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There is no definitive Red Pill philosophy. THE way does not exist. It never has and never will. We all must take our own path. Follow the philosophy of others, and you are the one who is beta
/r/askTRP09/06/15 02:48 PM
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Yeah, maybe the "teorethical RP man "should be like that. Myself, I prefer to work in the realm of reality, and since my conclusions proven the most reliable in real life situations I've encountered, I will support then until I find better ones
/r/askTRP09/06/15 02:27 AM
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A RP man can't look for an LTR? I don't think so. A man can look for an LTR if that's what he truly desires (for various reasons, children, companionship, etc). Likewise, you dont find out if a woman is worthwhile by starting out with a relationship. Pushing for immediate sex is normally a good idea as a RP male, but I believe all of us with sufficient dating experience can point out a few instances where we scared a girl off by pushing too hard too soon. For instance, I went out on a first date…
/r/askTRP08/06/15 05:48 AM
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He does podcasting, owns a website, and produces youtube videos.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 03:13 AM
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The gender bias exists, but still the vast majority of each sex fail to produce original opinions. I'd estimate the ratios at 1:1,000 women and 1:200 men. That's okay though, because if everyone developed their own original opinions on everything, the world would be too fragmented. Better to have a few leaders of different movements who you can monitor and keep an eye on than millions of people who want to lead but no followers.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 03:09 AM
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It seems to be you who is hiding behind buzzwords and substituting rational debate with insults. Your arguments when standing on their own lack weight and impact, so you mix in some curse words and fancy italics and bolding. It's just gravy that you have the gall to call someone else a hypocrite.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 07:24 AM
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Well you certainly think you have it all figured out don't you? Clearly you are not in a monogamous relationship now, nor do you plan to be in the future. I'm glad you are enjoying a life of debauchery, no really I am. It's important to know what you want and go after that with all your might. It's also good that you know that you'll never change your mind. I assume you have thought and acted in the same way ever since you started thinking on your own, and then when you were 16, and also 20, 25,…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 07:04 AM
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Your anger and contempt in your post seems to betray that his words have made you uncomfortable. Is it possible that he's striking close to home with you, and that you in fact are not completely secure with your immorality? You are not being asked to be moral, nor immoral, or even amoral. It is all "take it or leave it" here, as /u/IllimitableMan said in the article. However, you must accept your actions and any consequences that they cause for you to be considered a self actualizing man. Is lyi…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 07:17 PM
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No. Smith machines cause more injury than free weights by forcing your body to work in unnatural ways. Barbells are meant to move in curved paths. Watch someone from the side when they bench, you'll see the bar moves down their chest as it descends. Similar examples exist for just about every barbell exercise. Anyways, I've failed with no spotter and no spotter bars on quite a few lifts. I'm still here, uninjured. As long as you know how to perform the lift and also how to fail, weightlifting is…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 05:05 PM
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Shutting your mouth AND eating salad might be a bit difficult. On a serious note, women are told their whole lives to exercise in ineffective ways. They need to lift. Show me a woman who lifts and doesn't eat like a total pig and I'll show you a woman with a hot body
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 03:04 AM
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Unfortunately she didn't appreciate my answer as I told her I didn't understand why he needed to commit!! Don't do stuff like this. Obey the 48 laws. In particular: Think as you like, but act like everyone else. It gains you nothing but resentment to tell this girl you don't think her man should commit to her.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 07:34 AM
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That depends. Are you referring to "communist" Russia or China? If so, then yes I am equating that with socialism because they were never actually communist. If you are referring to communism as defined by Karl Marx in The Communist Manifesto, then no I am not equating socialism to communism. One is the government ownership of industry, the other is a classless utopia. Read the book for a better understanding of the difference. The order is this: Capitalism -> Capitalism with resource abundance …
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 10:18 PM
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That's a cool idea, but that's still capitalism. It's the business owner's right to run his business how he wants to, even forming a cooperative. Shares and stock markets are inherently capitalistic.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 07:30 PM
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Socialism: The idea that workers deserve proper compensation Yeah, no, that's not socialism. Socialism is the creation of a safety net for all citizens so that no one ever really fails, and probably also government ownership of industry. I'll admit the comment you replied to does not understand socialism, but you seem to have a twisted view of it as well. Capitalism is the only system that rewards individuals for their effort. Provide a service that other people need or desire, and the system wi…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 05:29 PM
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Uh huh. Explain to me all the huge comment chains of deleted comments in SRS controlled subs. How bout that Askreddit thread about men being subjected to domestic violence being removed just a month or so back? How bout SRS downvote squads constantly brigading other subs? Seems like censorship to me.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 08:12 AM
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SJWs and SRSers have taken over a lot of reddit, hence censorship is common on certain subs. Askreddit is well under their influence. I wouldn't be surprised at all if most of the deleted comments were even more graphic or exposing than the others that are still up. Edit: I'd also like to note that, once you go past all the deleted posts (quite a few of these) there's an automod comment about the [serious] tag warning that "non-contributory" content will be removed. All replies back are deleted.…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 06:58 AM
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Not sure why you even tried. It's obvious that you have two clashing personalities. You should try to polarize girls sooner so that you don't waste all your time trying to use these methods (A&A, ''putting her in her place") just to try to eek out a date or maybe a fuck from a girl who is really not attracted to you. In essence, approach more. You need to screen more, starting from the moment you meet them, and maybe then you'll avoid getting to this point of petty text arguing between two peopl…
/r/askTRP09/04/15 07:52 PM
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Fuck off, it's a good story. If you're not going to read, then don't contribute your -2 cents
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 04:05 PM
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I do not think it will develop like that, but we will have to wait and see. We are all still early adopters here. We don't know what exactly TRP will evolve to in a few years time, let alone how society will change either in that time period or how that changed society will view the older and more mature TRP when that time comes
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 05:27 PM
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I never said there was something wrong with having a lot of sex, I was talking about masturbation. Even still, there is no number of times you are allotted to masturbate before it is considered compulsive, because compulsive means "resulting from or relating to an irresistible urge, especially one that is against one's conscious wishes." You could masturbate three times a day and it could be non-compulsive behavior, or you could do it once a day and it could be compulsive. It's how you do it, no…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 05:23 PM
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And it's because you've fucked lots of girls that you are secure. There is a lot to say for developing an abundance mentality, but the only reliable method for a true abundance mindset is to have actually experienced real abundance.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 05:42 AM
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She has literally convinced herself that women age better than men do and that they do not arrive at their wall 20 years before "the change". When women are going through menopause, men are only just beginning to decline from peak attractiveness to women. That hamster deadlifts 800 pounds
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 05:37 AM
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You really can't fight back either. They hit you, it probably doesn't even hurt. You hit them, you are going to leave a bruise at the least if not break a bone, and then they are probably going to fall on their face (most women fall like a child, they don't even put their arms out). What does it accomplish to wreck someone weaker than you who never stood a fighting chance? Just walk away. If you are in a relationship, hard next immediately. If she is physically attacking you, then she is either …
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 05:27 AM
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There's some overlap between the bottom 20% of men and the top 20% of women, but you really can't argue on a general level that he's wrong for making that statement. Just because there are a few tough girls out there who might be a match for a weaker guy doesn't mean women are not in general flat out physically inferior to men
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 05:23 AM
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You're right, but I think it is more general than emotion. It's subjectivity that causes women to be incapable of friendship on the same level as men. Does this friend benefit me right now? If no, then why are we friends? Female subjectivity prevents them from seeing future benefit, whereas a male understands better that sometimes you benefit from a friendship and sometimes you give. Similarly, female subjectivity implies a lack of loyalty, since they live in the moment, they don't remember all …
/r/askTRP07/04/15 05:17 AM
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He emotionally invested more in her than she did in him. He provided for her far more than she ever gave back to him. He placed her on a pedestal where she was "his life". Financial success and the ability to break up cleanly with a cheating whore don't automatically make you red pill. At best he was purple.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 05:04 AM
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Just do it and stop bitching.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 04:53 AM
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Well there's Your Brain on Porn, a popular documentary. Popular books are now recommending cutting your masturbation, such as Models which suggests 1/week scheduled. Here's a post by WebMD that notes sex is healthier than masturbation and talks about some health risks of it. Then of course there's nofap. I'm sure there's some other evidence. Anecdotally, I've talked to a lot of people who've mentioned quitting porn and masturbation, but perhaps that's a result of cutting BP people out of my frie…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 03:02 AM
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TRP is already pretty widely known. Elliot got us some pretty bad publicity from mainstream media, and we're still around. In fact I'd say that recently, it's becoming less common for people to hate on TRP on reddit and elsewhere, but maybe they're speaking of it less in hopes that fewer people will learn of our existence and join us.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 02:37 AM
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Men in general are switching to a RP mindset. It's happening very slowly, but there is definitely headway being made in the fight against the pussification of men. The resurgence in popularity of weightlifting Pickup techniques focusing less on superficial technique and more on being the type of man who attracts women (alpha) Rejection of obesity acceptance and HAES Swing of public sentiment against porn and compulsive masturbation Men taking women off the pedestal and instead pursuing their own…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 07:55 PM
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Personal situations definitely affect business because they affect your reputation. That is why businessmen, politicians, and others must control how their personal lives are perceived by others. I understand and appreciate the sentiment of wanting to save one's father, but you have to look at it realistically and say "This guy has gone the last 28 years with his wife wearing the pants, and was probably beta long before that too. Do I really think I can change him so easily, when no other experi…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 07:46 PM
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Her only sacrifice may have been having put up with beta, unattractive, lame sex- me for so long. Her major sacrifice here is that she lost 5 years during her prime. Women are considered to peak in attractiveness at 21. Compare that to men who peak much later and also decline much more slowly in attractiveness. Women lose a lot by committing to a beta in their early 20s, hence why a bunch of women get caught up in the CC in the first place, because at first they're just searching for an alpha ca…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 07:24 PM
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A fundamental rule of relationships is that you have to be less invested than the woman. After all, if relationships benefit the woman and take away a man's freedom to pursue other women, why would a man want a relationship more than the woman does? Because he perceives the woman as higher value than himself, he has a scarcity mindset that latches on to any potential mate he can find, or both. Women sense this, after all they are conditioned through thousands of years of evolution to sense weakn…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 07:14 PM
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And you definitely could've chosen to use correct English. The title seems fine to me.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 07:05 PM
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Yeah, she's either not seeing you as a candidate for LTR or she's trying to win you back through giving you all the wild sex you wanted while you were together (likely the second). Enjoy the sex, do not consider her LTR material ever again and if you start to get any feelings of oneitis, immediate hard next with no contact.
/r/askTRP06/04/15 06:52 PM
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I too think you should be true to your inner self and be mostly uninhibited in presenting that self to the world. However, you should draw the line at anything that will incur more risks than benefits for you. If you stand everything to lose and not much at all to gain (such as in the case of mentioning TRP), don't do it. Yes, you can if you really want to. That's fine, go off and be an empowered man who don't need no woman and don't care what no damn blue piller thinks. Most times, you'll only …
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 06:49 PM
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Yes, and in many places you by definition have an expectation of privacy in bedrooms, bathrooms, and some other specific places, which will prevent you from placing cameras there in the first place, let alone trying to argue for its admissibility in court. I'd say keep some money and/or a gun in your room and then you could probably argue that you had the camera set up for theft or for proving self defense.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 06:33 PM
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You can legally tape video only in all 50 states and audio + video in all but 13 within your house. There is no expectation of privacy in a house you do not own, therefore there is no need to inform others of the cameras.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 03:05 PM
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Basically, well at least if they think that the guy doesn't want a slut, which is the case girls default to. If you make them truly believe you want a wild girl for an LTR, they'll be a slut for you too. Convincing her might be difficult though if you truly don't want a slut LTR, so it's a bit of a catch 22
/r/askTRP06/04/15 03:02 AM
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See flair: Rant/venting. There is no expectation of a lesson.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 02:33 AM
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Well you explained this one to yourself. "just a fuck" girls will do things with you that they'd never do with their boyfriends. Because if she did do those things with a potential or current LTR, they'd think things like... I can't look at a girl after she's licked my butthole. Most guys are pretty obvious about not wanting to date sluts. In girls minds, they think the guy will think she's a slut for doing these kinds of things (she'd be right about licking an asshole without at least providing…
/r/askTRP06/04/15 02:31 AM
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Too many acronyms lol, I had no idea what you were talking about for a few seconds. I've never read When I Say No I Feel Guilty, so I cannot comment on it. It does look good though, but I think No More Mr Nice Guy is more universally useful for fixing BP problems
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 01:43 AM
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Your grammar's pretty damn good, I didn't even expect that it wasn't your first language until you said something about it. Honestly, families need TRP more than anything else does in this world. When the basic unit of society is fundamentally broken on a wide scale, then society as a whole suffers dramatically. Good first post mate, now delete your posts outside of TRP on this account or get a new RP only one so you don't get doxxed.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 09:32 PM
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Yes. Can mentioning TRP to have a good outcome? Yes. Do you risk catastrophic damage to your reputation each time you mention TRP? Yes. Law 5: So much depends on reputation - guard it with your life. If you ever did mention TRP to someone, it could only be by slowly feeding them RP truths (sans the TRP lingo) and monitoring their progress and how well they accept and integrate those truths into their lives. Only when you are 99.99% sure they will accept TRP can you consider introducing them to i…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 09:20 PM
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You'd certainly stand a better chance, but the chance is still not good enough for the risk to be worth the "benefits", which is basically just children and a family, which you can have without marrying and therefore risking your finances, sex life, reputation, and freedom. So basically don't get married.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 09:11 PM
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Rule 1 of TRP: Do not talk about TRP Rule 2 of TRP: DO NOT TALK ABOUT TRP Not with your best friend, not with your father, not with anyone. Give him a book, No More Mr Nice Guy maybe, but if you get the urge to ever mention TRP to anyone, do yourself a favor and shove your fist down your throat before you accidentally open it and fuck yourself.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 09:08 PM
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always picks fights/argues over stupid shit that doesn't matter Well see, it's not the shit that matters, it's the way that her husband handles her fits that matters to her. This is similar to a dog who tears up the couch because he's not getting the proper attention and discipline from his owner. Your mother fights because she wants him to discipline her. She deep down needs him to take the leading role, and so by challenging him, her reptile brain hopes that he will respond to the challenge by…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 09:02 PM
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Remember a golden rule of TRP: Girls don't know what they want. They don't even know what they enjoy. That is why you, as the man, must lead interactions for them to be successful. Case in point: The study where women rated their favorite types of porn and what turns them on, then were subjected to watching different varieties of porn while their arousal levels were measured. The straight ones said they would not be turned on by gay/lesbian porn. They did get turned on. Almost all women said the…
/r/askTRP05/04/15 08:53 PM
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It's only going to hurt your ability to attract women if you expect it to. Own your career. Be passionate about what you do for a living. It's not really what you do that is important, it's how you do it.
/r/askTRP05/04/15 08:34 PM
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If you change yourself for each girl you meet, just to get more girls, you've not only lost yourself, you'll also drive away high quality girls, because they'll see through your charade, and when they do realize that you're not who you say you are they will get out of your life faster than you can say "but wait I'm so alpha!". In their place, you'll get a bunch of girls with daddy issues, hungry for male validation, who will shit test the hell out of you. Once you reach the level where you have …
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 06:34 PM
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You're spot on. Many people who attain success simultaneously develop ego and pride. It is important to be confident and sure in yourself and your abilities, but you have to control ego and pride. I believe the best way to do this is by taking time each day to meditate, regular self evaluation, and occasionally performing acts of charity with no expectation of return favors.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 06:04 PM
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It would be, if he lost it, but he didn't. It worked fine, and the girl seemed quite into him. Also, ask yourself, "Do I want a girl who feels abandoned just because some guy who she has never even met in person hasn't returned her text within a couple hours?" If you change the way you act in fear of losing a girl, you'll only attract the type of women whose character and personality clashes with your true self
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 05:47 PM
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I don't know, I think that's too PUA. It works like duct taping something, it might work in the short term but it doesn't really fix the problem, nor is it a great way of getting high quality girls. In reality, you can be blue pill and get tons of women. Happens all the time. The reason that most don't is because they're broken inside, and thus they come to TRP looking for a solution. The fix is to work on their inner emotions, fears, irrationalities, and to attempt to undo the decades worth of …
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 12:51 AM
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Just like most books, there's some bad advice in with the good. Not every single bit is red pill, nor is the wording of "vulnerability" optimal, but there is a lot of good stuff in there. It's really more a book about how to be alpha than to be red pill, which are similar but not the exact same thing. Just because there is some bad advice in there doesn't mean it's not worth reading and learning from. You'll never find one single book that you can treat as your bible for all things red pill, it …
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 12:14 AM
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It's interesting that the feminist response did not try to defend her innocence. She was only arrested, not convicted, so this is rather surprising. I would expect them to be saying something like "How can womyn feel safe about reporting rapes when they see other womyns being oppressed by the patriarchy after trying to expose their abusers!!1!" Maybe they are applying the same "guilty before innocent" logic to women also. Or maybe they are implicitly stating that, yes, women can and do lie about…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 08:20 PM
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Are you people fucking dense? Learn to read like the other guy, he literally said he fucked her. The lack of reading comprehension that you are exhibiting is appalling
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 08:10 PM
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A lot of the "vulnerability" that Manson describes is more of a DGAF attitude towards other people. It's about being vulnerable to failure, which is almost always a risk anytime there is the potential for substantial reward (in the form of sex, money, power, fame, etc), not being vulnerable in the sense that you cry about your emotions and beg people to accept you for who you are.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 08:07 PM
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Also a great book. I'd suggest the Art of War by Sun Tzu first, mostly because it is very general (therefore applicable to almost any circumstance) and is so short it may be read within an hour or two and memorized with relative ease. Definitely after the Art of War, 48 Laws. The Prince by Macchiavelli is another good recommendation along the same lines. And while we're talking about general improvement books, I'll recommend How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie, as well as Th…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 08:04 PM
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Yeah, 512×2-1 == 1023, thanks. Math failure lol, the more complex math I learn it seems the less capable I am of basic arithmetic
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 05:51 PM
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Learn to read. I quoted him saying "I fucked her," what do you need from him, an explicit description of how her pussy felt wrapped around his dick?
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 07:49 AM
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There are probably 3 lines of RP truth out of the duke's mouth, otherwise it's almost all beta pussy-pedestal bullshit. Regardless, it must have been really funny to see the professor flip her shit over that. It's always hilarious when someone in a position of power embarrasses themselves through dramatic loss of composure
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 05:20 AM
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Blue piller is basically a blanket term for someone who's not a red piller, aka they believe in feminism and other commonly believed bullshit. Take this advice please. Read these four books: No More Mr. Nice Guy, Models by Manson, Sex God Method, and Starting Strength. Put what you learn from each book into practice. Then read the side bar. After that, come back here and join TRP. Until then, may the force be with you on your new journey of self improvement and discovery.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 05:10 AM
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Well you can count up to 31 if you count in binary (thumb is 1, index is 2, middle is 4, etc), so watch out if you have a math geek. Even worse if she says two hands, then she's had sex with up to 1027 people.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 05:01 AM
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When it comes down to it, confidence is only one factor in the equation. You could be very confident of something, but if you're using an incorrect method, you will get fucked just the same in the long run. There are plenty of divorce raped, "supremely confident gentlemen" blue pillers out there to prove my point. Anyways, check out No More Mr. Nice Guy, it may do you some good to read it.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 04:51 AM
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It is really important to be able to genuinely not give a fuck about some things, but I wouldn't say you should use meds to do it, at least not long term. I'm not giving a doctor's advice, but if you do want to use meds to help combat anxiety, a benzo like phenibut or xanax (for mild and severe needs, respectively) could be used to lower anxiety levels and help you throw yourself into those types of situations you're very scared of. This should act as exposure therapy (by far the most successful…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 04:42 AM
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Hook up = sex to me. I can't imagine making out with a girl a number of times and not even getting blown once or twice Edit: He fucked her. See quote from another comment below, I fucked her on occasion, an important detail was that I thought I was the only one, she made her self seem more innocent than she was.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 04:35 AM
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I don't think that telling other people to not tell you would help. That's like saying "Yeah, it does bother me, please don't hurt my feelings by telling me." That's a kind of beta thing to communicate. Instead, I'd suggest just laughing it off and saying you don't care. Hell, A&A and encourage it (while you bang a bunch of other girls), that'll mind fuck her good AND communicate your alpha status to her and everyone else
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 01:08 AM
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I find it funny that this comment is so highly upvoted when he did fuck her (or my reading comprehension is seriously messed up). According to OP, We became what I thought at the time to be "good friends" who'd hang out all the time, flirt with each other and casually hookup. ... But she'd still flirt with me when ever we hung out and she'd still wanna hookup, telling me how great of a guy I am.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 01:04 AM
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It's too late for that. The majority of people in this world are failures and/or indoctrinated by new age thinking. Those people are inevitably going to reproduce and form families. These families are simply going to indoctrinate the next generation, and they will form a pattern (ever notice how many single moms were raised by single moms?), unless the majority of people in this civilization break free from their family's influence and therefore also all the new age bullshit. You may have had a …
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 04:47 PM
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Although, if she finds a man with higher SMV she will swing to him if the new guy wants her and newGuySMV - boyfriendSMV > socialPenaltyForWhores. The only difference between girls is how high they set the social penalty, which is effectively the difference in SMV required to cheat. All women will cheat given the right set of circumstances, they do not exactly "choose". AWALT. The reason why I say this is because if the girl has a man who she views as high SMV, it is reasonable to conclude that …
/r/askTRP02/04/15 04:27 PM
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Yes. You should try it some time, it's amazing how well they respond to the enforcement of a pack hierarchy
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 02:50 PM
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Place a small bowl with finger foods inside of their food bowl. Eat your food slowly and calmly, maintaining eye contact and asserting dominance. Afterwards set the food bowl on the ground while he sits. If he lunges for the food, take it away. When he sits calmly, tell him to eat and only then allow him to eat the food. After 10 minutes or so, take the food bowl away regardless of whether or not he's finished. I know your comment was a joke, and partially so was mine, but try it, it's a very ef…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 05:46 AM
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I think your comment and the article you linked to made a lot of good points. It is certainly true that very few people become truly rich without a "big event." When it rains, it pours. If you want to become truly rich, you must chase the big events rather than contenting yourself to slave away your entire life pinching pennies to retire at the age of 60, when you're old enough to do not much else other than die slowly while you watch younger guys do the things you dreamed of while at your 9-5 j…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 12:08 AM
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Those jealous women were improperly socialized early on. Sometimes, with effort and consistency, you can overcome their bad habits. However, there are nearly unlimited women out there, so most of the time it is better and easier to simply cut the jealous woman out of your life and find one that was properly raised. A properly socialized woman will compete for your affection by increasing her value to you, rather than cock blocking your attempts with other women. Also remember that when keeping w…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 07:22 PM
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Carmax? Nah, go private. You'll save a shit ton of money and have more options. Anyways, not looking like a cheapass is why I mention the effort/reward ratio. It relates to the law to always make your actions seem effortless. If you look like you try very hard to save a few dollars, then that will make others think poorly of you. However, taking 1 minute of your time save $10 or 15 minutes to save $300 is not going to make you lose respect from anyone whose respect you'd value. $100 a month shou…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 07:05 PM
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New RP convert? Get a dog. 90% of the skills holding frame and a dominant position over a dog carryover into your interactions with women. Bonus: They make great wingmen.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 06:51 PM
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Effort vs Reward: Will I sit in front of my computer for hours finding coupons to save $10 on groceries? No. Will I take 1 minute to check Amazon and get Walmart to price match? Yes. Many of the things that r/frugal and most other budget minded groups advocate completely fail a cost-benefit analysis. I like that you keep focused on quick negotiations on big ticket items, where the cost-benefit ratio is very good. Definitely going to adopt some of your strategies
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 05:54 PM
2

