I'm not sure whether this has been already reported. Anyway, let's get to it.
What is stated may sound obvious.
For men in college and highschool, it's rather normal to have a group of just friends whose gender doesn't matter. For me, this group consists of just girls. It's me vs 3 and sometimes 4. Everyone, even men, will shit test you, remember this and replace "girl" with "guy" when necessary.
The" challenge", if you will, is considerably greater in a group. If one woman shit tests you once in 10 minutes, 3 girls will shit test you 3 times. That's about one shit test to pass each 3 minutes The way you respond to girl #1 actually impacts girl #2 and #3.
In my experience, women want to have each other's backs. So, when you respond to #1 girl's shit test by a Flip Pressure, other girls will have her back and you should expect what I'd like to call a "Counterattack". The cycle goes on and on for the endless shit tests. The easiest way is to Agree and Amplify, it minimizes the chance of a Counterattack.
I don't think I need to mention that every girl will talk about you the instance you leave, so maintaining your frame WITHIN the group is mandatory in such situations.
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