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I'm sorry, but I stopped reading at TRP hates women. Over and over it's said that they don't, yet people still think that they do. I've come to realize that it's really just cognitive dissonance that makes you think that because a person wants an abundance mentality and removes people off the pedestal and chooses to take women at face value for once instead of worshiping them, and are tired of expecting the best of them and being disappointed that they're not what everyone says that they are. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/16 02:53 AM
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Cool, I live on Lego Island!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 06:18 PM
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That is how you gave your viewpoint on it, that people should be chosen because diversity. That's how I read it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 03:16 PM
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If I'm a computer programmer and I am applying for a job to be a chef, but I've never cooked before, I'm not qualified. I shouldn't be hired because I'm a woman or black or green or upside down for the sake of diversity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 02:59 PM
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I do think feminism needs to keep going until women have fair and equal representation at all levels of government and positions of leadership. That's non-negotiable. Women are half the population and they need equal representation. And not just 'women', but women of colour and diverse women. Because people, even with the best of intentions, have blinders. We need diversity for all the things we're missing. I don't agree that feminism is a "sexual strategy" - they've got that wrong. It's only pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 02:03 PM
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It was just to say do what you want to do. You don't have to fuck if you both don't want to
/r/askTRP01/06/16 11:53 AM
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I turned down sex this weekend. I was tired from being in the sun all day and drinking beer. Still gonna get laid tonight, I guarantee it.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 01:16 AM
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Dog = committed relationship. Never thought of it that way.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 09:08 PM
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I don't see being married as a bad deal completely, but because I don't want kids, it may not be for me. I'm coming to terms with that. But for guys who are, they are here because they know that the cards are stacked against them and want to lead their ship. It's not an easy path to take, but this place is good for guys that want to retake their rightful place as the Captain.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 03:22 AM
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No man, it's really not worth it. Even if you do become better someday, and she sees it, you've already lost whatever 'alpha' disguise you had before. I think part of the reason why women become so disgusted with men who became beta in a relationship is because they feel hoodwinked or tricked. So they associate you with that feeling. It's a terrible uphill climb, and definitely not worth the effort.
/r/askTRP09/04/16 01:37 AM
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I'll be honest, I didn't read most of this post. You have Oneitis pretty bad and when that shows up in a post, I stop reading. But if you're not trolling, I'll give you my advice. The way I see it, you have two options. Two paths to walk, if you will: Option one: You don't try to get back with her. Just fucking don't. Don't give her validation by letting her know you're thinking of her. Don't even acknowledge her birthday. Just ghost out. Move on with your life, become a better man for yourself,…
/r/askTRP09/04/16 12:22 AM
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Apparently the conversation got deleted in my post history, but I felt similar to you about a girl I've dated in my recent past. (Even down to the part about the guy she's dating now) But I'm gonna give you a piece of advice that someone gave me as best as I can remember it: "You seem like a good guy, and if your life is as good as you make it seem, she will come back one day. And of course, when she does, you will have to turn her down." The Prize mentality can never stop - you are the goal, sh…
/r/askTRP27/03/16 04:31 AM
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It's in our DNA to reproduce with many different women, not just one. The guy that says there's no one you can't live without is right. Women do not often have more than one guy that they get sex from, they have the guy they're trying to lock into commitment through sex, and various orbiters as backups. They don't 'spin plates' because they don't need an abundance mentality - they have an abundance reality. They can get dick pretty much wherever and whenever it suits them. Top commenter is right…
/r/askTRP26/03/16 08:11 PM
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Yep. A bunch. Crab in the bucket mentality can really bring you down. I'm down to just my one friend right now that I hang out with frequently, but even him I kind of want to cut out because he's not motivated like I am to succeed right now. I'm not afraid to go lone wolf, and nothing tests your game like being able to pull by yourself. In the end, who else really matters besides you, anyway?
/r/askTRP15/03/16 05:45 PM
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His response is legitimate, it's just useless. That's part of the hardest bit of the pill to swallow- the fact that morality is a social construct and that entertaining it is up to the beholder. Best thing he could have done was just be like, "Welp, you're a slut. Thanks for giving me the heads up." And walk away.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 09:16 PM
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Women don't know honor. Integrity is foreign to them.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 12:26 AM
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An LTR is for women who prove they're worthy of your most valuable asset: your commitment. Keep her as a plate or walk away. Basically you want to use her as a branch to swing from, which makes you no better than any woman that uses Billy Beta until Chad comes along.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 01:04 AM
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You're not ready for the red pill.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 06:09 AM
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That seems like a pretty good response to me. Look up GayLubeOil's piece on Black Knighting. Might give you some more ideas.
/r/askTRP06/02/16 05:52 PM
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Ok guy. Sorry to offend you because I haven't been to combat yet. I did sign on the line, too though. So I'm willing, ready and able to do whatever. Just because you've been and I haven't, doesn't mean we're on different teams. Edit: Here's an article for you. One of the first females to enlist in a combat MOS was a deserter in OSUT. She couldn't even pass through Basic Training. http://archive.is/jS2yn
/r/MGTOW04/02/16 11:31 PM
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As a soldier, this terrifies me.
/r/MGTOW04/02/16 02:06 AM
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Roger. I'm back in the anger stage, for sure. No doubt about that.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 01:58 PM
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Cool. Good job then. You've at least got to see it from my point of view; without that, it seems pretty much like RP porn. Everything just perfectly falls into place for a guy who's not been in the game for a year and just 'happens' to go out and find a nasty slut willing to get down in an alley three minutes after meeting a complete stranger? You must have quite the charm, guy. You're right- it is difficult for us, man. And shutout game like this is rare to find in recovering betas unless you l…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 12:21 PM
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Holy fuck. You sops believe this nonsense? This reads like TRP porn and you chumps are eating it up. I believe AWALT, and I don't have every RP answer - and have had my share of Oneitis diagnoses, but Jesus Tap Dancing Christ. Three minutes and you fuck for three hours? Get the fuck out of here. Bring on the down votes you shit bags.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 03:24 AM
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I'd say it's easier on both parties to just go No Contact right out of the gate. I struggle with not contacting exes if I have any form of communication with them.
/r/askTRP22/01/16 11:39 PM
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Just be straightforward with her. Tell her you're not interested in carrying on the relationship any further and be done with it. If she's in love with you, but you don't feel it it's the best thing to do. You can't always "leave them better than you find 'em." Hearts are gonna get broken, guy. Fact of life. Sometimes people in this sub think there's a fucking "red pill" way of handling things otherwise it makes you a beta. Not always true. Just be a human and tell her what's up. Or hard next. S…
/r/askTRP22/01/16 10:59 PM
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The old adage... Fat girls are like mopeds, they're fun to ride, but you don't want your friends to see you on one
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 12:59 PM
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Guess the dream will stay just that, won't it? It's too much to hope humanity could dig their heads out of their collective asses and actually give a shit about one another.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/16 07:32 PM
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I would watch this documentary. The previews of it and the way it's described in the videos on that article make it definitely interesting. I'm skeptical of the whole "Feminist that had her eyes opened by MRAs" sales pitch, but if she actually had a revelation on the fact that men are treated worse than women in most of society, then good for her. That said, I wouldn't see it in a theatre, or if I did, I'd go somewhere that I could watch it low-profile. Depending on the success of it, it could s…
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/16 03:19 PM
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This guy is the hero I need, but not the one I deserve. Or some shit like that. Thanks, guy. Been fucked up over some shit for a good minute and this was what I needed to get my motivation back.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 01:33 AM
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He's asking if relationships in general are viable, not this specific woman.. I hope.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 05:28 AM
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Go away, troll woman.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 02:37 PM
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Trust me not all women are like that Yeah they fucking are
/r/askTRP23/12/15 02:53 PM
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Why are you asking fish how to catch them? Even on asktrp you'd get the standard response: sidebar and lift. Most of the answer you're looking for is there. Have you done either of those? I didn't even read all of this and know you haven't. You're bent out of shape about some girl who doesn't like you. Move on to something more worth your time No one gives a shit about your sob story.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/15 01:19 PM
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Although it is not entirely due to how we were raised, this is kinda how we all got here, so this statement is pretty true... Natural Alpha Males don't need the red pill.
/r/askTRP30/08/15 02:07 PM
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This is a good example of a pressure flip.
/r/askTRP28/08/15 03:08 AM
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Don't know about any of you, but I know my gut has never been wrong. I trust that completely. Little else.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 12:54 AM
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SOP for TRP should dictate that you never get back together with an ex. Plate status or next, but she never gets your commitment ever again. The relationship ended for a reason, whether on your end or hers, so why torture yourself and try to rebuild with old feelings and resentment loom over your head all the time? Isn't it easier just to build new?
/r/askTRP27/08/15 02:07 PM
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So fast the link is broken after you posted it 3 minutes ago. Got an archive of the article?
/r/askTRP25/08/15 09:52 PM
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I was 26. 27 now. I know the basics, read all the materials multiple times - yet I fluctuate between the denial phase, and the acceptance phases. AWALT is a terrible thing to have to accept and admit, but you know what they say about addiction - the first step is admitting that you have a problem. It's literally the worst feeling ever, some days.
/r/askTRP21/08/15 03:08 AM
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I just wish I had read this about a month and a half ago,so I knew how to diffuse the gigantic shit test she threw. Now I know. TRP is about self improvement, and now I have just one more tool in my arsenal. Thank you, man.
/r/askTRP21/08/15 03:00 AM
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Thanks. It sucks, but I have a lot of good things to look forward to in the very near future. Her loss, really. Edit: some women who are religious will use God as a way to get you to break up with them, so they don't have to be the bad guy and have someone else to blame. I wouldn't necessarily say that about my situation, or OP's, but I have heard of it happening before.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 03:14 PM
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Same shit happened to me dude. I had to walk away. She was a sweetheart, but she pulled the plug on sex because of religion and I had to pull it because I didn't want to live that way. To be honest, I'm not handling the breakup as well as I should be though. I'm a Christian too, though, so I can sympathize.. But I felt like it was more of a power play than anything else.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 10:48 AM
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So, did you just disprove AWALT because I shared my feelings with someone who I thought would be accepting of them and got burned? You say "most won't do that", but I disagree - most of them have done exactly that. Not just to me, but 100,000+ subscribers to TRP says "most probably have". Hence why AWALT exists in the first place. And for the record, what I expect from a relationship is mutual respect, love and trust. And here's the real kicker - a partnership. I'm only 70 red because I know the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 09:20 PM
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Did you think I was just telling her this stuff because I thought that's what she wanted to hear? I told her how I felt. What I was afraid of. What I wanted and expected out of a relationship with her. I let her in my walls and she burned down the whole fort. I of course did not do this all at once, it was gradual. But so was her loss of attraction. You're an idiot and you're making assumptions. For background, she was a Christian girl, and she had 3-4 partners before me, all relationships. She …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 05:27 PM
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No, dude. I really think that if you go too far one way, she will inevitably be turned off by that. There has to be a balance, and I didn't find it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 12:03 AM
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Then I guess you're luckier than I am. Whenever I was stoic, colder and more distant, she was more attracted. When I became more open, and tried to give her my heart, my emotions, she turned off. And yet, I still think the red pill has truth to it... Maybe because of that? Nah. Must be a self fulfilling prophecy. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 11:48 PM
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Branch swinging and hypergamy?
/r/askTRP17/08/15 10:03 PM
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Yeah, that's what I was getting at, haha. That's probably closer than my explanation of 'there is no spoon'. Don't mind me, I'm drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 10:02 PM