You're not wrong if that's your preference. It's your world, do what makes you happy
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 04:14 PM
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It's an effective strategy, but my comment wasn't trying to refute that. In fact I would say that this strategy is what pulls many RP men out of the anger phase when they pick up women by unintentionally using this strategy
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 04:06 PM
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That does make a lot more sense, though you could've just banged at her place. And you're right, most of the girls who you'd want to approach you are too occupied being swarmed by guys begging for attention to even consider approaching a guy herself
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 04:02 PM
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Funny anecdotes and all, but why go to a club to just sit in a corner, drink by yourself, and be antisocial? People go to clubs to meet and have fun with new people. Seems a bit like going swimming and then complaining that it's wet. Well of course it is, that is the nature of water, and you knew that before jumping in
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 02:56 PM
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I suggest becoming religious and finding a young virgin if you really must get married. I think a lot of Eastern women are, deep down, just going to be gold diggers
/r/askTRP27/03/15 08:09 AM
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Idk man, I can have all that living 20 minutes outside of a city in Texas, plus much lower cost of living and the choice to go into a big city anytime I want
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 05:40 AM
2

Try to setup a set of plates, like a soft harem, perhaps with a main similar to this guy's post recently described. I believe ONS are kind of stupid actually since sex with plates is far more satisfying, and I think pumping and dumping simply for the sake of getting a higher notch count is not only hazardous (rape charges, pregnancies) but it actually shows that you derive self worth from women, which is one of the most beta things you can do.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 08:28 PM
1

You weren't lying when you said 100% beta. I can't easily think of the last time I read a story as BP and beta as this. But, you're on a better path now. Be aware that if you seriously take the red pill and become alpha, your marriage will probably not withstand the transition. The power dynamic is 100% in her favor currently, and when you try to change that to being in your favor, she will resist and send colossal shit tests at you that you will likely fail as a newly minted alpha. It happens t…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 07:52 PM
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I have met about 1 or 2 of them who are capable of saying no confidently and setting up boundaries, the vast majority seem to be perpetually in fear of stirring up the waters. Almost all of them are also tethered to their parents like a leash. It goes to show you that having a strong family unit and being from a non-1st-world country doesn't automagically make you RP.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 06:43 PM
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Like what? I think India is westernizing too much and the men there are BP anyways. Japan, westernized and BP as fuck (though maybe a good place to find a woman). Russia? Too unstable. China? Shithole.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 06:10 PM
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Yeah, very few blue pillers and feminists, and there's also very few opportunities. I would rather raise my child to obey the 48 laws, be slightly DT, and simply act in a certain way to get by than to put him in the middle of nowhere where he will be socially stunted and also essentially handicapped insofar as attaining success and money.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 06:03 PM
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As much as I agree with you, I think there are certainly many places in the USA where masculinity is still well tolerated or even celebrated. You can't judge the entire country based on left-biased media. Where do you think is a better place to raise a child? I really want to know your opinion on the matter. I think the USA is the best option in the Anglosphere. Outside of that, Germany? Finland?
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 05:43 PM
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This. Like, she's brought you into her bed, you're touching intimately, and you don't push the envelope at all? This girl obviously wants you sexually, but she doesn't want to be the slut who would initiate cheating on her boyfriend. If you want to bang her, you're going to have to do the legwork for her. Just cover your tracks and get some kind of consent or agreement over text so that she can't retroactively revoke consent if her boyfriend finds out.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 04:44 PM
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I think they sometimes act/talk like men, but they think very illogically and emotionally, hallmarks of female thinking not male
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 02:46 AM
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USA! USA! USA! (except for a few states that still do common-law)
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 11:53 PM
2

Search for the recent thread in TRP about Red Pill quotes from books, someone posted a bunch of links to free pdfs in the comments
/r/askTRP22/03/15 06:17 AM
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Because of hypergamy, a woman will never be satisfied with "decent BB." She already had her taste of alphas, and that's what she feels she deserves. These post wall women look to you like they have it made, but if you looked at it from the perspective of a woman the wall is devastating.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 09:42 AM
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If you know where to get those for $85, please share. Lenovo lists the X200 as being discontinued with a redirect to new laptops, and Amazon is selling them for $1200. The best price I see anywhere is $200 for a refurbished model
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 06:34 AM
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And the girl is evaluating her SMV higher too because she got invited to this party. Maybe you could get a boost over her if you personally know someone throwing the party and she doesn't, but you can't just assume your SMV is going to tower over everyone elses just because you're physically present at a popular event
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 12:51 AM
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$85? Maybe you meant $850, X series Thinkpad Lenovos aren't cheap. The going price for a X250 (base model, cheapest of the Xs) is $755 on Lenovo's website right now. So you're saving a couple hundred bucks at best, but you're giving up a lot of utility by switching to Windows (since you cannot program for iOS or OS X from a Windows machine unless you go through the hassle of running a VM), not to mention you have to deal with the subpar materials, customer service, and driver support (plus Windo…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 12:45 AM
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Consider also that goods are much cheaper in the US than the UK. You'd make 3x as much and your money would go 2x as far (well, maybe not in NYC) Plus in the US you'd have that foreigner SMV boost without even having to learn a new language. All the American girls here go crazy for English guys
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 05:13 PM
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It's not so much physical attraction baseline as it is SMV baseline. It just so happens that women cannot determine your SMV from more than your physical attractiveness based upon the context of these approaches. It's a cold approach. Put in other words, she can't be influenced by your social/financial status because she simply can't infer that information since you walked up to her out of nowhere and just started talking. So, SMV is what determines whether a woman will be attracted to you or no…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 05:08 PM
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Well you could always go caravanning! And then throw the caravan off a cliff, Top Gear style. It seems like the UK makes it very hard to maintain interesting hobbies compared to the United States in general. Although you don't have to worry about getting shot by the police or getting prosecuted for drinking from 18-21, so there's that
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 04:53 PM
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For $1000 you could buy a new 13" Macbook Air and learn programming and/or web design. You could build a really good home gym complete with power rack, bench, a name brand 45lb bar, and weights. You could buy a hunting rifle and gear and tag along with a couple friends to learn how to hunt and process game. You could put together a nice tool set and take over most of the maintenance on your vehicles and your house (this will also pay for itself in short order) There's really a ton of things you …
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 04:19 PM
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Hell, $500 could buy you an old bucket of bolts and with the remaining money you could buy gas, a few repair parts, and entry into a few autocross events. Or spend $1000 to fly to India or a similar country (living expenses basically = 0, since they're so low relative to here). That'd be a massive reset and would provide profound relief from Western life
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 03:32 PM
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The article is based upon a 15 year old girl and a 50 year old guy. In that case, yeah maybe she didn't know that she was being taken advantage of at the time and went through with it because he was in a position of authority (a teacher) and got scarred from it. However, after that 1 paragraph talking about the statutory rape, it's all drivel and 100% worthy of the derision you level at her.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 04:09 AM
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Well supposedly you can get the sensitivity back in your glans by using something like Manhood (look it up, it's basically a sock for your dick made out of a double layered synthetic material) The difficult part is going to be regrowing the nerves in your foreskin and allowing them to interface with your nervous system, as well as discarding any scar tissue and rebuilding the frenulum. We'll see though, modern science is pretty amazing
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 07:55 PM
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Hence why long term relationships of any sort are RP on hard mode. Way harder to maintain a relationship than to just bang a slut
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 07:44 PM
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Other times, however, the parents did a good job of raising their kids, but the woman was corrupted by some outside influence like a bad social circle or a scumbag boyfriend. Then when her parents express their disapproval of her lifestyle she cuts all ties with them. I think a lot of times when it appears this way from the outside, there is still bad parenting happening. Sometimes the parents are cold and distant, so her emotional needs are not being met even though it on paper seems like a per…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 04:22 AM
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It's kind of like applying Dale Carnegie principles with a dark side mindset. Btw, if you haven't read his book, How to Win Friends and Influence People, I highly recommend it
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 04:20 AM
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I'm not sure I understood what you meant by your first paragraph. In regards to the second, I feel that that tactic would be simply seen as you bragging. Sometimes that will work, but most of the time it's better to make them decide for themselves rather than trying to prove it to them
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 04:18 AM
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Walk into kitchen. Dishes are drying in a rack, but you know the guy did them, but he doesn't know you know: "Oh, that's really nice that did all these dishes for you." If girlfriend doesn't cook very much anymore: " is such a good cook, I remember her that she made once when I was over, it was amazing." "It must be really nice to have such an easygoing partner that doesn't argue." Something that can also be good is to complain slightly about your own life as bait: "I always come home from work …
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 01:34 AM
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It's not like you have a limited time of noob gain, it's more like you get results faster up to the time when you've trained to a certain % of your potential. We call it noob gains, but there are people who have lifted for more than a year and still could get noob gains if they changed something (normally switching to more compounds or eating more) and there are other people who exhaust their noob gains in a month.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 02:21 PM
1

