Repeated crossed boundary

SteelToeShitKicker · 2017-03-19T19:08:20+00:00

I told her I didn't want her being snapchat friends with any guy who would find her attractive.

Do you have any idea how insecure this sounds?

I have no problem with enforcing no-contact on fuck-buddies, exes, etc. But this is clearly over the line into complete insecurity.

Now my wife would never like a guy friends flexing picture, it's just not appropriate for a taken female to do. I think, in trying to enforce ridiculous boundaries, you end up being able to enforce none of them.

Edit: Didn't see snapchat friends. Sorry, if my wife used any messaging software known for deleting the conversations after, that would be a hard boundary crossed, I'd be drawing up papers for the divorce. I think you need to really think about what your boundaries are and where you are just being weak, choose what hill you want to die on and then don't give in.

mrpthrowa · 2017-03-19T20:14:20+00:00

Also do you have kids? frankly this behaviour is hard next worthy. A girl that does this will never ever respect you. Why? because she shat on you and you didn't leave. She may be a wonderful girl but subconsciously she'll never recover.

TaistoKarhu · 2017-03-19T21:30:49+00:00

Best friends at snapchat with ex fuck buddy? I'm not an expert but as far as I know getting that requires a shitload of contact. Fuck the flex pics shit this is the red flag. Theres a very good chance pictures of dicks are exchanged for pictures of pussies. She'll never admit it and be more careful in the future, and ofc theres a chance its just conversation (I cringe even as I write this "yeah right")

stonepimpletilists · 2017-03-19T23:33:02+00:00

You deleted your last one. Dont waste peopke time. Value leech

stonepimpletilists · 2017-03-19T19:26:01+00:00

Established? Not really

mrpthrowa · 2017-03-19T20:02:58+00:00

One day I decided Facebook wasn't worth my time and she wasn't careful with it, so I point blank ordered her to delete it or take the high road. Took her 2 weeks to hamster her way into believing she "wanted to do it herself in the first place because respectful ladies shouldn't be on facebook".

Social media is parasitic crap and is right inside her frame. No time for that shit.

All_Ads_Deceive · 2017-03-19T20:24:24+00:00

Shes constantly snap chatting an ex fb and liking flexing pics? This is way beyond attention seeking dude

Title	Repeated crossed boundary
Author	OverthinkerTRP
Upvotes	3
Comments	13
Date	March 19, 2017 6:46 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askMRP
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