Disclosure: I have never dated a single mom and i do not have children. I don't hate kids they are entertaining but i like my peace. Its probably because at around 8 my first of many nephews was born and my sister had to stay with us. I couldn't stand the crying the diapers and how it set her life back by decades.

Now that i am older and have my life together it boils down to resources including time and money. Im spontaneous when I want to do something its get dressed and out the door or if its a bigger deal it becomes a question of picking a date right then and there making reservations etc. If the girl has a kid then you have to play this waiting game that drives me insane. Your hands are tied. Waiting on someone else for my happiness is something I will never do again since my divorce. Also on the subject of time you have to share the girls attention with her kid.

As for resources, dating is expensive. After a couple of dates the kid is going to need a doggy bag or start coming along. Then after the date its straight home no spontaneity. And just taking care Of a kid financially just doesn't sit well with me. It boils down to my happiness again. Why put myself through this if there are soo many single childless girls out there.

One last thing why settle? If its a pump and dump then it doesnt matter but if you want sometype if relationship it does We are mgtow but that doesn't make us monks. There are few things like showing up with a dime on your arm. Im 46, lift weights, watch what i eat, and at the prime of my career. When i do date they are attractive girls from 24 to 32. As long as men stay on their purpose we do not have to settle. Get out of the mindset of this is the best i can do or all the girls my age have kids.