You're very correct. Often this advice is oversimplified, but the effect is the same. Best cure for oneitis: Pursue other women and improve yourself.
/r/askTRP13/03/15 07:52 PM
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It could work, but you shouldn't explain yourself unnecessarily, especially without even being asked, to a woman. This is a kind of logical response of the sort you'd say to a guy friend who's on your level, not a girl who thinks in terms of subjective (her) emotions
/r/askTRP12/03/15 11:11 PM
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There's a lot of shit that people say here that would be well represented with caveman speak, so I'll oblige you. (No arguments here with the content of the messages, but damn after hearing these over and over it eventually sounds like the knee-jerk reaction of a neanderthal) "No marriage. Marriage bad. No get sex, then woman take money and kids. No get married, ever ever!" "You breakup with girl? Fuck 5 girl. Fuck 10 girl. You lift, you make money, you forget." "Girl say she no slut? Girl lies.…
/r/askTRP12/03/15 11:01 PM
1

I'm really surprised it took 12 hours for someone to consider the logistics of his gun's location relative to the passenger I think a much better location is between the driver's seat and the center console
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 08:54 PM
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No, it doesn't make them morons, but it does contribute to huge holes in their ability to rationally think about things. Many religious people were raised being told "this is the way that is, don't argue about it, just follow what this book says blindly." Most smart religious people I know are 100% normal and well adjusted, but then some subject comes up that they learned as a part of their religion and they mentally shut down and become seemingly incapable of thinking on their own two feet. Aga…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 05:41 PM
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Next post: The stop-being-alive shortcut: Go to Somalia. I'm just kidding though, I agree with you.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 11:51 PM
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Muscles are a part of my life. I lift weights, and I eat very well. However, I don't let it control my life. Nothing controls my life but me. If I want to take a trip to India, damn it I'm taking a trip to India. If I lose a couple pounds of muscle, big deal, it'll take me a couple months at most to gain it back since it's easy to regain size you used to have.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 11:49 PM
1

Similar to companionship, family. Just having a woman who loves and cares about you means a lot. And then of course you can have children if you are really family oriented and want to make one of your own, can't really do that without a woman.
/r/askTRP02/03/15 11:13 PM
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One guy at the plant proudly announced that his girl had been a virgin before meeting him. His buddy immediately asked him how he thought that was possible, since she had a kid from her previous boyfriend. How could he think that? This explains it... the guy I saw at work would be a neighbor or the guy sitting next to me at church. If Mary can have a baby while virgin, than so can my girlfriend! Really though, small towns in the bible belt have some dumbass people in them.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 10:51 PM
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I think it's kind of sad that some people are so worried about their precious muscles that they'd avoid traveling and experiencing life. In any case, steroids are legal in India, so the whole "losing gains" thing is not really an issue, especially if you know how to do lots of bodyweight exercises.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 10:29 PM
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I like how he says that and then says "Don't go to Goa." How about don't go to Tamil Nadu? Beheadings <<<<< "hippie colonial outpost"
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 10:22 PM
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I'd actually argue that divorce rape is prevalent because men treat women like adults rather than like children who cannot make rational and logical decisions. You don't give children too much power because they tend to fuck things up. Same thing with modern western women.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 02:48 AM
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This should be upvoted more. A voice of reason and logic, compared to the way OP tries to paint this as a black or white issue. It's quite possible to not be an asshole and still be alpha. Perhaps it is not easy to learn how to walk that fine line, but that's the way it is with any art. Mr. Newredpillconvert sees becoming an asshole as the easy and fast route to alpha-ville, and in a lot of ways it is, but it's not the only way to be alpha, nor is it necessarily the best
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 01:11 AM
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I'm not expecting anyone to save Western society. However, I think we should not contribute to the problem. Infantilizing adults? Women ARE children. And yes, you certainly can "ruin" someone. We call it alpha widowing here. If a unicorn wants commitment, and you lead her on, letting her get attached to you and start turning down other guys to spend time with you instead, but refuse to give her that commitment, you're at best wasting her time and at worst ruining her
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 12:53 AM
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Yes, whatever's legal goes, but I think that you should still abide by the "leave them better than you found them" rule. That means that if you're an experienced 30-40 year old man with high SMV, you shouldn't mess with the good younger girls who haven't been fucked up by the CC yet unless you're open to the idea of an LTR. If you find an 18 year old slut or a 20 year old girl who's hoping to be a career woman and not looking to settle down, fine, plate her, but if you find a religious 19 year o…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 12:01 AM
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If you don't like it and it was clear that she was not allowed to do that, then downgrade her to a plate. Did you ever encourage her bisexuality? If so then it's your own damn fault
/r/askTRP21/02/15 11:36 PM
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Hookah lounge Beach/lake Live music Shows (comedy, carnival, etc)
/r/askTRP21/02/15 11:31 PM
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Thank you. Metabolism is, and always will be, an excuse. You don't have a slow metabolism, and you aren't a hardgainer, you just don't eat/exercise properly.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 04:34 PM
3

As long as they're not too old, women past the wall (age 30-45) generally have no problem finding a desperate beta bux or older man to provide for them. It just depends on how pathetic of a man she's willing to settle for. Plenty of pathetic guys out there with good jobs. When she gets older than that, she has her kids to take care of her, and if that fails society is much more willing to take care of a woman than a man. Just look at the number of shelters out there for women and the number of h…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 09:17 PM
1

I do buy at 2 different grocery stores (alternate each time) cause I can get certain things way cheaper at one than the other. I utilize sales a lot, especially to buy stuff that doesn't expire in bulk (like peanut butter). I don't use coupons or anything like that though, my time is too valuable to me to bother with that
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 09:11 PM
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Sure, women can always fall back on their inherent value, but that doesn't explain why men dominate at the top. I think this is much more than cultural. Biologically, men simply have a better hormone profile to inspire them to take risks, innovate, lead, and rule.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 06:40 PM
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I have a similar diet to what he's describing and do it pretty cheap. Every 4 days or so I buy 2 dozen eggs, a couple gallons of whole milk, 2 cartons of fresh juice (orange or pineapple), a couple bunches of bananas, a jar of natural peanut butter, a few packages of chicken legs, london broil (top round steak), ground beef, some frozen steam-in-bag vegetables, and a package of spinach. Sometimes I'll switch up the meat with some fish like tuna steaks or salmon. I snack on chips (with flaxseed v…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 06:34 PM
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If you're juicing and gain only 5lbs of muscle mass you're doing it wrong, or maybe you're 5' tall and have a small frame. Most people I know who juice had to buy all new clothes and they can't wear off the shelf jeans or suits anymore. That stuff gets expensive
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 06:25 PM
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Not including the extra food you'll take in or all the new clothes you'll have to buy.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 05:15 PM
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I think men are simultaneously the superior and the inferior sex. We have the geniuses and the conquerers, but we also have the idiots. This relates to the greater variance in intelligence and personalities in men than in women. So when you compare the people at the 1%, they're almost all men in nearly any field. I would rather be part of the sex that has the greatest highs even if it means being a part of the lowest lows.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 05:12 PM
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Funny how they all agree and amplify with her on any fuck up you have. Wow, I never thought about that. A&A is not the end all be all response to women, but it's pretty powerful compared to the regular shit that betas use. It suddenly makes a lot more sense to me now how a girl's orbiters can poison her relationships. They're accidentally using effective methods
/r/askTRP17/02/15 03:39 AM
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I agree with /u/JayViceroy, you'd be stupid to let this girl back in your life. Is your time really worth so little that you'd waste it on someone who puts you through that shit for no damn reason? Do you really rate your value so low that you'd stay with such a low value trainwreck of a woman?
/r/askTRP17/02/15 12:12 AM
1

Is there anything that'll do this that doesn't look absolutely ridiculous?
/r/askTRP16/02/15 02:12 AM
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Collecting alpha widows (that you created) has some amazing benefits, even if it is a bit unethical
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 12:32 AM
1

Since you already got RP advice, I'll give you some sexual advice. If your girl wants BDSM or any type of dominance and submission in the bedroom, she won't "let" you have control, you have to take it. Because you both may be new to it, give her a safe word to use so that she can stop you if she needs to. Until she says that, take control and push boundaries. Rip her underwear off (twist and pull hard sideways). Spank her (not like a sissy, either), tie her up or use some handcuffs on her, pull …
/r/askTRP16/02/15 12:29 AM
1

Your answers to blue pill responses are pretty funny. I especially liked the error 404 one. However, your red pill responses could use a little work. Why not inject some of your humor into the red pill responses? Girls love funny guys, being a RP guy doesn't mean that you have to try really hard to be cool and distant
/r/askTRP15/02/15 07:18 PM
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Archived - [FR] On maintaining stoicism in extreme situations Here's an archived copy of the last post for easy access. You can link to these from TRP
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 06:59 PM
2

She knows, that if she capitulates right now, she will lose some of her victim status by acknowledging OP and his actions. I agree with everything after this about not bragging about saving her life, but I don't see why she'd lose victim status over acknowledging the person who saved her life. If she did stand to lose anything by publicly acknowledging him, she could at least do it privately
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 06:53 PM
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Well this is just proof to never really expect much from women, not even a thank you for saving her life. What a world we live in.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 05:59 PM
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Running sucks in general. Seems like a bad idea to risk a really high injury rate to achieve a pussy physique. Besides that, what is its practical application in modern society? Not once have I needed to run more than 30 consecutive seconds in the last few years of my life. Weightlifting has the best return of any sport. Low injury rate, great physique, the attributes it improves are actually useful (strength, muscular endurance, bone/joint health). Fuck running, I'm not embracing the suck for n…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 04:25 PM
2

I don't want to concern troll or anything, but damn there are too many posts talking about 50 Shades of Grey recently that have to reach to make a connection to TRP. It doesn't really prove anything that a woman will whore herself out for a hot billionaire in a fictional story.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 04:16 PM
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Yeah, most men have the same mentality that 6s and 7s are hot enough to bang, but also not attractive enough to be bitches (that's the line of thought, anyways). Well this leads to them being approached/banged way more than the average girl. Most sluts are 6s and 7s. All this approaching and fucking makes them think they're much better and more deserving than they are, hence the ego and self entitlement. 8s and 9s are actually easier to deal with I think because the average guy is too timid to a…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 03:22 PM
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A potential. She wants the real thing. You can only dangle a carrot in front of a horse for so long before they give up the chase. She needs real commitment. Marriage, kids, moving in to a house together, pick at least 1. And if you don't think you're going to give this girl any of that, do her a favor and cut her loose. It sounds like she's a bit of a unicorn, the least you can do is not waste the twilight years of her fertile and beautiful youth if you can't give her what she needs.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 09:37 AM
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I move on normally if I don't feel an attraction within a couple hours of meeting them (or they don't feel one to me). It's amazing how a date with one girl can go poorly because of lack of mutual attraction, then a date with another goes perfectly because we both feel naturally attracted to each other. Don't get stuck in the trap of thinking all women are the same, you need to go through quite a few to find the ones that match well with you. Remember, you cannot negotiate atttraction.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 03:01 AM
1

I talk with my hands a lot, and overall I'm very animated when I speak. I naturally extend this to touching the other person to emphasize a point or to get their attention. They tend to be very receptive to this type of kino because it establishes me as a touchy kind of person ahead of time so they just keep going along with it as I escalate because they already expect the touching. Try doing that if you do not like waiting for the right opportunity.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 02:57 AM
2

I think dread game is more effective the greater the difference in SMV. Age does have something to do with this. Older men will generally have higher SMV as they grow older, while older women will have lower SMV. So if you look purely on age, it is easier to dread game if your target is an older woman and you are an older man. However, a host of other things play into SMV of course, so you cannot look simply at age. Financial position, status, and fitness all play heavily into how effective drea…
/r/askTRP12/02/15 02:51 AM
2

It's true that you can overwork yourself lifting, but overtraining is really only an issue for advanced lifters (who require very long lifting cycles with built in recovery times designed to gain 5lbs on a lift over months of training), or novice lifters who rigorously follow a more advanced lifting routine (most novices don't even have the mental fortitude or work ethic to do this right off the bat though)
/r/askTRP12/02/15 02:34 AM
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Verne Troyer Your excuse is invalid
/r/askTRP11/02/15 08:28 PM
4

Profile was definitely the beta bux seeking, approaching the wall, kid in tow, female. He said this about who he attracted, actually
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 02:18 PM
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They don't need to actually help OP if he confronts his brother, they just need to be there to provide social pressure and make him take it seriously. OP's brother won't be able to blow him off when confronted publicly.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 02:07 PM
3

Just go for it man, what are you waiting for? You should never have to be asked to be dominant, it takes away a lot of the fun
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 12:17 AM
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Idk about that, I've met a few hot ones that read the books. In fact I have a current plate that was a big fan, and one ex-plate that liked it too. It plants a lot of seeds in girls heads as far as dominance and submissiveness goes that I can then exploit. Because most other guys are too brainwashed to be able to really take over a dominant role in the bedroom, it makes me special to them and gives my sex that I provide to them value because it's really good, fulfills their fantasies, and they c…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 09:38 PM
1

Only do it for traditional girls though who require you to commit. Never commit to a girl before they ask you to commit to them, it just throws off the natural order of things. It's the equivalent of a girl approaching a guy for sex, we think "Something is wrong for them to be giving away sex like that, what a slut." Most girls think "something is wrong with him to give away commitment before we even have sex, how pathetic."
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 03:36 PM
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It shows as many as 44 percent of female students experienced some form of sexual violence or unwanted sexual touching while attending the university. Yet the CBC News survey shows that over the course of five years, only 10 students reported an assault to the U of O. In 2013, 183 assaults were reported, a 11.5 per cent rise over 2012 and a 69 per cent rise over the number of sexual assaults reported in 2009. If only 10 students reported an assault over 5 years, how did 183 report an assault in …
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 03:32 PM
1