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Where you have to realize that you will never get what you didn't get from other partners before or from your partner yet and be OK with that. I guess that was just where my mind jumped to for some reason. In the movie, the kid realizes that he can do whatever he wants to the spoon, because it doesn't exist. Similar to the fact that another person will never do what you want, because they're not in your control? No idea if that makes any better sense, sorry haha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 09:54 PM
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Kind of like, 'there is no spoon'?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 09:35 PM
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It's OK man, I did the exact same thing. I opened up, per her request, and the ship sank like the Titanic. I don't even get to blame it on meds.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 09:33 PM
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Thanks, I will. Like I need the approval of the red pillers of /AskTRP. Cute.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 03:34 AM
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If only that still held true. Haha kidding, but damn it's hard to find someone (females especially) who still believe(s) in the Bible.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 12:02 AM
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I believe in God. I believe that Jesus died for my sins. The Bible is Red Pill as fuck if you look at it the right way.
/r/askTRP11/08/15 10:58 PM
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I'd be there if I weren't going to be beating my face into the ground in GA. Hopefully a podcast will be available in December when I return.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 09:33 PM
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Ugh. And I hate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 11:36 PM
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That.. Is the best advice I've gotten since. Wow. Thank you. I'm seriously speechless.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 07:03 PM
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Thanks. I just went through a breakup with a woman who was a great candidate for a red pill woman, or at least what someone could call "purple". I fully believe that her feelings changed because she wants to see what else could be out there, (hypergamy at work) but at the same time was afraid that I could have been what she wanted the whole time, it just wasn't the right time yet. Or whatever. I'm just trying to figure out what I did wrong so that I don't make that mistake again, because I still…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 06:08 PM
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What single thing (red or blue) has you convinced that you can maintain this happy marriage and keep your wife's hypergamy in check for the rest of your life? What does she do to ensure that you don't stray?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 05:02 PM
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Yeah, it kinda is.
/r/askTRP05/08/15 11:29 PM
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Honestly, for the next couple of years, I don't think I want a relationship at all. I'm 27, and I haven't even hit my prime yet. I'll spin plates or whatever. I have a business plan in mind, and since my great-grandparents passed away and left some money to my family, I want to start working for myself doing the two things I love the most, and go from there. This LTR was an experiment at it's core and although it failed partially because I had forgotten that I was using it as a test of my red pi…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/15 11:23 PM
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Hope thats not how you meant it. It wasn't how I meant it. I did it because I loved her. She had great LTR potential, and if she stays off the carousel, she might make a great RPW someday. I fucked up not because I caught feelings, but because I let them get the best of me and became uprooted. I won't be plating her at all, because there's no way in hell I can come back from this show of beta-ness AT LEAST until I return from basic. No contact is my best move here. As far as new plates go, I hav…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/15 03:02 PM
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Thanks man. That's what I am coming to realize. When I get back, I'm going to be in way better shape, and I can finally get a decent job that I'll be able to stay in for an extended period. This summer has been a pretty fun ride, but ended with a shit show, and I can't wait to get out of here and get her off my mind.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/15 01:30 PM
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Wall of text inbound - take cover. I completely nuked my LTR from orbit the past month. She came back from a mission trip and told me that we were no longer going to have sex until (if) we married. Religious reasons, and believe it or not, I don't think it was a shit test, she genuinely wants to stop until she's married. Whether that happens or not isn't my problem anymore, but I broke it off with very few words, and I thought or realized I had made a huge mistake. So we tried to fix things, wit…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/15 09:49 PM
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I don't know, really. Probably a better question for red pill women. I have a friend like that, smart guy, a lot going for him, he just won't go to the gym or approach, and yet laments his lack of sex. But like I said, you can't make someone take the pill. What most people don't realize is that you're in control of your life, not anyone else's. I had to find it myself and while I don't agree with everything here, most of it makes sense and it does work.
/r/askTRP22/07/15 10:19 PM
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No one can make him swallow the pill. He has to do it himself. And we certainly can't without any background of the situation.
/r/askTRP22/07/15 09:56 PM
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Thanks for posting this. I needed a little morale boost. It gets disheartening to know that no one else gives two shits about you sometimes. Gotta just keep on going up.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/15 06:08 PM
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Maybe that's where we differ then, because I am not upset if one decides to jump on the carousel instead of being respectable. I'm sitting at a bar on a lake in Minnesota right now and I could probably fuck at least three women here, no problem. Could I find one of quality in this same setting? Probably not. Bottom line is that you really can't be upset when they want to 'find themselves' or whatever. You're an oak tree - you have to just weather the storms they throw at you.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 12:50 AM
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Once you accept their nature for what it is, you won't be so angry at them. They're just doing what they're programmed to do. Just keep doing what makes you happy and never lose sight of your mission.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 10:46 PM
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Thanks for the advice. I feel like I don't have a whole lot to lose either way. I have good physical health and fitness and I'm attractive and confident, so if she walks, it's her loss. Abundance mentality rules all. We're not married or anything, and not planning on being so anytime soon so there's no fear of divorce rape. It's going to be tough. I get that. I'm not going to ditch it though, because on the off chance that it does work, I'd have tossed it away for what? The thought that she migh…
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/15 05:13 PM
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Sadly, all we can really do is pray that it gets better for this guy. You really can't spit up the pill once it's down. I've tried.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 05:27 AM
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Joe Budden said something on a track that resonated with me - the lyrics go like this: "I'm dealing with some shit, homie, it's in the back of my head and and it's some shit homie, it's in the back of my head, but I just rap it instead - I got Wolverine bones in me but the whole world's throwing stones at me like they all gotta bone with me - I got a child's mother, and I hate her to death, but that's my child's mother, so that's my mate to the death - it's wack how I love her for putting little…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 05:21 AM
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I'm Army, but the hooah-est of Hooah's for this guy. Got chills just reading his Wikipedia article.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 03:27 AM
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Haha I loved Michael Westen in this movie. He just wanted the bang.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 03:11 AM
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It actually just means that they love you "Right now". You're reading way too far into it. Remember that women are like the Colorado weather - they can change from summer to winter in an instant and without warning. That's why you're an oak tree. Weather their storms and you'll be fine.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 02:57 AM
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Despite what the red pill would suggest, I have no reason to believe that she's not going to be faithful. Fuck it. I'm sticking with this until the bitter or sweet ending. She has been great so far, and as a matter of fact, she suggested that we stay together, even though I told her she didn't have to wait for me. She was even a little angry with me for suggesting that we separate before I enlisted. She is in the service herself, and attached to the same infantry division as I am - she works in …
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/15 08:47 PM
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Wow. Well said. I would never be able to show this to my girlfriend, but I've been contemplating ending things with her at the end of the summer because of my path in my own life. I leave for basic training in September (I'm in the National Guard, so I do come home after 15 weeks) and I don't know if I really want to experience what seemingly every other soldier goes through while deployed. I am afraid to even ask the red pill for advice because I know what the answer would be. AWALT, and yada y…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/15 01:12 AM
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I've heard that in army basic, the DS's will pull all the males in a platoon into a room and announce that their relationships are over. If she hasn't cheated by the time you've arrived at basic, she will. I can't imagine that they haven't seen literally everything anyway. If the Army wanted you to have a girlfriend, they'd have issued you one.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 03:16 AM
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This should have more upvotes. But the fact remains that she shouldn't be getting her nipples pierced anyways.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 01:22 AM
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Yeah, since taking the pill I've been through all the phases, but I revert back to some of them (ie anger) but then I just remember that's just how it goes.
/r/askTRP21/06/15 12:38 AM
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Can you send/post a link to your spreadsheet? Or I can pm you my email address. I want to do this experiment for myself, just for science. She initiated last night in the shower which was awesome, she hadn't initiated in a while, but the only time she denies me is when she's on the rag - except in the shower. I wanna see if there's a pattern at all. Her periods are pretty irregular, so it's hard to track her cycle. Love the 5-10 minute quickies in the shower though.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/15 02:26 AM
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Obviously each woman will place each man differently on the hierarchy. Of course they will. I've never really agreed with the AF / BB argument, even with Rollo Tomassi's support of it. It's a spectrum, this is not black and white, 'if you're not alpha fucks you're beta bucks'. I am both things to my LTR. I stay on the AF side because I want her to pull her weight in our relationship but it also makes it so that I don't fall into the traps I have in previous relationships. (ie dead bedroom) She i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/15 12:22 PM
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Fuck yes. This. Absolutely this. She would be saying "I don't care about what I look like to you anymore, you're not going anywhere." I'm willing to prove her wrong, and passed the shit test. Bingo.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 05:49 PM
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It's not necessarily about the hair - it's about the fact that she thinks I won't walk away if she drastically drops her SMV on purpose. Think of it like her saying, "I think I'll gain 15 pounds, I don't want to go to the gym 5x a week."
/r/askTRP16/06/15 05:40 PM
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Just something that came up in my LTR and I wanted opinions on how to handle it. I knew it was a power question and she wanted to see how dependent I am on her. I love her, but I know AWALT and I also don't budge on my opinion of what I like and don't like. There might have been confusion on whether or not it was shoulder length hair or bob/pixie whatever, but the fact is that she wanted to see if I would really walk away over that or if she could get away with taking some of the power from me i…
/r/askTRP16/06/15 04:16 PM
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This was the response I needed. She even got incredulous when I told her, looking dead in the eye that I would leave : "You don't love me for me!?" I smirked at her. I don't think she'll do it, but if she does, she's been warned. I've high enough SMV and increasing weekly to do much better, and she knows it - she's been going to the gym regularly now to keep up - but she's been a very good LTR in every RP aspect so it would suck pretty bad if she pulled the trigger on our relationship, but abund…
/r/askTRP16/06/15 01:00 PM
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Interesting to see the responses that OP shouldn't just delete his wife immediately for cheating. Didn't expect that from a red pill perspective. That said, reading through the comments here, it sounds like you've got the captain's quarters squared away and let her know that if she's not going to be the first mate, she's walking the plank with you. God for you, for keeping a cool head and holding onto your bearing through it all. I'm only just learning that as a new soldier but I'm sure basic tr…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/15 11:50 PM
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I knew being "such an asshole" would pay off in the end. Haha pun.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/15 11:29 PM
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Yeah, I'm not your dude friend or whatever. I just think you're a good example of AWALT, though. Listen up, gentlemen. Women will keep you as an orbiter option for when their other branches fail to catch her. Don't be that guy. Find chicks that are into you completely, who'll bend over backwards to make you happy. They suck your dick at random times, they get tingles from you - BUT - never stop being awesome and creating them for her, because when you do, your ship is sunk. Have a good weekend e…
/r/askTRP12/06/15 10:51 PM
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I recommend you do this guy a favor and set him up with a cute girlfriend of yours and leave him alone. You don't deserve a man who you jerk around while fucking with your ex boyfriend. I'm glad he was at least alpha enough to not wait around and be an option. Even though if he were my friend, I'd tell him to forget you altogether, because when a woman doesn't make you a priority, she's not worth your valuable time.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 10:30 PM
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Basically, "if I am to die today, let it be in a pile of brass." Good shit, friend.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 11:09 PM
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Always remember, when a woman says anything, just put: "Right now" after it in your head. They have no ability to think past that moment - especially when it comes to love.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 03:27 AM
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This makes me hate my LTR. I know that I could sacrifice everything, my life included, and she would move on to the next alpha that crossed her path. My good friend died in Afghanistan a few years ago this May. I would not be surprised if his wife, who was his high school sweetheart, has moved on to other alpha dick. It sickens me. I posted recently on Rollo's newest submission. I've been testing my sea legs in an LTR. The ship feels like it is sinking. I need to right my path or abandon ship. I…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 03:22 AM
