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thiikn/r/askTRP04/07/19 12:10 AM
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Question For Menthiikn/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:28 AM
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Questionthiikn/r/newTRP31/07/21 05:16 PM
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I've see both this and the contrary. dude has kids and then he doesn't want to put the extra effort (which means working when you should be home). I, not having that extra responsability, will work my ass off to get exceptional results. I still do, and then I'll hit the bar on Friday anyway
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/24 12:52 AM
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I jump into existential thinking everytime my gf pisses me off with random unnecessary whining
/r/askMRP01/12/23 04:23 AM
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I had a 10. Eventually things took turns and suddenly I was the one pursuing her. I broke frame and she cut me off without hesitation. I don't see that happening with my 8 now.
/r/askMRP01/12/23 04:21 AM
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tbrh I don't want kids for the same reason I don't want a pet: I don't care and I don't want the added responsability.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:40 AM
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I kinda identify with it, I need some ioi. I'm not approaching a girl that isnt even facing towards me and hasn't noticed me
/r/TheRedPill21/04/22 04:23 PM
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atm I'm seeing a hot girl on the bench press. the gym is fucking crowded. how the fuck you approach
/r/TheRedPill21/04/22 04:21 PM
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atm I'm seeing a hot girl on the bench press. the gym is fucking crowded. how the fuck you approach is
/r/TheRedPill21/04/22 04:21 PM
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30 and single, never had more pussy in my life
/r/newTRP09/03/22 04:53 PM
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why the fuck do you want to talk to girls when you're away from them? it's useless (unless you're famous 10/10). get intimate with them while you're in person, that's how it works. you don't simply say "hello give me your insta" and then expect to uncover a big online convo. get intimate in person and when you chat them online they'll give you attention (remember: logistics only)
/r/newTRP09/03/22 04:53 PM
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she acts jealous around me and wants everyone to see me as her boyfriend. not that I say anything to make her feel that way, cause I never do
/r/newTRP06/03/22 10:32 PM
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totally don't marry a girl that only has been with you, eventually she'll become curious if the neighbour's grass is greener. you'll notice she starting to become colder and... oh wait, it's happening already. break up, you're butthurt of her behavior and that means something (unless you're really a bitch and things are fine).
/r/newTRP05/03/22 11:01 PM
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I was having a shitty boredom day at my parent's house... Far away from my friends, the pandemic, bad weather, nothing good on TV... Oneitis did its thing and I complained that she was taking too long to reply to my texts. Wtf... She was like "so what? I don't owe you anything". From that day on I noticed my cool consistently decaying through her eyes, suddenly I was the one committing more. She got drier and eventually kicked my butt for someone else.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 03:51 AM
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exactly. I was dating a 10, above my league. bitch was so into me... until I broke frame. Once. One mistake. At that moment tables turned, suddendly I was the one pursuing her. It ended a few weeks later.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 09:17 PM
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Dude what you said about average people having no will to move hits close to home, so how do I break the cycle?
/r/TheRedPill30/12/21 02:55 PM
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So.. How the fuck do you avoid layering? Do I go out to socialize but no alcohol?
/r/TheRedPill13/12/21 09:16 AM
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Always finish on her mouth
/r/TheRedPill09/11/21 04:03 PM
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Could at least told her to take the pill and then ghost
/r/TheRedPill09/11/21 03:59 PM
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Is the kid good at football by any chance?
/r/newTRP09/11/21 03:56 PM
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force yourself to approach, count to 3 and go. straight approaches, in which you'll have a yes or no within 10s. it'll work (maybe after a couple of negatives) and you'll be back. then you may go back to approaching your way
/r/newTRP29/08/21 10:40 PM
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is this some red pill consensus? interesting, I've thought about that, but it's something that was already happening "naturally". I don't tend to get along with such dudes
/r/newTRP28/08/21 07:50 PM
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abundance. you don't fucking care if she replies or not, don't be offended by that (else you look weak). act normally when you stumble upon her in person, she'll be the one hamstering about you. don't worry too much about online texting, the real world happens when you go out
/r/TheRedPill28/08/21 07:40 PM
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thank u and sorry
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/21 12:52 AM
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yeah. I like getting in love, not staying in love though. nothing better than having sex with that girl you've been eyeballing who's a friend of a friend, have fun for 2 weeks, leave
/r/newTRP18/08/21 11:25 PM
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why the fuck would you wrestle a pig in the mud? it likes it
/r/newTRP12/08/21 09:30 PM
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I have no intentions of being friends with single girls, but I like being friends with girls in a relationship. They'll introduce me to their girlfriends with no jealousy, then it's piece of cake same applies to the GFs of my bros, I'll befriend them for the same reason
/r/newTRP08/08/21 07:40 PM
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yeah, but he shouldn't be saying "baby it's OK if you see other dudes", that'd be stupid. he'd best ignore this shit test
/r/newTRP31/07/21 05:23 PM
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fuck no, just leave if it's really that bad. don't try to negotiate attention
/r/TheRedPill29/06/21 12:04 AM
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how often do you get bloodworks done to keep track so closely?
/r/askTRP24/06/21 12:06 AM
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Just turned 30. Feeling better than ever. Still have strong high energy, unlike those twenty somethings that say 'oh when I was younger I could party all night, now I just want to sleep'. Bitch, I never lost that.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/21 06:50 PM
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I don't get it how you keep your T "within normal range". are you cruising? how much?
/r/askTRP23/06/21 01:27 AM
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I don't know man...I look good, but I'm not genetically gifted. I had to work hard, so I'll never be a 10. if I hit women on the internet (instagram/tinder) with my shitty photos max I can get is a 7. cold approaching at bars I can pull 8's. being the party king I am with my charisma, I pull 10's via SOCIAL PROOF.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/21 01:25 AM
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yeah, it sounded like he was afraid to set boundaries. and he really was
/r/TheRedPill22/06/21 06:53 PM
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maybe he just needed the experience and from now on he'll be more prepared for casual relationships. It happened to me this year.. I was always the "lovee" of my former relationships, so it was easy to just do myself and not go blind. This last time I was also the "lovee" at first. The girl is a 10, so after 3 months of strong frame I eventually fucked up and she probably noticed she's above my level. From this moment on I became the "lover". And we know what happens when we're the ones chasing.…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/21 06:00 PM
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Needing closure is bullshit. Assume it already ended asap. You kept your hamster spinning on and on. Also, you both were single so why did she bring up an open relationship? I would just say "What makes you think I'm not seeing anyone else? We're not exclusive. I'm single". Afterall, the moment she proposed polyamory it was already over.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/21 05:51 PM
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you wanna get cucked badly, don't ya? you're procrastinating this with your every move
/r/askTRP20/06/21 11:51 AM
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roses are great at unfogging unfaithful affairs, keep her! keep her! love wins
/r/askTRP20/06/21 05:40 AM