Maybe, but only if you're looking to settle down and the girl is better than you think you have a chance to ever get again. Some traditional girls are like this, and committing would be the only way to get them if that's what you're after
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 03:10 PM
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Friends who are alpha but don't AMOG you are extremely valuable. Always cultivate friendships with these types of people. Cull the negative relationships. Some people here talk about how social proof is just a shortcut, and you should improve your SMV by focusing on you. I say that your social status is a huge part of you and your SMV. It says a lot about you and your social skills to have a big group of alpha friends and people who respect and are loyal to you.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 11:43 PM
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Plate her long and consistently Yes. Every woman you have a relationship with should go through a plate phase. You need to make them work for your commitment. It is THE valuable thing you give away. Simultaneously, you never want to give it all away (marriage and sharing finances). After plating a girl for at least a few months you can then make decisions to pursue something more than plating. Normally, I find girls will start discussing their sexual history all on their own eventually. You prob…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 11:24 PM
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It's really funny how TRP is the commonly demonized subreddit here, SRS is not really known that well. Head to TRP and you find a lot of rationally thought out, albeit not politically correct, discourse. Lots of thought and effort going into most of the posts. Head over to SRS, straight verbal diarrhea. I suppose it's a good thing though, if they weren't retards then they'd have taken over all of reddit by now.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 10:55 PM
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Yeah, the casual sex is easy, but fuck me if I'm going to listen to the bullshit that spews from their mouths. I screen feminists, heavily. I don't like to have anything to do with them.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 10:45 PM
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Some people just can't control themselves. I tell this to people who are recovering alcoholics that think alcohol is evil (you know, born again Christian types), "You may not be able to control yourself. For you, one drink is too many and a thousand is not enough. For me, kicking back with some friends and a couple glasses of beer is not a big deal." I think a similar thought applies here. Moderation is key. If you can't control yourself enough to stay at moderate levels, fine, don't do it at al…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 10:38 PM
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There must be a name for this. Psych Intro Smartass Syndrome? PISS off!
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 10:33 PM
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Bro, do you really think women are attracted to those juicers? Women like lean muscular men, sure, but anything close to those guys and they start thinking you look like a freak. Relevant video. When you watch that, consider that to most women Dom (the guy speaking) is pretty close to perfectly muscular. Not freaky, but decently muscular and looks strong. No girl wants to date someone who looks like Ronnie Coleman. Anyways, that guy you say is truly ugly, isn't. He could spend 2 months in the gy…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 03:39 AM
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What's wrong is that you're subjecting someone to a life of misery knowing even your own parents didn't want you AND fucked up from down syndrome. You're pushing that kid into a system strained for resources already. Those resources are now going to be taxed even more to provide for this downs baby. All this done so that you can feel better about yourself.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 12:27 AM
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People make decisions like that so that they can feel better about themselves. It's really fucked up that someone would put another person through hell just because feeeeeelllsss, but hey that's how the feminine mind works (note I did not say female, there are many men who think that way too, disgustingly)
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 12:10 AM
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It's funny you say that, because I discussed abortion/pregnancy with a plate today, and I brought this very subject up and she said "I agree with you that I'd rather bring healthy children into this world than someone with a condition like that." She then said that she's always believed that but would never have expressed it because of how everyone else would probably have reacted. So where's this magical unicorn ranch?
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 12:07 AM
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Just about anyone with a deficiency tries to compensate for it in other ways. The short guy packs on muscle. The guy with a small dick gets good with his tongue. The girl with an ugly face uses a lot of makeup. Does this mean that, because these deficiencies inspired these people to improve themselves that they're a positive thing. Fuck no. It would still be better to be tall, big dicked, and good looking. That's why shorter people are less successful in their careers and with women, small dicke…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 08:35 PM
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This is kind of hamstering though. All else being equal, the taller man will obviously come out on top in a comparison of SMV, and there are plenty of tall men who lift and have good work ethic
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 08:08 PM
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This guy is being downvoted but it's pretty true. When you work hard for something, your brain will trick you into thinking it's valuable. It's a bad feedback loop to get stuck in that causes you to waste a lot of your time on useless pursuits because you get good feelings off the hard work, not the rewards (this type of motivation is a good thing in moderate amounts, but as with most things is toxic in excess)
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 07:31 PM
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I'll say it again, MGTOW is not a base to build from it is a way to break plateaus
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 07:27 PM
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I went to a school that had a lot of autistic and down syndrome kids from around the area because of a special program, so I spent more time than most around them. Those kids are tormented. They are socially separated from the majority, and anytime they're included they're obviously being pandered to. People, even people with down syndrome, don't enjoy being pandered to. It feels empty. Also, the temper tantrums these kids threw were crazy. It really showed how much pent up anger and rage they h…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 07:09 PM
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I don't necessarily think abortion is without evil, but a lot of people out there who say they would never abort a down syndrome baby would probably change their mind if they were actually in the position to make the decision. Even if you do have the child, it'll be a massive drain on your resources, so much so that you could probably have 3 other healthy kids for the same time/effort it would take to raise one with down syndrome. I'd rather bring 3 healthy and happy kids into this world than on…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 06:16 PM
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It is on uplifting news, which is weird to me because I found it enraging, not uplifting at all
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 06:12 PM
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I think some people who are in the middle of an LTR when they find TRP wreck their relationship because the woman freaks out over the power shift and starts shit testing like crazy. The man, being a new RPer, crumbles under the shit tests due to inexperience, and the relationship goes straight to hell shortly after.
/r/askTRP06/02/15 09:09 AM
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I think fraternities can be useful to get easy pussy and a lot of male friends. I also think that it is a crutch, like buying tthe benefits of being alpha without the need to actually be alpha. I'd say that if you have the drive to succeed on your own sexually and socially, do that. If not (especially if you're a beta bitch), then being in a fraternity will probably be good for you
/r/askTRP06/02/15 08:55 AM
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Yeah, you really can't create inherent value, I missed that point when I wrote that.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 02:37 AM
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It's funny how people say India is one of those places that feminism hasn't ruined yet, but even though that is mostly true, India is dominated by betas and the women who exploit them. It's fucked too, but in a different way
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 08:52 PM
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I wish this was true, but those feminists are having lots of casual sex because they want to prove they can act like a man
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 08:09 PM
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For real. When I read some of the shit that feminists post about this, all I can think is that they must have some of the most boring, emotionless, deprived of passion sex ever.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 06:17 PM
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Answer: 200mg. That's one pill, but most people do recommend taking 100mg the first couple times to see how it affects you. I should also mention that this person often has adverse responses to drugs, so take what happened to him with a grain of salt. In general I believe modafinil is far safer than, say, an amphetamine, though more dangerous than a basic nootropic like piracetam (but piracetam is never going to give you anywhere close to the same productivity boost you'd experience with modafin…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 05:13 AM
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The pussy pass It used to upset me, now I recognize that it is a crutch that impairs their development. I, without a pussy pass, was forced to create inherent value, I was not given it like a woman.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 03:10 AM
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Your post comes off as a bit alarmist. No, we're not going to be treated like jews during the holocaust. However, I am pretty disappointed at how casually lines like these are thrown around and how feminists are encouraged to be proud of their misandry
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 03:06 AM
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It's hilarious to me that you say nootropics should be avoided because of negative side effects and then recommend using testosterone, which has numerous documented side effects ranging from acne to mood swings to shutting down natural test production to infertility. It's not exactly a safe alternative, whereas most nootropics have very few severe side effects
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 09:01 PM
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He developed a nerve entrapment syndrome (like carpal tunnel), as well as back pain. His personality suffered as well, he became impatient and hot tempered. I don't know the dosage
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 08:19 PM
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If you took over a gram of phenibut, you should definitely have felt something. 1.5g is a level that would fuck a lot of people up and make it hard to function normally. Exception: If you've previously abused Xanax, you may have deadened your GABA receptors and would need more than the average (I've heard of those guys taking 5g doses)
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 05:22 PM
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Phenibut is pretty great. If you're looking for something anxiolytic (anti anxiety) it's one of the best. Makes people who are on it quite charismatic, with none of the cloudiness or other side effects of alcohol, and it also lasts a long time (~24 hours). A couple of my friends call it the "pick up drug" because of how useful it is at helping them pick up girls. Only take it two times or so a week (horrible withdrawals, huge potential for tolerance), start at a dosage of 500mg. Be aware that yo…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 05:20 PM
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+1 for the funny visual Maybe she's riding a sybian?
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 10:10 PM
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When doing approaches I like to keep this in mind. If a girl doesn't want what I'm offering, then she's probably not offering anything I want in return anyways. Hell, I screen girls nowadays more than the girls screen me. A line to internalize for better abundance mentality, "Bitch I don't need to put up with your shit, I have better options"
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 06:29 PM
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I suppose if it's possible to do it, someone does it. That's simply the reality of being on a planet with billions of people, there are people in just about every possible niche. To answer your specific question, yes there are people who openly manipulate others and attempt to control social situations, but often their overall power is limited because other people know how they are so they never give that person influence over their lives. People are always more willing to give you power and inf…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 06:14 PM
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Prior art is a term used to describe previous work in a specific area. I'm using it here in the sense that other authors have already written and agreed on definitions for these terms. You are correct that there do exist other copies of this on the internet, but the convention that we accept here is basically alpha - leader, beta - middle 60%, omega - disgusting fat nneckbeards. Sigma would be considered dark triad if anything, but those types of people who are truly socially masterful and Macch…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 05:02 PM
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That's a good attitude to take towards it, whatever I'll learn my lesson and do better next time. This whole thing's just a learning process anyways
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 04:58 PM
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You're right. As well, even those without options many times will not want a fat chick. I've seen fat slobs of guys who don't have much going for them be completely indifferent to girls that are similar to them. Beggars that want to be able to choose. Then they cry "Why don't any girls (the hot ones, they mean) like me for my intelligence and wit?" This idea of hot girls liking disgusting guys just for their personality is similarly fallacious to the above argument
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 04:52 PM
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I'm also questioning where these are sourced from, nearly every more extensive definition than alpha/beta defines these terms differently than they are here
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 06:52 AM
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Bro, don't post definitions like this without even studying prior art, omegas are widely considered to be even farther down the ladder than betas. You can't just make up new definitions on a whim
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 06:51 AM
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I think some people here get so caught up in AWALT and other TRP banter that they forget basic PUA stuff like comfort, and that girls do differ from each other in what they'll positively respond to
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 05:50 AM
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The proportion of the female population that is obese is quite large The proportion of men that like those women is quite small So, it's not really an argument at all to say "Well some guys like obese girls so you're going to get a guy while you're 50 lbs overweight."
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 02:06 AM
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Guys take much more naturally to shooting than women, you'd know that with much experience teaching people how to shoot on a range Less anecdotally, here's an excerpt from this article on the gender gap in shooting What was very interesting to me is that Rogers with her High Lady finish….ended up at 66th place overall when compared to the match winner, Eric Grauffel, shooting just 69% of his score. When I saw the results, I got to thinking about the huge gender gap in practical shooting. Gymnast…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 07:25 PM
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We are both in med school, so I consider her a prime candidate for a LTR because financially we will both be set. Hypergamy doesn't work out in your favor here. You're simply on her level, not above it which is what she wants. Besides, a relationship is not a business proposition, it should be about happiness and fulfillment not about the need to both work hard to buy things you don't need. As far as the things you did, I definitely think getting on Tinder was stupid. Why, if you're in a committ…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 10:20 PM
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Abundance mentality to not care about the rejection Alpha widowing, in reference to the plate that's hitting me up again And then just some basic PUA stuff, which I guess is not exactly the same thing as TRP but I like the vibe here better than seddit normally. Maybe this does seem basic and regular, but for someone who was not getting this shit a few months ago it's a lot of self improvement, which also a big part of TRP
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 06:00 PM
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White words in a big black background, it overlaps so I can't read the first couple words of the title.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 03:46 PM
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I think the biggest issue is that you're afraid to fail. If you don't know how much kino a girl will respond to positively, keep going until you find that boundary. Only after passing that line a number of times will you be able to sense where that line lies and how her body language corresponds to how far she'll let you go. In the future when you have a coffee date or similar, keep it moving. Move it to another venue, take a walk, something, don't stay at the coffee shop for more than an hour t…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 03:39 PM
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What is going on with your title formatting? I think they're big fish in a small pond. If I was who I am now in high school I would've dominated. Wait a couple years and you'll look back and laugh at even the cool kids for their awkwardness
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 03:12 PM
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Good advice, you're especially correct that I was not in a mindset of abundance. Well thankfully that changed, I made a new plate over the weekend, and my long term plate I mentioned in my post broke up with her guy because he was too beta, so in 2 days I've shot from 1 unreliable plate to 3. Progress, lol
/r/askTRP01/02/15 01:27 PM
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I'm not sure if your comment applies to mine, did you respond to the correct person?
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 06:26 PM
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By converting a lot of RP logic into emotions. You have to think a bit like a woman in order to convince her of something of this magnitude. Plus you have to start very slowly. Do not criticize the woman, she'll take it personally and shut down. Do not talk until you've exhausted her attention span, you should leave her wanting more. Appeal to her need to be socially accepted and loved, rather than a desire to be successful and do what's right. It all boils down to "What does a woman really want…
/r/askTRP30/01/15 06:23 PM
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Yeah, that's basically what I meant, that because it's about luck to increase your chances of winning you just have to increase the number of times you play. There are many guys constantly fawning over young beautiful women, especially because the male dating pool extends from 18-50 while the female pool is from 18-30 or so. However, there's not that many alphas in that group of men, so at least for me I don't worry about competition that much because I'm not in the same class as most of the oth…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 05:17 PM
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I managed to convince 1 to go RP (only one I tried it on, it's not good to talk about TRP very much) but she had major daddy issues and I cut her loose. It's possible, but I am going to wait to write a guide until I've done it a few more times
/r/askTRP30/01/15 04:43 PM
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A consent contract that she signed under duress! You raped her! Hamster translation: "We had sex but my boyfriend found out, and now I regret it, and it'd be really convenient if I just claimed that he raped me instead of getting socially ostracized and my boyfriend breaking up with me."
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 07:31 AM
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It is incredibly sad. You are correct, few women pass a cost-benefit analysis. In London, though I have never visited I expect that feminism runs rampant and there is very little influence of religion. Where I live feminism is somewhat less influential and religion is much more common, so the women here are a bit less broken. To answer your question, I'd say 95% are not even worthy of my association, and <1% bring anything valuable to the table other than pussy. But that's still a decent amount …
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 04:18 AM
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When your hamster squats 600 and cycles tren it's easy to convince yourself of some made up bullshit and then use your "faith in the false truth" to persuasively bullshit others the same thing you're bullshitting yourself with. The "majestic feminine hamster" goes blast and cruise, it doesn't cycle. That thing spins as fast as it needs to until it burns itself out. To be an effective liar, you need to be good at lying to yourself. Women are, as a coping mechanism and manipulative mechanism, on a…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 11:29 PM
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This is something many men struggle with: judging women according to standards set for men. Loyalty is not a feminine trait. Trust is not a feminine trait. Honesty is not a feminine trait. Yet many men expect it out of women because they personally believe in those attributes, and in return they are disappointed over and over and over. I've learned to expect a woman to act like one, not like a man, and that was one of the biggest steps towards full acceptance of TRP for me. It's given me a bit o…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 11:06 PM
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I think it's important to pay attention to what women do AND say. Eventually you start seeing a good connection between the two, and it makes them a lot easier to predict and read.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 08:05 PM
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I also agree that it is fake, but there are seemingly a ton of people who come here, read a couple things, apply some principles (incorrectly), and subsequently fuck something up. To the people out there who are teetering on the edge, either swallow the whole red pill (and go through the 5 stages of acceptance) or go back to being a beta bitch. As it is, you purple pillers on the cusp are just making us look bad.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 07:55 AM
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"Improve thyself and women will come." Who says that? High quality women sure as hell aren't going to approach you, they're too busy getting approached and hit on by multiple men every single day. At the gym Gonna stop you right there, you don't go to the gym to pick up chicks, go to lift and get strong I go to the gym 3 times a week now, am taking a full semester in college, work full time, have a side business selling on amazon and am a reservist. So far though, either it's against policy to d…
/r/askTRP29/01/15 07:00 AM
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Lifting helps a lot. So does getting some exposure to the sun. Avoid electronic devices before going to bed, and if that's not an option use something like flux (makes your screen less blue). Sometimes even when you do that you'll have a night where you're anxious or can't get your mind off something, and in those situations taking melatonin or diphenhydramine can help a lot.
/r/askTRP29/01/15 06:52 AM
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Oh for sure, and it's not a 100% reciprocation rate either obviously. A lot of girls dream of getting a guy to settle down with them and secretly they hope for a committed relationship and marriage, so they definitely fall in love and say "I love you" all the time.
/r/askTRP29/01/15 05:45 AM
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Sometimes these issues are because your game is not good. Certainly, you could work on your ability to escalate. However, many girls are just kind of emotionally damaged and incapable of intimacy in the way that you desire in a sexual relationship, and that's quite possibly the case here. Your job is not to fix people. If this is the case, next her and find someone who fits what you want a bit better
/r/askTRP29/01/15 05:20 AM
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Sure, not all of them, but it's not like I can't love multiple people. I suppose it's not standard for RPers, but I find that the aspect of love makes the relationships and sex so much more enjoyable, even if it does result in a bit of extra pain.
/r/askTRP29/01/15 05:16 AM
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Definitely AWALT. All women will branch swing, this girl just trusts you and is comfortable enough with you to admit it to your face, rather than doing it in secrecy.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 05:07 AM
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Insight* At 11:30, you could try to do something computer-related, like programming, web design, or photoshop. Or just go out and game chicks. Or just go to sleep and wake up early. Or stay up reading good books (if you want recommendations just ask) Good on you for staying sober, keep at it
/r/askTRP29/01/15 04:30 AM
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There is a lot of good info here, but really guys just read Starting Strength and once you've advanced beyond that read Practical Programming for Strength Training and Beyond 5/3/1. These books will answer all your questions you've ever had on weight lifting
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 03:35 AM
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The Han Solo: "I know" In some cases though, it'd be fine to say "I love you too" as long as she understands that she's not the only one for you and that you're not exclusively bound to her in any way. Having that emotional intimacy can really open up a new side of the relationship and dramatically improve her loyalty, but you have to go about it right (meaning no oneitis, no exclusivity). But you should only go that route after the girl is deeply converted, you've fully explained the nature of …
/r/askTRP29/01/15 03:08 AM
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For real, "I fingered a couple girls in high school, banged a few post wall women, and am currently in an LTR where we argue and fight" is not really something to brag about
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 02:58 AM
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Pick her up at her place, drive her home after sex. Alternatively have her drive to your place, then take your car to go out, and she can drive herself home later
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 08:39 PM
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All you can do is leave a trail of bread crumbs (being suddenly and obviously successful is sufficient) and wait for him to get smacked in the head hard enough by one of his mistakes that he'll actually follow it. What I'm saying is you can't give someone the red pill, they have to take it for themselves. Don't try to force him, just wait until he comes to you and then begin to slowly feed him advice.
/r/askTRP28/01/15 01:28 AM
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Oh wow, I apparently need to learn to read. Fuck that bitch
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 12:33 AM
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What speech? "We're breaking up, you know why, your stuff is getting shipped to your parents. Goodbye" Drop mic, walk away (because you sure as hell didn't break up in your own house, you don't do that), delete all communication without reading. Not that I'd go straight to that in this scenario (which seems like she didn't give him her number or anything, she just didn't tell him off when he was flirting), but for sure that's the way to break up if you have to.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 11:39 PM
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They always try to say that "triggering" is the equivalent of PTSD but no. That's like putting krillin against SS4 Gogeta. Dat analogy tho... SJW's are big whining babies. If I was one, I would be offended by them even claiming to comprehend what having PTSD is like.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 11:25 PM
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Women only respond to social cues and social ostracization Yes! So much truth to this statement. You need to use this to your advantage. Never come at a woman with logic. She only acts on emotion, and the threat of social ostracization will stir up some of the strongest emotions a woman can feel. This is why divorce was so uncommon by women until it became socially accepted. If she knows that what she's doing is unacceptable to her social group, she will rethink everything
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 04:46 PM
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Everyone needs a place, a role in society for them to fulfill. It is a basic need for humans, as social creatures. Many people have no role anymore in society, and I believe that's one of the main causes that mental illnesses are becoming more common. Every year, more and more women get checked into therapy because of stress. Feminism never considered that perhaps the majority of women would've done better in a conservative role, and that they should not be forced into being an independent bread…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 04:39 PM
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Read Starting Strength, especially the section talking about the biomechanics of the squat and the stresses it puts on your knee. You'll learn a lot about this stuff and how it's misguided advice
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 04:32 PM
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Relevant xkcd Just one more shit test to pass until I level up my frame! 2 more plates till I max out abundance mentality!
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 06:16 AM
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Go there and own it, a little dude doing the empty bar with perfect form. The gymbros might laugh, but know that the real fitness enthusiasts and gym rats respect the hell out of you for being smart and taking those first steps instead of getting ahead of yourself.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 06:06 AM
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Past the wall, there are a lot of zombies. Really though, post wall women are shells of what they once were, and deep down they know it. Leads to some kind of crazy behavior in the West, since they don't transition to the respected caretaker role that older women have elsewhere.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 03:13 AM
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Self esteem is talked about all the time on TRP, but it's more often referred to as confidence. For example, not too long ago there was the post on confidence vs ego. The general view is that confidence is very important but it must come from within, not based upon the validation and opinions of other people.
/r/askTRP27/01/15 02:49 AM
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I think you need to read the sticky sidebar and take another multi-vitamin. This should be the standard response for stupid shit people say here sometimes
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 02:25 AM
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chick is freaky though i used redpill to build attraction and get her to follow me around and wait for me How exactly did you use TRP tactics here? Talked to her, got very touchy. Asked for a number she said, not the first time. Ill have to work for it. That's not the way to do it. Take your phone out, bring up your text messaging app, create new message, hand the phone to her and tell her to put her number in. Very few women will refuse when asked this way. sexual tension is gone because 1 i di…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 02:23 AM
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I have to admit, I would've given up on this girl, but you made up for the mistakes in store with some pretty on point game after. To me, this is more of a reminder to keep trying since you've got nothing to lose anyways
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 02:00 AM
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Solid advice. Experience trumps all. You could spend a night dreaming up a game plan, or you could go out and wing it, if you succeed great, if not then the experience you gained is far more valuable than the game plan would've been
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 11:22 PM
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Those are some super beta lyrics man. Listen to real metal
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 07:29 AM
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What are you saying, a high value woman is impossible to plate? Plenty of women who are attractive, have low partner counts, and good personalities will agree happily to plate status as long as you do it right.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 02:27 AM
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As long as it doesn't turn into vaporware. There are a lot of people who have it in their best interest for this not to become a big thing
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 01:55 AM
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Pretty sweet, solid work man
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 09:46 PM
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But how does it disrupt the enzyme? Also, it seems unlikely to trust that one of the millions of swimmers won't be able to penetrate the egg just because an enzyme is disrupted Edit: According to /u/Sebaceous_Sebacious, you need quite a few sperm in order to contribute enough enzyme to penetrate the egg. One or two viable sperm wouldn't be enough for the drug, which seems to be very effective
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 09:28 PM
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A lot of times I'll do something for free for someone once. Free advice, free help fixing their car, free help with their homework, whatever. After that, how they act towards me is a great test of character. If they do something nice for me and try to be thankful in exchange, then I continue to be a good friend. If not then I just stop talking to them. It's a good way to weed out bad people from becoming your "friends"
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 09:25 PM
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A woman uses her pussy pass like a novice DIYer uses a hammer and crescent wrench. She tries to apply it everywhere she can, gets decent results at first, and then wonders why she keeps fucking stuff up, especially important things that require a bit of finesse. Get some better tools bitch
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 09:21 PM
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What is the mechanism for this drug? Hormonal? If it messes with my testosterone or estrogen levels or something like that, then fuck that shit
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 09:05 PM
1

