Okay so I'm very busy with recovering from being a pickmeisha I want to say that first

Here's my situation:

I thought I was talking to a HVM but I guess I had this blind spot for a little while because:

  1. He's into anime (Idk what that exactly means and says but from what I've read here and there its not good)
  2. He's into old computer system games
  3. He doesn't have a car (Because his work is close to him and everything is in his area)

Idk if these traits say exactly that he is not HVM...

We were talking and he said "He wanted to make a joke but that was something for later" with these emojis >🙈🙊< well, we all know he wanted to make a sexual "joke" and wanted me to ask 'What did you want to say?' I played along just for a conformation of my intuition (sometimes I test it because I'm working on that) and he answered: 'No thats something for later if we know each other better and/or have a relationship, if I make the joke now youre going to think I am a fuckboy'

But why do you say it then... If then I am going to think you are one?😅😆

So questions:

Is this a real LVM with manipulation tactics? What are some examples that LVM/NVM used as a "joke" to you? Plus, why are men even doing this?