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on a second thought, keep her. hug her close and pay her trip to ride the other guy's dick. meanwhile prepare her a huge surprise when she gets back. lots of roses and her favorite food, surely this will make her love you again. then you can talk about how the sex with the other guy went as you enjoy a fine glass of wine together by the fire, and after that you'll be fine as a couple.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 05:37 AM
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one doesn't simply try to be beta beta is in you
/r/askTRP20/06/21 05:32 AM
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Well, then I guess I was her best option for 4 months, and then she found someone better and threw the "I didn't want anything serious" bullshit. Not bad, really. My first 10 after a long period of personal growth (where I sticked with a 7 for 2 years). I'm ready for more 10's.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/21 08:36 AM
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dude, I think he deserves the ritual, I see something different in this guy. we should do it
/r/askTRP19/06/21 08:20 AM
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the other day I wrote on a note "how to make her chase" that's the answer right here
/r/askTRP19/06/21 08:11 AM
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ever heard of B A L A N C E
/r/askTRP19/06/21 08:05 AM
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give him examples
/r/askTRP19/06/21 07:51 AM
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I have this friend who curses at his girlfriend when they're fighting (happens constantly) and it's the fucking ugliest thing you can see, looks like cowardice. She sticks with him because she is mindfucked and was a single mother, I don't think you should look for those girls. If she had more self respect she'd walk away, but it's none of my business. I don't think I've ever shown anger towards a woman, but I wish I told my ex to go to hell
/r/askTRP19/06/21 07:48 AM
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but yeah, it's funny how a few frame slips are enough to suddenly turn you beta in her eyes. we can't afford to miss
/r/askTRP19/06/21 07:23 AM
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you shouldn't upscale your treatment of uglier girls, you should downscale your treatment with attractive girls
/r/askTRP19/06/21 07:22 AM
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yep. as long as she doesn't find out her smv is higher than yours and you keep doing yourself and not turn into someone who lives to please your partner like that blue valentine movie... you're probably fine
/r/askTRP19/06/21 07:16 AM
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tbh I paid for some dates, yes. we'd split sometimes. actually I just wanted to emphasize that I was not trying to buy a ticket into her pants. you're right
/r/askTRP08/06/21 01:33 PM
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yeah but there's just no way to find out her n count, she'll just lie
/r/askTRP07/06/21 11:27 AM
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I don't know, nor do I want to. yeah, I don't know if I would call a sugar daddy someone beta. when you have enough money, buying her shit is less expensive than giving her your time with attention.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 04:54 AM
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sorry for trying too hard. still trying to make terms with that. I was always a dumper, never a dumpee. didn't think of her as someone like that, because as I've said.. we used to split bills and she'd travel many miles to see me. I'm the one to blame, obviously. never should've stopped reading trp. reading this forum has been more helpful than plating lower level girls.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 04:50 AM
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why do u wanna know? if you had an OK n count you wouldn't give 2 shits about what women do, you weak freak
/r/askTRP07/06/21 03:42 AM
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so I got a message from her bestie (clearly the girl's into me, but yeah) saying that the girl I was dating showed her the messages we exchanged, and that they fought because she stood by my side. then she tells me she's very immature and they're not friends anymore, and that I deserve better and I can call her whenever I need anything (lol). ​ as I was told apparently when we fought (because of my ex) she met a new guy. this guy straight up told to her face he doesnt want anything serious, so s…
/r/askTRP04/06/21 03:44 PM
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that's why I left my 2 latest ex's - eventually I was too good for them. It was accidental, but kinda fit with what you said.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 03:26 PM
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watch out for your fugly unicorn, she hasn't lived a crazy life, so she's curious of what is it like. she'll jump right onto an opportunity to prove something new. edit: sorry to be the one saying this, but we've seen stories like that before. "I was dating a good girl, good family, she used to tell me she was going to the church, until I found out she was actually banging a guy next block".
/r/askTRP04/06/21 03:19 PM
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good thinking
/r/askTRP03/06/21 08:22 PM
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lol, that's bullshit logic.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 04:14 PM
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at least if we had that set up from the get go I would had plated around twice as much. from now on maybe I should expect that it's nothing serious until we discuss if it's serious? or AWALT?
/r/askTRP03/06/21 04:12 PM
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that sums it up basically. sure I have no intentions of interacting with her ever again, but let her be the butthurt one. I do myself.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 04:08 PM
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they know/hate each other. I mean, clearly this girl is above my ex's level, but maybe she doesn't know that. you're right
/r/askTRP03/06/21 04:06 PM
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we're always the villains anyway
/r/askTRP03/06/21 04:04 PM
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you don't, it will sound needy as fuck. haven't you got anybody else to talk to? haven't you got shit to do? if you already done it, you broke frame
/r/askTRP03/06/21 12:01 PM
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maybe your brother already got her pregnant. it's one of those things "the more you think about, the more likely it is to happen". go ahead and try setting something up, unfortunately I can't add much to this
/r/askTRP01/06/21 12:56 AM
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a bit machiavelic, but you gotta pay another girl to tease him. his lack of abundance prevents him from seeing the red flags. I had a cousin like that, married an older girl with kids at 18. soon he had his own with her.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 12:46 AM
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did he bang you?
/r/askTRP31/05/21 09:39 PM
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unfortunately it's not easy. I'm constantly spinning plates yet my brain still obsesses about my ex. That I can't control. I have stupid dreams about her, and more often than it should she's my first thought of the day. and we haven't talked for months as well. it sucks. I'm a grown man with most of my shit sorted out, just so you know. but still...
/r/askTRP31/05/21 09:34 PM
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I think you should enjoy the pain, someday you'll be married and your emotional life drama will be sorted out. I'm spinning a few plates and still thinking about my ex, it's not that easy
/r/askTRP31/05/21 09:28 PM
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more than often: drinks at your place + cook/order something, a movie and sex. if you're spending high constantly you're doing it wro g.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 09:26 PM
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"UNCLE JIMMY YOU BROUGHT US CANDY"
/r/askTRP31/05/21 09:20 PM
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you are stupid. guys with these questions "oh but we shouldn't give them attention, then why game?". You gotta open the conversation and catch her attention somehow, bitch. Then you slowly draw. ffs
/r/askTRP29/05/21 04:43 AM
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lol. introverts that didn't had their fun, so live on keeping wondering what it would be like... they get charmed easily, you should know
/r/askTRP29/05/21 04:40 AM
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I've cheated. She found out, I lost her. Cheated on her with a 7, she's a 10. Was it worth it? No. Not messing up is better than having to fix stuff. Prevent messing up.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 04:38 AM
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are you Peter Doppler by any chance?
/r/askTRP29/05/21 04:24 AM
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I needed all the advices in this post. I checked on her, and that was it. I didn't try to turn it into a conversation. My job is done
/r/askTRP23/05/21 10:37 PM
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rent a dog, walk it and cold approach. you're a bit more interesting now
/r/askTRP23/05/21 09:14 PM
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good! I would've done so, but just not this time as she's sick. still, not going to say anything and wait for the next time she reaches out
/r/askTRP23/05/21 08:57 PM
