ends pretty poorly. Maybe one will follow through for a while, but change is internal, not external, and the only thing you usually get by externally advertising it are more people who are actively pulling you down because they are bothered by their own failure. J…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 04:18 PM
1

I've been reading TRP for over a year now, have implemented it into my life quite well. I've seen its results, and I've come to love myself and appreciate the endless opportunities that are out there in the world. Good. I also believe in an equilibrium. I use TRP not as a 100% guideline to my life, but more so as a 75% recommendation - for my own reasons. Also good. Anyways, LTR of (coming up a year) has stopped putting out. We no longer bang, and if we do its once a week maybe. She left a Faceb…
/r/askTRP25/11/16 04:13 PM
1

I've found older ladies (60+) are red as holy fuck. My mother, my grandmother, my aunt's. All red as holy fuck. Then again I'm in an odd situation, my parents are older than most of my friends grandparents. Truly from a different era. Oh, they all have told me at different times to just walk the moment I want getting what I wanted, because there's "always another"
/r/askTRP25/11/16 01:30 PM
1

Practically guaranteed. If she were hot and feminine enough, she'd already have a place to stay. Then again, all sex is trade, all people are buying or selling in that game. It's just how you describe your payment that matters.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 01:23 PM
1

That's what I like to hear. You'll be great bro! You've got this in spades. Always remember abundance. You're the shit, you're the prize.
/r/askTRP23/11/16 08:36 PM
1

Yeah. To me at least. That's the point of amusement. To you, it is likely different, I can only speak for myself. Make your own decision! But then choose with purpose how to best utilize and practice that decision
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 08:36 PM
1

It is fun bro. She's a hamster in a cage, your the one who can feed her. You have all the fucking power, do your thing!
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 07:33 PM
3

Doesn't matter bro. She's not giving you what you need ATM, that's really the only important thing. She might have issues, might have reasons, might be playing games, might be begging for you to chase her, doesn't matter in the least. You're not getting what you need, so move on! She'll come back around eventually, or she won't and you'll be just fine. As far as grading you, handled it right. Casual, no butthurt, no explaining, no rationalizing, no chasing, polite and set a boundary for yourself…
/r/askTRP23/11/16 07:26 PM
1

No problem. Many of us tend to overcorrect instead of adapt effectively. It's normal, but you'll be fine bro.
/r/askTRP23/11/16 07:25 PM
2

Why so focused on your own past failures? You should learn from them and worry about the future. Right now you're spinning wheels thinking of ghosts. Go change your life. For the better. Don't ruminate on who you were, change who you are.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 07:04 PM
2

This is all on you. Get rid of her and work on yourself. She's disrespectful because you tolerated it, never setting a leading dynamic nor walking away from misbehavior. So walk away now. Work on yourself.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 06:51 PM
1

Learn judo and jujitsu. Judo takes a lot of size out of the equation, jujitsu to stop any real heavy threats. I think though, the biggest benefit will be the calm and control you exude once you've realized your own abilities. Most fights can be avoided once you've learned enough martial arts and had your face pounded in enough. Pro tip, don't every enter a mosh alone. (Any group fight). Also don't ever bend rules for your authority. Everyone follows your rules. Period. No exceptions.
/r/askTRP23/11/16 06:39 PM
2

I love girls like that and I've only found a few. A girl who will be direct about her needs is great, a girl who demands things is not. Love the former, not the latter, and yes, it usually has to do with awalt. Though sometimes it's a lack of comfort (never really been great at that, my lifestyle by exposition is high dread to girls) You're doing well op. Just try not to slip back!
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 06:36 PM
8

Nah I don't buy it. Money is just another piece of leverage in the game. Betas will be regardless of how rich they are. Plenty of wealthy guys will let a woman ride them into the ground and drop them the moment they ask for commitment. Plenty more simply don't mention their wealth and play fine. Some do get onitis, and women sense that more than anything else. They'll strong arm anyone they sense that with. It's free resources. But if you're wealthy you just need to spend wisely, no sex by 3rd m…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 01:22 PM
8

