I've had some thoughts about recent experiences and some things I read and wanted to share.

Being alpha is fucking great and will get you a lot of good shit, but remember that you cannot approach every situation as an alpha. Trying to get rid of a girl? Go beta and she'll want nothing to do with you. Trying to get on your bosses good side? Go beta every once in a while and defer to him, let him take credit for your achievements. Learn to follow when you should not lead

It's similar with emotions. Most men are logical creatures. However, most women are emotional. If you try to explain something to a woman using logic, you might as well be explaining in fucking Tagalog. You're speaking another language. Learn to speak hers to appeal to the feelz. This relates directly to knowing your audience and tailoring your speech to that audience. That's why I'm using terms like feelz, alpha, and beta when talking to you. When talking to a woman, adopt terms like want/need, appreciate, feel, and other words that invoke emotional responses. Consider rephrasing things in emotional terms when you want a woman to recognize that she is wrong, that she needs to change, or basically any situation in which you need to change her mind when she is already decided.

These ideas apply to a lot of different areas. If you are normally charismatic and loud, know when to be silent. If you are strong, know when to appear weak. If you are a filthy RPer, know when to act like a feminist.

Throw away your ego gentlemen. Assume formlessness. Be the person you need to be.