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in a regular situation I wouldn't even overthink this, I'd just say "take care, hope you get well soon". unfortunately we've been involved in some drama, so I'm being careful. I explained the whole situation in another comment if you'd like to see it
/r/askTRP23/05/21 08:22 PM
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is there a possible reality where this guys ignores being an orbiter and manages to have alpha fucks with this girl again?
/r/askTRP23/05/21 08:06 PM
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that's insightful. We were going out until I had sex with a friend of her, and everyone knows that (small town). That disgusted her and hurt my frame (she's a 10, her friend is a 7). After a week I apologized, told her I'm single and I do what I want, but sleeping with her friend was wrong and I would've resisted her friend's advances if I weren't so drunk. She accepted the apology, but said she doesn't intend to continue going out with me. Fine. My thoughts were "ok, if she's not mad at me anym…
/r/askTRP23/05/21 07:49 PM
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thanks
/r/askTRP23/05/21 07:17 PM
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could be
/r/askTRP23/05/21 05:40 PM
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wow, yeah, I kinda segregate... I just don't seem to get along with women who hasn't got a bit of humility, the conversation just doesn't go anywhere. actually, it might be that my pie misses a piece when they seem to be richer than me.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/21 01:31 PM
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yeah, it's definitely on me. I'm not meeting enough new interesting women. my country is still on quarantine, but it's no excuse. I must step up my day game
/r/askTRP15/05/21 03:10 PM
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nah, I get bored eventually.. it's like a natural cycle, new women appears and a FWB gets demoted to plate or leaves
/r/askTRP15/05/21 02:21 AM
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yes
/r/askTRP15/05/21 01:26 AM
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basically FWB resembles LTR but without commitment/demanding bullshit. you invite them to do stuff with you. plates are just women you're using for sex. I can't even stand to have a plate over my place for longer than 3 hours, I feel like they will kill me in my sleep or steal shit. repeat sex with a plate often and start caring a bit about her and she's been promoted to fwb
/r/askTRP15/05/21 12:32 AM
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good for my boners
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:57 PM
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btw don't follow this advice
/r/askTRP14/05/21 08:52 PM
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don't be ashamed of spanking your meat in front of her. once it gets to a semi erect state just push it inside her and it will go hard.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 08:52 PM
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yeah, funny how quickly they drop you to the toxic basket along with dudes who screamed and threatened at them
/r/askTRP13/05/21 07:13 PM
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today is cardio day, but well put
/r/askTRP13/05/21 04:24 PM
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you know what, it's awesome when you quite by accident stumble upon (at a bar or a party) that girl you had an "unresolved fling". It's a good tension and the sex is awesome. My tip is: stop needing closure from girls that leave your life, don't make them hate you. Instead, build up a lot of "unresolved flings" and you'll always have them hamstering about you when they see you around. no need to hurry.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/21 12:53 PM
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even though I'm 30 and still can't see myself getting married, I think I'll have to someday. I'm at the point I don't enjoy having sex "just because" anymore. It's not even fullfilling. I like having sex when I feel desired and when I have at least a little bit of chemistry with the girl. No, I wouldn't be ok being the old rich man with a fat pouch fucking a girl that wants a bit of my money. I need to feel I'm giving and receiving pleasure, not just pushing my balls in until I cum. Being at my …
/r/TheRedPill13/05/21 12:48 PM
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it happens more the other way around you do great initially, but then you whine she took too long to reply to your text, and she notices you're a beta crybaby
/r/askTRP30/04/21 04:47 AM
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jerk off when you're naturally horny don't watch porn nor jerk off while you're taking a shit just because you saw your dick then you're good to go
/r/askTRP30/04/21 04:45 AM
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are you just going to live your life holding back? fucking break up. and if you were wrong, fuck it. everything goes
/r/askTRP30/04/21 04:44 AM
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do real alphas get cheated on though?
/r/askTRP30/04/21 04:43 AM
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sure, you can recover, but you have few shots. I know you'll do right. but yeah, when you break frame more than 3 times the girl starts feeling disgusted and there's nothing that can be done
/r/askTRP29/04/21 01:24 AM
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dude, women grow up faster than we do. I'm 30 and I'm finally on my peak of dating 22 year olds. they can handle GENERAL conversations really well post sex
/r/askTRP29/04/21 01:02 AM
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Dude, we've been there. Of course there are some dudes around here that HATE women because they're losers, but they are not redpilled. They wish women were easier, but we don't: we play along. But as I said, we've been there. There's no unicorn. One broken frame and you'll find yourself coming back here trying to learn how to recover, which is hard. So stay around and ensure you maintain frame.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 12:51 AM
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Second option. OP is being a good guy. Good guys are that way because they want something, they have second intentions. And OP's are "I'm afraid of having a bad reputation".
/r/askTRP20/04/21 02:59 PM
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This conversation occurred about 10 times in some form. Here's your way out. Say "yeah, about that.. I agree with you, unfortunately I'm not able to meet your expectations so obviously this won't work out. We must split our ways."
/r/askTRP20/04/21 02:57 PM
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yea I sure need your validation I've changed my mind though, I'm not doing it
/r/askTRP04/04/21 04:05 AM
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asking this question sounds like a motherfucking thing to do. if I'd do her, nobody could know. but as some dudes stated around here, she'll want him to know and she'll achieve it so im out
/r/askTRP04/04/21 03:35 AM
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I don't think he ever had a gf before, he met her on tinder and they were together 5 years
/r/askTRP04/04/21 03:27 AM
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don't worry I'm not doing it. and that's a nice way of summarizing the situation, thx.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 01:50 AM
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he's not that close to me. but yeah, I know she's not interested in me, she just wants to fuck. I'm also not interested in her
/r/askTRP04/04/21 01:35 AM
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I'm pretty sure that's the case
/r/askTRP04/04/21 01:34 AM
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thank you, I'm not doing it them
/r/askTRP04/04/21 01:14 AM
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pretty sure it is. I'm not really interested in her, but it just occurred that she's bissexual and she could bring a friend over. she agreed with that. I wouldn't do her alone, but man it is two girls. the threesome I wanted
/r/askTRP04/04/21 12:59 AM
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what if I get to have a threesome? does it make ita bit less ok?
/r/askTRP04/04/21 12:57 AM
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I told she can come if she brings a friend along.. she said ok
/r/askTRP04/04/21 12:56 AM
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do them though? how many times you've seen a woman kill a man after being dumped? and how many times have you seen the opposite? they have way more abundance than any man
/r/askTRP02/04/21 07:51 PM
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maybe download tiktok, you'll see even more assn thus rendering you unsurprided (jk)
/r/askTRP01/04/21 02:29 AM
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trust me I'm not some incel, I know what "trying too hard is", it's everywhere in this sub.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 02:16 AM
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I agree with you, I'm just human. But I'm also aware I'm not this insecure in my usual day. This insecurity must remain locked inside. People depend on me (talking about family). I mean, we've all been there before, haven't we? And we've read this hundreds of times in here as well. It's all set in stone: the moment you show weakness you're done. When dudes try to recover from broken frame they end up showing even more weaknesses, that's why it sounds disgusting. "So this is you?", women probably…
/r/askTRP01/04/21 02:11 AM
1

