Hi Ladies,

Thank you for this community!

I wanted to ask you for advice as how to come across as experienced, or less naive when dating. I rarely dated in my twenties due to a heck of trauma. I'm okay now thanks to a tonne of therapy.

Apart from the FDS handbook, is there anything I can do to help with my image of a woman that isn't naive. I know with the little dates Ive been on, I can tell when a man has little to no relationship experience. They're not necessarily nervous. If I had to pin point it, it would come down to an inability to create a mental or emotional connection. Perhaps they didn't care to? Even LVM and NVMs have attempted to fake some sort of connection.

Obviously I would never divulge lack of experience. I have enough going on, where in the absence of a HVM, I would not settle for a LVM or NVM. (I'm aware they play tricks to purport to be a HVM).

I would be so grateful for your advice ladies x