Well the percentage describes how many women do not get pregnant while using that method for a year. So only 4% a year get pregnant. If you have sex more than average or happen to be particularly virile, that number would be higher. I know I'm not really willing to accept even a 4% chance a year. The >99% effectiveness of BC pills is pretty good though, much better than condoms Everything else you said is on point though
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 09:04 PM
8

For real. I've assumed multiple times that someone was not a native English speaker to learn that, in fact, it was their first and only language. Though, I would appreciate if the foreigners would state which country they're in so we could have some context for the events of the FR
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 08:52 PM
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I think you just spent a couple paragraphs describing my post as a cop out without really debating any of the logic that went into it, except to say that it is easy to fuck sluts. Yes, it is, but we don't focus on dirty whores her. If you can consistently bang and plate high value women it says a lot about your social abilities, attractiveness, and personality as a man. Being able to bang high value men basically just means you aren't totally disgustingly ugly and you open your legs easily. Plea…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 07:58 PM
2

Having the same standard and applying it to both genders for a job in the military or firefighting department is not unfair. There is a job, you need to be able to perform its duties, and it doesn't matter what disability or weakness you have. I mean, you're holding everyone to exactly the same standard, how much fairer can you get? Dropping the bar for people who are less qualified than you, that's what's unfair
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 02:20 PM
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Men commit all the time. You might not like that they do it, it may not agree with your own opinion on the matter, but it doesn't change the fact that it happens and that we need to address it. We're realists here, not idealists
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 02:08 PM
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If you have a roommate, a tv in the living room, and one in your bedroom do this: Invite girl over for movie Oh, roommate's using the TV, let's use mine Go to room, lay in bed with her, tell her to come closer and start cuddling Use opportunity to get lots of touching in. You want her to be very comfortable with being physically close with you and being touched Wait for a dull part in the movie then say "Hey" and get her to look at you and pull her in for some kisses Move on top of her, begin ma…
/r/askTRP25/01/15 08:58 AM
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Damn, I never caught that, and I've read all the books and watched all the episodes a couple times... It's not like he really disowned her in the show though. He was trying to save her life, she denied his assistance while pledging loyalty, and then she betrayed him. In either the show or the books, she's a ho. Can't make a ho into a housewife. I was so happy when she got killed off
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 07:40 AM
14

Some guys commit. It's their choice. Not everyone is a plate spinning red piller. The fact is that when guys do commit, and they do, they commit up
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 02:41 AM
7

How dare you forget about pre op transgendered women? They have dicks too, you know? How can you be so insensitive? Fucking cis scum.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 02:08 AM
14

From the dictionary: Double standard: A situation in which two people, groups, etc., are treated very differently from each other in a way that is unfair to one of them It is not a double standard because it is not unfair. How can it be unfair to treat people in accordance with their true selves?
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 12:56 AM
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Thanks. It is simple, but I like to write things for new guys sometimes. I've seen a couple posts and comments here the past few days debating this subject so I'm hoping some of them will read this and come to reason
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 12:49 AM
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Many of them are, many of them aren't. If you do enough approaches and you know where to look you'll find them
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 09:02 PM
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Many prostitutes (the legal ones anyways) are required to use condoms and get tested regularly. Meanwhile, there are a lot of girls out there who take it raw because they're on BC and never get checked for STDs until their pussy starts smelling like rotten fish or oozing pus. If you're just in it for the sex, prostitutes are a pretty good thing
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 08:24 PM
2

You could follow this method, but if you're good enough at sex you can normally get the girl to contribute at least an even share of money to whatever you do together. Remember, a good man in bed is valuable since the guy takes the lead, and you shouldn't give away what has value for free (or even paying to give it away). Simple Sex God Method stuff, but potentially very valuable if you still have the mindset of paying for sex
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 04:25 PM
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No problem dude, don't take me saying you're weird personally (all of us are a bit weird, lol), just work on making this all natural, and next time you write an FR just do it soon after the event so all the details are fresh, and don't forget to format it to make it easy to read
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 04:17 PM
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The way it ended up working out here was higher than hooker prices and 10x more time investment. My favorite nowadays are the girls around 20 who had a good father in their life and come from a middle class background. Split costs, much less crazy, fun to be around, but they're surprisingly rare. I end up throwing away a lot of numbers of girls like the one mentioned by OP because I've realized they're not offering anything worth chasing after
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 04:06 PM
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Bitches be crazy man. Don't forget the hotel room. All in you spent probably $200-300 on this chick, which is a lot for a girl who works at McDonalds. Chicks are always looking for a meal ticket (AWALT), especially poor ones. Just gotta be more vigilant next time and set expectations earlier
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 03:58 PM
1

More details on what exactly you said and what she said in response. Paragraphs with actual conversation Yes, but if English is not your first language then I retract that statement Weed and alcohol is normal. It's not about addiction, I'm just talking about using it as a crutch. Way too many people I know rely on it to approach and close successfully, and those reliances are hard to break unless you do it early. You should be able to game girls effectively completely sober
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 03:53 PM
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Well this is what happens when you pick up chicks working at McDonalds, ha! You were already spending a lot of money to begin with. Lunch, parking ticket, lunch again, hotel room, so she had been set up with the idea that you're financially supporting her. You have to start early with the idea of her contributing financially to doing things otherwise the girl gets the wrong idea like in this FR. If you want to cover food the first time, tell your date to take you out to a movie or dinner some ot…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 03:43 PM
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To be honest you sound a bit weird too. The only advice I could give you is consider cutting back on alcohol and weed, you don't want to rely on those or make them habits especially at such a young age. I couldn't tell you anything more because of the current way the story is written and the level of detail
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 03:29 PM
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I'm pretty sure he means "act naturally" not literally "act yourself." So you're both giving the same advice, just in different words
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 03:19 PM
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I actually realized I misread it and the banquet and party are not separate events. Regardless, why not bring a hot chick and bang her there instead of some girl you're "friends" with? Just go use her for preselection to help get some numbers then later in the night lean her over the bathroom counter
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 07:21 AM
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Wtf? You expect us to believe you're an alpha and all that poorly written shit when you took an unattractive close female friend to this banquet instead of some hot plate?
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 06:11 AM
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You can't handle the truth But for real, you can't just yank someone out of the matrix. Especially women and betas who you cannot argue logically with
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 05:46 AM
2

Thanks man! I actually think it's a bit rough around the edges now, so I'm going to tweak the challenge a bit and try to administer it to some friends, measure their results and post a new report completely focused on the challange and how it turned out for them. Stay tuned
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 03:20 AM
3

A fitting username, post an FR to report on your progress
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 10:29 PM
2

Read Sex God Method, you will be enlightened
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 05:38 PM
3

I like this method: Ask 10 for the time every day. Then ask 10 for the time and for directions to their favorite restaurant. Then expand it to also asking for their name, then also what they're interested in, and by this point you should be comfortable enough that you can number close consistently
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 05:32 PM
1