thinking about it, "I admire you" sounds like something a fan would say to a celebrity, and this is putting her on a pedestal. I'm going with what the other guy said, I should be specific about what I actually admire about her. it also makes it sound more genuine, just saying "I admire you" could be about anything, sounds like bullshit. and yeah your insight about "contrast" is perfect. I keep these compliments in the tank, I don't throw them away frequently. thank you
/r/askTRP01/04/21 02:03 AM
1

thank you, it makes sense.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 01:55 AM
1

didn't I made it clear that I'm going through a bad phase? it's very easy to just be myself and do wtf I want when my confidence is at its finest. why didn't I ever felt the urge to tell her this before? Isn't it because I'm comparing myself to her as I went downhill quickly? edit: I by this I don't mean to underestimate her, I just never compare myself to ANYONE except yesterday me.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 01:51 AM
2

Thank you for this. Yeah, I knew all this before, but it didn't prevent me from fucking up. I'll save this so I can read it every once in a while. I was about to LTR my first 10/10. She was so fucking into me. That was really crazy being called hot and handsome by a girl that looks way better than me, but still I didn't compliment back except when she really deserved it. I had her in my hand... until I had a bad day and ended up asking her why she was taking too long to reply. What the actual fu…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/21 01:35 PM
14

fuck you for making me read this
/r/askTRP28/03/21 02:05 PM
1

cool. I'll just leave her on read and wait til she wants to talk then
/r/askTRP28/03/21 12:46 PM
2

my country is all closed due to covid, so I envy you lol. about your anxiety: people are all the same shit, nobody's better or worse than you. Neymar once held my dog for 10 minutes while I rushed to a bathroom for an emergency shit at an airport in Brazil. am I worthy of 10 minutes of Neymar's life? hell yeah I am, thus I can approach anybody (so can you). for instance, focus on keeping the conversation going so you build a connection. ask questions pertinent to the current subject (don't ask p…
/r/askTRP28/03/21 05:35 AM
2

maybe you sound like you're too afraid to push it, you need to be a tad more agressive. if you act too friendly, it seems like you only wanna be friends. you wanna slay their pussies, right? so you must have this fire in your eyes when taking to them. your body language should scream "come to me" as the conversation goes. I bet you could've made out with 30% of this girls you mentioned if you at least tried to escalate, the others would reject you but at least you wouldn't waste your time.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 05:12 AM
3

do it only when you mean it. if you try too hard you'll just be a jerk offending her
/r/askTRP28/03/21 05:05 AM
8

you must have made it look like you were trying too hard
/r/askTRP27/03/21 11:41 PM
6

I'll have it with black and white Jason Statham in the background
/r/TheRedPill03/03/21 06:02 AM
2

I mean, you can still fuck her and make her orgasm while you don't... No nuting is about not ejaculing, and not about avoiding sex at all. But nothing wrong with your excuse. Sex is a two way thing, if one doesn't want, two won't engage.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 12:44 PM
1

I do, just not right away because I've got other shit to do. Or maybe me taking long to answer subconsciously means that I don't like her (as she sees it). Perhaps it's my time to agree with her. I don't like her anymore.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 01:14 AM
1