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Low N-count women are the best viable options for LTR material. The best way to avoid the article's 'soldier' example is to never marry, but the second best way is to stay alpha, don't let that beta side take over. And always be willing to walk away at any point. When your life revolves around her is when it comes crashing down. Nice post, Rollo. I've been away from TRP for a while and testing my sea legs, always good to have a refresher course.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 06:41 PM
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Seconding this. Source please?
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 02:18 AM
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Probably because you think that the only way to be red pill is to spin plates.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 12:18 PM
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27, found TRP last year. My relationship is very red pill, and I vetted a submissive woman carefully before I upgraded her from main plate. Working out great so far.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 12:17 PM
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You're really narrowing down this hypothetical example based off of threads that you didn't link to. How do you know the sexual preferences and history of a woman described by an anonymous guy on the internet? He doesn't, but what I think the OP is asking is how do you explain the fact that a woman will have, say, anal sex or let a guy cum on her face when Bobby Blue Pill doesn't get to do those things with her? I would find it unfair that she would do those things with other guys but not the on…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 12:23 AM
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Holy shit, I thought this was DB or something when I read this post. Yeah- your wife is cheating in pretty much every way possible, dude. I'd get my shit together yesterday and GTFO. Figure out a way to keep the child in your custody as well, but we all know that's an uphill battle in itself. Good luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/15 02:13 PM
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I'm with you on this. I come in here from time to time and leave some knowledge for new guys, but it's becoming more of a circle jerk of dudes coming in and asking shit like "How do I be Alpha at this party" or "Does she like me?". This is a place where we can ask specific questions about the effects of the red pill in our relationships, and it needs to stay that way.
/r/askTRP24/05/15 03:51 PM
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You're in the right here dude. That black knight idea is something OP should take to heart. The chick without a boyfriend is definitely shit testing and knows OP wants to smash. If he does it right, he'll get it.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 04:41 PM
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Late to the party, but I don't text my girlfriend about much during the day, one because I'm busy or enjoying the time to myself, and two because I don't want to come off as clingy and needy. I enjoy our time together and I also like face to face interactions, so he could be a lot like me in that sense.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/15 12:20 PM
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Simply amazing, isn't it? Any agency they have is completely gone. Or it didn't exist in the first place.
/r/askTRP21/05/15 02:20 PM
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LTR game is different than spinning plates. You do have to show a little bit of beta with your alpha dosage, and calibrate accordingly. Keep focused on yourself and your happiness, self improvement, etc and don't cater to her every whim. When I have time I will edit this post to give you a link to a great LTR post by one of the endorsed contributors on the main sub the helped me out. Edit: Here is that link - it's actually many posts, so you should check them out. Might help with your LTR game.
/r/askTRP20/05/15 12:21 PM
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Sorry to hear that she went nuts on you, man. Could have been she's projecting guilt for cheating? I know when my ex did it, she would always start beef about something miniscule and petty. I don't know though, that's just a guess.
/r/askTRP20/05/15 11:12 AM
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And too many of these new guys don't realize that when you take the pill, if you are not on point with your dread game, your relationship is most likely over. The changes are too much for most women who are not committed completely to the relationship to handle. When you spend all your time supplicating and giving her everything she wants and then stop, focus on yourself and your own happiness, she can't handle that change. When you are no longer the beta pushover that were before, you'll realiz…
/r/askTRP18/05/15 09:34 PM
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What the actual fuck? What happened to actual red pill advice on this sub? OP, you are blind as fuck by your Oneitis and it's going to be your downfall. You should improve for your own self, not some dumb broad. At 18. With 90% of your sexual prime in your future. There's billions - literally - billions of bitches out there and you're focused on one of them, who you're not even with, you lost your shot but you're actually asking TRP if you should wait it out and try again? Fuck off. I guess abun…
/r/askTRP18/05/15 01:52 AM
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Such a great response. Thanks BPProf!
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/15 07:29 PM
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Step one: put your dick in a box...
/r/askTRP13/05/15 09:30 PM
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I feel like this is a good way to give a definitive length of time on how much effort you're putting into the relationship counter to how much she puts in. If you are putting in all of the effort and she's not equalling or at least coming close, the countdown should start. When you see improvement, the clock resets. Her clock is ticking for me at the moment. (LTR) However, I am taking into account the fact that school has been stressing her out, so I need to understand and up my game a little to…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/15 12:25 PM
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Is there a way to change/personalize the flair? I've been unplugged for nearly a year now, although this was a new account for TRP purposes. I like this sub because I am more interested in the LTR way of life, rather than spinning plates and the "never get married" crowd.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/15 01:50 AM
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I'm in the National Guard, so I have to report for drill every month - are you in some kind of Recruit Sustainment Program (RSP)? If you do, stay clean and drug free - don't get any tattoos or get into any trouble here or abroad.
/r/askTRP11/05/15 11:55 PM
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It's doing great, just oiled it thanks. I don't have to defend them, I'm no white knight. I'm a man. They can defend themselves. I just think you're shitty because some mean girl told you she didn't want to play with you on the playground.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 11:42 PM
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Spin some plates. Don't overdo it, but at least use that "Hey, I wanna have fun with you but I'm going to boot camp in September so this isn't serious" line. Other than that, hit the gym hard, do a lot of body weight exercises - I leave for BCT on the first of Sept as well, I'll be in Ft Benning, GA though. Army. Have fun with your family and friends up until then at least, brother. Good luck!
/r/askTRP11/05/15 11:39 PM
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I'm pretty sure shit posts like this one are why TRP has a bad name to begin with. I kinda hope you get the banhammer. Or at least get some chill and come back to reality where we don't hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 11:01 PM
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Nah dude. This guy inserts himself into situations where he can pull his gun out and wave it around like a white knight. Fuck this asshole, he shouldn't even be allowed to carry a weapon, concealed or otherwise. He seems like another George Zimmerman waiting to happen.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 05:08 PM
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I had my girlfriend ask me a similar question. I flat out said, "Nope. Won't find you attractive if you let yourself get fat." Honesty is the best policy bro. Shit test or not, if she's going to get butthurt over that instead of following my leadership and hitting the gym with me, I'll find someone who does appreciate themselves and our fitness. Cause my good looks are going to last a lot longer than hers and she's 7 years younger than I am.
/r/askTRP10/05/15 06:38 PM
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Fuck I'm glad someone's getting the damn joke. You guys need to lighten up a little.
/r/askTRP10/05/15 04:48 PM
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Well said. If someone can't commit, why even bother to look for other qualities?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/15 04:25 PM
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I don't think the point of OP is to say that his friend's actions were RP or BP. I think it's more to determine and hope that his future actions will be more RP. There's a girl he's had an eye on for some time but has been too shy to make a move. I've told on him on numerous occasions that it really doesn't matter what you say or do, rather that you do something. Today he took that advice and made a move. And he made the approach from an IDGAF position. Just my 2c. We all had to start somewhere.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 02:43 AM
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bahahaha
/r/askTRP10/05/15 02:24 AM
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I'll stick to working on my six-pack, thanks. Fuck that Dad-bod bullshit. Feminists are retarded.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 01:55 AM
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I only laughed because I knew exactly what was happening. I recommended he drop the near-wall chick quickly- she only saw him as BB - but to use that confidence as a springboard to gather other plates. Myself, I'm in a happy LTR, but I never stop gaming and improving myself. He sees this, and I take a RP approach to all my interactions with my girlfriend, so it can only serve as motivation for him to fix his shit and finally join as one of us.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 01:53 AM
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I recently had my best friend approach me on how to address his not-unique-to-red-pill-theory situation. He had one chick, who he'd met at a party who'd fuck his brains out at every and any opportunity. Another who'd smelled the pussy on him (and likely tagged him as beta bux, seeing as he is the heir to the million+$$ company that he can't seem to shut the fuck up about. I'm not jealous, I just think it's in one's best interest to not disclose how much money you make/have). The latter is approa…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 01:40 AM
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If she was so "tired" She would have been sound asleep when he returned from his prayer time. The only thing that was tired was her hamster. But it still kept on running.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/15 12:50 PM
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I've felt the same about my girlfriend from time to time. We all have doubts, especially some of us coming from being so blue pill that every woman we've been with has cheated. But I've learned this: All I can control is myself, so I have as much fun with her as possible, get laid as often as possible, and if or when my turn is done, then it's done. On to the next better thing. So I continue to improve myself, work out hard as fuck and kick ass at life. If she doesn't want to be with me for that…
/r/askTRP06/05/15 12:50 AM
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There's a good reason why so many guys identify with No More Mr. Nice Guy. It's too bad women believe that their guy friends are just that most of the time. That's why I'm kind of glad my girlfriend found my copy of NMMG.. So she can see past the "friends" and see their ulterior motivations and handle the interaction accordingly. Dat covert contract tho.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/15 02:44 PM
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Nope. I dated a Jenny AND a Carly. I found that extremely hilarious as they both fit the bill of said meta. I laugh a little inside when I see it on Reddit.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 12:31 AM
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From the title, I would have expected a post similar to something like, "You can't sit around on this sub forever, go out and live life, experience love and keep the red pill in your back pocket, your ace card." Don't spend too much time here, guys. Go out and apply this stuff, once you've got it down. Take what works for you and discard what doesn't. I was an everyday visitor here, whenever I had a free moment for months. I'm in a great RP LTR now, and I apply what I've learned from all of you.…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 11:08 PM
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Alright then, that's what I was looking for. Unlike some red pill guys, I can sympathize with you if you have a legit reason as to why. I'm sorry your dice didn't turn out like everyone else's, but red pill advice will tell you that there are other ways to raise your SMV than looks alone. But wallowing in self pity won't be the way to get there. I hope you are exploring other avenues to be the best man you can be, and playing with the hand you've been dealt.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/15 03:37 PM
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Your argument still fails to tell me why you can't get shredded, brother. Are you missing limbs? What condition causes you to not be in good shape? If you're being harassed at a gym, why not join a different one? Or work out at home? I'm not a muscle head, either - I am 5'9" and 180 lbs. 15-17% BF. I don't eat McDonald's, because it's bad for me. I can't find the link for the video, but there is a project called Operation Enduring Warrior that is for war veterans who've lost limbs in combat. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/15 02:52 PM
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That's that hamster spinning right there. "Muh cundishuns" isn't an excuse.. Any exercise is better than none. You say it's not that easy. Actually it is. 1.Get off the couch. 2. Walk outside. 3. Eat less/better 4.??? 5. Profit (ie; lose weight and become more attractive) If you can give me an honest and legitimate reason for why you cannot follow these simple steps, such as a missing limb (and even many of them who've been disfigured in war still stay in shape) I will have some sympathy for you…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/15 01:56 PM
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Define "can't be shredded". 99% of the time I'd say it's lack of willpower, not ability. Hamster gonna ham.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/15 01:00 PM
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And I didn't start my military career until 27. Do whatever you think is going to be of the most benefit to you. I joined because I needed some direction and I always had a dream of being a soldier. I chose a combat mos so I could do something I wouldn't be able to as a civilian. Just be cautious of the herd of dependa-potomuses that will try to lock you down for that Tri-care bro.
/r/askTRP01/05/15 12:11 PM
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Orbiter status: engaging. Fuck her or get out, OP
/r/askTRP29/04/15 12:52 PM
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You need to "manipulate" yourself into a man she wants to fuck. Go get some new hobbies, new friends, something that doesn't involve her. Don't tell her what you're doing or where you're going. Quit catering to her every whim. Oh yeah, and go to the gym and pick up some heavy shit.
/r/askTRP27/04/15 09:10 PM
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Feeling about the same right now. Tupac said it best: "No one sees my struggle, they only see the trouble; not knowin' it's hard to carry on when no one loves you." Only person who's gonna love you most is yourself.
/r/askTRP27/04/15 05:33 PM
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How to find a red pill therapist: https://youtu.be/XzwNpc892KE
