hi ladies. i have been so happy since joining FDS and realizing my self-worth, as well as starting pickme recovery and focusing on leveling up.

with that being said, i kicked my LVM, porn-sick, unemployed, loser ex boyfriend out of my apartment (he had been living with me) about a month ago. all of his stuff is gone now, except for the TV he owns which we mounted to the wall when he moved in. obviously i keep telling him he needs to come get it because i want to just block and delete him so i never have to hear from him again, but he’s using this as a way to keep in contact with me. he keeps telling me he can’t come do it by himself (because he’s a weak loser) and needs the friend who helped him put it up to help him get it down. he also refuses to give me “his” (my spare) set of keys back until he has the TV back. however, i feel incredibly unsafe knowing he still has keys to my apartment. he moved back in with his parents after i kicked him out and i asked his parents if they could just come do it and bring me the keys  but they said they “wanted to stay out of it”. i would do it myself but i just had surgery and am recovering. what should i do??? i don’t want him to access my apartment at all to do this when i’m gone as i’m afraid he could break or steal something if i’m not there. but i also don’t want to be there when they’re taking it down because i know he’s going to try to talk to me and antagonize me about my boundaries. so i’m lost.