Not anymore, being away from her cooled things down. She has the wrong expectations if she thinks attention means replying to texts quickly. I don't want to be with someone like this.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 01:12 AM
1

Not about simping, but being a man? Of course I don't mean to take it soft and change my mind for whatever she says, I just gotta be straight and finish this
/r/askTRP12/11/20 01:09 AM
1

Yeah, I guess that's about it
/r/askTRP12/11/20 01:08 AM
4

That's boy-ish I guess. She's not just some girl I've slept with a couple of times, we have respect for each other. Thanks anyway
/r/askTRP12/11/20 01:07 AM
2

It just needs to be "officialized". I mean, we're adults. It just a matter of saying some final words.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 11:09 PM
1

Believe your potential. You can be the winner in this situation. Don't do anything out of revenge, do it for you. Someday you'll look back and be thankful that it happened.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 03:57 AM
3

I can tell you his life revolves about trying to make her happy. Big fall will come when she leaves him, if she ever does.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 03:04 AM
4

Personal experience: Ejaculate too much: lazyness, no will to do stuff 3 days without ejaculating: stress, unable to focus. Then instant clarity post nut.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 08:50 PM
1

I don't masturbate often, but I do have sex everyday (not during quarantine though), is the bad thing masturbating or ejaculating? lol
/r/askTRP21/05/20 06:30 PM
1

Sure, fuck her fat friend and ruin your chances with her. Once you go for the worst, you've set yourself to her level (in the eyes of her friends)
/r/askTRP19/05/20 05:25 AM
1

What do you mean about using the dermaroller but not for the scars? I have one, I used it on my hair.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 12:37 PM
1

yeah, the book talks about being genuienely interested, and how rewarding that is. You learn stuff, you get friends
/r/askTRP12/04/20 12:24 PM
1

Just to add, smile as you greet other people. This is so powerful. I feel stupid for not doing it before.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 08:53 AM
2

It was a costume party and as I'm the "funny one" of the group my costume was somewhat girly. Maybe that's why the dude thought he had a chance with my gf? Picture me slamming a guy off wearing an elephant headband, how cute. Seriously though, besides everyone finding my costume funny, I'm never wearing a costume ever again that hides my masculinity.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 12:15 PM
2

Thanks, I understand it now. As I mentioned, it's not about insecurity because I didn't do anything when she fended off other dudes, but I felt disrespected by this particular guy who felt he was smart enough to try to hit on her when I was away KNOWING that I was with her. Unfortunately, as you said, I made the worst choice possible and exposed myself. I'll learn from it.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 11:39 AM
4

Thanks, I'll follow your tip. Man, breaking frame fucking sucks.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 10:45 AM
4

How do I comeback after that?
/r/askTRP25/02/20 08:52 AM
7

You're right, thanks.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 08:46 AM
1

If you guys think it's worthy, I'll cross-post on the main sub. Upvote (or not) and let me know. Thank you!
/r/askTRP12/02/20 02:15 AM
1

I'm doing my best now to build it! You're right, I'll eventually get over it. Thank you.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 11:44 PM
1

You know, your coworkers probably have recovered from worse fuckups. They know you're young and stupid. Just avoid fucking up and eventually all will be forgotten. Just so you know, hipotetically someday you may fuck up so much that you'll feel the relationship with you boss is "broken" and can't be glued back, that's when you quit.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 07:29 PM
2

My confidence comes from the fact that I'm not afraid of losing her
/r/askTRP25/12/19 03:59 AM
1

Dude I already have genital herpes, I got it when I was a teenager. But the symptoms only happened once, thankfully. Doctor said it's usual, and I have no chance of passing it ahead because no lesions ever happen.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 01:48 AM
1

I wish lol anything better than being single?
/r/askTRP24/12/19 10:49 PM
2

Looking forward to! Thanks
/r/askTRP24/12/19 10:27 PM
0

The teenager incels have taken over
/r/askTRP24/12/19 10:27 PM
1

You're so frustrated, dude. It was me grinding on other girls and fingering them in the dance floor a couple of months ago. Why the fuck should I be afraid of losing a gf?
/r/askTRP24/12/19 10:27 PM
1

Why not? I was single a couple of months ago, I miss it lol
/r/askTRP24/12/19 10:26 PM
-3

Please, take into account English is not my first language, thus I didn't mean she "LETS me".
/r/askTRP24/12/19 08:40 PM
-5

No, she doesn't. Yes, I would mind. I'm not into cuckholdery stuff as you.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 08:37 PM
1

I don't understand this.. I mean, we know dudes are more trustworthy and shit, but there's this girl I keep as a friend (she likes me, but I don't give her any chance) as she invites me to the craziest parties, thus introducing me to a bunch of new people. Also, I always chat the same hotties everyday at the gym, is this "friendship"? Lol. I'm not interested in them right now, as I'm on a LTR, but I find that talking to attractive girls keeps my abundance mentality alive. Any tips for me or is i…
/r/askTRP12/12/19 11:27 AM
3

You must be into dudes, we get it
/r/askTRP12/12/19 11:20 AM
1

Thank you
/r/askTRP10/12/19 12:46 AM
2

That sums it up. I even posted this on the wrong sub.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 04:51 AM
1

hey, how do I break the habit of getting in my head? I'm always talking to myself in my head, even when I'm in a conversation with someone else. This really sucks because I tend to do things slowly than I could (because I'm multitasking talking to myself) and I'll often miss details in a conversation. I want to get rid of this addiction so bad, the addiction of being in my head. Any tips? Thank you.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 12:28 PM
1

How'd you find out? Be thankful that you're single again, ready to smash some pussy! I'm assuming you did your homework and kept your lifting in check.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 04:27 AM
3

Anachronical
/r/askTRP01/10/19 04:53 AM
13

I know, right?
/r/askTRP28/09/19 07:43 AM
2

Good luck, mate. Hope your job doesn't rely on sucking your youth, though. I'm an engineer and I'm really happy with my career, "being rich just because" is none of my goals. What I mean is that these dudes get paid too well, too early. They're most stupid, and I know some of them. I don't blame them though, doesn't require you much intelligence to kick a ball. Watching their interviews is a pain in the brain, they can barely form phrases.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 11:57 AM
-5