/r/askTRP23/04/15 11:34 PM
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Dude, if you need to go monk mode, then do it. Actions speak louder. As far as Oneitis is concerned: it might be tough, but cut all contact and ignore her. Approaching other women will do wonders for your abundance mentality and kill any feelings of that nasty Oneitis.
/r/askTRP23/04/15 03:03 PM
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That's because TBP is a satire sub, used strictly for making fun of what we see as the truth. God forbid you actually open your mind and see things from someone else's perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/15 02:54 PM
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I get the fact that you shouldn't trust too easily, but to have a healthy relationship, there has to be some trust of some kind. If you drop every girl at any sign of trouble, you will end up being jaded and alone. Show me a 60+ man that's not a millionaire still spinning plates that are 1/3 his age. I'll punch myself in the nuts.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 03:13 AM
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Fuck yes, I love this video! Tyler kills it!
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 05:59 PM
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Nice reference to IM there. Dude is pure gold on DT shit.
/r/askTRP21/04/15 05:48 PM
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Fall seven times and stand up eight. Never quit just because it's difficult.
/r/askTRP20/04/15 07:18 PM
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Yeah I'm considerably older. I'm a natural leader though and I'll be applying TRP to my interactions with those little shits haha
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 11:10 PM
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She's been in for two years already. But I'm realistic man, I know she'll have a lot of opportunities to AWALT while I'm at OSUT. If she doesn't, she doesn't. And thanks for the tips, I'll keep my head on straight. I'm a little older than most recruits so I've got that going for me.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 11:03 PM
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One doesn't even have to be a complete "alpha" prick to get a woman off.. You just have to fuck her well.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 05:22 PM
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Nah. I don't expect her to wait, but I have a girlfriend who is in 25U and if no one else taps it while I'm gone, I'll consider myself lucky. I know AWALT, so what I don't know doesn't hurt me. I give no fucks, so if I die, I guess I'm dead.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 05:30 AM
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Fuck it makes me so mad. I know they can't help it, bud God dammit
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 04:14 AM
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I mostly agree here, because indifference is the key to success when you get denied. It shouldn't phase your awesome life one bit if she's not DTF. Should have texted another plate, imo
/r/askTRP18/04/15 12:09 AM
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Not saying you're a troll, sweetheart. I just see that accusation often here and wondered if they had the automod
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 09:03 PM
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Wasn't sure. On mobile.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 09:03 PM
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I don't want to concern troll or whatever, but I wonder of RPW wouldn't benefit from having automod or some bot check it so that new accounts couldn't post.. Similar to the one TRP has.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 08:21 PM
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You're not out of the plate zone. You're just his only plate right now. If you're playing flirty with other people, you're doing it wrong. Both people are allowed to have boundaries in a relationship, and you need to find out where yours lie. If him flirting with other chicks on purpose (and telling you about it) is a red flag for you, then you need to bail, not flirt with someone else. So, that being said, he's dread gaming the shit out of you and it's definitely working. Ninja edit: a plate is…
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 07:34 PM
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If you read into the comments, these male strippers do not have bodyguards most of the time either, and the female ones probably almost always do. The women who hire these guys get handsy and make some of them uncomfortable, whereas if it were reversed with a female stripper, the attacker would be beat the fuck down and probably slapped with attempted rape. Fucking double standards if I've ever seen them. Add onto that the amount of brides to be that suck cock or get pregnant at these types of p…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 01:00 PM
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Everyone should be exempt from sexual assault and exploitation. Equal rights, amirite?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/15 12:09 PM
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simple.. add "right now" to it. Did this just last night. Girlfriend was going to sleep, she told me "I'm so happy" ... In my head, I just added "right now" and rolled over. Don't trust a ho.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 10:07 PM
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Like?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 06:35 PM
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Agree and amplify almost everything they say. I don't recall any time this hasn't worked for me.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 09:16 PM
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Upvoted because I laughed. Reminds me of Clerks 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/15 08:42 PM
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It just seems to be used as a derogatory term for red pillers. But whatever. I have no shame in what tools I've used to improve my (sex) life. If they don't like it after finding out and can't handle it, they'd be nexted.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/15 08:39 PM
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I've been having this problem a lot more lately..
/r/askTRP12/04/15 12:37 PM
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Go look at RSD Tyler. Even in a video he says confidence trumps good looks. /thread. Stop defending your dickish position on this guy, OP.
/r/askTRP11/04/15 04:51 PM
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I think this statement stems from the fact that there's been a lot of really stupid and unnecessary questions being asked on this sub lately ex. "Is X, Y or Z 'alpha'"
/r/askTRP11/04/15 03:04 PM
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Yeah, I'm not sure why she hasn't made herself available yet.. If there's interest, take the plunge.. What do you have to lose?
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/15 06:59 AM
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I didn't know Oneitis applied to women.. But same rules should right?
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/15 12:46 AM
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And that works for you, so more power to you. LTR is Red Pill hard mode, and I have to up my game, or lose. Quitting when it gets hard is what women do, however. I'm aware of sunk cost fallacy, and I know when it's time to walk. This situation is not at that level yet. I'm just being mindful of AWALT and the effects it can have.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 01:53 PM
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That's what started this whole thing. Her desire to increase her own SMV. I am a couple points higher than her, but she could potentially equal mine if she lost 10 or so lbs.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 01:00 PM
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Precisely why I posted this in the way I did. We can't escape from AWALT, but we can mitigate the damage done by it. I figured that you guys could help me with that, as well as serve as a warning to others to be mindful of it, because it really is that easy for them.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 12:50 PM
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Down-votes aside, you're right. And this is why I posted, because everyone should be aware of AWALT. Beta dude's boyfriend could very easily be me, if I don't play my cards the right way. As much as I really can walk, I don't want to have to - there is an endgame in mind, and that is taking into account the fact that she has all the right ingredients for a RPW, and I want to test my mettle in forging her into that. If it doesn't work, then I have that much more experience in finding what I want.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 06:27 AM
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Thanks. I appreciate all of the comments, although sometimes you feel like your game is on point, it never hurts to have an extra second/third/etc pairs to evaluate a situation. Everything has been smooth, red sailing before this point minus a shit test or two. Edit: a word
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 05:41 AM
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I know, and I'm not happy with myself for doing it, but I needed some chill. Turns out, it made me write my shitpost. She can go whenever she wants, I'm not sweating that. It's mostly those 6 points of Oneitis that took the hardest toll on my armor. I need to give less fucks.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 04:28 AM
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And part of me knows that she's not that kind. The other part knows the truth, that AWALT and it's not to be fucked with.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 04:17 AM
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I plan on losing the 5% extra body fat that I have before July 1. I'm so close that I can taste it, but this dieting shit is kicking my ass.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 03:51 AM
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10-4 on that. I'm not a fan of cheating, but IIRC, Rollo said that I don't have to necessarily fuck them, just keep them in my orbit, is that correct?
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 03:47 AM
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Oof. In honesty, like a 6. I know I can game other women, or fuck them if I want to, but I'm more of an LTR-oriented guy, so I only dread when I need to. Her wanting to come to the gym with me was a direct result of my flirting/connecting with a hotter girl than her right under her nose. Shots fired.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 03:37 AM
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Bingo. What does he win, Johnny?
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 11:23 PM
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FUCK I was so glad to hear my girlfriend's mom this weekend say some shit about how feminism is ruining fucking everything. I swear, it was like hearing a chorus of angels. Some (VERY FEW) women still have the RP mindset, and it makes me so damn happy.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 06:02 PM
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Just lay it out man. Tell her that you're not looking to be exclusive, it's just a fun fling for a while and if she isn't down with that, then you find someone who is. But you have serious Oneitis, so I know you won't do this.
/r/askTRP04/04/15 11:50 PM
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But... I don't want to create an alpha widow. I feel very sorry for them, she's a good girl and I don't want her to turn into a cock-sucking, alcohol-drinking, stranger-semen-swallowing slut. If you don't, someone else will. There's going to be a lot of alphas that she will fuck and suck dry after you. Either that, or she won't, and she'll stick to her values and maybe even be a decent girl. But if you have a conscious about it, then don't fuck her... Seems pretty open and shut to me.
/r/askTRP04/04/15 07:26 PM
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I love this analogy, fucking great.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 03:06 PM
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Even Eminem said "I joke when I say I'm the best in the booth, but a lot of truth is said in jest"
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 03:03 PM
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Do it man. I'm in a new, but very red pill relationship, (I am not a fan of plate spinning) and I intend on marrying someday, because I want kids in the same environment that I had. Maybe not her, but I'm not going to lay on my death bed and say, "Shit man, I had all that pussy, made all this money, but I wish I would have done _________." Roll the Dice
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/15 01:43 PM
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Best April fools joke on Reddit today. I laughed out loud. Thanks JP! But in all seriousness, take these tips to heart, newcomers! Dog training/parenting books go right up next to the 48 laws and The Rational Male on the old bookshelf! If she asks why you have them, show your dominance by telling her what she should be doing instead of asking dumb questions - blowing you and then making a sandwich!
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 02:28 AM
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But man, guys are going to do what they're going to do. Just like you can't make someone take the pill, you can't force them to not marry either. I'd wager that it would create a better manosphere to say, "Don't get married, it's a bad bet; but if you do, here's XY and Z to remember". We're here to create ourselves into better men, and with that, support each other when we fail. Even if it only affects a small amount of people, one good marriage that the people around it can see is going to help…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/15 04:14 PM
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Yep. Can confirm, my mother loves my sister and I far more than she does my father, and since I'm close with both of my parents, they've asked me about the changes they've seen in me since I took the red pill. I told my mom flat out that she loves us more than him, and she absolutely could not deny it. She's thought about leaving my old man even, but that's a different demon for her because of her own convictions. I wish I could give my dad the pill, and show him, but this stuff would never stic…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 01:15 PM
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I was in /r/deadbedrooms bitching and moaning about my situation and a dude slapped me across the face from wherever he was sitting somewhere in the depths of the Internet and dragged me by my throat to this place. Never looked back. So, in rare cases, forcing someone to take the pill could help them, but I was at the point where I would have done anything to save myself and my relationship. It ended up not working out, but I profited far more from the pill. So glad I found this place.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 08:24 PM
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Thanks for writing this. As of right now, I'm in a similar boat as OP. I'm around the same age, but I'm trying out new stuff, trying to figure out what I'm good at, what I like, etc. I'm pretty adaptable at most things, I can think outside the box and I work hard at whatever I start. I don't necessarily think that I should be passionless per se, but I definitely enjoy life more when I am doing whatever the hell I want to. If I could find something job-wise that would give me enough money to star…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 01:56 AM
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Articles like this make me happy that my girlfriend is 7 years younger than I am. And that her biggest goal is to be a good wife and mother. Now all I have to do is be a good RP Man. everything else, haha
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/15 09:46 PM
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This is probably the 2nd best way to combat this situation, OP. The best way is to set boundaries immediately (I had to do this, and it has worked well) and not have a party girl as an LTR - which is easier said than done, because of the attractiveness of the CC and the club scene to young people in general. Good luck OP and I hope there's an update to this, I'd like to see how it turns out.
/r/askTRP30/03/15 05:13 PM
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I consider denouncing red pill women as equal to shaming a fat dude who tries working out at the gym. Encourage change. This. It's the same reason why we're all here. Because we want to change how we were before - blue - - > red. It's unfair and hypocritical to hate them for trying to do exactly what we're all doing here, don't you think?
