LTR decision time looking for some input.

stonepimpletilists · 2015-10-27T10:10:30+00:00

What do you want to do?

gixxerthouguy · 2015-10-27T10:24:08+00:00

Take the job, get the career advancement. You are not married, have no kids (I assume, you make no mention of it). You will have more disposable time to better yourself, meet new women, more cash to spend on yourself, or save.....or whatever you want.

EDIT: It will also give you the opportunity to be more RP, as no-one will know you. win / win.

FearDearg2015 · 2015-10-27T10:26:23+00:00

TRP says this situation is pretty much as close to a unicorn as you are going to get

Maybe you need to check with your dealer, because what you are describing doesn't sound like any red pill I'm familiar with...

How about you give us a sense of where you are at with unplugging. Have you read "The Rational Male"?

strategos_autokrator · 2015-10-27T10:34:16+00:00

crippled by fear of intimacy

HB7

This is not a unicorn. In fact, it sounds like you have low standards, and oneitis.

Here is a rule of thumb: if you come here saying you found one, you missed the point of what a unicorn is. THEY DON'T EXIST. Unicorn is just a reminder that you are deceiving yourself, that you have oneitis, and because of that, aren't thinking clearly. More about that here.

A unicorn is an idealized fantasy girl. It's a girl who reflects your own weaknesses and beta desires.

This is nothing more than male hamstering & rationalization in an effort to designate whichever girl you are with as "special" for no other reason than the sheer coincidence that you are with her (in other words, it's a comforting mechanism).

I thought you had made a choice:

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3pxq4y/a_lesson_in_abundance_mentality/

Are you now nervous by it because of Fear of Missing Out? This fear and backpedaling is typical of low standards and oneitis.

If the answer is, I found a unicorn, should I keep it? My response is: you didn't find a unicorn, that is just beta mentality, so whatever choice you make will be beta.

We can't make this decision for you. The fact you think a forum can tell you suggests you are very insecure and weak, which coupled to your oneitis would lead me to suggest: go do what is best for you, and spin plates if you get the chance.

RedWagonChronicles · 2015-10-27T10:20:46+00:00

Stop thinking in terms of unicorns. They aren't a real thing. Put it to paper and decide what YOU WANT. Then execute.

It almost sounds like you have oneitis because virgin. Shake it off man.

Title	LTR decision time looking for some input.
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Date	October 27, 2015 9:44 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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