Bad reason. He'd rape her because she wouldn't fuck him, duh. Dont underestimate how dumb football players are, specially when drunk. I dont think he did, though, but what you said makes no sense.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 05:44 AM
17

Football players are stupid, most quit school. You can give a man all the money, but you can't take away his dumbness.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 05:41 AM
2

Man, I myself am considering LTRing a girl I'm fucking just so I can focus more on my career, how did that go for you? The advantage for me is that I'll get access to a whole bunch of new friends (she's way popular), whilst I'll make more time for my self growth once I'll quit thinking about new pussy too much. I know myself and my career should be my priority all along, but it gets hard sometimes when the anxiety of not spinning enough plates hits. Consider it as a one year "monk mode" with a h…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/19 07:59 AM
1

Care to explain
/r/askTRP08/08/19 07:37 AM
-4

I have good friends that I can count on, but I lack foolish/party friends. I dont care anymore, Im LTRing this popular girl tomorrow just so I can have access for more friends for a while, then I'll dump her. Say what you want, fuck ethics, fuck morale, this will be a great move for me. Also, quitting spinning plates for a while will help me focus on my career and personal evolution.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 03:17 AM
1

Thanks for your input. I had an anger phase outbreak a while ago, I literally couldn't sleep for 3 days, but then I got the lesson out of it and I suddendly felt "lightweight", I was free and could see clearly. Things really have turned around for me, I'm thankful that shit happened. Psychopathic sadist I am.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 03:53 AM
0

Getting in a relationship involves exposing that you're together with her (yeah, social media era). But that seems too far, doesn't it? I mean, it will probably make you lose all other plates once you show her around. Nice tip, thanks, though I want to hear about something more "subtle".
/r/askTRP30/07/19 03:40 AM
10

It's really tough... I guess I'm in like 7 social circles, but I don't belong in any of them because the people inside know each other for a long time. It's like I have to try so hard to keep in touch with that they're planning, just so I can happen to hang out with someone when the weekend arrives. Also yeah, probably there's something wrong with my social skills. Always too cool for the nerdy ones, but too nerdy for the cool people. My friend, who is way below me in everything apart from socia…
/r/askTRP27/07/19 01:19 AM
1

Yeah, I gotta improve myself. But everytime I see my fwb after a weekend that she has partied, I feel like I'm The idiot who cuddles with her while some random dudes gets Just sex. Dont get me wrong, I have my plates. I only fuck them, and then tell them they have to leave because I have to wake UP early (even IF I Dont). But i got oneitis with this fwb, so it hurts me anyway. Still trying to internalize RP
/r/askTRP26/07/19 05:04 AM
1

Please give me an example. My anger issue is: My fwbs have SO Many more options than me.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 04:32 AM
1

How
/r/askTRP25/07/19 09:18 PM
10

The general consensus in bald fixing right now: finasteride 1mg everyday adding 10 drops of peppermint and spearmint oil in your minoxidil bottle, and of course applying it before sleeping and by the morning dermarolling your head for better absorption, not sure how often
/r/TheRedPill22/07/19 09:28 PM
1

She'll be working from 8 to 17h. So I intend on going out to get to know the city, have fun, meet girls, and to not go back to the hotel until like 19h (she'll have to wait for me for at least 1h30). In the meantime I'll take pictures with girls and tag them on Instagram. Who knows.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 03:27 PM
-1

I only introduced her to my friends once she became fwb. You know, it may seem a stupid boundary, but it's my boundary. As I have introduced her to my friends, I don't want said friends to see her with someone else. Get it?
/r/askTRP22/07/19 06:09 AM
0

It's her group of friends (mixed), but she invited a friend of mine to join them. Yes, this friend of mine is obviously her friend as well, but she knew her through me. When I told her not to go out with my friends, I meant our friends in common that were friends with me beforehand. Get it?
/r/askTRP22/07/19 06:00 AM
1

I don't know, maybe I should. But I still think that my way to win this is plate her and dgaf.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 01:12 AM
-2

It was a female friend. The point is that I don't want her hanging with other dudes in front of my friends, because it's ugly for me?
/r/askTRP22/07/19 12:49 AM
2

Yeah, you know a few months ago I "broke up" with her, blocked her and I INSTANTLY felt free. I didn't even bother. Later that day she texted me on another social media and apologized, we were back. I'm pretty sure that once we tell each other it's over, I'll move on pretty easily. But the doubt is what kills me. And yeah, some people have eternal oneitis. I had a date with a girl (close friend to our friends, so I know she was at some point engaged to a dude who ended up cheating and dumping he…
/r/askTRP17/07/19 03:23 AM
1

Yeah, the oneitis I have right now is with a girl I'm currently fucking (fwb). I go out, meet other girls, get laid, I'm doing fine, but if she ignores me for a day I go totally unproductive (job wise, etc). Sucks that she kinda guards my dopamine right now. Also I'm so AFRAID of bumping into her with other dude at a social situation (but so is she). I'm still learning abundance. Funny fact: a while ago, I had oneitis with another girl, and I used to treat this fwb like a red pilled would (becau…
/r/askTRP17/07/19 12:16 AM
2

45 pounds in and you're kinda lean still, pretty nice
/r/askTRP16/07/19 10:50 AM
1

good trait
/r/askTRP16/07/19 10:49 AM
5

I'm still far away from the best I can be, but anyway I go out and get laid often. Staying put/"monk mode" with the excuse that you're not "in good shape" yet is bad
/r/TheRedPill16/07/19 10:47 AM
1

I won't watch it, but keeping a conversation for so long must mean you're good at it. Lately I only extend conversations if I get the vibe that the girl wants me as I approach. If my first lines don't bring something good out of her, I walk away. Maybe I should give a fuck a bit more. And yeah, frequently we see dudes trying hard for a long time after an "unsuccessful" approach and sometimes they get to kiss the girl. I lack this kind of patience.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/19 10:33 AM
0