Use the one that fixes your flaws best. If you're a classical nice guy whose consistently hurting himself with how much he hands out for free, nmmng for you. If you're a cold unapproachable twat, how to win friends is your bread and butter.
/r/askTRP23/11/16 01:10 PM
1

Where did glo say the boss took his bonus? I thought the boss giving himself a 200 a month payraise was meaning by straightening out glo, his overall pay increased. Not that glo handed him the cash. I do agree though, the additive approach is much better than subtractive. Completely behind you there. However I think that's exactly what's happening in this circumstance.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 01:06 PM
7

Men. Thus "pussy pass" Women who have been exiled by team women. They're regarded as men. That's about it. Pussy pass is a problem worth having a sub dedicated to simply because it's so absolute.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/11/16 08:02 PM
7

Soft next with no contact aside from politeness. No value transfer from you to her. Don't go back no matter what happens. If she escalates block her from everything. If she's still a problem get a restraining order.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 07:01 PM
1

It's important to have the right connections too. Preparation is only for opportunity, gotta go find those opportunities!
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 06:59 PM
2

One doesn't fight ghosts, they have limitless ammunition.
/r/askTRP22/11/16 06:53 PM
0

Because you have enough experience now to understand crying wolf when you see it.
/r/askTRP22/11/16 06:52 PM
11

I disagree. The boss definitely took ownership. He straightened glo out with a lesson, presumably with the underpinnings of "change or change professions". A boss owns his shit by taking it on himself to lead and educate this followers, and cut the chaff when necessary. He did what he should have IMO. "Having experience in both sides of the transaction". I do however fully agree, it's best to have more control than less. Just think you're reasoning isn't tight.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 06:34 PM
5

Accept that everything breaks and everything ends. That's not depressing, not once you realize it's simply the nature of things. That's fine, it's healthy to know, and it'll put things such as your time and energy spent into a new focus.
/r/askTRP20/11/16 11:39 AM
1

I call it the one armed molester. That one armed butt clench/hug where you can let her know you're interested but have total plausible deniability because you were looking elsewhere.
/r/askTRP19/11/16 12:41 AM
15

It's called self interest vs solipsism. The former IS human, the latter is women. This is why the hamster is so strong, it goes beyond running in circles until you're spent, it also implies the hamster cage, you don't even realize there's a world outside whose handing out to you.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/16 12:38 AM
1

You want to be the next male popstar? Hit the gym and get super pretty. Everything can be compensated for with background writers and autotune unless you're one of the rare prodigious talents. (If you were, you'd not be asking this question honestly, people find prodigies. That's not to be discouraging, just a realism bump.)
/r/askTRP19/11/16 12:30 AM
1

Get a dog and dedicate a few days a month to go out and meet new people at new events. Meet up and Google's local events are great for this. Yeah you feel lonely, it could be chemical, it could be the reality of stoicism first setting in, whatever it is, you can address it by taking the first step, realizing I'm lonely, what am I going to not be lonely. If you're not acting somehow measurable towards not being lonely, you need to start. I still think the dog is great, get a puppy, people will in…
/r/askTRP19/11/16 12:26 AM
3

Shouldn't have even bothered addressing it, unless a simple 'nah, I'm good.' Maybe even amplify 'right after my cock reduction. It's scheduled the 32nd.' But really when girls say this to me I just ignore it and keep doing what I was doing.
/r/askTRP19/11/16 12:18 AM
1

An audio version of anything on the sidebar, plus the art of war, how to win friends and influence people, Shogun, etc.
/r/askTRP19/11/16 12:03 AM
1

In addition to what he said, get a sun lamp. Meditate, read, whatever, but use it when you wake up for an hour. Does wonders.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 04:05 PM
1

Paging u/gaylubeoil and recommending r fit and r body weight
/r/askTRP18/11/16 04:04 PM
1