/r/askTRP29/03/15 03:39 PM
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Wow dude, did your girlfriend give OP her number or something? You sound pretty butthurt about something, I don't know what. OP did fine. He knew when it was time to walk away, had an abundance mentality and pulled a number. Sounds like a success to me.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 05:45 PM
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When you make eye contact with someone, the more dominant person in the interaction is the last to blink, or break the contact. So she is in a way, submitting to you. Talk to her, and observe her body language. Does she make frequent eye contact with you when she talks, or give off any IoIs?
/r/askTRP28/03/15 05:38 PM
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Pure solipsism. They know that's how they operate, so they assume men do too. And we all know what happens when you assume.. Haha
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 12:37 AM
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Nice write-up. Holy fuck this lady sucks. I'll be laughing while she smashes head-first into the wall and woes "Where have the good men gone?" just like all the others. I almost wanna bookmark it just for future laughs. He genuinely likes you for your awesome personality. (In the first link on her blog on why it's better to have a favorite orbiter rather than a boyfriend) Yeah, I bet. But more than that, he wants to fuck you, and he knows can't fuck your personality-- so he pretends that you hav…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 10:19 PM
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TLDR: Men and women are different. Today I learned...
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/15 07:26 PM
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Read The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida. "Every man knows that his highest purpose in life cannot be reduced to any particular relationship. If a man prioritizes his relationship over his highest purpose, he weakens himself, disserves the universe, and cheats his woman of an authentic man who can offer her full, undivided presence." I give you this quote because although you're asking about our purpose, for some reason you mention that an ex-girlfriend 'used' to be your purpose, and say;…
/r/askTRP27/03/15 06:08 PM
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Great FR man. I liked how you helped the hamster along with the "I never do this" nonsense with "sometimes things just click." Gonna have to borrow that line. Good job holding frame during the comedy show as well.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 12:26 AM
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I had a similar conversation with my girlfriend the other day. I didn't use any buzzwords, but I tried to convey the idea that men are unhappy in marriages and relationships and starting to realize the bullshit that Feminism spouts about equality and double standards. She agreed as well. Hopefully soon we'll see some sort of social revolution and things will go back to how they are supposed to be, albeit changed slightly of course.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 06:15 PM
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I posted in a confession thread a week ago or so and was upvoted for a while, then downvoted into oblivion. Haven't been banned AFAIK, though.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 06:11 PM
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As /u/JTPish said, embrace the suck. I myself had my (now) girlfriend spinning for months and almost begging me for commitment. She knew (I think) that I had other plates, and fortunately for me, she is hot, but still below my own SMV and does seem to have a decent moral compass. I've vetted her VERY carefully to get where I am now. I'll always remember AWALT though, and that should I ever let up on my Alpha game and giving her those tingles, it's curtains.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 06:05 PM
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Where in your vows "To have and to hold.... Til death do us part."
/r/askTRP23/03/15 06:28 PM
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I believe that if you don't leave a woman after she has lost all respect for you, ie; cheating, then you deserve to be nothing more than a cuckold. Stand up for yourself, grow a pair of balls and a backbone, recognize that you weren't man enough to keep her interested and that you let some other alpha fuck your girl. Do better on the next one. The only option at that point is to walk run the fuck away.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 02:22 AM
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This is how men are in love, irrational. Sadly, this is (seemingly) the only irrational thing we do. Every other thought and action and decision besides the ones we make for love are completely rational. Fuck, I hate knowing this shit sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 12:09 AM
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Could be she's got you friend-zoned, but also could be testing your frame or reaction to her talking about some other dude. Ask her to hang out, escalate accordingly. Her talking about other dudes shouldn't bother you unless you're in an LTR or have Oneitis for this bird
/r/askTRP20/03/15 12:53 PM
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Totally off topic, but there's gun bans in a lot of the world. It's a growing problem, but every person should be responsible for their own defense and able to defend themselves whenever and meet force with equal resistance.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 11:20 PM
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So, TRP, why do women push for going bareback? Some are in it for the same reasons we don't like them, others because of the more nefarious ones. Wearing a condom is like why I carry my gun with me whenever I can: I'd rather have it and not need it, then need it and not have it/wish I had it.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 10:39 PM
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Some days I wish I could plug back in. Then I remember that I've had way more success with the Red Pill than I ever did with the blue. It sucks knowing that the world you know now can never been unseen. The programming is strong, and that's why we feel this way sometimes - but once you've seen the Truth, that's all there is. Just truth. I've said it before, but sometimes you just want the steak taste like a damn steak.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 10:29 PM
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I think you've got them backwards. A high value woman doesn't fuck everything in sight, not the other way around. As men it's our imperative to fuck as many women as possible and spread our seed as much as we can.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 08:07 PM
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Good post man. Just make sure you follow the advice given here and don't let up too much. She still wants to know that you're the alpha she fell for. But like someone else said, sometimes you don't know how much they need until it's too late. Tread lightly and carry a big stick.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 07:34 PM
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This is a great point. Knowing that he likes x or y thing or finding some way to set yourself above the rest makes a huge difference as well.
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/15 01:50 AM
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Show him that! Actions speak louder than words, so that's your best move in my opinion. Even if it doesn't work out with this dude, you'll get a better idea of what to do the next time you meet a quality guy.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/15 09:43 PM
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I myself wouldn't want to be with a woman who thought "Oh, he's handsome enough", or "He has a good enough job". Everyone wants the best they can get, so why settle for less? And if you want to get a guy to commit, sex alone is not going to cut it. You need to show good girl game, that you're not just a place to put his dick, for lack of a better way to put it. Cook for him. Put in effort to show that you are a quality woman, who is worthy of his most valuable asset - his time. Otherwise all he'…
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/15 09:22 PM
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This. I'm of the exact same mindset, and I've been getting a little lazy the past week or two. Spring break will be a good time to get my head screwed back on straight.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 08:18 PM
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I figured that's probably what it meant, thanks for the clarification.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/15 08:14 PM
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I'm curious as to what the slutzone is. More details would be helpful.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/15 08:05 PM
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Not going to post a response to OP, as I'm a little late to the party but thank you for pointing this out. I take what parts of the red pill that work for me and my life, and discard the rest. I will probably marry someday, because I want kids in a two parent household. But I maintain my leadership and my girlfriend respects that. I respect her opinion, but in the end I make decisions that benefit both of us together.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/15 06:11 PM
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A strong personality isn't something most women possess anyway, whether she's 18 or 29. Hamster gonna ham though
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 12:22 PM
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YES. I was lazy all weekend and hung out with my girl for most of it. Felt like I was literally turning blue. Then I was back in the gym yesterday and felt amazing again afterwards. IDGAF was my SOP again and it was awesome. As for advice, any kind of physical activity within your limits should help that T level go back up. Make sure you're still eating those red meats and green veggies though, that'll help you still feel better inside when you can't lift.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 10:05 PM
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My next tattoo will be this. I'll update when it's done.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 10:02 PM
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Yeah, I'd get all that in writing if you're actually naive enough to do this... But at any rate, six months is a short time to be in a relationship and moving in together. And anyway, you have to give at least 30 days notice to vacate in most states. (In the US) Rollo suggests you move in together when you're getting MARRIED in six months or less. I wouldn't do any sooner, if I were you. That much woman around all the time would be a nuclear power plant waiting to meltdown.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 09:59 PM
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I agree, and I liked that post as well. Myself, I've gotten to the point where I'm comfortable enough in the Red Pill theory now that I don't have to frequent it every day, but still be mindful of the social interactions I have and apply as needed. I'm also applying TRP to an exclusive relationship, which has been working well - she's very submissive and goes out of her way to take care of me, which earns her a lot of points. But I've been careful to remember AWALT and know that it's probably ju…
/r/askTRP16/03/15 09:54 PM
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"sex is like air, if you dont have enough you cant breath" I was misquoted. I said sex is only important if you're not getting any. Meaning that the effects of not getting it are greater than the effects of getting it. Hey look! Another guy who does all he does for women! What a weakling. If you keep being controlled by your biology you're going to end up like this guy. Cringecity Yeah that was a cringeworthy post for sure. But remember, we were all some degree of blue at one point or another. F…
/r/askTRP16/03/15 08:04 PM
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Gotcha. Yeah, plate, rinse, repeat or bail. Standard operating procedure.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 06:53 PM
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She replied with "Don't you get it, I'm done, I don't want any contact with you!" Are you dense, bro? Maybe you mixed up the event timeline here or something, but the quote above clearly says "Don't contact me" and you're asking us if you should meet with this ho? I'm seriously confused here.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 06:05 PM
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Sex is like air. It's only important if you're not getting any.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 02:55 PM
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I don't think it's a shit test. He let her see the cracks in his armor, and she went for the killing blow. OP's relationship is sunk, best for him to move on and forget about her.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 02:32 PM
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Yep, definitely going to try that line out. And props to OP.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/15 01:35 AM
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Keep on keeping on. You were right to let it go, it sucks when you lose friends but they just showed their true colors. Next her, and find other chicks to hang out with.
/r/askTRP14/03/15 06:53 AM
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We had a limit to how much we could bench on my college XC team. I believe it was 145. You can lift, and still be a great runner. You just have to lift smarter, and not necessarily heavy. We had an 8-time national championship D-II coach. Do more body weight exercises as well.
/r/askTRP13/03/15 01:32 AM
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This is a good point. She's testing the branch to see if she can swing to it and get caught.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 11:58 PM
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A great idea. Thanks a lot. She does well with her nieces and nephews so it's a good start.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 11:52 PM
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I have a similar situation with my girlfriend. She appears to be open and honest with me completely. Like I could be her AF and BB. Just earlier this week conversation got a little serious about end game and she told me, "All I've ever wanted is to be a good wife and mom." I didn't expect that at all, I was stunned for a second. Let's see if actions follow her words.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 07:51 PM
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Damn, missed that opportunity. Thanks!
/r/askTRP12/03/15 07:25 PM
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This came up in my LTR recently. I wanted wings, she wanted steak. I didn't want to buy steak. I held my frame, she went with her girlfriend instead. I had wings. Win win.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 06:45 PM
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Yep, I call BS. OP's responses reek of beta
/r/askTRP11/03/15 11:34 PM
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OP, this is the right answer. You don't find a quality woman from OKC who lets you fuck her the first night.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 11:31 PM
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Can't turn a ho to a housewife
/r/askTRP11/03/15 01:40 PM
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This is what I love about the SGM. I rarely get shit tests from my LTR, and I want to believe that it stems from the fact that I fuck her well. Right from the gate, I pulled no punches and did what I wanted to do, and we have an awesome sex life. Huge turnaround from previous relationships, and if it ever goes South (no pun intended) I'm out. The bar is set now, and it can only go higher.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/15 05:37 PM
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Any plans to do another AMA on TRP, Rollo?
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 08:09 PM
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We do know that. Very few women are worth the time, energy and money to stay with in that capacity, however. RPW was created for like minded women who recognize their hypergamy and do their best to keep their biology in check and let their men lead. This place teaches men to be that leader, and like I said before, you are a fish. I am a fisherman. You cannot teach me how to catch you. Others who read my comment agreed with me and disagree with you. The downvotes speak for themselves. Lurk and co…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 06:56 PM
