17f. Am i still date material?

CrazyHorseInvincible · 2018-02-02T09:06:01+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1g4531LEwgA

dr_warlock · 2018-01-02T01:23:44+00:00

Simple, lie about it based on your evaluation of the man's personality. Always err on the low side.

beta_no_mo · 2018-01-02T07:21:22+00:00

Martin_Alexander · 2018-01-02T02:21:53+00:00

First of all, you're 17. You're not done being dating material unless you decide you're done. Yes, your 'body count' is relatively higher than expected (especially considering you don't find sex that pleasurable?), but a guy who truly cares about YOU shouldn't be too concerned in finding out your personal number.

But, for what it's worth, I'd expect a good number of them to care (assuming you're expecting to date guys around your age). Don't be too surprised if their insecurities lead them to asking you to reveal more than you need to.

slacker87 · 2018-01-02T01:02:27+00:00

Yes your still dating material, no one worth caring about will mind. Get tested and put the past guys out of your mind. One bit of advice, don't bring it up on a first date, guys don't want to hear about past hookups when first getting to know you. If you feel like you absolutely have to tell them later in the relationship its best to ask first like: "did you want to know about any of my previous hookups?". 99 times out of 100 the answer will be a no anyway, because the past is the past and as I said before anyone worth being in a relationship with you should not mind.

MeatySmurfProlapse · 2018-01-02T16:27:08+00:00

Dont tell an 18 y/o guy about your past. Just don't. Only way I can imagine it working is if he's very sexually confident and has had his fair share of experience, which most guys aren't.

Looking at my 17-18 year old male peers, many might not be disgusted but they'd be intimidated or even too scared to go there with you.

Just smirk and say you're not too innocent

360_no_scope_upvote · 2018-01-03T00:24:23+00:00

Why y'all lying to this poor girl? 7 guys is a bunch for 17, and the more sex you have the less you'll care about staying true to one man in the dating game.

If you keep going on the way you're going with 35+ kills by 25 guys will notice. A high quality guy can call a hoe from a mile back.

With that being said, don't ever tell guys how many partners you have had. Men and women alike don't want to know.

Biggmike123 · 2018-01-07T16:12:54+00:00

Nope not at all. Dating is all about getting to know one another.

pr0_sc0p3z_pwn_n0obz · 2018-01-07T18:28:54+00:00

How do you manage have sex with 7 guys when you don't find sex that pleasurable? Lol was it all by coicedence?

Title	17f. Am i still date material?
Author	nihilistandbored
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Comments	31
Date	January 2, 2018 12:49 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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