Actually he just sounds like a realistic guy who wants a memory tied to his body. I get that. However he's completely wrong and your completely right in adding that women only do it for recognition. It's another sales model 99.7 percent of the time, outliers be dammed. Someone they wanted liked it, so they did it. With no long term thought involved. Tons of my advisors and associates have tattoos, but a suit or shorts and short sleeves hide them. Any girl with facial/wrist and hand/ neck tattoos…
/r/askTRP18/11/16 03:59 PM
1

Could, but unlikely. If she wants to fuck you she'll offer something else or to go obtain one. A woman will crawl under barbed wire to fuck her perceived alpha
/r/askTRP18/11/16 03:56 PM
1

Everything you get from running (aside from Good running form) can be achieved with high intensity interval training style lifting. Just lift bro.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 03:52 PM
1

I practice preventative care. lift balance your diet visit a doc quarterly stay up to date on vaccinations I take any supplements recommended don't touch sick people don't fuck teachers (they're exposed to everything I swear) no dirty/messy girls, no fat chicks, both are a lack of attention to health and well being. no druggies always wrap it before you tap it. If you do come down with something, I would and do practice, I'll call out one day and about medicine to hit temperature break eat more,…
/r/askTRP18/11/16 03:47 PM
1

The productivity gap is 25(is) percent male superior. It completely negates any earnings gap and explains it, but thankfully you are in business so you know if it. I'll make this clear as someone whose also an entrepreneur, raised in business, presuming you need no nonsense. unless you're in an at will employment state, you'll have to bite a bullet. Otherwise, file in an at will employment state. Out of curiosity what are you filed and what is your industry?
/r/askTRP18/11/16 03:44 PM
6

is this how it works? Yep. Simple answer. is something else going on here? Yep. Frame and abundance are playing in too. Getting dedicated to your goals has replaced any Molly codling with drive and a willingness to say no. You're scarce in the market, so you're valuable. how to calibrate the things that are slacking? Why not have plates clean for you? Hire a maid? Force yourself to clean for 30 minutes each day you lift? That's up to you. Personally, I don't like plates coming to my house, so I …
/r/askTRP18/11/16 03:40 PM
1

Let her have her little validation support system. It matters not. If she acts disrespectfully then recalibrate and set harder boundaries, for now he'll do her emotional tampon dance so you don't have to. (Just focus on you, bro keep leading and fucking the shit out of her) don't let this bug you
/r/askTRP18/11/16 02:35 PM
1

Well that's easy. You create scarcity, they immediately internalize this as you being a challenge, having options, something wrong with them so they chase. When you chase it comes across as though they're the prize, that's the default state of every woman in culture, you're another traffic control to be avoided or navigate around. To compensate for this, when you find a target you want to chase, chase her uglier friend then flip it when she comes running. Also improve your social market presence…
/r/askTRP18/11/16 02:19 PM
1

Whatever I'm feeling, but blood will probably be drawn, at the least some hefty bruising around the neck and ass and wrists. I dunno. I go kinda primal hate fuck on a first lay. Also one of the few places I feel anxiety is on a first lay, so I last a good bit longer than normal, so seeing her cum definitely is a goal. After that I'm much more self centered.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 02:12 PM
2

Nope. She's on tinder. The definition of looking for validation or fucks. No support needed, she's just trying to squeeze something out of you for nothing. Even if she's the statistically unlikely girl who isn't, the heuristic works and move along, there's always many more bro!
/r/askTRP18/11/16 01:08 PM
1

Dude see a specialist. Much safer and more effective than asking this here.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 01:07 PM
2

I think what you're looking for is temporary mania, even an introvert can have it, mania is very different than extroversion. But overall, yeah, good description.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 01:06 PM
1

Agreed. The skilled speaker can tell someone to go to hell in such a way, they're looking forward to the trip.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/16 01:02 PM
4