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If your female friends wanted some, they can volunteer and come get some. You aren't responsible for their self image. Stop being such a pussy and get over it. This. I'm all for helping out new guys, but seriously why should OP give any fucks about making his female friend 'feel bad'? Is this a serious question?
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 03:36 PM
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Sounds like you have experience in this... Wanna do a mini AMA?
/r/askTRP09/03/15 02:56 PM
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Yeah but this guy was way too blue pill for that kind of thinking. He had crippling Oneitis.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 10:32 AM
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An overwhelming majority of them will cheat. I don't even trust my own girlfriend enough to expect that she won't. In fact, I expect that she will, and then I won't be disappointed or surprised. Just Friday night I got a number from a girl who was LITERALLY texting her boyfriend while we were all hanging out. I peeked on the phone to see what he was writing, it went something like this: "Hey baby are you having fun?" "Yep, what are you doing?" "Just sitting at home, waiting for you. Wanna watch …
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 12:09 AM
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I go to PF because it's cheap and close to where I live. It's also motivating because I watch all the tread-millers and curl bros and think of the gains they're not making. I get more than my money's worth there, and when I move later this year, I'll join a better gym. I can definitely see the hate, because they don't offer a lot of the stuff you actually need, but at the same time their business plan is pretty genius.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 08:55 PM
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Great article. A guy looking for an LTR should see this. I might have to do a write up for the main sub about it even.
/r/askTRP07/03/15 12:17 AM
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Hip-hop and rap have been my go-tos. Most rappers are pretty much the epitome of RP philosophy. They don't say things like 'plates', but it's implied. I'm a 90's rap guy, so Method Man, Em, Biggie/Tupac, you get the idea.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 10:22 PM
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I lost it when I read this. Thanks dude.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 08:19 PM
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Username does not match FR. Error does not compute System shut-down.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 07:41 PM
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"I think I'm gonna need a closer look. Meet me at X place at Y time." Fuck her. Achievement unlocked
/r/askTRP06/03/15 07:38 PM
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The red pill hasn't failed me yet, in the 8 months I've been applying it to my life. Damn right it pays off.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 05:02 PM
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There is no, highest form of Red Pill as TRP is unique to each and every man. We all walk our own path and should be congratulating the guys who are owning their shit and improving daily. It's not a competition and shouldn't be LTR vs nonLTR, Marriage vs Plates. ^ This right here. It's a personal journey and as with any other task or challenge in life, we must each find our own way to conquer it. When we band together as men, however, we can help each other recognize Truth and as well as help ea…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 04:31 PM
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Why get married only to get divorced and lose half or more of your shit? If I'm going to do it, it's going to be with a damn good woman who is always satisfied with my dick and has no desire for any others- as in she's literally wrapped around it, and an iron-clad prenuptial agreement. That way I only have to do it once.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 04:26 PM
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I'm in an LTR. I can't wait for the day when she tries to branch swing. It's going to be hilarious.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 04:17 AM
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Don't LDR or semi-LDR any woman, dude. I've been there. I've had her literally tell me "You should sleep with other girls," because she'd already cheated and wanted to feel better about it. This coupled with the fact that you're hamstering reasons why you should stay with this chick even though your gut says "Don't do it". Otherwise you wouldn't have come to AskTRP or here.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/15 02:11 AM
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Can we nominate /u/IllimitableMan to write some guest articles or something for this? Dude always puts out quality responses and content and doesn't fuck around.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 02:02 AM
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Great response, thank you. Last question; is this applied when she is complaining/shit testing/comfort testing? Or literally everything she does/says?
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 11:13 PM
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I can't speak for a married guy, but I know that when I took the pill initially, I knew that I was in a dead end job and I needed to go back to school and do what I really loved spending time on, even if it meant struggle - thanks NMMG. When I did that, it was the beginning of the end of my LTR I was in at the time, because not only did she see that I was dread gaming her pretty hard through my gym routine, among other things - but that she was losing her control over me because I would be in a …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/15 06:56 PM
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Does someone have extensive experience in explaining amused mastery with some common examples? TRM does a good job but it seems to me that is the lifeblood of keeping things light and fun rather than letting things get bogged down by feeeelings and Rollo's blog post on it doesn't delve too deeply into examples of it.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 05:24 PM
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Hey, great post. As a guy who's more LTR oriented, this has some major points that I consider useful to my own situation. Lifting definitely gives me a aura of confidence that she can bask in with me and helps me be the oak tree that she needs. While I don't look like your physique just yet, I see progress towards that and it only motivates me further. Which of course, means more tingles and less chance of a branch swing. Beginning a relationship as a newer red pill man is not a road many would …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/15 04:19 PM
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Even as blue pill I would have at least questioned it immediately and gauged the reaction, acted accordingly. (ie; leave her ass) My prediction: dude will ask her about it and she'll swear up and down they're just friends. Then the trickle truth will start to come out. After that, he will probably say "You're not allowed to see him anymore", she'll wait til they marry, then take cash and prizes. Child support too because he was raising her kid.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 12:38 AM
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Haha right? But even with the knowledge of not doing those things, people still stay in shit relationships. /r/relationships for example
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 08:21 PM
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Pretty sure I smell troll. But I'll bite: you'd be surprised at how many guys will rationalize away the fact that their SO is cheating on them, even with evidence beyond a shadow of a doubt. "Oh, they're just good friends, " is a common one.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 07:42 PM
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Great response. This is what I was hoping someone would say, I just didn't know how to articulate it with the right RP attitude. Nicely put.
/r/askTRP04/03/15 06:52 PM
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I'm just baffled at the fact that a dude found a text like that and didn't just start packing her shit. Or his, depending on the situation. I don't think I'd even say a word about it, I'd just go.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 05:12 PM
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Thank you all, gentlemen. I found this sub through a /r/deadbedrooms situation, I was nearly hopeless and broken down - didn't know where to turn or what to do and this place has helped me turn my life around 100 fold. I'll be the first to admit, that it's difficult to accept the truth and kill that beta, but that constant improvement and motivation I get from all of you keeps me going. Reading your stories and your perceptions on the topics discussed here really has changed my life and it's onl…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 04:52 PM
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I yield!
/r/askTRP04/03/15 04:25 PM
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It's also a year-long relationship with presumably no hiccups until now. Sorry man, your advice is usually great, but I really have to disagree on this one. Downgrade to plate status, sure - but like /u/ausgeo123 said: if you shoot your puppy in the head as soon as it nips you, you're never going to have a sheep dog. You can correct bad behavior, and women are human too and actually DO make mistakes sometimes and drink over their limit.
/r/askTRP04/03/15 04:13 PM
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I'd go with silence first. When she realizes why you've withdrawn attention, and she will, she will come back and behave like she should. If not, or it happens again, hard next and no contact.
/r/askTRP04/03/15 03:45 PM
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I disagree, but to each his own. Better to be safe, than sorry I guess.
/r/askTRP04/03/15 03:42 PM
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This was a one instance situation, from what I gather. I'm not convinced she's a 'party girl' per se, maybe she just got caught up in the group's mentality that night. But I would definitely be cautious and soft next her so that when she comes back she'll be on good behavior. You have to remember that women get their validation from the group and if she hadn't went with them, she'd look like an outcast.
/r/askTRP04/03/15 03:07 PM
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I see LTRs as a test of how much I've learned and can apply on a constant basis. It's easy to hold frame with a woman you are only sleeping with, but it becomes more difficult and can be more rewarding when a few more chips are on the table. I've always been a LTR guy anyway, sleeping with women who have had a hundred dicks in their mouths is slightly unappetizing. I choose carefully and strategically enough to (hope) that the women I do end up in a relationship with aren't cock thirsty whores.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 01:19 PM
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dont do it because thats what women want. Couldn't agree more. I didn't change my behaviors so I could be more attractive to women. That was just a great side-effect. I did it so that I wasn't supplicating to them any longer and so that I could love myself more, because no one else will. TRP helped me realize that I had a shit job I didn't want to be in forever, that I had to go back to school and be a man for once in my life at 27 years old. Hopefully guys who read OP can distinguish the differ…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 03:23 AM
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Practically every one of us here was a beta in some form or another before happening across the Manosphere. I mean, OP says right off the bat, I am anything but a natural alpha and these are some simple techniques I've employed to "fake it till I make it". changing everything about yourself is not alpha I disagree. I had to change a lot of behaviors about myself (putting myself first for one) before I started to see success with TRP. Sometimes dudes just need a reminder of what not to do. Also, …
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 02:45 AM
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Some of us gotta fake it til we make it, homie. Why not provide constructive criticism instead?
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 01:30 AM
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We'd rather you not try to give "insight". This is a men's space, and women have very little influence here. I would recommend /r/redpillwomen but since you are not inclined to marry, (again) they might not be very receptive either. I don't ask fish how to catch them, I ask fishermen.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 05:03 PM
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A much better way of putting it. Your last post came off as extremely angry, but this one is leaps and bounds better, and more direct. The red pill is truth, you're right. And the truth hurts sometimes. Myself, I need to up the alpha a little more. But that's why we're here - growth. We were (mostly) all conditioned the same way, and unlearning those behaviors is the most bitter and jagged part of taking the pill. That said, TRP is about becoming better men in a society that has shunned men for …
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 02:51 PM
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Been talking to a girl on an online dating site for a week You're giving her free validation, probably a great many guys are hitting her up constantly and you're losing because you haven't met her in person yet. Do that, game and escalate accordingly. My question is why did you play into her frame by trying to find out what she's looking for? Assume you already know and go from there.
/r/askTRP03/03/15 03:48 AM
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I don't think either is bad, it is exactly that - just a strategy - one way or another. But, I get what you're saying. I've read and re-read this post and its comments several times over since the discussion started, and what seems to me the point missed is that OP, even in his edit came across as angry because women place you into these categories. He is also assuming that if you are not an asshole-super-alpha-fucktard to everyone, then you're a betafag and you should be shamed for that, and yo…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 03:32 AM
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I was confused by this too. I'm glad you cleared it up.
/r/askTRP03/03/15 12:41 AM
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Ha same shit happened to me! Girl I'm banging has one (or more) orbiters, one of them shows up unannounced last night while she's cooking for me. She shoos him away, fucks me in her bedroom later to make up for it. Orbiters gonna orbit. I just dread it up and show her that I'm the best option.
/r/askTRP03/03/15 12:36 AM
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Give her a time and place to meet you at for a drink or something, if she flakes or ignores, next her.
/r/askTRP02/03/15 07:49 PM
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beta strategy Why? Care to explain? Plenty of Red Pill men are married or in LTRs and do just fine. That's what you fucks don't seem to get: I choose my own path, and (for instance) that's one of an LTR at the moment. When that runs its course, I will spin up more plates. I apply TRP to my life and it works for me the way I want it to. If you want to "simply kick her to the curb and maybe even do it just because you felt like it", go right ahead. That's your prerogative, ain't nobody here gonna …
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 11:46 PM
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Well said. You're right, O wise one. I'm just a blueper in disguise. I've been discovered!
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 08:09 PM
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Ouch. Yeah that was a mistake on your part then. Did you know about her cheating past when you went exclusive with her?
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 06:41 PM
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Good, Good. Let the hate flow through you. You're missing the point dude - I am fully aware that I should put myself first. But that doesn't mean I have to be a giant dick to every woman because they're a woman and they only want AF or BB. I've read NMMG. Multiple times. I've read TRM. I'm in the middle of Way of the Superior Man. I am pretty well versed in RP theory, and I've implemented it in the field. It's improved my life a hundred-fold. I have walked away from girls trying to lock me down …
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 06:38 PM
11

