Why Some Borderline, Narcissistic and Histrionic Mothers Sabotage their Children

TheJessee · 2015-06-23T08:22:54+00:00

It's getting worse, because of my experiences 2 years ago i had met a lot of mentally ill women (borderline, attachment disorders, anxiety, anger) Most of them were for obvious reasons unable to hold a stable relationship, find a man to have a kid with, quite a few of them just flat out told me they were just going to a sperm bank and get a kid if they don't find the right man when they hit age x I got so pissed at these people, they knew there would be no father around, that they had serious mental issues which would very likely be no good for the kid (projecting their issues on them is one of the things i noticed they'd probably do a lot) and yet their selfish self decided they'd want a kid, they told me they would go as far as to just let a guy fuck them or use someone's sperm if they couldn't go to a sperm bank (one of them even asked me to be her sperm donor because of my physique and intelligence, she thought it'd make a nice kid)

There's always so much praise for single mothers but just like you have fucked up fathers you have an equal if not larger amount of fucked up mothers, i've seen some shit over the year but these people who want a kid at all costs willing to raise it alone while they are mentally ill is just insane, and then they wonder why our youth is getting ruined when women can just decide to pop out babies even if they are clearly not fit to have any

Suravira · 2015-06-23T09:04:12+00:00

Read posting rules.

Also yeah, narcissist mums are horrible, and they're a self fulfilling prophecy because girls raised by a narcissist mum tend to become a a narcissist, or so in my experience.

Chrience · 2015-06-23T11:34:17+00:00

The most heinous thing about this is that if you were a child born to a mother like this and a beta father, it would be impossible for you to escape the mothers mental manipulation and all the adverse affects on your well being because there's simply no other frame of reference for you. How would a 5 year old kid understand the mother's shit tests without taking them as harsh insults or know that nutritionally, his mothers basically feeding him junk to make him weaker.

Women are good for having kids, too bad they aren't even good at raising them.

mikeshinobi · 2015-06-23T13:35:34+00:00

I slept in my mom's bed until I was 11 or 12. Since I was young I didn't even realize that it was unusual. I'm pretty sure it wasn't because I was being a brat and refusing to sleep in my own bed; my mom just never told me "now it's time to sleep in your own bed".

I can remember the night somewhat clearly when "the change" happened. I can't remember the exact circumstances, but I was at some kid's house and came to the realization that he sleeps in his bed in his room. So when I went home I announced that I wanted to sleep in my own bed now.

I remember it was a little scary and weird. I mean, I hadn't done it in the 11 or 12 years of my entire life so it was a new experience. The bed also felt kind of weird because it hadn't been unmade in years. And then to top it off, my mom barges into my room at some point and starts yelling at me - "you're doing this because of those kids aren't you?!", or something like that. I don't remember what exactly was said, but I know that she was basically trying to make me - a child - feel guilty because I dared to commit the egregious act of sleeping in my own bedroom.

My mom was so fucked up that I'm surprised I'm not a serial killer or something.

RedSovereign · 2015-06-23T13:25:11+00:00

Observe the new posting guidelines.

Title	Why Some Borderline, Narcissistic and Histrionic Mothers Sabotage their Children
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Date	June 23, 2015 7:41 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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