All of the above plus more. Tldr, anxiety is built into women because they need support. Losing support or not having it is their eternal fear. The human mind never adapted to mass news and media, our bodies still react to perceived threats as though they are local. (It's good to freak out at a string of robberies on your city block, national crazes based on one school shooting that 99 percent of the population will never experience also create that same blanket of fear.) We haven't evolved to c…
/r/askTRP18/11/16 12:51 PM
4

Crush at your job, make sure your stats are better than his, then deflect and redirect any amogging to "heh yeah, OK Greg let's be real, how are we gonna make 'project x' perform better?" Hang a lantern on his problems. He'll disappear or hang himself. Whatever you do, don't get publicly butthurt. In general there are only 3 ways to deal with amogging. ignore. agree and amplify. amused mastery. I prefer amused mastery.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 12:43 PM
1

Try speaking with both of the below. speak with a different pace, either speeding up or slowing down, this will fluctuate tone. speak with a different expression this will also change tone. If you rarely laugh or smile fix one to your face. If you rarely frown or show judgement, try that too. I find focusing on pace and expression is much easier than tone.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 11:12 PM
3

You've tangentially hit my major gripe on the head. There's too much "reading" and not enough "doing". Too many submissions should be summarized by "go practice what you've learned". Too many questions could be answered the same. Like go, fucking leave the house and go do something. Stop theorizing, action, action ACTION.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 11:07 PM
1

City. I chill at my friend's club, my hobby groups, and at my own cocktails and house parties. I prefer to practice day game above all else, and have never tried tinder/pof kinda things. I hope somehow that helps.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 11:01 PM
1

Contacts are better. LASIK if you can afford it. Definitely better results.
/r/askTRP16/11/16 09:18 PM
1

Ok. Maybe I'm biased, but ltr has very different and more stringent vetting than plate. You often sacrifice looks for other things. However, that looks like one of my artists, who us an ex marine. As a billionaire you shouldn't have to drop that far, but she's clearly not a 2. Probably 5? To be below five means genetic mutations, psychosis, and/or fatness. (Off the radar) additionally you have no idea of the behind closed doors dynamic. Maybe she's a great blowjob alarm. That's plus two in my bo…
/r/askTRP16/11/16 09:16 PM
1

Almost 30, but mistaken for under age frequently so YMMV. Great genetics. Out of 4 current plates, three are under 22. I have a 19yr collegiate, and two 21yr olds. I also have a 29yr old who can't have kids but is still feeling that baby craze and she's a demon in the sack. (Nothing drives performance like a last stand!) Since 25, every plate has been under 23, I've ons'd my share of post wall though. You'll be fine. The biggest thing is stay in shape, and act lucrative IME. (Being is better, bu…
/r/askTRP16/11/16 09:11 PM
1

From my grandad, and my dad. "Five early is on time, on time is too late. If you're early you run your day, if you're on time your day runs you, if you're late you're desperate."
/r/askTRP16/11/16 09:04 PM
3

Me in that situation "cool. Maybe we should tag you." Or, "huh. Since we're sharing does he have a nice car?" Insert knowing laugh, provide comfort if necessary Don't mate guard. It never works out how you'd fantasize it.
/r/askTRP16/11/16 09:01 PM
1

1) whatever a summons costs in time. For my favorite there's a few texts, maybe a phone call at max, all logistics unless we're talking family death, car crash, etc. 2) we fuck. Sometimes one of us cooks then we fuck. For my favorite we may travel somewhere and fuck. Fuck. We fuck. 3) in a week? Maybe 10 hours? I have 4 currently, so including fuck time, 2 hours a piece? Add in logistics and any travel and you'd hit ten? Without including fuck time I refuse to spend more than twenty minutes in a…
/r/askTRP16/11/16 08:59 PM
1

This isn't a comfort test. You did too much damage physically. Keep it in control. I love dominating a good woman but she's worthless if she can't fuck again within a day or two. A side note, if you actually are statistically very well endowed, use lube. Too much is almost enough. TLDR, you actually are being too rough, or not prepping enough.
/r/askTRP16/11/16 08:54 PM
3

