This post is directed at people who don't feel like they know enough/are good enough/have enough of x to accomplish their goals, including interactions with women.

A lot of guys get hung up with the ambiguity of interactions with women. Should I x, should I y, or should I z? Many of these guys don't want to face failure/rejection and branch out to their friends (ask TRP) or something compatible in order to avoid a perceived catastrophe. These guys don't see that they are missing the point, because they're trying to cater to their lord and savior: women. They're lacking the fundamental IDGAF attitude that is (arguably) essential to being successful with women, and they're demonstrating the exact opposite of outcome independence. The reason this attitude is detrimental is because not only with this philosophy of living off of the approval/acceptance of women slowly kill a man inside until he is nothing but an empty husk, but this sort of neediness is going to scare away any women who would have potentially been interested in him. It's also a product of his lack of independence and ability to get shit done on his own.

It's easy to depend on others to make decisions, but that's not what we're about here in TRP. A critical step into becoming a respectable man is being able to depend on and make choices for oneself. After that comes being able to live with the consequences of said decisions and not being a bitch about it if things didn't turn out as expected.

Next time you feel like asking for help (not the call 911 I'm dying kind of help) think of a solution on your own and give it a try. If it didn't work out self analyze and readjust as necessary until you succeed.