To swing or not to swing

ChokingDownRP · 2019-01-14T02:44:58+00:00

If you were on the verge of divorce 3 weeks ago until your wife had a mushroom induced epiphany, you're still very much on the verge of divorce. Be the one driving that decision, not along for her wild psychedelic driven ride. Get it out of your mind that the purpose of you implementing red pill tactics is to save your marriage - the purpose is to fix yourself (you are obviously completely fucked at the moment). The stay plan is the same as the go plan - work on you, for you and take control of YOUR life...after you've done that, you can evaluate if she belongs in your life (adds value) or not.

If you want to fuck other women, whatever...but your main focus needs to be unfucking yourself.

It takes work, get to it.

BobbyPeru · 2019-01-14T02:09:13+00:00

You are all over the place on this post, and you’re asking all the wrong questions. So, your wife isn’t attracted to you, you’ve been her caretaker, and she had an emotional affair. Does she add sufficient value for you to stay with her? If not, the emotional affair is a perfect reason to exit before you make real money and get divorce raped.

suprathepeg · 2019-01-14T03:01:47+00:00

I'm graduating dental school in April

What sort of increase in income are you expecting? Enough to trigger her mushroom-induced epiphany?

RuleZeroDAD · 2019-01-14T06:11:41+00:00

Split before you make any appreciable money from Dentistry.

The longer you wait, the deeper the shafting.

If you're in the lifestyle, it's best to be a unicorn for some variety. Being a couple means everyone ends up hitting on your wife and you condone her fucking everyone, because you "trust her."

People who want to fuck a bunch of other people shouldn't put their money together and have the state tell them what to do when they INEVITABLY split.

I've never known a lifestyle couple to last more than 5 years when the dude wasn't bi-sexual. Unless you also like taking dick, swinging is an excuse for sanctioned female side cock.

Rhynolicious · 2019-01-14T02:25:36+00:00

The first question to ask is “What do you want?”

Married Red Pill is about saving the man, not the marriage. Once you swallow it, everything changes. It doesn’t matter if you go back to your beta ways, there will always be a part of view that views the world a lot different than what you did before.

suprathepeg · 2019-01-14T05:28:32+00:00

Considering the fucking shit show that is your marriage, the fact you’ve both been fucking other people and she openly sees you as a chuck. You need to start with the obvious.

Number one thing you gotta do is go see a lawyer. Figure out what splitting now looks like as well as in 1-2 years.

Number two is read all the side bar followed by The Rational Male. This will help you understand why she is doing what she’s doing and what she “really” wants at a base programming level.

Swinging is the last of your worries.

MrChad_Thundercock · 2019-01-14T02:23:14+00:00

“I just found the married red pill about 30 min ago“

Troll.

Kpwn88 · 2019-01-14T14:11:32+00:00

I just found the married red pill about 30 min ago

Then stop typing, start reading and lifting.

Title	To swing or not to swing
Author	Metamorphosis19
Upvotes	0
Comments	14
Date	January 14, 2019 12:00 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askMRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/afpnv8/to_swing_or_not_to_swing/
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