Hi lovelies, this sub has been so incredibly helpful to me since leaving my emotional abusive, NVM that I unfortunately have to “coparent” with.

Alas, I’ve been OLD for maybe 6 months or so and was making all the wrong decisions, and therefore getting my feelings hurt and not getting what I deserved. In the past few weeks I’ve really tightened the reins on my standards, what I actually want, and it’s been much different.

I have my first virtual date tomorrow with a man I’ve spoken to so far on the app only. What questions or topics should I specifically bring up? I’m worried without some guidance I’ll turn back to my pickme ways.

TIA! 👑

Edit- update in comments about the video chat