Right, because some researchers somewhere decided in a controlled environment that cologne is useless? There have been a number of times where I've heard "Mmm, you smell so good, what are you wearing?" or when they smell the sheets or wear my clothes because they "love my scent." Girls have their favorite colognes too, and they notice when I'm wearing those Your unnamed study by the ominous they can keep their results, as far as I care. Wearing good colognes gets results
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 05:29 PM
1

I challenge you to do a serious whole body routine like Texas Method for 6-7 days a week. If you can handle that training volume, you're either superhuman or juicing big time
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 05:24 PM
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For those suffering from approach anxiety: Lifting exhausts your flight/fight response and lowers anxiety you'll experience later in the day. It may help to lift after getting home from work/school then go out and do some approaches Getting outcome indepence and abundance mentality is hugely important. It's amazing how much better you'll feel and perform with those traits
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 04:17 PM
2

It is mostly arbitrary (except for being a good habit to develop for working a 9-5 job), I just didn't want to take the space to say "unless you work a night shift, or if you live in Spain, or ..." If you are not in a situation where waking up early is impossible though, I'd definitely say 8am is the best for someone trying to maximize the use of their time and also just good for mental health and your circadian rhythm. No studies or scientific proof here, just anecdotal and personal experiences…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 06:37 AM
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It does give amazing results, but it depends on how you work out. If you lift super heavy it's easy to overtrain, especially if you already have an active lifestyle. That's why I say 3 times minimum. I find 4 to be a good compromise in many cases
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 03:44 AM
3

It is true that many traits are shared by alphas and betas. Not everything is an alpha trait or a beta trait
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 10:46 PM
1

You're spoiled rich, BP as fuck, and comically materialistic. You come on here spouting endless brand names and other assorted bullshit like we're supposed to care that she bought you a hugo boss suit and that you buy her diamonds. Get a fucking life. You're so obsessed about this girl, but she's obviously not as into you as you are into her. Go find another girl, stop acting like a puppy trying to follow her around and get her approval. While you're gaming some other girls though, consider taki…
/r/askTRP21/01/15 10:26 AM
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Yeah well good luck with that. You won't find a woman where it would not be helpful to have social skills in getting with her. To be honest, I don't know much about Aspergers, but I can sympathize with the lack of social skills because it did not come naturally to me at all. It has only been through immense amounts of practice and effort that I can feel out emotions and conduct myself with some level of grace in social situations. Do not let Aspergers hold you back or define who you are, you can…
/r/askTRP20/01/15 08:44 PM
1

I agree its not 100% my fault, and i can not control her I am just trying to find out what I am doing thats screwed up here These two lines don't make sense with each other. How is it not your fault that she's psycho, yet what you're doing is screwed up?
/r/askTRP20/01/15 08:27 PM
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Change your thinking here. It is not 100% your fault what the girl does. It is not, and will never be, fully in your control to stop her from doing what she wants to do. Yes, you can influence her. Yes, the guy is most important for controlling the direction of the relationship. However you cannot and should not assume full responsibility for the actions and mistakes of your girlfriend. There are many girls (and guys for that matter) who are a bit fucked in the head and no matter what you do, yo…
/r/askTRP20/01/15 07:55 PM
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A paraphrasing of a relevant quote: "Women fall in love with you for who you are, then try to change you into something else. When they succeed, they leave you." Women don't want a beta, they want a strong and stable man. When they try to change you into a beta, they're really just testing how strong and stable you are. They want you to be dominant and not change
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 06:33 PM
1

Meh, don't act like programming is such a hard thing that you cannot pick up on in short order. If you worked diligently for even a couple hours a day, you could gain the necessary skills to create a successful app within a year
/r/askTRP18/01/15 08:09 AM
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76 views posted April 16, 2012, lol that's pretty deep into Youtube. Thanks for giving me a funny video to share
/r/TheRedPill17/01/15 03:00 AM
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Guy in the center has bigger tits than any of the girls, lol Every time TRP is mentioned by blue pillers we gain recruits. Their hate fuels our growth.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/15 02:50 AM
1

Depends on the girl. Normally the higher valued one I'll give her a date and time and tell her to be there. That's the type of girl you need to demonstrate value and aloofness to If lower value, then I ask her what her schedule's like the next couple days. She already knows my SMV > hers, so I get lazy with the value game and just play for fun
/r/askTRP17/01/15 02:46 AM
1

Learn to code. If you have a Mac, download XCode and get to work learning iOS. If not, do Android. Or, if doing mobile doesn't appeal to you, learn web design. These are honestly the best thing you could possibly do with your free time to make money nowadays. The return you can make if you're diligent and/or lucky is crazy
/r/askTRP17/01/15 02:33 AM
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Really since you've already sent "And...?", you cannot now send anything else. Double texting in a situation where you're attempting to wait the girl out and force her to come up with an alternative is a bad idea
/r/askTRP17/01/15 02:30 AM
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I'm perfectly calm. I do not see conversation and companionship as a form of validation. Without it I would be just as confident of my self worth, I simply enjoy it. Nor do I see validation as a bad word, I just don't seek it from random guys who are drinking at a bar to get away from their wives. I have family and close friends who love and care about me, that's the only validation I need
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 07:29 PM
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I enjoy the companionship and conversation of intelligent men. I do not need validation from betas to make me feel like a man
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 04:37 PM
0

If you want an all male space, invite some buddies over for drinks and a game of cards or darts (if you have a girl living with you tell her to go find some girlfriend to hang out with on those nights). Nothing will beat that environment, especially eating around a dinner table in an "all male restaurant" which seems like an emasculating concept itself since you're not comfortable discussing topics freely in public spaces where you should act like you rule anyways
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 12:57 PM
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A lot of these married men who come out and "shoot shit" are just beating their chest for the validation of other men. It's cognitive dissonance, because they want to be manly men and that's how they see themselves, but every day they go home and get nagged and emasculated by their wives. They want to relive their glory days when they were younger, but old and barren women have them by the balls in monogamous relationships. They're hypocrites.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 12:50 PM
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I did mention that as a possibility, actually. Of course, if he's open enough to condone his wife going to orgies, he should be open enough to be understanding with his friend for mentioning it, so it's all the more reason for the poster to tell
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 12:12 PM
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Just don't follow the wrong advice and shit on her foot or something Nasty Boy by Notorious BIG, for anyone living under a rock that never experienced listening to the legend
/r/askTRP16/01/15 05:01 AM
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"Do you mind going Dutch?" Or, the less diplomatic "Sweetheart, if I covered every first date I'd be broke"
/r/askTRP16/01/15 04:52 AM
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Hahahaha! Must be this long to enter. See, men don't need to get all outraged by this because we know it's ridiculous. Similar to how a small dog yaps while the large dog rolls its eyes
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 04:48 AM
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LTR is a lot about leading by example. You're doing good there, it seems. Keep that up, lead the family unit, perhaps apply light dread, and she should fall in line. Never lose your frame in long term game. Do not get emotional, never let her get to you
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 08:23 PM
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If I never got an LTR when I was younger, I would be missing a lot of experiences that made me emotionally stronger and also gave me a chance to actually get good at sex. Sexual proficiency requires sexual experience, which is hard to get a lot of as someone who has a little sex here and a little there. If you get one girlfriend who is willing to bang your brains out and not take things too seriously, it can be a perfectly healthy experience to LTR at an early age (just don't go in with the inte…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 01:25 AM
4

Well if I understand correctly, she didn't cut the balls off too, which produce the hormones which cause arousal. So this guy can be aroused and still have a sex drive yet cannot ever satisfy himself?
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 11:16 PM
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For the sake of your dick, bro, I hope you next her
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 11:06 PM
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Or maybe he's not looking for validation and just wanted a good laugh?
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 11:03 PM
3

It's actually refreshing to have an author who so adamantly refuses to coddle his readers. "I killed them because I wanted to. My story. Mine! It goes how I want it to go!" It makes for very depressing sections in the story, but overall dramatically improves the experience
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 10:50 PM
2

Yeah, nothing about the time your babysitter's hand wandered during a spanking, unless you want to have a million heartfelt conversations about it where you have to explain yourself, and also have her invalidate your opinions/actions because she decides that they're caused by you getting messed up as a child
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 03:27 PM
1

He has video proof. How would he deny it?
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 03:16 PM
2

Says it was anonymous, so there should've been face and voice alteration to make her harder to recognize. She got recognized because of the tattoo. I also think it's quite possible the husband knows (or perhaps even suggested it), some people have crazy kinks that end up defining their lives. I can't imagine willingly sending my wife to something like that though
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 03:14 PM
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I'm not going to act like it's not hard to believe, but it was supposed to be anonymous. She had her face blurred and probably her voice changed too. It's completely possible that whatever birth control she was relying on (if any) failed, it has a habit of that If she would've normally not kept the baby, she may have been less inclined to abort in this scenario since aborting would also mean she has to admit the adultery to the husband. The recording date was not given, the guy dug around and fo…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 03:06 PM
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That's exactly correct. GRRM kills so many of his characters off (and his reader's dreams), hence the username
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 02:59 PM
1

This is a good idea if your girl doesn't respond well to silly remarks. I'll probably use this like "You want me to open up to you? Fine. When I was younger I was scared of needles and my mom had to hold me down at the doctor's office." Stupid, slightly funny story, actually opening up in a way without revealing any real vulnerabilities, especially since what you revealed doesn't really apply to you anymore
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 08:36 AM
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Not an exact explanation, but here you go: An alpha is a leader, a top dog, someone other people look up to. They constitute the top 5-15% of a group The betas are much more numerous, and are generally exploited by the women and the alphas. Maybe 60% of the population are in this group The rest are omegas, who are the bottom of the barrel. They are spineless and born to follow. TRP theory a lot of time neglects their existence and merges their group with the betas, or simply doesn't apply to the…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 08:28 AM
2

The irony is that for any kind of open relationship to work, you have to have great communication and relationship skills on both sides, the same exact skills that were in some way lacking for cheating to occur
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 08:17 AM
1

I did it successfully, but she became a plate because other circumstances meant it was either that or an LDR (a disaster waiting to happen), she didn't cheat. So far it's been pretty successful, but she's a kind of special NAWALT type of girl. I discuss other girls I'm seeing now with her and may do an MFF with her I would most of the time not suggest trying the LTR-->plate demotion though, I think many guys can't handle the lack of exclusivity and many girls wouldn't adjust well to the change i…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 08:11 AM
3

Are you implying men should marry men? 'Don't get married' would suffice, lol
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 07:56 AM
10

That's true. If anything, in regards to cuckoldry, I'm very happy to live in the current age because I can at least genetically verify the child is in fact mine
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 07:53 AM
1

I'll do this and write a field report so you can grade my homework for me
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 07:42 AM
6

This guy probably thought that he was an exception too. Better to accept that horrible shit could happen to you too. Only way to truly prevent a situation like this is to not get married or have kids
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 07:33 AM
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I think it seems that there are more people holding that opinion because the same guy made like 20 comments on this post to that effect I'm of the opinion that most people here on TRP have a pretty good head on their shoulders, despite what TwoX would lead you to believe
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 07:30 AM
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It's the sad reality of having children. Get a DNA test or you may be tricked into raising the child of another man It's really changed the way I look at some families. There's a lot of people out there who look surprisingly nothing like the supposed father
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 05:45 AM
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Read the update that the guy posted and his reasoning for not telling. It's despicable. He's basically just taking the easy way out. When you're a real friend, you do things because you care about your friend, not because they're easy
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 05:37 AM
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Sure, in many cases the woman will say "Who do you trust, me or him? I love you, I wouldn't cheat on you." Many times the man will believe her and they'll stay together But this guy has proof. On video. I've seen that type of situation play out a few times too. Most of the time the man will walk on the girl, especially for participating in a fucking orgy. They're not that stupid
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 04:47 AM
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Might not even be worth mentioning the cheating, especially if you still want sex. If I were you, I'd start focusing on lifting and diet, other girls, and getting my shit together in general while I have the security and super easy sex of the relationship. When you're ready, drop that you don't want commitment and exclusivity anymore, go radio silent for a couple days, then send a very obvious booty call, fuck her, and bam plate
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 07:14 AM
2

How about this? If the accused serves no jail time, 6 months sentence for the false accuser, plus money to cover loss of reputation and damage to the accused's career. After the accused goes to jail, it becomes 1 year plus the term that the accused serves, so in the above case she would serve 5 years. Financial reparations should then be those previously mentioned plus the amount of money that person would've earned at their job while in jail This way, it incentivizes coming forward early while …
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 10:06 PM
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I took to TRP pretty quickly, but my father's a natural alpha who was involved in my life and I'm a fast reader. Also had prior sexual/relationship experience (which is sorely lacking in many new guys, you need that experience to connect the dots between theory and reality) I feel like the minimum length of time to digest and internalize most of the material is 3 months, but if you're a fat virgin raised by a single mom you could expect it to take a few years of hard work before getting to where…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 03:38 PM
1

Their emotions and one person's testimony. It's sickening the way people accused of rape are treated as guilty before proven innocent
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 03:11 PM
2

There's no way to come back from that, reputation-wise, except to go nuclear. Remove all traces you can that it ever happened, then move far away and start a new life, potentially with a name change. Higher restitution would've helped immensely with that
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 03:09 PM
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The guy who was falsely thrown in jail said he didn't want her to spend any time in jail, just wanted restitution. That baffles me. How you would you not be angry after serving four years in prison for something you didn't commit? White knighting? Feminist brainwashing? Those betas sure can hamster
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 01:39 AM
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I agree. The strawman fallacy is real, but too often it's brought up when someone makes a perfectly valid generalization, which is a useful thing to do because it is humanly impossible to individually analyze every single person we come across. Look up the Monkeysphere, it's an interesting concept of the limit of people we can view in our lives as dynamic characters who have aspirations, emotions, personal lives, etc. Ever wonder why you never thought about your garbage man's relationship with h…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 11:10 PM
2

It only seems that way because the exceptions are brought to your attention courtesy of mass media. In reality, the concept of gender roles is still overwhelmingly prevalent and enforced by biology, and will continue in a similar fashion for the foreseeable future
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 11:01 PM
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From the link Women lie about rape to explain why they are looking at porn When Elizabeth Coast’s mother discovered her looking at porn on the internet, Coast explained that her actions were the result of sexual abuse she had experienced at the hand of a neighbor. Coast testified that when her neighbor was 14, and she was 10, he had sexually molested her. Her testimony was compelling enough to secure the man’s conviction. He was sentenced to seven years and served four of those until Coast’s gui…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 10:30 PM
3

"I have a boyfriend" is not an ultimate shit test, it's pretty basic. If you meet a girl on Tinder, it's basically guaranteed she's looking for dick. Don't let it faze you, keep up the game like normal
/r/askTRP10/01/15 05:07 PM
1

Great comment man, I never thought of it that way
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 03:54 PM
1

Good advice. Often when you put out your hand to help another, you are most vulnerable to them. An incredible number of people know no loyalty, no sense of "wow you just helped me, I really owe you for this." Nothing. You stick your neck out for them, and they'll go for the jugular. Characteristics of loyalty and obligation, as well as trustworthiness, should be proven in any man before you risk yourself for their cause
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 05:30 AM
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As another commenter posted, because feminists see some example on the news of a 50 year old woman with a healthy kid, they all think they can do it too. Well maybe you can, but the odds are stacked against you, and guess what you're not a special case. Feminists (and liberals in general) like to focus on the story of the happy 50 year old mom, while the droves of kids with autism and other birth defects, as well as all the pitiful and sad women who wish they could bear children, go right under …
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 05:22 AM
1