Good on you. A few steps closer to understanding desire and marketing, (and the SMP is marketing) You'll do very well, especially since at only 18 you understood this very concisely and accurately.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 08:51 PM
20

About a month ago, my wife and I got into a stupid disagreement over her workplace disdain, and she brought up that she thought we needed to get a divorce. While she initially suggested a separation period (which most people don't come back from), we decided to stay in proximity. We had a week-long vacation planned, and decided to go through with it since 1) We already had the time blocked off and lodging paid-for, and 2) It would giv us time to talk things through. If she needed a divorce, you …
/r/askTRP15/11/16 07:58 PM
15

Pretty standard "if I can't have it I'll ruin it" mentality.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 06:16 PM
1

Move to the next plate.
/r/askTRP15/11/16 06:14 PM
1

Only in that I gamed more often, but I was never a big porn guy as it was so, probably the no fap had more effect. At this point I don't think about it. If a plate can't show I'll pick someone up, if I can't then I'll fap. Doesn't seem to make a difference day to day in the least honestly.
/r/askTRP15/11/16 06:12 PM
1

Most of the ones I've met end up finishing out with little to no money, having wasted it, not saved it, or having it taken by family or hoes. Less but still common, I see leaving with a healthy chunk of savings and a few classes already killed towards their degree, didn't waste time off buying frivolous shit and didn't knock up a hoe. Dependapotamous as far as I've seen, describes most of the base clinger girls, unattractive heavier sluts who try to get a baby in them ASAP before you deploy, usi…
/r/askTRP15/11/16 01:46 PM
10

Women in modern society are rarely ever single in a classical sense. support groups Shelters grants big Daddy government betas and orbiters abound social media approval with go fund me Primal, classical "single" is largely reserved for the bottom men.
/r/askTRP15/11/16 10:50 AM
1

No I completely agree. I'll admit, it was as I first said, me projecting my solipsism.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/16 04:55 PM
2

It goes both ways. You get those forged in fire, and those who piddle away their lives pining and supporting a dependapotamous military wife.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 04:29 PM
1

Gotcha. Didn't mean to discourage your post actually, just voicing my experience.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/16 06:23 PM
1

Borderline as fuck. Next. Now. Check my post history. I just posted on this to another submission. Don't get to where he is.
/r/askTRP13/11/16 06:16 PM
2

Had a bpd ex fiance, and some training. Here's your to do list. go radio silent. That's number one. Do not under any circumstances speak with her personally until she physically shows up. Remember, it's bpd, ANY ATTENTION IS VALIDATION block and ban her ASAP. if you're living with her, "I really hope this isn't the case" you need to disappear. Grab your shit and go. tell your family right away. Use any proof or documentation. Going to them first will definitely raise the chances that they'll ful…
/r/askTRP13/11/16 06:03 PM
5

Much simpler. The blue pill is a narrative philosophy, based on faith and belief. A philosophy tries to explain and justify what is. The red pill is a praxeology. A toolbox built of experiential evidence which can be applied to goals, and gives results. A praxeology is simply a toolbox, giving you leverage to gain specific results. That's about it. (I saw that post too, the up-voted comparison of red and blue both being nearly identical in framework)
/r/TheRedPill13/11/16 05:51 PM
10

That match to hit rate is just... Scary. I'm not being insulting, just making a point that's why I don't do the online stuff. I have a bro whose constantly finger fucking his phone, thirty minutes to an hour a day on Tinder and plenty of fish. I don't get it. Give me thirty minutes at a club and I'll bring back someone for an ons, an hour and I'll have a potential plate lined up. It's not worth it. Then again, it's probably totally solipsistic of me to say so, I've never even tried those service…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/16 05:39 PM
1

This is common. It's because you removed a habit without replacing it. You must replace habits, not simply negate them. Try fantasizing while wanking once or twice a week with no porn.
/r/askTRP13/11/16 05:33 PM
5