Yeah, I'm not in the mood right now, but any other time I'd report this video.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/19 10:29 AM
11

she's below his level? pretty much anything'd work. Most men probably act red pilled when dealing with girls below his level. to this day I think TRP advices towards women is about raising your SMV so you get to treat hotties naturally like you'd treat the ok ones, or to learn how to fake it (once you understand the concepts) so you don't act autistic close to a 10
/r/TheRedPill16/07/19 10:23 AM
28

sounds like procrastinating, you'll never be ready
/r/TheRedPill16/07/19 10:15 AM
2

Cool, I'm on the same boat on the hair thing, still not getting treatment out of laziness. There's nothing wrong with your teeth, please don't be concerned/ashamed about that. It's just you're trying too hard and looking like a rapist lol. I don't think smiles should be given out easily in social situations, I find it makes you look needy (that's a personal opining, though, not a red pill thing). Smile like you did in the pictures and watch girls get frightened. How's your voice? Ps: please don'…
/r/askTRP16/07/19 08:31 AM
2

Was having a beer with my friends this weekend, when one of them started talking about his ex and how he was in anger when he saw her kiss another dude at the party we were (he was drunk and wanted to pick a fight lol stupid). In the end, the consensus was that everyone has "that girl" on mind (oneitis as we know), that even if you have a great night and score pussy, you'll be sad if you see her with another dude. Sucks to say that hits close to home (I'm dealing with oneitis with a fwb).
/r/askTRP16/07/19 08:22 AM
1

You look goofy, maybe it's better for you to try a more serious vibe. Sorry to say that, but you can't smile. ​ Shave the beard on your neck, something about your hairstyle not going well too, may be because you're kinda balding, I guess you should try something shorter. Good luck. ​ edit: dude, also stop frowning. this shit will leave you marks lol you're getting me in the nerves
/r/askTRP16/07/19 08:09 AM
1

Yes, grinding up. Don't worry, I cook them for a bunch of time, but thanks anyway.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/19 04:41 PM
1

Man, maybe you need more experience. When you've had abundance, you don't care anymore. ​ I felt this way with my first GF, and I had to end the relationship cause I would NEVER get over it. We could be in a very good mood, but everytime I remembered she had been with a friend of mine, I'd get angry. ​ But it will go away as you age.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 09:31 AM
1

The incels commenting on the video show how big of a issue this is for some. ​ In my experience: girls who had a "past" have been much more trustworthy for me. They can't be teased, they have experience.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 09:29 AM
1

how does being narcissistic makes jealousy hurt you deeply? I feel it might be my issue too
/r/askTRP13/07/19 09:14 AM
3

Spent my whole college years eating chicken breasts grilled on a foreman grill. Tastes like shit. Lately I've been processing the chicken breasts and just cooking them like ground beef. Easier to eat.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/19 07:34 AM
4

As he insisted a lot, at that point it seemed the only thing to do. Had he insisted once again I'd probably punch him lol
/r/askTRP04/07/19 02:03 AM
3

Today I was thinking too much about my oneitis, so I bought a new car. BAM. It's gone.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 10:10 PM
1

What's the question? Invite her for a beer
/r/askTRP28/06/19 10:09 PM
3

That I'm sure, my friend. If I skipped this, I'd probably feel much more miserable in the future.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 08:03 PM
1

What to say afterwards though? It's the kind of thing that wouldn't bug a plate too much, but can "hurt" someone you've been going out for a while because there's some "trust" involved. Not that I should care.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 11:12 AM
2

That's actually true for me when with new plates... It's funny how they don't give a shit and just fall asleep at a stranger house, yet I am the one who can't stay comfortable on my own bed. Lol idk if it's a self preservation move, but I just CAN'T sleep. NOT with this fwb tho, we sleep naked and it's great how her ass warms my dick. Nevertheless it's worth just leaving for the sake of not looking clingy.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 11:06 AM
1

I do tease former plates eventually, just because. It's funny that the slightest spark from my side has them immediately initiating into dirty talk. I don't encourage them though because I feel bad for the boyfriends lol
/r/askTRP09/06/19 04:13 AM
1

I don't fall in love. I feel more like a possessiveness feeling, can't help it if I have doubts on my mind, but once I let go it's gone.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 02:35 AM
1

He's hunting for unicorns, but I won't tell him the truth if you find that better
/r/askTRP28/02/19 11:08 AM
-5

Seriously though, sounds like frustration from someone who didn't fuck enough girls (and the only one to blame is yourself). If you had your fun, why the fuck care about her past?
/r/askTRP27/02/19 12:12 PM
9

Here's how I solved the issue: told her that I don't need her for sex, because I could as well just ring my neighbour's doorbell blocked her She called me crying after an hour or so
/r/askTRP15/02/19 01:18 AM
27

Lol I had all planned with my LTR to have a dinner out and then spend the night at a love hotel. Last night she said, "oh, I just noticed I'm going to have my period tomorrow. I want to see you, of course, but maybe we should leave the love hotel to another day?" I said yeah. Now she doesn't want to talk to me anymore cause I "only want her for sex" LOL. That's obviously a low trap, a stupid shit test. Also, OF COURSE she already knew she was going to have her period on Valentines day, she just …
/r/askTRP14/02/19 05:49 PM
3

I don't know if you are right or I just want to agree with you, because it's what I do. ​ 2 months ago, a few hours before my first date with a girl that has became a plate, I told her "I think you should bring a bikini" just to tease her, and we actually ended up watching the sunrise as we fucked at the beach. Tbh, I was tired as fuck, but I always feel that I must be AWESOME on the first date, so I did it (and enjoyed a lot, of course). ​ ​ Right now? Well, I give 0 attention to her. Whenever …
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 06:33 AM
3

lol Sampaoli is coaching a team in my city right now
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 06:26 AM
1

Don't spend days on end at her place watching Netflix. I have a hard time with this because my plates live away from me lol. I don't know what the fuck goes on, but I terribly suck at picking girls in my area. ​ ​ As for hanging out... I like to do things I enjoy and invite them to join. So, if I feel like skateboarding on a park I'll bring a girl with me. If I want to travel and surf on X beach, I'll bring a girl to spend the day. I don't know if that qualifies as "keeping it simple", but they …
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 06:21 AM
-2