Broscience gtfo, there is no such thing as toning
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 04:46 AM
2

Possibilities: a) feminist mom, b) born out of wedlock in a broken home, or c) both of the above
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 12:32 AM
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History in porn and yet you get no BJs from her? WTF!? I'd drop a woman in a heartbeat if she didn't do anything for me that she had previously done with another guy, let alone if she aas a pornstar but wouldn't even blow me
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 12:27 AM
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Bro... You are hamstering hard. Anyways, you should post in /r/asktrp if you want advice. But be prepared for brutality with a post like that Edit: Okay, decided to give some advice. She wants the D. Don't be a fucking pussy, just go give it to her. You might be getting limp dicked cause it's your first time. I've taken a few V cards, and honestly, just use lube and shove it in. If you try to do it really slow and gentle you'll psych yourself out and go limp. However, you may be chasing somethin…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 09:20 AM
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Short answer: first cycle just do test. Don't use as an easy way out though, only if you've done a shit ton of good work already and progress has halted Go to /r/steroids, it's a good community
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 09:11 AM
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Yes, peer pressure with the eyes of disapproval ಠ_ಠ Srs though, you need to work out
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 08:52 AM
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It's not even just that. They rip a quarter of the goddamn time. Even when used correctly they are way less effective than the pill. I absolutely do not trust condoms alone for birth control, and would only really use them to protect from STDs or as a backup
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 08:30 AM
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I agree with you, but I feel like we need to discuss marriage for the same reason as sex ed classes need to discuss abstinence. Yes, it would be better if you didn't do it. Yes, it would be easier to explain if we could say "Just don't do it, that simple." However, there are lots of people who are going to do it no matter what advice we give them, so we might as well discuss doing it in the best and safest way possible
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 08:16 AM
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The Manipulated Man? Looks pretty cool, adding it to the list
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 08:12 AM
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I would never discuss the number of sexual partners I had, and if it was brought up like in the article "So, what's your magic number?" I would blow them off or make a joke. Better to appear mysterious.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 11:41 PM
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And then there are girls who don't know what the fuck they want, which is an overlapping demographic with the ones that like virgins
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 11:32 PM
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RP answer: TRP is amoral and therefore does not concern itself with hurt feelings Personal answer: Even though you might hurt his feelings, it may be better to fuck that girl he's chasing because maybe it'll make him man up and stop being such a pussy. He isn't going to learn while being coddled by his friends
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 09:03 PM
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/r/RedPillCoders Let's do this guys
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 08:43 PM
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How about just don't get married?
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 07:24 PM
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I think it's just that the topics of this sub are kind of reactionary, which attracts racists who tend to be reactionary as well
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 07:03 PM
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Well if he keeps the friend or pursues the girl, he gets pussy (or I suppose in the case of the guy, a pussy) I agree with what you're saying, but why should he suffer because his BP friend can't get girls? Every one that he goes after, he should just cross off his list? TRP is amoral
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 03:35 PM
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I didn't say that a boy would be at the same level as the father, he shouldn't. The mother should be above every single one of her children on the pecking order and should be supported in holding that position by the father. This does have some RP elements to it, but it's really just basic parenting that I was posting about with no real relation to TRP
/r/askTRP06/01/15 05:28 AM
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I am going to use the raising and care of dogs as allegory. If you have a dog, and you are clearly dominant over him, and you live alone, then he will listen to you and everything will work out great. However, what if you are living in a family and your dog views your wife or children as being less dominant than he his. He will act out until he is put in his place in the proper hierarchy, father -> mother -> children -> dog. This requires the effort of all. If you do all the feeding, break it up…
/r/askTRP05/01/15 07:40 PM
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No, in the AF/BB theory we need betas for society to continue functioning normally. Suppose 60% of children are fathered by alphas, 40% by betas, but only 10% of the population is alpha. If those 60% of children with alpha fathers all turned into alphas themselves, society would change drastically. Whether or not it would be a good thing for there to be more alphas in society is questionable. I prefer to have enough to have some voting power and protect our rights/values, but not enough to where…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 07:26 PM
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Negging is a PUA thing, not RP. BP dudes can be happy and live successful lives, it happens all the time. However, the odds are generally stacked against them in the modern world, and here we focus on the rule not the exception
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 07:11 PM
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Where did I say that attractive men who put pussy on a pedestal don't get laid? Never have I made the claim that BP men cannot be successful sexually or in relationships. If you read the article you'd see that he did these approaches with a full head of hair and that he was not horribly unattractive. It was mostly the shortness. 3-4" shoe lifts might help a bit I guess, but I don't think his height is his only problem. Perhaps saying that his number one problem is "putting pussy on a pedestal" w…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 07:10 PM
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Collection's are cool up to a point, when each item is useful and fulfills purposes that others can't. I could easily imagine a collection of 10 or so guns, cars, or similar, where each one meets those criteria. Where collections go wrong is when you have so many you can't even appreciate each single one for its unique characteristics, let alone use them all on even a semi regular basis. For sure though, hunting is a better hobby than gun collecting, but if a hunter wants to have a small collect…
/r/askTRP05/01/15 06:57 PM
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Did this not get posted like 2 days ago?
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 09:07 AM
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It's great advice for most to constantly approach women so that you improve your game. However, there must be a point when you take a step back and say "Something is not working here," reassess, and think about your goals in life As far as I see it, 3 main problems. 1) Putting pussy on a pedestal, 2) Bad job/social status/finances, 3) Unattractive. If he fixed 2 it would make up for 3 at least, but he needs to take the pussy off the pedestal to really get anywhere
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 08:40 AM
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"Gymnastics" If you forget the rings, pommel horse, parallel bars, and high bar.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 01:05 AM
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I switched out of Mechanical Engineering to Computer Science. I would not double major, there are too few overlapping courses (though you could double major if you wanted to do EE and CS). CS wins big time, to me Pros of CS over Engineering Better solo opportunities Booming industry Damn near every company uses computers nowadays Instant "real" world results. Engineering? A very slow process to really do anything Cons You have to read other people's code, a miserable activity CS attracts even le…
/r/askTRP04/01/15 11:45 PM
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Part of being alpha is not giving a fuck. What's great about people with hobbies is the passion they have for them, not necessarily the hobby itself. If you have something you're passionate about, why hide it?
/r/askTRP04/01/15 09:33 PM
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That's my setup, on top of a diy olympic platform. Got everything I needed on craigslist for $400 and from there have spent a little here, a little there getting it exactly how I want it Home gym master race. If you have the space, you'll make up the cost of the equipment in less than a year, considering gym fees, gas/vehicle wear, and all the time you spend going there and waiting for Mr Biceps to finish his curls in the squat rack so you can, you know, do real exercises
/r/askTRP04/01/15 09:29 PM
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Go see a doctor. You fit some of the profile for being low T, but there are plenty of young skinny guys who can't grow a beard out there and I'm sure not all of them need steroids. Only your doctor will be able to make that decision
/r/askTRP04/01/15 07:26 PM
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I don't know for sure. You never can trust 100%, but she's proven herself to be relatively trustworthy, and that's just about the best you can get
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 02:23 AM
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Lol, thanks. I said "No" and "Stop that" a few times (non-seriously) and she kept on going. By feminist definitions, I was sexually assaulted, hahaha
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 12:44 AM
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I can see where my story comes off like that, and I try not to unless I absolutely have to. I obviously cannot communicate every nuance of body language, tone of voice, and such in a post like this without being horribly excessive in length, but trust me when I say that what I did seemed like the right strategy to adopt at the time and it ended up working out really well. Even some of the worst methods have their use in limited situations
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 06:43 PM
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Silence is a tool and a weapon, it's not pouting. Do you have some kind of constructive comment to make?
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 06:31 PM
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I'm not bragging, that's not the point of a field report. Just had a first hand experience that I thought some people could benefit from me sharing I do not consider asking nicely, checking to see if someone was serious about not having sex, then telling them I'm not putting up with their bullshit to be me "having to beg and whine for sex." You can view it that way of you wish, but I'm not about to throw a tantrum any time someone says no, I'm not a child. 3 short statements out of my mouth to g…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 03:26 PM
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I'm going to send you a PM. Our situations are coincidentally very similar, just a couple years apart
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 02:29 PM
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Thanks! I'm a big fan of A Song of Ice and Fire. LTR -> Plate: She was moving to another town 4 hours away, but one that I visit with decent frequency since my parents already live there. I told her that if she moved away I would be unwilling to pursue a long distance relationship with her, which she understood. I then told her that I still wanted to have sex with her and be able to give support for each other if we need it. At the beginning (before we actually moved away from each other) I fail…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 02:21 PM
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Probing to see if she was serious about not wanting it. I may have had sex with her a bunch of times before, but I was and am still willing to walk away from sex if I need to. 1/2 relationship maintenance, 1/2 out of respect for the girl, plus I feel like women can use sex less as a leverage point when I'm truly willing to walk away from it Also, she (and I, for that matter) was still sick at the time from a flu, so I didn't want her barfing over me if her stomach was really upset
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 01:59 PM
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Never ever think you're too late. Especially 12th grade. You're starting young, man! Practice, practice, practice. High school is great for learning some game basics, as well as giving you lots of time to lift and learn how to be self sufficient. Then you have a head start on everyone when you get into college (or trade school, which I recommend if college is not an option or if you'd simply like to make 2x the money of everyone with a liberal arts degree in half the time)
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 07:52 AM
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Overstimulation of the clit. Similar to how a man can apply too much pressure when masturbating, so can a woman, and in doing so she far exceeds the clitoral stimulation that she would experience in normal sex. This sets up her brain to expect this same level of stimulation to orgasm in the future, which is not provided by regular PIV sex Apparently I got the terminology correct. See death schlick
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 07:01 AM
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Nah, I think I'll stay off WoW for now. Even if you are a troll, it's kind of funny seeing some people take the bait and treat you like you're serious
/r/askTRP02/01/15 06:20 AM
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Trinity uploading data to Neo's brain I know game. Show me.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 05:58 AM
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The lesson is that feminists are all for women having the choice to do what they want with their own body, with who they want, until it comes to improving your position in life which is unacceptable. Feminism is so illogical sometimes it hurts my brain
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 05:51 AM
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"Now run along and find a plate to play with..."
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 05:38 AM
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They weren't thinking about it logically. They rejected him because he didn't connect emotionally and make them FEEEEL good Most of the time with women, arguing on logical grounds alone is just stupid. They drag you down to their level (emotional) and beat you over the head. This statement is more true the more women in the group, exponentially so. With that guy in the room, a horde of women, and an emasculated white knight running the show, that guy had 0 chance, absolutely none
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 05:23 AM
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I would argue that most red pillers are like nerds socially. At first, they are fairly unsuccessful, then strive to improve using a scientific method and eventually emerge at the top (maybe 5%, maybe 20%, depending on drive and potential) Meanwhile, the people who are natural 20% get content and never have to learn drive, or how to improve themselves. They got their slice of cake too easily, and they get caught in a slow burn out. Natural 5% guys, they're a bit different, but it can still happen…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 04:52 AM
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This. It's not about self improvement vs sexual strategy. Using game to get more/better sex is self improvement. Getting more pussy than you did is self improvement. Lifting is self improvement. Not getting divorce raped is self improvement. Seeing the world as it truly operates is self improvement
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 04:38 AM
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"Hulk hate talk. Hulk want smash." With a hip thrust That's fucking hilarious, should've filmed it somehow and put it on youtube
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 04:11 AM
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Bro, this isn't even my final form. Btw, pretty sure the guy you're talking to is trolling you. New user and posted this piece of bullshit
/r/askTRP01/01/15 03:28 PM
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Sounds a little passive aggressive. Besides, unless you are a blue piller, shit like this should not dissapoint you
/r/askTRP01/01/15 03:23 PM
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Monk mode is best to help you break plateaus. It allows you to really focus on yourself and give you time to do all the self improvement you could want. What it is not good for is if you're just starting out. Sure, feel free to take a week or two to start lifting, eating healthy, and to improve your looks a bit before you start trying to game and whatever, but don't go monk mode. Why? Well, you haven't tested yourself yet. How do you know what you're deficient in? Answer: you don't know what you…
/r/askTRP01/01/15 03:18 PM
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To an extent, I think porn can be good because it makes you comfortable with the idea of sex and gives you a lot of positions and acts to try out and see if you like them. Beyond that, it's horrible for you and will fuck your brain up. To OP, if you're having a hard time getting aroused with actual girls, cut out the porn. I do not think going 100% nofap is a good idea (though it's probably better than the alternative if you're an all or nothing kind of guy). I think a couple times a week will n…
/r/askTRP01/01/15 03:05 PM
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she says shes on her period and if I'm cool with that. Me being drunk virgin says yeah, she does minimal foreplay I'm barely hard. Most people act like only girls need foreplay. That's simply untrue, especially for a virgin. Next time get a blowjob for a little before you start having sex, it'll give you a little bit of time to gather your senses and get used to a sexual situation. Also, turn down a girl for now if she's on her period. You can earn your bloody wings later, but it'll be a little …
/r/askTRP01/01/15 02:56 PM
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Fantastic analysis. Probably 80% of people who go to college are just wasting time and money, but women have it particularly bad. Waste the most attractive years of your life riding the CC and actually lowering your value, sounds like a great decision. The dark secret of feminism is that it doesn't just hurt men, it hurts women too
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 10:25 PM
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TRP is a toolset, a method. What you do with it is up to you. That's what makes it beautiful. It is amoral. It gives you a set of guidelines but still allows you to choose your own path
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 07:48 PM
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Where are you from that cops make that much?
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 06:05 PM
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Well, consider supply and demand. It may seem like men are not asking for much, but how many women are there in the modern world who fit all those characteristics and are also willing to settle down? My point by saying that is that it also leads to disappointment for a majority of men, and part of TRP is recognizing that we shouldn't invest too much in the vast majority of modern women for fear of getting burned emotionally and financially
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 01:55 PM
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Those things you preach against the loudest are often the same things you struggle with the most internally
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 06:09 AM
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Both sexes do not equally desire a high level profession. In fact, men do not really care about the woman's career. They mostly care about the female's attractiveness, caretaking abilities, and youth. Women, on the other hand, desire attractiveness, high social position, money, and strength/power
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 05:26 AM
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Oh, now I see. My mistake bro
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 01:27 AM
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Damn, you've got a bright future ahead of you if you're doing this well for your first time Did you post this to the main /r/theredpill?
/r/askTRP30/12/14 01:25 AM
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Well, I was responding to both of the comments you had made, since you mentioned false rape accusations earlier. Apologies if it doesn't make too much sense, I'm sick and slightly hungover
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 10:39 PM
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I never mentioned rape here, it's a completely different subject. Yes, girls who falsely claim rape are steaming pieces of shit. Not every girl that acts according to self interest falsely claims rape but every girl out there acts according to her reptile brain, which is what I was discussing here. Damn, TRP, I shouldn't have to be making this clarification Also, see my edit to my original comment
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 09:27 PM
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It's a bit of a stretch comparing this girl to the taliban. Ignoring that though, female shit tests and such are working towards the greater good. By doing so, they rid themselves of inferior mates and move on to better ones. Girls who act on feminist principles, you can call them a POS. However, there's an underlaying sense of logic underneath the actions of the female reptile brain
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 09:09 PM
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Which guy are you talking about being excluded from moral judgements? The boyfriend is not acting according to his evolution, he is acting according to a lifetime of mental conditioning/brainwashing. I never mentioned OP because his actions are amoral
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 09:03 PM