Modern pimps come in two flavors IME. the sad fools like iceberg slim, they make a bit, not much, and their attractiveness is usually based only on force. the owners of an escort service, with standardization, testing, lessons on acting, the works, they sell an experience to those who can afford it. Thx for the warning about the book. Won't bother with it.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/16 05:30 PM
1

You don't have to enjoy the face unless you live missionary and cumshots bro. Agreed.
/r/askTRP13/11/16 03:16 AM
5

Hard lesson the first time. Now you know. People hate being reminded and feeling guilty of their lack of discipline. Their weaknesses in general. Period. Crab barrel mentality.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/16 03:09 AM
1

That's most likely your body telling you something. Time to do a clean month bro.
/r/askTRP13/11/16 03:05 AM
2

Eh, you've paid five bucks to learn a lesson. If it's an smv issue, then publicly forgive him warning that now you know what kinda person he is. Personality I'd say "it's ok man, but don't call for help again."
/r/askTRP13/11/16 02:05 AM
1

That's... Not odd to me at all. I've a few friends who double as bar back/tender while doing security. Good way to kill two birds with one stone if you need a fill in.
/r/askTRP13/11/16 02:03 AM
1

Tap it for justice? /S ...or is it?...
/r/askTRP13/11/16 02:02 AM
1

Biggest difference is that trp is a praxeology that encourages applying agency to create results. The other is like shouting "move" at a brick wall expecting it to do so.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/16 01:55 AM
1

Of course it does. Anything you neglect long enough suffers expertise and mastery, regardless of your talent for it. I do it as a refocus. What have I lost? "Because mastering something necessitates neglecting something else" I use the month to keep the things I've neglected but feel are beneficial in my focus.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 08:13 PM
2

Day game. It fucks up their heuristics and responses. I have built most of my plates from day game. followed girls off buses to demand they put my number in their phone chat up girls while in line invite myself to their table for coffee, or rarely lunch Just upset the model that's currently in place, she's built on "I go to Clubs, bars, frats, tinder, to get what I need right now" throw a fucking mile long wrench in it. She'll take notice. Caution, "I have very high smv and I'm a solid 8, a 9 to…
/r/askTRP12/11/16 08:01 PM
1

Nope. That about summarizes it.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 07:57 PM
1

Shut your fucking mouth. Seriously. Just shut it. Put a background on your phone that says "if it isn't logistics, Stop", do whatever you have to in order to curb the urge. No verbal diarrhea, that's her imperative.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 07:51 PM
1

Don't brag, just avoid being humble. Speak the truth to your value. It's fine. If the words are backed previously and demonstrably by actions and social proof, you're only being honest.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 07:49 PM
1

Well following that I'm certainly not needed here. Listen to this OP. It's clear, concise, and best of all, true.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 07:46 PM
1

Cut them off before they begin justifying. "Nope, really happy where I am, haven't found the one yet."
/r/askTRP12/11/16 07:44 PM
1

Sorry OP, that's a genetic outlier. I sleep 6 hours a day, not even in the same single stretch. Never had a problem, in the top percentile of health and fitness. No issues at all. I've only met two others like that. It's definitely something you can't train. Just be happy and manage your time efficiently.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 07:36 PM
1

Listen to "ace productivity" by Timothy Moser, free podcast. At the same time, set a parental lock on internet usage, the password for which only a trusted friend knows. Lookit yourself to twenty percent of the time you're using it daily. Find a male therapist or psych to look into seasonal affective disorder, depression, etc. At least get an entry council. And begin to crush.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 07:30 PM
1

Irma S. Rhombauers "the joy of cooking" is a great starter. It'll teach you the majority of the basics, plus has hundreds of culture based recipes. I heavily recommend it, and it was recommended to me by my father, "who in a past part of his life trained with Julia Child" and owned his own catering business for cocktails and weddings. Also, buy fresh and keep a very well loaded spice rack.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 07:27 PM
1

Seasonal affective disorder? You may be experiencing the winter blues. Overall just see a doc.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 07:24 PM
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