Yeah, I don't see the AWALT here. Stacy had an orbiter, fucked an alpha, then another one... then... You dump her? Where is AWALT? Plzexplain
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 06:22 PM
20

You sound pretty angry in this post. You've provided a ton of resources from Rollo, which is a great guideline. But as with anything, there is a science to having a RP relationship/marriage. If a guy was a dick all the time to his woman, she would feel as though he was just using her for sex. She wouldn't stay, she would have no reason to. There's a reason why LTR game states that you have to have a mix of Alpha and Beta qualities in order to obtain and maintain a healthy relationship. WHICH, BY…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 06:11 PM
1

Dude, I live in ND. I'm from a different state and RP theory applies everywhere. And you can be nice without being a beta pushover pussy. Midwesterners are just nice all around. It's refreshing, but I've applied TRP here and it works perfectly fine. AWALT here too, however so be mindful of that.
/r/askTRP28/02/15 02:38 AM
1

Next. Game other women. She's using you as an orbiter and probably for your alcohol. Why waste your time feigning interest when you could use your energy effectively and not have to fake it?
/r/askTRP28/02/15 01:24 AM
2

Signed. This would be good to do like the 48 laws of power segment someone did a while back. Do an episode / advice piece and let people discuss it each release.
/r/askTRP28/02/15 01:01 AM
1