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Good if you don't have much time and you're maximizing for that, but bad if you have lots of free time and want to get as many girls as possible It's good advice to have a backup plan, like something valuable or important to do if she flakes, but you could damage your chances with a lot of girls and throw away all the time so-far invested by following this advice
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 08:45 AM
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I'm not talking about females high enough in politics to be making policies, just the low-level players of the game. All I'm saying is you can't really blame someone for acting in their best interest if that person can get away with it in their environment
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 08:24 AM
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Is she really a POS girl? I think the thing that we don't acknowledge is that these girls who act like this are simply acting in their self interest. Wouldn't you take the chance to get sex with anyone you want, security, financial support, etc? After all, once she finds someone else and is done using this guy she can easily dump him and move on. It's a win win for her The boyfriend is the POS here because he's perpetuating the culture that encourages behavior like hers. We shouldn't focus on th…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 06:15 AM
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This. Wasting time on WoW is a lot different than playing EU4. A few rounds of Soul Caliber with friends is different than suffering verbal abuse from 12 year olds playing CoD
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 09:08 PM
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It depends on the individual. Some people just need to take some time off to work on themselves
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 08:51 PM
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I feel like the female's chart for males should be expanded on. The y axis is attractiveness, not cuteness. Why? Because you might always be cute, but if you fail shit tests, stop lifting, your social circle shrinks, and you in general change from (in her opinion) alpha to beta, you will go down in attractiveness dramatically. Now lets clear up the zoning. The top right corner (both attractive and lots of money relative to her standards) is the marriage corner. The right side below the corner is…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 06:11 PM
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Please understand, I'm not trying to say you're right or wrong, simply that you're kicking at rocks thinking it'll make a difference to the mountain
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 06:53 AM
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I think you're wasting effort on petty revenge
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 05:03 AM
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TRP is results oriented. I realized that my relationships with many people (both guys and girls) weren't ever going to yield any positive results, so I cut them out of my life. That room has left me with space for other, more beneficial friends, and more time to improve on myself
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 04:53 AM
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And some people are too old to be unplugged, too set in their ways. It's hard to admit that your whole life you've been wrong, living in The Matrix
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 04:31 AM
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You're probably being set up to be the next in line in case things end or start going poorly with the bf (if there is one). I wouldn't say it'd be too easy to get her to break up with the guy, simply on the grounds that you've been around her for a long time without escalating, so she's comfortable with your position in her world right now. Best strategy, raise SMV, game other girls (meaning don't focus on this girl and get oneitis). Once you are clearly a much better alternative than her curren…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 09:53 PM
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Implying that irrational people are really going to read and comprehend the sidebar items
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 09:36 PM
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Well, since you asked about black girls specifically, I'll give you my advice on that. Don't take it too seriously, that's just the way some of them are. Sometimes what we non-blacks see as a serious advance, they see as playful ribbing. Smile and laugh sometimes like it's a joke, that might help Besides, it must do good things for your SMV to have girls publicly hitting on you
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 06:03 AM
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I have a girlfriend, or if they know you don't... I'm interested in someone else, or if they don't buy it... I'm gay, or if they know you aren't.... Ignore 100% unless you have to talk to her for work or similar, don't make any plans with her, come up with lame excuses to not see her, etc. If she doesn't get the hint... Ask yourself, will making myself the bad guy be worse than just dealing with unwanted advances? If not, then just reject her and say you're not interested in her. Probably the ma…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 11:03 PM
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I agree. A lot of times the importance of women is over the top in TRP (as far as being the end goal of everything people do), but if you are asexual, you're missing one of the key parts of being alpha
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 03:36 AM
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Let's see, dependence on drugs for the rest of your life, vs having to pay for a kid for 18 years and then having that kid to support you when you're older. A disease with no cure, vs a pregnancy that you can abort for a few hundred bucks (or free). Can't ever casually have sex or even have a relationship with 99% of other people, vs using your little dude as your wingman when you pull chicks at the grocery store or their baseball games or whatever. I am not saying that having a kid is always a …
/r/askTRP13/12/14 03:33 AM
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I don't know about that, getting HIV would be a lot worse than getting someone pregnant, especially since you can get an abortion
/r/askTRP12/12/14 09:47 PM
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Wtf is that thing?
/r/askTRP12/12/14 09:46 PM
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Maybe get your test levels checked? I would think a healthy male would have a higher sex drive than that
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 07:36 PM
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Maybe leave yourself enough time to get to work but not enough to stop for food on the way? Also, find a high volume, high quality diet that sounds tasty to you. There are a lot of foods that you can eat a lot of (chicken, basically any vegetable, etc) and not be overeating. I find when I force myself to be full all the time by eating lots of good food, I don't eat any junk
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 07:23 PM
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I like to focus on the weights. The iron never lies. If your squat is going up and your weight is staying constant, you're progressing. If your press stays the same and your weight is going down, you're progressing
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 07:19 PM
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Oh, and I just want to add, as far as I understand it NO state in the USA will count cohabitation alone as grounds for counting a couple as legally married. You must act like you are married and hold yourselves publicly as being married. So if you had some type of 'commitment' ceremony, not marriage, and never referred to him/her as your husband/wife, you are free to live together and have children in any US state without being considered legally married. It is considered intent to declare a com…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 05:47 PM
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A few, most of the ones that do you wouldn't want to live in anyways. However, many good states including Oregon, North Carolina, California, Virginia, New York, Pennsylvania, Washington, and many more do not recognize a couple as being married simply through cohabitation or having children (common law marriage, discussed elsewhere). The only states you really miss out on are Colorado and Texas. America, fuck yeah. We also have all ethnic foods, guns, cheap gas, and fast cars. Join the dark side
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 05:33 AM
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Again, do you not have a social circle? If you do, do they never mention or talk about you? Example conversation Them: "Oh, you're GRRMkills? <Mutual friend> told me about how you guys lift weights together" Me: "Every other day. I met him through autocross, we still race each other all the time." Them: "Wow, you race cars? What do you drive?" You must see the value in that easy opening to start a conversation and find things to talk about, not to mention the familiarity and trust you get from t…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 05:22 AM
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What do you mean by independent? Do you not have friends, family, a social life, a job, etc? Maybe if you don't have any of those things, and you're only concerned with picking up chicks you don't know, then your reputation wouldn't matter. Otherwise, your reputation is definitely important
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 08:07 PM
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I googled it and facepalmed when a bunch of pictures of DJs came up
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 08:00 PM
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Bullshit. Your reputation is one of the most important things you have. There is the saying "Your reputation precedes you" for a reason. Your first impression you make on someone is one of the most important moments in that relationship, and many times your reputation is their first impression of you. Do not underestimate the power and reach of a reputation, it can make acquiring friends and lovers a walk in the park, or it can burn bridges you didn't know existed.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 07:02 PM
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United States citizen, winner! Plenty of good states without common law marriage
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 04:30 AM
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Thanks for sharing, I appreciate the advice the benefits of marriage are only realized if she divorces you, and you aren't willing to work hard for your family under the threat of her being able to take it all away This line is golden
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 03:42 AM
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I like this idea. Have a ceremony, she can change her name and be accepted into the family, put a ring on her finger etc., but no government contract. No real 'marriage', just a set of vows that you will keep between the two of you Another thing: If I did such a thing, I would propose with a plain gold band. I'm not supporting the trade of diamonds or their huge markup, and also get to test the girl to see if she's in it for what I can give her ($$$) or for me
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 03:39 AM
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What happens when you want to have kids and a family though? I feel like never marrying is not practical for people that want that in today's society, and there's not really a better solution out there
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 11:24 PM
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As much as I agree with what you're saying, do you think it would have worked out as well in this situation if he followed your advice?
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 11:05 PM
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Damn, these stories are depressing. I wouldn't know what to do in a situation like this, my daughter getting fucked over by someone who professed their love to me and then turned around and raped my bank account and my life. How do you even protect yourself from falling into these situations? It seems like all someone has to do is decide on a whim that they don't want to be in the marriage anymore and they fuck up your whole life
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 10:01 PM
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Destruction of the family unit has been more damaging than what's happening in the school system (and that's saying a lot, because the schools are fucked). Feminism cause broken homes, and broken homes produce broken children
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 09:47 PM
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I understand, I'm just saying that although society has dramatically still changed, people and the relationships between them haven't changed quite as much. I don't think women have undergone some dramatic evolutionary process in the last 80 years or so that have changed the way they act. I bet there was a bunch of shit testing and sex withholding and other crap way before our time that women used to hold power in relationships Definitely, women were much more subservient back then and men had m…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 09:41 PM
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I don't agree with your assumption that men used to all act like alphas and now men are so much more beta than they used to be. Society, like all groups of people, is based in a hierarchy. There has always been an alpha-beta dynamic. Tribe leader and followers, king and serfs, president and citizens, general and soldiers, father and children For one to be alpha, that means others must be betas. So it is, so it has been, and so it shall be. The titles change, the roles are similar. Sure, female e…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 08:55 PM
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He's a bullshit spewing guy that wants to thump his chest in front of another guy. You shouldn't have to seek validation from other people like that. A real TRPer would never brag and show his hand like that to another man. Someone who is truly head of the pack knows it, like a calm Mastiff, they don't try to convince themselves and others that they are in charge, like a yapping Chihuahua
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 07:08 PM
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Society may be fucked, and that's not easy to change, but you still have influence over your family. Good on you for going forth and leading by example and actions
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 10:54 PM
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Alpha != lots of sex with different women Why don't men need a jack of all trades woman? Should we not demand someone of equal value in the relationship? Someone who can contribute by cooking, cleaning, tending to children, generating income, taking care of errands, keeping track of the little things that you don't have time for, etc. I feel like the end goal of the search is to find a high quality mate, one that can be trusted to do those things and provide faithful and loyal service. If the go…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 06:32 PM
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This is not only a list that predicts slutty behavior, but also just a bunch of markers for dysfunctional relationships in general. I think bad parenting (and dysfunctional family) is a huge bad sign. There are some things you can't fix, and habits ingrained by ~20 years during the formative years of someone's life is one of those things
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 05:56 PM
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I'll try my best. To be honest, we both have feelings for each other and I don't think this relationship shift going to change that. That's why I was asking for some advice on the situation I'm by far the more logical and also stubborn person of the two of us, so I'm 99.5% positive I'll stick to my guns and keep it a casual thing, but I'm not so sure what I'll do if she doesn't
/r/askTRP02/12/14 06:07 PM
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I don't have anything against the single mother who's trying her best. It is far from ideal, however. Boys require male role models. A mother cannot do everything for her children. There's a reason why boys who grow up without fathers commit more crimes and are less successful
/r/askTRP02/12/14 08:16 AM
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This is good. Look for girls who don't look like they're in a rush. Don't be afraid to fail or make a fool of yourself. If you feel like you can take it a little farther, try to. It's quite possible to go from "Excuse me, could you tell me what time it is. My phone died." to "Well I guess since I still have an hour until I'm supposed to meet my friend and you're not busy, I could take a look at that problem with your car you were talking about. I'm pretty handy. But if I fix it, you buy me coffe…
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No time is an excuse. It's always an excuse. Do you have enough time to watch tv or play video games, ever? How about mess around on your phone? Enough time to fuck this girl? Dude, you've got time, you've just got to make it from the time you already use. The cure for oneitis never changes. Game other girls, no contact, hit the gym. In many cases it's good to continue to fuck someone for preselection and easy abundance mentality, but you lost your virginity to this girl. You need more sexual ex…
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It's kind of half a joke, half meant as a sarcastic "You're being ridiculous, why are you getting upset over this?" It's done to make her sound outrageous for getting upset at you over even hanging out with other women when you're not in a committed relationship.
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Alternatives, Disagree and amplify: "No, I never see anyone else while in an uncommitted relationship, I'm too clingy." A different pressure flip: "Do you have trust issues?"
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Won't make up for a lack of work ethic either. No one's a "non-responder" to weightlifting. You either don't lift hard enough or don't eat enough
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What's wrong with being blunt? A lot. Are there times when it's good to be blunt? Sure. However, you don't need to puff your chest out here and say (basically) "Me man. Man am blunt, so me am blunt. Woman weak. Woman speak in riddles. You are pussy if speak not-blunt like woman." Alpha means you don't let your ego control your actions. Therefore, it is "What is the best course of action?" not "I'm a man so I'm going to be blunt and talk like a Hollywood macho man." When you're blunt with a woman…
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Never tren on a 1st cycle, you gotta work your way up to that shit
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Regardless of how much anger women might make you feel at them, their feminine side is one of the best things about them. You can't take the loving, caring, comforting, sexy, feisty side of women and not the emotional, unstable, unreliable side, it doesn't work that way. The thing is that if you are a masculine man, you need a feminine woman. The qualities you are describing are all the negative aspects of a feminine woman, but you're forgetting how it would feel to date a neutral or even mascul…
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I'm also going to take the unpopular opinion of fucking the therapist. He's exposed himself completely, she knows all his emotions, and if you have sex with her it could be very liberating to be loved even given all your shortcomings. Some of the best emotional support I've gotten was from lovers, it doesn't compare when you aren't having sex. You have to be careful and sparing with how much you rely on a sexual partner for support, because many times you can compromise position in the relations…
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It is instinctual greed. It doesn't really stop, so much as it becomes impractical to pursue because the woman realizes post wall that she no longer has the SMV to get a high value alpha to commit to her. Instead she settles for BB and then likely cheats on him when she senses a better opportunity or no longer needs him
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/u/TrainingTheBrain is pretty on point with his LTR related advice, read some of his posts How to keep a quality LTR or even marriage without risking losing her or being cheated on? Simply impossible, even if you are alpha af, have a prenup, and she has no job, she might cheat. There is no way to prevent it, only to lower the chances
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At best I could ignore her, but she's too hot for that to really work. That's where you're wrong. AWALT. Hot girls are no exception to all these rules. Take a break from talking to this girl, focus on other girls, then maybe go talk to her in a couple of months with a " hey! I found a new , let's go there " and proceed to treat her like a new potential fuck (flirt, escalate, act like you've changed a lot). And for god's sake, stop putting her on a pedestal for being an HB9, that's like broadcast…
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No problem man, good luck
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That's exactly what I'm talking about. Letting them get under your skin is taking them seriously. You shouldn't have let them get on your nerves to the extent that you fought some kid. By not allowing yourself to even consider whatever they say, you can effectively invalidate their opinions On the natural vs made alpha: You learn. You adapt. You grow. They do not. They were born in comfort, you weren't but learned how to improve your situation. Even if they are doing better than you right now, w…
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The best way to deal with the type of confrontation you're getting from guys is to laugh it off, maybe make some jokes at their expense if the situation is good. If you take it seriously, you're validating the criticism they level at you. Don't give them that, act like it doesn't matter what they say to you You're doing great man, way ahead of the curve, don't worry, but don't get content either
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That's sick. Why no post on the main sub talking about your experiences?
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Red pill doctor here, I'm diagnosing you with oneitis Prescription: No contact Sex with other girls General RP self improvement routine
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Is it advantageous for her to try harder to keep me in the picture after I become slightly more absent? I'm worried that she would start acting clingy or would get upset over other girls if I didn't maintain normal contact. For clarification, I'm assuming you mean ignoring her texts occasionally, not always answering the phone, not responding immediately to contact, which is stuff I already do naturally. What would be some specific ways to make that break? I appreciate what you say about being w…
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Believe me, I'll be back here for you guys to bash some sense into my brain before I violate any of those rules. Thanks
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