I received this from my ex girlfriend.

A run down of the relationship; Meet her in summer when coming back from an internship in order to finish my degree. All goes very quick and I discover she is a virgin (she was 20 at the time, me being 2 years older).

In order to avoid unnecessary drama I tell her straight up our relationship would most likely not survive graduation. She seems to agree and I feel relieved to have found such a seemingly understanding woman. Me focusing on school and generally being busy keeps her around as she lingers for attention like all females.

To my great surprise she never shit-tested me back then even though this school was a breeding ground for spoiled chads and the like. Come graduation (Christmas 2013), I let go in the kindest way possible as at this point I grew to like her for not being a bitch, becoming very kinky and generally being a great gal to have around. Might add she is from Venezuela and a solid upper 8 on my scale of preference and I admit it gave me a nice boost in confidence which I enjoyed.

Start work straight away January '14 (Pastry chef), have no time and no friends back in my home country as everybody else is still abroad. She decides to let me know how miserable she is without me and the usual story. Following my urges I agree to meet her in March as I head down anyways to participate in some post-graduation ceremony, 3 days of great sex and reconciliation follow. Back together this is now a LDR, something I dread since I have been there before.

She craves attention and needs me to talk to her and I readily comply as at this point I didn't mind some like minded and intimate conversation to relieve stress from work.

We meet on holidays and I allow her to spend two weeks at my place after she had to drop out of college due to financial problems (see Venezuelan economy).

This is where I entirely fucked up and had no frame whatsoever as I ignored major red flags all along the route.

*Her staying in bed all day watching useless shit.

*Her clearly having lost direction and bringing up major plans to change (going from Hospitality management to Event management to Economics).

*Her coming back from a trip to Venezuela with prescription antidepressants.

*Her going from wanting daily sex and being submissive to having no sex drive whatsoever.

*And finally the good old "New haircut and color"

At this point she had found a new university to attend in Australia while I was contractually obliged to stay in Luxembourg (go figure).

I bid her farewell and offered her my friendship while secretly thinking "Good riddance" as my ROI was negative at this point and I didn't recognize her as the girl I first met. The reason I let go softly was because I had no intent on ruining her for other guys since I was her first intimate relationship and I sincerely believe more guys should have a slice of that cake since it was delicious cake.

The response came within the first week of being apart and me not calling/texting her at all. Hate mail and the full program. AWALT :)

TL;DR

After the final break up I stumbled upon TheRedPill and I am happier than ever before, my lifestyle improved greatly and I am very thankful to the community for all the content and discussions. Her e-mail was just a cherry on top of the cake of my recent success.