I had a math teacher that always told us that "we didn't have to do anything, we got to." He instilled a good work ethic in me at least, that way. Looking back on it, dude was pretty RP himself. He used to be close friends with my old man, I wonder how he's doing now.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 12:36 AM
2

I've never been anything but respectful to women. Do they say one thing and mean another? All the time. When I "took the red pill", I just learned how to read these interactions and use them to my benefit. Am I a little more of a jerk? Playfully, yes. Do I actually mean it? No. Relationships should be fun, and I aim to make all of mine as fun as possible. I think it's a little presumptuous to assume that we are not respectful. As far as slut shaming? I don't slut shame anyone, Internet or otherw…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 09:24 PM
7

I wondered if someone else saw RP in his post. A real shame for what shit luck he's had, but those words really resonated with me. His stoicism gave me chills, honestly. Makes me glad I took the pill and I now create my own happiness. They're simple words really, but we get caught up sometimes in the world and trying to get laid, succeed financially etc and lose sight of the big picture which is; you only get one shot and you don't know when it's going to be over, so you'd better do your damndes…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 07:22 PM
1

Iron rule of Tomassi #5. Always be in control of the birth (control).
/r/askTRP27/02/15 01:19 PM
3

Right, but I think the point being made by Tits_out is that you can't go around being butthurt about some other dudes woman making poor choices and trying to branch swing. It's her fault for making that choice (agency) and it is up to the man who would be the new branch to fuck her or put a stop to it and not get involved. If OP doesn't fuck girls in relationships, that's his prerogative. That is in his set of values. But she would do it with him or someone else, and that's what makes sexual str…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 08:27 PM
3

Sexual strategy is amoral. That's the bottom line. If a dude isn't taking care of his wife and Captain of his own ship, the minute his canoe starts to sink, that first mate is gonna be looking for a yacht to jump to.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 03:02 PM
3

I'm sure that it doesn't. They're all about dem feelz and whether or not you give them tingles, so truth or lie if you're doing that, you're going in the right direction. I'll check out that post though, my curiosity has been piqued.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 02:24 AM
2

I've found I'm not the best liar, so I just make my life awesome so I don't have to make it up. If they don't like it they don't belong in my company.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 02:11 AM
6

I seem to do better with Tinder if I don't pussyfoot around and validate them a whole bunch. If they're down to meet up, they will. If not, next
/r/askTRP25/02/15 09:30 PM
3

Not married, but just started an exclusive LTR. I know she appreciates my gym routine and I literally drip sweat when we go at it. I can go two or three rounds in one session, and exercise is so important for keeping that T level high, it can't be stressed enough. It creates better posture, increased confidence, the benefits go on and on. (Especially when you can toss her around, which gets those tingles going crazy) Being able to go harder, better, faster stronger will definitely be a valuable …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/15 03:56 PM
2

The thing about the red pill is that it's a set of ideals about sexual strategy. But it's not a strict set of rules that you have to follow in order to create an LTR. Take what we say here as a king would take advice from his advisors. Yeah, low partner count, not getting wasted every week, good family structure, etc are all good guidelines, but that's what they are: guidelines. If you wanna LTR some girl, fucking do it man. You don't need us to tell you if you should. Matter of fact, if you hav…
/r/askTRP18/02/15 04:09 PM
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