“Recovery is not about becoming a better man or getting rid of anything. Nice guys have been trying to do both since childhood. Recovery is about becoming more “you”. You don’t have to a become better you to be liked, be loved, get your needs met, or have a good life. You just have to be you. It is actually all the things that you have tried to become or tried to eliminate or hide about you that have gotten in your way all of these years”

From the preface of NMMNG