Hi all!

Currently going through a divorce. Before I even got married I was a major pick me, I let way too many things slide, I constantly hooked up with many men but I don’t want to do that anymore.

I’ve read the handbook and have been reading the sub on my main account but even though I know I shouldn’t start to do that again I have a strong urge to go out and have sex. I know it’s self destructive and I know it’s only going to harm me more, how do I stop this? Have any of you ever been in the same situation? How did you get better and stop allowing yourself to be used? Is there any way I can “train” myself to NOT to do this?