Too far
/r/askTRP12/02/19 10:19 PM
4

Here's my summary: ​ - Do the first move and open the conversation, this shows confidence (cold approach) - If people talk to you, be outgoing and game them (both men and women) - BUT, don’t start convos just to fill silence, even if your intention is good women will interpret it differently - When you are withdrawn, have extremely confident body language. Don’t sleep on body language. It communicates more than words. ​
/r/askTRP12/02/19 04:40 AM
1

This makes me think about a chick I have sex every other week. She never says anything about the day we went to a love hotel and I made her orgasm multiple times, but she talks all the time about the day we had a backseat quickie at the mall.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 06:31 AM
4

Seriously convince me this is not bullshit.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 09:11 AM
6

I've always had a good game naturally whilst not needing to be disrespectful with women, and I thought TRP was a place for loser incels. That's until my oneitis fucked my head over and had me thinking about her A LOT, this killed my confidence cause she dropped me easily. I gave TRP a try and quickly learned that I was lacking the abundance that I've had in the past and was too mindful with rejection. Tbh, I'm slowly making progress, still got issues with the same oneitis (unfortunately I'm goin…
/r/askTRP05/02/19 09:10 AM
1

Tell me more about the machiavelian ways. Where can I find it? Ps: I've read The Prince
/r/askTRP30/01/19 11:27 AM
46

In fact the guy is a loser. I benefit from making fun of these dudes silently to the girl, and even saying things like "I'm gonna kiss you so this douche walks away" have worked for me before.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/19 04:01 PM
2

that'd be cool if we knew how to exactly interact with the different types. When there's plenty of orbiters around, I like to tease and leave. When I come back the girl is basically begging for my attention.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 09:15 PM
1

I actually have no trouble with those, after I bring her down (because so many idiots complimenting her of course raises her balloon). I do have trouble though with girls with serious expressions, at the vip area that look at you as you are some piece of shit. They are usually hot as fuck. Perhaps I need to lose my fear on them.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 07:46 PM
1

I have a quick one, please. I told this girl we could have lunch together this Sunday, she said "she'd love to, but she has to visit her parents" (they live a bit away). Now what?
/r/askTRP22/01/19 01:22 AM
8

Don't try too hard
/r/askTRP03/01/19 11:24 AM
6

You fucked up, yeah, but really softly. You know, every night I go out I see plenty of guys having blowouts where (after failing a cold approach, getting rejected and being told to walk away) they ARGUE with the girl trying to explain why they were not wrong... Arguing with a woman is dumb, they'll yell and make you seem stupid, so NEVER do that. Just walk away, that's what you did. Wouldn't even call it a blowout.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/19 08:16 AM
1

Abundance, my friend. Just "fucking another girl" as stated in another comment doesn't cure you. I had an fc with the cutest girl in the bar this saturday and it sure boosted my confidence, but here I'm thinking about why the one I most care about hasn't reached out for me to wish a merry Christmas and I'm overthinking whether I'm doing it or not. I have oneitis too, unfortunately, and I'm working my way out of it. unfollow her on every social media, don't fucking look at her pictures and don't …
/r/askTRP25/12/18 12:34 PM
-1

That's hard, funnily enough 20% of my followers are girls that I got kc or fc lol I don't understand how people are going to want to follow you :(
/r/askTRP25/12/18 12:26 PM
1

That was so stupid to delete your account, just mark to ignore your oneitis posts and stories. Done. Stories are great for opening conversations.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/18 03:04 PM
1

I really don't know mate. Gotta be careful.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 05:37 PM
1

Thanks, mate. It sucks but it's true, don't think it can be helped. I'll just be careful to not waste a Friday again on uncertain stuff, let's keep them at middle of the week. Friday is way too special.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 09:08 AM
3

She's a solid 6. Looked like a 7 when I met her, as I described in another comment. Thanks. I just don't feel like 'making numbers' with 6's anymore, 7 is gonna be my new ground.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 09:06 AM
8

Just to let you guys know, it was actually a good game. I met this girl last week at a friend's party, while I was with another girl that I just had met (so instant pre approval). At said time this girl looked really great, I don't know if I was drunk or shit, but I felt interest. So after the party I added her on Facebook, got her number, teased her, called her out, took her out, brought her home -> average sex. Indeed she's beautiful, but it's kinda frustrating cause I was expecting her to be …
/r/askTRP15/12/18 09:05 AM
-8

Found the kid. Yeah, Johnny Bravo, surely. My plates are hot college girls with high status, I must keep them amused from time to time in order not to lose their pussy. I do have a few plates who I just need to call and say "hey, I'm around, let's drink and bang", but I'm not talking about them. Those are irrelevant.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 05:36 PM
4

Wouldn't do heroin but wouldn't mind some coke.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 02:47 AM
10

Actually fapping does help me get away from emotional shit... You see, a few hours ago I felt the urge to message the oneitis I'm trying to kill, so I fapped and it instantly went away. My posture changed immediately and I went back to focusing on important stuff. Of course the natural remedy to oneitis is abundance, so jerking off was an escape because I haven't reached my goals. Apart from that I only jerk off every 3 days (after that I can't focus) or the day before the day I know I'm certain…
/r/askTRP06/12/18 12:25 AM
-2

I guess I didn't exclaim myself quite well.. This is something I do rarely
/r/TheRedPill01/12/18 08:52 PM
1

Answer "whatever" and show that you can't lead.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 10:28 AM
3

Most men are incells The nerdy ones will eventually find an ugly gf they'll stick to.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 02:48 PM
1

I failed because I bent (please read my response to the other comment). I'm considering whether I can still fix this or if I should just forget about it. Thank you.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 01:20 PM
0

first, we were together and I was in a bad mood, so I guess I was rude to her (also because we didn't have sex). We were then going to talk later on when I got back from work, but then she met her friend (the girl fucking hates me) and it seems like she made her mind otherwise and then she told me she wanted to be alone. This one was easy, cause she felt bad for making me drive home at night as she told me that by 9pm (just so you know, my house is way further away from my office than hers, and …
/r/askTRP26/10/18 01:15 PM
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