Why She Left You

The Real Reason You Got Dumped

Second Time Posting. Again, I'm more of a speaker so if you are too lazy to read, then listen through this short video: https://youtu.be/xNQO-mS6hrc

Intro

So she left you, and you properly wonder why. You may have an idea or two of why she left, but none are for sure. After all, she left you heartbroken without looking back or saying much. Even when she implies she wants to stay friends, you know it is the end of the relationship, the end of time having fun, the end of moments making love, the end of a beautiful chapter. She says that this is probably better for her and better for you, and you agree. Yet as often as it is, you still missing her and wanting her to come back. You may try your best to be her friend or beg her to rebuild what has been destroyed, but we all know none of that works. It's ended, it's done. Stop having delusional hopes. The reason she will never return is the exact same reason why she left: You have become weak, as a lover and as a man, mentally, emotionally and ambitiously.

Body

You were weak because you became too comfortable with her and with yourself. You became weak because you begin prioritizing her needs over your own. You stayed weak because you treat her as if all there was in your life. Face it, a weak man is an undesirable man and she left because she lost attraction to a man who is no longer attractive. You failed to maintain your masculine edge when you let her be the one in charge of the relationship. You sank into complacency and comfort when you took her for granted, as a source of pride and pleasure. You lost touch with your purposes and ambitions by making her the focus of your life. When all your thoughts, emotions and actions are dependent on her, her love becomes your obsession and your love becomes her obligations. Women despise that, for it shows that you are a man of neediness and nothing kills attraction faster than a needy man.

Neediness is a weak man trait. It turns a man into a woman in the relationship. When you constantly seeking love, attention and approvals, you are taking the role of the feminine entity in a sexual relationship, and if she is a feminine woman, you will destroy her attraction and hence her love. Opposite attracts and similar repeals. A true feminine woman does not want a man who acts like a woman nor a man who is insecure about his manliness.

You being needy is a sign of the lack of masculine energy within yourself. It is a symptom of a man with a scarcity mindset, who fears losing his woman, who fears making her upset, who fears setting up boundaries and standing up to her. It shows that you can be pushed over and be controlled and be taken advantages of. It tells her that you are no longer a man who fits for her, but like any other man who bends over their back and yield to her wishes and demands. Your neediness turns you into a prize for participating instead of a prize to be won, and when your love for her is given and not earned, she will lose respects for who you are and what you can give.

Neediness kills attraction and weaknesses kills respect. A woman can not love you without respecting you in a romantic and sexual relationship. That is the cold hard truth wrapped in a pill, waiting for a man to swallow. If at any point that you find yourself not capable of leaving your woman, knows that she is fully capable of leaving you. It is in the feminine (women) nature to want a man who is better than her in every way, a man who is of higher value than her, a man who she looks up to and a man who is not unphased of her and her energy.

Stay mediocre and not living up to your potential, and she will leave you. Remain soft and abandon your masculine edge, and you will lose her for good. She wants the best of you, not the worst of you, not someone who she can run over and be in charge of, because that is not the man who she envisions and trusts to be the leader of her tribe, the father of her children and the man of her life. Her love and lust can only ever last if you are willing to show her your worth and where you both stand in the relationship. She wants a man, not a boy nor a woman.

Ending

But it is all too late now. She has left you, and you know it's for good, whether because she already got someone in her mind or left without once looking back. Then what do you do? You move on. Honestly, move the fuck on. That is it, the first step in reclaiming any self-worth for yourself as a man is to move on. You have always need to learn and have the ability to walk away and now is the time, to open a new chapter of your life, to start improving yourself again, to experience the wonders of life and hopefully a better and more deserving relationship (for yourself)

You know what you need to know, you learned from your mistake. Forgive her and forgive yourself but never forget. Don't rush. Take your time and learn to be happy single. Go find what is your purpose and what is most important to you. True happiness does not come from a woman. She is only ever a complement to your life. Focus on yourself, and build your life to a point where people want to be apart of your journey, not the other way around. Don't try to fit your life into a woman, find a woman that fits into your life, and you will live happier and more fulfilling than ever.